andreagasparini/dreaddit · Datasets at Hugging Face

anxiety

5m94pt

(58, 63)

Edit 2: This thread got so much more attention than I could have imagined, there's been so many people offering advice and sharing their life experiences. I don't think I've ever seen so much helpfulness and friendliness on the internet before and I just want to say thank you. I think I still have a long way to go, maybe these thought's will never disappear but today has been the best day since they began and it's in a large part due to the people who spoke on this thread. I've read every post here and will keep reading them. In short just thank you, everyone.

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ptsd

8opjpy

[5, 10]

They’re out of town. I live in a pretty safe neighborhood, so I left the door unlocked for 30 minutes while I went on a run earlier. I always do that. Now I’m wishing I didn’t. Called two of my friends, but it’s late and they’re asleep.

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homeless

9f0s7d

[5, 10]

He said he'd be back in the couple hours, never returned. I went down to the bridge spot around 10pm (~3 hours after he expected to return), recognized his bicycle, and left a note with a glowstick taped to it with my address in case he just forgot where exactly I was. Also left word with his next door tent neighbor. It's now been ~17 hours since he left his stuff here, which is obviously important, cell phone, warm coat, etc. I'll swing by the bridge area in a couple hours, but as of last night, his neighbors hadn't seen him since roughly when he left my place to return there before coming back to get his stuff.

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relationships

7pypqs

[25, 30]

Anyway our talk basically went nowhere and she said she absolutely will not stop hanging out with the group. I didn’t tell her to, but I did tell her that it hurts me that she would engage with people who apparently have so many negative things to say about me, and I thought blood was thicker than water. Really it’s her callous “yea I see you’re in pain but I don’t care, get over it” type of standpoint that’s hurting me the most. I’m starting to think she too participates in the trash talking and I’m thinking of cutting her off too. Should I?

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anxiety

7z45n5

(5, 10)

For a bit of background, our relationship isn’t perfect. We’re different people. For example, I’m a very liberal individual, feminist at heart, not very sportsy. He however is more moderate, has much older parents and is more moderate in terms of gender roles and very sportsy. Overall though our differences don’t really bother me.

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ptsd

7ya8gl

[20, 25]

But this incident has been troubling me for a couple of days now. I guess I am just sick and tired of my trauma interfering with my relationships. I feel bad for my boyfriend- he shouldn't have to put up with this stuff. I know he loves me and he is terribly worried. But I also feel bad for me.

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ptsd

9tlmwl

(70, 75)

He brought me to hang out with the two of them a few times. I'm not sure why he thinks I want to erode their relationship, this is another thing I'm still thinking about. My best guess is that my "touchy" ness comes off as flirting and he thinks I'm trying to take him from her? I do casually say things like "I love you" a lot too which just worsens it from that perspective. This is sorta horrifying to think about because I have absolutely zero romantic interest in him at all and the reason I valued our friendship so much in the first place was because there was no romantic/sexual element.

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relationships

7ss4tc

[5, 10]

No reply. I texted again a couple hours later and he again didn't reply. I saved myself the embarrassment and just didnt go out that night. I texted him the next day to ask what happened. Its been a week already since this happened and be hasn't once texted me.

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food_pantry

7sn1i9

(30, 35)

For the dog, at least, I can get stuff for cheap dog food or something, but the cat we'd need cat food. All of this weighs on my mind. With my anxiety, I keep going over it in my head again and again. I know I need to see a therapist, but you guessed it, no money. I'm really hoping someone can help out.

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relationships

7nzsj1

(60, 65)

And after every episode with them he treats me like shit for a couple hours at work I assume wondering if I know about his behaviour and if I’ll say anything. I completely ignore it and refuse to let it invade our work environment. It’s my world, and my people, and I’m his superior. He’s not going to win a power struggle, so I don’t even have to worry about it. Other days we get along fine from 9-5.

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0

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anxiety

7kepbk

[55, 60]

I can't tell if that's me being a toxic person or not, and I feel guilty for feeling relieved. We were such good friends once, but I have to admit we hadn't talked about art or writing (the things that made us friends) for years. My anxiety has muddied the waters, and maybe all my shit and all my emotional abuse crap did ruin everything and it was all my fault. Maybe I did end things because I'd felt blamed for 2 months straight and just wanted to get away from the anxiety it was all causing me. Maybe I should have been the one to grovel, because I'd fucked up so bad over the situation.

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anxiety

990bim

(15, 20)

I didn’t sleep that night and eventually was fine. Since then my anxiety has gotten worse- scary movies linger in my thoughts a little longer. I’ve had a few mini panic attacks. I can’t get intoxicated anymore Bc I don’t like my mind being In a different state. I feel like a darkness is over me and I just feel scared all the time.

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ptsd

5ppnso

(9, 14)

Typically this involves simply leaving the building inside the dream. If I can find a door and get out, the dream goes away. Sometimes I wake up at this point, and sometimes I don't, but I always remember it the next morning. Has anyone else been able to "escape" from your nightmares in a similar way? I hope this is helpful for some.

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assistance

5zclnp

(2, 7)

His medical equipment (wheelchair, Hoyer lift, bedside table, trapeze lift and air mattress) belong to us to donate as we wish. We're looking for a good charity that would be able to pick these items up (So, with a truck?) and re-use them for a patient in need. Thank you very much for your help in this. If it helps, we're in the central Florida area.

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domesticviolence

9hhkw7

(35, 40)

A emotional turning point for me was at 16, my dog at the time, a Lovable and super friendly Labrador who was about 3 years, decided to wander out the gate and explore when he drove in after work one evening. It was a freezing cold night i remember. Ge had tried calling for our Lab to no avail as our lab was exploring down the road. My father (i hate saying that!) Started getting very angry, furious even.

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domesticviolence

6qe8h6

[62, 67]

He saved me from my family. I don't want to give up on him because he's never given up on me. TL;DR: Boyfriend often has tantrums where he throws objects around the room, but never physically hits me. Is this abuse? How do I get help?

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relationships

7nxm4c

(15, 20)

I am moving in with my BF and am fine with doing it 'early' because I love him and want to spend more time with him, I am moving back to my hometown where I have a large safety net, and we are choosing an apartment that he can afford on his own if he needs to. I know having a back up plan doesn't sound romantic, but both he and I have discussed all of the above, and both of us are long term planners who place 'back-up' plans in place in case anything goes awry. I have always been in relationships where I was still able to be an independent unit and avoid too much commitment because I was always scared to lose my independence. But this is the first relationship where I feel like we're a really good fit, and it doesn't feel like a sacrifice I don't want to make. I will still be doing a lot of things on my own, he is also an independent person, and both of us have lived on our own for years and know we can take care of ourselves.

41,685

0

1

1,515,012,834

0

15.784439

192

29.29

60.29

79.95

55.21

38.4

8.85

94.79

64.58

19.27

15.62

8.33

3.65

0

3.65

0

3.65

5.21

14.06

13.02

5.73

7.81

1.56

20.83

2.6

1.56

2.08

0.52

3.65

4.69

3.12

1.56

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0

0.52

10.94

0

0.52

0

4.17

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1.56

2.08

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0

0.52

1.04

0

0.52

0

13.02

6.25

2.6

2.08

1.04

1.56

2.08

16.67

1.56

18.75

1.56

12.5

6.25

0

0.52

0

0.52

0

0.52

0

10.94

2.6

3.65

0

0.52

0

4.17

0

3

2.8

3

1

1.1429

1

1.72437

1.51299

1.95363

0.5

17

14.14698

0.269589

relationships

7nfjvg

(60, 65)

I want to note that I told my husband that if he came to me and told me for his sanity he needed to leave, I'd do it even if it was dumb for us monetarily. Nothing is worth him being tortured and putting pressure on our marriage. I think the reason we get by is because sometimes we can get away with once a day torture from my mother, she also helps us a lot (especially me) and some days are ok. He just feels harassed and I understand this more than anyone because I feel the same way. .

