"A. That is demonstrably untrue, as the rise in the number of annulments in the USA over the last five decades well proves."

Annulments have trended downward since the 1990s and nothing suggests that the recent reforms have led more people to get annulments.  I have heard people complain about the same things they complained about prior to last December.  The process is still costly, bureaucratic, and time consuming.  As I predicted when the "reforms" were announced, this was going to do almost nothing to help most petitioners.

"B. The Church’s job is to preach the Gospels and to help us get to heaven, not assist us in putting our feet up and having a smoke."

It is the Church's job to provide us with comfort and consolation, not condemnation.

"C. Yes, it is very difficult to completely hide one’s activities, which of course has nothing whatsoever to do with the Church."

People shouldn't nose in others business or try to out people.  Priests shouldn't nose into people's lives.