I think Wente is addressing the lack of an objective standard to #metoo.  If women are hashtaging about unwanted sexual attention (not sexual violence), then there is hardly an adult, male or female, in this country who couldn't #metoo about it. I'm a guy and I've been sexually harassed at work by a female (I was her boss), I've been groped by a female when blind drunk, and I've had plenty of unwanted sexual advances, but I'm not about to #metoo. We are all on this planet because somebody made a sexual advance. We (men and women) won't read the cues right every time and sometimes we are not interested or the other isn't interested in us. Move on. I get the sense that it's coming to a place where if a guy expresses interest and the feeling is not mutual then the woman can #metoo. If the guy read the cues right then he's in luck and there's no #metoo. Not all unwanted sexual interest is harassment, sometimes it's just life.