The 10 Commandments "no longer applies" ONLY if One has been "born again" -ie;
that state of consciousness that is required to 'forget' the rote rules because those 
commandments are now written in your heart. Anyone else should still adhere to the framework of enumerated Rules. I do not need to Remember that to murder is wrong; that stealing is wrong; that desiring someone else's wife is wrong, etc. etc. I do not need to check my list of commandments- I simply KNOW.