lighteval/empathetic_dialogues · Datasets at Hugging Face

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when i lost a close friend i felt bad	[ "Bob: i cried a lot but i had to let it go\nJen: wow, what happened?\nBob: i had lost a very close friend\nJen: I'm so sorry to hear about that\n" ]	sad
when i lost my money at the store.	[ "Bob: I dropped my wallet at the store and lost all of my money and id.\nJen: Oh no. That has happened to me before.\nBob: yeah it super sucks because now i have to get my id and social back and all of that!\nJen: That is a long tedious process too. You have to have one thing to get the other and they make you run around and get more things. ugh\n" ]	disappointed
when i lost my temper due to just having stress in my life.	[ "Bob: I lost my temper the other day and said things I shouldnt have said. I let the stress get the best of me.\nJen: Who did you say that to?\nBob: to my wife. ugh bad mistake.\nJen: Oh, better apologize quickly there!\nBob: Im on it like you wouldnt believe.. better go out and mortgage the house for a new diamond ring.\n" ]	ashamed
when i lost my temper with my dad	[ "Bob: I lost my temper with my father and said some rude things I shouldnt have said when I was younger.\nJen: Don't beat yourself up about it. I did the same with my mother all the time when I was in my early teens. We've all been there.\nBob: I know I try not to but once you get older you realize it wasnt the nicest or brightest thing!\nJen: Oh I agree, I still feel awful about it myself! But I think our parents understand and don't take it to heart, because they usually did the same thing too :)\n" ]	ashamed
when i lost my wallet at the store	[ "Bob: I am having a day let me tell you.. not in a good way either.\nJen: Oh no, please tell me what's going on! Can I help?\nBob: Not really but maybe just by listening to be complain! LOL - i lost my wallet and my keys in the store today\nJen: That's the worst, I'm sure it was an annoyance!\n" ]	annoyed
when i mistakenly hit someone into the gutter with a car that caused him to miss his interview	[ "Bob: One day i was in a haste to meet up with an appointment, i hit someone into the gutter, i made him miss his interview and i felt really guilty to meet up with my appointment\nJen: Oh no that's too bad, it wasn't your fault at least.\nBob: yes, i know, but i would have been more careful to look well\nJen: Yeah, just make sure that you aren't in too much of a rush like that.\nBob: yes, i will\n" ]	guilty
when i moved and took a chance in a new state with little money.	[ "Bob: I took a huge risk and moved from 1 state to another without a job. I really wanted change in my life.\nJen: Oh wow! That is a bold move! Which state did you move to/from?\nBob: I know for real, it took me 3 years just to do it but I had positive vibes. NY to FL! ( running from the cold! )\nJen: That is awesome. I have considered moving from Missouri down to either Lower Alabama or Florida.\nBob: Do it! Its so worth it. :)\n" ]	hopeful
when i moved into my apartment it was full of bugs!	[ "Bob: I was so excited to move to a new state, but when i moved into my apartment it was full of bugs! ugh\nJen: Oh no! Bugs really creep me out!\nBob: me too.. i really was freaking out.\nJen: what did the landlor do about it? Did you have to call an exterminator?\n" ]	angry
when i offered to work extra hours to make up for bills	[ "Bob: Recently I offered to start working extra long hours just to help support my family more.\nJen: That's really considerate of you. Do they need your help a lot?\nBob: Yeah we recently moved so we have gotten in quite debt while trying to sell the previous home! ugh\nJen: Wow. Home selling can be tough. I hope that debt clears up real soon!\n" ]	caring
when i ordered food and it was bad	[ "Bob: The other day I ordered chinese after craving it forever, and it ended up being gross! Ugh.\nJen: Oh, that is frustrating! I love Chinese food. What did you order?\nBob: Me too! I was pretty bummed about it though. I ordered the general tso meal, and krab rangoons.\nJen: Crab rangoon is one of my favorites. I would be bummed too. I think I know what I am having for dinner tonight.\n" ]	angry
when i see old people on road, i want to take care of them	[ "Bob: When i see old people on the road. I feel bad and i just feel i like i want to take care of them\nJen: I know exactly what you mean.\nBob: yeah, it's the people's nature. We can't help it\nJen: I'm glad that you care about others.\n" ]	caring
when i see vomit i almost want to vomit	[ "Bob: when i see vomit i almost want to vomit , and in my job there are no janitors so the males on duty need to clean up the mess , and kids vomit in there at least once a week\nJen: Oh gross, you should bail quick if you see a kid getting sick, so that you won't be around to help clean it up.\nBob: i would love to do that, but for some reason im always at the wrong place at the wrong time\nJen: I'm sorry, maybe a nose plug would come in handy\n" ]	disgusted
when i see young people asking for help on fb or donations instead of working	[ "Bob: it always makes me a little angry or a little down , when i see young people begging for money on facebook groups ... like dude get a job\nJen: Yeah, i feel some are just picky on what job they want to have\nBob: just get a job , does it even matter grow up and contribute\nJen: I agree with you\n" ]	sad
when i seen an old friend at the store	[ "Bob: I ran into an old high school friend while at the store. It was a shock!\nJen: Has it been a long time?\nBob: Yup about 15 years! I also live in a totally different state than the school we went to!\nJen: Oh whoa. That is pretty crazy. Hopefully yall can become friends again.\n" ]	surprised
when i seen my friends for the first time in 5 years	[ "Bob: I was so scared to attend my 5 year class reunion\nJen: Why is that?\nBob: i felt that I let my self go\nJen: Everyone feels that way when comparing themselves at those things. Except the pompous ones from school, those guys suck haha.\nBob: lol, right. once i got there i felt better.\n" ]	ashamed
when i spilled a drink all over my lap and it looked like a peed on myself.	[ "Bob: I spilled a drink all over my lap and had to go out in public like that, talk about wanting to hide in a cave.\nJen: Oh no!! I hope it wasn't coffee! Yes that is pretty embarrassing. People probably thought you peed your pants.\nBob: Thankfully no that would have been awful hot - but thats happened before! Yeah thats exactly how I felt honestly.\nJen: Oh, well hopefully you learned some kind of lesson from this and it won't happen again.\n" ]	embarrassed
when i spilled coffee all over myself in the parking lot	[ "Bob: I had just arrived to work, got out of my car and spilled coffee all over myself.\nJen: Oh no! That's a terrible way to start your day. Did you still go to work?\nBob: Yes I did but I looked like a mess! ugh\nJen: Well at least you managed to make it through the day. I probably would have just gone home.\n" ]	embarrassed
when i spilled my coffee	[ "Bob: I spilled coffee all over my new shorts the other day.\nJen: did you have some back up clothes ?\nBob: No and I had just got the shorts. :(\nJen: oh that stinks\n" ]	disappointed
when i spilled water all over myself at school and looked like i peed my pants	[ "Bob: I spilled water all over myself at school and it looked like a peed on myself! ugh\nJen: Oh geez! That would suck! I hope it wasn't a cold day? Could you drive home and get new clothes?\nBob: luckily no because im in florida but ugh i felt so dumb!\nJen: Oh I have numbness in my hands so I am always spilling things so don't feel too bad! I understand though. As you can see- I don't like having stuff on my clothes either lol\nBob: I know and hear I told you not to worry about what people think but here I am worrying! ohhh the struggle\n" ]	embarrassed
when i stepped in cat poop	[ "Bob: My neighbor lets her cats use the bathroom outside in our yard, and of course I stepped in some.\nJen: Have you talked to her about this ?\nBob: Yeah and she doesnt seem to care.\nJen: Then use her yard as a garbage can. That's what she does to yours.\n" ]	disgusted
when i stepped in dog poop outside barefoot	[ "Bob: So the other day I was walking barefoot right? Can you guess what happened next!?\nJen: Did you stub your toe?\nBob: I wish... i totally stepped right in a fresh pile of dog...\nJen: Oh no! That's even worse! Did you puke a little? I would've thrown up!\n" ]	disgusted
when i took care of my brother when he broke his leg	[ "Bob: My brother broke his leg a few months ago, and I took care of him to make sure he was okay.\nJen: I pray he gets well soon. I had a similar experience so I know how it feels\nBob: He is almost healed up, but it was nice to take care of him to spend more time together. We usually dont get along.\nJen: Great, congratulations\n" ]	caring
when i took care of my daughter after her shots	[ "Bob: My daughter had to get her vaccine shots recently, and i had to pamper her for days she was in such pain. :(\nJen: I'm so sorry about that. That must have really been horrible for her... and you\nBob: Yeah it is I cant wait for them to me over with it sucks going every other motnh\nJen: Wow that often. That must really be stressful.\nBob: It is, and yeah until they are over the age of you go go every other month crazy poor babies!!\n" ]	caring
