Furthermore, if I don't stop posting and give this forum a break, shame on me. This article is so "out there" that I don't know what the heck I am doing here. 
  A private moment? GAH! What about the fellowship of the Holy Spirit (this is part of the liturgy)? What about prayer? Does only holding hands make community happen? AAAAAGH! 
 Pogo (Walt Kelly) great political satirist and cartoonist had our erstwhile swamp crittur say; WE HAVE MET THE ENEMY AND HE IS US. For the record the word agnostic is not used in this sense either. What about proper English usage?
   I'll tell you what the problem really is: upper-middle class Catholics not willing to step out of their comfort zone. You boasted of your status so I know whereof I speak.
   I know of a highly competent professional (retired) who thinks it proper to pray MY FATHER WHICH ART IN HEAVEN for private prayer. EEEEEK!
AAAAAGH! GAH! Lucy and Linus redux. May God have mercy on us, everyone.