<What's bigoted about "person having same-sex attraction?">
You don't appear to be participating in this conversation in good faith; it's as though you haven't even read the thread, even the comments to which you respond. 
In the comment of mine to which you first replied (only a few hours ago), I quoted from and associated myself with a talk given recently by Cardinal Cupich in which he asserted that "People should be called the way that they want to be called rather than us coming up with terms that maybe we’re more comfortable with."  You insist on doing the opposite: deliberately choosing a term that offends the persons you are talking about. It fairly screams bigotry, or maybe just ignorance. Your fantasy that you're sympathetic supports the latter interpretation.