Lynn: If person A wishes to convince person B of something, should he/she start by calling person B a "stupid SOB"?  My answer would be NO.  Sometimes I really wonder if you want to work together to help the homeless and impoverished or if you'd actually  rather just see the rest of us as the "uncaring Middle Class"  and characterize us as the "enemy."  Your approach seems very irrational and counterproductive.  I simply don't understand it.  Gary Crum