How? Well first, you make sure they're poor and uneducated. Let's see, how can we accomplish this? Maybe, perhaps, restricting affordable access to birth control and slashing sex Ed in schools? An uneducated mom is often a poor and easily manipulated mom. 

secondly, you convince them that they're all just temporarily embarrassed millionaires. 

Third, you tell them their safety is at risk and the only way to make them safer is to become xenophobic and increase military spending to astronomic levels. 

Finally, you demonize feminists as "anti-American militants."