Therapy has helped but it is extremely difficult to find therapists who truly understand what you are going through. They all have good intentions but with the myriad of effects that being sexually abused and the dysfunctional ways that one has coped with that abuse through the years, it is an extremely daunting task.I believe that one of the major problems that Pope Francis is having is his failure to understand the scope of what priests did to children and the overwhelming effects of such abuse. His assertion that several people committed suicide shows his basic failure to understand the extent of the abuse.I don't believe if you have no idea how big a problem is, you will not be able to solve the problem.So long as Benedict remains alive,I don't believe Francis will take any concrete actions to deal with the crisis.Benedict is the living embodiment of all the failures that the Church has promulgated over the last several papacies.Any attempt to clean up the mess will have to wait.