27,286

1

1,514,819,506

42

6.437426

100

15.01

75.81

36.95

1.65

25

14

97

63

28

22

11

5

0

6

0

6

4

11

8

4

9

1

20

4

3

0

1

3

7

2

5

1

4

0

18

3

0

2

6

18

5

3

4

6

2

3

2

0

2

0

10

8

0

2

0

5

14

0

10

3

4

0

1

0

2

1

0

1

0

10

5

2

0

1

2

0

2.6667

2.625

3

1

1.68876

1.50989

1.92664

0.79

32

7.242455

0.154167

domesticviolence

8ue9ut

[35, 40]

I hide my own set of keys. She tries to take her keys away from me and I refuse, which turns into a full-blown fight. I have marks and bruises all over my arms and back, as well as deep scratches from her fingernails. At one point, she had me on the floor, cornered on the steps, repeatedly slamming my head into the wall and shoving a loose key that fell off the keyring into my breast, still trying to get the rest of the car keys out of my hand. I'm not saying I didn't retaliate, but I only went to far as to push her away, never hitting her intentionally but more as an act of defense.

893

1

0.8

1,530,140,831

4

6.41847

120

82.35

17.96

97.21

14.3

24

10

86.67

58.33

17.5

15.83

10.83

0

5

0

1.67

7.5

20.83

3.33

4.17

8.33

2.5

11.67

7.5

4.17

0.83

1.67

2.5

0.83

1.67

0

0.83

0

7.5

0

5

0

6.67

0

0.83

0

0.83

1.67

3.33

4.17

0

0.83

3.33

4.17

0

0.83

0

6.67

0

1.67

3.33

5

0

23.33

5.83

15

3.33

0

0.83

0

0.83

0

13.33

4.17

6.67

0

0.83

0

1.67

0

2.6

2.7143

3

1

1.69795

1.76832

1.78382

0.7

7

6.654754

0.113675

survivorsofabuse

6rtiew

(0, 5)

Bit of background... My abuser was my mother's father, let's call him J, because he doesn't deserve the title Grandpa. My mother's mother was H, because she didn't like us kids and doesn't deserve the title grandma. Between 1987 and 1989, I would stay at J's house for up to a week at a time and every night he would come into the room to abuse me. It always centered on sexual humiliation.

34,761

0

0.8

1,501,959,076

32

4.644625

73

61.43

83.12

29.73

2.2

14.6

17.81

86.3

53.42

16.44

15.07

6.85

2.74

0

5.48

0

1.37

6.85

13.7

9.59

0

6.85

4.11

13.7

0

2.74

5.48

1.37

4.11

1.37

4.11

0

19.18

8.22

0

6.85

9.59

0

2.74

0

2.74

1.37

0

1.37

0

1.37

0

5.48

2.74

0

2.74

0

4.11

6.85

0

17.81

2.74

10.96

5.48

0

2.74

0

26.03

9.59

5.48

0

10.96

0

2.8889

2.5

3

1.375

1.2

1

1.71598

1.76393

1.96199

1

6

6.1375

0.5

survivorsofabuse

7xvc38

(8, 13)

[Alice <url> was raising hell about it in Europe in the '70s... and here in the '80s. But in those days, the only gasoline being poured on the fire were drugs and alcohol. Things have changed. Now we have machine guns anyone can get in a day if they know where to look. And unless or until this society gets up off its politesse and deals with its descent back into decivilization... deals with the epidemic fucking, battering and *psychotizing* of children... deals with mind-altering chemicals *everywhere*... deals with "our right" to own *machine* guns... what should we expect?

46,116

0

1

1,518,744,765

16

6.635126

100

75.14

65.56

43.37

4.95

10

18

75

58

12

4

0

3

0

1

8

6

19

7

10

0

11

1

0

2

0

2

0

2

0

2

0

7

0

10

1

3

1

4

2

1

0

1

4

0

3

1

7

3

0

2

0

3

8

1

18

1

13

5

0

1

0

1

2

0

36

19

2

0

1

0

1

2

0

9

2.5556

2.8

3

1.1429

1

1.72461

1.66173

1.7976

1

14

6.173249

0.057143

homeless

9gpabs

(11, 16)

The thought of leaving my folks behind would definitely not be good for me mentally. I've thought about basically living out of my car, gym memberships to shower daily and laundromats to wash my clothes. Perhaps put all my stuff in storage and just keep working and save some money up. I live on long Island btw. Rent isn't cheap.

8,514

1

0.8

1,537,225,560

9

4.901452

60

60.8

6.7

98.01

96.76

12

20

93.33

51.67

13.33

11.67

0

1.67

18.33

6.67

8.33

5

3.33

23.33

1.67

0

3.33

5

0

3.33

1.67

0

15

3.33

0

1.67

3.33

0

6.67

1.67

5

0

8.33

1.67

3.33

1.67

0

11.67

0

16.67

5

10

1.67

3.33

5

0

1.67

0

1.67

0

13.33

8.33

1.67

0

3.33

0

2.7778

2.6667

3

1.125

1.1818

1

1.69862

1.59273

1.90862

0.85

2

5.233097

-0.051948

anxiety

9uuvyf

(3, 8)

Which forced me to acknowledge that I haven’t been performing to my own expectations. Enter the anxiety attack. Sobbing, shaking, fidgeting, and rambling. To top it all off, I threw away my xanex thinking that I didn’t need the safety net. I thought I was done with all this...reality proved otherwise.

52,577

1

1,541,555,564

3

4.003333

52

32.33

1

98.79

1

10.4

23.08

88.46

53.85

25

15.38

0

9.62

3.85

11.54

9.62

0

3.85

21.15

1.92

0

3.85

9.62

1.92

7.69

3.85

1.92

0

23.08

7.69

1.92

3.85

0

5.77

0

7.69

0

1.92

5.77

0

1.92

9.62

5.77

1.92

9.62

3.85

5.77

0

1.92

0

26.92

15.38

7.69

0

3.85

0

2.7

2.8889

3

1

1.25

1

1.85242

1.54222

1.86431

1

4

4.745926

0.2

anxiety

9tock0

[5, 10]

I live alone, make sure my dog gets the exercise he needs, I keep my apartment tidy, I do my laundry, I make sure I’m eating good, I work out, and I still hang with friends and such. Really, the only time I play video games is after work (which is normally after 8:30pm) or when I’m off. Even when I’m off, I still do chores and such between playing games. Even though I’m good at getting this stuff done, I still feel like there’s this weight on my shoulders that I should do MORE. Even when I cut video games out of the equation (which I did for the last week and a half) I still don’t do MORE because I’m normally too tired to do anything else.

