It can get pretty hurtful having pastors like that, When my wife and I were planning our wedding, we considered that our families speak different languages, so we kindly asked our priest if we could have some portions of the mass in Latin, then everybody would be on equal footing since no one side would understand more than the other.

He freaked out, and dropped all contact with us, the only time we got an answer from him was when we wanted to transfer to another priest to help us get married. Really sad when a priest can't see beyond his ego, for him anything that even smelt of pre 1960 was anathema. 

He could have just said no, right then and there or kindly referred us to someone else, instead of coming with an outburst and then blacklisting us. 

It goes both ways of course, and I am sure there are traditionalist priests that only do things their way instead of meeting the laity on their level and guiding them higher.