"always invoking the Holy Spirit to help us see. . . . I think if you're doing that with a sincere heart and the right intention, then I think you can have a sort-of spectrum of opinions without risk of schism or disobedience to the successor of Peter,' said the cardinal-designate."

I think these words sum up nicely what many people, including priests, are doing. They reflect Pope Francis' idea of accompanying  folks who are trying to make some difficult decisions. The more effort we put into trying to be open to the Spirit, the more we become open to possibilities of grace around us. We have to make our moral decisions in practical situations when they happen, but we do not have to do so in the light of rigid rules that have minimal connection with our real life as we live it. Many of us, including me, have to realize that we just don't have all the answers for how folks, whom most of the time we don't really know, are to live their life so they can "be saved".