His comment was about accountability for ones actions and choices. Mr Boyle and his wife seem like intelligent, mature ADULTS. While it’s obv a good thing they are safe along with their kids who had no say or choice in being born into such horrific circumstance (that may some cause emotional flashbacks for life), they chose to travel to an unsafe area while she was 5 mths pregnant and chose to conceive and give birth to more kids while held hostage. It’s reasonable to expect and ask for accountability in this case. This is not about ‘victim shaming’ but calling it that does get headlines for those who have books.