CS, I would say that you are jumping to a lot of conclusions. Fine and dandy that you are so good at avoiding things BUT when were you in school? I can tell you that norms (or expectations) now are not what they were when I entered college in 1967. I'm not criticising your decisions but I am critical of the rather dumb statement that by implication, my Alaskan daughters "take more thought in protecting themselves from bears, moose, etc. than they do from sexual crimes."