It sounds like DeSanctis is whining because the generations that followed changes he advocated aren't buying them. It's important to remember that, for those of us who weren't alive in the '60s, Vatican II isn't an event that redefines the horizon of our faith, but rather a set of texts. Those texts will continue to be interpreted & unpacked in the decades (even centuries) to follow. How the council documents are interpreted and lived will change over time. In no age will everyone be happy with the results. Reform will continue to be reformed, which is how it's been since the earliest days of the Church.

Be humble, be patient, & trust in the Lord who promised never to abandon his Church. Focus less on yourself & your own preferences. Every minute of Mass spent fretting over the furniture and trappings & speculating on the motives of your priest is a precious minute wasted. Spend less time worrying about the inner workings of the Church & more time taking the Gospel to the peripheries.