I am suspecting the person who is writing this article is not capable of telling the truth. Maybe the writer is adding a veneer to her image as to who she was in the relationship or omitting some details so that she comes across as a good person. Often times, people delude themselves that they are caring and nice person but they were actually very callous and vain person. So don't cry victim. Take a moment of reflection. You are not a victim here. Try authenticity. Tell the truth. It is good for your own mental health. Suicide prevention.