My mother was from the 50s and she was married 5x, beat me a few times and was an alcoholic. 
As far as ganging up, it's not like we call each other and plan to attack someone. It could be a lot of people disagree with your comments. 
Saying people attacking about everything you believe in says this medium may not be the best place to express yourself. Are you a member of a congregation  can talk to?