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Human: Are vegetarians offended (disgusted) by those who eat meat? Sharing a table at a restaurant? Will a vegetarian be offended, or even disgusted, by those who eat meat when having dinner at a restaurant? I had someone call me a "flesh-eater." Like a zombie. Crossing into religion just a bit, but same basic question: 1. Kosher: Similarly, those who observe kosher law may find it sickening if someone orders something like lobster, shrimp, clams, bacon, etc. 2. Hindu: would a Hindu vegetarian judge someone who ordered meat? Given that the cow is sacred, would it be offensive to order a beef burger when eating together? I guess the general question is, when eating with those who observe dietary customs, is it offensive to them if another at the table orders something on their black list? ty, tk. Assistant: I can’t speak for every vegetarian but here are my boundaries: I don’t care other eat meat infront of me, but I won’t buy it for someone else. If I am preparing food, I don’t like meat to be in the same pan/oven/grill with my food if I can avoid it.
Human: Are vegetarians offended (disgusted) by those who eat meat? Sharing a table at a restaurant? Will a vegetarian be offended, or even disgusted, by those who eat meat when having dinner at a restaurant? I had someone call me a "flesh-eater." Like a zombie. Crossing into religion just a bit, but same basic question: 1. Kosher: Similarly, those who observe kosher law may find it sickening if someone orders something like lobster, shrimp, clams, bacon, etc. 2. Hindu: would a Hindu vegetarian judge someone who ordered meat? Given that the cow is sacred, would it be offensive to order a beef burger when eating together? I guess the general question is, when eating with those who observe dietary customs, is it offensive to them if another at the table orders something on their black list? ty, tk. Assistant: I mean there are assholes who act that way, but no the majority of vegetarians I know are not like that. Vegans however...
Human: What to cook for vegetarian friends with no oven? A bunch of friends are coming over to my uni dorm for dinner. They're all vegetarian and I am struggling to decide what to cook. I need something interesting yet simple and affordable. Oh and I don't have an oven :( Any help and suggestions would be much appreciated! Assistant: Sounds like the UK so Indian food would be an option. Something with chick peas (chana masala, punjab Chole etc) and something with paneer eg paneer with peppers or sag paneer. All done on the stove in a pan as is the rice. You can even heat up frozen naan or roti in a skillet if you dont have a toaster oven.
Human: What to cook for vegetarian friends with no oven? A bunch of friends are coming over to my uni dorm for dinner. They're all vegetarian and I am struggling to decide what to cook. I need something interesting yet simple and affordable. Oh and I don't have an oven :( Any help and suggestions would be much appreciated! Assistant: A big pot of something. The base could be rice, pasta, quinoa, or even tortilla. Topping could be a stew, a curry, a sauce or something saucy. Add sides. Roasted vegetables, roasted potatoes, steamed vegetables. Oven is not a limitation.
Human: Best steak pie alternative? I want one that you just shove in the oven cook for half an hour and it's ready! Assistant: Pieminster as a treat, but the Linda McCartney ones are great
Human: Best steak pie alternative? I want one that you just shove in the oven cook for half an hour and it's ready! Assistant: If your in the UK pieminister do a jackfruit “beef” and ale that is amazing. They serve it in the restaurants and do a home cook version 😍
Human: Does anyone know if Dunkin' Donuts is phasing out the Beyond Breakfast sandwich? I'm traveling and I recently stopped to grab my favorite go-to vegetarian fast food sandwich, only to be told it had been taken off the menu. This was in Pennsylvania. Anyone else noticed it disappearing? I'm worried, crossing my fingers it wasn't a wide decision. Assistant: I’m in Virginia and they just told me that it’s being discontinued ☹️
Human: Does anyone know if Dunkin' Donuts is phasing out the Beyond Breakfast sandwich? I'm traveling and I recently stopped to grab my favorite go-to vegetarian fast food sandwich, only to be told it had been taken off the menu. This was in Pennsylvania. Anyone else noticed it disappearing? I'm worried, crossing my fingers it wasn't a wide decision. Assistant: I don’t know, but I’m guessing that Dunkin isn’t exactly concerned about health decisions by its customers.
Human: Question about meatless burgers I’ve been looking for good meatless burger and all the ones I’ve found have a insane amount of sodium. Are there any that don’t have so much sodium? Assistant: Yeah the Impossible might win that race. They are just super pricey. Taste is👌though.
Human: Question about meatless burgers I’ve been looking for good meatless burger and all the ones I’ve found have a insane amount of sodium. Are there any that don’t have so much sodium? Assistant: I’ve given up on “meat replacements”
Human: Vegetarianism and pregnancy Hi, I’m wondering if anyone has tips for getting enough protein during pregnancy. I’m not a picky eater and I’ll try anything. My favorite beans are pinto and black beans. I’m terrible at cooking lentils. Assistant: Over 60 comments and I dont think I saw this- apologies if it was already mentioned Buy an insta pot. You dont need a big one-- I got mine for 50 bucks. It's great for lentils among other things. Two servings red lentils, throw a half cup rinsed red lentils in the instapot with 2 cups water (more or less depending on how soupy you want it). Add seasonings (I use 1 tsp cumin, paprika, curry powder) cook on pressure cook setting for 5 minutes. When it's done at a half tsp salt and serve with naan.
Human: Vegetarianism and pregnancy Hi, I’m wondering if anyone has tips for getting enough protein during pregnancy. I’m not a picky eater and I’ll try anything. My favorite beans are pinto and black beans. I’m terrible at cooking lentils. Assistant: Re: lentils Canned and those steamed packs from the cooler (Trader Joe’s or Melissa’s brand) are both really good! Green and French and red are all easier to cook than old dirty brown. I use the cooler kind to make lentil tabbouleh.
Human: How do I support my GF while shes transitioning to a meatless diet? My GF has decided to stop eating meat for as long as she can. Shes used to eating meat with every single meal and is getting cranky about not being 'satisfied'. Shes used to the simple, steak and chips or parmiganas although she has been eating a lot more vegies since weve been together. I cook her stuffed mushrooms and all that but a lot of the stuff I eat doesnt apeal to her and it seems to just be the meat thats the issue. I tell her how proud of her I am and how well shes doing (its been 3 days now) but I dont want to overdo it and make her feel like its not her own choice anymore. (Shes very independent and this needs to be her choice, as it is) How do I help her through this without her feeling that Im berating her for wanting to eat meat? Assistant: When i was cutting out meat I focused on new things to eat instead of what I can’t eat. Maybe look up new recipes to try together or go to a new restaurant.
Human: How do I support my GF while shes transitioning to a meatless diet? My GF has decided to stop eating meat for as long as she can. Shes used to eating meat with every single meal and is getting cranky about not being 'satisfied'. Shes used to the simple, steak and chips or parmiganas although she has been eating a lot more vegies since weve been together. I cook her stuffed mushrooms and all that but a lot of the stuff I eat doesnt apeal to her and it seems to just be the meat thats the issue. I tell her how proud of her I am and how well shes doing (its been 3 days now) but I dont want to overdo it and make her feel like its not her own choice anymore. (Shes very independent and this needs to be her choice, as it is) How do I help her through this without her feeling that Im berating her for wanting to eat meat? Assistant: You'll never feel full if you replace the meat from a "meat and potatoes" meal with more vegetables. Try cooking meat substitutes, more one-pot meals (like curries, stir fries, stews), and lots of whole grains.
Human: Partner is mainly carnivore, how to cook for us both? I won't cook meat, but I want to find vegetarian dishes I can either let her add meat to, or eat it as is. The problem is that she WON'T eat veggies. Barely any. She wasn't raised on them. If it's cooked into something sometimes she doesn't mind it, but she's pretty picky about texture and base ingredients... but luckily less picky about spices and heat. She hasn't tried a lot of stuff either, but she would probably taste mine. One quick example is that I made Mac and cheese and Put a veggie dog in mine, and she put a real hotdog in hers (gross but I made her buy expensive ones). Other Ideas? I'm almost done with cancer treatment and I want us to both eat much much healthier (we were/are busy fast food eaters mainly. Thanks!!! Assistant: Tell her to grow up and eat vegetables lmao
Human: Partner is mainly carnivore, how to cook for us both? I won't cook meat, but I want to find vegetarian dishes I can either let her add meat to, or eat it as is. The problem is that she WON'T eat veggies. Barely any. She wasn't raised on them. If it's cooked into something sometimes she doesn't mind it, but she's pretty picky about texture and base ingredients... but luckily less picky about spices and heat. She hasn't tried a lot of stuff either, but she would probably taste mine. One quick example is that I made Mac and cheese and Put a veggie dog in mine, and she put a real hotdog in hers (gross but I made her buy expensive ones). Other Ideas? I'm almost done with cancer treatment and I want us to both eat much much healthier (we were/are busy fast food eaters mainly. Thanks!!! Assistant: Won't eat greens or are legumes, mushrooms, tomatoes etc all off the table pun intended? Thai curries? Can make the base curry then add your own preferences separately at the end. Chilis and Indian curries could work too but may run into issues if tomatoes, onions and beans are no good. Pizza, w/ white sauce if tomatoes are icky but this isn't particularly healthy lol. Breakfast for dinner? Dang I'm kind of out of ideas. Coming up with vegetarian meals that don't involve vegetables is kind of hard.
Human: What are your go-to healthy recipes/inspiration? Needing to drop a few kilos After overindulging over the Christmas and holiday period (too much wine and chocolate and cheese) I’ve put on a few kilos. I’ve got a few healthy recipes that I pull out when I’m trying to get back into a good groove but I’m looking for some more inspiration that’ll keep me away from all my delicious pasta recipes that have been on heavy rotation. Also happy to have Instagram accounts Any weight loss advice also appreciated! Assistant: Lentil chili is great. Tons of protein and very filling so you aren't tempted to snack.
Human: What are your go-to healthy recipes/inspiration? Needing to drop a few kilos After overindulging over the Christmas and holiday period (too much wine and chocolate and cheese) I’ve put on a few kilos. I’ve got a few healthy recipes that I pull out when I’m trying to get back into a good groove but I’m looking for some more inspiration that’ll keep me away from all my delicious pasta recipes that have been on heavy rotation. Also happy to have Instagram accounts Any weight loss advice also appreciated! Assistant: No deserts or chips, I tend to put on weight over winter so I’m trying with moderate success not to get to the mumu stage, also ive had to pare back meals as I’m clearly not working at the level I do over summer lol
Human: Tofu ideas - what's your go-to? I got 18 lb of tofu yesterday for less than a buck a pound. I couldn't pass it up, but now I have shit ton of tofu LOL. Assistant: Freeze half! It’s actually often nicer once it’s been frozen
Human: Tofu ideas - what's your go-to? I got 18 lb of tofu yesterday for less than a buck a pound. I couldn't pass it up, but now I have shit ton of tofu LOL. Assistant: Tofu scallops - cookie cutter the tofu into rounds, score a grid into the tops, marinate in 1/8 cup soy sauce, 1/4 cup maple syrup, 1-2 tbsp Sriracha, 2+ minced garlic cloves and a thumb sized piece of diced ginger, fry them top and bottom in a pan on the stove, then reduce the remaining marinade and drizzle it on top. So good.
