I am surprised I am doing this, but the Decree on Ecumenism from Vatican II reminds people there is a "hierarchy of truths", that is some things are more important to the faith than others.
I think the problem lies in the Doorman's position "Those who promote Social stances, policies and agenda's contrary to the Church's teachings are Disobedient." Anyone who supports that position is Disobedient by that definition. This is particularly a problem if the categories obedient and disobedient are taken as meaning good or evil.