Matter for sin / Sufficient reflection   /(Full) or lesser   consent of the will   ! Trid .  Three necessary  aspects .  Teachings  !!!
Always between God and a human person .   
Money is only one way to give support .
Attendance might be perfunctory. ..  Jesus gave his thoughts on that  !
Condemning is not your job or mine .
" God so loved the world ... gave .. Son not to condemn but that the world be saved ...  "  
" My ways are not your ways  ...."