DD,  I do not like civil comments.  I miss the Wordpress comments, especially the list of recent comments.  I am not one of the editors and I don't need to second guess their decisions.  I am at peace with either system.

I pass all the comments as Good Good unless I see something that ought to be taken down (I haven't yet in civil comments). Without the full context my judgment is lacking.  I err on the side of charity.  I don't like the idea of hastily censuring someone I haven't carefully studied.  Good Good saves time and keeps me out of trouble with Civil comments, which I understand demerits excessive and routine negativity.

 
In my book,  all the girls are good looking and all the comments are good.