"Yet it is clear that his intention was good. The "gold star" family knew his intentions were good." So you have "direct information" now? Did little doonie fly his way to the west coast, boat-jack a jet boat on the Rogue and personally deliver the "direct information" to your doorstep?  He's a creepy "soul-less coward" you prop up with deflections and constantly defend his  disgusting behavior. So effin' sad!