lighteval/empathetic_dialogues · Datasets at Hugging Face

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waiting for my twins to be born	[ "Bob: my twins will be born tomorrow morning! i wont be able to sleep tonight\nJen: Double the fun, are these your first children?\nBob: no ,luckily they are not..otherwise i think i would be terrified. haha..\nJen: Congrats, you should try to sleep some thou.\n" ]	anxious
waiting for the birth of my new kid	[ "Bob: my new baby will be born tomorrow morning!!i probable wont sleep tonight\nJen: That is so exciting. Is this your first?\nBob: yes it is ! im am very nervous and excited\nJen: I guess you have a plan to induce labor, or a scheduled C-section?\n" ]	excited
waiting on a call	[ "Bob: i need to hear from a friend hes been ill\nJen: That's an unfortunate situation. What's the diagnosis?\nBob: not sure when he shakes his leg it hurts\nJen: I see. He should probably get that checked out by a doctor. It's best to check out these things I think.\n" ]	anxious
waiting on a package to come	[ "Bob: Im so ready waiting for my package to arrive today.\nJen: I love package delivery days! I've got a couple coming as well. What are you waiting for?\nBob: I am waiting on a fitness machine to come.\nJen: Oh wow, a big package! Hope you enjoy it!\n" ]	anticipating
waiting to hear if i got a job or not.	[ "Bob: i cant get any sleep. i want to know if i got the job or not.\nJen: hope you get the job , i would feel the exact same way\nBob: i have a very good feeling about it!!\nJen: i really hope you get it\n" ]	excited
waiting to hear if i got the job	[ "Bob: cant wait to get the phone call about the new job. i fell very good about it\nJen: That's good. Your interview must have went really well.\nBob: it did.i felt like he was eating out of the palm of my hand\nJen: Well I hope you get it then.\n" ]	hopeful
waiting to test results	[ "Bob: i took my pharmacy certification exam today. i felt really good and prepared for it\nJen: I hope you pass! You tried your best\nBob: thank you . i sure did try hard\nJen: You should celebrate when you hear back!\n" ]	confident
waitng for my son to be born	[ "Bob: my son will be born tomorrow morning !\nJen: Congratulations! What will be his name?\nBob: Waldo Geraldo Faldo III\nJen: That is such a manly name if I ever heard one.\n" ]	anticipating
was at the store the other day and this random lady kept asking me my political party. She was very weird.	[ "Bob: This lady at my grocery store was obssed with asking me my political party. I had to almost run away from her.\nJen: shees! some people just dont understand some things others just dont care to talk about\nBob: I felt strange afterwards. I lost a little hope in society.lol\nJen: it happens everywhere. some poeple are just too dense to realize .\n" ]	apprehensive
was going in for a test and was very excited because i knew i would pass! it was not hard since i was so peppy!	[ "Bob: I was so happy today. I woke up early and ate a good breakfast then went in for my test and I know i passed it !\nJen: Great news! You must be feeling pretty good today.\nBob: I am! it is like im on top of the world!\nJen: You should celebrate with a drink or a nice dinner out maybe\nBob: I think I will tonite!\nJen: Where do you think you might go?\n" ]	confident
was happy to see my dog return home!	[ "Bob: was happy to see my dog return home!\nJen: Thank god! Was your dog missing?\nBob: yea he got out.. dang dog\nJen: haha dogs always want to go out and play.\n" ]	joyful
was happy to see my dog ricky return home	[ "Bob: was happy to see my dog ricky return home\nJen: What happened to him? Did he run away?\nBob: he got out from the backyard\nJen: Oh wow. Did you put posters up all over the neighborhood to find him?\n" ]	surprised
was irked when i saw my dog had gotten out	[ "Bob: was irked when i saw my dog had gotten out\nJen: Was the dog okay\nBob: took me a few hours but got him back\nJen: I am glad you did\n" ]	annoyed
was late to an appointment recently because I got stuck in a traffic jam	[ "Bob: i had been in some problem which dissapoints me more\nJen: What kind of problems?\nBob: +my grand mother torchers me everyday\nJen: You mean tortures?\n" ]	apprehensive
was so unhappy the cavs did not win the finals last year	[ "Bob: so unhappy the warriors won again last year\nJen: Its getting real old to see the teams who have the most money keep winning.\nBob: it just does not give me any incentive of watching the games anymore, it will be the same results each year\nJen: Something has to change. Its very annoying.\n" ]	disappointed
was surprised when my parents gave me a car as my graduation present from college	[ "Bob: i was surprised when my parents gave me a car as my graduation present from college\nJen: How exciting for you. What kind of car is it?\nBob: It was a ford focus, it was actually a car I had and was in the process of paying off, and they just gave it to me!\nJen: That was so generous of them.\n" ]	surprised
wataching an old tv show	[ "Bob: i always remember spending time with my grandparents when i watch old western movies\nJen: What movies were your favorites?\nBob: i dont have a specific movie, just the genre in general\nJen: What other genres do you like to watch?\n" ]	sentimental
watched a really good love movie lately, reminds me of myself.	[ "Bob: when i saw the main character finally get the girl, i could help but be envious of the fact that he found someone\nJen: Real life doesnt have happ endings like that\nBob: thats very true. I guess i just like to believe life is like a movie.\nJen: I like to also. Thats why I am always disappointed\n" ]	lonely
watching America's Got Talent	[ "Bob: My kids got me started watching the show America's Got Talent. It's really quite amazing how many talented people are out there!\nJen: Oh yes. I love that show I can relate to real life families.\nBob: Same here! Have you seen the one guy with the family of adopted boys? What an amazing person, and a great talent!\nJen: Yes, I saw him. Very blessed and talented man.\n" ]	impressed
watching my favorite band	[ "Bob: i am alwys in awe watching my favorite band play\nJen: What band is it\nBob: the band prolyphia\nJen: Thats a cool name\n" ]	impressed
watching my favorite guitar player	[ "Bob: i got to see my favorite guitar player live in action today\nJen: That is so cool. You are so lucky to have been able to experience that.\nBob: i am . he never goes on tour\nJen: I hope you enjoyed every minute of that. It sounds like a once in a life time experience.\n" ]	impressed
watching my little brother walk the stage was an amazing moment.	[ "Bob: When I heard my brothers name called for graduation i could believe the emotion i felt.\nJen: That's so sweet! What a proud moment!\nBob: watching him struggle all that time, It was nice to see him win.\nJen: That's great. What is he going to do now?\n" ]	proud
watching my son take first steps	[ "Bob: my son took his first steps today!\nJen: aww that's so nice! did you have the biggest smile on your face/\nBob: from ear to ear. he was so excited. it was so special\nJen: that makes me so happy! you blessed my day! i can't wait to see my son do that too\n" ]	joyful
watching my son walk the stage	[ "Bob: when my son walked across that stage I cant even describe the way I felt.\nJen: You must have been so proud right?\nBob: yes! all these years of hard work and struggle, finally over.\nJen: Very true.. I am glad it all worked out that way\n" ]	proud
watching old classic movies	[ "Bob: watching old western movies always reminds me of being a kid and staying with my grandparents\nJen: Do you like old western movies\nBob: i didnt like them too much as a kid. i do now\nJen: That's ok, I did not know much about it\n" ]	nostalgic
watching old tv shows	[ "Bob: watching old black and white western tv shows really brings back good memories of my grandparents\nJen: That must make you feel good. Any favorites?\nBob: it does. i really dont have a favorite, i never paid attention to them too much as a kid. but i do rember bonanza\nJen: Ah yes that is a good one. Where you close with them?\n" ]	sentimental
watching old western movies gives me great memories of my grandparents.	[ "Bob: watching western movies reminds me of being a child.\nJen: did you watch them with someone special?\nBob: yes.my grandparents\nJen: aw that's sweet. I'm sure they loved it more than you know.\n" ]	nostalgic
we are going to a concert sunday, i am sure its going to be great	[ "Bob: we are going to a concert sunday, i am sure its going to be great\nJen: That sounds like a lot of fun! Who are you going to see?\nBob: breaking ben and 5 finger\nJen: Awesome! They play some good music!\n" ]	confident
we got news my grandmas cancer is back. we are praying for the best	[ "Bob: sadly we got word our grandmothers canceris back\nJen: That is unfortunate, is it possible to go through chemotherapy again?\nBob: im not sure she is really old\nJen: I hope everything works out for you\n" ]	hopeful
