"So why are leaders on both sides of this policy question finding it so difficult to compromise? Because some on both sides are convinced this is not a matter of Church Policy but one of Theological Principle. To bend would be to violate their own deeply held convictions.
But in such cases are we called to enforce our views on others? "

Of course we are. This is not a ceremonial law issue that you use to draw a parallel. This is a non-negotiable moral law that God ordained in the beginning.

We don't patronize Sunday keepers to come to our church and teach tolerance for everyone's views. Once again, like many, you don't understand the foundation of the controversy and offer a false fix that's suits no one but those who have no convictions of the intensity of the importance of defending only the correct position without tolerance for a false position. You help neither side.