And knows that he has a child - not kept in the dark about it. And isn't pushed out of the family by vengeful ex-wives. And doesn't suffer from "visitation games" by vengeful exes... And doesn't have to fight parental alienation syndrome foisted on the kids by vengeful ex-wives etc. Ok it isn't always vengeful ex-wives, sometime there is no vengeance at all, sometimes the wives just find the ex to be inconvenient.