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Human: All of the upper management at the large bar I work at are either enabling or working together to get incredibly intoxicated women to have sex with them in the staff stairwell and I don’t know how to stop this. TW: sexual assault I (22/F) started working at this large 4 story pub/cocktail bar/nightclub in Australia 3 months ago. I worked mainly on the rooftop cocktail bar. A month ago I saw my 40 year old head bartender (S) flirting with a girl who looked barely 18. They disappeared even though he was on the clock and supposed to be supervising me. She, N, was extremely drunk because he kept feeding her drinks. Hours later I ran into her at a bar I went to after my shift, she seemed more sober. We got to chatting and she told me S said he wanted to kiss her and grabbed her hand, pulling her into the staff stairwell. She kept saying she didn’t want to have sex, but he kept pushing her until he got her to give him a blow job. She felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. There’s an inherent power dynamic at play, plus he’s dead sober and she was wasted (unable to consent). I report this to our head manager two days later for the cocktail bar (D). He immediately tells me not to tell anyone else and he says he will look at the footage. He asks me “what was she wearing?” And “how drunk was she?” He says women hit on bartenders all the time. Nothing happens and two days after that I run into an old coworker (A). I’m talking to her about this and she tells me D used to constantly sexually harass her, asking to “see her tits,” trying to take pics up her skirt with his phone, groping her ass etc. A made a report to upper upper management and HR and nothing happened because in their words, “as you know, the owner of [name of bar] is currently in a very public sexual assault case with an old employee who he supposedly took advantage of at the company party. Another case would ruin the bar’s rep entirely.” I then find out after talking to N again (we had exchanged numbers), that almost a year prior when N was visiting the bar, manager D pulled her into the stairwell too, when she was so drunk she could hardly walk. She kept saying “no” and he took her hand and shoved it down his pants, pushed her against a wall etc., until she shoved him and left. He didn’t rape her, but he did force her to touch him, quite violently. A had also told me that bartender S and D would work together to target drunk women and take turns taking them to the stairwell. I was so sickened by all of this that I then reported it to the highest manager, R. I only reported N’s story about S (sorry for all the confusion) because that was the most recent one, which I was sure was on camera. R wasn’t surprised and said he’d have a look at the camera footage. I then find out the next day, from overhearing a manager in the stairwell (sound echoes) that apparently the footage was DELETED from that night, probably by D who I reported it to first. I’m sorry this was all over the place and very confusing. I know most of it is hearsay but after seeing my management’s responses I am very concerned by the predatory behavior which is allowed at the bar. Is there anything I can do, from a legal standpoint, to try and stop this. I’m worried for women who come to the bar. I’m disgusted by how much this is brushed off. I am consistently sexually harassed at the bar and nothing happens when I report it (another less important story). Can the police do anything? Thank you. Assistant: It appears that (Western, at least) Australia has laws against over-serving alcohol to patrons who are already drunk. You can contact your localities liquor licensing authority and report the over-serving. You should also contact the police about this.	Human: All of the upper management at the large bar I work at are either enabling or working together to get incredibly intoxicated women to have sex with them in the staff stairwell and I don’t know how to stop this. TW: sexual assault I (22/F) started working at this large 4 story pub/cocktail bar/nightclub in Australia 3 months ago. I worked mainly on the rooftop cocktail bar. A month ago I saw my 40 year old head bartender (S) flirting with a girl who looked barely 18. They disappeared even though he was on the clock and supposed to be supervising me. She, N, was extremely drunk because he kept feeding her drinks. Hours later I ran into her at a bar I went to after my shift, she seemed more sober. We got to chatting and she told me S said he wanted to kiss her and grabbed her hand, pulling her into the staff stairwell. She kept saying she didn’t want to have sex, but he kept pushing her until he got her to give him a blow job. She felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. There’s an inherent power dynamic at play, plus he’s dead sober and she was wasted (unable to consent). I report this to our head manager two days later for the cocktail bar (D). He immediately tells me not to tell anyone else and he says he will look at the footage. He asks me “what was she wearing?” And “how drunk was she?” He says women hit on bartenders all the time. Nothing happens and two days after that I run into an old coworker (A). I’m talking to her about this and she tells me D used to constantly sexually harass her, asking to “see her tits,” trying to take pics up her skirt with his phone, groping her ass etc. A made a report to upper upper management and HR and nothing happened because in their words, “as you know, the owner of [name of bar] is currently in a very public sexual assault case with an old employee who he supposedly took advantage of at the company party. Another case would ruin the bar’s rep entirely.” I then find out after talking to N again (we had exchanged numbers), that almost a year prior when N was visiting the bar, manager D pulled her into the stairwell too, when she was so drunk she could hardly walk. She kept saying “no” and he took her hand and shoved it down his pants, pushed her against a wall etc., until she shoved him and left. He didn’t rape her, but he did force her to touch him, quite violently. A had also told me that bartender S and D would work together to target drunk women and take turns taking them to the stairwell. I was so sickened by all of this that I then reported it to the highest manager, R. I only reported N’s story about S (sorry for all the confusion) because that was the most recent one, which I was sure was on camera. R wasn’t surprised and said he’d have a look at the camera footage. I then find out the next day, from overhearing a manager in the stairwell (sound echoes) that apparently the footage was DELETED from that night, probably by D who I reported it to first. I’m sorry this was all over the place and very confusing. I know most of it is hearsay but after seeing my management’s responses I am very concerned by the predatory behavior which is allowed at the bar. Is there anything I can do, from a legal standpoint, to try and stop this. I’m worried for women who come to the bar. I’m disgusted by how much this is brushed off. I am consistently sexually harassed at the bar and nothing happens when I report it (another less important story). Can the police do anything? Thank you. Assistant: A customer opened up to you about a sexual assault and your boss responded by deleting the footage and telling you not to tell anyone? You go to the police with any and all information you have. They can then look and see if they have any reports from citizens about being assaulted in that bar. For all you know, your testimony could be the nail in a coffin for a rapist. And in the future, ANY suspicion of assault that you hear about, you should tell the victim to go to the police about it.	0.187712
