So according to Ms. Khalid, "one shouldn’t shy away from naming the thing you want to condemn". So then, if I want to name Islam as something I want to condemn because I think it's a totalitarian ideology, would that be ok? Or is that exactly the sort of thing she wants to be considered not ok, and eventually forbidden?

As for her dodging the simple question of defining "Islamophobia", it appears to me as though she deliberately wants to keep things nice and vague.