we're kind of hurting for money right now, but luckily my parents love taking care of us, and had us over for dinner the other night.	[ "Bob: So we're a little short on money right now, but luckily we've got parents who want to help us.\nJen: That is great that they are willing and able to help.\nBob: Yeah they got us dinner and everything last night. I think they know it's only temporary.\nJen: I bet that was such a relief for you guys!\n" ]	grateful
well I started my new job this week... It is weird to be with people who don't know me	[ "Bob: well I started my new job this week... It is weird to be with people who don't know me\nJen: I'm sure. But it's a fresh start. Your the new person you can make people think any thing about you that you want.\nBob: Thats the hard part! I feel like I don't know who I am.. or that like I am holding back from being me 100% while I decide.\nJen: Just be your self then. Who cares what they think.\n" ]	apprehensive
what i have is enough for me, i don't bother about other people's stuff	[ "Bob: what i have is enough for me, i don't bother about other people's stuff\nJen: That's a good way to be. No point in being envious all the time.\nBob: yes, buddy and i wish everyone can be same too\nJen: Me too - it would stop so much hate and bitterness.\n" ]	content
when I am walking while texting I didnt see the sign in the street and and fall in the sewer. People seen me and just laugh at me.	[ "Bob: It is embarrassing falling in the sewer because of texting while walking.\nJen: Oh no, please tell me that did not happen to you today.\nBob: not today but last week. Its funny but embarrassing\nJen: Oh no, I hope you were alright! But yes that is a funny story to tell your friends :)\n" ]	ashamed
when I got upset with my daughter for something silly	[ "Bob: I got upset and blamed my daughter for something, only to find out it wasnt her fault.\nJen: That sucks. I bet you felt bad. I am sure she forgave you though.\nBob: Well shes still little so luckily yes, had she been a teen probably woulda taken a few days.\nJen: That's good. We all make mistakes sometimes.\n" ]	guilty
when I had found a dog roaming the neighborhood and i got him and keep him until i found his owners.	[ "Bob: do your neighborhood have lost dogs? mine does. i always find them roaming and keep them until i find their owners.\nJen: Thats really nice of you. Do you feed them too?\nBob: yes and i provide fresh water for the fur babies.\nJen: Awww, have you adopted any that you brought in?\nBob: no, i have a beagle and a cat. that is all i can afford to take care of. do you have any pets?\n" ]	caring
when I had my test to get a new certification at work, I felt great about it because I had workd really hard and studied.	[ "Bob: I had my test for a new certification at work. I really wasn't that nervous for it though.\nJen: You must have prepared well in advance to not be nervous!\nBob: Yeah I studied hard before and worked my tail off so I felt good about it!\nJen: Good for you! Hard work always pays off buddy.\n" ]	prepared
when I was a teenager my mother always tried to get me to be ready for being sexually active, and I knew what to do and where to go to get birth control.	[ "Bob: when I was a teenager my mother always tried to get me to be ready for being sexually active, and I knew what to do and where to go to get birth control.\nJen: I bet that was an awkward conversation. Did you feel embarassed?\nBob: I did a little bit but my mom is pretty cool. I can appreciate it now, I felt ready for anything, you know?\nJen: Well that is good she prepared you, most parents just avoid the topic.\n" ]	prepared
when I was kid my parents planned a trip to Disney world. It was the longest wait of my life.	[ "Bob: When I was in the second grade my parents planned a trip to Disney World.\nJen: Oh, lucky! That is one of my favourite places on earth!\nBob: I couldn't stop thinking about it. I would have trouble sleeping at night waiting for it.\nJen: Did you enjoy it once you got there?\nBob: Oh yes it was worht the wait. They don't lie the place is magical.\nJen: It really is. I've been to both disney world and dsiney land, I think I prefer disney land.\nBob: Why Disney Land is like one quarter the size?\nJen: I know but it feels more....authentic or something!\n" ]	anticipating
when I was little and moved into a new home I saw lights moving around in my closet one night when I went to bed. I thought it was my brother messing with but no one was around.	[ "Bob: Have you ever think you've seen a ghost?\nJen: I have seen things I can't explain. I didn't stick around to ask, I ran. But afterwards I was thinking it was a ghost.\nBob: when I was little and moved into a new home I saw lights moving around in my closet one night when I went to bed. I thought it was my brother messing with me but no one was around\nJen: That's scary. I'm not sure what I would have done if that were me. What did you do?\nBob: I coved my head with the covers and asked them to go away. I never saw them again. found out later that an old couple died in my home.\nJen: Wow, that's scary. And I would have probably done the same thing.\n" ]	terrified
when I was stuck on the side of the road	[ "Bob: I was stuck on the side of the road when I saw a police officer ride by he slowed down and came back to help me\nJen: Yikes, that's a scary situation to be in. I'm glad the officer was able to help you.\nBob: yes me too at 5:00 in the country halfway between work and home\nJen: That's rough, sometimes you really do have to rely on the kindness of strangers.\nBob: thats true got me to work on time\n" ]	trusting
when I was younger, my parents picked me up from work with a new car, which really surprised me, I was so excited to have my own car!	[ "Bob: When I was working my first job, my parents picked me up in my new car, I was very surprised, i thought I was gonna have to buy my own car\nJen: wow, that was so awesome of them!\nBob: Yeah it really was, I am still very thankful of them\nJen: I had to buy my first car and it wasn't until I was 21 that I could afford it.\n" ]	surprised
when a car almost hit me	[ "Bob: I was driving down the interstate and a car almost hit me going 90 mph.\nJen: Oh my gosh. You must have been horrified. I can't even imagine.\nBob: I was and super upset! No blinker, didnt care, didnt even look! Kept right on going too\nJen: Thank goodness you are ok though. That could have been really, really bad.\n" ]	angry
when a car almost hit me, on the interstate.	[ "Bob: I swear traffic is the worst in this city. I was almost in a car accident on the interstate going 80 MPH the other ady with my baby in the car.\nJen: Wow you too! It's crazy how many bad drivers there are.\nBob: I know for real she was literally right beside me, didnt even look once and just swerved right into my lane - luckily there was no one beside me because i had to swerve to avoid her hitting me it was intense.\nJen: Well I'm glad you weren't hurt.\n" ]	furious
when a dog was running at me in the dark	[ "Bob: i thought i was going to be attacked by a huge dog running at me in the dark!\nJen: I hate that! Where they're probably friendly, but because they're so big, you have no idea what could or would happen, so you get so defensive..\nBob: EXACTLY!he just wanted to play. but i had never met him befeore to know that\nJen: My brother has a large lab, although they're pretty sure it has to be part of something else, because it's over a hundred pounds and looks much bigger than a normal lab. She's a sweet dog, has the energy of a puppy though, so she comes tearing at you with speed and you think you're about to die.. But she's just being playful.\n" ]	afraid
when an old song came on that reminded me of my parents	[ "Bob: I was listening to pandora and an old song came on that reminded me of my parents.\nJen: What was it ? I'm a music lover.\nBob: Johnny B Good! A solid gold oldie! Brought back so many memories.\nJen: That is one of the tunes that is on the gold record flying out of our solar system on the Voyager probe.\nBob: hahah yessss! nailed it.\n" ]	sentimental
when dosnt stop talking	[ "Bob: i hate when someone dosnt take the hint and will not stop talking\nJen: I agree. That is rude and annoying. How do you handle it?\nBob: i try not to be rude, but sometimes people are too dense to get hints so you have to be more direct\nJen: I generally tend to start walking away from them.\n" ]	annoyed
when ever i lose my losing streak on a arcade game i feel bummed	[ "Bob: I love video games , i used to love going to the arcades i would rack so many wins , and usually bummed when i would lose , ah the good old days\nJen: That sounds fun! The arcades were always kind of noisy for me though.\nBob: Its not for everyone , everytime i see an arcade its a blast from the past\nJen: You should go in a play some!\n" ]	devastated
when i applied for a new job i was very happy	[ "Bob: i am very confident i got this new job\nJen: That's awesome! I hope you get the good news soon.\nBob: i am excited to hear back!\nJen: Early congratulations to ya!\n" ]	hopeful
