No one is kicked out of the Church. Even if you're excommunicated, a good Reconciliation will bring you back in to full participation. "Intrinsically disordered" may be a difficult thing to hear, but it's not a barrier to striving for a higher spiritual good. I can see how a pastor could ask someone or a couple who are resolved to live out of Church teaching to refrain from Holy Communion. But someone who is willing to try to live a life of grace isn't turned away.