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If i write something and you passionately disagree with what I have to say, that does not automatically mean the comment is not civil.  Civility and your comfort or agreement with a comment are not the same.  I can write something that is completely civil, but also 100% infuriates you because you disagree with it. but it remains that what i said IS civil, you simply disagree.  If you mark it as uncivil, you either lack understanding, lack maturity, or wish to censor me. 

Being jugded if i am a good commentor and civil by a number of people that very often disagree with much of what i have to say, just creates frustration on my end. They don't agree with me so they flag comments and silence my opinion. It doesn't mean i am wrong, it just means they don't want to hear it, which actually tells me that they need to hear it that much more.  But enough of the opposing view has to power to silence me with no recourse or explanations -  That's the part i really don't like.