Thank you Scott for your friendly greeting and reading my articles etc, I am not sure where I am open to change, unless you mean Divine Mercy for all, but this mercy is not unconditional in the sense that one has to  know their need of it and acknowledge it openly, as without this there is no spiritual growth.
 Are you saying that the teaching within HV is “ugly”. 

We are taught that the “Sacrament of Marriage is an outward sign of Inward grace” this grace is manifest by reciprocal love given by those who love Him in their unhindered participation with Him in the creation of new life.
“The two shall become one flesh” and the Truth of this statement can be seen in any offspring the couple may be blessed with.

Are we taught the right use of our own sexuality In HV, does the Church point us beyond itself and ourselves to a horizon way beyond mere sexuality in serving the Truth,
 Jesus Christ, whose teachings with the guidance of the Holy Spirit lifts (Leads) our consciousness 
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