Same problem as everything else on this subject: vague affirmations like "start to work toward real healing . . . actually address the real problem," "how much we need to do," "the work needs to move forward, "space for dialogue, for sharing" etc., etc.  What, exactly, is "the real problem"?  Despite having professional experience with this class of offenders, I don't know.  Why do they do it?  Nobody knows.  How can they be stopped?  Outside physical restraint, or death, nobody has any answers.  ("Treatment" of sexual abusers is notoriously ineffective, as the Catholic church can testify.)  Victims may be helped by counseling, but as Starbard would undoubtedly agree, that can't ever erase the wrong or the suffering.  Children may, by education, be enabled to report abuse sooner, but young children are a very poor first line of defense.  No one's found any real answers. Starbard's emotionalizing approach merely obscures that fact.