andreagasparini/dreaddit · Datasets at Hugging Face

almosthomeless

64e6il

(10, 15)

lost best friend of 12 years also i "think" i have some type of skin things weather it's mites or fleas or scabies or something idk i'm guessing scabbies and i've tried the remedy for it multiple times but it didn't cure it just kinda lessened the symptoms so w/e it is i have or if it's all in my head i have no idea also been getting alot of headaches but yeah and i'm completely confused and i have no idea what to do or anything i've been researching and trying to find stuff but google isn't that good apparently, i've found out about couchsurfers, dumpster divers, and stuff i just i don't know what to do i really just wish i could start over, or find some kinda self help group or facility. Some where that could help me out with life skills and with my confusion, depression etc again im just really confused and not sure what to do.

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survivorsofabuse

5xiwnm

[0, 5]

So, a long time ago when I was in around the 2nd or 3rd grade, I went out to a diner with my family for breakfast and when we went to go pay I saw these two girls in my class. So, they asked me if I wanted to come over and my mom said yes so I went to one of the girl's house for a playdate. So, I went over there and they told me that in order for me to be friends with them I would have to do this initiation thing. Apparently it's a thing they do with another girl in our class. And it was to take off all of our clothes and play pretend.

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relationships

7qi61a

[40, 45]

It’s almost a 50/50 mindset, because on one hand she wouldn’t ever wish to be thought of or treated in a horrid way, I have corrected it best I can, and she is the kind of person to forgive and forget. It’s hard. It’s real hard to decide what to do. So that’s why I’m here today people of Reddit. I realize this isn’t the most pressing, serious, or dramatic post on here, but I stick my hand out in the hopes you can give me some guidance, some past experience, wisdom, or advice on what I can do or try so that the “here and now” are in question, and not “then and there”, so that my confession can go along without regret.

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domesticviolence

9mdt92

[58, 63]

My tourist visa ends November. Part of me wants to wait shit out until my green card gets here and then leave him. The other part of me wants to walk to my nearest lawyer so that I can hand him divorce papers, and demand money to send me and my dog back home. He said If I am wanting to go home, I should pay him back from my credit card the $2000 for immigration paperwork and $600 lump sum CrossFit membership he paid for me. What to do...

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relationships

7s2odj

(30, 35)

I don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't want help, but I am feeling hopeless with her, and I'm afraid it's going to take a toll on our relationship. I have my own mental health issues that I am actively dealing with and I just wish she could see that her issues are affecting people other than herself. --- **tl;dr**: My mother has unaddressed mental health issues, how do I get her to take it seriously and seek professional help?

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anxiety

5qos1d

[60, 65]

I don't know... I don't know what to do. I just want out of here. It's too hard. With this house and school work.

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survivorsofabuse

8u3m2p

[90, 95]

It is not like her - even when she was that age - to succumb to pressure like that. I'm trying really hard not to victim blame and immediately feel guilt when I think that way but, again, knowing my wife how I know her - as someone that's not afraid to call BS- it just makes it hard to conceive how she went along with it for so long, knowing that it made her uncomfortable, knowing that it was escalating, and then it was actual happening and her not saying no. I just can't believe these things happened on repeated occasions. I can absolutely see him pressuring her once, her not knowing how to respond when it happened, and then her saying "This is BS, I'm out" afterwards. But that she stuck around and let it happen multiple times just seems odd to me.

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relationships

7s7iw5

[10, 15]

3. Since we are both the only child, we both feel an equal responsibility to carry on our family lines, regardless of our own gender. What do you guys think would be an equitable solution to this problem? --- **tl;dr**: Girlfriend wants future children to have her last name, but I am not comfortable with that due to social conditioning and/or the backlash I would face from my own parents.

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domesticviolence

81asft

[40, 45]

How about that? No this isn't just some edgy teen, oh I hate my dad, I have every reason to hate him, for what he has done, and continues to purposely do to me and my family. For nearly killing me, for scarring us all to the point I can't even meet a nice person, or have any friends, and not wonder whether they do or don't treat their family like a lump of sh**. Nobody needs, nor should they ever have to live the life I have been forced to live. Nobody should have to call the police because they don't feel safe within their own home.

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food_pantry

859dvp

[0, 5]

I got a new job !! yay But there will not be a paycheck until end of April (start date is April14). We are a family of 5, me, my daughter-13, my boyfriend and his two teen kids 15&16. He sells insurance but it averages about 1000/800 a month income and that just barely pays bills. I get foodstamps, but only for my daughter and I, and the next date is April 6th..

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food_pantry

9l7uds

[0, 5]

In the last year I have developed some health problems. I started having seizures and because of them I had to miss work. Because of that I got fired. I was doing okay still while looking for another job by donating plasma. But my car got repossessed a few days ago and I haven’t been able to get there to donate.

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domesticviolence

87kjti

[10, 15]

An app made sense for this, since so many people have a phone. But sometimes a solution can raise more problems! If we had an app that says "domestic violence escape plan," and if the abuser checks the user's phone, that's even worse than a paper form. So here's the solution we came up with: the app is ostensibly a "quote of the day" app, just like so many others. You open it up and it just looks like any other, with inspirational quotes (carefully chosen to be relevant without appearing relevant, by the way).

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domesticviolence

9naslu

(15, 20)

I could stay up here alone, but he says he’ll be where ever we are. I feel trapped and I think it’s making me like I’m acting like a child these days. At least from my perspective. He drained my accounts and I’m financially dependent because I fear not paying bills and I have to feed my daughter and myself. In laws say they can help us...but they’re still his parents.

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relationships

7ronkg

[20, 25]

The new man almost immediately moved to the flat previously shared with her ex, which I found strange, but I know she cannot be alone, perhaps because of her troubled childhood/daddy issues. She later confessed she was completely out of her mind in this period, and she would not do it if having a clear head. They never really ended contact, despite all the hurt. She even met with her ex after 3 months apart, confessing she misses him and cried. Since then things between them got complicated.

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survivorsofabuse

6xp7fw

(18, 23)

It wasn't an issue, nobody needed to know, now I don't even know *what* people apparently "know" and are arguing about. Somewhere under all the anger about my mum making an issue out of nothing there's something that makes me wonder if it *is* a big deal. Maybe I'm just pretending I don't care? Maybe none of this even happened? I just don't know anymore.

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survivorsofabuse

9xxm6e

[50, 55]

My boyfriend didn't care. I started to get psychotic at 17. I was so scared, paranoid, had delusions and hallucinations. And no-one to help me. All this hell lasted until I was 22.

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6.8

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0

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0

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5.88

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1

10

2.648571

-0.5

relationships

7onv8v

(5, 10)

I of course understand her wanting me to be safe, but I have an IUD and use condoms 100% of the time, which she knows because she pries about my sex life. She knows I'm sexually active and I don't have a boyfriend and is really judgmental about me having casual sex. I had a pregnancy scare last week (I'm not pregnant) and all I wanted was some advice from my mom and she used it as a way to make me feel bad about my sex life. When I was younger, she would constantly slut-shame me for things I hadn't even done, and made me feel so guilty about the idea of even having sex that I didn't have sex even with my year-long high school boyfriend because of this crippling guilt. Whenever we argue she makes it a time to critique my entire personality and not just my behavior in that argument or even within my relationship with her.

40,965

1

0.6

1,515,291,682

1

7.489464

163

9.01

17.87

65.02

1

32.6

12.27

95.71

61.96

23.31

19.02

13.5

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0

4.91

0

4.29

11.04

10.43

8.59

9.2

3.07

17.79

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6.75

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4.91

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0

11.04

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1.23

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3.68

4.29

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0

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0

3.07

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0

4.91

2.45

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0

1.23

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0

9.2

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0

11.66

3.07

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3

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1

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0.67

5

7.420238

-0.095

almosthomeless

96i4s2

[17, 22]

But she's a nurse and works crazy hours, so it would just be too much for her, I think. I'm posting in case there's an option I'm missing. Any suggestions welcome. tl;dr: I have $$$ coming in, but the timing is off. Might be homeless for two weeks to a month.

807

0

0.6

1,534,007,517

13

-1.341184

51

26.21

34.73

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5.16

10.2

9.8

94.12

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0

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0

5.88

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2.5

3

1

1.125

1

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0.85

12

1.058925

0.05

relationships

7r4oeh

(5, 10)

- Constantly forgets where she put her cell phone (even though she keeps it in the same designated spot) - She was the money-person in my family. Knew everyone's bank account numbers, credit card due dates, utility bills, etc. Recently handed the task of money management to my dad because she was forgetting to pay bills. - On her way to the grocery store, forgot where she was driving to; ended up at my dad's work instead

13,848

0

0.714286

1,516,226,299

12

6.70039

75

72.8

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18.67

88

48

16

13.33

4

0

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20

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3

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1

1.70881

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0.93

5

6.966649

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relationships

7nmgmt

[10, 15]

I’m also quite intellectual, I can speak 2 languages other than my native language, English and Japanese. But I only want my boyfriend, he has a shy personality but he’s very knowledgeable, he’s like a walking Wikipedia and I love him so much. He makes me feel calm just laughing at our inside jokes, receiving a cute text from him, and ever since being in a relationship with him I’ve grown to be happy with the smallest things in life. But he never seems to be able to move on from the event from his past, or he‘s just deeply affected by his depression and negative thoughts, also all the stress from his studying in university and family really is a big problem. All of this really took a toll of our relationship, to the point that we hardly called anymore or had any communication.

799

1

0.8

1,514,900,355

2

7.765654

146

42.11

77.44

33.79

64.72

29.2

16.44

93.84

61.64

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15.75

5.48

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0

8.22

0

3.42

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15.07

7.53

8.22

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3

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1

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1

8

8.146233

0.107018

relationships

7oxnjx

[59, 64]

Update - Thanks all, I have calmed down a bit now. Will sleep on it and hopefully tackle with a clearer head tomorrow. --- **tl;dr**: Found out from stranger on Facebook my partner is most likely going to leave me, feel betrayed she posted it on a public forum like Facebook. Right now feeling useless, am introverted and quiet by nature so I don’t have much of a support network.

