And how will your respond when He asks you how you dared to judge Mr. Abbott, accusing him of being responsible for people leaving?  People leave for various reasons, but it's not simply because something someone said "offended" them. That's an excuse.  The real reasons go much deeper.  

By your standard, Jesus and His apostles will be in hot water in the judgment, because they "drove" many from the church.  Truth is offensive to those who do not wish to hear it.