John, you've shown over the years to have quite a poor record of reading hearts and minds and being, in general, a person who likes to make harsh and sarcastic judgments of others.  

Let's work on that defect first, and then maybe turn to that other problem we've mentioned in the past before engaging in internet psychoanalysis. 

Dispensing tissues is a bad proxy measure of either sympathy or empathy, notions which you seem to not understand the distinctions.