1,844

1

0.6

1,515,406,706

4

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80.03

50

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78.8

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0

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20

3.646377

0.058907

assistance

9gomm7

[10, 15]

* The survey usually only takes about 5 minutes (or less) to complete - but you can take as long as you like! * Please note that this survey is best viewed via a computer screen, rather than on a mobile phone. Interested? Here's the link: <url>

1,663

0

1

1,537,220,645

0

1.326667

44

79.25

58.97

61.34

99

11

13.64

86.36

52.27

9.09

4.55

0

4.55

0

4.55

9.09

15.91

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3

1

1.61386

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0

2.52883

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survivorsofabuse

6pbojm

[0, 5]

I just saw Mystic River, and went online to look at comments and all, and I couldn't believe what I saw. If you have seen the film, people claim that where Tim Robbins character's faith went to was bound to happen because of his childhood assault. Why can't movies represent people who have survived childhood sexual assault as strong? Forrest Gump, Jenny becomes a drug addict and is a mess, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang the girl dies, Mysterious Skin becomes a male prostitute. Is that really how society sees us?

21

0

0.571429

1,500,933,026

6

8.431935

90

38.89

67.16

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46.22

18

20

84.44

45.56

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6.67

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0

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20

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0

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0

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0

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2.8

2.8571

3

1

1.1429

1

1.78851

1.64167

1.90977

0.81

5

7.90486

0.159722

ptsd

7hjgtv

(15, 20)

Its hard knowing that everyone around you doesn't have these issues, It's hard that it takes an extreme amount of work just to make a normal day in life go by smoothly(which it almost never does) At first I felt like I had a grasps on this whole PTSD thing because it made sense when I first got diagnosed but the longer it's been the harder this is to deal with. Do you know what it's like to constantly feel uncomfortable in your own skin but you can never turn it off? this is the answer I give when people ask me what's wrong, because there's always more than one thing going on at the same time. I find myself drinking more than i'd like to admit,I never drank before this, anything to take the edge off. I feel like I'm having to teach myself everything all over again, I don't even know how to formulate that into words.

6,286

1

1,512,413,992

3

4.590161

161

25.28

30.97

99

10.2

32.2

8.07

96.27

64.6

25.47

10.56

8.07

0

2.48

0

14.91

4.97

17.39

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8.07

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0

1.24

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0

6.21

0

18.63

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0

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0

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0

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0

1.86

1.24

1.86

0.62

3.73

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18.01

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0.62

0

13.04

2.48

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0

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0

5.59

1.24

0

2.8333

2.6667

3

1

1.71691

1.44564

1.86432

0.67

4

4.78525

0.042778

almosthomeless

5p2625

[10, 15]

I'm going to be spending only on essentials. I need some advice though. This is new territory to me. You guys got any tips for me? Oh yes and I have a gym membership, so I'll be showering there now.

1,162

0

0.8

1,484,890,910

23

-0.772143

40

5.82

30.86

86.07

25.77

8

12.5

95

57.5

20

17.5

15

0

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15

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0

25

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20

10

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5

0

2.6

2.8333

2.6

1.375

1.1818

1

1.72595

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0.88

36

2.592381

0.068182

almosthomeless

5oji8x

(15, 20)

As you can tell, this is quite a bit more than my "income" of 250... Today, I got my car tax bill; 190 euro. We do have a wellfare/social security thingie office, but they have turned me down, because their limit IS 250 (rent excluded, but they seriously claim that my brother SHOULD house and feed me...so I get nothing) Without the car, I can't GET to the little work I get - at this point, I can't buy fucking toilet paper - my brother loses about 300 euro per month supporting me (heating, food, hygiene) I don't even know what to do anymore.

3,534

1

1,484,675,351

10

7.581776

104

17.37

7.47

90.44

12.9

34.67

14.42

90.38

53.85

23.08

17.31

12.5

0.96

0

2.88

5.77

3.85

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3.85

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3.85

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28.85

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1.92

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2.8333

2.8

3

1

1.67132

1.64045

1.84883

0.79

16

7.974692

-0.037103

ptsd

6355u1

[7, 12]

I am worried that I may have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder due to a few notable symptoms/issues that I experience. (I also have one notable traumatic experience involving an accident my father was in, he got hit by a bus when I was seventeen and almost died, which I do have nightmares and flashbacks of, but that is a different story.) Does anyone have any idea if this is possible to have the disorder due to a multitude of experiences? Thank you for any advice, help, or information in advance. It is greatly appreciated.

1,100

1

0.666667

1,491,202,323

2

8.843579

95

33.88

41.67

43.37

1.36

19

24.21

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0

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6.32

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13.68

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0

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2.11

1.05

2.6667

2.8889

3

1

1.1429

1

1.73464

1.46988

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0.67

4

9.954737

0.09375

relationships

7tcyek

(5, 10)

Then about 25 minutes later I got a message from her saying that she was downstairs with Annie and her friends pre-drinking so I came down. I asked her how long she was down for and she said the whole time as Annie was already downstairs. I asked her why she didn't let me know everyone was downstairs already, instead of just leaving me in my room by myself to which she replied "don't worry about it, it's no big deal." I said it seemed weird she just din't think to tell me for nearly half an hour to which she rolled her eyes and said "oh don't you start." I decided it wasn't worth getting annoyed about it and didn't bring it up again.

13,805

0

0.8

1,517,063,039

0

2.589318

126

6.9

62.46

63.15

3.31

25.2

12.7

94.44

63.49

26.98

19.05

8.73

0

0.79

9.52

0

7.94

2.38

13.49

8.73

10.32

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0

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0.79

6.35

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14.29

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0

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0.79

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15.08

3.97

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0

0.79

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2.625

3

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1

1.64645

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0.38

8

2.946061

-0.092778

relationships

7nk002

[5, 10]

Any problem he had, he would blame on me. If I didn’t take his side during an disagreement he was having with someone else, he would get so mad and start with the insults. I eventually got out of the relationship, and when I ended it, he began obsessively texting me up to 30 times a day, talking to my family and lying to them about what was happening, etc. He finally stopped when I threatened a restraining order. The last time we talked was in May 2017.

955

0

0.571429

1,514,865,750

1

6.468764

88

31.44

81.84

53.94

1

17.6

15.91

95.45

62.5

21.59

18.18

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1.14

0

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1.14

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1.14

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1

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7.262112

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survivorsofabuse

8vlb0k

(0, 5)

(Edit: sorry if this is very word-salad-esk and difficult to follow, this is one of the only times I’ve ever spoken about this, and the first time writing the entire thing down. It’s long, but it includes every detail that les to what happened. I would really appreciate anyone who wants to avoid any abuse or is going through abuse of an employer to learn from my mistakes, and be smarter and stronger than I was.) I had gotten my first retail job at a very popular hunting and fishing retail chain-store. I had been given the idea to work there by my boyfriend at the time.

6,684

0

0.8

1,530,558,306

9

6.995655

110

51.43

23.36

55.41

5.95

22

12.73

95.45

57.27

16.36

7.27

0

9.09

6.36

13.64

10

6.36

7.27

0

18.18

5.45

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10

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0

15.45

4.55

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0

2.73

0

1.82

0

2.6667

2.5

3

1

1.71087

1.43516

1.82788

0.92

0

6.966786

0.056204

anxiety

7z45n5

(10, 15)

Is he who I would have pictures when thinking of a love interest before we started dating? Not really. He has a different style than my normal type and different interests. However he has an amazing fun personality and our senses of humor mesh really well together. Another big thing that makes us not so perfect is the fact that he got out of his “first love” relationship of 5 years one year before we met.

14,919

0

1

1,519,202,716

1

6.373421

76

24.27

85.38

59

99

15.2

18.42

93.42

57.89

21.05

14.47

2.63

5.26

0

6.58

0

6.58

5.26

10.53

7.89

6.58

2.63

14.47

13.16

6.58

2.63

3.95

1.32

11.84

0

21.05

0

6.58

18.42

2.63

1.32

0

2.63

10.53

2.63

1.32

0

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0

18.42

13.16

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2.63

0

3.95

9.21

0

14.47

0

3.95

10.53

0

1.32

0

1.32

0

1.32

0

9.21

5.26

0

1.32

0

2.63

0

3

2.6364

3

1.125

1

1.7403

1.49254

1.99564

1

2

7.727474

0.283333

domesticviolence

9s2hhc

[25, 30]

Something like that happened again. He was angry with me and wanted me to go to another room so he didn't have to look at me but I wanted to stay (not getting involved in any conflict or anything, just doing my studying and not interacting) so he took me out of the room by force, not hard again, but I got hysterical nonetheless. After calming down I continued my studies in the kitchen, trying not to think of what had happened and where this relationship was going. In about an hour he came to me and it looked like his anger was unresolved as he was provoking me. I decided not to get involved because this time I was genuinely frightened of what was going on.

59

1

1,540,725,859

3

5.961953

127

28.75

7.83

93.14

7.54

25.4

18.9

98.43

66.93

22.05

14.96

10.24

0

4.72

0

7.09

2.36

18.9

7.87

6.3

8.66

4.72

22.05

3.15

2.36

0

1.57

3.15

0.79

2.36

0.79

1.57

0

7.87

0

4.72

17.32

2.36

1.57

4.72

0

7.09

2.36

1.57

0

0.79

0

0.79

7.09

1.57

0.79

1.57

3.15

0

13.39

4.72

1.57

16.54

3.94

8.66

4.72

1.57

0

2.36

0

9.45

3.94

3.15

0

0.79

1.57

0

2.7143

2.8889

3

1

1.25

1

1.79833

1.465

1.77114

0.8

9

6.50625

-0.30162

anxiety

5y4goa

(5, 10)

It helps with the physical symptoms, such as palpatations and elevated heart rate. However I still have attacks that force me to lay down alone for 30 minutes or more, sometimes hours. I have random pains all the time, my arm, leg, chest, stomach, headaches, etc. Constant health anxiety too, I get one mild headache and think I have meningitis or a brain tumor, etc. Well I had a checkup with him today and asked him about medicine I could use PRN.