when i ate all the ice cream	[ "Bob: i ate all of the ice cream today, i feel bad\nJen: Why? How much did you eat?\nBob: a half a gallon\nJen: Wow! Was it good, anyways? Maybe you could buy more?\nBob: it was rocky road, i think i will replace\n" ]	guilty
when i benched 225 lb	[ "Bob: i remember the first time a benched 225 , i was so happy and i weighed 140 lbs !!!\nJen: Whoa, that is really impressive! How much do you bench now?\nBob: i dont bench at all , that was a while back but i will never forget that moment lol\nJen: It's cool to always remember those milestones. Helps to keep us motivated.\n" ]	proud
when i bought myself a new phone and not my wife	[ "Bob: Im feeling a little bad about what I did maybe I shouldnt maybe I should idk.\nJen: I'll be the judge of that\nBob: My wife and I both needed new phones, but I could only afford 1 and I ended up buying 1 for myself. I am going to buy her one in a few months but I still feel real bad about it.\nJen: That's nothing. As long as you still get her a phone. I wouldnt be mad\nBob: Yeah but I can feel the tension!\nJen: Well give her the new phone and then you get one later. Happy wife happy life\n" ]	guilty
when i broke my favorit glasses	[ "Bob: i broke my expensive favorite pair of glasses. im blind without them\nJen: Oh no, what are going to do?\nBob: i am livid...i have contact lenses. but i love my glasses\nJen: I hope they can fix your glasses.\n" ]	furious
when i came across an old diary	[ "Bob: Today I came across an old diary that I wrote in when I was younger.\nJen: How does it hold up now?\nBob: Its holding up pretty good! :) looks brand new still lol\nJen: well that is good, that seems rare!\n" ]	sentimental
when i came across an old letter from high school	[ "Bob: I came across an old letter from high school from one of my best friends.\nJen: That's really cool, do you still keep in contact with them?\nBob: Barely, things usually change after highschool. Its too bad. It was nice to come across tho and have memories.\nJen: Yeah for sure, i hardly speak with any of my highschool friends either.\n" ]	sentimental
when i came across an old photo book from high school	[ "Bob: I came across an old highschool photo book. Memories.\nJen: good memories ?\nBob: Yeah a lot of good memories.\nJen: thats always good\n" ]	sentimental
when i came across my parents old wedding rings	[ "Bob: I was cleaning out my house the other day and came across my parents old wedding rings.\nJen: Oh, that is exciting. What did you do with them?\nBob: I put them together on a necklace so I can wear them. :)\nJen: That's a great idea. Such a good way to preserve a memory.\n" ]	sentimental
when i came home to a clean house, and dinner made after a bad day	[ "Bob: I literally had the worst day every yesterday at work, but when I came home my entire night was made perfect! Guess what I had waiting for me?\nJen: No idea, what was it?\nBob: A spotless clean home, and HOT dinner on the table. Its priceless to get hot food when you are a mom. lol\nJen: I love having a clean home and warm food! No better feeling. Did your husband do this for u?\n" ]	surprised
when i didnt get to go with my family	[ "Bob: I really wanted to go with my family on vacation but I couldnt go and it sucks.\nJen: That's such a shame. Could you perhaps join them for a couple of days?\nBob: No I cant you know how work can be! ugh adult life right.\nJen: Yeah. Oh to be a kid again and not have to deal with all that! So sorry you're going to miss time with your family. Hopefully they'll take lots of photos!\n" ]	disappointed
when i didnt paint the house the right color	[ "Bob: I tried to paint my house one color and it turned out another color.\nJen: that is no good, I am sorry that happened to you\nBob: Thanks, yeah its a bummer\nJen: It happens I suppose, maybe there is some sort of refund policy where you bought it from\n" ]	disappointed
when i don't know if i have a busy day coming up the next day the unknown drives me crazy	[ "Bob: when i don't know if i have a busy day coming up the next day the unknown drives me crazy\nJen: I can relate to that, the late night anxiety of the unknown. Hate that.\nBob: it's like i'm going to lay down in bed and go to sleep. just kidding here's your stress all jumbled up in a mile ong list. lol\nJen: It always seems to wait til your head hits the pillow, then BAM!\nBob: exactly. it's like the hamster is sleeping all day then it goes crazy at bed time.\n" ]	anxious
when i don't know what's going to happen it gives me so much stress	[ "Bob: when i don't know what's going to happen it gives me so much stress\nJen: I completely understand\nBob: it's like the first day at a new job or in a doctor's office waiting room\nJen: I feel for you and hope you have a way to manage it\nBob: i try to make it work\n" ]	anxious
when i ever i work with the fastest co workers im happy	[ "Bob: everytime before clocking in i look at the schedule , when i see a bunch of fast workers on the list im so happy , like we are getting out early today\nJen: That's good to have a bunch of people working with you that are fast and good at their job. I bet it makes everyone's job a lot easier.\nBob: it sure does , when i see the list and its all the worst employees i always think its gonna be a really long day\nJen: I remember days like that - they always seem to last forever!\n" ]	excited
when i failed the test at school	[ "Bob: I felt so down when i failed the test at school and didnt win\nJen: What was the prize you didn't win?\nBob: a golden medal and my name in the gym wall\nJen: Oh well I'm sure there's always next year! Was it a fitness test or what\n" ]	disappointed
when i finished high school i went to live alone	[ "Bob: it was not a good experience\nJen: What happened?\nBob: imagine living in a house alone and in my entire live i have never been alone and now being alone was the thing\nJen: That sounds very lonely and sad.\n" ]	lonely
when i forgot my wallet!	[ "Bob: I forgot my wallet the other day, and of course didnt remember it until I was about to pay at the cashiers line!\nJen: I hate when that happens, did you have to put all your stuff back?\nBob: Yup, and have everyone behind me annoyed with me and all of that fun adult stuff!!\nJen: Well it happens to everyone at least once probably, so no worries.\n" ]	embarrassed
when i forgot who someone was when they said hello	[ "Bob: The other day some \"stranger\" approached me and started talking to me like they knew me.\nJen: What did you do\nBob: felt extremely stupid because i had no idea who they were.\nJen: Oh well, its over now\n" ]	embarrassed
when i found cockroaches in my apt	[ "Bob: I couldnt sleep for a month when I first moved into my apartment. It was full of cockroaches.\nJen: That's gross! Did you complain to your landlord?\nBob: I did and it took them a month to get it fixed but they came out three times a week thats how bad it was!\nJen: Wow, that's pretty bad. I would complain to someone higher up, because that's just disgusting!\n" ]	disgusted
when i found my dads old t shirt	[ "Bob: The other day I was going thru things and found my dads old t shirt.\nJen: I am sure that brought back memories\nBob: it really did some of the best\nJen: I do love those kind of memories\n" ]	sentimental
when i found out good news in 1 day	[ "Bob: I had such an amazing day yesterday it was insane.\nJen: Oh, tell me what happened.\nBob: I ended up selling my house and getting a new job all in the same day\nJen: That sounds like a very eventful day!\n" ]	excited
when i found out i had a birthday party planned for me	[ "Bob: I felt so good when my friends put together a party for me.\nJen: do you act surprised ?\nBob: Well it wasnt so much of a surprise more planned than anything but still very thoughtful!\nJen: did you drink a lot ?\n" ]	joyful
when i found out i passed my final exam	[ "Bob: I wont forget the day I found out I passed my final exam, and my dad was promising to take me out on a vacation.\nJen: did he ?\nBob: He sure did, he always kept his promises.\nJen: you have a great dad\nBob: Thanks! :)\n" ]	proud
when i found out my dad died	[ "Bob: I remember one night I was hanging out with friends, and got a phone call that the ambulance was at my parents home.\nJen: What happened?!?\nBob: I found out he had a stroke due to the heat ( also his breathing problems COPD )\nJen: Oh no, that's never good. Is he doing fine now/\nBob: He actually passed away - his body went into a medical coma and we had to pull the ventilator.\n" ]	devastated
when i found out my mom had cancer	[ "Bob: Im feeling very positive in a deep way today about my moms diagnosis.\nJen: I hope she is okay\nBob: thank you! she will be okay shes a fighter\nJen: I bet, good luck though\n" ]	hopeful
when i found out my wife cheated on me	[ "Bob: Im still upset really about what happened, but I should just get over it.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: I found out my wife cheated on me recently.\nJen: Oh my god. You shouldn't just get over it- it is not right. Betrayal is something no one should do to another.\n" ]	angry
