And, Wavemaker, are you advocating violence in response to a threat of the use of deadly force?  I thought you libs were against violence?  That one just expresses civility, love, and understanding of the criminal, and the criminal would just melt and recognize their wrong and submit to the liberal's superior civilized conduct.
Evidently, the lady in question was trained to do so.
Her decision.  However, not for everyone, and not for every situation, and I am certain that she would be the first to agree.