Human: Who gets notified of Engineering Changes at your company? I've been thinking lately about how my current company handles engineering change notifications and I'm curious if this is typical or not. Our engineering team (including design engineers, technicians, and manufacturing and industrial engineers) is 50-60 people. The responsibility for completing change requests is somewhat distributed, depending on the complexity of the change, the nature of the issue, and where the product is in its lifecycle. I work on a team that mostly deals with modifying existing product to meet a specific customer request. The majority of our work is in one product segment because it is set up to be more easily customizable, but we can and do handle requests for any product. This has made me think it's odd that we don't get notified of any engineering changes that are completed unless we are the ones to request the change (we being the individual engineer, not the team as a whole.) Does this seem fairly normal or just insane? Part of me thinks we should be made aware of the changes in case we need to alter a similar part or design that was based off a standard part with an issue, but uses a new part number because of the customization, but looking through recent changes, that's not frequently the case. I've only worked at one other company, but it was a smaller team with less work, so we did send out change notices to all the design engineers, and they were easy enough to sort through quickly and not have them overwhelm your inbox. I don't want to drown myself in emails, but I also feel like I might be missing out on useful or necessary information. Assistant: You notify people?	Human: Who gets notified of Engineering Changes at your company? I've been thinking lately about how my current company handles engineering change notifications and I'm curious if this is typical or not. Our engineering team (including design engineers, technicians, and manufacturing and industrial engineers) is 50-60 people. The responsibility for completing change requests is somewhat distributed, depending on the complexity of the change, the nature of the issue, and where the product is in its lifecycle. I work on a team that mostly deals with modifying existing product to meet a specific customer request. The majority of our work is in one product segment because it is set up to be more easily customizable, but we can and do handle requests for any product. This has made me think it's odd that we don't get notified of any engineering changes that are completed unless we are the ones to request the change (we being the individual engineer, not the team as a whole.) Does this seem fairly normal or just insane? Part of me thinks we should be made aware of the changes in case we need to alter a similar part or design that was based off a standard part with an issue, but uses a new part number because of the customization, but looking through recent changes, that's not frequently the case. I've only worked at one other company, but it was a smaller team with less work, so we did send out change notices to all the design engineers, and they were easy enough to sort through quickly and not have them overwhelm your inbox. I don't want to drown myself in emails, but I also feel like I might be missing out on useful or necessary information. Assistant: How do document and what is your drawing change method? If these are tight and sound then reporting to everyone would be non-productive and bureaucratic.	0.920431
Human: I know there has to be something I can do with the leftover fat from my chicken stock. I have about 1 cup total. I'm sure many people here have made their own stock and you get quite a bit of fat that solidifies once the stock is chilled. The stock itself was put in ziploc bags in the freezer but the fat however has me stumped. Anyone have any suggestion for its use? Also if I am able to utilize the fat I will have successfully used every piece of chicken from my BBQ on Sunday. I saved all the scraps and trimmings and it's pretty neat to discover everything you can do with what many people consider trash. Thanks in advance for the help. Assistant: Google "schmaltz", bubbelah, then freeze it in cubes and use it for everything Google shows you. You're going to plotz.	Human: I know there has to be something I can do with the leftover fat from my chicken stock. I have about 1 cup total. I'm sure many people here have made their own stock and you get quite a bit of fat that solidifies once the stock is chilled. The stock itself was put in ziploc bags in the freezer but the fat however has me stumped. Anyone have any suggestion for its use? Also if I am able to utilize the fat I will have successfully used every piece of chicken from my BBQ on Sunday. I saved all the scraps and trimmings and it's pretty neat to discover everything you can do with what many people consider trash. Thanks in advance for the help. Assistant: Fry potatoes in it.	0.756884
Human: CMV: There is nothing worth visiting in the entire state of Nevada, and there isn't a good reason to live there. I know this sounds harsh, but this view was formed by my experience in Nevada. Maybe this is a silly opinion but I'm open to anyone who knows the place a little better. For background, I live in Northern California and have been to most areas in Nevada (Northwestern parts, all of Highway 50 and I-80, Great Basin NP, Reno, Las Vegas) and I didn't see anything worth revisiting. It feels like most of the state is the same dull desert with depressing towns of all sizes scattered throughout. I love driving long distances but I hate the drive on 95 between Fallon and Vegas. There's something creepy and depressing about Nevada but I'd like to hear some reasons as to why this feeling is unjustified. Living so close to Nevada it feels like there should be some good reasons to visit every once in a while. _____ > This is a footnote from the CMV moderators. We'd like to remind you of a couple of things. Firstly, please *read through our rules. If you see a comment that has broken one, it is more effective to report it than downvote it. Speaking of which,* *downvotes don't change views*! Any questions or concerns? Feel free to *message us. Happy CMVing!* Assistant: Weed was Just legalized and its next door to me in Utah so I'm going just for that	Human: CMV: There is nothing worth visiting in the entire state of Nevada, and there isn't a good reason to live there. I know this sounds harsh, but this view was formed by my experience in Nevada. Maybe this is a silly opinion but I'm open to anyone who knows the place a little better. For background, I live in Northern California and have been to most areas in Nevada (Northwestern parts, all of Highway 50 and I-80, Great Basin NP, Reno, Las Vegas) and I didn't see anything worth revisiting. It feels like most of the state is the same dull desert with depressing towns of all sizes scattered throughout. I love driving long distances but I hate the drive on 95 between Fallon and Vegas. There's something creepy and depressing about Nevada but I'd like to hear some reasons as to why this feeling is unjustified. Living so close to Nevada it feels like there should be some good reasons to visit every once in a while. _____ > This is a footnote from the CMV moderators. We'd like to remind you of a couple of things. Firstly, please *read through our rules. If you see a comment that has broken one, it is more effective to report it than downvote it. Speaking of which,* *downvotes don't change views*! Any questions or concerns? Feel free to *message us. Happy CMVing!* Assistant: Vegas? The best gambling city in the world?	0.997791
