If you read what I listed, the scout law, elements of the oath, slogan, and motto.  Those are the core value goals of scouting. I'm not sure what you think the goals are that are so gender specific. And again, I didn't imply that girls need to be in the room, but that the goals can be achieved with girls in the room.

In deed, I do share those values with my Den. I'm required to. Its part of earning their bobcat badge. Every scout needs to know the 12 points of the scout law.  They need to know the oath. Its not a judgemental view.  No one should be excluded.