People don’t necessarily marry nowadays, even when they have a baby together.  This gal will expect her boyfriend’s mother to provide day care for their kid, if they have one.  She sounds very immature.  The pool skimming are left in a pile for them to pick up?  The mother saved them the time of skimming the pool at least, but she gets only complaints.  As for the dirty paws on the floors, she could try asking her BF’s mom to wipe their feet with the towel she has left ny the door for that purpose!  A simple request to please not rearrange their cabinets or furniture should suffice.  I agree with Amy.  If you accept free services, you have to accept some bad with the good.  If this girl expects to eventually marry this guy, she had better not alienate his mom!