Human: How did people become engineers pre 20th century? I often see memes and occasionally read history, and wonder how people build things in ancient times, for example people during the industrial revolution or in the days of the roman empire, how did people learn about technical things like metallurgy? Or about load bearing or stresses? There was no way to get a formal education(or it was very rare) and the sciences and techniques were probably not all that advanced How did people know how to build arches, bridges, castles, or large structures?(that didnt immediately collapse?) How did people learn to shape and mold metal to make locomotives? Were tradespeople ,craftsmen and guilds, the engineers of the time? Assistant: A lot of the early British industrial revolution-era mechanical engineers started out in mechanical or machining apprenticeships. Throw in a few extra night classes for some of the more academically inclined fitters along with the willingness to do a lot of trial and error.	Human: How did people become engineers pre 20th century? I often see memes and occasionally read history, and wonder how people build things in ancient times, for example people during the industrial revolution or in the days of the roman empire, how did people learn about technical things like metallurgy? Or about load bearing or stresses? There was no way to get a formal education(or it was very rare) and the sciences and techniques were probably not all that advanced How did people know how to build arches, bridges, castles, or large structures?(that didnt immediately collapse?) How did people learn to shape and mold metal to make locomotives? Were tradespeople ,craftsmen and guilds, the engineers of the time? Assistant: The University of Oxford is over 1000 years old	0.674529
Human: I like spicy foods but my wife does not. What can I add to dishes after they are cooked to spice up my meal? Assistant: Spiced oils, salts, sauces, & powders "paprikas".	Human: I like spicy foods but my wife does not. What can I add to dishes after they are cooked to spice up my meal? Assistant: Spanish cuisine has a condiment, "aji", that is chili peppers blended with oil, salt, and a ton of garlic. Its a fairly spanish oriented flavor, but Ill put it on just about everything	0.565373
Human: What are some of the fundamentals when it comes to learning how to bake? I’m quite new to baking and want to make sure I master the basics first. Assistant: Never mix baking soda or baking powder directly into wet ingredients. Always mix it in with the dry ingredients first. Otherwise it may clump and leave bitter spots. Cane sugar is superior to granulated sugar made from sugar beets. Learn about different flours and what they are good for. For example, bread flour is ideal for yeast breads because of its higher gluten content. If using old cookbooks or recipes, they often will just list flour, but what they really mean is sifted flour.	Human: What are some of the fundamentals when it comes to learning how to bake? I’m quite new to baking and want to make sure I master the basics first. Assistant: T means tablespoon, t means teaspoon. Getting that right is sometimes critically important.	-0.075212
Human: What to do with a failed lime pound cake? Hi everyone. I’m here today to ask what can I do with a failed lime pound cake. I was thinking…probably a bread pudding? Usually all my pound cakes come out really great, but today I am at my in-laws’ and simply all went wrong. The cake turned out flat and very buttery, dry on top but oily on the inside, not undercooked but very greasy. Also the lime flavor is completely gone. The basic ingredients I used: all purpose flour, butter, sugar, lime zest, a bit of lime juice, salt, baking powder, milk and eggs. What should I do? Should I just simply throw it away? Thanks in advance. Assistant: Cut em.up and layer with whipped cream and berries for a trifle	Human: What to do with a failed lime pound cake? Hi everyone. I’m here today to ask what can I do with a failed lime pound cake. I was thinking…probably a bread pudding? Usually all my pound cakes come out really great, but today I am at my in-laws’ and simply all went wrong. The cake turned out flat and very buttery, dry on top but oily on the inside, not undercooked but very greasy. Also the lime flavor is completely gone. The basic ingredients I used: all purpose flour, butter, sugar, lime zest, a bit of lime juice, salt, baking powder, milk and eggs. What should I do? Should I just simply throw it away? Thanks in advance. Assistant: We used to take all the left over dry baked goods like cakes, cookies, failed attempts, etc and let it air dry. Then ground it into crumbs for a mixed crumb base. Then used it as a main ingredient for rum balls. The ground crumbs, cocoa, coconut, margarine, water & vanilla. Mix to get the texture of play-doh. Roll into 1" diameter balls. Roll in chocolate glaze and coconut.	-0.170195
Human: My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) Assistant: >Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? That depends entirely on the terms of the trust. She could have zero, some, or absolute discretion. She might not even be the trustee. There might not even be a trust. There might be a trust and she stole all of the property in it. That's why you need to consult a lawyer.	Human: My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) Assistant: You have gotten excellent advice. Sadly, in many, many families once a death occurs the horridness of people comes clearly to light. So yep, get a copy of the will, get an estate attorney, if Dad left everything in HER hands, <sigh> who knows? But if he did provide for you in his will, she legally has to follow that. Finally: When your wife, your best friend AND your cousins recommend a lawyer, listen to them :) Good luck.	0.920991
Human: [VA] How do I tell my manager that our daily team Zoom meetings which normally last 1.5 to 3 hours are EXHAUSTING, awful, and make us less productive? My company is still WFH at this point and every single day my manager holds a standing meeting at 1:30pm which averages about 1.5 to 3 hours in length with our small team, which consists of him, myself, and one other team member. The meetings are completely unproductive; he spends a ton of time doing his own tasks which don't even involve us, or he reviews our documents in front of us and forces us to watch when he could easily do it on his own time. He says the meetings "keep him in check", and "force him to work on our stuff". Because of these meetings, we literally don't have time to do our own work, even if it is urgent. I think he expects us to just sit in on his pointless meetings and work however long we need to do our other work as well, which is just completely inefficient and ridiculous. It has come to the point where we are very upset and feel he disrespects our time, both for work and personally. How can I bring up the inefficiency of these meetings, without him feeling like I am attacking him? He is very sensitive and somewhat immature, which is why I feel I need to tiptoe around his feelings. Assistant: Yeah, minimize the window and continue doing work during the meeting.	Human: [VA] How do I tell my manager that our daily team Zoom meetings which normally last 1.5 to 3 hours are EXHAUSTING, awful, and make us less productive? My company is still WFH at this point and every single day my manager holds a standing meeting at 1:30pm which averages about 1.5 to 3 hours in length with our small team, which consists of him, myself, and one other team member. The meetings are completely unproductive; he spends a ton of time doing his own tasks which don't even involve us, or he reviews our documents in front of us and forces us to watch when he could easily do it on his own time. He says the meetings "keep him in check", and "force him to work on our stuff". Because of these meetings, we literally don't have time to do our own work, even if it is urgent. I think he expects us to just sit in on his pointless meetings and work however long we need to do our other work as well, which is just completely inefficient and ridiculous. It has come to the point where we are very upset and feel he disrespects our time, both for work and personally. How can I bring up the inefficiency of these meetings, without him feeling like I am attacking him? He is very sensitive and somewhat immature, which is why I feel I need to tiptoe around his feelings. Assistant: Do these meetings make you have to stay later to finish work? If so, work during them. If not, just kickback and screw around on FB/Reddit during them and think of them as time wasters/burners to get you closer to 5PM.	0.758423
