We have a good widowed friend( age 75) whose daughter aged 41 moved in several years ago due to the failure of her marriage. She is now close to 50 and refuses to move out saying it is her right to live in the family home. Our friend is having to take psychiatric counselling as it is stressing her out to such a degree that her counsellor has warned her that she must take action before it does major harm to her health. The daughter is very talented but refuses to look at jobs she deems to be beneath her qualifications and also refuses to rent a small apartment in a less expensive area saying it would be beneath her standing in life. Our friend is being advised to set a date when the daughter must move out failing which the locks etc will be changed.  As friends we are wondering what roadblocks the daughter can throw up. PS The mother is paying all the daughter’s expenses because the husband has stopped paying alimony,