I think it is pretty amusing when the statement that Jesus didn't really mean "love", an eternal verity, is cheek by jowl with the statement (not from you, Mike, just generally) that Jesus prohibits all divorce, which is infinitely varied in cultures and eras.  As always, Jesus is literal when he agrees with me and figurative when he doesn't. PS Mike, your interpretation equates falling in love with sex. We teach pre-teens not to do that.