18,381

1

0.8

1,488,931,033

2

5.679309

82

42.43

19.68

48.21

3.09

16.4

19.51

89.02

46.34

14.63

12.2

9.76

0

2.44

0

2.44

4.88

8.54

6.1

7.32

8.54

0

13.41

6.1

2.44

0

2.44

7.32

2.44

4.88

1.22

4.88

0

2.44

12.2

1.22

2.44

1.22

4.88

1.22

3.66

1.22

0

1.22

18.29

7.32

10.98

0

6.1

1.22

0

3.66

1.22

0

2.44

10.98

0

9.76

0

1.22

8.54

0

1.22

0

1.22

0

18.29

6.1

12.2

0

2.6667

2.8571

3

1

1.77127

1.65507

1.8465

1

3

4.849756

0.025397

ptsd

6b9csn

(5, 10)

Some days I can't hear music from that time period, watch a show that's remotely emotional, or just sit without tearing up. I've never been to see a shrink, although I know I should of, due to past experiences and money issues. I was diagnosed with PTSD and told I should talk to someone. I don't know where to go usually. Especially on nights like these where I can't be quiet without thinking about that night or breaking down in tears.

53,750

1

1,494,839,843

2

6.283837

81

31.72

1.84

99

2.98

16.2

16.05

93.83

60.49

16.05

9.88

0

6.17

2.47

18.52

9.88

8.64

6.17

7.41

19.75

2.47

1.23

2.47

0

1.23

2.47

0

2.47

0

1.23

4.94

0

22.22

4.94

0

2.47

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8.64

3.7

0

1.23

0

1.23

0

2.47

0

2.47

0

4.94

17.28

0

22.22

1.23

9.88

11.11

0

1.23

0

1.23

0

17.28

6.17

4.94

0

6.17

0

2.875

2.625

3

1.1429

1

1.75167

1.50833

1.886

0.75

2

6.75986

-0.088426

assistance

9w59ur

(15, 20)

I do not want to use a payday loan or inheritance lending because they take too much in interest. It’s not a huge amount of money but it will help me a lot of I’m smart with it. So, I don’t want to go to a predatory lender. Business is picking up for the holidays, I’ve taken a part time job, and will be ok if I could get a loan of $900 to take care of my car bills so that it doesn’t get repoed. I just don’t have any chunk of change to take care of either bill and register my car.

16,080

0

0.6

1,541,955,031

0

5.497297

104

45.41

4.19

32.46

96.02

20.8

8.65

97.12

56.73

14.42

9.62

8.65

0

0.96

4.81

6.73

14.42

12.5

3.85

7.69

4.81

25.96

1.92

0.96

0

0.96

5.77

4.81

0

1.92

0

14.42

0

3.85

0

5.77

0

12.5

0.96

0

6.73

5.77

0

0.96

20.19

1.92

7.69

3.85

2.88

0.96

3.85

0.96

0

9.62

0

0.96

0

0.96

0

14.42

4.81

2.88

0

5.77

0

0.96

2.8

2.8889

3

1.125

1.1818

1

1.68489

1.51463

1.8707

0.42

0

6.994126

0.178571

domesticviolence

7dkmmd

[5, 10]

He won’t give her access to their bank accounts. He refused to let her learn to drive, told her she wasn’t capable, that she’d get into an accident and kill their daughters. He’s violent, and he tried to kill himself in front of her after abusing her and that’s when she left. He is lying and saying he’s gone to more therapy than he has (she asked his therapist if he was going, no he hasn’t been), and he still refuses to give her access to their bank accounts or give her money. My friend has no options.

1,716

0

0.571429

1,510,922,331

4

5.173143

98

4.08

99

1

19.6

13.27

98.98

63.27

29.59

27.55

1.02

0

23.47

3.06

2.04

1.02

12.24

13.27

2.04

8.16

5.1

26.53

4.08

3.06

1.02

0

1.02

5.1

0

5.1

0

5.1

0

37.76

1.02

12.24

7.14

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0

1.02

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1.02

0

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0

2.04

0

2.04

0

8.16

1.02

2.04

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8.16

12.24

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3.06

4.08

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0

5.1

0

2.04

0

19.39

5.1

0

7.14

2.04

0

2.7778

2.8182

3

1

1.77023

1.725

1.8349

0.84

3

6.069286

-0.025

anxiety

9sa02k

[0, 5]

I'm a 24 yr old female and I've never had a person I could call a friend in my life. There was a 2 and a half year period where I barely left the apartment. My first job was when I was 23. Its a warehouse job and it will have been a year since I started working there in a couple of weeks. Even though I've been there for that long I havent formed any relationship with anyone there because i always avoid getting too familiar with anyone, that's my default way of being and I hate it.

1,752

1

0.571429

1,540,787,016

2

3.253475

99

10.08

15.62

97.04

4.86

19.8

9.09

93.94

64.65

20.2

13.13

0

7.07

9.09

8.08

15.15

11.11

7.07

2.02

20.2

2.02

0

2.02

5.05

2.02

0

2.02

1.01

0

7.07

0

1.01

0

11.11

0

2.02

1.01

4.04

2.02

0

1.01

0

1.01

0

6.06

2.02

0

1.01

8.08

7.07

1.01

18.18

0

7.07

11.11

4.04

0

1.01

0

10.1

5.05

1.01

0

4.04

0

2.8333

2.5714

3

1.2

1.125

1

1.68823

1.45783

1.90048

1

4

4.613901

-0.036458

ptsd

9u84s0

[10, 15]

This made me feel somewhat uncomfortable, but I laughed it off and tried to go along with it, and trust him and take it as an innocent compliment. He asked if I wanted to smoke some weed with him, and I knew already from past experience that I tend to have very bad reactions to it. He told me that if I freak out then he wouldn’t let anything bad happen to me. I was having a pretty good day, so I smoked some weed with him. It was actually okay being high.

1,021

0

0.8

1,541,372,852

4

5.857979

93

14.22

25.93

16.07

83.22

18.6

11.83

97.85

64.52

26.88

17.2

10.75

0

6.45

0

9.68

2.15

13.98

7.53

5.38

10.75

1.08

19.35

2.15

1.08

0

3.23

11.83

7.53

4.3

1.08

0

10.75

0

6.45

16.13

2.15

4.3

7.53

0

4.3

3.23

0

1.08

2.15

0

2.15

8.6

1.08

2.15

3.23

10.75

7.53

1.08

8.6

1.08

3.23

4.3

0

2.15

1.08

0

1.08

0

10.75

5.38

4.3

0

1.08

0

2.9167

2.3636

3

1

1.1429

1

1.71312

1.47126

1.90449

0.99

6

6.429234

0.045

anxiety

88mejb

(1, 6)

Recently my anxiety has gotten really bad, possibly the worse it has ever been and I’ve been experiencing panic attacks, but I still can’t justify taking my medication because I feel like I deserve to suffer. I also struggle with the feeling like I’m making all this up and none of my problems exist which I know rationally cannot be true when I’ve struggled with this for most my life, however I still can’t shift it. I don’t know if this is part of my anxiety making me feel like this or whether it is another thing I’ve made myself believe. I guess I’m just looking for some advice and reassurance. I’m just really tired of feeling this way and constantly being in turmoil with my mind.

14,213

1

1,522,537,003

12

7.436371

127

2.51

1

99

1

25.4

18.9

96.85

64.57

25.98

17.32

0

8.66

1.57

11.02

12.6

8.66

9.45

3.94

24.41

3.94

4.72

2.36

0

4.72

10.24

1.57

8.66

4.72

0.79

1.57

0

24.41

7.09

4.72

1.57

4.72

2.36

7.87

4.72

0.79

0

3.15

2.36

0

2.36

0

7.09

0

3.15

1.57

2.36

3.15

18.11

0

7.09

0

2.36

4.72

0

13.39

3.94

2.36

0

7.09

0

2.8333

2.8571

2.6

1

1.73935

1.40541

1.88438

1

11

8.666215

-0.08125

relationships

7r1thn

(15, 20)

When we returned a year ago, we had some very rough boundary issues (trying to forward face in their car, feeding baby junk, criticizing our parenting choices, etc.) with them. MIL has "anxiety and depression" and cannot address the issues she causes so FIL addresses them for her. It's the worst case of coddling I've ever seen. She does not see a mental health professional (because narcissist) and blames everyone else for any wrong she may do, which of course she does no wrong.

11,807

1

0.6

1,516,203,858

7

10.179828

84

22.77

90.47

2.82

1

16.8

19.05

86.9

51.19

17.86

14.29

1.19

3.57

0

5.95

3.57

4.76

8.33

10.71

4.76

7.14

3.57

14.29

5.95

1.19

2.38

0

2.38

8.33

0

8.33

1.19

2.38

1.19

17.86

2.38

0

5.95

0

14.29

1.19

2.38

0

4.76

2.38

3.57

2.38

0

1.19

3.57

1.19

0

1.19

9.52

4.76

1.19

0

3.57

9.52

1.19

9.52

2.38

7.14

2.38

0

1.19

0

21.43

5.95

0

2.38

4.76

0

2.7143

2.8

3

1

1.1429

1

1.79148

1.56486

1.78664

0.9

18

9.168362

-0.23

ptsd

99z5bu

[19, 24]

It made me feel so... small. After I left, I felt angry, really fucking angry. I don't want to call the office and make a fuss, I want it behind me. I'm just angry that someone could really think that way. I'm angry.

1,306

1

0.571429

1,535,129,996

9

-0.140217

43

4.56

1

98.96

1

7.17

4.65

97.67

58.14

30.23

18.6

0

11.63

4.65

6.98

9.3

4.65

2.33

27.91

16.28

2.33

0

11.63

0

11.63

0

11.63

0

4.65

0

25.58

6.98

4.65

6.98

2.33

0

4.65

0

4.65

2.33

0

2.33

0

2.33

0

2.33

0

6.98

18.6

0

11.63

0

9.3

2.33

0

2.33

0

32.56

18.6

6.98

0

6.98

0

2.5714

2.8

1

1.25

1

1.80008

1.68

1.90688

1

5

3.132783

-0.30625

anxiety

8i37ff

[15, 20]

I'm feel when I read about sth or learnt sth and I talk loud about that I feel I'm fake. I have this feeling that I try to impress someone or my knowledge is shallow and in fact I don't understand this or that well so actually I pretend and I always waiting for someone to laugh at me or correct me. In fact I feel like a shallow person with lack of knowledge $even basic$ and I myself against me by judging I'm fake, it's not importan what I know or think and generally it's funny when I'm serious because I'm so kiddo what could I know what real life is and how can I know anything. because of that experience most of the time I am full of anxiety and barely leave my house. I was even too anxious to post online.

