Jim, thank you for sharing the tragic events of that day.  Your care for the older altar boy says a lot about you.  I understand how you feel and I am mystified by people who think we are out for financial gain.  They see us treated like trash by the church. The church who lies and fights victims at every turn. The church who seems to do whats right only when ordered to by a judge.  How can these people be so blind and so heartless. They see themselves and the church as the victims and we are just trash. 
Jim,Thank you for sharing what had to be very hard to share.  When we do this I believe it gives many a better understanding of reality.