when i found out that my daughter had a bad reaction to her shot. it was scary	[ "Bob: The other day my daughter got her 4th DTAP vaccine and she had a bad reaction to it.\nJen: Oh no! Is everything okay now?\nBob: Yes thankfully, but I couldnt even sleep last night. I was so worried. ugh\nJen: I know that's tough. It's scary when your kids go through something like that. It never leaves you when its time to do it all over again.\n" ]	sad
when i found out the wife and twins were in a car accident	[ "Bob: when i heard my wife and twins were in a car accident i didnt know what to think\nJen: OH no! Were they okay?\nBob: they were ok.i had no information at first\nJen: I bet you were relieved.\n" ]	terrified
when i go past 2 cheat days	[ "Bob: i like to exercise 5 days a week, and eat super clean on weekends i have 2 cheat days, im feel disapointed in myself sometimes when i go over ,and have 3 cheat days\nJen: Don't worry about it. Everybody messes up sometimes!\nBob: yeah i know , and thank you i just sometimes have little decipline\nJen: It just take a lot of practice, but you will get there!\n" ]	guilty
when i got a unexpected delivery	[ "Bob: i got an unexpected package today\nJen: Oh, that sounds amazing, was it a good thing?\nBob: yes. my girlfriend ordered me a couple t shirts from my favorite band.i had mentioned i wanted them last week and today they showed up.\nJen: What a nice girlfriend you have, did you liked them?\n" ]	surprised
when i got an extra bonus from work	[ "Bob: I got a bonus the other day at work and felt so blessed.\nJen: Good to hear! Congrats!!\nBob: Thanks it really made me feel great.\nJen: Hope you'll receive more bonus in upcoming days!!\n" ]	grateful
when i got home and my shampoo and conditioner wasnt in my bag!	[ "Bob: So I went out shopping the other day get home all excited to use my new shampoo and............. cant find it.\nJen: Oh man, what do you think happened to it?\nBob: The cashier forgot to spin the thing around, and I never grabbed it off from that bagging cart. ugh\nJen: I've had that happen. Are you going back to get it?\n" ]	annoyed
when i got the job i always wanted	[ "Bob: I got one of the jobs I have been wanting for years.\nJen: That is great I am so happy for you, what industry are you in?\nBob: I do sales work! Not the best but pays the bills!\nJen: Thats all that matters, and your happiness\n" ]	proud
when i graduated because no one in my family did	[ "Bob: I was the first one to graduate out of my family, it was a great feeling.\nJen: That is a great accomplishment! You must be very proud! Congratulations!\nBob: I am! Thank you! It was a special moment.\nJen: Your family is most likely just as proud!\n" ]	proud
when i had a good day and everything went awesome	[ "Bob: Today has been awesome. I just feel like life is finally coming together!\nJen: I am glad that it is\nBob: thanks! :)\nJen: Its nice to have things like that happen\n" ]	joyful
when i had an interview	[ "Bob: I had an interview a few weeks ago, and I knew I was going to get it! I was really prepared.\nJen: Well good for you. What did you do to prepare yourself?\nBob: I read over the reviews on glassdoor and the typical questions they ask.\nJen: Well good. Did you get the job?!\n" ]	confident
when i had everything ready to go for the first day at work	[ "Bob: I am so ready for my first day at my new job. I went out and bought all new outfits.\nJen: That is always a good feeling.\nBob: It is! Great to be ready to roll.\nJen: Thats the spirit. It is always exciting to start something new.\n" ]	prepared
when i had to get rid of my animals	[ "Bob: I had to get rid of my animals when I meant my wife due to her allergies. It was really difficult.\nJen: That's unfortunate. How many animals did you have?\nBob: I had 2... I had them for years. It really sucked but we tried for almost 2 years, and her allergies were insanely bad to the point of hospital visits.\nJen: What kind of animals were they?\n" ]	sad
when i had to hold a spider	[ "Bob: My friend has a pet spider and they made me hold it the other day.\nJen: thats gross.\nBob: Yeah it was huge, and I was scared to even move.\nJen: yea i wouldnt touch that no matter how much they wanted to pay me heh\n" ]	afraid
when i had to say goodbye to my dad	[ "Bob: I still remember the day i had to say goodbye to my dad. :(\nJen: Thats too bad. What happened?\nBob: He had a heat stroke in the middle of July.\nJen: Thats horrible. Sorry to hear.\n" ]	devastated
when i heard someone fighting out of my apartment at night	[ "Bob: The other night I got woke up from a noise I heard outside. I was so scared.\nJen: oh damn.. what was it?\nBob: It was some guys fighting, but women were screaming and my god it was intense.\nJen: i hope the cops took care of it\n" ]	afraid
when i learned my coworker had gotten the promotion I wanted, i was not happy fgr them at all.. I felt like it should have been mine! i felt like i had been hurt by them.	[ "Bob: hey... i just found out i didnt get the promotion i thought i was getting\nJen: Oh well maybe you'll get your blessings in a different way you didn't expect\nBob: thanks i hope so!!! another one of my coworkers got it... and i was sure it was going to be me!!!\nJen: It's cool, I got fired from my old job 5 months ago...only to upgrade to a self-employed lifestyle, making 2000 a week and hot chicks coming in and out of my apartment every night lol\nBob: well that sounds nice! are you doing marketing or something?\n" ]	jealous
when i left my family's house to study in another city i got upset	[ "Bob: when i left my family's house to study in another city i got upset.\nJen: I'm sorry to hear that. What are you studying?\nBob: i'm studying biomed, it's gonna be worth it.\nJen: It certainly will.\n" ]	sad
when i left my keys in the store and lost them	[ "Bob: I lost my keys in the store and it took me 2 hours to find them! I was a mess.\nJen: where were they\nBob: Someone found them and turned them into customer service luckily.\nJen: oh that was nice\n" ]	furious
when i let my neighbor borrow my gate card	[ "Bob: I had just moved in and my neighbor asked to borrow my gate card real quick. I let her use it.\nJen: Okay, but probably not a good idea in the long run.\nBob: I felt like she was a good person and just let her borrow it. She gave it back afterwards.\nJen: Hopefully, you've got a new friend.\n" ]	trusting
when i let my neighbor borrow my gate card after we had just moved in.	[ "Bob: I had just moved into my new apartment complex and my neighbor asked to borrow my gate card so I let her.\nJen: That was nice of you. I hope she gave it back to you when you needed to use it yourself.\nBob: She did! I usually help people out until they give me a reason not to.\nJen: That is very kind of you. There needs to be more people like you in the world!\n" ]	trusting
when i lied to a friend	[ "Bob: I lied to one of my friends, and I feel bad about it. I just dont know how to tell her the truth.\nJen: Just tell her? She will be grateful for the honesty.\nBob: Ugh... shes literally about to get married and her boyfriend has been cheating on her. I am scared to even bring it up.\nJen: Dang, that's rough. I wouldn't know what to do either. It's like you choose to be a good friend and destroy their marriage or let her get married so she's happy. Goodl uck\n" ]	guilty
when i lied to my dad	[ "Bob: I feel so bad about what I did.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: I lied to my dad.\nJen: At least you feel bad about it?\n" ]	guilty
when i lied to my daughter	[ "Bob: I told my daughter I would take her to the pool last weekend, and never did. :/\nJen: oh man did you forget?\nBob: No I just have been so busy but i feel really bad about it\nJen: well hopefully she understands too, you seem pretty guilty about it.\n" ]	guilty
when i loaned my friend money	[ "Bob: My friend told me she didnt have enough money for rent and that she needed to borrow some money.\nJen: I know you're not asking for advice but... DONT. Just dont.\nBob: I know... but I already did.. hoping for the best :/\nJen: ahhhhhh! I see this on Judge Judy everyday!\n" ]	trusting
when i look at pics of me and my brothers	[ "Bob: I love looking at all my family pictures , it always makes me smile when times were simpler and everyone was happy\nJen: I know that feeling\nBob: why did we want to grow up so quickly is beyond me\nJen: I know right. I was never truly explained the world of \"bills\"\n" ]	nostalgic
when i lost 45 lbs	[ "Bob: I used to way 187 lb , i joined jiu jitsu for 3 years before i knew it i learned a lot of skills and ended up weighing 140 i felt good about myself\nJen: Whoa. That is a big change. That must make you so happy.\nBob: it did im currently at 160 lb, moved up since i havent trained in years but at least im not at 187\nJen: Its probably muscle though so you will still look slimmer.\n" ]	proud

