I think I can grasp your feelings quite well. A woman makes some bad choices, putting her in this horrific gang rape situation, "Well it's her fault. She shouldn't have gotten drunk and left willingly with them. She should've known she'd be gang raped." If you were to look back at what you said and compared it to what you say you "feel", don't you agree that you're being hypocritical? Just saying the obvious. Victim blaming is victim blaming is victim blaming. There are no ifs or buts.