Our Church has always struggled between compassion and justice. Compassion is for the  person who does the wrong and justice is for the person who receives the wrong.  Very simply stated.  A person who does a criminal unjust act needs to be forgiven.  A person who does a criminal unjust act needs to be imprisoned.   The adult people who have been molested need to offer forgiveness as well.  "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us".  We are all sinners and one day in heaven, unless Jesus was a failure we will all be saints