I don't defend any demeaning remarks from anyone, including yours just now.  There are  people on here who hypocritically claim to be loving, tolerant Christ-like individuals yet make fun another person's anatomy.  I cannot apologize for Jack's "small hands remark", or "Donald Trump's fat pig remarks"  Only they can do that..   Your attitude is not much different than the Pharisees in the time of Jesus.  He told them to remove the  'plank' in your own eye before attempting to remove a speck of sawdust from someone else.  It will help you to 'see' better Rik.  God Bless You!