Having read your post more than once, Sister, it still feels like you are observing in an effort to separate yourself from the Adventist Today community. 

As Jesus proved, even God cannot love humanity without becoming human, it seems.  Also, Jesus is testimony to why God in Jesus declared he did not come to condemn, but to save.  God in Jesus could not condemn humanity or Jesus would be condemning God, then.  Or so it seems.

In Jesus we are all in this human experience together, Sister. And your having touched Seventh-day Adventism, the Adventist Today community includes you.  So, as truly one of us, how do you sense we can collectively make our experience more meaningful and supportive, indeed more loving?