Human: vegetarian ramen suggestions? I love ramen noodles but most of the pack noodles aren't vegetarian. Any suggestions to help? Assistant: Ditch the packets. I use soy sauce, sesame oil, vegetarian boullion, and salt. I also add dried parsely flakes, sesame seeds, and other things but that is optional. Top it with some vegetables and an egg.
Human: vegetarian ramen suggestions? I love ramen noodles but most of the pack noodles aren't vegetarian. Any suggestions to help? Assistant: Chef Woo is great with chicken, beef, & spicy favors - all vegetarian. Simply Asia sells a pack of 4 blocks of noodles. Just add your own broth & veggies. I love Better than Bouillon - they have veggie, no-chicken, and no-beef flavors.
Human: What vegetarian foods contain lots of Iron? Please let me know. Assistant: Fortified cereal (I like wholegrain Weetabix or similar), spinach and kale, and a source of vitamin C which helps absorption is my go-to. Legumes also have modest amounts
Human: What vegetarian foods contain lots of Iron? Please let me know. Assistant: Greens such as spinach and kale have comparable amounts of iron to red meat, and much more than salmon.
Human: Is a portfolio really necessary if i want to do frontend? So, like probably a ton of other newbies here, when I was learning front end it seemed like every online tutorial or advice video suggested making a portfolio. I just finished my last semester of college, got a job, and really busted my ass working on a couple of personal projects, which are 90% done, and look decent IMO. But there's still a good amount of work to be done given that these are some larger projects, and it could easily take me the rest of the summer to finish them + put them on a portfolio site. So right now I'm at a crossroads where I'm thinking about whether to continue doing personal projects, or to focus more on frontend interview prep, since I do plan on applying to top tech companies some day (maybe even 1-2 years). So how important really is a portfolio for someone with a BS in computer science and a (small) amount of previous work experience? Will it actually help me get a lot more interviews? Assistant: I had, idk if it make any difference. Most clients never look in code anyway.
Human: Is a portfolio really necessary if i want to do frontend? So, like probably a ton of other newbies here, when I was learning front end it seemed like every online tutorial or advice video suggested making a portfolio. I just finished my last semester of college, got a job, and really busted my ass working on a couple of personal projects, which are 90% done, and look decent IMO. But there's still a good amount of work to be done given that these are some larger projects, and it could easily take me the rest of the summer to finish them + put them on a portfolio site. So right now I'm at a crossroads where I'm thinking about whether to continue doing personal projects, or to focus more on frontend interview prep, since I do plan on applying to top tech companies some day (maybe even 1-2 years). So how important really is a portfolio for someone with a BS in computer science and a (small) amount of previous work experience? Will it actually help me get a lot more interviews? Assistant: 11 years doing Front-end. Never had any portfolio. Also most of my previous projects under the NDA. Being asked about my portfolio from small consulting firms. They pay below market and it's not worth time talking to them. Most likely your future employer will be asking you LC and JS questions.
Human: I just crawled out of a year-long depressed, alcoholic chapter of life. How do I explain this gap year on my resume? Around this time last year, I left an engineering position at a prominent consulting firm (underpaid, overworked, etc). I lined up a few interviews, but ended up cancelling or refusing the offers. I didn’t have any drive as I spiraled into a horrible cycle of nearly drinking myself to death most nights. I rationalized this behavior, because I half-assedly did a pro-bono project that should’ve taken a month, but instead I dragged it out for a year. Anyways, I did a hackathon which rekindled my passion for building apps. With renewed drive, quitting drinking was easy. I’m amazed by how much easier it is to build and learn new tools without the mental fog of a hangover. It feels like I’m back to being ME again. Now it’s time to dive back into employment. I feel solid about technical and personal interviews, but I have this past year looming over me like a rain cloud. Should I try to minimize the discussion around it? Or should I explain it as if I overcame a hurdle? I can understand an employer’s apprehension, so I just want to be honest and hope for an ideal outcome. Assistant: Fill the gap as freelance on your resume, keep the details brief. If they ask just say something like: “I wanted to try striking it out on my own. It was fun and I learned a lot, but I just found that I like working with teams more – more collaborative environments, ya know?” Indicates you’re a self-starter, have been around the block, and you know what you want.
Human: I just crawled out of a year-long depressed, alcoholic chapter of life. How do I explain this gap year on my resume? Around this time last year, I left an engineering position at a prominent consulting firm (underpaid, overworked, etc). I lined up a few interviews, but ended up cancelling or refusing the offers. I didn’t have any drive as I spiraled into a horrible cycle of nearly drinking myself to death most nights. I rationalized this behavior, because I half-assedly did a pro-bono project that should’ve taken a month, but instead I dragged it out for a year. Anyways, I did a hackathon which rekindled my passion for building apps. With renewed drive, quitting drinking was easy. I’m amazed by how much easier it is to build and learn new tools without the mental fog of a hangover. It feels like I’m back to being ME again. Now it’s time to dive back into employment. I feel solid about technical and personal interviews, but I have this past year looming over me like a rain cloud. Should I try to minimize the discussion around it? Or should I explain it as if I overcame a hurdle? I can understand an employer’s apprehension, so I just want to be honest and hope for an ideal outcome. Assistant: I haven’t had a single engineer job ask me about resume gaps. This is a skill based industry so I doubt they’ll care.
Human: Started at new company (much better salary and benefits), but code-review process is MESSED up. It took a week for my last pull request to get picked up. Is this normal? Recently moved from a 50-person startup to a series C org in the moving-logistics space with about 250 employees. I expected there to be more meetings with a bigger team (which there are), but I'm getting insanely frustrated with bottlenecks in our code review process. I'm not even tasked with big code changes as I'm the most junior person on the team and they're still taking forever to get picked up for review. On my last team, it was more tight-knit and I could just hit people on Slack and ask for them to take a look. It's not even like there is a formal process that's taking a while for code reviews to happen - they just aren't happening. I looked up solutions and they all seem to have to do with how the engineering manager sets up their pull-request system. I don't want to come in and just start messing with things, but I'm getting really unhappy. Any help or advice is more than welcome. Assistant: Bring it up in your 1-on-1. Take the lead in a org reframing around PRs. Assess if others are feeling the same way Ask people why they don’t do timely PRs Tell superiors about the risk of delayed PRs Then create a plan to action change. Did this at my previous team and everyone was happier
Human: Started at new company (much better salary and benefits), but code-review process is MESSED up. It took a week for my last pull request to get picked up. Is this normal? Recently moved from a 50-person startup to a series C org in the moving-logistics space with about 250 employees. I expected there to be more meetings with a bigger team (which there are), but I'm getting insanely frustrated with bottlenecks in our code review process. I'm not even tasked with big code changes as I'm the most junior person on the team and they're still taking forever to get picked up for review. On my last team, it was more tight-knit and I could just hit people on Slack and ask for them to take a look. It's not even like there is a formal process that's taking a while for code reviews to happen - they just aren't happening. I looked up solutions and they all seem to have to do with how the engineering manager sets up their pull-request system. I don't want to come in and just start messing with things, but I'm getting really unhappy. Any help or advice is more than welcome. Assistant: I have a PR open from years ago. More than a week is completely normal just not ideal. The PR is the handoff point where it moves from one schedule to another, now it’s progress is not your job…until comments roll in in a month.
Human: Is there a way to hide visible text from the DOM so bots can't scan my website for contact info? Hi guys, I'm really sorry to be throwing this post on here. I don't want to be the guy who is just asking for an answer... but I'm totally just asking for an answer. I'm new to JS (fairly competent at HTML/CSS), and I'd like to start building out my personal website with my contact information listed. But I know that bots can scan webpages to gather contact info... I built a wordpress website for an ecommerce business I started years ago, threw my email and phone number on... And then I got spam for months afterwards. Is there a way where I can hide the actual text from a bot, but have it visible to a user? I was thinking maybe using a span with a pseudo element that had some content, but I'm not sure if a bot can then go into my CSS and scan the text I put in the class and get the content that way? Thank you. Edit: Also--I do not want to have a contact form. I'd like for people to just be able to send me emails. Assistant: could use css ::before or ::after, believe it will just show up in the DOM as "::before" or "::after"
Human: Is there a way to hide visible text from the DOM so bots can't scan my website for contact info? Hi guys, I'm really sorry to be throwing this post on here. I don't want to be the guy who is just asking for an answer... but I'm totally just asking for an answer. I'm new to JS (fairly competent at HTML/CSS), and I'd like to start building out my personal website with my contact information listed. But I know that bots can scan webpages to gather contact info... I built a wordpress website for an ecommerce business I started years ago, threw my email and phone number on... And then I got spam for months afterwards. Is there a way where I can hide the actual text from a bot, but have it visible to a user? I was thinking maybe using a span with a pseudo element that had some content, but I'm not sure if a bot can then go into my CSS and scan the text I put in the class and get the content that way? Thank you. Edit: Also--I do not want to have a contact form. I'd like for people to just be able to send me emails. Assistant: pay $20 a month for Cloudflare and enable Scrape Shield and Email Address Obfuscation (i think it might even be on the free plan?) if you want to hide stuff other than email addresses wrap in Server Side Exclude tags: https://support.cloudflare.com/hc/en-us/articles/200170036-What-does-Server-Side-Excludes-SSE-do-
Human: Trying to make a hide/show password functionality without any javascript, by using -wbkit-text-security, but i got an issue. https://preview.redd.it/qwq24r85y38a1.png?width=329&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=6f81cebbf517a00d7b6a25f41bf452ad691af73a This makes the password hidden with circular shapes .PasswordBox #password{ -webkit-text-security: disc; } But then when i click checkbox, its not un-censoring the password and making it back to text from the shapes... no clue why .PasswordCheckBox:checked ~ .PasswordBox #password{ -webkit-text-security: none; } Assistant: For the sibling selector to work, the checkbox needs to appear before the input. The sibling selector doesn't match preceding siblings. .a ~ .b { color: rebeccapurple; } <div> <div class="b">Doesn't match</div> <div class="a">Doesn't match</div> <div class="b">Match</div> <div class="b">Also a match</div> </div> More details: https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/CSS/General_sibling_combinator
Human: Trying to make a hide/show password functionality without any javascript, by using -wbkit-text-security, but i got an issue. https://preview.redd.it/qwq24r85y38a1.png?width=329&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=6f81cebbf517a00d7b6a25f41bf452ad691af73a This makes the password hidden with circular shapes .PasswordBox #password{ -webkit-text-security: disc; } But then when i click checkbox, its not un-censoring the password and making it back to text from the shapes... no clue why .PasswordCheckBox:checked ~ .PasswordBox #password{ -webkit-text-security: none; } Assistant: Are you sure your selector is correct? Currently your HTML is expected to be: <div class="PasswordBox"> <input id="password" /> </div> <input class="PasswordCheckBox" type="checkbox" />
Human: What is the worst tech stack you've worked in? Always love hearing these stories. Assistant: Custom language created by the founder specifically for the company's software. It's a bit of a problem.
