Let me see if I have this clearly.  Spacey lays a 14 year old boy on his bed and while fully clothed tries to make out with him.  He is immediately outed, called a pedophile [although the correct term is ephebophile] and is fired from his job and edited out of moves he has just completed.  Moore picks up a 14 year old girl, removes her blouse and fondles her and that is perfectly okay because Jesus says so?

Am I missing something? What Spacey did and what Moore did looks exactly like sexual assault to me, sexual assault on a minor.