Times have changed and it was a better world in the past. Family values were important then. Human sexuality has not changed in over a melenium. Schools have stepped  in and have taught "safe sex" and that has wrecked family values and created the badge of honor of single mon. If it feels good good, do it. The reality of it, insulting people for their family views is ignorance. You have your views which I do not share. Good parents have a profound impact on their kids and that is reality.