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when my mother passed away
[ "Bob: A few weeks ago it was the anniversary of my mothers death and it never gets any easier.\nJen: That sucks, I love my mom so much I can't imagine her being dead...\nBob: I am sure you already do but just spoil her a lot and always let her know you care! I wish I had more time to do all of those things for her.\nJen: I will def do that, I need to be more grateful for while she is alive. Thank you for that\n" ]
sad
when my neighbor hit my car
[ "Bob: My neighbor was drunk the other night coming home, and hit my car!\nJen: Oh no, did you file a police report?\nBob: No I didnt, but I reached out to their insurance and hes going to be paying for it.\nJen: That is good, glad it will get taken care of\n" ]
angry
when my neighbor kept parking in my spot
[ "Bob: My neighbor keeps parking in my parking spot!\nJen: That sounds really annoying! You should confront him and request he stop.\nBob: I have asked him a few times, but he obviously doesnt care.\nJen: That would make me really angry. Call a tow truck to teach him a lesson.\n" ]
annoyed
when my neighbor wanted to buy my house
[ "Bob: My house has been on the market for 3 months, and our market is so BAD! I figured oh it'll take a year or no one will buy it - but I got an offer on it a few days ago!\nJen: That is a great. I hope it was a good offer\nBob: It was decent, better than none I suppose! It was actually an offer from my neighbor!\nJen: Oh that sounds convenient\n" ]
surprised
when my neighbors wouldnt stop their dog from barking and it bit me
[ "Bob: I told my neighbor multiple times to stop their dog from barking. They leave it outside the entire day and most of the night!\nJen: That is awful! I hate people who leave their dogs out all day. That's no life for a dog to live at all.\nBob: Seriously! Tell me about it.. im not mad at the dog im mad at them! poor thing. even in the rain!\nJen: That is terrible. I don't know why people like that bother getting a pet.\n" ]
angry
when my nieces play with my devices
[ "Bob: every time i leave my room and see that my nieces have been on my devices like my phone or lab top it gets a little upset, as they change all my settings and close all my tabs\nJen: wow, thats would be very annoying, like someone just rummaging around your room.\nBob: exactly i tell my brother , he says but they are just little girls ... like yeah there little but teach them not to touch things that are not theres\nJen: Yeah but kids dont care, Everything is theirs to them,\n" ]
angry
when my sister got to go on vacation with my mom and i couldnt go
[ "Bob: My sister got to go with my mom on vacation and i couldnt go.\nJen: That's no fair! Where you left out on purpose?\nBob: Im a little \"ah\" about it - i dont understand why they couldnt just wait for me to get a day off to go with them.\nJen: Yeah I would be upset about that too.\n" ]
jealous
when my son graduated school
[ "Bob: watching my son graduate was the best feeling ever\nJen: i bet! congrats\nBob: thank you.all his hard work and our time helping him payed off\nJen: that was awesome of you all\n" ]
proud
when my son lied to me
[ "Bob: My son lied to me and it really hurt as a parent we just always want the truth.\nJen: Oh I'm really sorry to hear that. Was it a big lie?\nBob: Yeah it was and I dont appreciate it at all. I just cant believe he would lie about something to me.\nJen: That's a pretty serious issue. You should punish him somehow.\n" ]
disappointed
when my son took his first steps the feeling was amazing
[ "Bob: I was ecstatic when my son took his first steps\nJen: That is a huge moment in a kid's life! I would be too, congratulations\nBob: Thank you! do you have kids?\nJen: I do not at the moment, but I plan to at least when I turn 35 years old\n" ]
proud
when my uncle died
[ "Bob: My uncle was a drunk but i still loved him, he died walking to by beer and the irony is he got hit by a drunk driver that always makes me feel sad thinking about it\nJen: I don't know if I should laugh or cry or both on the one lol\nBob: i usually cry thinking about it\nJen: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be rude. Hopefully his demise showed someone out there that drinking is bad and made them change their life.\n" ]
sentimental
when my wife and daughter went to peru without me.
[ "Bob: Its so hard being alone when you are used to having your family around.\nJen: very true.. do you live alone now?\nBob: No with my wife, and daughter but every year they go to Peru to visit her family for a few weeks and it sucks being by yourself!\nJen: i feel you.. but look on the bright side, it makes the moments being together far more special\n" ]
lonely
when my wife and son are not with me i cant stand it
[ "Bob: when i am out of town away from my wife and son its difficult\nJen: I understand that. I bet you miss them a lot.\nBob: i do, its tough because he is still a baby\nJen: Yeah it is rough at that age to be apart. At least you can Skype and keep in touch.\n" ]
lonely
when my wife got the job because she never gave up!