1,786

1

1,525,839,895

1

2.472873

144

1.99

1.64

99

15.92

28.8

16.67

94.44

65.28

27.78

18.06

0

9.72

1.39

11.81

10.42

9.72

13.19

1.39

20.14

5.56

1.39

4.17

0

0.69

6.25

2.78

3.47

1.39

0

3.47

0

25.69

9.03

2.08

1.39

8.33

2.78

5.56

4.86

0

1.39

2.78

0.69

0

0.69

0

2.08

0

0.69

0

0.69

1.39

17.36

0

7.64

0.69

2.78

3.47

1.39

0

0.69

0

0.69

0

0.69

0

12.5

3.47

0.69

0

5.56

1.39

3

2.8

3

1

1.67394

1.44031

1.94829

1

0

4.410526

-0.035714

stress

8gax80

(5, 10)

- You must own an iPhone or iPod touch (5th generation) in order to participate, and you can earn up to $35 for completing the study. - If you are eligible, you will be asked to download an iOS app called REPS. You will also complete several online surveys prior to and directly following use of the app. For more information please email us at <email> This study is administered by UCSF's THRIVE Lab, which is based at UCSF. The principal investigator is Dr. Aoife O'Donovan and you can contact her at aoife.<email> if you have any questions.

17,247

0

1

1,525,201,105

0

6.023296

98

72.22

98.33

5.17

44.45

19.6

16.33

78.57

47.96

11.22

9.18

0

1.02

7.14

1.02

0

2.04

5.1

13.27

11.22

1.02

7.14

0

14.29

1.02

3.06

1.02

0

16.33

0

1.02

0

11.22

2.04

3.06

5.1

3.06

1.02

0

1.02

0

5.1

1.02

3.06

1.02

0

3.06

9.18

2.04

10.2

1.02

6.12

2.04

4.08

1.02

0

1.02

0

2.04

0

2.04

0

21.43

7.14

3.06

0

2.04

0

2.04

5.1

2.6667

2.8

1.2

1.1429

1

1.67718

1.41449

1.84767

0.5

0

6.627242

0.2

relationships

7omn3j

(5, 10)

I started my seizure while on the stairs and as a result was pretty badly injured. I broke my ankle and injured my knee. I also required stitches in my face. Let me make this very clear- I recognize that this experience must have been **terrifying** for Tom. I understand how frightening and anxiety provoking, and even traumatizing this was for him.

18,802

0

0.8

1,515,279,303

284

4.193571

62

6.3

7.34

70.28

1

12.4

22.58

96.77

59.68

24.19

17.74

16.13

0

1.61

0

6.45

3.23

8.06

9.68

6.45

12.9

0

16.13

4.84

1.61

0

11.29

1.61

9.68

4.84

0

1.61

0

1.61

14.52

3.23

6.45

1.61

3.23

0

3.23

1.61

0

9.68

8.06

4.84

0

8.06

4.84

0

8.06

0

4.84

3.23

1.61

0

17.74

8.06

1.61

0

1.61

0

6.45

2.8462

2.8

3

1

1.125

1

1.77756

1.52222

1.84242

0.94

24

5.183641

-0.364

assistance

8a4eo8

[0, 5]

So today was me and my ex's son's birthday, she left me about 3 months ago. We talked here and there but we'd get frustrated towards each other, anyways long story short. I wasn't doing much with her at the end of our relationship, I was just so tired of it all, I was depressed and at the time dealing with PTSD which I had no knowledge I had. I cut all contact with her two weeks ago, going through my mother for my son. Today we finally hung out together to shop for his birthday, we had fun, we laughed, we giggled, we just had an overall good time which we didn't for the longest of time even when together.

159

0

1

1,522,968,862

3

5.438095

121

18.49

85.87

94.46

40.65

24.2

14.88

95.87

60.33

23.14

19.83

9.09

7.44

0

3.31

0

3.31

13.22

9.09

5.79

2.48

12.4

3.31

0.83

2.48

1.65

3.31

5.79

3.31

2.48

0

0.83

18.18

2.48

0.83

3.31

2.48

6.61

0.83

0

0.83

1.65

3.31

0.83

0

0.83

0

0.83

0

0.83

0

11.57

9.92

0

1.65

0

10.74

2.48

0.83

20.66

0.83

8.26

11.57

0

1.65

0

0.83

0

0.83

0

0.83

15.7

4.13

7.44

0

4.13

0

2.8333

2.5714

3

1.1

1

1.69414

1.61982

1.90136

0.61

5

5.945873

0.052083

anxiety

736pgc

[0, 5]

I had crippling anxiety and depression during my college years and finally managed to graduate within the allotted semesters after getting diagnosed and learning to cope . I'm about to go in for a set of interviews and wonder if i should be honest about why my grades dropped all of a sudden and got back to normal (fell into depression/anxiety cycle). Also, wondering if it is overall even advisable to talk about mental health issues to your boss AT ALL in a workplace. What was your personal experience? **TL;DR did you tell your boss about your mental health issues?

1,701

1

0.571429

1,506,676,711

6

8.438152

101

73.09

78.59

61.63

1.7

20.2

21.78

91.09

53.47

11.88

9.9

4.95

0

4.95

0

1.98

3.96

19.8

6.93

8.91

7.92

0

15.84

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0

1.98

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1.98

0

1.98

9.9

0

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3

2.8

3

1

1.125

1

1.67826

1.43297

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0.88

15

8.499752

0.061111

ptsd

72sxuq

[4, 9]

I had a panic attack and broke down crying in front of my mom. She scheduled me an appointment for therapy and I just feel like bleh. I dont care about getting better right now. My whole body is in shock from that panic attack and I just feel like death. I honestly doubt I will get better

1,362

1

0.857143

1,506,525,503

10

1.688023

58

49.46

8.4

91.69

1

11.6

8.62

96.55

55.17

18.97

17.24

15.52

0

1.72

0

1.72

3.45

15.52

6.9

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1.72

18.97

3.45

6.9

0

1.72

20.69

6.9

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3.45

0

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3.45

0

1.72

0

3.45

0

3.45

1.72

0

13.79

0

3.45

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6.9

1.72

3.45

12.07

1.72

12.07

0

8.62

3.45

1.72

0

1.72

0

6.9

0

2.7143

2.7

3

1

1.1429

1

1.75691

1.69811

1.87531

0.83

12

3.045

0.247166

ptsd

975a8a

(20, 25)

The "me too" movement I've found to be extremely inspirational and empowering. I am no longer ashamed of what happened to me, but I still don't feel like I'm healing. I was hoping that these flashbacks and the anxiety, fear and dread would go away over time, but they haven't. How do people cope? What do you read?

31,719

1

0.6

1,534,220,011

11

3.534032

58

2.4

6.04

95.26

6.54

11.6

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67.24

22.41

15.52

12.07

0

1.72

0

1.72

6.9

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3.45

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0

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3

1

1.1429

1

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1.40392

1.84709

0.93

8

4.091161

0.5

homeless

9ne7jq

[5, 10]

Without my meds I can be kinda unstable, few months back I stopped taking them and ended up breaking my hand because of it. I have no real education except high school diploma and I wasn't smart enough to finish community college as I'm useless with math and science and that's all I needed to finish for a general studies degree. All I seem to be doing is existing and that means I'm a burden on anyone who tries to help me and right now I'm dragging my partner down. I just need help figuring out what to do so I can stop being burdensome and be useful and have a purpose again. I don't really know what to do anymore, but this is all I have left to try.

1,032

1

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1,539,293,858

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almosthomeless

9ksm1p

(10, 15)

I refuse to carry both of us anymore and I'm also tired of the drama between us as well. So, part of me hopes he doesn't pay the rent and that'll give me my push to really move on. Anyway, I'm ok with going to a shelter, but I worry about my laptop. I remember when I was living in a shelter when I was a kid, they didn't allow you to have certain items. I don't want to part with my laptop for them to keep it safe and it gets "lost".

12,284

1

0.8

1,538,500,889

30

2.615152

93

20.06

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78.86

83.22

18.6

6.45

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0

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0

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3

1.1

1

1.68961

1.49048

1.897

0.97

16

4.909646

0.202857

survivorsofabuse

9y9hvu

(5, 10)

It’s a long twisted story about how I found this out, but I was told by my parents that I had been assaulted by R when I was younger. My aunt, not R’s mom, had taken us to the pool and R had taken me to the bathroom to change. When we hadn’t come back in a few minutes she came to check on us and she found me naked with R fondling me and trying to insert his penis into my mouth. She stopped the assault but doesn’t know what happened prior to finding us. Remember I didn’t recall any of these events as a 36 year old.

19,913

0

0.8

1,542,573,165

4

4.720263

109

30.8

42.71

96.77

5.86

21.8

11.01

94.5

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0

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2.7

2.8571

3

1

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1

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1.64

1.84231

1

2

5.690175

-0.08125

ptsd

80if0k

(5, 10)

Check out r/kratom for some info. I personally swear by it Edit: Seems like it has a bad reputation. From my (and others) experience: If you take it in moderation and get it from a REPUTABLE VENDOR, (some 'kratom' is not actually kratom. I heard some head shops tend to mix it with bad stuff) You will have no issues with it.

4,500

0

1

1,519,694,709

10

1.760476

63

58.58

26.27

19.65

1.33

15.75

9.52

80.95

55.56

20.63

7.94

4.76

0

3.17

0

12.7

3.17

15.87

6.35

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3.17

14.29

0

1.59

0

4.76

3.17

0

3.17

0

4.76

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14.29

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0

1.59

7.94

0

6.35

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0

1.59

0

1.59

0

6.35

0

3.17

1.59

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3.17

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0

1.59

0

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0

1.59

0

22.22

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3.17

0

3.17

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2.7143

2.6

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1.125

1.1429

1

1.67703

1.36981

1.79169

0.72

34

3.653333

-0.18

survivorsofabuse

9kegfm

[110, 115]

His new wife would get mad at me for asking for basic things. Pads, new clothes for school, new glasses, ect. My grandma was the one who had to buy me new clothes and stuff because they refused to. When I told them I wanted to do Academic Bowl & BPA at school they both laughed at me and said in a mocking tone that its for smart kids. I did it anyways and won many awards.

1,269

0

1

1,538,381,302

8

2.751754

76

48.42

78.51

33.36

74.74

15.2

13.16

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53.95

22.37

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9.21

0

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6.58

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0

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0

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0

1.32

0

1.32

11.84

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0

1.32

2.8889

2.625

3

1

1.2

1

1.70323

1.59143

1.87071

1

2

2.857895

0.133474

ptsd

9i57fi

[30, 35]

Im not physically hurt. My father abd the driver carry on a conversation as if im not screaming. We get to the hospital and the checkup reveals nothing. Im embarrased for screaming. They send us home.

