no it does not.   To him, producing a same-sex marriage cake IS the same thing as producing a cake with an  obscenity on it.  That is the part that you can not and will not understand and until you do, you will be blind to the problem.   For him, it is not who the people are, but the activity that he disapproves of.  For him, it is the same thing as somebody committing theft or murder.  In every other way, the person can be a great person, but they have committed this one act that he does not approve of.    To him, it is like asking him to help with the robbery or murder.   Again, until you and people like you understand that, you will not understand the problem.  That is how much against his belief system that it is.  If this has given you an inkling of the problem it is good, if not, than I am sorry for you.