when i took care of my mom when she was dying	[ "Bob: I had a memory pop up on my facebook the other day it was a photo of my hands, and my moms hand. I was taking care of her during her last days.\nJen: Oh my god! That is so sad! I am so sorry!\nBob: Yeah its okay it happens thats life! I enjoyed being able to know I was the one making sure she was okay as she went!\nJen: That is a good way of looking at things.\n" ]	caring
when i took care of my mom when she was sick	[ "Bob: My mom was very sick a few years ago, and I took care of her while she was bed ridden.\nJen: She's lucky to have such a great kid.\nBob: Thanks! I was happy to take care of her. Its the least we can do as children.\nJen: Exactly, we have to return the favor since they put up with us when we were little.\n" ]	caring
when i took care of my wife when she was stressed	[ "Bob: My wife has been so stressed out lately but I have been taking care of her.\nJen: What's it all about?\nBob: Everything, not able to find a job, we just moved, too much going on. ugh\nJen: Sounds like she just needs some time to settle in, and catch her breath.\n" ]	caring
when i took down some really heavy furniture off the way	[ "Bob: we have limited space on our store so all the heavy furniture is up in the walls , one day i took the heaviest one down i was so proud of myself\nJen: That's impressive!\nBob: the customer did not even buy it after all , lol and back up in the wall it went\nJen: That's still an impressive accomplishment! If they didn't buy it, that just means you get to take it down by yourself again!\n" ]	proud
when i took my daughter to get her shots, i made sure she had her doll.	[ "Bob: The other day my baby had to get some of her shots.\nJen: I hate shots for babies. Why do they have to get so many?!?!?!\nBob: I know it seems like every other month its another shot! I felt terrible for her.\nJen: You can tell they are mad at you too for letting it happen. I hate ir\n" ]	caring
when i was getting ready to move and take a drive across the usa	[ "Bob: I was so nervous and ready to start my move. It was such a long drive.\nJen: Did you get it done\nBob: Surprisingly yes, cant believe I did it. I left everything behind and only brought what I could fit inside my car.\nJen: Thats a good start\n" ]	anxious
when i was going for an interview i had a crazy feeling	[ "Bob: i had some weak feeling on my interview day\nJen: I'm sorry, interviews can be rough. Was there a part of the interview day that you found especially difficult?\nBob: no i had to take it the way it was\nJen: Maybe it went better than you thought! If not, you still gained some experience from the day.\n" ]	afraid
when i was going for an interview i was so afraid as i could not tell the end results	[ "Bob: it was just yesterday when i was going for an interview and personally i was so afraid because i did not know what were the end results\nJen: Yea I know how you feel, you just feel like you are in purgatory waiting for your demise.\nBob: actually i woke up early in the morning and prepared my self fully for the task ahead of me\nJen: Yea but i mean afterwards you dont know if you passed the interview\nBob: i just received a call that i did good in my interview and i qualified to work with them. this made me so happy\n" ]	afraid
when i was lost in a big city with no cell battery	[ "Bob: i once got lost in a big city with no cell battery, scary\nJen: Oh wow, I bet you were very scared. Guessing you found your way ok?\nBob: yes, found and trusted some nice people to lead me to my hotel\nJen: That's awesome! I bet you were glad those people came along.\nBob: i really was, they were heaven sent. i usually dont trust strangers\n" ]	afraid
when i was next in line and someone cut me to jump ahead	[ "Bob: The other day I had a huge cart full and was waiting in like forever, a new line opend up and the cashier called me over but someone cut me in line!\nJen: Oh man! I would have been so made, did you say anything to them?\nBob: No I didnt because I avoid drama, but my facial expression said it all. On top of that I had a fussy baby with me.. the nerve of ppl!\nJen: Some people on think about themselves! I would have said something if he didn't look the fighting type.\n" ]	angry
when i was pregnant with my 1st child, the girls at work threw me a secret baby shower.	[ "Bob: The girls at work shocked me with a baby shower when I was pregnant with my first kid.\nJen: That must mean they think you're a pretty cool person! People usually don't go through that kind of effort unless they think you're worth it and deserve it. So, kudos to you for having that kind of effect on others!\nBob: Those were a great group of ladies I worked with.\nJen: Oh, you don't work with them anymore? Or maybe it was because you decided to be a stay-at-home mother?\nBob: My first child is 12 now so it was quite some time ago.\n" ]	surprised
when i was waiting on my baby to be born	[ "Bob: i was on pins in needles waiting for the arrival of my first born\nJen: but i bet you feel all better now right?\nBob: yes, extremely better\nJen: that's really good. Everything went okay?\nBob: thanks, yes everything went well and all of us are doing ok\n" ]	anxious
when i was waiting to hear back from the bank for my preapproval to buy a home	[ "Bob: I really think I am going to get the preapproval from the bank for my new home purchase...\nJen: That is nice. Are you excited\nBob: Like you would not believe! I am so happy for it, and feeling positive.\nJen: It should be a easy process\n" ]	hopeful
when i went to my daughters concert i had the booklet that i had ordered in time and handy	[ "Bob: my kids conert was comping up so i bought the booklet of her play right before i went to the show\nJen: What instrument do they yplay?\nBob: she was in a hamilton play for her middle school\nJen: Oh that's great! You must be very proud.\n" ]	prepared
when i went to the store and they didnt have the ice cream i had been wanting	[ "Bob: I have been craving ice cream for weeks and finally went to the store to get some only to find out they didnt have the kind I wanted!\nJen: NOOOO! I've been there, and I feel your pain! What kind were you trying to get?\nBob: Chocolate peanut butter - haagen dazz brand. ( spelling probably wrong there! )\nJen: That sounds delicious and I'm going to have to try that! My personal favorite is Ben & Jerry's Phish Food. Now I want some.\nBob: Well now I am deff going after work.\n" ]	disappointed
when i woke up this morning to a large bonus from work.	[ "Bob: When I woke up this morning I just couldnt believe that work had gave me a large bonus!\nJen: oh cool, how much did you get?\nBob: 150! It was crazy. I was not expecting it.\nJen: sweet! so you planning to invest it into something or celebrate?\n" ]	surprised
when i worked for two months and expected nothing	[ "Bob: i worked for two months and expected nothing, but i wasn't disturbed, i had passion for what i was doing\nJen: I wonder what was the work you were doing so passionately?\nBob: Making clothes for a company\nJen: That's interesting. You must be very talented\n" ]	faithful
when im stuck in high traffic my anxiety goes through the roof	[ "Bob: When ever i drive around 3 pm or 4 , or even at 7 am , my anxiety goes through the roof crazy traffic i honestly would not drive if i did not have too\nJen: Is it the traffic or driving that gives you anxiety?\nBob: both , when im with my brother and hes typing on his phone and not looking at the road i start hyper ventilating\nJen: Oh gosh. That's not safe at all.\n" ]	anxious
when im with my friends and they are texting and driving	[ "Bob: when ever i am with a friend and they are looking at messages and texting while driving, it drives me nuts like what if they hit someone or we have an accident\nJen: Yeah, I am the same way. Incredibly unsafe to do such a thing.\nBob: good then i am not the only one that finds that extremely annoying\nJen: I know. I don't want to die doing something incredibly mundane.\n" ]	anxious
when it was dark in my house and something made a noise in the kitchen	[ "Bob: It was storming the other night and the power went out.\nJen: Was everything okay? Did it take long for the power to come back?\nBob: It was out all night and it was super scary. I heard a noise from the kitchen.\nJen: That is scary! I hope nothing came inside\n" ]	afraid
when it was my dads anniversary of death every year in july	[ "Bob: every july i feel the same way, down in the dumps because its the month my father passed away.\nJen: Oh man, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure as time goes on it will become less and less.\nBob: Thats what they say but it just feels the opposite as you accomplish things in life and just really want to share it with your parents! Thanks tho you are kind\nJen: I can only imagine.\n" ]	sad
when lightening hit my house	[ "Bob: Lightening hit my house and fried all of my appliances! ugh frustrating.\nJen: Oh my goodness, that's crazy! Do you have home insurance to cover the cost to replace everything?\nBob: Yeah I do, but it still sucks! What a pain in the rear.\nJen: Yeah that's awful, I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you're alright at least! That's a scary thing to happen.\n" ]	annoyed
when lightening hit my house	[ "Bob: Lightening hit my house and fried all of my appliances! ugh frustrating.\nJen: What do you mean?\n" ]	furious
when mosquitos are eating me alive	[ "Bob: it finally rained today , and i know whats coming next mosquitos they litterally will eat you alive in texas\nJen: Oh god. Mosquitos. Have you heard about scientists trying to make them extinct?\nBob: i did not hear about that , but that sounds really interesting hopefully its for the better\nJen: I don't see any negative aspect to it, but maybe there tis.\n" ]	annoyed
