don't read them - we all have our own 'opinion' . it's easy to forget these are real people sometimes. i can't imagine how the  i can't imagine the hurt you all must be going through. a big hole in peoples lives and big, big changes. a "wife' is now a widow. i hope there is a large , supportive group of friends that can be there for friends and family.
 blessings to all as you all work out this ball of string.