293

0

0.571429

1,537,669,915

7

1.793077

36

45.11

28.91

87.07

1

7.2

25

91.67

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1

0

4.698154

0

assistance

89mk7w

(0, 5)

Hi Friends! In honor of the Challenged Athletes Foundation, my dad is undertaking a great bike ride for charity and would love your support. After completing the Tour du Rouge for the American Red Cross a few years ago, he is now teaming up with the Challenged Athletes Foundation (CAF) for the Million Dollar Challenge. As a loving father, I would love to support him and his endeavor through a 620-mile ride over 7 days in California. The CAF raises money to help people with physical challenges pursue an active lifestyle through physical fitness and athletics and this is one of their biggest events.

35,631

0

1

1,522,818,049

3

11.206635

105

98.08

90.87

5.55

99

21

25.71

83.81

43.81

7.62

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1.9

0

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0

9.654692

0.187879

survivorsofabuse

9vp3fm

[0, 5]

Hi there, I'm a 21 year old Scottish student studying contemporary art practice at an honours degree level. Is anyone interested in allowing me to use their words for use in my project for university? The consequences psychological abuse has for victims is an incredibly tricky but important subject to portray through art. I have made sure to research rather heavily on the subject of the affects of mental abuse, as well as having my own personal experience with it. I will make sure to represent it with respect for everyone that has went through something similar.

345

0

1

1,541,803,402

1

10.718469

97

91.78

37.84

22.64

81.5

19.4

30.93

87.63

51.55

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0

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8.25

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assistance

9b5oxd

[4, 9]

You may also learn some less widely known information about the high energy content of some of the things you consume, which can help you make decisions about your overall diet. In addition, you can also choose to receive a summary report of the research findings. To read more and complete the survey, please click on the link: <url> Thank you! Roni Botterill

389

0

1

1,535,512,942

3

5.072974

63

86.96

98.62

47.57

95.81

15.75

19.05

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9.52

0

9.52

0

3.17

9.52

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0

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0

12.7

0

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1.59

0

1.59

0

1.59

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3.17

0

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7.94

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9.52

1.59

7.94

1.59

6.35

0

14.29

3.17

4.76

1.59

0

1.59

0

3.17

2.75

3

2.6

1

1.2

1

1.75057

1.55385

1.87008

0.61

2

5.155

0.086389

ptsd

8hdl83

(5, 10)

I made a mistake as a result of being shaken up. Now she has complained to my boss but has falsely amplified my one mistake into me being absolutely negligent and incompetent. I found out about this 8 hours ago, had another flashback/panic attack, and my heart is still pounding. I've convinced myself I'm going to get fired. I know I need to go back to counseling.

29,893

1

1,525,590,118

7

3.983476

68

29.74

9.3

97.06

1

13.6

19.12

91.18

57.35

20.59

17.65

16.18

0

1.47

0

2.94

14.71

11.76

7.35

5.88

0

22.06

1.47

0

2.94

1.47

11.76

0

11.76

2.94

1.47

0

4.41

0

1.47

0

14.71

4.41

2.94

4.41

0

1.47

0

1.47

0

7.35

0

1.47

5.88

1.47

0

5.88

14.71

1.47

16.18

4.41

5.88

7.35

4.41

0

1.47

0

1.47

0

14.71

7.35

2.94

0

2.94

0

1.47

2.6667

2.5714

3

1

1.1429

1

1.75836

1.55254

1.78342

1

2

5.817143

-0.17

survivorsofabuse

772ua3

[10, 15]

One night I was staying up late with my uncle watching movies (this was not odd, we would watch Disney movies all night together during the summer. Like I said, he was my favorite). All of the sudden he decided to propose something to me. I was six. I had no idea what any of this meant.

1,202

0

0.571429

1,508,285,639

9

2.614211

57

48.42

29.92

88.06

58.97

11.4

12.28

96.49

56.14

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0

3.51

0

7.02

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0

3.51

0

3

2.2

3

1.125

1.3333

1

1.67569

1.58889

1.92447

1

0

3.554246

0.070833

ptsd

9wt5x3

[0, 5]

Because I have! And it literally makes me feel 10k x crazier than I already feel as it is. She left me alone, meds unfilled, and then told all her colleagues I was trying to scam ADHD medication off of her, so now none of them want to take my case either. Backstory, I’ve been seeing this doctor for 3 years almost now and at first I let her know my commitment issues with mental health, and having people just leave me stranded or pass me to new doctors every week and it made me bail the first few times I’ve tried to get my brain right. So we have appointments every 3-6 ish months depending on medication change.

1,640

1

0.8

1,542,143,409

7

6.085679

120

21.25

25.24

88.91

14.3

24

11.67

85.83

50.83

20

16.67

11.67

0.83

0

3.33

0.83

3.33

0.83

10.83

7.5

5.83

9.17

0.83

20

6.67

3.33

0

4.17

5

1.67

0

0.83

0

0.83

7.5

0

0.83

3.33

0

15

2.5

4.17

0.83

3.33

2.5

0.83

0

1.67

5

0.83

4.17

0

8.33

1.67

3.33

1.67

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15.83

2.5

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9.17

2.5

0

10.83

3.33

4.17

0

0.83

0

1.67

0

2.5714

2.4444

3

1

1.68926

1.52475

1.88232

1

7

6.48911

0.088868

domesticviolence

96vr9a

(5, 10)

He loves them and treats them like gold. I love the type of father he is but I hate the way he treats me. I have no one to open up to or go to if I even tried to leave him. I’m tired of him abusing me mentally and physically me. He has cheated on me several times and each time it knocks my self esteem Lower and lower.

7,380

1

0.6

1,534,138,781

5

0.739484

70

24.86

38.74

62.17

1

14

7.14

90

60

27.14

25.71

14.29

0

8.57

2.86

1.43

2.86

12.86

5.71

1.43

10

1.43

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4.29

0

1.43

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10

2.86

7.14

0

4.29

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17.14

1.43

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10

4.29

0

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0

5.71

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10

2.86

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0

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12.86

0

14.29

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8.57

2.86

0

8.57

7.14

0

1.43

0

3

2.8182

3

1.1

1

1.81198

1.68571

1.95114

1

6

2.985563

-0.114286

almosthomeless

9sdqp7

[5, 10]

This month and last have been very touch and go. I have sold everything under the sun to keep my home but I am probably not going to make it. It's to the point I have sat and weighed the pros and cons of suicide (please don't talk about this subject.) But I've used up every single resource and realized I don't really know many people in the city I'm in. I don't have much of family any where close and none I could live with.

822

1

1,540,824,593

33

2.291972

86

15.2

5.19

97.26

47.26

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8.14

96.51

61.63

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10.47

0

5.81

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15.12

5.81

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5.81

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0

1.16

6.98

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4.65

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15.12

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6.98

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0

15.12

5.81

0

6.98

2.33

0

2.8333

2.6667

3

1.125

1

1.70447

1.47089

1.89264

0.94

17

3.64441

0.124784

ptsd

8mtok1

(3, 8)

They’re like flashbacks and everything I hated that he did , I want this new person to do to me to the point where I break down again. What the fuck is wrong with me please. These are violent degrading fantasies and they make me feel like a really disturbed person. The thought after an orgasm literally makes me cry. Someone out there has to know what I’m talking about please.

6,173

1

1,527,544,066

18

5.525833

70

47.35

38.74

78.4

1

14

14.29

97.14

64.29

24.29

14.29

11.43

0

1.43

10

7.14

15.71

10

7.14

2.86

0

24.29

5.71

4.29

0

14.29

4.29

10

1.43

4.29

1.43

11.43

0

1.43

12.86

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2.86

1.43

0

1.43

2.86

1.43

0

2.86

0

4.29

0

2.86

0

1.43

2.86

17.14

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11.43

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5.71

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0

1.43

0

1.43

0

11.43

7.14

1.43

0

2.86

0

2.7143

2.6667

3

1

1.1818

1

1.78223

1.56271

1.87845

0.93

11

5.267667

-0.345599

domesticviolence

8m1irj

(15, 20)

#NAME?

29,201

0

0.8

1,527,252,930

23

6.356558

92

4.3

99

1

99

18.4

15.22

96.74

60.87

23.91

19.57

0

7.61

11.96

0

4.35

1.09

9.78

11.96

8.7

10.87

0

20.65

6.52

3.26

5.43

0

1.09

14.13

10.87

3.26

0

2.17

0

30.43

1.09

0

1.09

11.96

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6.52

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1.09

2.17

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1.09

0

6.52

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3.26

0

13.04

8.7

11.96

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0

3

2.875

3

1

1.125

1

1.66671

1.56279

1.95929

1

4

6.422609

0.220833

anxiety

6yshns

(9, 14)

I was getting changed into a pair of shorts and was standing. When I lifted one leg to put on the shorts, I was very shaky and it was uncontrollable. Even just when I stand, my legs shake. What is going on?! I'm scared out of my mind because no one else on the internet seems to have this exact issue so I have no idea where to look.

25,423

1

1,504,843,968

2

1.695762

69

23.89

5.56

98.01

1

13.8

8.7

86.96

62.32

15.94

11.59

0

4.35

14.49

11.59

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8.7

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20.29

2.9

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0

5.8

0

5.8

0

10.14

2.9

0

2.9

1.45

0

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0

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0

1.45

0

7.25

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5.8

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2.9

0

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5.8

2.9

0

1.45

0

1.45

0

2.375

2.2857

3

1.2308

1.125

1

1.68466

1.53333

1.79222

1

2.951429

-0.145833

anxiety

8ko23g

(0, 4)

It seems like you only ever see people try to complicate mental health, so I woke up this morning and decided that I could try to take one step to start simplifying it/making it more human/honest. Don't hesitate to reach out and message me if you think any of this speaks to you. Feel free to share this guide/brain regimen to somebody you think may benefit from it. It's time to stop talking about ending the mental health stigma and actually start talking about these things more like it's a dentist visit.