Human: Philosophy of Horror or Horror Aesthetics I'm a huge fan of horror surrealism and I'd like to read about where do those scary but fascinating figures come from, why do they scare and fascinate us and how is it even possible for something to be scary and fascinating at the same time. Could anybody help me? I'll ask the same question at r/askpsychology if anyone is interested. Thanks Assistant: I recommend Noel Carroll's 'The Philosophy of Horror'	Human: Philosophy of Horror or Horror Aesthetics I'm a huge fan of horror surrealism and I'd like to read about where do those scary but fascinating figures come from, why do they scare and fascinate us and how is it even possible for something to be scary and fascinating at the same time. Could anybody help me? I'll ask the same question at r/askpsychology if anyone is interested. Thanks Assistant: Dylan Trigg has a Phenomenology of Horror that might be of interest, and Kristeva's Powers of Horror treats the topic from a psychoanalytic perspective. There's also Adriana Cavarero's Horrorism, which is more focused on the horrors of violence in a socio-political context.	0.478507
Human: Maintenance man has been accessing my door/apartment without permission or notice (MA) I live in a new apartment complex with a lock system called Latch. It allows one to open doors via the Latch app, or with a door code unique to the person living there. You can also send a one time doorcode to allow access to a guest. It shows the history of when the door was unlocked by you with the the time and if it was via keycode or through the app. It also takes a picture each time for the outside building door, and for our apartment lock it only takes pictures of guests with their temporary door codes or failed attempts. While looking through the history just out of curiosity I noticed 3 separate days of a man unlocking my door all at times when I was either away or at work. It doesn't show a picture of him because he clearly has access and unlocked through the app on his phone. I never requested any maintenance nor was I notified of any need for him to access my apartment. I checked my lease and it does confirm the complex has to give me 24 hours notice unless an emergency and there were no emergency situations for him to enter either. I confronted the property manager and she stated that this maintenance man is new and maybe the first two days he mistakenly went to the wrong building (there are only 3 so it's not hard to differentiate the buildings). Then she said maybe she sent him to the wrong building. Then said maybe he never entered/was just replacing the battery for our Latch lock. She then changed the story to she gave him access/he can only unlock doors that she gives him access to that day. She never had a reason for the 3rd most recent time, and continually kept altering her story to defend this man. Because the app gives me his name, I looked him up and also found that he has multiple felony convictions, so knowing that he has or had access to my apartment and has been at the very least unlocking my door (and possibly entering) without our knowledge makes me very uneasy. Is there anything I can do? It feels like a total invasion of my privacy at the very least, and at most a breach of my lease if he entered without notice. Assistant: Someone in this sub once had a maintenance guy doing this arrested for trespassing. Call the non-emergency number for cops and report it, every single time. Also I'd get a travel lock for when you are home, and keep it on the door when you are inside. He might be trying to catch you right out of the shower or whatever.	Human: Maintenance man has been accessing my door/apartment without permission or notice (MA) I live in a new apartment complex with a lock system called Latch. It allows one to open doors via the Latch app, or with a door code unique to the person living there. You can also send a one time doorcode to allow access to a guest. It shows the history of when the door was unlocked by you with the the time and if it was via keycode or through the app. It also takes a picture each time for the outside building door, and for our apartment lock it only takes pictures of guests with their temporary door codes or failed attempts. While looking through the history just out of curiosity I noticed 3 separate days of a man unlocking my door all at times when I was either away or at work. It doesn't show a picture of him because he clearly has access and unlocked through the app on his phone. I never requested any maintenance nor was I notified of any need for him to access my apartment. I checked my lease and it does confirm the complex has to give me 24 hours notice unless an emergency and there were no emergency situations for him to enter either. I confronted the property manager and she stated that this maintenance man is new and maybe the first two days he mistakenly went to the wrong building (there are only 3 so it's not hard to differentiate the buildings). Then she said maybe she sent him to the wrong building. Then said maybe he never entered/was just replacing the battery for our Latch lock. She then changed the story to she gave him access/he can only unlock doors that she gives him access to that day. She never had a reason for the 3rd most recent time, and continually kept altering her story to defend this man. Because the app gives me his name, I looked him up and also found that he has multiple felony convictions, so knowing that he has or had access to my apartment and has been at the very least unlocking my door (and possibly entering) without our knowledge makes me very uneasy. Is there anything I can do? It feels like a total invasion of my privacy at the very least, and at most a breach of my lease if he entered without notice. Assistant: File a police report	-0.255465
Human: What to do with leftover veggies after making a stock? It just breaks my heart to throw it all out. Assistant: The only thing worth making with vegetables that have been used for stock is compost.	Human: What to do with leftover veggies after making a stock? It just breaks my heart to throw it all out. Assistant: They have given up all their flavor. Just pitch them.	0.997752
Human: Philosophy of horror What are the serious works (if any) on the philosophy of horror. Horror not as in the emotion, but the genre. I’m looking for a reading list, but also an overview of whatever materials have been published would be great Assistant: Kristeva has a book on the topic	Human: Philosophy of horror What are the serious works (if any) on the philosophy of horror. Horror not as in the emotion, but the genre. I’m looking for a reading list, but also an overview of whatever materials have been published would be great Assistant: Georges Bataille - Literature and Evil	0.997748
Human: Fry chicken raw or steamed first? I recently learned that some restaurants in my country fry chicken raw instead if cooking it first. When I make fried chicken I've only ever steamed it first every time before frying. Is it really ok to fry chicken raw? And does it taste different Assistant: Either way is acceptable. Steaming first has its advantages. When you fry it, you KNOW the chicken is thoroughly cooked. You don't have to guess about it being raw or cooked, just fry until you have an acceptable color. And because you eliminated the guesswork, you end up with a faster fry and prevent burning the breading or batter. The disadvantage I find is that the batter or breading tends not to adhere as well as frying from raw. It's picking your battles and choosing your priorities at this point	Human: Fry chicken raw or steamed first? I recently learned that some restaurants in my country fry chicken raw instead if cooking it first. When I make fried chicken I've only ever steamed it first every time before frying. Is it really ok to fry chicken raw? And does it taste different Assistant: Velvet the chicken first. It will change your life.	-0.187935