107

1

0.8

1,541,194,452

3

5.635095

130

5.36

4.55

96.04

81.28

26

10

96.15

63.85

23.08

17.69

16.92

0

0.77

0

5.38

3.85

10.77

13.08

7.69

0.77

21.54

4.62

3.85

1.54

6.15

4.62

1.54

0

0.77

3.85

0

0.77

0

0.77

11.54

0.77

2.31

3.08

1.54

3.08

1.54

0

1.54

4.62

0.77

2.31

0

1.54

7.69

3.08

1.54

0

3.08

0

1.54

18.46

0

14.62

0.77

4.62

9.23

2.31

6.15

2.31

0

20

3.85

6.92

0.77

0

5.38

3.08

0

2.75

3

1

1.77882

1.53393

1.89917

1

5.609202

0.239394

ptsd

9wy6mm

(45, 50)

I was nice, and it got me no where, so I was rude, it got worse. I compliment my mom and my sister as much as I can, I tell my sister I’m proud of her, I tell both of them I love them, I take care of my mom the best I can, but I’m still their verbal punching bag. Every day I tell my mom that I love her, that she looks pretty, etc etc, but it ends up in her replying with “you’re gonna fail this year you know that right? You need to do your school work”. My sister called me naive and immature for not making fun of people’s interests and looks.

20,560

1

1,542,183,122

2

1.330893

117

6.35

63.38

78.04

99

23.4

5.13

94.02

57.26

33.33

27.35

17.95

0

3.42

2.56

5.98

0.85

9.4

6.84

2.56

7.69

1.71

17.09

5.98

3.42

0.85

0

2.56

11.11

8.55

2.56

0

0.85

22.22

5.13

0

8.55

0

6.84

0.85

2.56

1.71

0

1.71

0

12.82

5.13

3.42

2.56

3.42

1.71

4.27

14.53

0.85

8.55

0.85

4.27

3.42

2.56

0.85

0

0.85

0

0.85

0

17.95

3.42

8.55

0

0.85

0

1.71

3.42

0

3

2.6364

3

1

1.1429

1

1.72656

1.48317

1.98409

1

2

3.140929

0.225824

ptsd

73ttl1

(95, 100)

Please don't make me feel worse. I mean, hell, I'm ashamed I even need to ask my boyfriend. But at least we have things to talk about and he's just naturally good at keeping me calm without even realizing he's doing it. He actually *helps* by being there. My mom and sister either do nothing or make it worse.

22,571

1

1,506,961,331

6

1.912381

59

2.74

19.85

56.85

25.77

11.8

13.56

96.61

61.02

23.73

18.64

11.86

1.69

0

5.08

0

5.08

0

11.86

13.56

10.17

6.78

5.08

27.12

10.17

6.78

0

3.39

13.56

6.78

1.69

0

16.95

3.39

1.69

3.39

6.78

20.34

5.08

3.39

1.69

8.47

1.69

0

1.69

0

13.56

6.78

0

1.69

3.39

0

27.12

0

3.39

0

3.39

0

1.69

0

1.69

0

22.03

8.47

3.39

0

6.78

0

3.39

2.75

2.625

3

1

1.125

1

1.72054

1.46667

1.87511

0.75

18

3.301825

-0.058929

relationships

7nn564

[15, 20]

I apologised and thought that was the end of it. It’s gotten to the point that if I walk into a room, she’ll leave straight away, and if she doesn’t leave, or if I start talking to her or someone else, she sighs a lot so I know my presence is not wanted. If I’m in her general direction of travel, she’ll be sure to make a wide berth around me, and the only time she’s spoken a full sentence to me was to say “thanks for my present” that I got her for Christmas. Then we get to tonight. Eva and one of my brothers are staying over at our cousins house.

2,331

0

0.571429

1,514,907,700

19

3.970588

113

31.03

42.96

88.86

41.79

22.6

13.27

96.46

62.83

23.89

18.58

9.73

1.77

0

7.08

0

5.31

6.19

15.04

9.73

2.65

10.62

1.77

25.66

3.54

0

0.88

2.65

1.77

0.88

0

0.88

15.04

1.77

0

7.08

0.88

13.27

1.77

0.88

4.42

7.08

0.88

7.08

1.77

0

1.77

0

7.96

3.54

0

1.77

2.65

0

5.31

16.81

3.54

21.24

4.42

11.5

6.19

0

0.88

1.77

0

0.88

0

0.88

0

0.88

0

16.81

4.42

5.31

0

1.77

5.31

0

2.6667

3

1.125

1.1429

1

1.66125

1.58022

1.88565

0.84

5

4.724034

0.15

almosthomeless

9mmin5

(5, 10)

Living with her parents has since become untenable. Her parents have taken her car, which is not under her name, and are kicking her out of the house. She needs both a short-term plan to do minimal damage to her current career and academics, as well as a long term one to find an apartment or suitable living space. At this time, I do not believe she has any existent options for roommates. 1) What resources can she call upon to help her?

21,402

0

1

1,539,063,386

30

4.970714

84

64.03

88.3

9.4

25.77

16.8

16.67

94.05

55.95

16.67

13.1

1.19

0

11.9

0

3.57

4.76

16.67

10.71

1.19

5.95

2.38

17.86

3.57

2.38

1.19

0

19.05

2.38

1.19

11.9

0

11.9

3.57

1.19

3.57

0

3.57

0

2.38

0

2.38

0

8.33

4.76

1.19

2.38

1.19

0

1.19

15.48

1.19

17.86

1.19

10.71

5.95

3.57

0

3.57

0

1.19

0

1.19

0

13.1

4.76

0

1.19

0

1.19

0

1.19

0

2.6667

2.8889

3

1.125

1.1818

1

1.74563

1.63288

1.8429

0.89

9

5.181905

0.1

ptsd

9kokqv

(5, 10)

1. My father would abuse me consistently both mentally and physically from i think 4 to 14, maybe earlier. I don't really remember what all brought this on, but often it was school related. I remember being in a car seat, my mother didn't know what to do so she took me to him (my parents are apart), and i tried to run because i knew what was going to happen, and i remember crying so hard i hyperventilated, my mom promised never to do that again. He'd do it because of grades, because i misbehaved.

47,877

1

0.8

1,538,464,771

0

4.291126

96

4.15

8.79

98.64

12.09

19.2

16.67

91.67

61.46

25

17.71

14.58

0

3.12

0

7.29

1.04

10.42

11.46

7.29

9.38

3.12

25

2.08

1.04

3.12

2.08

3.12

1.04

2.08

0

1.04

8.33

4.17

0

3.12

20.83

7.29

3.12

1.04

2.08

3.12

4.17

1.04

0

1.04

0

1.04

0

3.12

1.04

0

1.04

0

11.46

9.38

1.04

12.5

4.17

2.08

0

17.71

5.21

7.29

0

3.12

2.08

0

2.6667

2.75

3

1.1111

1.1429

1

1.74198

1.48764

1.87429

0.5

0

6.374199

-0.017708

relationships

7p60tc

[20, 25]

I'll have written a letter to give to her. The letter is to repeat what I wanted to say for later so that she can read in case she has any misunderstandings or if I don't communicate it well. I don't know how to word my reasons to break up though. Obviously I don't want to say the reason is because of her physical appearance. Should I say I only see her as a friend but nothing greater than that?

395

0

0.8

1,515,490,045

0

4.576429

80

17.19

30.86

21.42

72.57

16

12.5

97.5

66.25

21.25

16.25

10

0

6.25

0

5

16.25

12.5

6.25

10

5

23.75

6.25

5

2.5

0

1.25

2.5

0

16.25

0

1.25

6.25

0

21.25

5

3.75

2.5

6.25

2.5

3.75

0

1.25

0

1.25

0

3.75

2.5

0

1.25

0

2.5

18.75

1.25

6.25

0

2.5

0

1.25

0

1.25

0

11.25

5

0

1.25

0

5

0

2.75

2.625

3

1

1.67368

1.51081

1.90778

0.5

11

6.273905

0.1

ptsd

9gzded

[30, 35]

I tell her this, which falls on deaf ears. Next day, we go to work things out. And I freak out when staff at the library call cops over us "being loud", I freak out over some very minor warrants. Which leads to her disappearing untill today when we have a meeting with a councilor. While waiting & the drop in center for the shower she assaults me & I block her blows.