7,011

0

1

1,526,763,511

6

10.477041

95

51.43

87.65

50.35

82.36

23.75

13.68

94.74

51.58

21.05

7.37

3.16

0

4.21

0

13.68

2.11

16.84

5.26

6.32

5.26

1.05

23.16

6.32

4.21

0

1.05

3.16

5.26

4.21

1.05

0

13.68

0

17.89

6.32

1.05

2.11

8.42

1.05

2.11

3.16

1.05

4.21

1.05

3.16

0

9.47

2.11

1.05

2.11

15.79

1.05

11.58

2.11

7.37

0

1.05

0

11.58

4.21

1.05

0

3.16

0

3.16

2.75

2.625

3

1.375

1

1.75002

1.5236

1.98001

0.75

2

9.738469

0.171429

ptsd

8fo9w0

[0, 5]

Dealing with ptsd from rape, and recently found out that someone who I thought was a friend sexually assaulted one of our friends at a party we were at. I get flashbacks of waking up whenever we were at parties together and I've seen him awake once or twice and even though the likelyhood is very low (given the background of what he did), I can't shake the feeling that he mightve done something to me. What he did to her is giving me feelings like what happened to her was actually me. My doctor suggested womens group therapy, but I wanted some opinions first. Any thoughts will help

179

1

1,524,965,293

1

6.293125

109

26.34

79.55

56.75

13.38

21.8

21.1

93.58

61.47

23.85

16.51

8.26

2.75

0

5.5

0

7.34

4.59

12.84

11.01

4.59

6.42

0.92

19.27

0.92

1.83

4.59

3.67

2.75

6.42

2.75

3.67

0.92

1.83

0.92

19.27

0

1.83

2.75

3.67

15.6

4.59

0

0.92

6.42

0

4.59

2.75

0.92

0

1.83

3.67

0

1.83

0

14.68

9.17

0.92

4.59

0.92

0

11.93

4.59

0.92

11.01

0.92

6.42

3.67

0.92

1.83

0

10.09

3.67

2.75

0

1.83

0

3

2.8889

3

1.4

1.0833

1

1.76262

1.53895

1.96475

0.6

3

6.348214

0.15

domesticviolence

9g2vjr

[55, 60]

I thought I did well but I was severely depressed. That weekend was my birthday weekend and he made it miserable. He said I was a brat to ever think that it was a special day. I received the silent treatment from him and him being drunk and telling me that i'm worthless and don't do anything for him. I didn't even get a gift or affection.

231

1

0.8

1,537,029,521

14

1.669857

67

1.61

18.53

59.13

8.14

13.4

20.9

95.52

67.16

29.85

20.9

13.43

0

7.46

0

8.96

5.97

4.48

14.93

4.48

8.96

2.99

23.88

2.99

0

10.45

4.48

5.97

1.49

0

4.48

11.94

0

7.46

11.94

2.99

1.49

0

2.99

1.49

4.48

2.99

0

2.99

0

1.49

0

1.49

2.99

0

1.49

0

11.94

7.46

0

8.96

1.49

0

8.96

0

4.48

0

1.49

0

1.49

0

11.94

7.46

0

4.48

0

3

2.625

3

1

1.125

1

1.73973

1.51333

1.9626

1

2

2.975714

-0.388571

survivorsofabuse

7g5p1g

[17, 22]

I just couldn't cope, the abuse I already remembered was bad enough but this...this was just too much for me to deal with. 2 weeks ago I couldn't take it anymore and took a large overdose, which ended up with me being in hospital...I now have done a little damage to my heart and shall have to live with that...I should probably point out that I am under 7st and have had an eating disorder since I was 7...it was the only thing I could control...you see I had no safe place, I'd leave my abusive home and go to school...where I was the only ginger child...sure I don't need to point out how hard that was. This is going to stop quite abruptly now, for I don't really know what else to say right now.. Each and everyday is a constant struggle and I am tired of drs telling me to be strong and just get on with life...I am 26years old for 20years I have had to be strong and "survive" well I'm tired of surviving...that doesn't mean I want to die but I do want it all to stop, I want to <url> to be happy and trust people, to realise what love is, I mean I have an amazing partner who loves me dearly but I question him every damn day...you see he doesn't hurt me and love...well as my Dad taught me...love is to hurt and lie....but that isn't love at all is it? !

375

1

0.6

1,511,889,490

8

2.698718

262

13.01

14.26

77.7

75.37

65.5

9.16

94.66

63.36

20.99

13.74

12.21

0

0.76

0

7.25

3.05

12.6

15.27

6.11

6.49

3.05

24.05

4.58

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2.29

0.76

1.91

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6.87

0.38

0

1.15

11.45

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0.38

1.15

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0.38

2.29

0

0.38

10.31

2.67

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1.91

6.11

16.79

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12.6

1.15

5.34

6.11

0.76

0

0.38

0

0.38

1.15

0.38

0

0.76

0

25.19

16.79

2.67

0

0.38

0

0.76

3.44

0

0.76

3

2.75

3

1.1

1

1.72488

1.46777

1.90599

1

7

3.897161

0.051879

assistance

7h0dfh

[5, 10]

What can I do to make this more manageable for the reader and helpful for him to actually want to hire me? Thanks! ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Dear [Store Manager 3], This is [Synchro_Shoukan], I came in yesterday and spoke to you about transferring from [Store Number] to your store.

194

0

1

1,512,185,801

5

0

47

75.95

80.25

15.43

99

15.67

17.02

91.49

55.32

19.15

12.77

6.38

0

4.26

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0

6.38

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21.28

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14.89

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0

12.77

0

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2.13

0

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8.51

4.26

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0

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0

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8.51

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6.38

0

289.36

2.13

4.26

0

2.13

0

278.72

2.5714

2.625

2.6

1.1667

1.1429

1

1.62792

1.52683

1.85702

0.86

9

0

0.25

assistance

749k1l

(10, 15)

My freelance worked has finally shown some fruits as I have booked 2 events for this month, a birthday and a wedding. I also just got hired to be a regular lead photographer at an events company and I start this Saturday. Now my dilemma is this, I am currently financially struggling and would need a help to finally have some stability. I am looking for anyone who can LEND me money. I'm looking to borrow since I will be capable of paying back.

30,503

0

0.6

1,507,136,853

2

6.796588

84

28.22

27.59

68.01

10.67

16.8

20.24

91.67

58.33

17.86

11.9

0

5.95

10.71

14.29

7.14

5.95

0

22.62

2.38

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2.38

1.19

0

1.19

0

5.95

1.19

0

8.33

0

2.38

3.57

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4.76

3.57

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1.19

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1.19

10.71

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3.57

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3.57

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14.29

1.19

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11.9

8.33

1.19

0

5.95

0

9.52

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2.38

0

1.19

0

3

2.8889

3

1.4

1.1429

1

1.69504

1.49315

1.9907

0.56

2

7.698824

0.033333

assistance

77vbv3

(20, 25)

Kate's father was just an angel all day long. We were planning to finally start sleeping at the house again. Evening comes, we all go home, and he puts on some crime drama marathon. It's a little too loud, so Kate asks him if he minds turning it down. He does so...for about five minutes, until she's out of the room again, and then he turns it up louder than it was previously.

49,828

0

1

1,508,612,854

30

4.192468

74

39.22

91.16

62.88

25.77

14.8

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93.24

56.76

16.22

10.81

0

2.7

0

8.11

0

5.41

14.86

8.11

10.81

9.46

0

17.57

4.05

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0

1.35

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0

13.51

1.35

0

1.35

8.11

6.76

0

1.35

2.7

0

2.7

0

1.35

0

6.76

2.7

1.35

2.7

0

5.41

12.16

2.7

29.73

5.41

10.81

13.51

0

2.7

4.05

0

1.35

0

21.62

10.81

6.76

0

4.05

0

2.8333

2.625

3

1.2222

1

1.66932

1.67941

1.8465

0.83

15

4.514701

-0.07662

homeless

83d0to

[0, 5]

Hi, I am legally blind. I was homeless from 2007 to 2013 and traveled around the country. That's why I chose the screen name that I did. In 2013 I was able to rent a room in Boston, MA. I lived there from 2013 to about a week ago.

1,031

0

1

1,520,657,008

6

0.055

49

76.89

27.03

89.63

25.77

9.8

8.16

87.76

57.14

16.33

12.24

0

4.08

8.16

18.37

10.2

8.16

2.04

0

14.29

0

2.04

8.16

0

6.12

2.04

0

2.04

0

2.04

0

2.04

0

4.08

0

4.08

0

4.08

0

6.12

2.04

0

12.24

4.08

0

16.33

2.04

10.2

4.08

2.04

4.08

2.04

0

16.33

10.2

4.08

0

2.04

0

2.375

2.1818

2.8

1

1.1429

1

1.56509

1.4973

1.82316

1

4

1.29

0

assistance

772lyd

[5, 10]

I am limited and would like dire guidance on how to begin my journey, I want to enjoy myself and life without being restricted and abused any longer by my father. Thank you for taking your time to read this! P.S, I have a therapy cat that has helped me stay strong through out these passing years. I would like for him to be involved with my journey as well. It's been difficult finding youth centers that accept pets.

1,552

0

0.6

1,508,283,336

2

6.175375

80

37.39

30.86

74.76

99

16

18.75

92.5

55

21.25

15

11.25

0

2.5

1.25

0

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11.25

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22.5

5

2.5

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0

1.25

11.25

8.75

2.5

0

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6.25

1.25

0

2.5

10

2.5

1.25

3.75

1.25

0

1.25

0

2.5

0

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0

5

0

1.25

2.5

11.25

0

15

5

6.25

5

1.25

0

1.25

0

1.25

0

1.25

0

11.25

6.25

2.5

0

1.25

0

1.25

0

2.8333

2.4

3

1

1.1429

1

1.75002

1.472

1.9763

0.58

3

5.8425

0.090476

ptsd

5mppfy

[65, 70]

I don't care about compensations but I cant hold a job for health care so I go to the VA. Like, "we are here to make sure the military is not blamed for what ever is wrong with you" kind of thing in my opinion. Anyways, I felt I should share some of the basic symptoms I have struggled with and the only treatment I have found that really worked is smoking indica strain cannibis at night when the child is asleep and having some relaxing time with my pets. Here are my symptoms: Panic attacks severe avoidance

681

0

0.6

1,483,859,673

45

5.978833

97

35.31

15.12

61.04

1.48

24.25

14.43

94.85

58.76

15.46

12.37

10.31

1.03

0

3.09

6.19

12.37

11.34

9.28

5.15

3.09

18.56

3.09

1.03

2.06

0

2.06

13.4

5.15

8.25

4.12

2.06

0

5.15

0

14.43

2.06

1.03

4.12

2.06

4.12

1.03

0

1.03

5.15

1.03

3.09

0

1.03

9.28

2.06

1.03

4.12

0

2.06

3.09

15.46

0

7.22

1.03

2.06

4.12

2.06

1.03

0

1.03

0

1.03

9.28

3.09

2.06

1.03

0

2.06

1.03

0

2.75

2.8571

3

1

1.73556

1.42469

1.90165

1

14

5.896

0.1

ptsd

5yyd61

[20, 25]

I'm scared I'm going to slip the next time I get in the car or on my motorcycle and just plow into something at full speed just because it'd be so easy and it might end all the pain. But then I don't want to do that, because I have a safe car, and I wear full safety gear when I ride, so those are both maybes. I don't have a gun. I find my thoughts straying from just using one if I had one to thinking of places I could buy one from. Does Walmart sell them in California?

