In regards to LW1, I am concerned that her husband's inability to "put his foot down" with his parents is going to lead to him bringing their child to his parents (or vice versa) when mom is not around.  He needs it reinforced that his child and wife are now his priorities, not his desire to spend time with his parents.  Mom may put her foot down with the grandparents but if he doesn't as well, the baby is still in danger.  I just hope she remembers that.