Kevin, once again we see a contradiction in terms from you:  With respect to Rome's futile ban on contraception, you say, "... refusing to fully partake in His creation by deliberately denying another the opportunity of life, is sinful and this is known innate by mankind," simply does not comport with reality and is therefore false.  HV also points to the "unitive" value of the marital act, which would allow responsible married adults to make responsible choices--which most Catholics do (or have done).  In order for something to be accepted as a "basic innate truth" it has to be demonstrably "true" which it is not. 

I think your problem is that you're taking a scientific approach to faith/theology which does not work, in fact is the rigid, formulaic approach that Jesus condemned. I do appreciate that you are working toward a solution but IMO you are going about it the wrong way. Until Rome can show humility and admit to past faults (including bad doctrine) it will continue to falter.