Sir,

The Church DID have the practice of stole fees.  Some places still do.  Many dioceses, however are doing away with those fees.  Yes the fees are part of priestly income--in areas where they still have the practice.  When Is said that the fees do not belong to the pastor, I meant that the whole fee does not belong to him.  For example--$500 dollars might be the wedding donation.  That does not mean the priest gets $500 dollars.  He would get whatever the diocese sets.  The rest would to the parish and musicians.  

I am a musician too, sir.  I am an organist.  AGO standards for organists is about $100 on the low end for things like funerals or Masses, etc.  For weddings you are talking around $150-250 plus rehearsal.  It depends on the area, however.  

I can't help that your pastor does not pay you.  That practice, however, is uncommon.