So Hawaii people and politicians are held to a higher standard of this mythical "civility" and "respect" of Aloha?

Sorry, but seeing the endless corruption (morally and fiscally), ethical bankruptcy, and business-as-usual "leadership" coming from state and local government LIFERS, I can't buy that anymore. It's no longer good enough as a cover up.

Add to the mix that this state is going underwater with transplants that weren't raised with "Aloha", tutus, filial respect, kids speaking only when spoken to, etc. and what we have is just another medium sized town in the US.