I know! I know ! Sheila I was being a bit facetious. As Danno points out below, groping of backsides and genitals is sexual abuse. We all know that. Well all of us but the Hierarchy of the Church. One would think that when they started depositing the perverts in the retirement home, they would have realized that having teenagers serving them meals might not be a good idea.  But that would have shown some concern for children before the fact. But we all know that concern for children is of no concern. We found that out when they shuffled abusive priests from parish to parish to avoid detection.