Right on man!  Not only that, the Family Court side puts people's lives in limbo from their shenanigans.  Specifically if there are "dual track" cases that are in both Family & Criminal courts.  What's head scratching is how does the Family court order a defendant in their proceedings to undergo "treatment" or participate in "programs", even though their cases have not yet been completely adjudicated w/ final judgement.  Many just bemoan their situation and think, "Whatever you say...just tell us what we need to do to make it go away."  And then they write that someone is "uncooperative" w/ "treatment" or "failure to participate" in [fill in the blank] programs.  Many are innocent who choose to decline well intentioned programs.  But if you know you did not do what you have been charged w/, and then decline, the "system" tries to browbeat a defendant into participation.  Administrative state at its worst.  Meanwhile, some families are kept apart, some for YEARS!