As soon as you make it about "sides" you make conflict inevitable. You give China no choice but to stand up to American bullying, which is why the French invented Diplomacy way back when. 

We get pi$$ed off when the US bullies us, but we have to suck it up because we are right next door, and they swamp us ( bit like Taiwan to China, except we were never part of the US). Doesn't mean China has to do the same.

You want things build here and in the US, yet manufacturing output is at record highs in both  countries. We feel we have the right to say "You want to sell that here, you gotta make it here" but squeal like offended virgins when China does exactly the same.

You feel we should be able to chose what is right for us (don't disagree) which is no different to China.