Human: What is the worst tech stack you've worked in? Always love hearing these stories. Assistant: Currently trying to interface with a SOAP api. RIP
Human: There are so many Slack alternatives, can anyone recommend what you think is the best "slimmed down" option for a 3 person team? We only need direct messaging, voice chat, and message/channel logs. Not necessary, but would be nice: screen sharing and a shared task/to-do list area. I can see like 10 very good ones, and there are probably more. I was hoping to get some recommendations without trying all of those. We are a team of 3, and basically 0 chance we grow past 5 due to the nature and ceiling of the niche. So Just looking for something not bloated with a ton of stuff made for large teams. Thanks! Assistant: Discord by far
Human: There are so many Slack alternatives, can anyone recommend what you think is the best "slimmed down" option for a 3 person team? We only need direct messaging, voice chat, and message/channel logs. Not necessary, but would be nice: screen sharing and a shared task/to-do list area. I can see like 10 very good ones, and there are probably more. I was hoping to get some recommendations without trying all of those. We are a team of 3, and basically 0 chance we grow past 5 due to the nature and ceiling of the niche. So Just looking for something not bloated with a ton of stuff made for large teams. Thanks! Assistant: If you can do self host Rocket Chat is pretty good.
Human: Can you code an entire full stack website with just html CSS and js on your front end and something like Django on the backend without a front-end framework? Can you code an entire full stack website with just html CSS and js on your front end and something like Django on the backend without a front-end framework? Assistant: I can * configure an Apache server * set up a mySQL database * code a back end in PHP * set up the front end with just PHP/HTML/CSS/JS * no frameworks no libraries I did it this way for 10 years. Now I use Netlify/Mongo/Gatsby, and will never look back
Human: Can you code an entire full stack website with just html CSS and js on your front end and something like Django on the backend without a front-end framework? Can you code an entire full stack website with just html CSS and js on your front end and something like Django on the backend without a front-end framework? Assistant: I started in 1998 and the concept of frameworks wasn't even a thing. I've been vanilla-coding forever. Vanilla js+css with php/mysql for backend. *I freaking love it*.
Human: Need a proper roadway in learning web dev Im a CSE student and have knowledge in python, html, css and databases. I’d like to be a full stack dev and interested to learn front end as well as back end. I’d like to know the proper roadway to succeed as a well versed full stack dev one day. Right now I’m learning Django as it works on python. Assistant: If the goal is to be employable as someone that can write front end code, I’d suggest learning the basics of JavaScript, move to some of the modern aspects of JavaScript and then learn react. Academind is what I’ve used in the past, the guy does a great job with these topics.
Human: Need a proper roadway in learning web dev Im a CSE student and have knowledge in python, html, css and databases. I’d like to be a full stack dev and interested to learn front end as well as back end. I’d like to know the proper roadway to succeed as a well versed full stack dev one day. Right now I’m learning Django as it works on python. Assistant: Make something. It doesn't have to ve perfect or even good, especially starting out, but just make it happen. The tools and platforms will make more sense and be picked up easier when you understand the problems they solve. Then rinse and repeat, but using the tools that you find along the way that make your life easier.
Human: Best way to learn a new language? So for the past month I’ve been trying to learn JavaScript but I feel like I’ve made no progress. I’ve tried tutorials and follow along coding but I just can’t seem to get my head around it. Anyone had challenges like this before and have advice on how to overcome it? Assistant: My advice would be to create a little project, to get to know the language. Then explore more. The more. As someone in this thread said, "Projects, projects, projects".
Human: Best way to learn a new language? So for the past month I’ve been trying to learn JavaScript but I feel like I’ve made no progress. I’ve tried tutorials and follow along coding but I just can’t seem to get my head around it. Anyone had challenges like this before and have advice on how to overcome it? Assistant: 1. Study data structures / types and their differences i.e. when you would use one vs the other. 2. Study the runtime i.e. how the code actually gets parsed / executed by the browser / node. While it's true it should have some resemblance to the lexical syntax structure, that doesn't necessarily mean a browser see's the code in the same way you read it.
Human: What's the best/most convenient way to check responsiveness? I use Chrome's built in tool in "inspect" but i sometimes see people using other programs/apps to check it in real time. What's your way to do it? I'm just a beginner so sorry if the answer is common knowledge. Assistant: Personally, I think Firefox has better responsive tools. I use that 90% of the time. The other thing I use is https://responsively.app/ it's a slick tool and free. PS -- you're a beginner, don't apologize for that. It's OK not to know things, it's OK to ask questions, it's OK to need help. If someone attempts to make you feel bad that says more about them than you. Fuck 'em and keep learning!
Human: What's the best/most convenient way to check responsiveness? I use Chrome's built in tool in "inspect" but i sometimes see people using other programs/apps to check it in real time. What's your way to do it? I'm just a beginner so sorry if the answer is common knowledge. Assistant: Resize the browser window and use a smaller device.
Human: Is it weird to request, from a new employer, to know what kind of data will be tracked on the business laptop that I will be issued to by them? I am specifically curious if they are going to be tracking my location. On one hand asking that may seem suspicious, but on the other hand a lot of people are very privacy-focused these days so maybe it wouldn't be a weird thing to ask. Would love to hear your thoughts. Assistant: Ask if they have an IT policy, and if you can read it.
Human: Is it weird to request, from a new employer, to know what kind of data will be tracked on the business laptop that I will be issued to by them? I am specifically curious if they are going to be tracking my location. On one hand asking that may seem suspicious, but on the other hand a lot of people are very privacy-focused these days so maybe it wouldn't be a weird thing to ask. Would love to hear your thoughts. Assistant: Just don’t do anything not work related on it. Most do track location in case of theft usually after it’s reported stolen.
Human: Applying for a Front-End WordPress developer position, passed the first 2 stages of the interview process now I'm onto the third with the "Director of Engineering" what questions do you think I can expect? Would appreciate any input on this, I'm currently applying for a Front-End WordPress developer position which I really want. Essentially, I would be developing websites from scratch using HTML/SCSS/PHP/JS and Wordpress as the backend. Here's the timeline so far: **First Interview:** With the "Technical Recruiter", he asked a little about my experience and a bunch of technical questions. **Second phase, a programming test:** I was given a folder with several tasks to complete like fixing layout issues, adding javascript to handle mobile menu and fix font sizing. After I submitted the test, didn't hear from the company for about a week and a half. Now apparently the test was good enough and I'm moving on towards a third interview with the "Director of Engineering" **Third Interview (**Happening in a few days**):** This one makes me really nervous, the technical recruiter already asked technical questions and when I hear that I'll be speaking with the "Director of Engineering" I can only assume it's going to be more technical questions? Do you think it's going to be more technical questions? or what else do you think a "Director of Engineering" could ask me? I feel like I'm already burned out trying to prove I know my stuff lol. Would love to read your opinions, please 🙏 Assistant: Maybe “can you click this button to install this plugin”?
Human: Applying for a Front-End WordPress developer position, passed the first 2 stages of the interview process now I'm onto the third with the "Director of Engineering" what questions do you think I can expect? Would appreciate any input on this, I'm currently applying for a Front-End WordPress developer position which I really want. Essentially, I would be developing websites from scratch using HTML/SCSS/PHP/JS and Wordpress as the backend. Here's the timeline so far: **First Interview:** With the "Technical Recruiter", he asked a little about my experience and a bunch of technical questions. **Second phase, a programming test:** I was given a folder with several tasks to complete like fixing layout issues, adding javascript to handle mobile menu and fix font sizing. After I submitted the test, didn't hear from the company for about a week and a half. Now apparently the test was good enough and I'm moving on towards a third interview with the "Director of Engineering" **Third Interview (**Happening in a few days**):** This one makes me really nervous, the technical recruiter already asked technical questions and when I hear that I'll be speaking with the "Director of Engineering" I can only assume it's going to be more technical questions? Do you think it's going to be more technical questions? or what else do you think a "Director of Engineering" could ask me? I feel like I'm already burned out trying to prove I know my stuff lol. Would love to read your opinions, please 🙏 Assistant: If it’s Wordpress, probably going to dive into your knowledge of plugin and theme development, working with the WP functions file, etc. just my guess
Human: I am bored with the web development industry. What should I do? Some background: I have a degree in CS, and graduated in 2019 with about a 3.3 GPA with a relatively strong math/statistics background. I currently have 2 years of experience with my current employer, a large state university as the sole developer for marketing company. My daily languages are html5, css3, js , Jquery, .NET(MVC). My job is going nowhere. Since last week I'm anxious when I arrive at the workplace, I get bored so hard that I can't get any work done and I just feel very unhappy at work in general, although the workplace is great, my colleagues are great and I don't have any stress or unmanageable deadlines. I also don't have interest in the projects any more, I feel like I don't really care if a site is finished in a good way or not, does anyone know what this is? Am I getting bored of the web development industry? Can anyone relate? I 've decided to pursue moving away from web development and toward another field within computer science. I have tried game dev, data science, analytics but it was to no avail. Which one should I move to? Assistant: Anyone working with MVC would get depressed
Human: I am bored with the web development industry. What should I do? Some background: I have a degree in CS, and graduated in 2019 with about a 3.3 GPA with a relatively strong math/statistics background. I currently have 2 years of experience with my current employer, a large state university as the sole developer for marketing company. My daily languages are html5, css3, js , Jquery, .NET(MVC). My job is going nowhere. Since last week I'm anxious when I arrive at the workplace, I get bored so hard that I can't get any work done and I just feel very unhappy at work in general, although the workplace is great, my colleagues are great and I don't have any stress or unmanageable deadlines. I also don't have interest in the projects any more, I feel like I don't really care if a site is finished in a good way or not, does anyone know what this is? Am I getting bored of the web development industry? Can anyone relate? I 've decided to pursue moving away from web development and toward another field within computer science. I have tried game dev, data science, analytics but it was to no avail. Which one should I move to? Assistant: I think you need to take a two week vacation first, sounds like you’re burned out from work in general.
Human: Working on a personal project with logins & stored user information-- how do I protect myself legally? I'm working on a personal project that is a productivity app-- as such, I've set up logins through Firebase UI and the user stores information that is mapped to each user who logs in. The app, for those interested, is a React front-end with a Go Serverless back-end. *I do not collect payments and expect to make no money from this app. It's just a fun project and hopefully helps some people.* Given this, what all do I have to do to protect myself legally? What have you guys done? There's tons of questions in my head, including * Do I need a formal privacy policy and how should I make one? * Do I need an LLC to protect myself from liability & (less importantly) to safeguard my name? Is there some blanket disclaimer I can just throw on the website so I'm not liable? Or do I need to make concrete legal steps? Should I just restrict the app to only people who get an invite code from me and say "please don't sue me"? I'm sure I'm not the only one who's made a passion project that involves logins and people storing information, so wondering what the general course of action is! Assistant: If you are using the firebase login stuff - then leave the legal stuff in their boat. Don't save any data about your people separate from that - and let Google deal with it - when then lose all the data.
