You sound just like the little boy in the old story --  "It all started when he hit me back!"  You do not see the problem for what it is, yet you expect everyone to accept without question what you post as "what the church teaches."   You have NO mandate from church authority to do that, and because your approach is not based only on your predilections, what you're pumping out here has no real instructive value, save maybe for the edification of your fellow self-proclaimed "orthodox Catholics."