1,140

1

0.6

1,537,308,968

0

3.326667

71

74.53

83.8

92.35

1

14.2

9.86

94.37

56.34

22.54

16.9

7.04

4.23

0

5.63

0

5.63

7.04

16.9

2.82

4.23

5.63

0

8.45

1.41

0

5.63

0

1.41

4.23

0

4.23

0

1.41

0

15.49

0

5.63

0

2.82

0

1.41

0

1.41

0

5.63

1.41

4.23

0

2.82

1.41

0

15.49

4.23

2.82

9.86

0

7.04

0

28.17

5.63

12.68

9.86

8.45

0

1.41

0

2.82

0

16.9

7.04

4.23

0

2.82

0

2.82

2.6667

2.3333

3

1

1.2

1

1.76329

1.79655

1.81079

0.33

0

3.317958

-0.01625

almosthomeless

7qfl6c

(1, 6)

A LARGE portion of each of my check goes to making payments to this card but with the interest charges each month I budgeted and itll take me decades to pay it off and cost me thousands. I was in a tough spot, jobless, homeless, and had to rely on the card but now I need to find options on how to pay it off or get a lower interest rate. I have heard of those advertisements about taking out a personal loan with a lower rate and using that to pay off the card then just paying the personal loan off, are those viable options? What is my best option right now, these interest rate charges are killing me and I can barely make ends meet. Any advice would be deeply appreciated

27,811

1

0.666667

1,515,972,708

13

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ptsd

5qmict

(3, 8)

im so scared of everything around me, whenever I have a panic attack, I can't even call out for help, I just choke on my own breath and cry im just fearful of what's going to happen in the future. I'm already seeing a therapist but i've been relapsing so bad since september and i just don't know what to do it's been such a rollercoaster and it just feels hopeless to recover from this im sorry for bothering you guys i just need to talk.. everyone i can talk to is asleep and i wouldnt be able to talk to them even if I could, i feel so numb after the panic attack i had last night, i just.. Need a talk, a distraction or something, because right now I just feel so. wrong and out of place

43,418

1

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anxiety

8smefp

[0, 5]

Hey guys, I'm 31, moved to a new city with my wife for the first time back in October, and am experiencing on and off anxiety for more or less the first time in my life. A couple quick questions: 1. How do I know whether I should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist?

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relationships

7smyrw

(0, 5)

Alright Alright Alright. I've been dating a single mom with two kids from two different guys who help out. She was married to the first for several years and has a 2 year old with the other. I've never had any kids myself. She is highly involved daily with many of the people that have been apart of her previous lives and relationships.

17,958

0

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anxiety

5y65d1

[0, 5]

Posted this initially in /r/depression, but it's probably better off here. I went on an awesome 1st date with really cute guy. It was fun. He was super, smart, attractive, CHIVALROUS even... We're going on a second date soon. The problem is I have no idea if this is working or not.

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relationships

7nfxzy

(0, 5)

My boyfriend M(26) and I have been dating for a year and a half. We live together. We definitely have issues were working through right now but our relationship has been pretty good. Up until a month or so ago I was making all these future plans with him and so on. I’ve been on and off taking antidepressants for the past 8 months.

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stress

9j25ap

[0, 5]

My wife and I live in New Bern NC a town impacted heavily by hurricane Florence. We live in a 2 bedroom 1.5 bath home with our 2 dogs, a cat and a rabbit. We are in our late 50's and lived a quiet life prior to the storm. 2 weeks ago 11 of my wife's family members and 6 dogs came to ride out the storm at our home. Unfortunately 8 of them now have no home to go back to, nor do their 5 dogs.

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ptsd

8nn63n

[5, 10]

Here's a homebaked metaphor. This is only a reflection of my personal views, and is not designed to reflect anybody else's experience. ----- Just as witches and wizards in the novels avoid mentioning Voldemort's name, those who have experienced a trauma tend to avoid remembering it, thinking about it, speaking about it, anything that triggers the awful feelings and sensations which a traumatic event conditions us to associate with it. We go to great lengths to avoid doing or saying anything which will activate the trauma.

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ptsd

92gxk9

(40, 45)

Use open-ended questions to avoid making the other person defensive. If you want to avoid argumentative responses, it is best to ask questions that invite them to speak honestly. *How:* This questioning style lets them know you want to be able to figure out some facts in order to reach a solution. **(5)** **Consciously Lower Your Voice**

22,400

0

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relationships

7tk7va

(35, 40)

Normal start of our day. He asked "was the card worth the wait?" I answered "Yes, I cried, at the park" he jokingly said "of course you did, tiny tears x" and then he asked "did you take photos of the chocolates?" I said "yes babe" and sent him the photo - he was still online but the last 2 messages wasnt read. The next message i sent was all about my day - that wasnt sent anymore, he was offline... i thought he was getting ready for his work and his phone died or his network... after an hour, I got worried, so I sent messages on all social media that he has, which I know.

18,297

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relationships

7qx7gb

[5, 10]

I had no problem with that, but was kind of surprised that this was the first time I was hearing his cousin's name that he missed so dearly he spent 600 dollars on a plane ticket to go visit. I did not think much of it, but noticed that over the course of a couple weeks, he was constantly getting snapchats from Jessica, but was reluctant to open them in front of me. That was another thing that surprised me because he always would open things in front of me, and never had a problem with me on his phone. If he did open a snapchat from Jessica, he kind of pulled his phone closer to him so I couldn't see his screen. I noticed his phone background one day, and saw that it was a happy birthday card with a picture drawn on it, signed from Jessica.

296

0

1

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ptsd

5r1o6i

(5, 10)

At least 20 Ritalin 30mg maybe more (I've learned how to take many at once over the years of daily medication). I don't remember everything but i tried to lie to him and he had to drag me to the bathroom and tried to make me throw up. After a bit i realized what i was doing and tried myself. It didn't work. The scary thing is that when he went to call the ambulance and i thought i just might die i repeated to myself "It's finally over".

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assistance

9ezmsq

(0, 5)

Hello lovely people! I'm looking for anyone who is interested in taking a 10 minute survey, with the chance to win a £100 (or equivalent) Amazon voucher. You need to be over 18, speak English as a first language, and be able to listen to some audio files and select matching pictures. I've been told it's fun to do! Anyone who enters will be really helping me as I try to progress my research into language and meaning.

40,438

0

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relationships

7tji9z

[40, 45]

Clearly he's hurting inside and I want to get him help, but he refuses to get help because he denies he has a problem, and blames it on everyone else. He then punches me as a result of this, pushing me almost off my chair. I get up and push him away from me, and so he picks up my workbooks and flings them across the floor. He raises his fist above his head, and in defense I get the broomhead (not the broom - that's already been broken) to push him away from me. He then gets the broomhead and throws it down the corridor into my room with the door open.

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relationships

7scuer

[10, 15]

When we had our first fight I did EVERYTHING I could to gain her back in my life. I quit smoking cigarettes because she went on a "I hate all drugs and anything smokable" rant. I tried to be more mindful and kind because she said I was the opposite. I tried to change because I wanted my best friend back. 4 months later she let me back in and I was so fucking happy.

