What's best for your children is to follow the law, teach them to follow the law, admit you broke the law and teach them choices have consequences, give them a normal legal and safe living environment instead of that of a fugitive from justice, and not move a 9 year old from school to school mid-year for your own convenience. If she thinks this nonsense makes her mother of the year she is mistaken. What she is doing is for HER, not her kids, who could live just fine with mom in Peru.