There is more than one answer here, and it is based on who is asking the question. How is God calling me to 'grow'.  I have grown thru the grace of God across 70 years. How - changes. My answer may have no application to anyone else. Merton said this well... he said "I go where God looks for me". It is a discernment of the heart and an abandonment to the present moment. When the Iraq war was on the brink, thousands took to the streets - I took to a monastery chapel, before the Blessed Sacrament, a day long bread and water fast in prayer and silent solidarity. Some marched Some kept vigil. When I post, I hope to include some 'actionable' item for the person reading it to discern if it is theirs to act on. Action, is the understanding dimension of Contemplation. Steindle-Rast in The Way of Silence just out, does a brilliant discourse on this... there that was the actionable item. Slow read! My now is about a grace sustained dailyness.  Yours? go where God looks for you.