Please... Other states you only get domestic violence charges if you hit someone. Here all yiu have to do is yell. Since you dont like it do us a favor and leave. Go back to one of them other 3 states and dont let the dllr hit you. Plea bargains happen to save money. If every case went to trial then whiners like you would whine about how much money it is costing. People like you are never satisfied.