Vicki, In the future please try to not reference Trump in any defense of your position.  It weakens it.  Taking the position of attacking the media is also low brow.  It reeks of self-irresponsibility and weakens your position.  I know that it is popular to blame the media these days but they are just reporting what has been observed.  By the way, with the increased focus on social media don't you realize that everybody is now a journalist?  Just saying.  In your position you have the incredible opportunity to demonstrate positive responsible behavior.  You are in the position of being able to validate how prejudices reveal themselves in otherwise caring and compassionate people.  Be a role model and not a Trump clone.