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assistance

6dkdws

[12, 17]

I used to be kinda smart so I graduated high school with about a semester of college credits so i have that. I also used to be pretty tech savy and used to help my family with their computer/phone issues (nothing major though, virus removal, printer setup, etc). I was thinking about pursing an AS in BA at Broward College or a computer program at Sheridan Technical College such as these <url> Someone on this website once recommended i look into coding, but i have no idea where to start or how to make a career out of it. What do you think i should do? What do you think my first steps to turning my life around should be?

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11.57

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0

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0

1.65

2.48

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2.8889

3

1

1.1429

1

1.76727

1.48824

1.87873

0.84

23

5.947713

0.133827

ptsd

5ryolf

(9, 14)

I'm soo lucky/blessed that I have parents with an open home to me so that I am able to do this but I can't keep going on like this. I feel afraid to work. I feel like less of a man because of this. I worry about my future and if I'll ever get stable ground. Sorry, I needed to put my thoughts into text.

45,210

1

0.8

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0.156522

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35.35

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13.2

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62.12

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18.18

0

7.58

3.03

18.18

7.58

4.55

7.58

1.52

21.21

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1.52

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1.52

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3.03

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4.55

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0.9

1

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assistance

6v0vbp

[3, 8]

In order to be able to walk, I need donations. Anything helps and is very much appreciated. Thank you in advance! ! <url>

50

0

1

1,503,292,471

3

0.0175

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domesticviolence

8llkv5

(30, 35)

He came home from who knows where and he walks in. I asked him where he had been because i was starting to get worried. He was mad, i could see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice. Next thing i knew he was behind me with his arm around my neck squeezing. He continued as he threw me on the couch and wrapped his legs around my stomach.

2,951

1

0.5

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2

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survivorsofabuse

5wwot0

[26, 31]

I wonder about that night. Did you ever get past that night? Did you have other nights like that? Did anyone ever ask if you were okay? Do you forgive me?

1,085

1

0.8

1,488,383,264

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1.3

1

1.70312

1.30323

1.98027

0.94

8

0.911871

0.041667

homeless

984dn1

[5, 10]

I thought they’d give me another date to come back or put me on probation but that did not happen. They told me I wouldn’t be allowed back to my house until my court date in a MONTH. And even that is certain. Well I found a friend that I can stay with for another 2 days but after that I’m unsure of what to do. I’m currently unemployed don’t even have a license, there’s literally no one I can stay with my parents are refusing to talk to me.

720

1

1,534,528,067

16

1.64375

90

8.19

9.13

99

46.22

18

14.44

95.56

67.78

25.56

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15.56

0

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20

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0

6.67

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2.625

3

1

1.125

1

1.70274

1.56104

1.88772

0.9

19

3.717083

0.053571

ptsd

9u1ycz

(30, 35)

I don't have any point, I'm just overwhelmed and want to give up. No one's going to read this long of a post anyway. I don't want to tell my therapist, I don't want to go to therapy. It feels artificial and contrived and uneven. When I google all this shit the internet is like "That's the ptsd talking."

19,130

1

1,541,320,473

44

1.160051

59

27.64

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1

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1

1.67679

1.432

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16

3.158077

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anxiety

8c4soy

[10, 15]

Today I made the choice to go sign up for a gym membership. The working out part isn’t hard. It’s the fact that it’s a new place, and fairly wide open. I struggle with open spaces. But I walked in and signed up!!

1,507

0

1

1,523,674,193

25

-0.906884

43

90.27

12.25

99

3.52

8.6

6.98

95.35

51.16

13.95

6.98

0

6.98

11.63

16.28

6.98

0

6.98

2.33

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6.98

0

2.33

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2.33

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13.95

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2.33

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11.63

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4.65

16.28

0

30.23

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4.65

2.33

0

23.26

9.3

2.33

0

4.65

0

6.98

0

2.375

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1.3333

1

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assistance

6a595u

[0, 5]

Hello r/assistance. My name is Cameron and recently I was denied my social security payments on the ground of my mental disability improving enough to be considered able to work. My doctor disagrees with their assessment and local social workers are helping me with my appeal. Unfortunately, due to the social security office filing my appeal paperwork slowly, I passed the deadline to where I could continue to receive payment while under appeal. If anyone would be willing to contribute to my bills while I am under appeal, it would be greatly appreciated.

406

0

0.571429

1,494,335,032

0

10.868617

94

62.72

33.52

82.45

82.79

18.8

24.47

88.3

50

15.96

13.83

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0

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1.1111

1

1.77435

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0.5

0

11.073915

0.04375

anxiety

5yep79

(45, 50)

Your brain could throw intrusive thoughts at you regarding ANYTHING that is really important to you - i.e. things you wouldn't want to be "wrong" or "under threat". But, bear in mind, your brain is trying to help you, it wants to "check" that these things are safe. Your brain also likes to save energy. So if you DON'T RESPOND to a thought, your brain will get the message that this thought wasn't "useful" and stop throwing it at you.

41,516

0

0.833333

1,489,061,506

2

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97

19.75

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0

12.66

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12.66

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27.85

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1.27

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3

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1

1.70228

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1

0

6.729722

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relationships

7soxzo

[0, 5]

My girlfriend and I met through a messaging app. We come from the same country and speak the same language, so there is a sense of familiarity and closeness right from the start. However, as we grow closer, I'm starting to feel like she does not value our relationship as much as I do. I always put her above all else. I always try to find ways to accommodate her busy schedule.

393

0

1

1,516,816,728

5

5.161644

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0

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0

6.94

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0

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0

1.39

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13.89

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0

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12.5

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1.39

15.28

0

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1.39

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12.5

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1

1.72255

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0.65

10

5.783452

0.083673

anxiety

8mbir9

(3, 8)

Today was a horrible day from the get go and I had to call out because I cant function with other people (I work in retail) today so I claimed I had a fever. Of course it had to be memorial day weekend making it one of the worst times for this and they even of course said over the phone "Well, this really puts us in a bind". Now I'm absolutely paranoid that they'll find out or they hate me now or I'll get fired for this. I'm so paranoid I'm worried they'll see me or come to my house to check on me even though I know they would never do that. I just wish someone could understand or sympathize/empathize with me for once.

20,067

1

0.833333

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15

0.578849

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15.61

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98.33

1

25.4

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66.14

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12.6

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0

3.94

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6.3

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13.39

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2.7778

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3

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1

1.68364

1.47928

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10

2.408529

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assistance

7ztiy0

(0, 5)

EDIT: Complete. Congrats to <username>, I'll PM you about shipping. It was really hard to read all the replies, I wish I could help more people. My heard breaks for everyone that shared their story here. Having to "select a winner" felt like the most unethical thing - who am I to weigh one person's suffrage against the other?

5,919

0

0.8

1,519,438,264

71

3.336344

59

60.02

80.15

6.41

85.2

11.8

16.95

86.44

54.24

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8.47

0

3.39

0

1.69

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18.64

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6.78

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3

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1

1.75139

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1.96445

0.9

39

4.046452

0.136667

ptsd

6v4el6

(15, 20)

It's sick and twisted. I've been getting nauseas and I've been having more dissociative flashbacks. My nightmares are coming back, but they're mostly of his parents. I'm afraid to see them, although my dreams are usually them telling me they understand. That they're not mad at me for going to the police.

