Not sure where you get a "high religious experience" part from. I know I didn’t get one helping my wife wash out dirty diapers in the bathroom. It’s not fun, but part of raising & loving children. 

One doesn’t always have to use words to denote love, the actions confirm that, as noted by St. James. 

You might note that in the parable of Jesus, the only words noted were the Samaritan speaking to the inn keeper.  The Samaritan’s actions spoke for him.  

But Trump’s words remind me of the card games my dad had, when I was young. From my bedroom, it sounded like a riot. But a month later they were back playing “500”, trying to “set” one another  & slamming the cards down on the table. While the words indicated one thing, they never took them seriously. These mechanics, dock workers, laborers, knew how to interpret words & the person, better then many university educated individuals.