i chose to delete this comment ...a minute or so after it had posted.  it should not be up here  and i'm not reading nor replying to your post. i will contact civil to find out why this was still up. 
 i will not be responding to your posts as i don't think you are interested in conversation and i'm staying away from that type of back and forth..... if it's leading to an actual conversation...but that is rarely the case. rarely.
 and AGAIN THE COMMENT HAD BEEN DELETED AND IT SHOWS UP. I AM REALLY UNHAPPY ABOUT THIS. I CHANGED MY MIND IMMEDIATELY AND DELETED THAT COMMENT.