Human: Working on a personal project with logins & stored user information-- how do I protect myself legally? I'm working on a personal project that is a productivity app-- as such, I've set up logins through Firebase UI and the user stores information that is mapped to each user who logs in. The app, for those interested, is a React front-end with a Go Serverless back-end. *I do not collect payments and expect to make no money from this app. It's just a fun project and hopefully helps some people.* Given this, what all do I have to do to protect myself legally? What have you guys done? There's tons of questions in my head, including * Do I need a formal privacy policy and how should I make one? * Do I need an LLC to protect myself from liability & (less importantly) to safeguard my name? Is there some blanket disclaimer I can just throw on the website so I'm not liable? Or do I need to make concrete legal steps? Should I just restrict the app to only people who get an invite code from me and say "please don't sue me"? I'm sure I'm not the only one who's made a passion project that involves logins and people storing information, so wondering what the general course of action is! Assistant: Also, if you're concerned about security to help prevent potential lawsuits, get a static code analysis tool. It will be a million times better at identifying vulnerabilities than one person ever will.
Human: If I am serving up a front end and a back end on my same local host IP address then I shouldn't have any cross origin errors right? I use the live server extension in VScode to serve up the front end. It looks like it runs on port 5500 by default. I then use node to serve up the back end on port 5000. I click a button on my front end to call the fetch method to request data from the back end port but I get Uncaught (in promise) TypeError: NetworkError when attempting to fetch resource People from SO are saying it is because of cross origin problem, but my understanding is that that only becomes a problem when you are trying to request from a different origin / IP addresses correct? Assistant: Port does factor in. Check the headers coming from the backend. There is probably a config to enable the cord bits. Edit after seeing other replays. The backend code needs to send the cors headers. What backend are you using?
Human: If I am serving up a front end and a back end on my same local host IP address then I shouldn't have any cross origin errors right? I use the live server extension in VScode to serve up the front end. It looks like it runs on port 5500 by default. I then use node to serve up the back end on port 5000. I click a button on my front end to call the fetch method to request data from the back end port but I get Uncaught (in promise) TypeError: NetworkError when attempting to fetch resource People from SO are saying it is because of cross origin problem, but my understanding is that that only becomes a problem when you are trying to request from a different origin / IP addresses correct? Assistant: Have you tried allowing all just to check if it will work? From your server do \`Access-Control-Allow-Origin: \*\` or something. If that works then it's indeed a cors issue. If it still doesn't work it might be something else
Human: How can I stop my side project from just feeling like more work? I had the idea for a project at the start of summer and have been working on it on and off for the last few months. A friend of mine was keen to join and help with the design aspect, and I've handled the coding and business logic for the application. This project is something I still really want to finish off, because I think it would be a great piece to show off in a portfolio, and potentially even genuinely useful to some people but I'm really struggling to find the motivation to keep it going because I'm not really deriving as much joy from it now as I was when I was first starting it off, and it just feels like another piece of work that I *have* to complete now. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could start to enjoy the process again? Assistant: People actually finish their side projects.... Shit I got 35 repos one or two of them might be production ready. I usually only do side projects to learn new stuff, when I feel confident I get bored with the project. And let it be... My advice would be don't over think it, get it done and go next
Human: How can I stop my side project from just feeling like more work? I had the idea for a project at the start of summer and have been working on it on and off for the last few months. A friend of mine was keen to join and help with the design aspect, and I've handled the coding and business logic for the application. This project is something I still really want to finish off, because I think it would be a great piece to show off in a portfolio, and potentially even genuinely useful to some people but I'm really struggling to find the motivation to keep it going because I'm not really deriving as much joy from it now as I was when I was first starting it off, and it just feels like another piece of work that I *have* to complete now. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could start to enjoy the process again? Assistant: Make a list of all the work still left to do and once the steps have been realised you might feel motivated to tackle just one problem a day. Don’t burn yourself out but also realise that motivation can come from a shift in project management
Human: Is it possible to get a job with only HTML and CSS? I know it’s unrealistic to get a job with only these two skills but I’m actually desperate to get a job out of this. I wasted my life in studying accounting and I literally gave up and then wasted more time in gaming. Right now I’m working hard studying to become a front end developer but I struggle with JavaScript. Assistant: JavaScript is the bread and butter of web development - you're definitely going to need it.
Human: Is it possible to get a job with only HTML and CSS? I know it’s unrealistic to get a job with only these two skills but I’m actually desperate to get a job out of this. I wasted my life in studying accounting and I literally gave up and then wasted more time in gaming. Right now I’m working hard studying to become a front end developer but I struggle with JavaScript. Assistant: Have you looked at becoming a web accessibility specialist? There is still lots to learn, and you will need some javascript knowledge but maybe it is better suited for you. We've hired specialists before to come in a make our pages and platform conform to WCAG guidelines. I am not entirely sure of everything needed but the work done for us was mostly HTML/CSS changes.
Human: Is it problematic that I can build apps in react (with ease) but when it comes to making a website in vanilla JS I don't even know where to start. Do you think it's worth going back and learning all that stuff? Are vanilla JavaScript concepts baked into react? Is it possible I already know them? Just looking for some guidance as I move into the industry as a professional. Thanks. (Btw I am talking about dynamic websites that use apis or connect to a back end. I know how to do simple HTML and CSS manipulation with JavaScript.) Assistant: I'm amazed by the reactions here downplaying the importance of plain JavaScript... You're using React, React is in JavaScript, how can you do anything serious with React unless you know JS?! So yeah - by all means it's worth it!
Human: Is it problematic that I can build apps in react (with ease) but when it comes to making a website in vanilla JS I don't even know where to start. Do you think it's worth going back and learning all that stuff? Are vanilla JavaScript concepts baked into react? Is it possible I already know them? Just looking for some guidance as I move into the industry as a professional. Thanks. (Btw I am talking about dynamic websites that use apis or connect to a back end. I know how to do simple HTML and CSS manipulation with JavaScript.) Assistant: Yes. Make efforts to learn the vanilla APIs.
Human: Why do people keep suggesting that Mac is better than Windows 10 for webdev? During my college I've had a 2015 version. Recently I've used a Macbook Pro M1 for almost a year. I've sold it because I wanted to buy a gaming Windows PC for both gaming and development. And honestly, I've had around same smooth experience (of course there were some exceptions but they didn't break the general rule) on both PC as Mac. However, on Windows, that would never had happened if it wasn't for WSL2. Nowadays people still suggesting Mac over Windows because of bash and other minor reasons like programming for iOS/Mac devices with Swift/Objective C even when we are talking about web development. Is it because they never experienced WSL before? **Update**: I notice most devices they use for comparison are scoped into laptops. In that case I do kind of understand Macbook Pro is better than a Windows laptop. Sometimes I've had hardware problems with Windows laptops but almost zero with Windows desktops. Assistant: Unpopular opinion here, but it feels like on a lot of the internet it is just cool to hate on Windows.
Human: Why do people keep suggesting that Mac is better than Windows 10 for webdev? During my college I've had a 2015 version. Recently I've used a Macbook Pro M1 for almost a year. I've sold it because I wanted to buy a gaming Windows PC for both gaming and development. And honestly, I've had around same smooth experience (of course there were some exceptions but they didn't break the general rule) on both PC as Mac. However, on Windows, that would never had happened if it wasn't for WSL2. Nowadays people still suggesting Mac over Windows because of bash and other minor reasons like programming for iOS/Mac devices with Swift/Objective C even when we are talking about web development. Is it because they never experienced WSL before? **Update**: I notice most devices they use for comparison are scoped into laptops. In that case I do kind of understand Macbook Pro is better than a Windows laptop. Sometimes I've had hardware problems with Windows laptops but almost zero with Windows desktops. Assistant: Linux is better than both. Get a nice laptop with good specs, and slap Pop!_OS onto it, and you're in good hands.
Human: I’m a new senior dev who’s been asked to start doing daily stand-ups. What can I do to make them less miserable for everyone? Assistant: Have everyone agree that you will tell upper management that you're having daily stand-ups and then don't
Human: I’m a new senior dev who’s been asked to start doing daily stand-ups. What can I do to make them less miserable for everyone? Assistant: Walk stories and not people to cut down on the repeated content when people have worked together on something or attended the same meeting. Talk about impediments to the story but table their resolution until after stand up. If anything else tries to creep in, note it and resolve it after stand up with the people who are relevant.
Human: How do you prototype without getting stuck on the UI? I have an idea of a web app. Previously I’d use a Sketch or Figma to try to prototype the experience before I start writing code. My issue is that I always get stuck in UX/UI land. A few hours later I find myself on YT watching Figma tutorials instead of actually building my app. Any recommendations for prototyping solutions that just get to the point? Assistant: I read the book "Refactoring UI" not too long ago, and it had a bunch of great points. One has been said here already: pen and paper. But another is too do everything in gray scale. Get everything functional in black and white, turn use the grayscale to work on the layout, and then bring in your color.
Human: How do you prototype without getting stuck on the UI? I have an idea of a web app. Previously I’d use a Sketch or Figma to try to prototype the experience before I start writing code. My issue is that I always get stuck in UX/UI land. A few hours later I find myself on YT watching Figma tutorials instead of actually building my app. Any recommendations for prototyping solutions that just get to the point? Assistant: I've found myself just throwing together divs without worrying about UI at first when prototyping (for me, it's less productive and harder to use a pen & paper, as others suggested, for this.) If there's a backend, I'd start with that. API/inner workings come first, UI second.
Human: Need guidance with setting up a contact form on a static website. I have a static HTML file which is a landing page for a product, inside that there is a form which if the user fills the form it has to collect data and email that data to an email address, what is the best way to accomplish this with minimal effort ? Should I set up back end and all other stuff ? I'm familiar with node JS btw and also have a decent knowledge on ASP.NET Assistant: Maybe use something like https://formsubmit.co/ and avoid a back end.
Human: Need guidance with setting up a contact form on a static website. I have a static HTML file which is a landing page for a product, inside that there is a form which if the user fills the form it has to collect data and email that data to an email address, what is the best way to accomplish this with minimal effort ? Should I set up back end and all other stuff ? I'm familiar with node JS btw and also have a decent knowledge on ASP.NET Assistant: I prefer using (FormSubmit) and implementing it using only HTML
Human: Non-paying client cloned their new site from my test server using HTTrack and ghosted me It's the first time I had to deal with a problematic client like this. I agreed on doing their website for $5000. They turned out to be a troublesome client from day one. I asked for a 50% advance and somehow they talked me into paying only $500 for now so I can get started and that they'll pay the remaining next week. I assumed I can trust them (big mistake) because I met them personally at their office. Work started progressing and they kept stalling. They kept asking for numerous changes and increased the scope of work, which I did. I ended up finishing all the work and set up their PPC campaigns also within the next 4 weeks and there has been no sign of payment from them. Every time I followed up with them, they asked me to add some new shit on their site and this went on for another month. Finally I decided to put my foot down and said there won't be any more extra work until what is owed is cleared. They told me they won't pay me a penny since I'm not willing to finish their site to their complete satisfaction. Their site was hosted on my test server and I refused to hand it over until it's paid. Today I saw that they conveniently cloned the site using HTTrack and hired someone else to take over. I don't want to pursue legal channels for recovery and waste time and resources so I'm letting this go, but how do I prevent this sort of thing from happening again? Assistant: Just echoing what a lot of people on here are saying. But why the hell wouldn’t you want to persue them man have some self respect for yourself and get what you’re owed. I wouldn’t tolerate this not even from a friend or family member
Human: Non-paying client cloned their new site from my test server using HTTrack and ghosted me It's the first time I had to deal with a problematic client like this. I agreed on doing their website for $5000. They turned out to be a troublesome client from day one. I asked for a 50% advance and somehow they talked me into paying only $500 for now so I can get started and that they'll pay the remaining next week. I assumed I can trust them (big mistake) because I met them personally at their office. Work started progressing and they kept stalling. They kept asking for numerous changes and increased the scope of work, which I did. I ended up finishing all the work and set up their PPC campaigns also within the next 4 weeks and there has been no sign of payment from them. Every time I followed up with them, they asked me to add some new shit on their site and this went on for another month. Finally I decided to put my foot down and said there won't be any more extra work until what is owed is cleared. They told me they won't pay me a penny since I'm not willing to finish their site to their complete satisfaction. Their site was hosted on my test server and I refused to hand it over until it's paid. Today I saw that they conveniently cloned the site using HTTrack and hired someone else to take over. I don't want to pursue legal channels for recovery and waste time and resources so I'm letting this go, but how do I prevent this sort of thing from happening again? Assistant: Until they pay for it, I would use design mock (like invision) and screenshots instead of full-blown HTML/CSS/JS.
