LOL, if your kid ever says shut up to you, you've already screwed it up.  Slap away, and what you end up with might be worse than the degrading daughter, because with your ability (not you personally...the hypothetical situation in your comment) as a parent limited to raise a disrespecting child, it's not likely going to get better no matter how hard you hit.  

My son never, and would never, disrespect me like that, and has zero threat from any physical retribution from me.  Never hit him, never will.  BTW, he's 22 now...pretty easy to see he gets it.