A healthy marriage can certainly achieve a healthy agreement. In our case, my wife is the cleaning freak, so that part falls more on her (and the kids' chores) than on me. Cooking, I do, but she prefers to control what food is served. But then I'm responsible, besides earning our main income, for all the "honey, I have a flat tire", "honey, the furnace is not working", "honey, some breaker tripped", "honey, etc., etc., etc.", plus maintenance for the car, all the bikes, and many more etc. I wonder how much car and home appliaance maintenance Leah does.