tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5116174456487594432.post7292231269623754636..comments2018-11-13T08:19:14.298-08:00Comments on Positively Miscellaneous: The Sad DaysSamarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16448173914973765504noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5116174456487594432.post-19283267701963370332016-08-28T13:03:05.398-07:002016-08-28T13:03:05.398-07:00Don&#39;t apologize for how you&#39;re feeling. Yo...Don&#39;t apologize for how you&#39;re feeling. Your feelings, your pain, are as valid as anyone else&#39;s, and I can&#39;t say how much I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and hurt on your blog. I think that the second-to-last paragraph sums up your needs pretty well--bearing in mind, of course, that you know you best. Take the time you need. If you&#39;re not ready to date again, that&#39;s fine.<br /><br />I was with a guy for two years and we broke up. It took me almost double that to end the mourning process. I dated during that time, but I wasn&#39;t interested in anything serious. Mostly, I just needed to find something to take up my spare time, and for me, dating helped. It may not be the same for you. Just remember--you know your own feelings the best. If you need more time, take it. If you need to talk to your friends, do so. I doubt they&#39;re bothered by it. They are, after all, your friends for a reason. Love is powerful; seek out those who love you most when you need them.K. A. McFaddenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11147966610308173681noreply@blogger.com