Human: I feel like, as a beginner, I should just pretend that JS frameworks, CSS Frameworks, CSS pre-processors, and even back-end frameworks don't exist. They're solving problems that I don't have and (for me) muddy up the "vanilla" learning of JS, HTML, CSS, and Node I'm wondering if this makes sense. Because when I look at beginner tutorials they almost all use these frameworks. I've been spending most of my time learning JS, but I I just learned that Node.js has its own routing ability, and that CSS has variables. If I just started using 99% of Node.js tutorials I would be skipping straight to using express.js. And after a lot of reading and watching I still have no idea why the hell I would need a framework. But then again state management isn't a big deal for me right now, which seems to be the main use case? My gut tells me to just ignore these things until I need them. But any intro Udemy course, or even the famous free bootcamps, all seem to include these frameworks as if they are core topics in web development. Is it just the instructors/courses bending their course to student expectations, or have I missed the reason these are taught as beginner topics? Assistant: Such bad advice here. Learn the frameworks and get a job. The little details of the language(s) will come over time with exposure. The frameworks still force you to learn JS fundamentals. Don’t learn the language - learn to build things.
Human: I feel like, as a beginner, I should just pretend that JS frameworks, CSS Frameworks, CSS pre-processors, and even back-end frameworks don't exist. They're solving problems that I don't have and (for me) muddy up the "vanilla" learning of JS, HTML, CSS, and Node I'm wondering if this makes sense. Because when I look at beginner tutorials they almost all use these frameworks. I've been spending most of my time learning JS, but I I just learned that Node.js has its own routing ability, and that CSS has variables. If I just started using 99% of Node.js tutorials I would be skipping straight to using express.js. And after a lot of reading and watching I still have no idea why the hell I would need a framework. But then again state management isn't a big deal for me right now, which seems to be the main use case? My gut tells me to just ignore these things until I need them. But any intro Udemy course, or even the famous free bootcamps, all seem to include these frameworks as if they are core topics in web development. Is it just the instructors/courses bending their course to student expectations, or have I missed the reason these are taught as beginner topics? Assistant: Software architecture is one of the most difficult parts of development, and frameworks will remove a lot of those problems from you. I think it is a huge mistake not to couple frameworks and learning code.
Human: How was your first year on WebDev? (professionally) Assistant: Had some react experience from learning on my own. Helped a team of like ~15 devs re-write a large-scale application (millions of users) from scratch. Was the only dev with any react experience at the time of joining the team. basically became a senior dev from the get-go. I was given immense opportunity to grow and use my skills. Can't thank the company enough for that. Since then in the first year and a bit I've 150% my initial salary. Bet on yourself.
Human: How was your first year on WebDev? (professionally) Assistant: Year 1: Started with a small group, providing small scale WebDev/Design/Hosting service. Things were going well, but I didn't enjoy the process of copy-pasting our work dozen of times. Year 2: Took a break from developing. Tried learning more about UI designing (basically less code and more design). Year 3(now): Trying out as a full-time front-end developer. What I've learned from the UI designing course helped me a lot and I feel a lot more confident now. Learning more everyday.
Human: PHP - Is there a better way to filter out data rather than using lots of if and or statements ? $pref1 = "Food"; $pref2 = "History"; $pref3 = "AfterDark"; function assignCategory(& $preference1, & $preference2, & $preference3){ if($preference1 = "Food" || $preference2 = "Food" || $preference3 = "Food"){ echo "Food"; } if ($preference1 = "History" || $preference2 = "History" || $preference3 = "History"){ echo "History"; } if ($preference1 = "Leisure" || $preference2 = "Leisure" || $preference3 = "Leisure"){ echo "Leisure"; } if ($preference1 = "Entertainment" || $preference2 = "Entertainment" || $preference3 = "Entertainment"){ echo "Entertainment"; } if ($preference1 = "Sport" || $preference2 = "Sport" || $preference3 = "Sport"){ echo "Sport"; } if ($preference1 = "PopularPlaces" || $preference2 = "PopularPlaces" || $preference3 = "PopularPlaces"){ echo "PopularPlaces"; } if ($preference1 = "AfterDark" || $preference2 = "AfterDark" || $preference3 = "AfterDark"){ echo "AfterDark"; } if ($preference1 = "Arts_Culture" || $preference2 = "Arts_Culture" || $preference3 = "Arts_Culture"){ echo "Arts_Culture"; } if ($preference1 = "Transport" || $preference2 = "Transport" || $preference3 = "Transport"){ echo "Transport"; } if ($preference1 = "Facility" || $preference2 = "Facility" || $preference3 = "Facility"){ echo "Facility"; } } I have 3 preferences and I want my function to echo out whichever preference is passed in - these preferences can be in any order as they will come in URL format api.com/?pref1=pref2=pref3= Assistant: You shouldn't use `echo` in functions. You should use `return`.
Human: PHP - Is there a better way to filter out data rather than using lots of if and or statements ? $pref1 = "Food"; $pref2 = "History"; $pref3 = "AfterDark"; function assignCategory(& $preference1, & $preference2, & $preference3){ if($preference1 = "Food" || $preference2 = "Food" || $preference3 = "Food"){ echo "Food"; } if ($preference1 = "History" || $preference2 = "History" || $preference3 = "History"){ echo "History"; } if ($preference1 = "Leisure" || $preference2 = "Leisure" || $preference3 = "Leisure"){ echo "Leisure"; } if ($preference1 = "Entertainment" || $preference2 = "Entertainment" || $preference3 = "Entertainment"){ echo "Entertainment"; } if ($preference1 = "Sport" || $preference2 = "Sport" || $preference3 = "Sport"){ echo "Sport"; } if ($preference1 = "PopularPlaces" || $preference2 = "PopularPlaces" || $preference3 = "PopularPlaces"){ echo "PopularPlaces"; } if ($preference1 = "AfterDark" || $preference2 = "AfterDark" || $preference3 = "AfterDark"){ echo "AfterDark"; } if ($preference1 = "Arts_Culture" || $preference2 = "Arts_Culture" || $preference3 = "Arts_Culture"){ echo "Arts_Culture"; } if ($preference1 = "Transport" || $preference2 = "Transport" || $preference3 = "Transport"){ echo "Transport"; } if ($preference1 = "Facility" || $preference2 = "Facility" || $preference3 = "Facility"){ echo "Facility"; } } I have 3 preferences and I want my function to echo out whichever preference is passed in - these preferences can be in any order as they will come in URL format api.com/?pref1=pref2=pref3= Assistant: First check that pref1, pref2, and pref3 are identical. If they are, just look at pref1
Human: I have a very good idea for a website and absolutely no experience with web development. What do I do? Essentially the website is a forum where chat rooms are generated as each fills and every four hours the subject of the website changes. It would have to support many, many people and have live feedback in order to work properly. Additionally, an app that works exactly the same way would be required, but the website is the real focus. It seems that most website makers/builders are made for commerce and not live discussion and would be completely inadequate for my purpose. I’m looking for advice on where to start as far as supporting many people and live updates in websites go. Thanks Assistant: You can start by hiring a developer..
Human: I have a very good idea for a website and absolutely no experience with web development. What do I do? Essentially the website is a forum where chat rooms are generated as each fills and every four hours the subject of the website changes. It would have to support many, many people and have live feedback in order to work properly. Additionally, an app that works exactly the same way would be required, but the website is the real focus. It seems that most website makers/builders are made for commerce and not live discussion and would be completely inadequate for my purpose. I’m looking for advice on where to start as far as supporting many people and live updates in websites go. Thanks Assistant: You can try a chat / messaging service such as Sendbird to do most of the chat functionality.
Human: Could I use code from Codepen in projects I get from my workplace? Hi! I just recently started an internship and the main focus is web design but I'd also like to think about development. I saw some neat code I would want to implement into the design I'm working on but I'm not sure if I can just take it and paste it, you know? Like is that allowed? Is the code free-to-use for anyone without any commercial restrictions? Would I get the company I work for in trouble by doing this? I read the license text that was below the pen I wanted to use and from my point of view I think it's free to use but I want to make sure and get verification from someone who has used Codepen code before. Here's the pen I'm interested in: https://codepen.io/vajkri/details/grgQmb Assistant: It's totally fine, but I would recommend leaving a comment in your code that links to the original source code. This has two purposes: first, you credit the original author (even if it is just internally), and, secondly, it helps future developers to understand code that might not be clear. I often do this when I use snippets from Stack Overflow answers in order to provide context to other people on my team who may encounter the code in the future.
Human: Could I use code from Codepen in projects I get from my workplace? Hi! I just recently started an internship and the main focus is web design but I'd also like to think about development. I saw some neat code I would want to implement into the design I'm working on but I'm not sure if I can just take it and paste it, you know? Like is that allowed? Is the code free-to-use for anyone without any commercial restrictions? Would I get the company I work for in trouble by doing this? I read the license text that was below the pen I wanted to use and from my point of view I think it's free to use but I want to make sure and get verification from someone who has used Codepen code before. Here's the pen I'm interested in: https://codepen.io/vajkri/details/grgQmb Assistant: I was wondering the same thing yesterday ;)
Human: If I had my own custom website that I built and wanted to add in ecommerce, what would my options be? The site is built with React on the frontend and NodeJS on the backend with DynamoDB for the server. I know a lot of people say you shouldn't make custom ecommerce and just use a platform but would it really hurt to just add in stripe or paypal on the site for transactions? The website already has a custom admin backend for adding and editing products. What would my practical options be if I wanted to add in ecommerce? Do I have to migrate the site to a platform like Shopify or could I just add something in more easily? Assistant: Square has some nice functionality. You can setup online items with links that go back to square’s site to pay. We use it to collect fees for our curling club. You might be able to make a page with the items for sale with the square link to purchase the items.
