Thank you everyone for your kind words.  The outpouring of love that I have felt since this tragedy has happened has been humbling.  People are so kind and gentle.  I thought about naming the places that over served my daughter that night but in truth it could have been any bar; the problem of over serving AND over indulging is epidemic.  we need to educate people, and keep educating them and it needs to start early in their life.  And PLEASE owners of establishments that serve alcohol, please give your employees the tools they need to handle these situations.  Give them more training and more staff so they aren't so overwhelmed that they don't notice that a person has had to much to drink.  Managers, please back your staff up so they feel safe to say NO!  If they are going to cut someone off, be by their side to back them up.  Servers, PLEASE care, care enough to say no!  It really does make a difference.  And people who are drinking, care about yourself enough to STOP!