Kevin, Our Church organist did not feel it was right to ask her boyfriend to live chaste. Then I asked her what was more important to her - sex or receiving Jesus in the Holy Eucharist. Shocked, she said to me, "no one has ever put it that way to me before, not even my own mother." I gave her my number and said if she wanted to talk, I was there for her. The following Sunday after Mass she came running up to me, crying and told me she had broken up with her boyfriend. She looked really tired, one could see she spent days crying and she looked like she had even lost weight. She said she had not been able to eat since breaking up with her boyfriend. Two weeks later, she called me and said that there is this single guy (never been married) who she knew from her old neighborhood and renewed contact on Facebook. Both lived in other areas than where they grew up. Well, they got married one year later (June 2016), remained chaste till their wedding day and are very happy. Repent, sin no more!