837

1

0.8

1,489,319,903

6

3.737714

100

11.93

4.48

99

44.04

20

9

92

61

19

14

13

0

1

5

11

14

6

12

2

22

6

0

1

3

2

5

3

2

1

0

1

0

14

3

4

1

3

1

0

1

2

1

0

3

0

1

2

1

15

3

20

5

9

6

0

2

0

13

4

3

0

1

0

5

0

2.7

3

1

1.1429

1

1.72119

1.5236

1.86692

0.88

9

4.833095

0.326667

almosthomeless

6y4rpe

(3, 8)

Though I have been staying with family, their households are getting packed with other members and issues and so they have no room for me. I do not have many friends, and the ones I do cannot help whatsoever. So, I am on my own. I have a wonderful as a baker that I don't want to lose or give up. What can I do in my situation right now so that I am able to keep a roof over my head and still keep my job because I know that if I am just able to keep shelter while continuing to work this job, I will be able to provide decent housing and expenses for myself and never burden anyone with my problems ever again.

37,871

1

0.8

1,504,575,516

13

8.922109

126

4.92

5.64

87.07

14.75

25.2

11.9

92.86

67.46

21.43

15.87

14.29

0

1.59

5.56

3.17

11.9

13.49

7.94

11.9

3.97

19.84

1.59

0.79

0

0.79

3.97

1.59

2.38

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7.14

0.79

0

10.32

0.79

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4.76

0

1.59

0.79

0

0.79

11.11

3.17

3.97

2.38

0.79

2.38

0.79

19.84

0.79

10.32

0.79

5.56

4.76

2.38

0.79

3.97

0.79

0

7.94

3.97

3.17

0

0.79

0

2.8571

2.8889

3

1

1.25

1

1.73616

1.42353

1.90035

0.79

6

9.236188

0.436376

anxiety

9boyl3

[5, 10]

But I see him during classes and it might be extremely weird. And I don't want to go to the counselling room and knock on the door, what if they're having a session? And I'm probably gonna just nervously laugh while walking in. Talking to my teachers about it is a no no. I can't go to a therapist directly due to my parents lack of understanding and ignorance of mental illnesses.

370

1

0.6

1,535,675,357

1

3.581991

72

41.22

13.32

74.76

8.95

14.4

20.83

97.22

63.89

13.89

9.72

8.33

0

1.39

0

4.17

6.94

15.28

9.72

5.56

11.11

5.56

20.83

2.78

0

1.39

0

4.17

1.39

2.78

1.39

0

6.94

1.39

0

1.39

13.89

1.39

0

4.17

2.78

4.17

2.78

1.39

0

2.78

0

2.78

0

4.17

1.39

0

1.39

0

1.39

0

15.28

2.78

16.67

5.56

6.94

4.17

5.56

0

2.78

0

1.39

0

1.39

0

13.89

5.56

1.39

0

1.39

0

5.56

0

2.8571

2.75

3

1

1.1

1

1.69778

1.49688

1.83937

0.99

0

5.352662

-0.10625

anxiety

8r7wif

[0, 5]

Its hard to find doctors that take cash within my budget of 100 dollars. I have a Master of Publicn Administration but I have not been able to get a job in that. I meet my therapist Tuesday who works for the same office. I hope I can keep seeing him.but has not returned my calls for a few days. I went to the office today and he sent me an email saying we are on for Tuesday but the email wasnt very compassionate after the messages I left him.

1,485

0

0.8

1,529,033,397

11

3.237143

91

64.27

25.47

89.63

67.32

18.2

10.99

97.8

58.24

20.88

16.48

12.09

1.1

0

3.3

0

4.4

8.79

13.19

7.69

1.1

4.4

3.3

19.78

4.4

2.2

1.1

2.2

0

14.29

0

3.3

8.79

1.1

0

1.1

0

6.59

3.3

1.1

2.2

0

2.2

0

13.19

4.4

2.2

4.4

2.2

0

5.49

14.29

1.1

13.19

2.2

4.4

6.59

0

3.3

0

6.59

0

3

2.4286

3

1.125

1

1.70058

1.61299

1.90859

0.93

4

4.521758

0.034722

ptsd

5qed8s

[0, 5]

I'm 20 years old and suffer with PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, and Insomnia. But my biggest struggle is my PTSD. When I was 17 i was stabbed in my neck, while i was asleep, by my brother. I remember everything so vividly. But i don't really want to get into all that right now.

315

1

1,485,481,013

8

2.224909

53

2.86

1.23

99

1

10.6

18.87

90.57

58.49

22.64

18.87

0

3.77

0

9.43

11.32

7.55

13.21

1.89

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0

7.55

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0

3.77

1.89

0

1.89

13.21

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0

1.89

0

3.77

5.66

1.89

0

5.66

3.77

1.89

0

7.55

1.89

0

3.77

1.89

0

7.55

13.21

0

16.98

0

7.55

9.43

0

22.64

9.43

0

3.77

0

2.6

2.8

3

1

1.1818

1

1.65082

1.48696

1.87773

1

4

4.361818

0.177679

ptsd

7wi5t8

(5, 10)

And in the 10 years since my emancipation, I've only watched my cognitive state decline. I've been agoraphobic for 3 years now. 3 years ago I moved into the shelter system after a domestic dispute triggered my agoraphobia again. I felt like I was under constant threat, and that I wasn't safe anymore. So I moved.

42,678

1

0.8

1,518,224,530

5

4.507458

56

32.68

1.67

99

25.77

11.2

21.43

78.57

55.36

21.43

17.86

0

3.57

5.36

12.5

8.93

7.14

5.36

1.79

16.07

3.57

0

5.36

0

3.57

1.79

0

7.14

1.79

3.57

0

1.79

3.57

1.79

0

1.79

0

5.36

0

3.57

0

3.57

14.29

5.36

0

26.79

3.57

5.36

17.86

0

1.79

0

17.86

8.93

3.57

0

5.36

0

2.7143

2.4167

2.8

1.1667

1.1429

1

1.69341

1.44889

1.87826

1

5

5.612

0.125

relationships

7qtdtg

[10, 15]

Also, stemming from the same background, I am still a virgin (he obviously is not) and I’m not quire sure how I feel about engaging in sexual intercourse with him. Whenever we “talk” about sex, I feel like I’m lying about how I feel. It’s more of an interest in learning the different aspects of sex than actual sexual arousal (I’ve been questioning the possibility of asexuality). If anything, I feel kind of giddy that someone thinks of me in that way but not in the “I want to have sex with you” way. I’m trying to engage him with pictures/videos/etc., but it feels all fake to me.

1,937

0

0.6

1,516,119,611

1

4.433674

109

43.08

15.64

89.24

60.56

21.8

16.51

92.66

59.63

21.1

15.6

11.01

0.92

2.75

0

5.5

18.35

8.26

7.34

2.75

18.35

4.59

2.75

0

1.83

5.5

3.67

1.83

0

0.92

0

9.17

0

2.75

24.77

7.34

1.83

6.42

2.75

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6.42

1.83

0

4.59

7.34

0.92

0

7.34

0

1.83

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0

0.92

14.68

0

7.34

0

5.5

1.83

0.92

0

23.85

5.5

4.59

0

3.67

4.59

3.67

1.83

2.7778

2.8571

3

1

1.69112

1.54607

1.94069

1

9

6.125815

0.227273

ptsd

6te2vf

(2, 7)

I have been either an emt or a paramedic for the past 9 years. I have been a part of way more than I wanted to be, I cant help but see all the god damned faces. I cannot work because I tried to protect my girlfriend and property from a threat, ended up being someone shooting off fireworks... i have been shot at enough and held it in. I just cant. im tired, I want to give up.

45,317

1

1,502,613,475

11

1.829799

79

57.86

1.17

96.18

2.8

13.17

10.13

89.87

60.76

16.46

13.92

0

2.53

7.59

15.19

12.66

1.27

6.33

3.8

21.52

5.06

3.8

0

1.27

5.06

2.53

0

2.53

1.27

2.53

0

5.06

0

1.27

0

15.19

0

1.27

2.53

1.27

8.86

1.27

0

2.53

1.27

0

11.39

2.53

6.33

0

2.53

10.13

15.19

0

11.39

0

7.59

3.8

1.27

0

1.27

0

1.27

0

13.92

10.13

3.8

0

2.5

2.8889

3

1

1.72672

1.49231

1.8876

0.88

8

3.453193

-0.0375

ptsd

6veozn

(10, 15)

Having expected that, I told myself at the time that it doesn't bother me much and I'll go back to handling it all by myself as I've been doing for years, but it's been nagging at me for most of the day now. I keep doubting whether I really am wallowing in it. My trauma occured five years ago, and it doesn't bother me anywhere near as much as it used to (thanks to some tricks I learned on here and through my own research), and I believe I've been handling it all okay. I do my level best not to dwell on it, I've accepted it's in the past and will never happen again...except that doesn't stop the flashbacks and nightmares. I wasn't directly involved in my traumatic events, I only saw and heard them.

