You've entirely missed the point. Read just the title, perhaps. The point is that rhetoric in our public culture these days has softened views on sexual assault. It's put us back years. This article was about what we can do to engage that rhetoric and positively support victims and organizations that combat sexual violence. But I appreciate you passing on the advice of rapists. I'll let my daughter know to cut her hair and wear bulky clothes so she's not complicit if she's sexually assaulted.