I am sorry for your loss. 

You can deny having racist tendencies, but your posting history contradicts your denial.

I recognize your homophobic beliefs,  they are your beliefs and I am not trying to change them. I am just pointing them out when you post your views. You may have a valid reason for your Homophobic hate, maybe you could reach out for counseling. 

I will never "mute" anyone because of our differences,  that just allows people to see things they agree with and allows them to continue to be closed minded.