Ok, I agree we should let the incident go. Focusing on the incident ignores the scandal that provoked it to begin with.

And regarding your suggestion, 
When your goal is to help people, you go to where they need the help, in the "nasty, violent, weird" places.  You dont sit in a a comfy office and pontificate about how much good you are doing for them, you actually go help them.  We are trying to teach people that creating violence over something so trivial as cute girls at other high schools, is counterproductive to having a good life. Killing someone over photos and sunglasses, is not in any far stretch of the imagination, a higher standard. It reduced the quality of life of all involved.