And this is all RDP has, a personal attack?

Does she take up the point that God wants to use everything in our life to draw us closer to Him?  Our joys, our struggles, our sorrows, our whole life, and our whole death?

No.

Does she take up the point that serious illnesses and death introduce new ways to grow in virtue and holiness, that these natural events can - if accepted with faith and a sense of trusting abandonment - lead to GROWTH in a hundred different virtues?

No.

Does she take up the point that Jesus Himself suffered out of love, and said on the eve of His death, "do this in memory of me?"

No.

Does she take up the point that Scripture gives us a way to understand difficulties and suffering and death, and still tells us to "Rejoice always"

Is she working out any of these points in her personal attack?  No. 

Are any of these substantial and supernatural points taken on?

No, what you get instead is pseudo-psychological language and accusations.