Hello, I am that platonic friend you are all talking about. I am the guy she calls when she wants to do stuff and that you have indicated you have no interest in doing. We spend time hiking, cross country skiing, cycling, kayaking and dancing. She would prefer you were there, I am her second choice. We have a great time. She is energetic, dynamic full of joy and life, and I like the things we do. You are tall dark and handsome, I am short, fat and bald. If you leave her, she will quickly find a replacement for you, but it won't be me. I am her friend, that is all.