waiting for my twins to be born

[ "Bob: my twins will be born tomorrow morning! i wont be able to sleep tonight\nJen: Double the fun, are these your first children?\nBob: no ,luckily they are not..otherwise i think i would be terrified. haha..\nJen: Congrats, you should try to sleep some thou.\n" ]

anxious

waiting for the birth of my new kid

[ "Bob: my new baby will be born tomorrow morning!!i probable wont sleep tonight\nJen: That is so exciting. Is this your first?\nBob: yes it is ! im am very nervous and excited\nJen: I guess you have a plan to induce labor, or a scheduled C-section?\n" ]

excited

waiting on a call

[ "Bob: i need to hear from a friend hes been ill\nJen: That's an unfortunate situation. What's the diagnosis?\nBob: not sure when he shakes his leg it hurts\nJen: I see. He should probably get that checked out by a doctor. It's best to check out these things I think.\n" ]

anxious

waiting on a package to come

[ "Bob: Im so ready waiting for my package to arrive today.\nJen: I love package delivery days! I've got a couple coming as well. What are you waiting for?\nBob: I am waiting on a fitness machine to come.\nJen: Oh wow, a big package! Hope you enjoy it!\n" ]

anticipating

waiting to hear if i got a job or not.

[ "Bob: i cant get any sleep. i want to know if i got the job or not.\nJen: hope you get the job , i would feel the exact same way\nBob: i have a very good feeling about it!!\nJen: i really hope you get it\n" ]

excited

waiting to hear if i got the job

[ "Bob: cant wait to get the phone call about the new job. i fell very good about it\nJen: That's good. Your interview must have went really well.\nBob: it did.i felt like he was eating out of the palm of my hand\nJen: Well I hope you get it then.\n" ]

hopeful

waiting to test results

[ "Bob: i took my pharmacy certification exam today. i felt really good and prepared for it\nJen: I hope you pass! You tried your best\nBob: thank you . i sure did try hard\nJen: You should celebrate when you hear back!\n" ]

confident

waitng for my son to be born

[ "Bob: my son will be born tomorrow morning !\nJen: Congratulations! What will be his name?\nBob: Waldo Geraldo Faldo III\nJen: That is such a manly name if I ever heard one.\n" ]

anticipating

was at the store the other day and this random lady kept asking me my political party. She was very weird.

[ "Bob: This lady at my grocery store was obssed with asking me my political party. I had to almost run away from her.\nJen: shees! some people just dont understand some things others just dont care to talk about\nBob: I felt strange afterwards. I lost a little hope in society.lol\nJen: it happens everywhere. some poeple are just too dense to realize .\n" ]

apprehensive

was going in for a test and was very excited because i knew i would pass! it was not hard since i was so peppy!

[ "Bob: I was so happy today. I woke up early and ate a good breakfast then went in for my test and I know i passed it !\nJen: Great news! You must be feeling pretty good today.\nBob: I am! it is like im on top of the world!\nJen: You should celebrate with a drink or a nice dinner out maybe\nBob: I think I will tonite!\nJen: Where do you think you might go?\n" ]

confident

was happy to see my dog return home!

[ "Bob: was happy to see my dog return home!\nJen: Thank god! Was your dog missing?\nBob: yea he got out.. dang dog\nJen: haha dogs always want to go out and play.\n" ]

joyful

was happy to see my dog ricky return home

[ "Bob: was happy to see my dog ricky return home\nJen: What happened to him? Did he run away?\nBob: he got out from the backyard\nJen: Oh wow. Did you put posters up all over the neighborhood to find him?\n" ]

surprised

was irked when i saw my dog had gotten out

[ "Bob: was irked when i saw my dog had gotten out\nJen: Was the dog okay\nBob: took me a few hours but got him back\nJen: I am glad you did\n" ]

annoyed

was late to an appointment recently because I got stuck in a traffic jam

[ "Bob: i had been in some problem which dissapoints me more\nJen: What kind of problems?\nBob: +my grand mother torchers me everyday\nJen: You mean tortures?\n" ]

apprehensive

was so unhappy the cavs did not win the finals last year

[ "Bob: so unhappy the warriors won again last year\nJen: Its getting real old to see the teams who have the most money keep winning.\nBob: it just does not give me any incentive of watching the games anymore, it will be the same results each year\nJen: Something has to change. Its very annoying.\n" ]

disappointed

was surprised when my parents gave me a car as my graduation present from college

[ "Bob: i was surprised when my parents gave me a car as my graduation present from college\nJen: How exciting for you. What kind of car is it?\nBob: It was a ford focus, it was actually a car I had and was in the process of paying off, and they just gave it to me!\nJen: That was so generous of them.\n" ]

surprised

wataching an old tv show

[ "Bob: i always remember spending time with my grandparents when i watch old western movies\nJen: What movies were your favorites?\nBob: i dont have a specific movie, just the genre in general\nJen: What other genres do you like to watch?\n" ]

sentimental

watched a really good love movie lately, reminds me of myself.

[ "Bob: when i saw the main character finally get the girl, i could help but be envious of the fact that he found someone\nJen: Real life doesnt have happ endings like that\nBob: thats very true. I guess i just like to believe life is like a movie.\nJen: I like to also. Thats why I am always disappointed\n" ]

lonely

watching America's Got Talent

[ "Bob: My kids got me started watching the show America's Got Talent. It's really quite amazing how many talented people are out there!\nJen: Oh yes. I love that show I can relate to real life families.\nBob: Same here! Have you seen the one guy with the family of adopted boys? What an amazing person, and a great talent!\nJen: Yes, I saw him. Very blessed and talented man.\n" ]

impressed

watching my favorite band

[ "Bob: i am alwys in awe watching my favorite band play\nJen: What band is it\nBob: the band prolyphia\nJen: Thats a cool name\n" ]

impressed

watching my favorite guitar player

[ "Bob: i got to see my favorite guitar player live in action today\nJen: That is so cool. You are so lucky to have been able to experience that.\nBob: i am . he never goes on tour\nJen: I hope you enjoyed every minute of that. It sounds like a once in a life time experience.\n" ]

impressed

watching my little brother walk the stage was an amazing moment.

[ "Bob: When I heard my brothers name called for graduation i could believe the emotion i felt.\nJen: That's so sweet! What a proud moment!\nBob: watching him struggle all that time, It was nice to see him win.\nJen: That's great. What is he going to do now?\n" ]

proud

watching my son take first steps

[ "Bob: my son took his first steps today!\nJen: aww that's so nice! did you have the biggest smile on your face/\nBob: from ear to ear. he was so excited. it was so special\nJen: that makes me so happy! you blessed my day! i can't wait to see my son do that too\n" ]

joyful

watching my son walk the stage

[ "Bob: when my son walked across that stage I cant even describe the way I felt.\nJen: You must have been so proud right?\nBob: yes! all these years of hard work and struggle, finally over.\nJen: Very true.. I am glad it all worked out that way\n" ]

proud

watching old classic movies

[ "Bob: watching old western movies always reminds me of being a kid and staying with my grandparents\nJen: Do you like old western movies\nBob: i didnt like them too much as a kid. i do now\nJen: That's ok, I did not know much about it\n" ]

nostalgic

watching old tv shows

[ "Bob: watching old black and white western tv shows really brings back good memories of my grandparents\nJen: That must make you feel good. Any favorites?\nBob: it does. i really dont have a favorite, i never paid attention to them too much as a kid. but i do rember bonanza\nJen: Ah yes that is a good one. Where you close with them?\n" ]

sentimental

watching old western movies gives me great memories of my grandparents.

[ "Bob: watching western movies reminds me of being a child.\nJen: did you watch them with someone special?\nBob: yes.my grandparents\nJen: aw that's sweet. I'm sure they loved it more than you know.\n" ]

nostalgic

we are going to a concert sunday, i am sure its going to be great

[ "Bob: we are going to a concert sunday, i am sure its going to be great\nJen: That sounds like a lot of fun! Who are you going to see?\nBob: breaking ben and 5 finger\nJen: Awesome! They play some good music!\n" ]

confident

we got news my grandmas cancer is back. we are praying for the best

[ "Bob: sadly we got word our grandmothers canceris back\nJen: That is unfortunate, is it possible to go through chemotherapy again?\nBob: im not sure she is really old\nJen: I hope everything works out for you\n" ]

hopeful

we're kind of hurting for money right now, but luckily my parents love taking care of us, and had us over for dinner the other night.

