You must take into consideration not all are on the same level in the journey as you or others, especially the young. This is certainly true of the secular world we want to reach and will not consider joining a church that seems to discriminate. This is not a fundamental belief but treated as one by those who lack a sense of priorities. It is selfish for parts of the church to not care about what happens in soulwinning in the rest, and those who led out in this will face it in the judgment.