Ideally, nearly 60 million children in the U.S. since Roe v Wade would not have had their natural life cycle ended at the hands of their own mother. Being wanted and loved cannot happen if they are dead before that mother even sees their face for the first time or hears their first cry. Your argument presumes bad things and cures that possibility with something far worse.

I suggest you Google and read the thoughts of children, now grown, who survived their mother's attempt to abort them. There are actually many such cases, and they are illuminating, if you really care to know. You might also read the thoughts of mothers and fathers who did abort their child. Many deeply regret it and now are pro-life. It seems there are far fewer than would be expected who seem proud of their abortion and speak out in that fashion.