Actually, as Iv already stated and have yet to be compellingly rebutted on, the controversy surrounding this issue is in how an individual diagnosis of a medical disorder has somehow been interpreted to mean all of society needs to conform to the symptoms of that disorder as some form of means to curing the disorder.  Best current treatment dictates trans people be assisted in transitioning to whichever sex they identify as in order to assist in their being able to live comfortably with their disorder. If that transition isn't providing the intended relief then clearly theres a problem with the treatment, not with society at large.