Circumstances of relationships change,  as does consciousness. In human relationships, we are both agents and agendum, meaning interpersonal relationships are reciprocal in cause and effect.  Religion content is the consciousness that drives agency as well as the outcome of what agency drives. If the agency is misguided, the agendum outcome is likely to be a mix that includes negative outcomes. Except 'religion content' is authentic, its outcomes cannot be. Negative things going on in top-down controlled religion prove the point that change from the status quo content (indoctrination) has to change; 'fides semper reformanda'.
(science-sense means truth-sense)