when my aunt paid my test fees	[ "Bob: i didnt think i was going to be able to take my pharmacy tech certification test. the fee was $350..\nJen: Did you figure out a way to pay it thou?\nBob: yes i did. my aunt offerd to pay it for me, as a birthday gift since my bday was the following day\nJen: That was very nice of her.\n" ]	grateful
when my bird cage didnt come in the mail today like it was supposed to	[ "Bob: I have been waiting a few weeks for a bird cage to come, and it was supposed to come today but it hasnt. :( Bummed.\nJen: Have you asked the merchant why it is late?\nBob: Yeah to no response of course. I am upset about it.\nJen: I would be too! They should be more diligent with their shipping estimates!\n" ]	sad
when my boss keeps lazy workers around	[ "Bob: Im not sure if this has happened at a job you have had, but it gets me so annoyed when the boss keeps useless employees around just because they suck up to him\nJen: That's the worst, who's he keeping around?\nBob: some guy that hides in the restroom , and does zero productivity\nJen: No good, any idea what you're gonna do?\n" ]	jealous
when my boss lied to me	[ "Bob: My boss lied to me. Im so upset about it.\nJen: oh no.. what did he do?\nBob: He promised he would fix my paycheck, he always does after he makes a mistake then he never fixes it.\nJen: he seems like a terrible guy\n" ]	furious
when my brother got jumped	[ "Bob: I remember when we were younger , and my brother came home one of his eyes was swollen shut, and he had a giant gash under his other, he had gotten jumped i almost cried in just anger\nJen: ah no thats horrible i hate to hear that\nBob: he bumped into one of the main ones that jumped him, and my brother beat him up twice , shortly after we both joined jiu jitsu\nJen: thats legit! i love mma and jiu jitsu is crucial\n" ]	angry
when my brother got jumped	[ "Bob: i felt so sad for my brother , when he came home bloody after he got jumped\nJen: What happened to him ?\nBob: 3 people saw him walking , and started hitting him for no reason\nJen: Was he in a dangerous area ?\n" ]	devastated
when my brother got the car i wanted	[ "Bob: my brother bought the car i had my eye on.\nJen: Ah, dang, did he know you were trying to buy it also?\nBob: yeah he did. but in all fairness he had the cash first. i still needed to come up with the rest of the money.\nJen: Well, maybe you can set a deal up with him and you can share it!\n" ]	jealous
when my brother showed up	[ "Bob: my brother moved out of state 6 months ago for work and randomly showed up yesterday at my moms house, unannounced for a visit!\nJen: were you happy to see him after that long time?\nBob: we were all very happy. even tho i talk to him every day, it was awesome seeing him\nJen: seeing the people you love in real life feels always different, i'm glad you were happy!\n" ]	surprised
when my brother took away the spotlight	[ "Bob: I had good news to tell my parents, but my brother decided to interrupt me and tell them his amazing news first.\nJen: Oh I bet that was super frustrating! How did you react?\nBob: I felt it was intentional he can be a jerk sometimes.\nJen: Younger siblings tend to be that way sometimes.\n" ]	jealous
when my brother went all out and tried to top me for christmas every year.	[ "Bob: Every year my brother tries to top me on christmas with gifts and luxury because he has a super good job! It drives me nuts.\nJen: lol, you are so lucky to have such a sweet brother. what do you buy him in return?\nBob: Oh pffft he doesnt do it for me, for my parents lol. He always tries to out do me every year.\nJen: haha.. thats hilarious, i thought he was spoiling you!\nBob: I wish, he does get me cool stuff but none the less im still hating on him because my parents minds are always blown! >.<\n" ]	jealous
when my car caught on fire	[ "Bob: My car caught on fire! It was crazy and left me feeling unexplainable.\nJen: Oh that is so scary! I bet you were terrified!\nBob: i was in complete shock\nJen: Were you unharmed though?\n" ]	devastated
when my car caught on fire. it was bad	[]	terrified
when my car insurance got turned off bc someone forgot to pay it	[ "Bob: My wife forgot to pay the car insurance, and i ended up getting pulled over!\nJen: That's unfortunate, did you end up with a ticket?\nBob: yup! of course they have to get their money, and more money out of my pocket ugh\nJen: Ouch, I hope it wasn't too expensive.\n" ]	furious
when my child lied to me	[ "Bob: My child lied to me and it really hurt but more than anything I just cant believe he would lie to me.\nJen: What did he lie about?\nBob: He went out to another friends house, but didnt tell me where he was going. Anything coulda happened and I wouldnt have known where he was.\nJen: How old is he?\n" ]	disappointed
when my child went to the bathroom in her swimming suit while in a public pool.	[ "Bob: So funny story, not funny - careless of me, but still somewhat maybe funny? I forgot to put a diaper on my toddler when she went into the clubhouse pool...................\nJen: oh damn.. it is kind of funny yes\nBob: You can only guess what happened from there, she dropped it like its hot right in her swimsuit and everyone seen me running with her to go back home ha ha\nJen: lol.. i guess that would be a cool story to tell you child when she grows up huh?\n" ]	embarrassed
when my coworker kept getting rated number 1	[ "Bob: My co workers keeps getting rated as number 1 at work, but I know hes doing the work dirty to get such a rating.\nJen: That sucks. Have you investigated her\nBob: I turned him in and they didnt do anything because they dont care. It helps them generate money as well.\nJen: Sucks, I've had to work under scumbag managment before\n" ]	jealous
when my dad bought me a car	[ "Bob: My dad bought me my first car, and I wont ever forget how happy I was.\nJen: I know that feeling but I crashed my car my dad bought for me like 1 year later. But that feeling of happiness was awesome!\nBob: Yeah for sure I wont forget it! Sounds like you have an experience to remember too!\nJen: A bad and good experience haha. Drive safely unlike me\n" ]	joyful
when my daughter broke her tooth	[ "Bob: The worst thing happened the other day.\nJen: tell me more about this\nBob: My daughter fell and chipped her tooth!\nJen: oh my god\n" ]	devastated
when my daughter choked on a piece of food	[ "Bob: The other day during breakfast my daughter started choking and I panicked.\nJen: Were you able to get her help in time! How is she doing?\nBob: Yeah I was able to get the food unlodged but wow it was super scary. Shes okay now thanks!\nJen: That is good to hear! Yeah situations like that can be really alarming.\n" ]	afraid
when my daughter graduated	[ "Bob: My daughter graduated over the summer, and I felt a sense of accomplishment for her.\nJen: Oh that's great. Is she going to collge?\nBob: Yes she is starting up in a few weeks! :)\nJen: What does she want to do?\n" ]	proud
when my daughter had a meltdown in the store	[ "Bob: I know I shouldnt have felt the way I did but man it was hard when my daughter threw a fit at the store!\nJen: What did happen in the store? Why did your daughter throw a fit?\nBob: She was just being moody I guess\nJen: Oh, did you convince her?\n" ]	embarrassed
when my daughter hold her own utensils	[ "Bob: My baby can hold her own forks now and feed herself. :o So proud of her and happy for me. lol\nJen: Thats a big accomplishment.\nBob: it really is! :) im one happy mama thats for sure\nJen: Next thing you know she will be walking.\n" ]	proud
when my daughter said mommy for the first time	[ "Bob: I wont ever forget the day my daughter said \"mommy\" the first time.\nJen: I bet. That's so sweet.\nBob: it was memorable for sure\nJen: Were you able to record the moment?\n" ]	proud
when my daughter slept all night!	[ "Bob: My daughter slept all thru the night last night and I cant believe it. Amazing.\nJen: That was nice of her ha\nBob: I know, especially after 18 months of being awake every couple of hours.\nJen: That does sound stressful\n" ]	surprised
when my daughter walked for the first time	[ "Bob: My daughter walked the other day for her first time!\nJen: It has already taken its first steps towards independence, that is something big\nBob: yes it is really\nJen: is achieved at a steady pace ... it fills us with hope and happiness\n", "Bob: My daughter walked for the first time!\nJen: that is incredible i bet you are really proud\nBob: I am very much so! Its amazing.\nJen: i remember when my daughter did her first steps i was so proud of her\n" ]	proud
when my daughter wanted to get dropped off at the movies	[ "Bob: i hate that my daughter is growing, she wanted me to drop off at the movies\nJen: Was she wanting to go with friends?\nBob: yes, but the world is so scary\nJen: I know, you just never know how she will handle a dangerous situation. I talk to mine all the time about things that could happen.\nBob: i agree\n" ]	apprehensive
when my daughter was born	[ "Bob: I was so afraid when my daughter was born. She came out with the cord around her neck.\nJen: Oh god! Did everything turn out well?\nBob: Yes luckily, the nurse scared me too because she kept saying shes not crying and she should be.\nJen: I would have been SO scared! I'm glad it all turned out fine though!\n" ]	afraid
