A society depends on norms. It is these rules that define the balance points for a society. It is important to allow everyone enough latitude to find their individuality but not at the expense of these societal norms. Changing everything to accommodate groups accounting for less than 5% of society would seem to do more damage than good while at the same time the argument that we are adding to by suggesting a third gender neutral designation doesn't negatively impinge on the majority may alone seem true it is the accumulation of these changes that has the impact. It's a "death by a thousand cuts" type of scenario. In the end our self worth comes not from the assignment of a title but rather how we see and carry ourselves.