You seem very confused. A healthy society does not concede to those who choose to live in sin. Jesus did not tell people to drop the rocks and then turn and tell the sinner to keep sinning. There is accountability and consequences for sin. The sin nature is to want everyone to approve of and accommodate the irrational behavior to the point of attacking those who do not. One must patiently set boundaries for a particular sin so as not to be an enabler. People are tricked into becoming enablers by those in a particular sin who convince them they are being judgmental. We have all sinned, and we have all needed correction at some point or another in our lives.