The problem with the "Can't we just get along" pleas for so many people is that when we look at the list of unaddressed problems we can trace them all to the never ending war between the corporate rich and the rest of us.  It is undeniable fact that the political power which allows these problems to fester was granted to a burgeoning corporate oligarchy by voters deliberately gathered under the Republican umbrella when those people rejected the politics of diversity and scientific rationality of the Democrats.  The heightened struggle between divisive Conservatism and inclusive Liberalism created a power vacuum filled by an agenda of greed is good for the sole good of wealth.
I've been listening for decades and heard nothing of value.
An "Honorable Opposition" can agree on goals but with differing methods of achieving them.  How can we have civilized dialog with Trump and his supporters when we disagree about what is civil or work together when there are no mutual goals between us?