13,461

1

1,503,335,892

6

3.461437

52

1.8

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1

10.4

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65.38

25

21.15

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0

1.92

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1.92

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3.85

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0

25

9.62

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0

2.5714

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3

1

1.2727

1

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1

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relationships

7or4nl

(20, 25)

Some day it’s gonna piss them off and she’ll get killed. She lets people go ahead of her in line if she has more items than them. She lets people out of junctions even if she’s running late to places. Ends up holding doors open for tons of people and can get stuck there for almost a minute. Gave up her seat on a bus once when she knows I have a bad back and like to sit down.

17,648

0

0.8

1,515,338,789

0

2.170281

79

68.06

95.01

61.71

1

15.8

3.8

92.41

59.49

17.72

16.46

1.27

2.53

0

10.13

2.53

1.27

3.8

21.52

7.59

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7.59

0

21.52

3.8

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3.8

0

3.8

0

2.53

0

20.25

0

10.13

0

7.59

1.27

0

2.53

5.06

0

3.8

0

1.27

0

11.39

2.53

1.27

3.8

2.53

1.27

2.53

16.46

3.8

29.11

3.8

16.46

10.13

0

1.27

0

1.27

2.53

1.27

0

10.13

6.33

0

3.8

0

2.7143

3

1

1.7106

1.81159

1.77364

0.21

22

2.600181

-0.122222

ptsd

9w0qju

[40, 45]

I will always make strides to be there for others. To life my life if not to spite the voice behind my anxiety and take care of myself. I hope others struggling in this thread know that what is going on in your life is temporary...it will pass. “How do you know?” I’ve been at lower points in my life. Making risky decisions, drinking to drown out my sadness, and not wanting to take care of “me.” But you need to take responsibility in making the shift in your life to make it better.

725

0

0.8

1,541,907,735

7

1.8175

95

60.32

17.17

92.1

4.46

13.57

9.47

95.79

58.95

21.05

13.68

9.47

0

4.21

0

7.37

2.11

20

8.42

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2.11

0

10.53

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4.21

0

20

3.16

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1.05

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1.05

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6.32

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5.26

0

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1.05

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1.05

0

17.89

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2.11

0

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0

4.21

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0

3

2.8

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1

1.1429

1

1.71845

1.48837

1.85866

0.9

1

3.026917

0.05

relationships

7towdv

(9, 14)

We've talked about it before and she said that it's not like that and she cares about me alot and all that, but at the same time these type of things keep happening. I truly feel that she does care and doesn't mean to neglect me but its just frustrating. If I keep saying something I'll look like a bad guy thats trying to ruin her friendships which is not what i'm trying to do. She's going to tell her friends what I say and they're probably going to think i'm trying to get her away from them. **tl;dr**: Girlfriend is having trouble balancing friendship and relationship

22,628

1

1,517,190,310

1

2.966379

108

6.55

64.46

11.8

5.77

21.6

11.11

95.37

63.89

28.7

15.74

7.41

0.93

0

6.48

0.93

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0.93

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10.19

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20.37

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1.85

2.78

0

17.59

3.7

0.93

0

7.41

0

3.7

2.8

2.625

2.6

1.125

1.1429

1

1.71626

1.40404

1.87897

1

3.582276

-0.3225

relationships

7oqey7

[20, 25]

A few weeks later, i found out that he had had a long term girlfriend the entire time. I felt like such an idiot when I found out. He reached out to me last month and I told him I knew he had a girlfriend the whole time and that if I ever saw him again I would literally break his nose. I'm still furious about it. I'm angry that he thinks he pulled one over on me and that he got away with it.

647

1

0.8

1,515,329,650

160

3.727931

85

21.04

45.32

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relationships

7tdi54

(2, 7)

I've never been on this side of the road, being the one to let someone know I'm not interested. I wouldn't know how to go about letting her know without completely devastating her. I know there is a risk no matter what I say, but how should I go about it gently. --- **tl;dr**: Person wants to hook me up with his adoptive sister, we have nothing in common, how do I tell her that I'm not interested?

14,963

0

0.8

1,517,068,976

0

1.483981

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19.5

12.82

93.59

66.67

24.36

17.95

11.54

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6.41

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2

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homeless

87p6h8

(22, 27)

But upon second look, it can become apparent. It is hard to convey people's attitudes in a reddit post, but you can tell from people's vibes if they're being nice (and yes, that happened a lot) vs. if they have ulterior motives. So, maybe not the best reddit post, but don't think you can judge what happened based only on a cursory impression from the post. Besides the larger point is that the prejudice is rampant, whether or not you like my example. That's the larger point.

3,761

0

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survivorsofabuse

9bfkbe

(20, 25)

Trauma changed the trajectory of my life. But I don't know if I would feel this way about my options if I wasn't anxious and wounded. My ex and I broke up because he never liked to leave the house, even for daytime activities. I wonder sometimes how I am going to feel when I hit middle age. Am I going to feel like I do now?

15,935

1

1,535,594,804

8

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1

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1

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1

4.670261

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relationships

7rvimh

[5, 10]

If I ask her anything about her life or about my uncle who she lives with (66 stroke survivor), she answers vaguely “He’s fine” or “ask him yourself”. The unappreciative part come from the fact that when she asks me to do something and I have to say no, or if I imply a no, she gets completely mad at me. She’ll go “but I love you and do stuff for you. Your daddy would be disappointed in you. Fine, then, I’ll never ask for anything ever again.

926

1

0.6

1,516,507,176

2

1.275116

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2.16

89.42

11

46.73

17.6

11.36

97.73

70.45

31.82

25

9.09

0

5.68

10.23

0

6.82

3.41

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9.09

7.95

11.36

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2.27

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2.27

1.14

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3.41

2.27

0

1.14

26.14

2.27

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7.95

4.55

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3.41

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3.41

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3

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1

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3

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relationships

7pt64b

[30, 35]

I want that. I want him as well as a SO but maybe I need more time. Its not fair to him. Maybe I'm more invested than even he is. I don't know

2,009

0

0.6

1,515,721,294

3

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33

1

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survivorsofabuse

90svsp

(20, 25)

But how do I keep going with this girl and eventually ask her to hang out again because no romantic relationship can really progress forward until we're physically intimate with each other, but we can't get there unless we hang out. And she doesn't even like talking on the phone and just texts. I feel like I'm having a relationship with my phone sometimes and it's like a female Wilson sometimes lol (movie Castaway reference for those who don't know). Anyone who has been in an abusive relationship and came out of it or anyone who dated an abused survivor, how do you advise that I progress things with her? \*\*TL;DR\*\* I'm dating a girl who was formerly in an abusive relationship.

11,537

1

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relationships

7r5k3s

(15, 20)

At some point in the past year, we discussed living together. She seemed to be okay with it and never had any objections. Since both our rental agreements will soon expire (hers in May and mine in July), I started looking for a new place online. However, I noticed that she never really responded enthusiastically about anything I showed her or just plain ignored it. Last weekend, I confronted her and she admitted that she no longer wants to move in together, saying it is too soon for her and that she had been thinking about it for a long time.

