You may be surprised that vulnerability usually engenders a positive reaction from others, makes us more human and approachable.  You said you offer what you have learned from your failures and beginnings again...tell us some specific stories about this from your life, this would be much more interesting than abstract lists of concepts.  A concept like "rectifying the will" is probably a worthwhile concept but this is a stiff, old fashioned phrase that is obviously not resonating with readers.  Instead of arguing with other posters, do what a skilled teacher would do, and give us a personal example of a time you had to adjust your will, how you understood that to be part of God's plan, and how this eventually brought you greater joy and peace.  You do not have to be friends with other posters, nor do you have to disclose personal identifying information, I am just suggesting you may get more productive responses if you try a different approach to your postings.