Women should focus on being a good wife, mother, sister, auntie then they will look beautiful naturally because they will want to please their man. They will take care of their health, weight and dress all to keep their man happy. That is the way it is always been. 
If you look at feminists they are often unattractive, overweight, eating all the time , poor dress and posture. Then they will feel something is amiss with themselves, so they take up yoga, reiki or something other quakery. What is wrong is they don't have  a man.