You are implying that there was some problem with this girl because you think her family was unstable and inadequate. I watched several videos that this girl made, and she appears entirely well-adjusted, bright, self-confident, everything you would expect in a typical, healthy, well cared for, nice, innocent 10 year old, not at all like a kid who was headed from some screwed-up life of crime, drugs, or teen pregnancy. YOU, on the other hand, seem to be forgetting that she is dead by some tragic circumstance, and you're focusing on something far less important, the legal relationships of her family members. I think something is wrong with YOU. You seem so obsessed with your rigid image of what makes an acceptable family that you have lost all sense of priorities.