We have all suffered loss in our lives so I feel for you, I'm sorry you have but what confuses a lot of us is this. You want what to have your peaceful moment and they want there's. They aren't being loud, not one protester has said you shouldn't have your moment to reflect what this country means to you and what the flag means to you and they have what it means to them. They are being told they need to be out there for the national anthem (yes the military pays the nfl to to have the players out there. Well documented, easy to google). Many say they love their country and they want it to work better for others so they kneel quietly to to reflect on this. It's like telling someone what they should pray about or how to pray. I feel the hypocrisy never had I heard anyone getting angry about people buying beer during it saying they will boycott Coors. But now they can't kneel and feel for the loss of those at the hands of government authority like Eric Garner, an america who died too.