I mistakenly thought this was going to be a "civil" conversation.
Who said anything about demands?
I'm not Episcopalian, but how did you decide that Church OKs "adultery".
"Fornication"  --- hmmmm..... if you believe that all sexual intercourse between unmarried people is a mortal sin, that's your prerogative.  It's not always a "knowing and willful violation of God's law in a serious matter", but that does not matter, because you are against it, correct?