I am not sure that I agree that facts are sometimes inappropriate.  I think referring to facts is always appropriate.  It is unfortunate this thread has devolved into an extended discussion of the application of situational ethics, but although you endorse that approach to morality, as do may clergy and most bishops, I think it remains inconsistent with the teachings of Jesus, which should offer us guidance, as you might agree, provided those teachings are validated by Tradition, Ritual, and Canon Law.   I can understand that you do not wish to post any factual support for your views, and that is your prerogative, but I think you must realize you only undercut your credibility by doing so.  I am so glad we are able to exchange ideas in this frank and open manner and look forward to continuing conversations, although I fear that continued exploration of your idiosyncratic and somewhat, shall we say unique, ethical posture could be perceived to be an attempt on you to hijack this thread.