when my daughter won an award at school	[ "Bob: My daughter won an award at school. 1 out of 1000 kids could win and she won it for art!\nJen: That's awesome! I bet you're really proud of her.\nBob: I am very proud of her and still cant believe that she won! So amazing.\nJen: I really hope that you continue to encourage her! She may have a future as an artist.\n" ]	surprised
when my dog died	[ "Bob: I was so stressed the other day...\nJen: How come?\nBob: I had to put my dog down at the VETS office.\nJen: Oh no, I couldn't imagine! I'm so sorry!\n" ]	devastated
when my dog died	[ "Bob: the house has been so empty and quiet since my dog passesd last week.\nJen: I would cry if anyone i know died.\nBob: it has been hard. he was always here waiting for me to get home\nJen: That actually sounds super sad.\n" ]	lonely
when my dog died	[ "Bob: my house has been very quiet since my dog died last week\nJen: how long did you have your dog for? that must've been very painful, losing a pet is always hard\nBob: he was with us for 11 years\nJen: that's a lot of time. you could say he was part of your family.\n", "Bob: I had to put my dog down at the vets due to a disease she had that wouldnt get better. It sucked.\nJen: How old was your doggy?\nBob: She was almost 8 years old. Not that old really.\nJen: Did she have a disease?\nBob: Yes she did.\n", "Bob: i was devistated my my dog sammy died last week\nJen: How old was sammy?\nBob: he was 13..he was an old man..he died of old age\nJen: I am sure you had good times. Will you get another dog?\n", "Bob: I had to put my dog to sleep and it was super stressing! :(\nJen: oh no. I'm sorry to hear that.\nBob: Thanks, it always sucks when you have to say goodbye.. but shes better off now without pain. Do you have any pets?\nJen: I don't. My apartment won't allow, but we are moving soon I hope to get a cat.\n" ]	sad
when my dog had puppies	[ "Bob: my dog had puppies\nJen: That is awesome. What type of dog do you have?\nBob: i have a pit bull\nJen: My mother-in-law has one, too.\nBob: they are such good dogs, and very protective\n" ]	caring
when my family bought me a car	[ "Bob: I cant not believe my family did what they did for me !\nJen: Do you mind talking about it specifically?\nBob: Of course, they bought a car for me... still in shock\nJen: haha well that's a pleasant surprise...what kind of car\n" ]	impressed
when my family went on a cruise without me	[ "Bob: My family went on a cruise without me. I couldnt get the time off work. :/\nJen: Are you sad and all alone now?\nBob: Yeah I am and it sucks.\nJen: Maybe you can find a new friend!\n" ]	lonely
when my food wasnt cooked right	[ "Bob: i had to send my food back tonight at the restaurant. we were at my favorite restaurant\nJen: why did you have to send it back? what happend\nBob: i am normally not picky with mistakes on my food,,,but i ordered a chicken sandwch and the chicken was still very pink/ red in the middle\nJen: good thing you returned it! rare or whatever they call it meat is actually very dangerous for you espcially coming from a restaurant good thing you did that!\n" ]	disgusted
when my friend said she would return my car	[ "Bob: I am kind of nervous but hopeful...\nJen: About what exactly?\nBob: I let my friend borrow my car today.\nJen: What did he need it for?\n" ]	trusting
when my friend told me she was coming to see me	[ "Bob: My friend told me she was coming to visit for the holidays.! Exciting.\nJen: i bet you are excited\nBob: I am really and also in shock.\nJen: havent seen her for a while ?\n" ]	surprised
when my friend wanted to borrow money	[ "Bob: My friend asked me to borrow some money and I let him.\nJen: How did that end?\nBob: IDK yet still waiting to see if he actually pays me back. I didnt want to really do it but I did.\nJen: Well we give in to our friends. Hopefully he pays you back and not ruin your friendship.\n" ]	apprehensive
when my friend wanted to move into my house that i have up for sale.	[ "Bob: My friend asked to move into my home that I am selling and live there for free until she can find a place.\nJen: Yikes, that's a tough place to be in. She's very forward for asking something like that too.\nBob: I know shes a pretty close friend, but its still scary the thought of letting someone move in. They say dont deal with friends or family when it comes to business.\nJen: They do and you never know what could happen, let's say you guys get into a fight and then she trashes your house! Not a good outcome!\n" ]	apprehensive
when my friends went out without me, and didnt invite me.	[ "Bob: My friends went out last night without me, and didnt even bother to ask me if I wanted to join them.\nJen: Wow, they don't sound like good friends to me.\nBob: Yeah it made me feel really bad especially since im new to the area.\nJen: You should give them the cold shoulder next time you see them. That's what I would do.\n" ]	lonely
when my girl friend left me	[ "Bob: a while back when my girl friend left me i was a little bummed out about it for a while , everything was different for me\nJen: That's not cool, I hope you find someone new.\nBob: yeah me too thank you for that , i feel a whole lot better now after time passed - time for the most all heals all\nJen: This is true.\n" ]	lonely
when my girl friend left me i felt so alone	[ "Bob: when my long time girl friend left me , i felt so alone even tho i have family and friends around me i just was not there i lost a lot of weight too\nJen: I'm sorry to hear that. That's a pretty common response to break ups. A lot of people go through it, so you're not alone! I hope you pull through soon.\nBob: thank you for your honest response , and i did get over it , just took a few months\nJen: That's great to hear! I'm sure you'll find someone better soon.\n" ]	lonely
when my girlfriend cheated	[ "Bob: i hate when people are unfaithful to there relationship\nJen: Did your girlfriend cheat on you?\nBob: yes a long time ago she did\nJen: But most people are still faithful in their relationship\n" ]	angry
when my girlfriend got sick	[ "Bob: I remember the one time my girlfriend got really sick , i stayed by her side and did everything for her , cooked for her i just wanted her to feel the best\nJen: She's one lucky girl!\nBob: thank you , shes always there for me , even when i come grumpy as hell from work she loves me either way\nJen: How long have you guys been together?\n" ]	caring
when my grandpa died i couldnt take it	[ "Bob: when my grandpa died i was so sad, i did not know if i could move on\nJen: Oh, that is just awful. Losing someone is so hard.\nBob: i could not believe it\nJen: Was he ill or was it sudden? Either way, it's still painful.\n" ]	sad
when my health issues resolved	[ "Bob: I have had so many health issues this year. It is been crucial to find the silver linings\nJen: Finding things to be grateful for have saved my sanity\nBob: On the one hand, I could see how you would feel that way, but on the other hand it was a really responsible thing you did. Do you get out often to the batting cage with your kids?\n" ]	grateful
when my hit her head	[ "Bob: My child hit their head really hard the other day, and caused the lip to split open. ugh\nJen: Oh no! Is he/she okay?\nBob: yeah he is okay, but it was so scary. I freaked out when i seen blood.\nJen: Blood makes me freak out too. That is pretty scary! I'm glad they are okay.\n" ]	afraid
when my house caught on fire.	[ "Bob: My house caught on fire. It was one of the worst real life nightmares ever.\nJen: I believe that, how did it happen?\nBob: electrical fire.. super scary! started in the panel box\nJen: That is scary, it is not even your fault at all either\n" ]	devastated
when my job fired me during maternity leave	[ "Bob: My job laid me off during my maternity leave.\nJen: That is horrible! How could they justify doing that? You must have been disgusted with them!\nBob: I am honestly, and just so scary not knowing how you will support your newborn child. It was a nightmare.\nJen: I can imagine. I hope it all works out for the best and that you are able to come away from this as a stronger person.\n" ]	afraid
when my mom is dying I dont know what to do. I felt scared for the next thing will happened to her and to us.	[ "Bob: seeing your love one dying frightened me. I cant control myself to think about it.\nJen: What even made you think about that?\nBob: well, for one I am not prepared and for two this is the first time I felt this.\nJen: Think of positive thinks instead, you have control over that.\n" ]	apprehensive
when my mom showed up at my new apartment	[ "Bob: My mom came to my new apartment the other day. I didnt expect it\nJen: Was that an issue for some reason?\nBob: No not at all just couldnt believe it because she lives in another state!\nJen: Oh, okay. Well then it was a nice surprise.\n" ]	surprised
when my mom started yelling at someone in the store for no reason.	[ "Bob: My mom has turrets and screams at people for no reason.\nJen: That must be very challenging to deal with at times.\nBob: It is very challenging to deal with, along with being very embarrassing. Sometimes I am ashamed of her.\nJen: I can understand being emabarrassed by that as well.\n" ]	ashamed
when my mother in law fell on ice	[ "Bob: My mother in law came to visit for the first time and fell so hard on ice. It was scary.\nJen: Did she break anything ? How old is she ?\nBob: Shes older so thats was it was so scary. She did end up injuring her hip.\nJen: Hopefully no breaks.\n" ]	afraid

