Yep, you sound like a really rational mature sort of individual.
My way or the highway, eh?  Oh, and Tarberta... why, that's original !
Why don't you go and learn the meaning of the word compromise!  Yes, compromise !
You might find that it makes you just a little bit less of that spoilt, selfish and bitter little minion, instead of coming across like a two-year-old brat who kicks and screams unless everything goes his way.