Imagine if feminist logic was used for every other situation, for example "make sure you put your seatbelt on before driving"  "that's victim blaming, it's the other drivers responsibility not to crash into me"  "Don't walk home alone after dark in a bad neighborhood"  "That's victim blaming, it's the criminal's responsibility not to attack me"  "Make sure you buy home and health insurance"  "That's victim blaming, it's nature's responsibility to not flood my home and make me sick." "Lock your doors" "That's victim blaming, it's other people's responsibility to not rob me"