"Reconcile" 
A noble sentiment. When Pope Francis speaks of his pastors "smelling of the sheep" I am confident that he is referring to the admixture of lanolin, wet wool, dust, dung and urine that is all of the earth. The smell of this campaign has been dominated by a rather extreme concentration of excrement that is hardly "reconcilable" without a pretty thorough mixture of antibiotic. 
One does not simply "reconcile" with hate, unless of course, it is a finale to a healing process. 
Regardless of political allegiance, the "hate" element, the relentless abuse of truth, decency, respect should, hopefully have shocked us all, USofA and all who have been transfixed by this display.  
When one thinks of "turning one's other cheek" to the likes of a Donald Trump, one must be aware, not of another slap but a knife. That is not martyr worthy.
I have always preferred the "peace and good will to all". I now understand: "peace to all of good will". I get it now.