Fine....since you drone on with the same question looking for a simple yes or no answer, I’ll give you one.  “No”.  Here’s why.  If my kid wanted to be part of a club that helps them deal with issues they are facing and for which they were uncomfortable speaking to me, I would have no problem with the teacher not telling me.  I want what is best for my kids.  A school has no business violating my teen’s privacy and trust, unless doing so is necessary to protect their well being.  In this scenario, their well-being is best served by not telling the parent.

That said, I’m confident that my kids know that they can speak to me about anything....I’m there to help them navigate life and not to judge.  They know that.