I don't consider you dishonest, and I don't think you have the wrong intentions with most of those things. But you seem to think that unless people think and act like you they're somehow automatically dishonest, immoral, or damned. That's not the way the world works.

I was pretty involved in a church for a while that eventually thought every other church in the community was wrong, then eventually members of their own church. It became this unbearable crusade for like-mindedness that people lost the bigger point. I learned a lot from that experience. Maybe you can hold onto the things in your life that are good, and learn to see those things in others without trying to whitewash everything.

Just a thought.