Maybe the mess is being made in the process of extricating the Church from the theological corners its leadership has painted itself into over the centuries. I have come to realize orthodoxy (right belief) without orthopraxy (right practice) and orthopathy (right attitude) produces some pretty toxic results.  I have also come to realize that the need for certainty is pretty much antithetical to faith. Once we get the part about loving God and our neighbor down, the rest is pretty much details.