Bill, I can see the point about not looking at the good when a disaster happens. So what if we do look at the good, does that make up for the bad? Could you honestly go to a disaster and tell someone who has lost their home, their loved one and all they have and say, "hey, think of the fresh start you have now. And you will maybe even find a better wife or husband." And then would you tell them, have comfort Jesus loves you but this is really going to bust the budget?
I find your response rather bizarre.