when i lost a close friend i felt bad

[ "Bob: i cried a lot but i had to let it go\nJen: wow, what happened?\nBob: i had lost a very close friend\nJen: I'm so sorry to hear about that\n" ]

sad

when i lost my money at the store.

[ "Bob: I dropped my wallet at the store and lost all of my money and id.\nJen: Oh no. That has happened to me before.\nBob: yeah it super sucks because now i have to get my id and social back and all of that!\nJen: That is a long tedious process too. You have to have one thing to get the other and they make you run around and get more things. ugh\n" ]

disappointed

when i lost my temper due to just having stress in my life.

[ "Bob: I lost my temper the other day and said things I shouldnt have said. I let the stress get the best of me.\nJen: Who did you say that to?\nBob: to my wife. ugh bad mistake.\nJen: Oh, better apologize quickly there!\nBob: Im on it like you wouldnt believe.. better go out and mortgage the house for a new diamond ring.\n" ]

ashamed

when i lost my temper with my dad

[ "Bob: I lost my temper with my father and said some rude things I shouldnt have said when I was younger.\nJen: Don't beat yourself up about it. I did the same with my mother all the time when I was in my early teens. We've all been there.\nBob: I know I try not to but once you get older you realize it wasnt the nicest or brightest thing!\nJen: Oh I agree, I still feel awful about it myself! But I think our parents understand and don't take it to heart, because they usually did the same thing too :)\n" ]

ashamed

when i lost my wallet at the store

[ "Bob: I am having a day let me tell you.. not in a good way either.\nJen: Oh no, please tell me what's going on! Can I help?\nBob: Not really but maybe just by listening to be complain! LOL - i lost my wallet and my keys in the store today\nJen: That's the worst, I'm sure it was an annoyance!\n" ]

annoyed

when i mistakenly hit someone into the gutter with a car that caused him to miss his interview

[ "Bob: One day i was in a haste to meet up with an appointment, i hit someone into the gutter, i made him miss his interview and i felt really guilty to meet up with my appointment\nJen: Oh no that's too bad, it wasn't your fault at least.\nBob: yes, i know, but i would have been more careful to look well\nJen: Yeah, just make sure that you aren't in too much of a rush like that.\nBob: yes, i will\n" ]

guilty

when i moved and took a chance in a new state with little money.

[ "Bob: I took a huge risk and moved from 1 state to another without a job. I really wanted change in my life.\nJen: Oh wow! That is a bold move! Which state did you move to/from?\nBob: I know for real, it took me 3 years just to do it but I had positive vibes. NY to FL! ( running from the cold! )\nJen: That is awesome. I have considered moving from Missouri down to either Lower Alabama or Florida.\nBob: Do it! Its so worth it. :)\n" ]

hopeful

when i moved into my apartment it was full of bugs!

[ "Bob: I was so excited to move to a new state, but when i moved into my apartment it was full of bugs! ugh\nJen: Oh no! Bugs really creep me out!\nBob: me too.. i really was freaking out.\nJen: what did the landlor do about it? Did you have to call an exterminator?\n" ]

angry

when i offered to work extra hours to make up for bills

[ "Bob: Recently I offered to start working extra long hours just to help support my family more.\nJen: That's really considerate of you. Do they need your help a lot?\nBob: Yeah we recently moved so we have gotten in quite debt while trying to sell the previous home! ugh\nJen: Wow. Home selling can be tough. I hope that debt clears up real soon!\n" ]

caring

when i ordered food and it was bad

[ "Bob: The other day I ordered chinese after craving it forever, and it ended up being gross! Ugh.\nJen: Oh, that is frustrating! I love Chinese food. What did you order?\nBob: Me too! I was pretty bummed about it though. I ordered the general tso meal, and krab rangoons.\nJen: Crab rangoon is one of my favorites. I would be bummed too. I think I know what I am having for dinner tonight.\n" ]

angry

when i see old people on road, i want to take care of them

[ "Bob: When i see old people on the road. I feel bad and i just feel i like i want to take care of them\nJen: I know exactly what you mean.\nBob: yeah, it's the people's nature. We can't help it\nJen: I'm glad that you care about others.\n" ]

caring

when i see vomit i almost want to vomit

[ "Bob: when i see vomit i almost want to vomit , and in my job there are no janitors so the males on duty need to clean up the mess , and kids vomit in there at least once a week\nJen: Oh gross, you should bail quick if you see a kid getting sick, so that you won't be around to help clean it up.\nBob: i would love to do that, but for some reason im always at the wrong place at the wrong time\nJen: I'm sorry, maybe a nose plug would come in handy\n" ]

disgusted

when i see young people asking for help on fb or donations instead of working

[ "Bob: it always makes me a little angry or a little down , when i see young people begging for money on facebook groups ... like dude get a job\nJen: Yeah, i feel some are just picky on what job they want to have\nBob: just get a job , does it even matter grow up and contribute\nJen: I agree with you\n" ]

sad

when i seen an old friend at the store

[ "Bob: I ran into an old high school friend while at the store. It was a shock!\nJen: Has it been a long time?\nBob: Yup about 15 years! I also live in a totally different state than the school we went to!\nJen: Oh whoa. That is pretty crazy. Hopefully yall can become friends again.\n" ]

surprised

when i seen my friends for the first time in 5 years

[ "Bob: I was so scared to attend my 5 year class reunion\nJen: Why is that?\nBob: i felt that I let my self go\nJen: Everyone feels that way when comparing themselves at those things. Except the pompous ones from school, those guys suck haha.\nBob: lol, right. once i got there i felt better.\n" ]

ashamed

when i spilled a drink all over my lap and it looked like a peed on myself.

[ "Bob: I spilled a drink all over my lap and had to go out in public like that, talk about wanting to hide in a cave.\nJen: Oh no!! I hope it wasn't coffee! Yes that is pretty embarrassing. People probably thought you peed your pants.\nBob: Thankfully no that would have been awful hot - but thats happened before! Yeah thats exactly how I felt honestly.\nJen: Oh, well hopefully you learned some kind of lesson from this and it won't happen again.\n" ]

embarrassed

when i spilled coffee all over myself in the parking lot

[ "Bob: I had just arrived to work, got out of my car and spilled coffee all over myself.\nJen: Oh no! That's a terrible way to start your day. Did you still go to work?\nBob: Yes I did but I looked like a mess! ugh\nJen: Well at least you managed to make it through the day. I probably would have just gone home.\n" ]

embarrassed

when i spilled my coffee

[ "Bob: I spilled coffee all over my new shorts the other day.\nJen: did you have some back up clothes ?\nBob: No and I had just got the shorts. :(\nJen: oh that stinks\n" ]

disappointed

when i spilled water all over myself at school and looked like i peed my pants

[ "Bob: I spilled water all over myself at school and it looked like a peed on myself! ugh\nJen: Oh geez! That would suck! I hope it wasn't a cold day? Could you drive home and get new clothes?\nBob: luckily no because im in florida but ugh i felt so dumb!\nJen: Oh I have numbness in my hands so I am always spilling things so don't feel too bad! I understand though. As you can see- I don't like having stuff on my clothes either lol\nBob: I know and hear I told you not to worry about what people think but here I am worrying! ohhh the struggle\n" ]

embarrassed

when i stepped in cat poop

[ "Bob: My neighbor lets her cats use the bathroom outside in our yard, and of course I stepped in some.\nJen: Have you talked to her about this ?\nBob: Yeah and she doesnt seem to care.\nJen: Then use her yard as a garbage can. That's what she does to yours.\n" ]

disgusted

when i stepped in dog poop outside barefoot

[ "Bob: So the other day I was walking barefoot right? Can you guess what happened next!?\nJen: Did you stub your toe?\nBob: I wish... i totally stepped right in a fresh pile of dog...\nJen: Oh no! That's even worse! Did you puke a little? I would've thrown up!\n" ]

disgusted

when i took care of my brother when he broke his leg

[ "Bob: My brother broke his leg a few months ago, and I took care of him to make sure he was okay.\nJen: I pray he gets well soon. I had a similar experience so I know how it feels\nBob: He is almost healed up, but it was nice to take care of him to spend more time together. We usually dont get along.\nJen: Great, congratulations\n" ]

caring

when i took care of my daughter after her shots

[ "Bob: My daughter had to get her vaccine shots recently, and i had to pamper her for days she was in such pain. :(\nJen: I'm so sorry about that. That must have really been horrible for her... and you\nBob: Yeah it is I cant wait for them to me over with it sucks going every other motnh\nJen: Wow that often. That must really be stressful.\nBob: It is, and yeah until they are over the age of you go go every other month crazy poor babies!!\n" ]

