not combativeness or a control issue  - it's debate.  and I was curious.  it was your initial statement that made me want to respond. I skipped lots others...  then, you made a specific statement specifically to my posts and my responses have been to that.  in a  comments forum, it is acceptable to comment on another's comment.  
 this is not about  your personal circumstances, control issues or my "esteemed" approval - it is about credibility...sorry...I will leave you be...have the last word if you like.