A capricious God could still control every aspect of our lives, but just wouldn't abide by a consistent moral code.

I don't believe in a capricious God, but I do believe that God doesn't interfere with nature, life and human interactions once set in motion. Some might see that as indifference or even cruelty on God's part. I see it as part of the depth of divine mystery.

Life is a gift, but it comes with a price. We are vulnerable, we are mortal, we have the power to hurt and be hurt by one another. But given the choice, I imagine most of us would still have chosen to have lived.