I would love to agree with you Mokantz, but I don't (fully). Yes the "ENTIRE" church needs a voice as you contend, but it will never say the entirely same thing. That, I think is the essence, that we engage in, what I hold to as, a sacred space with and without walls, in Christ. I don't have to agree, and inevitabely won't, but I can respect another's opinion and learn as long as the other is prepared to listen and learn and be guided overall by the Who and how Jesus set himself firmly within the best of civilization's evolving thought. 
This means a whole bunch of things: it means inclusion without requiring homogeneity; it means acknowledging leadership, delegation and "followship" as well as fellowship. I means accepting principles as generalities while accepting differences - and differences accepting that they are "deviations from the norm" without being "deviant". Etc.
We need "holy oil" that transforms what you term as "shattered and disfunctional" into chaotic peace.