Human: If I had my own custom website that I built and wanted to add in ecommerce, what would my options be? The site is built with React on the frontend and NodeJS on the backend with DynamoDB for the server. I know a lot of people say you shouldn't make custom ecommerce and just use a platform but would it really hurt to just add in stripe or paypal on the site for transactions? The website already has a custom admin backend for adding and editing products. What would my practical options be if I wanted to add in ecommerce? Do I have to migrate the site to a platform like Shopify or could I just add something in more easily? Assistant: I’m also interested. I don’t understand why there are so many hoops to jump through just to have a simple shop on your site. As a designer I could really benefit from selling content on my portfolio site, but I can’t do that without something like gumroad or Shopify?
Human: Why does a google search for a negative number yield zero results? I asked this on r/google but post has not shown up, and I've come to learn that developers seem to be quite knowledgeable about such things, so thought I'd try my hand here. If I search for example -**2147483647** or -1 or -453 ect... There are no results at all. I'm curious why that is. I can put that - in front of a word and I get results, so I'm thinking that rules out ommitting pages that contain that term. Assistant: Try an image search for something. You will probably see some pics from Pinterest. Then try the same search with -pinterest added. Now, all Pinterest results are removed from your search. This is the power of the dash/minus sign.
Human: Why does a google search for a negative number yield zero results? I asked this on r/google but post has not shown up, and I've come to learn that developers seem to be quite knowledgeable about such things, so thought I'd try my hand here. If I search for example -**2147483647** or -1 or -453 ect... There are no results at all. I'm curious why that is. I can put that - in front of a word and I get results, so I'm thinking that rules out ommitting pages that contain that term. Assistant: Interestingly this changes by putting it in quotes…
Human: Guys how do you manage the fear of putting your first website online? I am going to launch my first website(made with django) in a couple of days. and i am soooo scared. I don't know how to manage it. what if I make some mistakes why deploying it, what if it doesn't scale well. I am not great at DO and I don't completely understand it, so that makes me scared, there are so many option, should I get a separate PostgreSQL database, should I not, does it already come included. So, many questions, I am really scared, how did you guys manage this when you started? Assistant: thinking nobody will visit it
Human: Guys how do you manage the fear of putting your first website online? I am going to launch my first website(made with django) in a couple of days. and i am soooo scared. I don't know how to manage it. what if I make some mistakes why deploying it, what if it doesn't scale well. I am not great at DO and I don't completely understand it, so that makes me scared, there are so many option, should I get a separate PostgreSQL database, should I not, does it already come included. So, many questions, I am really scared, how did you guys manage this when you started? Assistant: First time I put up a website I was like 12? I was more of excited and happy lol I used one of those free .tk domains. You’ll be fine my dude don’t sweat it
Human: how does the Routing thing works in the SPA's ? If SPA's manage pages (links, routing) via the history API, does that means they always return single page from server on request ? If not then how a SPA returns \`/about\` page when directly loaded from the browser, without clicking any link in the SPA ? Assistant: > does that mean they always return a single other from server What did you think SPA stands for 😉 Edit: But to answer the question: yes. SPA servers always return the index.html file in place of every 404 response. Then the routing logic in your application decides what should actually be displayed based upon the initial window.location.
Human: how does the Routing thing works in the SPA's ? If SPA's manage pages (links, routing) via the history API, does that means they always return single page from server on request ? If not then how a SPA returns \`/about\` page when directly loaded from the browser, without clicking any link in the SPA ? Assistant: >If not then how a SPA returns \`/about\` page when directly loaded from the browser, without clicking any link in the SPA ? There's such a thing called the server. It can return anything you want. You should try it some time ;-)
Human: Should I ask for a raise right after getting one? Back story I came on as a JR developer and had a senior developer. It was just us two and I was mostly doing html and css and some JS and content management. After 1 year he left and now I do everything website related. I had had to learn how to use php MySQL way more JavaScript and mange a magento site. I just got a raise 2 weeks ago after 2 years for 10%. I asked can they do 60k they said no because of where I currently am at skill wise and they have nobody who can gauge my skills since we have no senior dev. (Which is BS because how is everything still running and getting handled and no complaints) Now I have drawn up a very polite email showing the contrast of my workload when we had a senior to now me taking on full responsibility. Also our company houses 3 other small company’s who they keep separate but since I am the only dev I had to update out job posting and seen they listed a position for my old title for one of the separate company’s and the starting salary is more then what I currently am making. Assistant: >Also our company houses 3 other small company’s who they keep separate but since I am the only dev I had to update out job posting and seen they listed a position for my old title for one of the separate company’s and the starting salary is more then what I currently am making. Apply for the job. :)
Human: Should I ask for a raise right after getting one? Back story I came on as a JR developer and had a senior developer. It was just us two and I was mostly doing html and css and some JS and content management. After 1 year he left and now I do everything website related. I had had to learn how to use php MySQL way more JavaScript and mange a magento site. I just got a raise 2 weeks ago after 2 years for 10%. I asked can they do 60k they said no because of where I currently am at skill wise and they have nobody who can gauge my skills since we have no senior dev. (Which is BS because how is everything still running and getting handled and no complaints) Now I have drawn up a very polite email showing the contrast of my workload when we had a senior to now me taking on full responsibility. Also our company houses 3 other small company’s who they keep separate but since I am the only dev I had to update out job posting and seen they listed a position for my old title for one of the separate company’s and the starting salary is more then what I currently am making. Assistant: I personally was in a very similar position to yourself a few years ago, what I would suggest is getting a at least a years experience in your current position before you consider moving on or playing hardball for a raise. The experience in and of itself is very worthwhile for future job prospects.
Human: Why do so many pages not use Semantic HTML tags? So I know about Semantic HTML; I have read articles about why using semantic tags like section, article, nav, etc., is good. On paper, everything is clear: better accessibility, better SEO. But then, I wanted to look at the real-life example of implementing a website in such a way. So I looked at Facebook, Netflix, and Google and was surprised that they do not use such tags. Instead; it is just a bunch of nested divs, that every article suggests avoiding. Things are a little better on Twitter, but some tags (like, for example, section) are still missing. Sometimes we do not care so much about accessibility, and while using React or Vue or anything else, we can have readable code without semantic tags. But those pages are too big to don't care about accessibility. People who are using screen readers probably visit Facebook daily. So why do they not use semantic HTML tags? Are there any other ways to implement accessibility on your web page? If so, are semantic HTML tags essential? Assistant: Semantic tags are essential for accessibility, but it goes deeper than that - how the tags are structured also makes a big difference Try navigating anything you build using the tools that a blind person uses, or try navigating without a mouse. On most sites out there, you'll struggle
Human: Why do so many pages not use Semantic HTML tags? So I know about Semantic HTML; I have read articles about why using semantic tags like section, article, nav, etc., is good. On paper, everything is clear: better accessibility, better SEO. But then, I wanted to look at the real-life example of implementing a website in such a way. So I looked at Facebook, Netflix, and Google and was surprised that they do not use such tags. Instead; it is just a bunch of nested divs, that every article suggests avoiding. Things are a little better on Twitter, but some tags (like, for example, section) are still missing. Sometimes we do not care so much about accessibility, and while using React or Vue or anything else, we can have readable code without semantic tags. But those pages are too big to don't care about accessibility. People who are using screen readers probably visit Facebook daily. So why do they not use semantic HTML tags? Are there any other ways to implement accessibility on your web page? If so, are semantic HTML tags essential? Assistant: There is nothing wrong with nested divs, even for SEO. Let's see you have a news website. So you wrap each article with the <article> tag. Anything inside will probably be nested divs or a bunch of p tags. What else is there to do?
Human: Just wondering...anyone else here use HTML, CSS, and Vanilla JS exclusively? Webdev is not my day job. Just do my own personal projects. Haven't bothered to delve into any of the frameworks, etc. Is it just me? Am I holding myself way back? Assistant: Yes for the same reason you don't need a bus to carry a few passengers.
Human: Just wondering...anyone else here use HTML, CSS, and Vanilla JS exclusively? Webdev is not my day job. Just do my own personal projects. Haven't bothered to delve into any of the frameworks, etc. Is it just me? Am I holding myself way back? Assistant: PHP/pgSQL/JS/CSS/HTML almost exclusively, no reasonable limitations and all quite simple.
Human: Why do most websites use SO many containers and wrappers? Whenever I browse the source code of a website for inspiration, I always find myself confused by SO many containers and wrappers. adidas.com is a good example. The banner a long tree of containers and wrappers. The class names are also weird like component-wrapper\_\_\_bg2342. Is there a reason for this? Assistant: That HTML is generated by frameworks, not written by hand.
Human: Why do most websites use SO many containers and wrappers? Whenever I browse the source code of a website for inspiration, I always find myself confused by SO many containers and wrappers. adidas.com is a good example. The banner a long tree of containers and wrappers. The class names are also weird like component-wrapper\_\_\_bg2342. Is there a reason for this? Assistant: The difference between developing an SPA and the resulting HTML code you see in your browser is quite large. When developing different components, e.g. in React, you will only be writing a small amount of markup for each component, but when you put them all together you end up with quite a complex tree. Also I inspected adidas a bit and it doesn't look too messy - every container I looked at has a specific purpose, e.g. to add padding or margin.
Human: Does The Odin Project have an equal? As far as resources for learning web development go, I haven't found a match to TOD. I have tried out FCC, solo learn, codecademy, grasshopper and maybe a few more that I can't remember right now. Is there another place that offers the same quality that TOD offers or even better? Does such a place even exist? Assistant: Scrimba.com and Helsinki University Full Stack Open Scrimba for beginner to intermediate. Full Stack intermediate and up.
Human: Does The Odin Project have an equal? As far as resources for learning web development go, I haven't found a match to TOD. I have tried out FCC, solo learn, codecademy, grasshopper and maybe a few more that I can't remember right now. Is there another place that offers the same quality that TOD offers or even better? Does such a place even exist? Assistant: I found codewithmosh to be a very helpful bunch of courses to take to solidify my JavaScript and reinforce a bunch of topics that were somewhat glanced over in TOP. He has a great way of explaining things and it really made some things click in a way TOP didn’t for me personally. TOP is still fantastic though
Human: If there's one thing to get good at,would should it be? First, forgive me admins. I've already posted this in the monthly career thread but I think posting here as well gives me a wider reach. So I just came from a job interview. I didn't get the position because I only have a base level skill set of html css and Javascript. Although the guy didn't give me a job, he did recommend that I come back in 6 months in case things change at his company. He also recommended that I become really "strong" in just 1 thing. I'm considering that thing being CSS since he did say his company's website needs a revamp. The next 6 months are going to be my seclusion period to devote fully to coding. What do you guys recommend? Assistant: Echoing what the other people said about js/html/css being intertwined. If you want to specialize in front end though, I'd suggest learning basic design skills. Those skillsets complement each other really well, and basic design isn't that hard to learn.