[ "Bob: I am so proud of my wife, she was very nervous today but still went to her interview.\nJen: Oh wow! That's great. Did she say how it went?\nBob: Yeah she actually ended up getting hired even tho she was about to pass out lol\nJen: Hired the same day though...she must have done really well, despite being nervous!\n" ]
impressed
when people at work get to walk around and do nothing
[ "Bob: it really annoys me at work that i work so hard , and then slackers get paid the same amount kinda makes me feel invious, like they just get to walk around and get payed for it\nJen: I totally know the feeling! Have you tried bringing this up to your supervisor?\nBob: yes i have many times, but they do nothing about it sometimes it just makes want to quit so they are stuck with all the bad workers\nJen: Ha, that would be some pretty good revenge. Maybe you should go ahead and find a new job where you will be appreciated.\n" ]
jealous
when someone does not stop talking
[ "Bob: i hate when someone does not take the hint to stop talking\nJen: With those kind of people you just have to be blunt. If that doesn't work then it's time to excuse yourself from the conversation.\nBob: i really do agree. that is usually my approcah\nJen: You are usually left with no other option.\n" ]
annoyed
when someone dosnt stop talking
[ "Bob: i hate when someone dosnt take the hint to stop talking\nJen: Yes that is incredibly annoying! I'm a quiet person by nature so that can drive me carzy quite fast!\nBob: i want to tell them to stop but dont\nJen: Yes I feel like yelling at them - But that's just something that I would never actually be able to do!\n" ]
annoyed
when someone tell me a lie and i found it,i was at the peak of furious
[ "Bob: hi, my friend,i have a request for you,please don't tell lie to me,if i found you were telling lie to me,it hurts me more and i am furious\nJen: Lies are never a good thing in a relationship. Have you had a friend who was lying to you?\nBob: you are right,In earlier days,when I found,he is telling lie,I break my friendship with him.\nJen: That is a good place to start, I mean a relationship not built on truth is very shaky and is liable to fall apart very quickly.\nBob: yes this is absolutely true and acceptable.\n" ]
furious
when someone treated me badly and talked down to me
[ "Bob: My boss talked down to me the other day, it made me so upset!\nJen: That's terrible and frustrating because you can't really do anything about it.\nBob: So true so true you cant... unless you quit lol\nJen: HAHA, best to find another job first. At least employment is looking pretty good these days.\nBob: I know so tempting tho when they treat you so badly to just drop the mic ( walk out! :p )\n" ]
furious
when someone tried to get me to go out to a bar behind my spouses back
[ "Bob: A friend tried to get me to go out to a bar and hang out behind my spouses back...\nJen: Did you tell your spouse? I really think they should know.\nBob: I havent yet, but I agree with you I should. I just dont want them to be upset with my friends.\nJen: Some would consider it cheating if you did not tell them.\nBob: I would too. Deff need to.\n" ]
faithful
when someone was pounding on my door hard
[ "Bob: The other day some guy was pounding so hard on my door for almost 5 minutes. I didnt even want to answer it was so sketchy!\nJen: Wow, haven't people heard of knocking once and waiting? That sounds worrisome.\nBob: Exactly, I would never pound on someones door. It was during the day, and I had a peephole and seen neighbors outside so I finally decided to answer it to see what he wanted but it had me scared.\nJen: Was he a salesman?\n" ]
afraid
when somone wont stop talking
[ "Bob: i hate when someone doesnt take the hint to stop rambling\nJen: Oh me too. Social cues seem to get lost so easily on people these days.\nBob: EXACTLY! thank you\nJen: My pleasure. It needs to be said.\n" ]
annoyed
when taking a test
[ "Bob: i hate taking test\nJen: Me too, it is to stressing\nBob: very stressful, i time to make sure that i am ready for the test the night before\nJen: Wow, looks like you are extemely organized, no offense\nBob: i try to be, i hate to fail a test because i didnt plan for it\n" ]
prepared
when the lightening hit near my house and we had a storm
[ "Bob: Just about an hour ago we had the worst thunderstorm ever. It was so scary!\nJen: seems to be the norm these days allover the country\nBob: Thats true especially in the south.\nJen: i get here nearly everday (orl)\n" ]
afraid
when we got engaged I was not expecting it. we went to a bed and breakfast
[ "Bob: My husband really did a number on me when he proposed to me - I was completely not expecting it!\nJen: That's crazy! I hope to propose one day. Congratulations!\nBob: We went to Disney - it was our first real vacation together. He proposed at Chef Mickey's with all my favorite Disney characters!!!!\nJen: That's great! Disney is a wonderful place to go. I actually live near The Magic Kingdom!\n" ]
surprised
when we had a huge storm the other day
[ "Bob: We had a huge storm the other day and it was extremely loud, very dark.\nJen: Storms can be quite scary! Is it over now?\nBob: Thankfully yes and you are right it was quite scary at the moment!\nJen: Hopefully, that's the last storm for a while.\n" ]
terrified
when we had a tornado touch down near our house
[ "Bob: We had a tornado touch down near our house, only about 1 mile away. It ended up being a deadly one too.\nJen: Any damage to where you live ?\nBob: a lot of damage all around, minor damage to my home but it was real bad\nJen: I hope you can get it all cleaned up without too much trouble.\n" ]
terrified
when we were struggling financially our church gave us some food and 50$.