44,513

1

0.666667

1,503,441,768

2

5.540153

137

9.71

1.77

99

1

27.4

13.87

94.89

64.96

24.82

16.06

15.33

0

0.73

8.76

2.92

15.33

13.14

5.84

8.76

4.38

21.17

3.65

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4.38

9.49

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0

2.92

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0

0.73

0

0.73

0

18.98

5.84

4.38

0

7.3

1.46

0

2.5556

2.625

2.8

1

1.69142

1.40323

1.82231

0.6

7

6.185774

0.232143

ptsd

6qeojd

[5, 10]

I haven't ever been triggered by my grandma(until now) and even though it made me upset I had a "well, it could be worse" mentality. So yesterday my grandma got mad. Really mad. She started screaming at me, calling me names, and then threw a book at me. This triggered the trauma from my mom.

17

1

0.5

1,501,376,783

5

1.662321

56

5.53

10.58

98.37

1

11.2

16.07

98.21

64.29

23.21

17.86

16.07

0

1.79

0

5.36

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12.5

10.71

1.79

16.07

3.57

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0

12.5

1.79

10.71

1.79

3.57

0

10.71

5.36

0

7.14

0

14.29

0

5.36

1.79

0

1.79

5.36

1.79

0

1.79

0

3.57

0

1.79

12.5

7.14

1.79

16.07

1.79

3.57

10.71

1.79

0

1.79

0

1.79

0

23.21

8.93

5.36

0

3.57

1.79

3.57

0

2.8889

2.8571

3

1

1.125

1

1.76892

1.575

1.89491

0.78

4

3.122857

-0.55

anxiety

78fynx

[0, 5]

Hello All, I'm 27yrs old male, 100kg 194cm. For one year and half maybe I'm suffering from: **Chronic daily headache (dull behind left eye, pressure like)** * When try to think or remember something it seems to getting worse

1,947

1

0.6

1,508,854,131

1

0.707857

38

70.02

39.61

98.54

1

19

18.42

92.11

36.84

10.53

5.26

0

5.26

0

15.79

5.26

7.89

0

26.32

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5.26

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5.26

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10.53

0

10.53

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0

5.26

0

2.63

21.05

7.89

0

13.16

2.63

0

7.89

2.63

5.26

0

10.53

2.63

0

2.63

5.26

15.79

0

18.42

0

5.26

13.16

0

36.84

2.63

7.89

2.63

0

5.26

13.16

2.7143

2.5

3

1

1.1429

1

1.63906

1.54545

1.81842

1

3

1.347976

-0.144792

relationships

7q7j0a

[46, 51]

Should I chill out and let her contact me? --- **tl;dr**: The level of communication outside of face-to-face interaction is making it difficult to maintain attraction and to set up plans with the woman I am dating, and it has become worse the last couple weeks despite our in-person interactions being consistently great. Am I being too anxious/not understanding enough or is she a bad communicator? How do I bring this up with her?

492

1

0.571429

1,515,880,253

1

5.906407

78

57.24

69.6

46.75

2.7

19.5

16.67

92.31

60.26

15.38

11.54

6.41

1.28

0

3.85

0

3.85

5.13

16.67

14.1

2.56

6.41

1.28

16.67

5.13

1.28

0

1.28

7.69

2.56

5.13

1.28

0

15.38

0

1.28

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0

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0

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0

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0

17.95

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1.28

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0

11.54

1.28

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1.28

7.69

3.85

0

23.08

1.28

3.85

0

7.69

0

6.41

2.8

2.9

2.8

1.0625

1.1429

1

1.74029

1.50625

1.87428

0.67

3

7.191623

-0.114286

relationships

7os7oj

(5, 10)

The problem is one of these guy friends. I'm typically pretty shy in new social settings and don't really like to make be at the focus of anyone's attention unless I'm comfortable with them. When I first met these guys, it was like 2 polar opposites met. I'm fairly quiet, reserved, respectful and I like to think I'm a smart person. These friends, this one friend in particular, are loud, boorish and really rude.

49,444

0

0.8

1,515,349,050

2

4.665417

74

39.22

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14.8

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52.7

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0

1.35

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0

10.81

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16.22

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2.7

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0

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2.7

0

12.16

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1.35

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14.86

0

8.11

0

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0

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0

3

2.625

3

1.1111

1.1818

1

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1.42258

1.9607

1

0

5.9825

0.097665

almosthomeless

70sw2f

[15, 20]

I'm trying to fill out the Claim of Exemption that came with the Notice of Levy packet that arrived yesterday. I'm extremely uncomfortable with this as so much is on the line. Google is useless. The best I've found are instructions stating to fill out the documents (duh!). Can anyone walk me through this?

1,690

1

0.8

1,505,711,261

16

4.514737

54

82.52

28.91

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10.8

18.52

85.19

57.41

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7.41

0

9.26

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0

22.22

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0

1.85

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3.7

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1.85

0

20.37

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0

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0

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3.7

0

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3

1

1.1818

1

1.69968

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1.7728

0.84

17

4.796351

-0.035

homeless

7r7wqs

(11, 16)

I got as far as Illinois when he ghosted me after urging me to leave in the first place. I've been going between three different friends who know I'm homeless but think I'm 19. I want to go to school, get a job to buy my own stuff, and get on with my life. I don't think my mom is looking for me, but I still need her signature to go to school. I don't want my new friends to get arrested for harboring a runaway youth as well.

26,851

1

0.666667

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9

2.988546

89

50.79

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46.47

17.8

13.48

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55.06

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19.1

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0

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0

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0

1.12

0

6.74

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0

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0

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3

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1

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1

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1.91933

0.8

9

4.454043

0.217273

anxiety

9ti73y

(65, 70)

Are you fucking kidding me? YOU are not comfortable writing something to help me? YOU'RE uncomfortable writing a note and helping someone with a mental illness? Someone who has been trying everything fucking possible to live a normal life, someone who is seeking as much support as possible and only went to the idea of financial support as an absolute last resort? WHAT.

42,432

1

0.8

1,541,147,259

1

7.522857

63

49.61

92.33

2.82

82.57

12.6

33.33

95.24

55.56

20.63

7.94

3.17

0

4.76

0

12.7

7.94

12.7

9.52

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7.94

1.59

20.63

12.7

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0

1.59

12.7

7.94

4.76

1.59

3.17

0

19.05

0

17.46

1.59

0

11.11

3.17

1.59

0

7.94

0

4.76

3.17

0

3.17

1.59

0

3.17

12.7

0

3.17

1.59

0

1.59

4.76

0

1.59

0

3.17

0

11.11

1.59

0

6.35

0

1.59

0

3

2.8889

3

1

1.1667

1

1.74824

1.6

1.89432

1

0

7.492254

-0.054895

relationships

7tji9z

(105, 110)

But what do I know? I keep reassuring myself that this is normal, and never tell anyone about this - I'm surprising one of the top students at a selective high school, but I really want this to end. I'm good at hiding things like this, because I don't want others feeling pity for me for things they didn't cause or can change. --- **tl;dr**: Older brother psychologically and physically abuses me and my younger brother.

38,035

1

1,517,134,329

1

2.042378

75

6.85

4.17

98.01

50.67

18.75

14.67

97.33

60

28

14.67

13.33

0

1.33

13.33

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4

9.33

4

16

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0

6.67

4

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0

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8

2.67

0

2.67

20

2.67

4

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8

1.33

0

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0

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0

12

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0

12

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4

0

28

4

1.33

0

5.33

0

5.33

0

5.33

2.75

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3

1.3333

1.1429

1

1.6585

1.47647

1.9179

0.6

2

3.665198

0.225152

anxiety

9bk0uc

(10, 15)

In exchange for your participation, you may optionally choose to be entered into a drawing for a $50 Amazon gift card. Eligibility requirements for participants include: Must be at least 18 years of age or older. Must have been diagnosed with one of the following at any point in your life: Major Depressive Disorder, Bipolar Disorder (I or II), Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Schizoaffective Disorder, Schizophrenia, or Autism Spectrum Disorder. Must not have been diagnosed with an Intellectual Disability.

37,096

0

1

1,535,638,793

1

13.2975

79

91.51

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19.75

32.91

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0

3.8

0

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0

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3.8

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1

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anxiety

8t5l3h

(0, 5)

TW: physical abuse? My dad was screaming at me today and I started crying out of fear. Of course in my household crying is not allowed. Hence he physically hit me and tried to cover my mouth which led to me hitting him back out of defense. My gums ended up bleeding and I don't think anyone else was concerned about how I was feeling — they thought I was just overreacting and stuff.

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anxiety

7ocqe2

(0, 5)

**As some of you may have experienced; a potential symptom of anxiety is Depersonalisation/Derealisation; a sensation of losing control that has generated the greatest terror I have ever experienced. All of the notions I mention here are applicable to X anxiety but I use DPDR as the focus of my anxiety and the insights/reflections I have come to. ** I have had OCD, a fear of uncertainty, a desire for control and "normality"/constancy since around 12 years old. A.K.A: Anxiety.

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almosthomeless

8oqkgi

(14, 19)

But part of me fears that coming back out there I'll find a suicide. He's talked about it a lot and has plenty of guns. I had to take his Kimber .45 Raptor and Kimber .380 yesterday so I didn't have to worry about him shooting the dog. But they were just left o the counter cause I'm no thief. I just... Don't know what to do y'all....

43,902

1

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relationships

7sj1ut

(5, 10)

I can hardly step into his room because that is where it is most concentrated. I love keeping a clean and nice smelling apartment. I don't mind doing extra cleaning and buying extra air fresheners to keep it that way. However, Matt's BO literally follows him around and lingers where ever he goes. This has cause our ENTIRE apartment to smell of testosterone and mildew in a matter of days and it's only getting worse.

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4

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ptsd

9koibw

[2, 7]

I usually "vocalize" with rocking then I end up pretty catatonic for a while then mute for another couple hours. I'm stuck in the mute part right now. Too scared to leave my bed, can't talk, and hoping it ends soon. Anyone else wail then go mute? Have you found anything that helps get your voice back?

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1

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assistance

9nu5c4

[10, 15]

We would be grateful for any help that would help us guarantee we are able to take care of them. Any help would be a blessing. <url>  <url> \- Pictures of Ben and his brother Sam

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0

0.8

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9

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relationships

7sqa4a

[5, 10]

The messages are essentially the guy being flirtatious and asking her to come over to his place. My gf’s responses are not flirtatious but definitely welcoming. She responded to his offer by saying “how about we meet halfway and grab some lunch together some time”. She never told me that she was even still in contact with this guy. And their relationship was explicitly sexual, not friendly.

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