I am happy to support my priest with a small stipend of $10 to have Mass said for the living or the dead. It is supposed to be enough money to cover one meal for the priest. When Jesus sent the Apostles, he told them “stay in one place, eating and drinking what they provide. Don’t hesitate to accept hospitality, because those who work deserve their pay.” (Luke 10:7)
According to St. Anself, “A single Mass offered for oneself during life may be worth more than a thousand celebrated for the same intention after death.” It’s a shame that priests stopped preaching on the poor souls when the diocese stopped Mass stipends - and having Mass said is not only for the dead.