I never said "all was well".
I just said they aren't a dictatorship. But even if they were, so what. The US has created dictatorships all over the middle east and their greatest ally in the region is one of the most brutal dictatorships in the world - and coincidentally the country from which originated the people who committed the worst terrorist act in US history. Yet US leaders, and particularly republican ones, consider the Saudis their best friends. Hell G.W. Bush described the Saudi royal family as "part of our own family".
Why can the west be friends with that dictatorship, but not treat Palestinians as actual human beings ?

Ultimately though - Palestinians are a people without a state, they elect representatives but there is no such thing as a Palestinian government since there is nowhere for them to be government off.  And that right there is the problem.
You can't end the violence until you see the other side as fellow human beings who deserve all the rights you have.