Last Patriot ~ democracy is messy.  Having a thicker skin will embolden your argument ~ to allow printed/spoken word to sideline you from your mission or message speaks more to your own veracity than anyone else's.  

As far as believing that you can read other people's minds (ill will towards those of opposing views) I would guide you toward the psychological research that has been conducted which has shown in some instances that thieves will likely accuse others of thievery, liars will often ascribe the same attribute to others and kindly folk assume the best until treated otherwise.  Perhaps introspection is in order before you assume others have ill will towards those with whom they disagree.  This is simply a discussion board where people exercise their 1st Amendment Rights.  To suggest you can discern actual intent from words on a screen is naive.