I wasn't calling out anyone in particular, just noting the nature that goes hand in hand with certain attitudes.

Perhaps we could reasonably fall back on an ignorance or denial if it were, say, the 1980's -but it's nearly the 3rd decade of the 21st Century, and we've already been though so much with church abuses and other continuing atrocities that you mention that it's high past time to stop excusing it.

Or coddling those who would.