Hummmm. No one is blaming here. But the fact you'd bring that up as a response to my comment leaves me to believe you've done some blaming yourself?

I understand the power of addiction and thankfully I don't have to answer to you about my daughters choices. But clearly you'll widdle away at her choices, through my comment. Which leads me to think your projecting and/or diverting for some reason. 
Good luck.