That would have made a clearer statement, I think, if you had said that "The first was delusional and without intent while abortion is premeditated murder". I would have merely disagreed about the second, but agreed it is something where people have different opinions. 

It is interesting, though... we agree the healing oils and prayer are delusional and we both feel justified in calling it that. So why is it ok to call it delusional but I disagree that abortion is delusional? How do we decide when it is appropriate to use that term? I call the first delusion, the second a disagreement. But the parents "disagree" with us about the healing oils.