Human: How much of your job is actual engineering work whether that be troubleshooting or design etc… as opposed to admin work or staring into space? I’m starting to suspect my life might be Office Space. Assistant: Manager here. 10% engineering work 90% administrative BS	Human: How much of your job is actual engineering work whether that be troubleshooting or design etc… as opposed to admin work or staring into space? I’m starting to suspect my life might be Office Space. Assistant: None. I do manual labor and paperwork with some management and decision making sprinkled in. Been out of college 5 years working as an engineer and I’ve yet to do any of what I would consider “engineering work”. Staring into space is a luxury in my industry. If I’m not moving all day I fall behind and work 12 hours a day instead of 10. And I only get paid for 8 regardless sooo that’s pretty important to me. You don’t want to work in manufacturing.	-0.084539
Human: What is this black peppercorn looking ingredient in my sauerkraut? I went to a German restaurant and this spice, which looks like a peppercorn, was in the sauerkraut. I really don't like it and it took me a while of sniffing it and tasting it for me to v realize that it smells like burnt plastic and has a weird bitter taste. Sauerkraut is something I usually enjoy but this spice ruined it. The spice is black and looks almost exactly like peppercorn but does not taste like any I have tried. It has a shell and the inside was soft and there's a tiny stem. Any idea what it is? So I can avoid it in the future. Assistant: it's 100% juniper berries	Human: What is this black peppercorn looking ingredient in my sauerkraut? I went to a German restaurant and this spice, which looks like a peppercorn, was in the sauerkraut. I really don't like it and it took me a while of sniffing it and tasting it for me to v realize that it smells like burnt plastic and has a weird bitter taste. Sauerkraut is something I usually enjoy but this spice ruined it. The spice is black and looks almost exactly like peppercorn but does not taste like any I have tried. It has a shell and the inside was soft and there's a tiny stem. Any idea what it is? So I can avoid it in the future. Assistant: Caraway seeds are often used in sauerkraut	0.997735
Human: Possibly overdosed on a MAOI. Having amphetamine-like effects 24/7 now + severe tachycardia&hypertension when eating chocolate - what should I do? TL;DR: A study said ethanolic Garlic Extract is a MAOI, I started eating 6-7 cloves of garlic daily for this effect (today is day 8). On days 3 and 5 I ate chocolate, and both times my heart rate shot up to ~130 BPM and blood pressure to ~150/85. Past few days, I've been feeling a 24/7 amphetamine-like drug high - focus, irritability, heart palpitations, high resting heart rate (85-90 BPM). Last time I ate Garlic was 24 hours ago, yet I still experience these symptoms. I fear that the MAOIs in garlic are irreversible - if so, could it possibly take 2-3 weeks for my symptoms to resolve (until new MAO enzymes are made)? What is the appropriate treatment until symptoms resolve? (Been taking Oxazepam after the chocolate-tachycardia, but can't take it daily because of withdrawal concerns). **** Age: 24 Sex: Male I have been reading a study saying garlic has antidepressant effects in rats, and that it works by MAO inhibition, with comparable potency to the clinical MAOI Imipramine. Because of this, I proceeded to eat 6-7 cloves of raw garlic daily for 1 week, for the antidepressant effects. I did feel stimulant-like, mild-antidepressant effects already on the first day, so I kept eating such amounts of garlic for a week. However, on Day 3, I had an incident where I ate chocolate, and got a mild version of "hypertensive crisis" - my heart rate shot up to 134 BPM, my blood pressure to 148/86 (my usual: 100/60). I immediately took 20mg oral Oxazepam and my vitals normalized. I didn't link it to the garlic, and so on Day 5, I ate chocolate and the same thing happened again, and Oxazepam helped me again. Today I finally made the connection. The last time I ate garlic was 24 hours ago. Looking back, I realize that in the past few days, I've had pronounced amphetamine-like effects that lasted the entire day, every day, for at least 3-4 days. Focus, irritability, heart palpitations/"flutters", high resting heart rate - most of the effects. I took Adderall in the past, and I currently feel very similar to how the Adderall made me feel. This makes me very concerned. My high resting heart rate (85-90 BPM) gives me a lot of discomfort, and the palpitations are worrying. Since I know many MAOIs can be irreversible, my biggest fear is that the MAOIs in garlic are also irreversible. In this case, does it mean it will take a few weeks for my symptoms to resolve? If so, what would be the treatment during those few weeks? I obviously cannot keep taking a benzodiazepine every time my heart rate spikes up, because then I'll develop withdrawals. So, what should I do? Assistant: This post is wild.	Human: Possibly overdosed on a MAOI. Having amphetamine-like effects 24/7 now + severe tachycardia&hypertension when eating chocolate - what should I do? TL;DR: A study said ethanolic Garlic Extract is a MAOI, I started eating 6-7 cloves of garlic daily for this effect (today is day 8). On days 3 and 5 I ate chocolate, and both times my heart rate shot up to ~130 BPM and blood pressure to ~150/85. Past few days, I've been feeling a 24/7 amphetamine-like drug high - focus, irritability, heart palpitations, high resting heart rate (85-90 BPM). Last time I ate Garlic was 24 hours ago, yet I still experience these symptoms. I fear that the MAOIs in garlic are irreversible - if so, could it possibly take 2-3 weeks for my symptoms to resolve (until new MAO enzymes are made)? What is the appropriate treatment until symptoms resolve? (Been taking Oxazepam after the chocolate-tachycardia, but can't take it daily because of withdrawal concerns). **** Age: 24 Sex: Male I have been reading a study saying garlic has antidepressant effects in rats, and that it works by MAO inhibition, with comparable potency to the clinical MAOI Imipramine. Because of this, I proceeded to eat 6-7 cloves of raw garlic daily for 1 week, for the antidepressant effects. I did feel stimulant-like, mild-antidepressant effects already on the first day, so I kept eating such amounts of garlic for a week. However, on Day 3, I had an incident where I ate chocolate, and got a mild version of "hypertensive crisis" - my heart rate shot up to 134 BPM, my blood pressure to 148/86 (my usual: 100/60). I immediately took 20mg oral Oxazepam and my vitals normalized. I didn't link it to the garlic, and so on Day 5, I ate chocolate and the same thing happened again, and Oxazepam helped me again. Today I finally made the connection. The last time I ate garlic was 24 hours ago. Looking back, I realize that in the past few days, I've had pronounced amphetamine-like effects that lasted the entire day, every day, for at least 3-4 days. Focus, irritability, heart palpitations/"flutters", high resting heart rate - most of the effects. I took Adderall in the past, and I currently feel very similar to how the Adderall made me feel. This makes me very concerned. My high resting heart rate (85-90 BPM) gives me a lot of discomfort, and the palpitations are worrying. Since I know many MAOIs can be irreversible, my biggest fear is that the MAOIs in garlic are also irreversible. In this case, does it mean it will take a few weeks for my symptoms to resolve? If so, what would be the treatment during those few weeks? I obviously cannot keep taking a benzodiazepine every time my heart rate spikes up, because then I'll develop withdrawals. So, what should I do? Assistant: Lolwat	0.997729
