Through my life experiences, although I have lived a far simple ordinary life, at certain point, I became respectful and appreciative of people in general knowing what people endure in life. 
It is the wisdom of God who gave us only Ten Commandments.
   
I think it is not a "smaller but purer church" we need but more ‘inclusive and silent’ church we need.  I think Vatican needs to be more silent and have a servant’s posture of waiting God’s commend.   
Let people live according to how they were born to live and serve God in people according to their heart’s desires.

God have mercy on clergies!