[ "Bob: So we're a little short on money right now, but luckily we've got parents who want to help us.\nJen: That is great that they are willing and able to help.\nBob: Yeah they got us dinner and everything last night. I think they know it's only temporary.\nJen: I bet that was such a relief for you guys!\n" ]

grateful

well I started my new job this week... It is weird to be with people who don't know me

[ "Bob: well I started my new job this week... It is weird to be with people who don't know me\nJen: I'm sure. But it's a fresh start. Your the new person you can make people think any thing about you that you want.\nBob: Thats the hard part! I feel like I don't know who I am.. or that like I am holding back from being me 100% while I decide.\nJen: Just be your self then. Who cares what they think.\n" ]

apprehensive

what i have is enough for me, i don't bother about other people's stuff

[ "Bob: what i have is enough for me, i don't bother about other people's stuff\nJen: That's a good way to be. No point in being envious all the time.\nBob: yes, buddy and i wish everyone can be same too\nJen: Me too - it would stop so much hate and bitterness.\n" ]

content

when I am walking while texting I didnt see the sign in the street and and fall in the sewer. People seen me and just laugh at me.

[ "Bob: It is embarrassing falling in the sewer because of texting while walking.\nJen: Oh no, please tell me that did not happen to you today.\nBob: not today but last week. Its funny but embarrassing\nJen: Oh no, I hope you were alright! But yes that is a funny story to tell your friends :)\n" ]

ashamed

when I got upset with my daughter for something silly

[ "Bob: I got upset and blamed my daughter for something, only to find out it wasnt her fault.\nJen: That sucks. I bet you felt bad. I am sure she forgave you though.\nBob: Well shes still little so luckily yes, had she been a teen probably woulda taken a few days.\nJen: That's good. We all make mistakes sometimes.\n" ]

guilty

when I had found a dog roaming the neighborhood and i got him and keep him until i found his owners.

[ "Bob: do your neighborhood have lost dogs? mine does. i always find them roaming and keep them until i find their owners.\nJen: Thats really nice of you. Do you feed them too?\nBob: yes and i provide fresh water for the fur babies.\nJen: Awww, have you adopted any that you brought in?\nBob: no, i have a beagle and a cat. that is all i can afford to take care of. do you have any pets?\n" ]

caring

when I had my test to get a new certification at work, I felt great about it because I had workd really hard and studied.

[ "Bob: I had my test for a new certification at work. I really wasn't that nervous for it though.\nJen: You must have prepared well in advance to not be nervous!\nBob: Yeah I studied hard before and worked my tail off so I felt good about it!\nJen: Good for you! Hard work always pays off buddy.\n" ]

prepared

when I was a teenager my mother always tried to get me to be ready for being sexually active, and I knew what to do and where to go to get birth control.

[ "Bob: when I was a teenager my mother always tried to get me to be ready for being sexually active, and I knew what to do and where to go to get birth control.\nJen: I bet that was an awkward conversation. Did you feel embarassed?\nBob: I did a little bit but my mom is pretty cool. I can appreciate it now, I felt ready for anything, you know?\nJen: Well that is good she prepared you, most parents just avoid the topic.\n" ]

prepared

when I was kid my parents planned a trip to Disney world. It was the longest wait of my life.

[ "Bob: When I was in the second grade my parents planned a trip to Disney World.\nJen: Oh, lucky! That is one of my favourite places on earth!\nBob: I couldn't stop thinking about it. I would have trouble sleeping at night waiting for it.\nJen: Did you enjoy it once you got there?\nBob: Oh yes it was worht the wait. They don't lie the place is magical.\nJen: It really is. I've been to both disney world and dsiney land, I think I prefer disney land.\nBob: Why Disney Land is like one quarter the size?\nJen: I know but it feels more....authentic or something!\n" ]

anticipating

when I was little and moved into a new home I saw lights moving around in my closet one night when I went to bed. I thought it was my brother messing with but no one was around.

[ "Bob: Have you ever think you've seen a ghost?\nJen: I have seen things I can't explain. I didn't stick around to ask, I ran. But afterwards I was thinking it was a ghost.\nBob: when I was little and moved into a new home I saw lights moving around in my closet one night when I went to bed. I thought it was my brother messing with me but no one was around\nJen: That's scary. I'm not sure what I would have done if that were me. What did you do?\nBob: I coved my head with the covers and asked them to go away. I never saw them again. found out later that an old couple died in my home.\nJen: Wow, that's scary. And I would have probably done the same thing.\n" ]

terrified

when I was stuck on the side of the road

[ "Bob: I was stuck on the side of the road when I saw a police officer ride by he slowed down and came back to help me\nJen: Yikes, that's a scary situation to be in. I'm glad the officer was able to help you.\nBob: yes me too at 5:00 in the country halfway between work and home\nJen: That's rough, sometimes you really do have to rely on the kindness of strangers.\nBob: thats true got me to work on time\n" ]

trusting

when I was younger, my parents picked me up from work with a new car, which really surprised me, I was so excited to have my own car!

[ "Bob: When I was working my first job, my parents picked me up in my new car, I was very surprised, i thought I was gonna have to buy my own car\nJen: wow, that was so awesome of them!\nBob: Yeah it really was, I am still very thankful of them\nJen: I had to buy my first car and it wasn't until I was 21 that I could afford it.\n" ]

surprised

when a car almost hit me

[ "Bob: I was driving down the interstate and a car almost hit me going 90 mph.\nJen: Oh my gosh. You must have been horrified. I can't even imagine.\nBob: I was and super upset! No blinker, didnt care, didnt even look! Kept right on going too\nJen: Thank goodness you are ok though. That could have been really, really bad.\n" ]

angry

when a car almost hit me, on the interstate.

[ "Bob: I swear traffic is the worst in this city. I was almost in a car accident on the interstate going 80 MPH the other ady with my baby in the car.\nJen: Wow you too! It's crazy how many bad drivers there are.\nBob: I know for real she was literally right beside me, didnt even look once and just swerved right into my lane - luckily there was no one beside me because i had to swerve to avoid her hitting me it was intense.\nJen: Well I'm glad you weren't hurt.\n" ]

furious

when a dog was running at me in the dark

[ "Bob: i thought i was going to be attacked by a huge dog running at me in the dark!\nJen: I hate that! Where they're probably friendly, but because they're so big, you have no idea what could or would happen, so you get so defensive..\nBob: EXACTLY!he just wanted to play. but i had never met him befeore to know that\nJen: My brother has a large lab, although they're pretty sure it has to be part of something else, because it's over a hundred pounds and looks much bigger than a normal lab. She's a sweet dog, has the energy of a puppy though, so she comes tearing at you with speed and you think you're about to die.. But she's just being playful.\n" ]

afraid

when an old song came on that reminded me of my parents

[ "Bob: I was listening to pandora and an old song came on that reminded me of my parents.\nJen: What was it ? I'm a music lover.\nBob: Johnny B Good! A solid gold oldie! Brought back so many memories.\nJen: That is one of the tunes that is on the gold record flying out of our solar system on the Voyager probe.\nBob: hahah yessss! nailed it.\n" ]

sentimental

when dosnt stop talking

[ "Bob: i hate when someone dosnt take the hint and will not stop talking\nJen: I agree. That is rude and annoying. How do you handle it?\nBob: i try not to be rude, but sometimes people are too dense to get hints so you have to be more direct\nJen: I generally tend to start walking away from them.\n" ]

annoyed

when ever i lose my losing streak on a arcade game i feel bummed

[ "Bob: I love video games , i used to love going to the arcades i would rack so many wins , and usually bummed when i would lose , ah the good old days\nJen: That sounds fun! The arcades were always kind of noisy for me though.\nBob: Its not for everyone , everytime i see an arcade its a blast from the past\nJen: You should go in a play some!\n" ]

devastated

when i applied for a new job i was very happy

[ "Bob: i am very confident i got this new job\nJen: That's awesome! I hope you get the good news soon.\nBob: i am excited to hear back!\nJen: Early congratulations to ya!\n" ]

hopeful

when i ate all the ice cream

[ "Bob: i ate all of the ice cream today, i feel bad\nJen: Why? How much did you eat?\nBob: a half a gallon\nJen: Wow! Was it good, anyways? Maybe you could buy more?\nBob: it was rocky road, i think i will replace\n" ]