Human: Not really a question, just an update - I really love my job, so thanks for all the advice you've given me!!!! WHEEEEEEE. I'm riding high lol, I'm three weeks into a new job and enjoying myself so much. I'm learning shit, I'm having fun, my work is actually important, I've had multiple people compliment me on my work, I'm hourly so I get OT and I have to eat lunch, etc. This is great, I'm doing great. I came to y'all after getting fired & I really appreciated all the advice I got. I was nervous about asking about things like retention, and how emergencies get handled at jobs, and whether or not manufacturing engineering really can still have WLB & I really appreciate all the advice I got. And for those of u who have bad gut feelings about ur current role, please listen to yourself. I'm literally like, experiencing Joy and Wonder bc like, my team is so supportive and helpful and quick to point out the good I'm doing (prev job, no news was good news and really the positive feedback I got was "oh you're keeping me on my toes", which was frankly unsustainable, the rest of the time it was an endless deluge of feedback that really sapped my confidence in my work and made me make dumb mistakes because it felt like my brain was dissolving in a vat of acid), but also being like "love the energy, please please don't spread yourself too thin, if you need help I've got you", which is like, then opposite of my experience at my old job. I'm just really happy rn and wanted to share bc y'all really did help me when I needed it. Assistant: W post	Human: Not really a question, just an update - I really love my job, so thanks for all the advice you've given me!!!! WHEEEEEEE. I'm riding high lol, I'm three weeks into a new job and enjoying myself so much. I'm learning shit, I'm having fun, my work is actually important, I've had multiple people compliment me on my work, I'm hourly so I get OT and I have to eat lunch, etc. This is great, I'm doing great. I came to y'all after getting fired & I really appreciated all the advice I got. I was nervous about asking about things like retention, and how emergencies get handled at jobs, and whether or not manufacturing engineering really can still have WLB & I really appreciate all the advice I got. And for those of u who have bad gut feelings about ur current role, please listen to yourself. I'm literally like, experiencing Joy and Wonder bc like, my team is so supportive and helpful and quick to point out the good I'm doing (prev job, no news was good news and really the positive feedback I got was "oh you're keeping me on my toes", which was frankly unsustainable, the rest of the time it was an endless deluge of feedback that really sapped my confidence in my work and made me make dumb mistakes because it felt like my brain was dissolving in a vat of acid), but also being like "love the energy, please please don't spread yourself too thin, if you need help I've got you", which is like, then opposite of my experience at my old job. I'm just really happy rn and wanted to share bc y'all really did help me when I needed it. Assistant: Thanks for posting this!	0.997115
Human: Indian food (dals, curries etc) always tasting bland, spiceless and watery no matter how many aromatics I shove in. I can simmer a 2 serving curry for 2 hours with 1 aniseed star, 1 cinnamon stick, 3 cloves, 3 green cardamom, 1 black cardamom, 1 tejpat , 2 curry leaves, 1 inch ginger, 3 garlic cloves, a whole onion and I literally only taste watered down tomatoes. Do you think it might just be my dumbass taste buds?. I go through spices fast and am constantly buying fresh ones, so I don't think it is a symptom of stale spices. Assistant: Salt!!!	Human: Indian food (dals, curries etc) always tasting bland, spiceless and watery no matter how many aromatics I shove in. I can simmer a 2 serving curry for 2 hours with 1 aniseed star, 1 cinnamon stick, 3 cloves, 3 green cardamom, 1 black cardamom, 1 tejpat , 2 curry leaves, 1 inch ginger, 3 garlic cloves, a whole onion and I literally only taste watered down tomatoes. Do you think it might just be my dumbass taste buds?. I go through spices fast and am constantly buying fresh ones, so I don't think it is a symptom of stale spices. Assistant: Did you get covid?	0.997725
Human: If you could make all undergrads study one topic or theory in your field, what would it be? Assistant: For engineers: public speaking	Human: If you could make all undergrads study one topic or theory in your field, what would it be? Assistant: Higher education finance. While I know college is expensive, there's a whole lot that goes into why you pay what you do, not the least of which is the value your state does (or doesn't) place on an educated populace.	0.507608
Human: What are some good YouTube channels that covers philosophy? Assistant: Philosophise this	Human: What are some good YouTube channels that covers philosophy? Assistant: My favourite is Kane B - always has really interesting topics	0.994747
Human: What are ways of preventing something from spinning on a round shaft? For example, -a square key way with set screw -pin/bolt acting in shear -round “fingers” with friction/clamp Just brainstorming some things. Ideas? Assistant: What are you trying to do exactly? In general, this is a solved problem...keys, splines, set screws, split collars, and collets off the top of my head.	Human: What are ways of preventing something from spinning on a round shaft? For example, -a square key way with set screw -pin/bolt acting in shear -round “fingers” with friction/clamp Just brainstorming some things. Ideas? Assistant: fatherly love	0.632622
Human: Just bought a new 1998 Mustang GT anything I should look out for? So I just bought a 98 GT and was wondering if any of you guys knew any common problems or things I should look out for on the car. Assistant: Watch out for me coming to humiliate your big V8 with a tiny 4 cylinder.	Human: Just bought a new 1998 Mustang GT anything I should look out for? So I just bought a 98 GT and was wondering if any of you guys knew any common problems or things I should look out for on the car. Assistant: Try a Mustang specific forum, particularly by year/generation. That will be much more targeted.	0.986545
Human: is there a way to reduce the spice of a store-bought hot sauce without diluting it? I absolutely love heat. When asked a spice level at an Indian or Thai place, I usually give them a four or a five. That being said, I feel like a lot of the fancy hot sauces you can buy nowadays go way too heavy on the heat. Like a couple dabs will set your mouth on fire and block out all other flavor, which is a shame because the sauces that I get, especially from Karma, are really good. I was curious if there was a way to reduce the spice level of the store-bought sauces without diluting it since the flavor of the non-spice ingredients are perfect. Assistant: You can try adding some fat like butter to balance the heat	Human: is there a way to reduce the spice of a store-bought hot sauce without diluting it? I absolutely love heat. When asked a spice level at an Indian or Thai place, I usually give them a four or a five. That being said, I feel like a lot of the fancy hot sauces you can buy nowadays go way too heavy on the heat. Like a couple dabs will set your mouth on fire and block out all other flavor, which is a shame because the sauces that I get, especially from Karma, are really good. I was curious if there was a way to reduce the spice level of the store-bought sauces without diluting it since the flavor of the non-spice ingredients are perfect. Assistant: Butter?	0.995364
Human: what do you think a tv show about engineers would look like? Doctors, lawyers, cops, and even more professions have tv shows. Why not engineers? If so, what do you guys think it would look like? Assistant: Dilbert and Silicon Valley	Human: what do you think a tv show about engineers would look like? Doctors, lawyers, cops, and even more professions have tv shows. Why not engineers? If so, what do you guys think it would look like? Assistant: It would look like a bunch of guys driving trains. Preferably steam locomotives, in order to satisfy OP's additional/after the fact requirement of being "steamy".	0.158339
