The divisions among us do grow deeper.  And as you say, Monica, "Until someone comes along who can give us a new language, a way of signing perhaps, that can replace the old ways of speaking to ourselves, I don't see how any of this will change."

The Holy Spirit revealed in the Second Vatican Council DID GIVE US a new language to listen and speak of and with God, self and all other.   Yet this new language need not replace the old language of the Council of Trent, if only we could respect and grow from each other's differences...if only we could see those differences as gifts of the Holy Spirit.

Two very different languages with a common signing of the cross between us.  
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