caring

when i took care of my mom when she was dying

[ "Bob: I had a memory pop up on my facebook the other day it was a photo of my hands, and my moms hand. I was taking care of her during her last days.\nJen: Oh my god! That is so sad! I am so sorry!\nBob: Yeah its okay it happens thats life! I enjoyed being able to know I was the one making sure she was okay as she went!\nJen: That is a good way of looking at things.\n" ]

caring

when i took care of my mom when she was sick

[ "Bob: My mom was very sick a few years ago, and I took care of her while she was bed ridden.\nJen: She's lucky to have such a great kid.\nBob: Thanks! I was happy to take care of her. Its the least we can do as children.\nJen: Exactly, we have to return the favor since they put up with us when we were little.\n" ]

caring

when i took care of my wife when she was stressed

[ "Bob: My wife has been so stressed out lately but I have been taking care of her.\nJen: What's it all about?\nBob: Everything, not able to find a job, we just moved, too much going on. ugh\nJen: Sounds like she just needs some time to settle in, and catch her breath.\n" ]

caring

when i took down some really heavy furniture off the way

[ "Bob: we have limited space on our store so all the heavy furniture is up in the walls , one day i took the heaviest one down i was so proud of myself\nJen: That's impressive!\nBob: the customer did not even buy it after all , lol and back up in the wall it went\nJen: That's still an impressive accomplishment! If they didn't buy it, that just means you get to take it down by yourself again!\n" ]

proud

when i took my daughter to get her shots, i made sure she had her doll.

[ "Bob: The other day my baby had to get some of her shots.\nJen: I hate shots for babies. Why do they have to get so many?!?!?!\nBob: I know it seems like every other month its another shot! I felt terrible for her.\nJen: You can tell they are mad at you too for letting it happen. I hate ir\n" ]

caring

when i was getting ready to move and take a drive across the usa

[ "Bob: I was so nervous and ready to start my move. It was such a long drive.\nJen: Did you get it done\nBob: Surprisingly yes, cant believe I did it. I left everything behind and only brought what I could fit inside my car.\nJen: Thats a good start\n" ]

anxious

when i was going for an interview i had a crazy feeling

[ "Bob: i had some weak feeling on my interview day\nJen: I'm sorry, interviews can be rough. Was there a part of the interview day that you found especially difficult?\nBob: no i had to take it the way it was\nJen: Maybe it went better than you thought! If not, you still gained some experience from the day.\n" ]

afraid

when i was going for an interview i was so afraid as i could not tell the end results

[ "Bob: it was just yesterday when i was going for an interview and personally i was so afraid because i did not know what were the end results\nJen: Yea I know how you feel, you just feel like you are in purgatory waiting for your demise.\nBob: actually i woke up early in the morning and prepared my self fully for the task ahead of me\nJen: Yea but i mean afterwards you dont know if you passed the interview\nBob: i just received a call that i did good in my interview and i qualified to work with them. this made me so happy\n" ]

afraid

when i was lost in a big city with no cell battery

[ "Bob: i once got lost in a big city with no cell battery, scary\nJen: Oh wow, I bet you were very scared. Guessing you found your way ok?\nBob: yes, found and trusted some nice people to lead me to my hotel\nJen: That's awesome! I bet you were glad those people came along.\nBob: i really was, they were heaven sent. i usually dont trust strangers\n" ]

afraid

when i was next in line and someone cut me to jump ahead

[ "Bob: The other day I had a huge cart full and was waiting in like forever, a new line opend up and the cashier called me over but someone cut me in line!\nJen: Oh man! I would have been so made, did you say anything to them?\nBob: No I didnt because I avoid drama, but my facial expression said it all. On top of that I had a fussy baby with me.. the nerve of ppl!\nJen: Some people on think about themselves! I would have said something if he didn't look the fighting type.\n" ]

angry

when i was pregnant with my 1st child, the girls at work threw me a secret baby shower.

[ "Bob: The girls at work shocked me with a baby shower when I was pregnant with my first kid.\nJen: That must mean they think you're a pretty cool person! People usually don't go through that kind of effort unless they think you're worth it and deserve it. So, kudos to you for having that kind of effect on others!\nBob: Those were a great group of ladies I worked with.\nJen: Oh, you don't work with them anymore? Or maybe it was because you decided to be a stay-at-home mother?\nBob: My first child is 12 now so it was quite some time ago.\n" ]

surprised

when i was waiting on my baby to be born

[ "Bob: i was on pins in needles waiting for the arrival of my first born\nJen: but i bet you feel all better now right?\nBob: yes, extremely better\nJen: that's really good. Everything went okay?\nBob: thanks, yes everything went well and all of us are doing ok\n" ]

anxious

when i was waiting to hear back from the bank for my preapproval to buy a home

[ "Bob: I really think I am going to get the preapproval from the bank for my new home purchase...\nJen: That is nice. Are you excited\nBob: Like you would not believe! I am so happy for it, and feeling positive.\nJen: It should be a easy process\n" ]

hopeful

when i went to my daughters concert i had the booklet that i had ordered in time and handy

[ "Bob: my kids conert was comping up so i bought the booklet of her play right before i went to the show\nJen: What instrument do they yplay?\nBob: she was in a hamilton play for her middle school\nJen: Oh that's great! You must be very proud.\n" ]

prepared

when i went to the store and they didnt have the ice cream i had been wanting

[ "Bob: I have been craving ice cream for weeks and finally went to the store to get some only to find out they didnt have the kind I wanted!\nJen: NOOOO! I've been there, and I feel your pain! What kind were you trying to get?\nBob: Chocolate peanut butter - haagen dazz brand. ( spelling probably wrong there! )\nJen: That sounds delicious and I'm going to have to try that! My personal favorite is Ben & Jerry's Phish Food. Now I want some.\nBob: Well now I am deff going after work.\n" ]

disappointed

when i woke up this morning to a large bonus from work.

[ "Bob: When I woke up this morning I just couldnt believe that work had gave me a large bonus!\nJen: oh cool, how much did you get?\nBob: 150! It was crazy. I was not expecting it.\nJen: sweet! so you planning to invest it into something or celebrate?\n" ]

surprised

when i worked for two months and expected nothing

[ "Bob: i worked for two months and expected nothing, but i wasn't disturbed, i had passion for what i was doing\nJen: I wonder what was the work you were doing so passionately?\nBob: Making clothes for a company\nJen: That's interesting. You must be very talented\n" ]

faithful

when im stuck in high traffic my anxiety goes through the roof

[ "Bob: When ever i drive around 3 pm or 4 , or even at 7 am , my anxiety goes through the roof crazy traffic i honestly would not drive if i did not have too\nJen: Is it the traffic or driving that gives you anxiety?\nBob: both , when im with my brother and hes typing on his phone and not looking at the road i start hyper ventilating\nJen: Oh gosh. That's not safe at all.\n" ]

anxious

when im with my friends and they are texting and driving

[ "Bob: when ever i am with a friend and they are looking at messages and texting while driving, it drives me nuts like what if they hit someone or we have an accident\nJen: Yeah, I am the same way. Incredibly unsafe to do such a thing.\nBob: good then i am not the only one that finds that extremely annoying\nJen: I know. I don't want to die doing something incredibly mundane.\n" ]

anxious

when it was dark in my house and something made a noise in the kitchen

[ "Bob: It was storming the other night and the power went out.\nJen: Was everything okay? Did it take long for the power to come back?\nBob: It was out all night and it was super scary. I heard a noise from the kitchen.\nJen: That is scary! I hope nothing came inside\n" ]

afraid

when it was my dads anniversary of death every year in july

[ "Bob: every july i feel the same way, down in the dumps because its the month my father passed away.\nJen: Oh man, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure as time goes on it will become less and less.\nBob: Thats what they say but it just feels the opposite as you accomplish things in life and just really want to share it with your parents! Thanks tho you are kind\nJen: I can only imagine.\n" ]

sad

when lightening hit my house

[ "Bob: Lightening hit my house and fried all of my appliances! ugh frustrating.\nJen: Oh my goodness, that's crazy! Do you have home insurance to cover the cost to replace everything?\nBob: Yeah I do, but it still sucks! What a pain in the rear.\nJen: Yeah that's awful, I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you're alright at least! That's a scary thing to happen.\n" ]

annoyed

when lightening hit my house

[ "Bob: Lightening hit my house and fried all of my appliances! ugh frustrating.\nJen: What do you mean?\n" ]

furious

when mosquitos are eating me alive

[ "Bob: it finally rained today , and i know whats coming next mosquitos they litterally will eat you alive in texas\nJen: Oh god. Mosquitos. Have you heard about scientists trying to make them extinct?\nBob: i did not hear about that , but that sounds really interesting hopefully its for the better\nJen: I don't see any negative aspect to it, but maybe there tis.\n" ]

