And if she had been raping HIM then she would have been found criminally responsible.  However, this is a longstanding complaint among victim groups.   Drunk drivers who kill people rarely get as long as sentence as a person who intentionally and consciously kill somebody.    And the same goes for perpetrators of sexual crimes.  

  And any victim of crime can tell you that just because there are no legal terms for it, she most definitely is responsible for dealing with the consequences.