Millie: 
I don't know why you feel you must post here or  even about why guys like you  and nurnie/saullie  act the way you do on here.  If it displeases you so much here goes: as you already know, I managed, played and or coached for over 40 years against this type of beerleague animal, not to mention other levels.  Your "never" seems to emanate from your regular, as you know,  experiences and disadvantages in this game which you seem to be either foreign to  or simply overwhelmed by, but you insist on going on about.  I stated an honest and clear opinion, if you disagree that's fine, but don't make things up  about  a "time and a place" which  you know nothing about.  It's like me going on about your uncle Al sitting on the  Chicago bench and me sitting on the Habs bench as kids; that doesn't mean we played against each other, not that I could out coach him which  I probably could. But that's beside the point, and that is actually my real point. Don't assume, pal.