We must "forgive from the first moment".

Any delay on our part - any drawing short - is room for our own future personal interior growth, but not that far in the future!! today, but no later than tomorrow!

Forgiving in this way helps us "grow on the inside". 

How much we must be forgiven for, how can we hold anything back in our acts of forgiving?

We could turn our own acts of forgiveness - the energy and work they take and maybe a little bit of pain (but not that much) - into acts of atonement for our own failures, defects, sins, offenses. 

And we shouldn't be looking around all the time for places where we can forgive others...that sets up the wrong relationship.  It becomes a seed of ugly pride.