Joseph Ratzinger.  People are their sexual orientation.  It is integral.  Saying we are all the same but some have same sex attraction is truth speak.

I am a recovered alcoholic.  It is part of my nature, not something that I have.  It impacts every part of me so my recovery was not just about not drinking, as essential as that is.

The people saying we are all the same officially are often part of their own unique sexual orientation, which they are trying to impose on the rest of us.  The baldest attempt was Humanae Vitae and the rest of us finally just stopped listening to them.