Human: If there's one thing to get good at,would should it be? First, forgive me admins. I've already posted this in the monthly career thread but I think posting here as well gives me a wider reach. So I just came from a job interview. I didn't get the position because I only have a base level skill set of html css and Javascript. Although the guy didn't give me a job, he did recommend that I come back in 6 months in case things change at his company. He also recommended that I become really "strong" in just 1 thing. I'm considering that thing being CSS since he did say his company's website needs a revamp. The next 6 months are going to be my seclusion period to devote fully to coding. What do you guys recommend? Assistant: Btw. what kind of tasks u failed? Just curious, cause Im learning to become a junior one day.
Human: What are the best monitors for programming? Hi everyone, What are your favorite monitors for programming and what aspects do you consider for choosing one? Assistant: I use 1 34 in curved for the primary and two 27 in monitors turned sideways on either side. I use the middle one primarily for web browsing and stuff like that, the one on the left for VS Code and the Git client I use, and the one on the right for teams, outlook, youtube/Netflix/etc. Both left and right never change, the middle is a free for all on what I put there.
Human: What are the best monitors for programming? Hi everyone, What are your favorite monitors for programming and what aspects do you consider for choosing one? Assistant: Don't have it but would be an interesting experience to use this one: LG DualUp Ergo 16:18 (Short Circuit Video)
Human: How to move from webflow to real coding I’ve been using webflow for about 2 years now and it’s great. I really learned it inside out (only webflow, no actual coding at all) and I fell in love with creating websites that are creative, very animated and unique. The problem is that because I’m constantly trying new things and trying to make better designs I quickly reached the limitations of webflow. It just doesn’t give me time the control to do whatever I want, specially now that I’m getting into locomotive scrolling (and other effects that require custom code) which basically turns webflow scrolling animations useless. So yeah it’s frustrating not knowing how to code because I know I’d have full control. I just have two questions. 1) How much more time consuming is coding everything by hand compared to using webflow? 2) How can I get started to make the transition into learning how to make websites by hand? As I understand, the way webflow works is pretty much how coding works, so I’m pretty sure I understand the fundamentals of HTML and CSS, so I know I just gotta study those two and practise, my main concern is making complex animations, is that just JavaScript that I have to learn for that? And how difficult is it? Assistant: Webflow allows you to extract their code into html and css. Do this to one of your projects, and modify the template/project using HTML, CSS, and JavaScript. And then deploy it for free on Netlify. You will learn a lot.
Human: How to move from webflow to real coding I’ve been using webflow for about 2 years now and it’s great. I really learned it inside out (only webflow, no actual coding at all) and I fell in love with creating websites that are creative, very animated and unique. The problem is that because I’m constantly trying new things and trying to make better designs I quickly reached the limitations of webflow. It just doesn’t give me time the control to do whatever I want, specially now that I’m getting into locomotive scrolling (and other effects that require custom code) which basically turns webflow scrolling animations useless. So yeah it’s frustrating not knowing how to code because I know I’d have full control. I just have two questions. 1) How much more time consuming is coding everything by hand compared to using webflow? 2) How can I get started to make the transition into learning how to make websites by hand? As I understand, the way webflow works is pretty much how coding works, so I’m pretty sure I understand the fundamentals of HTML and CSS, so I know I just gotta study those two and practise, my main concern is making complex animations, is that just JavaScript that I have to learn for that? And how difficult is it? Assistant: between no-code(webflow) and "real coding" there are more options, as a rule of thumb the harder it gets to learn the more flexibility you get: no-code webflow, bubble.io etc low-code- it gets a bit harder but definitely you can do way more: wappler.io, bildr.com If you are sure none of the other options fits your needs go to learning "real coding" Fullstack Javascript would be a good way to start. I would do this only if I want to build web applications not just websites.
Human: Free and privacy-compliant Analytics Hi guys, I am currently thinking about an analytics tool for a personal website, and trying to make a choice. Below are the prerequisites I would like the solution to comply with : **I think this is quite common needs for little simple personal websites, and that could interest a lot of people.** But it doesn't seem to exist many solutions for this, thus I'm curious to see if you have some name/ideas to share that could correspond to this needs, and **I'll also share my findings at the end of the post.** My needs : * I want it to be free for low traffic, or at least very cheap or self hostable in a cheap way. (I don't want to throw 10 bucks a month just to count the few dudes who visit my website occasionally) * It can be very simple : I just want to check if there's some unusual traffic on my website, or maybe to check the main sources of the traffic. I don't need no fancy metrics in a trader-like heavy dashboard. * I want it to be privacy-compliant, I mean GDPR-compliant or whatever the standard is in your country. (Because 1. I think this is important; 2. I don't want to feed the google beast; 3. I don't want to show no damn cookie banner) I have found quite a few interesting solutions like Fathom or Netlify Analytics but that charges like 10 bucks a month. My best findings as of today : * https://plausible.io/ which seems to be well-established, and charges only 4$/mo for less than 10k pageview per month, with annual billing. * https://matomo.org/ that can be self-hosted, but it needs a MySql database, and those things usually ain't cheap * https://privera.io/ which is actually 100% free under 10k events. It works as an anonymizing proxy between you and GA, which is not perfect as it's still Google, but it seems like a fair tradeoff. It seems like a very little project though, do anyone of you have heard about it ? * There is still the possibility of working out something myself using some free tier cloud resources like a cloud function or something to count the pageviews. What do you think ? Thanks Assistant: I am sure you have already found an analytics tool to use for your projects, but if you happen to still be looking. I created an analytics tool for myself and decided to share it people. You can check it out at https://anlytics.co There will always be a free tier for use
Human: Free and privacy-compliant Analytics Hi guys, I am currently thinking about an analytics tool for a personal website, and trying to make a choice. Below are the prerequisites I would like the solution to comply with : **I think this is quite common needs for little simple personal websites, and that could interest a lot of people.** But it doesn't seem to exist many solutions for this, thus I'm curious to see if you have some name/ideas to share that could correspond to this needs, and **I'll also share my findings at the end of the post.** My needs : * I want it to be free for low traffic, or at least very cheap or self hostable in a cheap way. (I don't want to throw 10 bucks a month just to count the few dudes who visit my website occasionally) * It can be very simple : I just want to check if there's some unusual traffic on my website, or maybe to check the main sources of the traffic. I don't need no fancy metrics in a trader-like heavy dashboard. * I want it to be privacy-compliant, I mean GDPR-compliant or whatever the standard is in your country. (Because 1. I think this is important; 2. I don't want to feed the google beast; 3. I don't want to show no damn cookie banner) I have found quite a few interesting solutions like Fathom or Netlify Analytics but that charges like 10 bucks a month. My best findings as of today : * https://plausible.io/ which seems to be well-established, and charges only 4$/mo for less than 10k pageview per month, with annual billing. * https://matomo.org/ that can be self-hosted, but it needs a MySql database, and those things usually ain't cheap * https://privera.io/ which is actually 100% free under 10k events. It works as an anonymizing proxy between you and GA, which is not perfect as it's still Google, but it seems like a fair tradeoff. It seems like a very little project though, do anyone of you have heard about it ? * There is still the possibility of working out something myself using some free tier cloud resources like a cloud function or something to count the pageviews. What do you think ? Thanks Assistant: I am using https://plyid.com/ free if you dont have too much traffic and they dont use cookies etc very simple stuff
Human: Does your software evolve out of your design, or is it the other way round? Do you first develop design/architecture for your software and then start coding, or do you code and refactor as you go along and the design then evolves for it? Assistant: Weeks of programming can save you hours of planning!
Human: Does your software evolve out of your design, or is it the other way round? Do you first develop design/architecture for your software and then start coding, or do you code and refactor as you go along and the design then evolves for it? Assistant: When I know what I'm doing: Design first. When doing something new: Study and code the uncertainty into a Proof-of-Concept. Then scrap the entire thing and redesign again with the new found knowledge.
Human: When **NOT** to use React/Vue? Can you justify using it to build a static site? As I begin learning React which is also my first framework I feel like I'm seeing React or Vue **everywhere**. Even on static sites, 1-page portfolios. I'm just curious about when I should be leveraging a framework vs when I shouldn't. I feel like maybe people who are learning a framework just want to build everything in that framework thus they get extra experience with it too, which sounds like something I will probably do myself once I learn more basics of React I'm gonna need to be building a lot of stuff with it and not everything I build will be a web app. From my point of view, a framework should only be used to build web apps that handle data or lots of DOM changes and not used to create a static site. For static sites, I think vanilla JS is ideal but I am not confident in my skills yet to really stand on that opinion. If anyone has the experience to kind of set me straight and give me a solid answer of when a framework should be used vs when we shouldn't use one I'd appreciate it. Assistant: > I feel like maybe people who are learning a framework just want to build everything in that framework Ding ding ding When all the bootcamp taught you is how to use a hammer, you see every problem as a nail.
Human: When **NOT** to use React/Vue? Can you justify using it to build a static site? As I begin learning React which is also my first framework I feel like I'm seeing React or Vue **everywhere**. Even on static sites, 1-page portfolios. I'm just curious about when I should be leveraging a framework vs when I shouldn't. I feel like maybe people who are learning a framework just want to build everything in that framework thus they get extra experience with it too, which sounds like something I will probably do myself once I learn more basics of React I'm gonna need to be building a lot of stuff with it and not everything I build will be a web app. From my point of view, a framework should only be used to build web apps that handle data or lots of DOM changes and not used to create a static site. For static sites, I think vanilla JS is ideal but I am not confident in my skills yet to really stand on that opinion. If anyone has the experience to kind of set me straight and give me a solid answer of when a framework should be used vs when we shouldn't use one I'd appreciate it. Assistant: Gatsby tho. The thing is, react isn't just a DOM library it's also a development paradigm that organizes code withh functionality. Besides that, React's ecosystem is sprawling with solutions to almost every use case, so if you're good with React, just use the proper library that adapts it to your use case. So if you want to make status content, Gatsby is great for that.
Human: Is anyone able to please help download the video for my brothers funeral service? Hey, we broadcasted my brothers funeral service and I'd like to save the video. The rewatch is available for 30 days. Is there anyone who would be able to download the video for me and share it via Google docs or similar please? It's 35mins long Thank you! Assistant: use this: https://www.downloadhelper.net/ & download firefox if you don't have that already once youve downloaded the video, rewatch it and make sure its all there, no audio/video issues etc. any issues lmk.
Human: Is anyone able to please help download the video for my brothers funeral service? Hey, we broadcasted my brothers funeral service and I'd like to save the video. The rewatch is available for 30 days. Is there anyone who would be able to download the video for me and share it via Google docs or similar please? It's 35mins long Thank you! Assistant: There are plenty of platforms and sites that can turn embedded video content into a zip/video file. If you’re having a lot of trouble (even though someone above has offered) I can help out. Sorry for your loss also.