[ "Bob: when we were struggling financially we told our pastor and our church gave us some food and money. i don't know what we would do without them and their help\nJen: That's great they were able to help you out. Are you doing better now?\nBob: yes! I just got a new job. our money is tight right now but at least we can pay the bills and buy food\nJen: I feel you. We were in a similar situation last year, but things have started looking up.\n" ]
grateful
when you go to a restaurant and they did not mess up your order
[ "Bob: every time i go to any fast food joint like mcdonalds they always get something wrong , but that one time they get everything right im actually happy .... and they want to get increased in pay lol\nJen: That's why they are being replaced by machines lol\nBob: i saw an episode of lockdown once where people would go through the drive threw to order there food, they did not know it but a call center in prison was taking there orders lol\nJen: I thought I had seen every episode of lock down. I haven't seen that lol\n" ]
joyful
wheni was 7years old i went to the pharmacy with my dad ,while we were in their I stole a baby-ruth candy bar. When we got to the car dad seen it and made me take it back in by myself and give it back to the pharmacist and tell him what I had done.
[ "Bob: Have you ever stole candy from the store when you were a kid?\nJen: Probably not, but I don't remember. I was always a scaredy cat as a baby. Have you?\nBob: yes once when I was seven when I whent to the pharmacy with my dad.And when he found out when we got back out to the car he made me go back into the store by myself and return it and tell the pharmacist what I had done!\nJen: What a lovely memory! That's hilarious that your dad made you go back and return it!\n" ]
guilty
where is the love
[ "Bob: this world is just cruel isn't it? i mean where is the love, do we really hate eachother that much?\nJen: i agree. everyone seems to be out for themself and do not care to help other or take others into consideration\nBob: it sucks so much\nJen: yeah its a tought thing to have to deal with\n" ]
sad
why can't i get what everyone is getting?
[ "Bob: why can't i get what everyone is getting\nJen: What are you looking to get?\nBob: a raise in salary\nJen: Have you asked you boss?\n" ]
jealous
why is it that bad things always happen to me!
[ "Bob: why is it everytime im up in life something brings me down\nJen: Unfortunately, it happens to all of us.\nBob: I just wish for once I could get ahead in life!\nJen: You will if you believe you can!\n" ]
angry
with all the crime that has increased in my area, i decided to get myself a new shotgun
[ "Bob: i got a new shotgun the other day due to the fact crime around me is increasing\nJen: That is good that you have something to protect yourself with\nBob: its sad that we have to resort to that nowadays, but better safe than sorry\nJen: i completly agree, specially with the crazy people there is these days\n" ]
prepared
with life in general right now
[ "Bob: I feel so at ease right now with life, finally after all the hecticness.\nJen: That's good you're getting a break! Life is much more rough as an adult than I thought it would be as a kid.\nBob: for sure they really dont prepare you enough for it.\nJen: No kidding! I'm glad things are good for you now - rest, relax, and enjoy!\n" ]
content
without the financial support of my mother i would be on the streets
[ "Bob: My mother has been there for me no mater what I need.\nJen: She sounds like a good person.\nBob: She was my best friend, i would do anything for her.\nJen: You also sound like a good person.\n" ]
grateful
without the help of my friends I would still be depressed.