Human: What are some key words for design engineer positions that recruiters are looking for? I know some companies can get a ton of resumes so they use their application programs to flag certain applicants that have key words/phrases in their profile/resume so as to sift through the sheer quantity of submissions. What would some of these key words/phrases be that I could add into my resume, without lying of course. I know things like 'CAD' or 'Product Design' are pretty common but maybe there's something else I could put in that I don't have, just want to give myself a little bit of an edge when competing with 30-40 other applicants. Assistant: DESIGN and ENGINEER couldn't hurt	Human: What are some key words for design engineer positions that recruiters are looking for? I know some companies can get a ton of resumes so they use their application programs to flag certain applicants that have key words/phrases in their profile/resume so as to sift through the sheer quantity of submissions. What would some of these key words/phrases be that I could add into my resume, without lying of course. I know things like 'CAD' or 'Product Design' are pretty common but maybe there's something else I could put in that I don't have, just want to give myself a little bit of an edge when competing with 30-40 other applicants. Assistant: I have heard quite a few. DFMA, PFMA and concurrent engineering were stressed upon a lot	0.992361
Human: How to fry an egg, with runny yolk, but without that slimy egg white on top of the yolk ; I really enjoy sunny side up eggs on my food, but I always end up with a thin layer of slimy egg white that ⠀I would prefer to not have there. Any techniques to not have this or is it that the cheap eggs i buy is just low quality? Sorry for average English skills. Assistant: Break the egg white's membrane as demonstrated here	Human: How to fry an egg, with runny yolk, but without that slimy egg white on top of the yolk ; I really enjoy sunny side up eggs on my food, but I always end up with a thin layer of slimy egg white that ⠀I would prefer to not have there. Any techniques to not have this or is it that the cheap eggs i buy is just low quality? Sorry for average English skills. Assistant: My husband’s Auntie taught me to pour a little of the hot cooking grease over the top to set it a bit before it’s done. Take that with a grain of salt, they’re a southern family and I don’t eat runny eggs, I just make them for hubby so 🤷🏻‍♀️	-0.15145
Human: Are there any philosophers that dealt with a lot of suffering/pain? Not necessarily those that wrote about pain, but those that had a lot of pain and were still producing philosophy, preferably not pessimistic stuff Assistant: Victor Frankl was in Auschwitz.	Human: Are there any philosophers that dealt with a lot of suffering/pain? Not necessarily those that wrote about pain, but those that had a lot of pain and were still producing philosophy, preferably not pessimistic stuff Assistant: Deleuze suffered with respiratory problems all his life and was diagnosed with tuberculosis in 1968. It became so painful and agonizing that he committed suicide when he was 70. Nietzsche's health also got worse the older he got. He continued writing despite his health issues until he had a mental breakdown at 44 that left him in a practically vegetative state afterwards. Here's a video talking about Nietzsche's health	-0.23385
Human: The best car for a road trip? It's for a homework Assistant: This is going to get a lot of hate but a good minivan. Nobody suggests it because it doesn't have the cool image that, say, a land cruiser has. But it's so comfortable, spacious, and feature-rich. Not to mention if you have small kids, you don't have to lift them up into the vehicle for the hundredth time during a road trip. They easily climb into the car themselves.	Human: The best car for a road trip? It's for a homework Assistant: Phaeton	0.072906
Human: If you were given all the money you've put into your car(s) what would you do? Assistant: Put it back into my cars.	Human: If you were given all the money you've put into your car(s) what would you do? Assistant: My dad could probably buy a house	0.994592
Human: Help with name of engineering project management document? I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE ANSWER FOR AN HOUR, I CAN'T FIND IT IN GOOGLE. I'm trying to find a template of a specific type of document used for managing an engineering project, but I can't recall the name. The document is a set of tables were specifications/requirements (functional and non-functional) are named and explained, then you can add other specs or changes to it, or create new ones. All related stuff is linked between them. I know there's software that can automatically do this kind of docs, but I just don't know the name of them, or the software, or anything. Assistant: Microsoft office?	Human: Help with name of engineering project management document? I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE ANSWER FOR AN HOUR, I CAN'T FIND IT IN GOOGLE. I'm trying to find a template of a specific type of document used for managing an engineering project, but I can't recall the name. The document is a set of tables were specifications/requirements (functional and non-functional) are named and explained, then you can add other specs or changes to it, or create new ones. All related stuff is linked between them. I know there's software that can automatically do this kind of docs, but I just don't know the name of them, or the software, or anything. Assistant: DOORS - Dynamic Object Oriented Requirement System. It is an IBM product. We use it to create our Critical Item Development Specification document (CIDS). My workplace loves a good acronym.	0.888981
Human: How do you address your manager/supervisor on a call as an incoming intern? I am conflicted in how to address one’s manager/supervisor, basically the person that your position reports to. I’m starting a new internship this summer and i have a call scheduled with my manager and I don’t know how to address him. Should I go first name , Mr. last name or sir or not mention his name at all. Assistant: First name	Human: How do you address your manager/supervisor on a call as an incoming intern? I am conflicted in how to address one’s manager/supervisor, basically the person that your position reports to. I’m starting a new internship this summer and i have a call scheduled with my manager and I don’t know how to address him. Should I go first name , Mr. last name or sir or not mention his name at all. Assistant: Bro, or broseph	0.997679
Human: I fucked up the green bean casserole. Is there any possible way to fix this? I cooked the green bean casserole and only now realized I didn’t cook the green beans before doing the casserole. Dumb mistake- any way to make the green beans soft after the fact? Assistant: Bake it again tomorrow 😂	Human: I fucked up the green bean casserole. Is there any possible way to fix this? I cooked the green bean casserole and only now realized I didn’t cook the green beans before doing the casserole. Dumb mistake- any way to make the green beans soft after the fact? Assistant: Did you try a bite and confirm they weren’t soft? I’d be surprised if they were still hard after a cook in the oven. Maybe firmer than usual, but they shouldn’t be like raw If they’re still firmer than you like, just cook the casserole longer.	0.339787