13,012

0

0.8

1,516,233,850

2

9.002277

101

19.24

78.59

86.88

43.84

20.2

16.83

97.03

61.39

23.76

15.84

4.95

1.98

0

8.91

0

7.92

2.97

13.86

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9.9

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2.97

18.81

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16.83

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4.95

3.96

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25.74

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11.88

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11.88

4.95

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2.7778

2.5714

2.6

1.1111

1.125

1

1.6963

1.47234

1.83153

0.67

14

8.527604

0.02776

ptsd

9l7rup

[25, 30]

it wasn't my fault it feels like my fault I feel like the reason That mother shouldn't have had to bury her boy I should have been a better friend

1,688

1

1,538,619,189

2

3.790938

30

8.19

15.86

23.51

1.03

30

3.33

100

66.67

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16.67

13.33

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10

6.67

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3.33

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10

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13.33

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2.7143

2.4286

3

1.3333

1

1.79394

1.496

2.10077

1

2

3.55625

0.5

almosthomeless

7jk9dr

[5, 10]

Even when i offered to pay, she wouldn't take it. I worked an hour away from my house and she was the one who was driving. She got pulled over quite a few times for driving while suspended for the unpaid ticket. They got tired of it and impounded the car. So she lost her job.

1,403

0

0.666667

1,513,181,510

3

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3

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1.68397

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12

1.778158

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relationships

7nyzod

[15, 20]

Every day I hope she messages me, calls me, or post on my Facebook. Any advice would mean the world to me. Thank you. --- **tl;dr - can't get over my ex**: How to get over my ex!

415

1

1,515,024,737

1

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37

46.8

39.34

99

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1.6975

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1.91722

1

2

-0.133977

-0.390625

ptsd

6zt8ni

(10, 15)

But then i couldn't think straight. now i get flashbacks in school. I used to enjoy quantitative courses but now i get tension headaches from the flashbacks, and feelings of horror and hyperarousal. I just feel so violated and disturbed that it was for fear of his violence that i didn't close the door - and that he was watching me! My vagina feels tension too, which i read from a PTSD book is a common symptom.

46,860

1

1,505,290,766

7

6.236538

76

18.8

5.73

86.55

1

15.2

21.05

93.42

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21.05

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11.84

0

2.63

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6.58

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2.63

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11.84

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3.95

1.32

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2.63

0

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13.16

5.26

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0

1.32

0

2.63

0

2.75

3

1

1.1429

1

1.72074

1.48254

1.80683

0.82

5

5.773487

0.133333

ptsd

9gz6kk

[30, 35]

They would text and call constantly throughout the day begging me to forgive them for hurting me but that they're in love and love can't be stopped. They got increasingly angry and started calling me selfish for trying to keep them apart. After I wrote a bit about the sexual abuse in an anonymous online diary my ex (who knew my username but I thought I had blocked from the site) started harassing me more. Angrily telling me that I need to stop pretending he raped me and how I wanted everything that happened and that I was just a jealous ex. I won't and kinda can't (remember missing pieces of time) go into all the details, but he gaslighted me pretty bad.

1,204

1

0.833333

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3

7.297334

123

36.85

28.46

93.48

1

24.6

21.14

94.31

55.28

22.76

17.89

13.01

0

1.63

3.25

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5.69

10.57

4.88

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18.7

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3.25

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7.32

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1.63

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4.88

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0.81

3.25

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1.63

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6.5

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2.44

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0.81

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2.44

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0.81

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11.38

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3.25

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3

2.6364

3

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1.125

1

1.74989

1.56505

1.8468

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7.095163

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relationships

7rtgah

[0, 5]

My girlfriend and I have been dating now for 3 months. We have a very happy relationship most of the time. I love her and she loves me and we spend almost all our time together. She can be insecure at times and has a couple mood swings where she can be very happy to very upset. I do my best to bring her out of those slumps and usually I do.

940

0

1

1,516,485,575

2

1.970833

72

9.47

91.75

48.89

92.4

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6.94

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0

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0

3

2.75

2.8

1.3333

1

1.83385

1.55938

1.98083

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7

3.512222

0.43125

relationships

7u4t68

[10, 15]

This has *obviously* created some crushing tension in the apartment, with no one really having to go other than work during the day. (We've all recently moved to the area and don't really have family/mutual friends to stay with.) Flash forward to last night...I'm asleep on the couch and she comes in at 1AM, blackout drunk, shakes me awake violently to tell me of the Tinder date she just got back from and how awful it was. But the guy she had sex with last night was pretty good, etc. This goes on and on, turns to threats of violence against me for uprooting and throwing her life into whack.

210

1

1,517,350,375

1

7.447105

112

84.57

46.43

86.72

2.37

22.4

13.39

91.07

54.46

11.61

8.04

3.57

0.89

0

3.57

0

3.57

5.36

20.54

8.04

4.46

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1.79

16.07

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0.89

1.79

8.04

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5.36

2.68

1.79

0

8.93

0.89

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10.71

0

1.79

0

1.79

5.36

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3.57

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6.25

9.82

0

22.32

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9.82

8.93

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1.79

2.68

0

18.75

7.14

4.46

0

2.68

1.79

2.68

2.8462

3

1

1.73826

1.64646

1.80902

1

5

7.242807

-0.048214

ptsd

9y5pz9

[0, 5]

Sometimes I'll stop and just stand somewhere or stare until I get snapped out of it. I don't know for how long but it can't be for more than 10 minutes. I just found out about catatonia and I show a few other symptoms. When I dissociate it's usually a lot more violent and delusional so I thought maybe it was something else. I haven't brought it up with my therapist because I just had a meeting with her before learning about this, am I just looking too deep into things?

958

1

0.714286

1,542,545,354

3

3.066563

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5.53

1.88

99

11.53

18.2

19.78

93.41

68.13

24.18

13.19

12.09

0

1.1

0

9.89

3.3

15.38

8.79

14.29

10.99

3.3

17.58

7.69

4.4

2.2

1.1

4.4

1.1

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1.1

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20.88

4.4

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7.69

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2.2

0

2.2

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3.3

0

1.1

4.4

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1.1

16.48

1.1

7.69

2.2

0

12.09

4.4

1.1

0

1.1

0

5.49

0

2.375

2.6667

3

1

1.63077

1.42651

1.82647

0.67

5

4.085833

-0.053125

domesticviolence

9oa6wp

[4, 9]

I have no worth or identity or breathe. He has blamed me for everything. I guess I am getting an abortion. I was upset his friend brought him somewhere that he ran into a girl he loves, and even though it was just a second it really hurt me. He hides me from his friends and his friends reject me but all he says is I do not like his friends.

90

1

0.714286

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relationships

7nya6p

[40, 45]

Email her? She lives in his hometown, so an in-person meeting is not possible, nor do I think it would be wise. Should I do it anonymously? Should I provide screen shots of our conversations right off the bat, or wait and see if she requests it? I feel like I may only have one shot to do this and want to make sure I do it right.

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0

0.571429

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8

3.815188

0.295238

relationships

7st4t3

[10, 15]

I could write a long book about it. The issue: My current issue is a strange one and I'm curious to hear other people's thoughts about it. Whenever my inlaws visit and stay the night, they bring 1 set of clean clothes and wash the ones they are wearing EVERY NIGHT. They do this regardless of the number of nights they are staying.

1,235

0

0.6

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72

4.366154

0.006944

stress

72jogj

[15, 20]

Rubbing with shoulders with people and socializing too frequently may also be source of stress as the soul and body needs to re-energize it frequently. This is similar to the phoenix rising from the ashes to become a stronger self- a dramatic example which, yet all too relevant. **Leave your Comfort Zone** The familiar can also be a cause of stress ass the more used to you is to familiarity the more stress any unknown element will give you. It’s best to change ones surroundings and indulge in new activities to push yourself to your limit.

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0

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domesticviolence

9pwyqz

[10, 15]

I don’t live at home anymore, and I take care of myself. However, my father is the breadwinner and neither my brothers nor my mother think they can leave because they don’t think they’ll be able to support themselves. My brothers are still in school, high school and college, and live at home. My mother has suffered abuse from the time she had me about 33 years ago until now. My father would hit her but when I turned 16, I finally had the courage to stand up to him and tell him he had to stop.

