Yes, I like to also think of the 30 years or so, mostly hidden from us, of Jesus's early life and his working life....serving the needs of clients and customers.

It's not in Scripture, but it follows easily from use of our reason and our imagination; two faculties that God gave us to know Him and serve Him. 

The Mass doesn't exclude anyone...many many many graces are available to all.   We must not let a faulty understanding of Church teaching rob those not in full communion with the Church from these other graces.  We mustn't perpetuate a falsehood.  

Receiving communion in a state of grave sin for anyone (e.g., a still adultering hetero husband) hurts their soul.  We mustn't as Scripture tells us "receive unworthily".   

We cannot love someone if we are not drawing them closer to the truth, the full truth.   We are doing them no favor to "play pretend".  

Better formation is needed by all.