No, rd.   Your perverse speculation and nosiness has nothing to do with genuine concern for others or a sincere desire to help.  When the sexual thoughts you are entertaining begin to entertain you (which they obviously do with your endless posts on the subject),  it's time to get your nose back in your own business and clean yourself up.   Your tag-team group that pops in and out of NCR comments have frankly degraded all conversation here.  This weekend has been horrid with hateful posts.   If you must persist in spreading your sleazy thoughts and sexual speculations,  please take it back to your home base with your like-minded friends.  Your own words convict you...  or as Jesus said: "It is what comes out of the mouth that defiles" (it reflects what is in *your* heart and mind.)