1,935

0

0.571429

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1

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1

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3

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relationships

7ocyup

(35, 40)

Friends privy to the situation believe that she is just constantly keeping me on the back burner because I'm the safe option, when she isn't with somebody, or when she doesn't have anybody else. She knows I love her still, she knows I'd do just about anything for her, and want to be with her still to this day but nothing more than just an option. I always end up feeling the same in this situation though, worthless, low, wishing I was in a relationship with her. --- **tl;dr**: Me and ex have stayed in somewhat constant contact for 10 years, never get back together officially.

14,795

1

1,515,175,379

2

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ptsd

9orda5

(2, 7)

I only get it when I have a flashback or strong reaction to a trigger. I notice it sticks around even when I feel emotionally calm and can stick around for a long time after the trigger, like days or weeks. It’s a new symptom I think. Also been having lots of nightmares again recently. Not sure what to do as I’m not currently in therapy, but I am waiting to be seen at a mental health clinic.

9,377

1

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ptsd

9h5uha

(5, 10)

I go through periods where all night I have nightmares and I can’t slee because of them. These periods last for weeks or months on end and then stop briefly. Three years ago I used to be on a medicine that helped with the nightmares, I can’t remember the name though. It was a really old blood pressure medicine from the fifties that they gave to soldiers returning from war and they figured out that it helped with ptsd too. But it made me so tired.

26,336

1

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relationships

7sd6kl

(20, 25)

I've applied to many other places over the months and using services like Indeed and Monster. But no such luck as of yet. The whole issue has left me feeling angry. When I talked to my therapist about it, he did help; however, the conversation had the tone of "being a man" and doing what you need to do and after a while to simply let go of the anger. I'm not trying to disregard him, but I've been having a hard time understanding what he means.

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1

0.6

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3

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1.125

1

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4

6.77

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ptsd

81rj48

[5, 10]

i faced up to myself. i completed probation. it's not the drugs i need. it's to leave my environment and everything i know; it's to get a fresh start. i'm only 22.

376

0

0.8

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11.24

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1

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2

2.623556

0.15

anxiety

87wphr

[1, 6]

I suffered a concussion a month ago and I noticed it really has provoked my anxiety to be scared about getting worse and it has even led to me getting depressed and thinking of harming myself I have been like this before, I have had anxiety but not to this level. I have felt better since the concussion has healed but I am worried I won't recover from my anxiety and I have been perscribed Celprix (Escitalopram) and unsure if I should take it. I kind of feel like I can recover from this by getter back to my routine and return to work. Anyone else been through a life changing injury and had some bad anxiety from it?

1,664

1

1,522,280,650

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4.665417

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2.8333

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1

1.125

1

1.7321

1.38868

1.84489

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4

5.736667

0.033333

ptsd

9ut4zv

[30, 35]

#NAME?

559

1

1,541,543,111

9

11.497297

35

16.23

38.74

98.59

1

35

34.29

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54.29

20

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20

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14.29

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2.625

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3

1.1429

1

1.80001

1.75833

1.85932

0.85

9

9.484459

-0.4

assistance

5qdybg

[15, 20]

We've been living in my grandmother's house since loosing the apt. All of our possessions, as well as all of my grandmother's possessions were in the home at the time of the fire. The property was supposed to be sold on December 29th, but when my cousin who was also living on the property unexpectedly passed away on December 24th, the buyers backed out. Due to these circumstances, our home insurance had lapsed, so at the moment we have no resources to work with, except for the generosity of others. It's a massive tragedy for our family, because we didn't have any funds available for Christmas either, and between family, and friends, we were able to have a great holiday, but now all of those gifts are gone as well.

545

1

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11.022963

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homeless

64sedu

[0, 5]

I don't know what to do with myself ! At times I feel like just killing myself. but I have been thinking that for a couple of years now so thats not happening. . About a month ago I chose to go homeless because I was stuck.

114

1

1,491,932,680

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1.884511

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relationships

7tt5sa

(20, 25)

I began to see a therapist and started taking some medication for my mood. I was really trying to improve myself. The first medication I tried, I now believe, made things like social anxiety worse. I recently found a medication (Zoloft) that has changed my life. I had been exercising, going out of my way to connect with old friends who I like in an effort to curb the isolation etc.

2,498

0

1

1,517,240,916

46

5.836761

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80.52

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99

8.79

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19.72

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3

1

1.2

1

1.83812

1.53871

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32

7.232507

0.030556

assistance

9w9seg

[5, 10]

Unfortunately, money is what me and her don't have now. My friends' help has dried up, and I don't blame them one bit for that. After five months, I've exhausted pretty much all the friends I can. Going into every little thing that has happened could fill a book. Maybe I \*WILL\* write a book about it someday, I don't know.

1,120

1

0.6

1,541,988,309

0

3.475231

61

7.18

25.59

62.75

1.13

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9.84

100

59.02

22.95

14.75

11.48

0

1.64

8.2

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0

29.51

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6.56

0

8.2

0

6.56

2.8462

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1

1.1818

1

1.68383

1.61786

1.87836

0.44

11

4.003077

-0.139583

anxiety

6e2gfv

[5, 10]

This post was spurred by the fact that I was just scrolling through photos I took of my boyfriend last year and I found myself thinking, "is this person actually my boyfriend?" I don't mean that in a sappy "how did I get so lucky" way (although I did luck out with him, for sure) but more in a "how do I see this person all the time and still feel like I don't recognize him in photos" way. We've been together for over five years. It just... it doesn't make any sense. Normally I only do this with people from high school, many of whom I haven't seen since we graduated six years ago.

432

1

0.5

1,496,087,533

1

3.811

115

18.51

24.32

97.73

74.37

19.17

10.43

97.39

60.87

22.61

14.78

11.3

1.74

0

1.74

0

7.83

3.48

13.91

11.3

6.96

6.09

3.48

19.13

3.48

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domesticviolence

6y8dwp

[39, 44]

He hasn't paid any child support. He isn't fulfilling the courts orders that would get him a chance to petition for supervised visitation. It feels like he's completely just disappeared from being a father but I still feel like he's going to come back. Even writing about it makes it hard to breathe. Is it silly?

1,656

1

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relationships

7syl18

(0, 5)

So I've been dating my current girlfriend for 6 months now. Everything has been great. We get along great, haven't had any fights, sex is still amazing, all that. I've owned a condominium for 7 years, and its a decent sized 2 bedroom, 1 1/2 bath. Well, her lease runs out at the end of July, and I'm toying with the idea of inviting her to move in with me.

27,846

0

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survivorsofabuse

9iqgl6

(0, 5)

/r/MadOver30 is a sub for general discussion of mental health issues, specifically for the over 30's age group.    The group was started because a number of people at /r/mentalhealth expressed an interest in having a place to talk about mental illness with people who share a commonality of being in a more mature in years.

50,304

0

1

1,537,865,250

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assistance

9fmbcg

[0, 5]

I recently posted here trying to find help to afford my rent after having to pay for my transmission to be fixed. It depleted the little I finally was able to save. I was able to afford the rent too but it caused an overdraft of about $100. I'm asking for $175, this will cover the overdraft and negative balance and give me enough to buy groceries for the next week (this will include a bag of dog food.) I can send a picture of the receipt of what the money is spent on.

1,471

0

0.8

1,536,876,099

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