annoyed

when my aunt paid my test fees

[ "Bob: i didnt think i was going to be able to take my pharmacy tech certification test. the fee was $350..\nJen: Did you figure out a way to pay it thou?\nBob: yes i did. my aunt offerd to pay it for me, as a birthday gift since my bday was the following day\nJen: That was very nice of her.\n" ]

grateful

when my bird cage didnt come in the mail today like it was supposed to

[ "Bob: I have been waiting a few weeks for a bird cage to come, and it was supposed to come today but it hasnt. :( Bummed.\nJen: Have you asked the merchant why it is late?\nBob: Yeah to no response of course. I am upset about it.\nJen: I would be too! They should be more diligent with their shipping estimates!\n" ]

sad

when my boss keeps lazy workers around

[ "Bob: Im not sure if this has happened at a job you have had, but it gets me so annoyed when the boss keeps useless employees around just because they suck up to him\nJen: That's the worst, who's he keeping around?\nBob: some guy that hides in the restroom , and does zero productivity\nJen: No good, any idea what you're gonna do?\n" ]

jealous

when my boss lied to me

[ "Bob: My boss lied to me. Im so upset about it.\nJen: oh no.. what did he do?\nBob: He promised he would fix my paycheck, he always does after he makes a mistake then he never fixes it.\nJen: he seems like a terrible guy\n" ]

furious

when my brother got jumped

[ "Bob: I remember when we were younger , and my brother came home one of his eyes was swollen shut, and he had a giant gash under his other, he had gotten jumped i almost cried in just anger\nJen: ah no thats horrible i hate to hear that\nBob: he bumped into one of the main ones that jumped him, and my brother beat him up twice , shortly after we both joined jiu jitsu\nJen: thats legit! i love mma and jiu jitsu is crucial\n" ]

angry

when my brother got jumped

[ "Bob: i felt so sad for my brother , when he came home bloody after he got jumped\nJen: What happened to him ?\nBob: 3 people saw him walking , and started hitting him for no reason\nJen: Was he in a dangerous area ?\n" ]

devastated

when my brother got the car i wanted

[ "Bob: my brother bought the car i had my eye on.\nJen: Ah, dang, did he know you were trying to buy it also?\nBob: yeah he did. but in all fairness he had the cash first. i still needed to come up with the rest of the money.\nJen: Well, maybe you can set a deal up with him and you can share it!\n" ]

jealous

when my brother showed up

[ "Bob: my brother moved out of state 6 months ago for work and randomly showed up yesterday at my moms house, unannounced for a visit!\nJen: were you happy to see him after that long time?\nBob: we were all very happy. even tho i talk to him every day, it was awesome seeing him\nJen: seeing the people you love in real life feels always different, i'm glad you were happy!\n" ]

surprised

when my brother took away the spotlight

[ "Bob: I had good news to tell my parents, but my brother decided to interrupt me and tell them his amazing news first.\nJen: Oh I bet that was super frustrating! How did you react?\nBob: I felt it was intentional he can be a jerk sometimes.\nJen: Younger siblings tend to be that way sometimes.\n" ]

jealous

when my brother went all out and tried to top me for christmas every year.

[ "Bob: Every year my brother tries to top me on christmas with gifts and luxury because he has a super good job! It drives me nuts.\nJen: lol, you are so lucky to have such a sweet brother. what do you buy him in return?\nBob: Oh pffft he doesnt do it for me, for my parents lol. He always tries to out do me every year.\nJen: haha.. thats hilarious, i thought he was spoiling you!\nBob: I wish, he does get me cool stuff but none the less im still hating on him because my parents minds are always blown! >.<\n" ]

jealous

when my car caught on fire

[ "Bob: My car caught on fire! It was crazy and left me feeling unexplainable.\nJen: Oh that is so scary! I bet you were terrified!\nBob: i was in complete shock\nJen: Were you unharmed though?\n" ]

devastated

when my car caught on fire. it was bad

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terrified

when my car insurance got turned off bc someone forgot to pay it

[ "Bob: My wife forgot to pay the car insurance, and i ended up getting pulled over!\nJen: That's unfortunate, did you end up with a ticket?\nBob: yup! of course they have to get their money, and more money out of my pocket ugh\nJen: Ouch, I hope it wasn't too expensive.\n" ]

furious

when my child lied to me

[ "Bob: My child lied to me and it really hurt but more than anything I just cant believe he would lie to me.\nJen: What did he lie about?\nBob: He went out to another friends house, but didnt tell me where he was going. Anything coulda happened and I wouldnt have known where he was.\nJen: How old is he?\n" ]

disappointed

when my child went to the bathroom in her swimming suit while in a public pool.

[ "Bob: So funny story, not funny - careless of me, but still somewhat maybe funny? I forgot to put a diaper on my toddler when she went into the clubhouse pool...................\nJen: oh damn.. it is kind of funny yes\nBob: You can only guess what happened from there, she dropped it like its hot right in her swimsuit and everyone seen me running with her to go back home ha ha\nJen: lol.. i guess that would be a cool story to tell you child when she grows up huh?\n" ]

embarrassed

when my coworker kept getting rated number 1

[ "Bob: My co workers keeps getting rated as number 1 at work, but I know hes doing the work dirty to get such a rating.\nJen: That sucks. Have you investigated her\nBob: I turned him in and they didnt do anything because they dont care. It helps them generate money as well.\nJen: Sucks, I've had to work under scumbag managment before\n" ]

jealous

when my dad bought me a car

[ "Bob: My dad bought me my first car, and I wont ever forget how happy I was.\nJen: I know that feeling but I crashed my car my dad bought for me like 1 year later. But that feeling of happiness was awesome!\nBob: Yeah for sure I wont forget it! Sounds like you have an experience to remember too!\nJen: A bad and good experience haha. Drive safely unlike me\n" ]

joyful

when my daughter broke her tooth

[ "Bob: The worst thing happened the other day.\nJen: tell me more about this\nBob: My daughter fell and chipped her tooth!\nJen: oh my god\n" ]

devastated

when my daughter choked on a piece of food

[ "Bob: The other day during breakfast my daughter started choking and I panicked.\nJen: Were you able to get her help in time! How is she doing?\nBob: Yeah I was able to get the food unlodged but wow it was super scary. Shes okay now thanks!\nJen: That is good to hear! Yeah situations like that can be really alarming.\n" ]

afraid

when my daughter graduated

[ "Bob: My daughter graduated over the summer, and I felt a sense of accomplishment for her.\nJen: Oh that's great. Is she going to collge?\nBob: Yes she is starting up in a few weeks! :)\nJen: What does she want to do?\n" ]

proud

when my daughter had a meltdown in the store

[ "Bob: I know I shouldnt have felt the way I did but man it was hard when my daughter threw a fit at the store!\nJen: What did happen in the store? Why did your daughter throw a fit?\nBob: She was just being moody I guess\nJen: Oh, did you convince her?\n" ]

embarrassed

when my daughter hold her own utensils

[ "Bob: My baby can hold her own forks now and feed herself. :o So proud of her and happy for me. lol\nJen: Thats a big accomplishment.\nBob: it really is! :) im one happy mama thats for sure\nJen: Next thing you know she will be walking.\n" ]

proud

when my daughter said mommy for the first time

[ "Bob: I wont ever forget the day my daughter said \"mommy\" the first time.\nJen: I bet. That's so sweet.\nBob: it was memorable for sure\nJen: Were you able to record the moment?\n" ]

proud

when my daughter slept all night!

[ "Bob: My daughter slept all thru the night last night and I cant believe it. Amazing.\nJen: That was nice of her ha\nBob: I know, especially after 18 months of being awake every couple of hours.\nJen: That does sound stressful\n" ]

surprised

when my daughter walked for the first time

[ "Bob: My daughter walked the other day for her first time!\nJen: It has already taken its first steps towards independence, that is something big\nBob: yes it is really\nJen: is achieved at a steady pace ... it fills us with hope and happiness\n", "Bob: My daughter walked for the first time!\nJen: that is incredible i bet you are really proud\nBob: I am very much so! Its amazing.\nJen: i remember when my daughter did her first steps i was so proud of her\n" ]

proud

when my daughter wanted to get dropped off at the movies

[ "Bob: i hate that my daughter is growing, she wanted me to drop off at the movies\nJen: Was she wanting to go with friends?\nBob: yes, but the world is so scary\nJen: I know, you just never know how she will handle a dangerous situation. I talk to mine all the time about things that could happen.\nBob: i agree\n" ]

apprehensive

when my daughter was born

[ "Bob: I was so afraid when my daughter was born. She came out with the cord around her neck.\nJen: Oh god! Did everything turn out well?\nBob: Yes luckily, the nurse scared me too because she kept saying shes not crying and she should be.\nJen: I would have been SO scared! I'm glad it all turned out fine though!\n" ]