guilty

when i benched 225 lb

[ "Bob: i remember the first time a benched 225 , i was so happy and i weighed 140 lbs !!!\nJen: Whoa, that is really impressive! How much do you bench now?\nBob: i dont bench at all , that was a while back but i will never forget that moment lol\nJen: It's cool to always remember those milestones. Helps to keep us motivated.\n" ]

proud

when i bought myself a new phone and not my wife

[ "Bob: Im feeling a little bad about what I did maybe I shouldnt maybe I should idk.\nJen: I'll be the judge of that\nBob: My wife and I both needed new phones, but I could only afford 1 and I ended up buying 1 for myself. I am going to buy her one in a few months but I still feel real bad about it.\nJen: That's nothing. As long as you still get her a phone. I wouldnt be mad\nBob: Yeah but I can feel the tension!\nJen: Well give her the new phone and then you get one later. Happy wife happy life\n" ]

guilty

when i broke my favorit glasses

[ "Bob: i broke my expensive favorite pair of glasses. im blind without them\nJen: Oh no, what are going to do?\nBob: i am livid...i have contact lenses. but i love my glasses\nJen: I hope they can fix your glasses.\n" ]

furious

when i came across an old diary

[ "Bob: Today I came across an old diary that I wrote in when I was younger.\nJen: How does it hold up now?\nBob: Its holding up pretty good! :) looks brand new still lol\nJen: well that is good, that seems rare!\n" ]

sentimental

when i came across an old letter from high school

[ "Bob: I came across an old letter from high school from one of my best friends.\nJen: That's really cool, do you still keep in contact with them?\nBob: Barely, things usually change after highschool. Its too bad. It was nice to come across tho and have memories.\nJen: Yeah for sure, i hardly speak with any of my highschool friends either.\n" ]

sentimental

when i came across an old photo book from high school

[ "Bob: I came across an old highschool photo book. Memories.\nJen: good memories ?\nBob: Yeah a lot of good memories.\nJen: thats always good\n" ]

sentimental

when i came across my parents old wedding rings

[ "Bob: I was cleaning out my house the other day and came across my parents old wedding rings.\nJen: Oh, that is exciting. What did you do with them?\nBob: I put them together on a necklace so I can wear them. :)\nJen: That's a great idea. Such a good way to preserve a memory.\n" ]

sentimental

when i came home to a clean house, and dinner made after a bad day

[ "Bob: I literally had the worst day every yesterday at work, but when I came home my entire night was made perfect! Guess what I had waiting for me?\nJen: No idea, what was it?\nBob: A spotless clean home, and HOT dinner on the table. Its priceless to get hot food when you are a mom. lol\nJen: I love having a clean home and warm food! No better feeling. Did your husband do this for u?\n" ]

surprised

when i didnt get to go with my family

[ "Bob: I really wanted to go with my family on vacation but I couldnt go and it sucks.\nJen: That's such a shame. Could you perhaps join them for a couple of days?\nBob: No I cant you know how work can be! ugh adult life right.\nJen: Yeah. Oh to be a kid again and not have to deal with all that! So sorry you're going to miss time with your family. Hopefully they'll take lots of photos!\n" ]

disappointed

when i didnt paint the house the right color

[ "Bob: I tried to paint my house one color and it turned out another color.\nJen: that is no good, I am sorry that happened to you\nBob: Thanks, yeah its a bummer\nJen: It happens I suppose, maybe there is some sort of refund policy where you bought it from\n" ]

disappointed

when i don't know if i have a busy day coming up the next day the unknown drives me crazy

[ "Bob: when i don't know if i have a busy day coming up the next day the unknown drives me crazy\nJen: I can relate to that, the late night anxiety of the unknown. Hate that.\nBob: it's like i'm going to lay down in bed and go to sleep. just kidding here's your stress all jumbled up in a mile ong list. lol\nJen: It always seems to wait til your head hits the pillow, then BAM!\nBob: exactly. it's like the hamster is sleeping all day then it goes crazy at bed time.\n" ]

anxious

when i don't know what's going to happen it gives me so much stress

[ "Bob: when i don't know what's going to happen it gives me so much stress\nJen: I completely understand\nBob: it's like the first day at a new job or in a doctor's office waiting room\nJen: I feel for you and hope you have a way to manage it\nBob: i try to make it work\n" ]

anxious

when i ever i work with the fastest co workers im happy

[ "Bob: everytime before clocking in i look at the schedule , when i see a bunch of fast workers on the list im so happy , like we are getting out early today\nJen: That's good to have a bunch of people working with you that are fast and good at their job. I bet it makes everyone's job a lot easier.\nBob: it sure does , when i see the list and its all the worst employees i always think its gonna be a really long day\nJen: I remember days like that - they always seem to last forever!\n" ]

excited

when i failed the test at school

[ "Bob: I felt so down when i failed the test at school and didnt win\nJen: What was the prize you didn't win?\nBob: a golden medal and my name in the gym wall\nJen: Oh well I'm sure there's always next year! Was it a fitness test or what\n" ]

disappointed

when i finished high school i went to live alone

[ "Bob: it was not a good experience\nJen: What happened?\nBob: imagine living in a house alone and in my entire live i have never been alone and now being alone was the thing\nJen: That sounds very lonely and sad.\n" ]

lonely

when i forgot my wallet!

[ "Bob: I forgot my wallet the other day, and of course didnt remember it until I was about to pay at the cashiers line!\nJen: I hate when that happens, did you have to put all your stuff back?\nBob: Yup, and have everyone behind me annoyed with me and all of that fun adult stuff!!\nJen: Well it happens to everyone at least once probably, so no worries.\n" ]

embarrassed

when i forgot who someone was when they said hello

[ "Bob: The other day some \"stranger\" approached me and started talking to me like they knew me.\nJen: What did you do\nBob: felt extremely stupid because i had no idea who they were.\nJen: Oh well, its over now\n" ]

embarrassed

when i found cockroaches in my apt

[ "Bob: I couldnt sleep for a month when I first moved into my apartment. It was full of cockroaches.\nJen: That's gross! Did you complain to your landlord?\nBob: I did and it took them a month to get it fixed but they came out three times a week thats how bad it was!\nJen: Wow, that's pretty bad. I would complain to someone higher up, because that's just disgusting!\n" ]

disgusted

when i found my dads old t shirt

[ "Bob: The other day I was going thru things and found my dads old t shirt.\nJen: I am sure that brought back memories\nBob: it really did some of the best\nJen: I do love those kind of memories\n" ]

sentimental

when i found out good news in 1 day

[ "Bob: I had such an amazing day yesterday it was insane.\nJen: Oh, tell me what happened.\nBob: I ended up selling my house and getting a new job all in the same day\nJen: That sounds like a very eventful day!\n" ]

excited

when i found out i had a birthday party planned for me

[ "Bob: I felt so good when my friends put together a party for me.\nJen: do you act surprised ?\nBob: Well it wasnt so much of a surprise more planned than anything but still very thoughtful!\nJen: did you drink a lot ?\n" ]

joyful

when i found out i passed my final exam

[ "Bob: I wont forget the day I found out I passed my final exam, and my dad was promising to take me out on a vacation.\nJen: did he ?\nBob: He sure did, he always kept his promises.\nJen: you have a great dad\nBob: Thanks! :)\n" ]

proud

when i found out my dad died

[ "Bob: I remember one night I was hanging out with friends, and got a phone call that the ambulance was at my parents home.\nJen: What happened?!?\nBob: I found out he had a stroke due to the heat ( also his breathing problems COPD )\nJen: Oh no, that's never good. Is he doing fine now/\nBob: He actually passed away - his body went into a medical coma and we had to pull the ventilator.\n" ]

devastated

when i found out my mom had cancer

[ "Bob: Im feeling very positive in a deep way today about my moms diagnosis.\nJen: I hope she is okay\nBob: thank you! she will be okay shes a fighter\nJen: I bet, good luck though\n" ]

hopeful

when i found out my wife cheated on me

[ "Bob: Im still upset really about what happened, but I should just get over it.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: I found out my wife cheated on me recently.\nJen: Oh my god. You shouldn't just get over it- it is not right. Betrayal is something no one should do to another.\n" ]

