If you've read the entire thread and come to that conclusion, you might want to read it again with more open eyes.

what you state isn't my thesis at all.

The abusers bear most of the responsibility, maybe nearly all of it. God knows the ratio.

But we know that we bear some responsibility..we are tied together in the Body of Christ, like knots in a net.  

What  I do affects others directly and also in the spiritual plane.

This is very clear from Scripture, and from consistent teaching from the Church.

So few people here seem to know what the Communion of Saints actually means.   They utter words about "Jansenist caricatures" as if they know what they're talking about,  They parrott that phrase every week, but never stop to think of its magnificant meaning.