Interesting, isn't it, how when a dialogue with an anti-feminist proceeds long enough, the chauvinist's argument boils down to wanting to re-make all women into his image of his sainted mother?
We women know that our children, well into their young adult years, still lack the maturity to see their mothers as three dimensional human beings, some psychologically immature folks never arrive there, no matter how old.  As a primary educator of my children, now out of the infant and toddler stage, it is crucial for me to model for them that I am a fallible human being who has relationships and interests outside of being a mother, and that I was not put on earth to meet their every whim.  A curious byproduct of patriarchy is this collective tendency to both demonize and idealize motherhood.  Psychological maturity is to resist this tendency.