Conversely, next time you're biking to work and a bad case of vehicular road rage lands you in the hospital with a broken leg ... Keep a notepad, write down all the friends, family, neighbors, co-workers who call you - who offer to come over and do your house chores and cook you meals - who offer to loan you money if you're in need - who offer to drive you around to follow up visits.

My local church took it upon themselves to make sure I wasn't 80% ok, not 90% ok - they made sure I was 120% ok.

Meals, rides, chores - couple people even offered to "fill in for me at work" to ensure I wouldn't lose my job.

I wonder if your church of agnostics offers the same care love and support?