"Rules have their place," and we are the ones who say what place to give Jesus rule -- we get to say say whether we should consider it important or not.  That's what you are saying, in essence.  That's not how Jesus taught us to think of God-given moral laws.  Jesus said, "If you love me, keep my commandments."  The converse is that you do not love him if you have the presumption to think of his rules as subordinate to yours, which is what you clearly do.

You say:  "It is very human and very understandable for the community to establish rules."  But the rule against divorce is not a rule that humans would ordinarily dish out for themselves, is it?  No.  That rule was given by Jesus, by God.  You suppose he did that by accident, or without sufficiently thinking about it?  LOL.  

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