My only point here (see back) was to disagree with your comment to Betty Clermont, in which you told her that she had not been sufficiently accurate, but in which you then made an inaccurate statement yourself. 
And this was hardly surprising - since you have now explained that you were interpreting (as Charamsa's 'resignation letter') a letter which you have not actually read.
As for 'honesty': the only truly honest course was his coming out. Which is exactly what he did.