angry

when i found out that my daughter had a bad reaction to her shot. it was scary

[ "Bob: The other day my daughter got her 4th DTAP vaccine and she had a bad reaction to it.\nJen: Oh no! Is everything okay now?\nBob: Yes thankfully, but I couldnt even sleep last night. I was so worried. ugh\nJen: I know that's tough. It's scary when your kids go through something like that. It never leaves you when its time to do it all over again.\n" ]

sad

when i found out the wife and twins were in a car accident

[ "Bob: when i heard my wife and twins were in a car accident i didnt know what to think\nJen: OH no! Were they okay?\nBob: they were ok.i had no information at first\nJen: I bet you were relieved.\n" ]

terrified

when i go past 2 cheat days

[ "Bob: i like to exercise 5 days a week, and eat super clean on weekends i have 2 cheat days, im feel disapointed in myself sometimes when i go over ,and have 3 cheat days\nJen: Don't worry about it. Everybody messes up sometimes!\nBob: yeah i know , and thank you i just sometimes have little decipline\nJen: It just take a lot of practice, but you will get there!\n" ]

guilty

when i got a unexpected delivery

[ "Bob: i got an unexpected package today\nJen: Oh, that sounds amazing, was it a good thing?\nBob: yes. my girlfriend ordered me a couple t shirts from my favorite band.i had mentioned i wanted them last week and today they showed up.\nJen: What a nice girlfriend you have, did you liked them?\n" ]

surprised

when i got an extra bonus from work

[ "Bob: I got a bonus the other day at work and felt so blessed.\nJen: Good to hear! Congrats!!\nBob: Thanks it really made me feel great.\nJen: Hope you'll receive more bonus in upcoming days!!\n" ]

grateful

when i got home and my shampoo and conditioner wasnt in my bag!

[ "Bob: So I went out shopping the other day get home all excited to use my new shampoo and............. cant find it.\nJen: Oh man, what do you think happened to it?\nBob: The cashier forgot to spin the thing around, and I never grabbed it off from that bagging cart. ugh\nJen: I've had that happen. Are you going back to get it?\n" ]

annoyed

when i got the job i always wanted

[ "Bob: I got one of the jobs I have been wanting for years.\nJen: That is great I am so happy for you, what industry are you in?\nBob: I do sales work! Not the best but pays the bills!\nJen: Thats all that matters, and your happiness\n" ]

proud

when i graduated because no one in my family did

[ "Bob: I was the first one to graduate out of my family, it was a great feeling.\nJen: That is a great accomplishment! You must be very proud! Congratulations!\nBob: I am! Thank you! It was a special moment.\nJen: Your family is most likely just as proud!\n" ]

proud

when i had a good day and everything went awesome

[ "Bob: Today has been awesome. I just feel like life is finally coming together!\nJen: I am glad that it is\nBob: thanks! :)\nJen: Its nice to have things like that happen\n" ]

joyful

when i had an interview

[ "Bob: I had an interview a few weeks ago, and I knew I was going to get it! I was really prepared.\nJen: Well good for you. What did you do to prepare yourself?\nBob: I read over the reviews on glassdoor and the typical questions they ask.\nJen: Well good. Did you get the job?!\n" ]

confident

when i had everything ready to go for the first day at work

[ "Bob: I am so ready for my first day at my new job. I went out and bought all new outfits.\nJen: That is always a good feeling.\nBob: It is! Great to be ready to roll.\nJen: Thats the spirit. It is always exciting to start something new.\n" ]

prepared

when i had to get rid of my animals

[ "Bob: I had to get rid of my animals when I meant my wife due to her allergies. It was really difficult.\nJen: That's unfortunate. How many animals did you have?\nBob: I had 2... I had them for years. It really sucked but we tried for almost 2 years, and her allergies were insanely bad to the point of hospital visits.\nJen: What kind of animals were they?\n" ]

sad

when i had to hold a spider

[ "Bob: My friend has a pet spider and they made me hold it the other day.\nJen: thats gross.\nBob: Yeah it was huge, and I was scared to even move.\nJen: yea i wouldnt touch that no matter how much they wanted to pay me heh\n" ]

afraid

when i had to say goodbye to my dad

[ "Bob: I still remember the day i had to say goodbye to my dad. :(\nJen: Thats too bad. What happened?\nBob: He had a heat stroke in the middle of July.\nJen: Thats horrible. Sorry to hear.\n" ]

devastated

when i heard someone fighting out of my apartment at night

[ "Bob: The other night I got woke up from a noise I heard outside. I was so scared.\nJen: oh damn.. what was it?\nBob: It was some guys fighting, but women were screaming and my god it was intense.\nJen: i hope the cops took care of it\n" ]

afraid

when i learned my coworker had gotten the promotion I wanted, i was not happy fgr them at all.. I felt like it should have been mine! i felt like i had been hurt by them.

[ "Bob: hey... i just found out i didnt get the promotion i thought i was getting\nJen: Oh well maybe you'll get your blessings in a different way you didn't expect\nBob: thanks i hope so!!! another one of my coworkers got it... and i was sure it was going to be me!!!\nJen: It's cool, I got fired from my old job 5 months ago...only to upgrade to a self-employed lifestyle, making 2000 a week and hot chicks coming in and out of my apartment every night lol\nBob: well that sounds nice! are you doing marketing or something?\n" ]

jealous

when i left my family's house to study in another city i got upset

[ "Bob: when i left my family's house to study in another city i got upset.\nJen: I'm sorry to hear that. What are you studying?\nBob: i'm studying biomed, it's gonna be worth it.\nJen: It certainly will.\n" ]

sad

when i left my keys in the store and lost them

[ "Bob: I lost my keys in the store and it took me 2 hours to find them! I was a mess.\nJen: where were they\nBob: Someone found them and turned them into customer service luckily.\nJen: oh that was nice\n" ]

furious

when i let my neighbor borrow my gate card

[ "Bob: I had just moved in and my neighbor asked to borrow my gate card real quick. I let her use it.\nJen: Okay, but probably not a good idea in the long run.\nBob: I felt like she was a good person and just let her borrow it. She gave it back afterwards.\nJen: Hopefully, you've got a new friend.\n" ]

trusting

when i let my neighbor borrow my gate card after we had just moved in.

[ "Bob: I had just moved into my new apartment complex and my neighbor asked to borrow my gate card so I let her.\nJen: That was nice of you. I hope she gave it back to you when you needed to use it yourself.\nBob: She did! I usually help people out until they give me a reason not to.\nJen: That is very kind of you. There needs to be more people like you in the world!\n" ]

trusting

when i lied to a friend

[ "Bob: I lied to one of my friends, and I feel bad about it. I just dont know how to tell her the truth.\nJen: Just tell her? She will be grateful for the honesty.\nBob: Ugh... shes literally about to get married and her boyfriend has been cheating on her. I am scared to even bring it up.\nJen: Dang, that's rough. I wouldn't know what to do either. It's like you choose to be a good friend and destroy their marriage or let her get married so she's happy. Goodl uck\n" ]

guilty

when i lied to my dad

[ "Bob: I feel so bad about what I did.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: I lied to my dad.\nJen: At least you feel bad about it?\n" ]

guilty

when i lied to my daughter

[ "Bob: I told my daughter I would take her to the pool last weekend, and never did. :/\nJen: oh man did you forget?\nBob: No I just have been so busy but i feel really bad about it\nJen: well hopefully she understands too, you seem pretty guilty about it.\n" ]

guilty

when i loaned my friend money

[ "Bob: My friend told me she didnt have enough money for rent and that she needed to borrow some money.\nJen: I know you're not asking for advice but... DONT. Just dont.\nBob: I know... but I already did.. hoping for the best :/\nJen: ahhhhhh! I see this on Judge Judy everyday!\n" ]

trusting

when i look at pics of me and my brothers

[ "Bob: I love looking at all my family pictures , it always makes me smile when times were simpler and everyone was happy\nJen: I know that feeling\nBob: why did we want to grow up so quickly is beyond me\nJen: I know right. I was never truly explained the world of \"bills\"\n" ]

nostalgic

when i lost 45 lbs

[ "Bob: I used to way 187 lb , i joined jiu jitsu for 3 years before i knew it i learned a lot of skills and ended up weighing 140 i felt good about myself\nJen: Whoa. That is a big change. That must make you so happy.\nBob: it did im currently at 160 lb, moved up since i havent trained in years but at least im not at 187\nJen: Its probably muscle though so you will still look slimmer.\n" ]

proud