Wow! What a list of unimportant bits and pieces. Actually conscience is supreme. Sorry. From Thomas Aquinas on. As for the others, far more people's faith has been damaged by rigid interpretation of rules that the other way aroaund.
  Though perhaps you don't worry about them as you may consider them heretics. 
I am sorry for anyone who lives in such a restricted, narrow view of faith and God. 
Since I don't like arguments I will only say that your first point is wrong. The church teaches, not at grade schools level, that one must follow one's conscience even if it is objectively wrong. 
Peace.