I mostly agree with you, and is why I'm so hopeful that in the near future the liturgists and church musicians, in concert with their bishops, will be able to remedy the awful music and the forms used.  As to the Episcopal liturgies, I have often wondered why the radical traditionalists among us don't leave and join that Church.  There they can easily find Anglican liturgies far more in keeping with those of the Tridentine tradition, and with less conflicts within congregations.  They just have a few items to accept in that church that they shriek in horror about with us.  Thanks for a worthwhile comment!