Groucho,

You call that judging? Please read Matthew 18:6 and 12:36. God takes our words and their impact on others very seriously.

If one thing has been made clear in the discussions about WO it is that neither side is going to persuade the other, so further argument is worse than worthless because it breeds animosity and mistrust between believers and makes a mockery of truth. More than that, it doesn't matter how right you are, if your view doesn't reflect God's love and redeeming power, you're potentially endangering the salvation of the spiritually weak, as has been illustrated to me in recent days. God wants us to be rivers of the pure, life-giving water of His love quenching the spiritual thirst of the people we meet, not distasteful, polluted streams that send them looking elsewhere for solutions and salvation.