afraid

when my daughter won an award at school

[ "Bob: My daughter won an award at school. 1 out of 1000 kids could win and she won it for art!\nJen: That's awesome! I bet you're really proud of her.\nBob: I am very proud of her and still cant believe that she won! So amazing.\nJen: I really hope that you continue to encourage her! She may have a future as an artist.\n" ]

surprised

when my dog died

[ "Bob: I was so stressed the other day...\nJen: How come?\nBob: I had to put my dog down at the VETS office.\nJen: Oh no, I couldn't imagine! I'm so sorry!\n" ]

devastated

when my dog died

[ "Bob: the house has been so empty and quiet since my dog passesd last week.\nJen: I would cry if anyone i know died.\nBob: it has been hard. he was always here waiting for me to get home\nJen: That actually sounds super sad.\n" ]

lonely

when my dog died

[ "Bob: my house has been very quiet since my dog died last week\nJen: how long did you have your dog for? that must've been very painful, losing a pet is always hard\nBob: he was with us for 11 years\nJen: that's a lot of time. you could say he was part of your family.\n", "Bob: I had to put my dog down at the vets due to a disease she had that wouldnt get better. It sucked.\nJen: How old was your doggy?\nBob: She was almost 8 years old. Not that old really.\nJen: Did she have a disease?\nBob: Yes she did.\n", "Bob: i was devistated my my dog sammy died last week\nJen: How old was sammy?\nBob: he was 13..he was an old man..he died of old age\nJen: I am sure you had good times. Will you get another dog?\n", "Bob: I had to put my dog to sleep and it was super stressing! :(\nJen: oh no. I'm sorry to hear that.\nBob: Thanks, it always sucks when you have to say goodbye.. but shes better off now without pain. Do you have any pets?\nJen: I don't. My apartment won't allow, but we are moving soon I hope to get a cat.\n" ]

sad

when my dog had puppies

[ "Bob: my dog had puppies\nJen: That is awesome. What type of dog do you have?\nBob: i have a pit bull\nJen: My mother-in-law has one, too.\nBob: they are such good dogs, and very protective\n" ]

caring

when my family bought me a car

[ "Bob: I cant not believe my family did what they did for me !\nJen: Do you mind talking about it specifically?\nBob: Of course, they bought a car for me... still in shock\nJen: haha well that's a pleasant surprise...what kind of car\n" ]

impressed

when my family went on a cruise without me

[ "Bob: My family went on a cruise without me. I couldnt get the time off work. :/\nJen: Are you sad and all alone now?\nBob: Yeah I am and it sucks.\nJen: Maybe you can find a new friend!\n" ]

lonely

when my food wasnt cooked right

[ "Bob: i had to send my food back tonight at the restaurant. we were at my favorite restaurant\nJen: why did you have to send it back? what happend\nBob: i am normally not picky with mistakes on my food,,,but i ordered a chicken sandwch and the chicken was still very pink/ red in the middle\nJen: good thing you returned it! rare or whatever they call it meat is actually very dangerous for you espcially coming from a restaurant good thing you did that!\n" ]

disgusted

when my friend said she would return my car

[ "Bob: I am kind of nervous but hopeful...\nJen: About what exactly?\nBob: I let my friend borrow my car today.\nJen: What did he need it for?\n" ]

trusting

when my friend told me she was coming to see me

[ "Bob: My friend told me she was coming to visit for the holidays.! Exciting.\nJen: i bet you are excited\nBob: I am really and also in shock.\nJen: havent seen her for a while ?\n" ]

surprised

when my friend wanted to borrow money

[ "Bob: My friend asked me to borrow some money and I let him.\nJen: How did that end?\nBob: IDK yet still waiting to see if he actually pays me back. I didnt want to really do it but I did.\nJen: Well we give in to our friends. Hopefully he pays you back and not ruin your friendship.\n" ]

apprehensive

when my friend wanted to move into my house that i have up for sale.

[ "Bob: My friend asked to move into my home that I am selling and live there for free until she can find a place.\nJen: Yikes, that's a tough place to be in. She's very forward for asking something like that too.\nBob: I know shes a pretty close friend, but its still scary the thought of letting someone move in. They say dont deal with friends or family when it comes to business.\nJen: They do and you never know what could happen, let's say you guys get into a fight and then she trashes your house! Not a good outcome!\n" ]

apprehensive

when my friends went out without me, and didnt invite me.

[ "Bob: My friends went out last night without me, and didnt even bother to ask me if I wanted to join them.\nJen: Wow, they don't sound like good friends to me.\nBob: Yeah it made me feel really bad especially since im new to the area.\nJen: You should give them the cold shoulder next time you see them. That's what I would do.\n" ]

lonely

when my girl friend left me

[ "Bob: a while back when my girl friend left me i was a little bummed out about it for a while , everything was different for me\nJen: That's not cool, I hope you find someone new.\nBob: yeah me too thank you for that , i feel a whole lot better now after time passed - time for the most all heals all\nJen: This is true.\n" ]

lonely

when my girl friend left me i felt so alone

[ "Bob: when my long time girl friend left me , i felt so alone even tho i have family and friends around me i just was not there i lost a lot of weight too\nJen: I'm sorry to hear that. That's a pretty common response to break ups. A lot of people go through it, so you're not alone! I hope you pull through soon.\nBob: thank you for your honest response , and i did get over it , just took a few months\nJen: That's great to hear! I'm sure you'll find someone better soon.\n" ]

lonely

when my girlfriend cheated

[ "Bob: i hate when people are unfaithful to there relationship\nJen: Did your girlfriend cheat on you?\nBob: yes a long time ago she did\nJen: But most people are still faithful in their relationship\n" ]

angry

when my girlfriend got sick

[ "Bob: I remember the one time my girlfriend got really sick , i stayed by her side and did everything for her , cooked for her i just wanted her to feel the best\nJen: She's one lucky girl!\nBob: thank you , shes always there for me , even when i come grumpy as hell from work she loves me either way\nJen: How long have you guys been together?\n" ]

caring

when my grandpa died i couldnt take it

[ "Bob: when my grandpa died i was so sad, i did not know if i could move on\nJen: Oh, that is just awful. Losing someone is so hard.\nBob: i could not believe it\nJen: Was he ill or was it sudden? Either way, it's still painful.\n" ]

sad

when my health issues resolved

[ "Bob: I have had so many health issues this year. It is been crucial to find the silver linings\nJen: Finding things to be grateful for have saved my sanity\nBob: On the one hand, I could see how you would feel that way, but on the other hand it was a really responsible thing you did. Do you get out often to the batting cage with your kids?\n" ]

grateful

when my hit her head

[ "Bob: My child hit their head really hard the other day, and caused the lip to split open. ugh\nJen: Oh no! Is he/she okay?\nBob: yeah he is okay, but it was so scary. I freaked out when i seen blood.\nJen: Blood makes me freak out too. That is pretty scary! I'm glad they are okay.\n" ]

afraid

when my house caught on fire.

[ "Bob: My house caught on fire. It was one of the worst real life nightmares ever.\nJen: I believe that, how did it happen?\nBob: electrical fire.. super scary! started in the panel box\nJen: That is scary, it is not even your fault at all either\n" ]

devastated

when my job fired me during maternity leave

[ "Bob: My job laid me off during my maternity leave.\nJen: That is horrible! How could they justify doing that? You must have been disgusted with them!\nBob: I am honestly, and just so scary not knowing how you will support your newborn child. It was a nightmare.\nJen: I can imagine. I hope it all works out for the best and that you are able to come away from this as a stronger person.\n" ]

afraid

when my mom is dying I dont know what to do. I felt scared for the next thing will happened to her and to us.

[ "Bob: seeing your love one dying frightened me. I cant control myself to think about it.\nJen: What even made you think about that?\nBob: well, for one I am not prepared and for two this is the first time I felt this.\nJen: Think of positive thinks instead, you have control over that.\n" ]

apprehensive

when my mom showed up at my new apartment

[ "Bob: My mom came to my new apartment the other day. I didnt expect it\nJen: Was that an issue for some reason?\nBob: No not at all just couldnt believe it because she lives in another state!\nJen: Oh, okay. Well then it was a nice surprise.\n" ]

surprised

when my mom started yelling at someone in the store for no reason.

[ "Bob: My mom has turrets and screams at people for no reason.\nJen: That must be very challenging to deal with at times.\nBob: It is very challenging to deal with, along with being very embarrassing. Sometimes I am ashamed of her.\nJen: I can understand being emabarrassed by that as well.\n" ]

ashamed

when my mother in law fell on ice

[ "Bob: My mother in law came to visit for the first time and fell so hard on ice. It was scary.\nJen: Did she break anything ? How old is she ?\nBob: Shes older so thats was it was so scary. She did end up injuring her hip.\nJen: Hopefully no breaks.\n" ]

afraid