Your accusations of selfishness are bizarre, in the setting whether one has kids and whether one fears death or not.

I have a sneaking suspicion that a lot of people who fear death have a great love of life and, if they were to approach this as a math equation, would say that the pluses of being alive (helping others, loving and being loved, enjoying the amazing offerings) far, far outweigh the minus of having a fear of death.

And some other folks who fear death might well have hope that, with the genetic events with their spouse and with a good public eduction, their kids may well grow up to not fear death at all, to the delight of that parent.

Why are you so harshly judgmental in this matter? What is with your accusations of dark and malignant mindset upon those who fear death and simultaneously love their kids? I honestly find your accusations extremely bizarre.