[ "Bob: If my friends hadnt picked me up, id still be at rock bottom!\nJen: True friends can be tested at such situations. Good for you to have such friends. It is very rare to have such ones\nBob: I try my best to only associate with the best of people.\nJen: I have only 2-3 close friends with whom I closely associate. I think that is the ideal number one should have\n" ]
grateful
word are not enough to express how happy I am about my new car
[ "Bob: word are not enough to express how happy I am about my new car\nJen: That's great! What kind of car did you get?\nBob: GMC Denali\nJen: Wow, that is a sweet ride!\n" ]
excited
work is going good
[ "Bob: Im feeling pretty good today.\nJen: Oh really? Is there any specific reason why?\nBob: Its been a good day at work, it just put me in a good mood!\nJen: That's great! Do you have good days often?\n" ]
joyful
workign when we had to change job locations
[ "Bob: I work from home now, but the last few years, I worked at a daycare. It doesn't seem like much but my kids went for free and I loved everyone there! I should have quit so many times but I stayed\nJen: I can see why it was hard to quit! Do you like your job now?\nBob: I like it okay. I still miss it though. Even after Hurricane Harvey and my work building flooded, I drove an extra 40 minutes to get there. But I had a baby recently and it jsut makes sense to be at home now.\nJen: That sounds tough. It seems like you guys at the daycare went through a lot together.\nBob: we did and i miss the kiddos! My kids miss it too. But its for the best!\n" ]
faithful
years ago i was stuck in a cycle of addiction and could not take care of my family and responsibilities.
[ "Bob: a few years back i was addicted to drugs and alcohol... i could not take care of my responsibilities...\nJen: I'm glad you're feeling better. I'm sorry you went through that, I hear that addition is tough and often starts after having a major surgical operation.\nBob: it started when i was 14 i was hanging out with the wrong people and i got really bad before i realized i needed help. i went to rehab and changed my life around, i stay healthy these days i'm about a year sober\nJen: I'm glad you got the help you needed and ended up in an actually helpful rehab. It's always good when you have control of the things in your life. Just remember to stay strong when things get tough again and to lean on your support structure.\nBob: i will! a lot depends on the person in rehab and the attitude they have in there! thanks it was great talking to you!\n" ]
ashamed
yes i felt prepare
[ "Bob: yes i felt prepare\nJen: When did you feel prepared?\nBob: i feel prepare at yesterday\nJen: What were you prepared for?\nBob: i prepared for something\n" ]
prepared
yesterday I made the bed with new sheets and comforter. Last night I was pretty tired and decided to try out the new bed and watch my shows. Omg, those sheets were so comfortable I fell asleep in the middle of my show.
[ "Bob: Don't you just love buying brand new sheets?\nJen: I do love new sheets. The higher the thread count the bette,\nBob: Yeah me too. yesterday I made the bed with new sheets and comforter. Last night I was pretty tired and decided to try out the new bed and watch my shows. Omg, those sheets were so comfortable I fell asleep in the middle of my show\nJen: What thread count did you go with?\nBob: 1800\nJen: dang. Good job.\nBob: Thanks! lol\n" ]
content
yesterday after work i decided to walk to the store to get groceries and it started raining.it rained on me and i was very wet by the time i went got to the store
[ "Bob: yesterday after work i decided to walk to the store to get groceries and it started raining.it rained on me and i was very wet by the time i went got to the store \".\nJen: When you feel rain ... sometimes you feel its magic ... ask the children\nBob: i agree . but i think that will only work if i willingly go under the rain.\nJen: you're right ... then the umbrella always at hand\nBob: it was just unfortunate that i did not check the weather before going out\nJen: of everything, there is always something to learn\nBob: this is very true . for sure i will always check before stepping out\nJen: good luck with your learning\n" ]
embarrassed
yesterday at work some guy ran his work truck into our building
[ "Bob: yesterday at work some guy ran his work truck into our building\nJen: oh no, what a nightmare! Was anyone injured?\nBob: no thankfully it was just the cover out front but it destroted it\nJen: That's good then, as long as no one waa hurt! was he drunk?\n" ]
grateful
yesterday i ran into a friend and i was shocked because i couldn't find anything to say.
[ "Bob: yesterday i ran into an old friend and i was so surprised he changed a lot.\nJen: That must have been so nice for both of you. Had he changed for the better?\nBob: yes , he just isn't the same anymore, it felt like i'm talking to a completely different person.\nJen: People do change a lot when they grow up. I met an old school friend the other day, and they were awful now!\n" ]
surprised
yesterday i was all alone!
[ "Bob: yesterday i was all alone!\nJen: I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?\nBob: kids left for a couple of days\nJen: Did you enjoy it at least?\nBob: of course\nJen: How old are your kids?\n" ]
lonely