Human: "How to work in academia and look after yourself" A talk I gave last week about well-being and work-life balance in academia Last week I gave a talk called "How to work in higher education and look after yourself" which was also called "How to be a future research leader and look after yourself" .... The talk was recorded and you can watch it here It's the second time I've given it, lots of people have told me it was useful for them. It's super hard for me to give the talk (it brings up a lot of personal issues with anxiety) so this time I recorded it so I won't have to give it again! It's got some practical time management, work-life balance stuff but focuses on thinking about the relationship you have with your work. I'm in the UK so it's obviously focused on that context. Assistant: As someone who has just finished their PhD and is a relatively fresh Postdoc, thank you for this, friend.	Human: "How to work in academia and look after yourself" A talk I gave last week about well-being and work-life balance in academia Last week I gave a talk called "How to work in higher education and look after yourself" which was also called "How to be a future research leader and look after yourself" .... The talk was recorded and you can watch it here It's the second time I've given it, lots of people have told me it was useful for them. It's super hard for me to give the talk (it brings up a lot of personal issues with anxiety) so this time I recorded it so I won't have to give it again! It's got some practical time management, work-life balance stuff but focuses on thinking about the relationship you have with your work. I'm in the UK so it's obviously focused on that context. Assistant: Thank you!	0.958829
Human: CMV: Paul McCartney Was The Most Talented Member of the Beatles In addition to writing many of The Beatles most successful and original songs, he was a tremendous instrumentalist. Of course he was an outstanding bassist. His skills as a guitarist were equal if not superior to George Harrison’s for much of the group's life, and easily surpassed John's. He was easily the best pianist in the group. He even replaced Ringo Starr briefly, effectively playing the drums on a few cuts off the White Album. He was a quality singer and certainly a vocalist of superior ability and range, sounding nearly savage and unrecognizable at moments (“Oh! Darling“ and “Helter Skelter”), harmless and somber other times (“I Will” and “Here, There, and Everywhere”) and that like deeper singing voice he uses which is a klick below his normal singing voice (“Lady Madonna,” “Back In The USSR”). I remember when I first listened to the opening track off Sgt. Pepper and trying to figure out who the hell was singing. Provided time and resources, Paul could have been a one-man band, or very close to it. None of the other members of The Beatles could say such a thing. Assistant: Everyone knows it was all Yoko Ono	Human: CMV: Paul McCartney Was The Most Talented Member of the Beatles In addition to writing many of The Beatles most successful and original songs, he was a tremendous instrumentalist. Of course he was an outstanding bassist. His skills as a guitarist were equal if not superior to George Harrison’s for much of the group's life, and easily surpassed John's. He was easily the best pianist in the group. He even replaced Ringo Starr briefly, effectively playing the drums on a few cuts off the White Album. He was a quality singer and certainly a vocalist of superior ability and range, sounding nearly savage and unrecognizable at moments (“Oh! Darling“ and “Helter Skelter”), harmless and somber other times (“I Will” and “Here, There, and Everywhere”) and that like deeper singing voice he uses which is a klick below his normal singing voice (“Lady Madonna,” “Back In The USSR”). I remember when I first listened to the opening track off Sgt. Pepper and trying to figure out who the hell was singing. Provided time and resources, Paul could have been a one-man band, or very close to it. None of the other members of The Beatles could say such a thing. Assistant: Ringo was also an actor. Double trouble!	0.99767
Human: In quantum physics, what do we mean by the word "Observe"? Assistant: I think of it as “an interaction where the property in question is relevant to the outcome of the interaction.”	Human: In quantum physics, what do we mean by the word "Observe"? Assistant: perform a measurement (it does not mean "human looking")	0.985625
Human: What are the red flags of low quality graduate programs? I'm reading an article about masters programs which serve as more of a trap rather than an opportunity. What stood out to me was how a seemingly reputable university (uChicago) preys on naive undergraduates and uses personal prestige to sell an expensive graduate program that has terrible market value. And yet, their marketing is so good that an average student - desperate to go to grad school - wouldn't even notice. So my question is: In your experience (e.g. after you've spent time at the school), which red flags did you notice (if any)? What advice can you give for students trying to wade through the marketing bs to find a good program? What are some things that are difficult to spot on the surface? Assistant: With the exception of professional programs (med school, vet school, law school, social worker, MBA, etc), do not pay for grad school at either the MS or PhD levels. With professional programs, pay as little as possible. Masters programs are typically cash cows, and many schools try to make them look really enticing. For example, doing things like 3+2 undergrad + MS programs where they give you tuition discounts.	Human: What are the red flags of low quality graduate programs? I'm reading an article about masters programs which serve as more of a trap rather than an opportunity. What stood out to me was how a seemingly reputable university (uChicago) preys on naive undergraduates and uses personal prestige to sell an expensive graduate program that has terrible market value. And yet, their marketing is so good that an average student - desperate to go to grad school - wouldn't even notice. So my question is: In your experience (e.g. after you've spent time at the school), which red flags did you notice (if any)? What advice can you give for students trying to wade through the marketing bs to find a good program? What are some things that are difficult to spot on the surface? Assistant: M.S. programs red flags: programs that don't give students real access to faculty and/or opportunities to develop skills (no thesis, classes tacked on to undergrad or doc classes, lots of online and asynchronous material, no sense of community or dedication to the M.S. students).	0.891049
Human: How often do you wash your car? Assistant: You're supposed to wash them? huh.	Human: How often do you wash your car? Assistant: Once a week. Best route is hand wash, but if I ever feel lazy I take it to a self serve non touch car wash. If you don't want to make the time, resource or effort commitment for a good at home hand wash, still do not ever submit to a touch car wash, those spinny cloth things they use will microscratch the living hell out of your paint	-0.253348
Human: [MCU] Would Peter have died if he didn't land in the water after Vulture lifts him into the air in Homecoming? I'm referring to the scene about thirty minutes in, when vulture grabs spider-man and lifts him very high into the air. The Stark suit was equipped with a parachute but Peter was flipped upside down, so he got tangled and plummeted. It was very high up and I thought it was quite lucky he landed in water. Would he have died if he hit land or would his powers have saved him? Assistant: Regular people have survived falls at Terminal Velocity. Spider-man definitely can, but I'm sure it could still hurt him some.	Human: [MCU] Would Peter have died if he didn't land in the water after Vulture lifts him into the air in Homecoming? I'm referring to the scene about thirty minutes in, when vulture grabs spider-man and lifts him very high into the air. The Stark suit was equipped with a parachute but Peter was flipped upside down, so he got tangled and plummeted. It was very high up and I thought it was quite lucky he landed in water. Would he have died if he hit land or would his powers have saved him? Assistant: No, he was hit by a train in the next movie.	0.982961