Human: How do I host the front end and the backend This is a newbie question, but how would I host my backend with my front end, I have the code written, but every hosting site only allows the front end to be rendered and not a backend, because I only want the html to be rendered when the backend gets a http request. Assistant: If you want to host them together using the same service, the easiest way to do is using docker containers and hosting them on elastic beanstalk. Obviously if you dont want to learn a new technology, I suggest you to just host the frontend and backend separately. Frontend on netlify or vercel (if you are using nextjs), backend on heroku
Human: How do I host the front end and the backend This is a newbie question, but how would I host my backend with my front end, I have the code written, but every hosting site only allows the front end to be rendered and not a backend, because I only want the html to be rendered when the backend gets a http request. Assistant: ok noob here - why would you want the backend to get a request directly? most implementations use the frontend/backend to segregate execution contexts. Front ends (apache) receive requests (display initial landing web page) and pass requests per tech to respective backend tech (php or nodejs) as needed. Their response shows up on web page returned to user (via apache). Are you saying you want the php/nodejs to get direct requests from the internet? imho - thats a big security risk.
Human: You have a great idea with characters and world you are really excited about. The plot seems brilliant but your writing is not and you can’t do it justice. What next? Feels like I have a great idea that could work commercially and is really exciting (to myself at least) But it’s so hard to try and write since I’m still a novice and feels like I can’t do it justice. Do I try write it anyway but am kind of put off that I can’t convey it at the level I want and feels like I’m writing useless rubbish? I feel so intimidated by it. Or it’s one of those where I have to go practice writing something else and come back to one day? Can anyone else relate? Thanks Assistant: Lot of people telling you to write a whole draft anyway. Don't. Just write the scenes you see so vividly it's like a movie in your head, even if they're disconnected, write just the parts that excite you. Write them for your eyes only, and then put it away, and work on something easier... Lower stakes. Come back when you have the skills to make it what you want.
Human: You have a great idea with characters and world you are really excited about. The plot seems brilliant but your writing is not and you can’t do it justice. What next? Feels like I have a great idea that could work commercially and is really exciting (to myself at least) But it’s so hard to try and write since I’m still a novice and feels like I can’t do it justice. Do I try write it anyway but am kind of put off that I can’t convey it at the level I want and feels like I’m writing useless rubbish? I feel so intimidated by it. Or it’s one of those where I have to go practice writing something else and come back to one day? Can anyone else relate? Thanks Assistant: The first draft always sucks. The second draft always sucks. The third draft always sucks. The fourth draft always sucks. The fifth draft always sucks. The sixth draft always sucks, but your editor says its ready, and your advanced readers like it, and you still think it sucks. That's writing.
Human: 40k words into my first novel… and now all I can think about is a new story/novel Hello fellow writers, I’m in a bit of a pickle. I have been working on my first novel for over a year. It’s all that occupied my mind. I have 40k words which is great. But now… I’m kind of at a point in the story that’s “meh”. It’s a fantasy book, and to keep in the mindset I have been reading books similar. But I wanted a break from it, so I started reading urban fantasy books. Wouldn’t you know it, an urbane fantasy story popped into my head and now THATS all I can think about. So my question is, do others write multiple novels that are completely different stories? I definitely plan on finishing the first one, but it’s just not in the forefront of my mind. However the goal has always been to write the first draft as quick as possible to get it out. Should I finish the draft first? Or put it aside and start this new one? Thank you in advance! Assistant: I can't give you an answer but I can sympathize. I fall out of love with stories quickly. Or rather in love with new ones. I think this stems from becoming desensitised to what you have been writing for a while. I like to think that giving them space and moving on is the best thing to do, but truthfully they have never been revisited with the same passion I once had.
Human: 40k words into my first novel… and now all I can think about is a new story/novel Hello fellow writers, I’m in a bit of a pickle. I have been working on my first novel for over a year. It’s all that occupied my mind. I have 40k words which is great. But now… I’m kind of at a point in the story that’s “meh”. It’s a fantasy book, and to keep in the mindset I have been reading books similar. But I wanted a break from it, so I started reading urban fantasy books. Wouldn’t you know it, an urbane fantasy story popped into my head and now THATS all I can think about. So my question is, do others write multiple novels that are completely different stories? I definitely plan on finishing the first one, but it’s just not in the forefront of my mind. However the goal has always been to write the first draft as quick as possible to get it out. Should I finish the draft first? Or put it aside and start this new one? Thank you in advance! Assistant: If you need a break from your story, sure, go ahead. Personally, I like to write on one particular project for a month, more than that and I get bored and dissatisfied. So I either start a new project or continue on another project (fanfic, novel, short story). The next month, I generally go back to that first project. If that how you work, go for it! :) **Edit**: Just don't procastinate if your goal is to finish it as soon as possible.
Human: How do I tell my friend his book isn't great? My friend has just finished his first novel and asked my boyfriend and I to review it. He has been working on it for over a year and I know it's been a huge undertaking for him. The book has been through numerous rounds of edits (by him) and when he gave it to us, he seemed to think this would basically be a signing off process from us before he looks to get it published. The problem is his book isn't good (my partner and I both agree on this even though we have very different preferences, so I'm pretty confident it isn't a matter of taste). We have gone through and left constructive comments in the the text and have also got a bigger list of the broader issues with it, that we have also tried to frame as constructively as possible, so I'm not really worried about giving feedback on specific parts. I am worried about when we see him to talk about it and we have to break the news that overall, the book just isn't great (especially as I definitely don't think he is expecting that). Writers of reddit, it you were going to have this news delivered to you, what would be the best way to do it? We don't want to pussyfoot around the subject as that ultimately isn't helpful, but want to make sure we communicate it in the most sensitive/least discouraging way possible! Assistant: First of all, before any criticism, you ask them *do you want my opinions or do you want my support?*
Human: How do I tell my friend his book isn't great? My friend has just finished his first novel and asked my boyfriend and I to review it. He has been working on it for over a year and I know it's been a huge undertaking for him. The book has been through numerous rounds of edits (by him) and when he gave it to us, he seemed to think this would basically be a signing off process from us before he looks to get it published. The problem is his book isn't good (my partner and I both agree on this even though we have very different preferences, so I'm pretty confident it isn't a matter of taste). We have gone through and left constructive comments in the the text and have also got a bigger list of the broader issues with it, that we have also tried to frame as constructively as possible, so I'm not really worried about giving feedback on specific parts. I am worried about when we see him to talk about it and we have to break the news that overall, the book just isn't great (especially as I definitely don't think he is expecting that). Writers of reddit, it you were going to have this news delivered to you, what would be the best way to do it? We don't want to pussyfoot around the subject as that ultimately isn't helpful, but want to make sure we communicate it in the most sensitive/least discouraging way possible! Assistant: Personally, rather than saying that it's not great, I'd rather a friend said to me "X was my favorite part, but sorry, overall I didn't like it, here's part of why" if you have it in writing, that's better. Your friend may want to go through your comments by himself before asking you more details about it.
Human: How do I gently tell someone their writing is just bad? A friend asked me to give feedback on a short story. It is 10 thousand words and basically unreadable. The characters are unlikable people, but not in an interesting way. The setting and scene description is minimal to nonexistent. The dialogue reads like the stereotype of a 60's romance novel. It's supposed to be a teaser for a whole novel. How do I tell my friend it needs a top to bottom rewrite (and maybe they need a full creative writing course) without crushing them? They were making noise about self publishing and I don't want them facing down savage one star Amazon reviews. Assistant: Inversely, how do I get a friend to admit my writing sucks?
Human: How do I gently tell someone their writing is just bad? A friend asked me to give feedback on a short story. It is 10 thousand words and basically unreadable. The characters are unlikable people, but not in an interesting way. The setting and scene description is minimal to nonexistent. The dialogue reads like the stereotype of a 60's romance novel. It's supposed to be a teaser for a whole novel. How do I tell my friend it needs a top to bottom rewrite (and maybe they need a full creative writing course) without crushing them? They were making noise about self publishing and I don't want them facing down savage one star Amazon reviews. Assistant: Nothing you said except “basically unreadable” is even mean. Just say you think it needs some work to avoid being generic, could use more description of the scenery, etc Edit: also honestly I would check where you’re coming from. It doesn’t sound like you even think your friend is capable of get better at writing, which is not a great place to be coming from.
Human: What is the best way to write dialogue of one character uses sigh language? Would I write the sign in italics? Italics and quotes? Just write the dialogue and put "he signed" at the end instead of "he said?" Also, would it be better to use the exact translations or just exactly what the character means to say? I know that most phrases in sign are simplified when translated to speaking, so should I use the simplified version? Assistant: Sigh language is how my GF communicates 😂
Human: What is the best way to write dialogue of one character uses sigh language? Would I write the sign in italics? Italics and quotes? Just write the dialogue and put "he signed" at the end instead of "he said?" Also, would it be better to use the exact translations or just exactly what the character means to say? I know that most phrases in sign are simplified when translated to speaking, so should I use the simplified version? Assistant: Good question!
Human: Got a quote on Reedsy for editing, 95,000 words, is this normal for the editing process? I have a story with about 95,000 words that I'd like to get published. I stumbled across Reedsy.com and found a good article, ended up posting a request for editing. I've never been through this before so I'm not sure what's normal. My understanding is I should get it edited like this first, then possibly again before trying to find an agent, then it gets pitched to publishers. The offer I got was for $950 based on $10 per 1,000 words. 1 - Is this the normal process? I know it's not official, but is this pretty typical and what I should expect to be doing at this point? 2 - Is this price reasonable? Assistant: If you’ve written 95,000 words I would think $950 to edit it wouldn’t be unreasonable at all. How long does it take you to earn $950? How long did you spend writing this thing? Imagine all that hard work wasted not spending enough money editing it.
Human: Got a quote on Reedsy for editing, 95,000 words, is this normal for the editing process? I have a story with about 95,000 words that I'd like to get published. I stumbled across Reedsy.com and found a good article, ended up posting a request for editing. I've never been through this before so I'm not sure what's normal. My understanding is I should get it edited like this first, then possibly again before trying to find an agent, then it gets pitched to publishers. The offer I got was for $950 based on $10 per 1,000 words. 1 - Is this the normal process? I know it's not official, but is this pretty typical and what I should expect to be doing at this point? 2 - Is this price reasonable? Assistant: Put it on critique circle instead. Hell, pay for premium to get it out faster or start a queue dedicated to your MS and beta readers. You’ll get a variety of inputs for 1/10th of the price (or for free and some extra time).
Human: I would like to learn how to write with better grammar/vocabulary. Are there any sources that can help me avoid common mistakes that amateur writers make? I am a 28 year old college student. I don't pride myself on my writing ability and i'd like to improve in whatever way possible. If there are any books or sources that you think can help, i'd greatly appreciate it! I was thinking of something that gives sentences and analyzes what's wrong with them or what makes them well-written, but i'm open to anything. Thank you! Assistant: I don't know if this is what you mean / if this will help you? https://www.grammarly.com/
Human: I would like to learn how to write with better grammar/vocabulary. Are there any sources that can help me avoid common mistakes that amateur writers make? I am a 28 year old college student. I don't pride myself on my writing ability and i'd like to improve in whatever way possible. If there are any books or sources that you think can help, i'd greatly appreciate it! I was thinking of something that gives sentences and analyzes what's wrong with them or what makes them well-written, but i'm open to anything. Thank you! Assistant: A usage dictionary. Fowler's *Modern English Usage* is the classic, but I prefer Garner's *Modern American Usage*.
Human: My adult brother still struggles with basic grammar and writing. How can he finally improve My brother is in his early 20s and always struggled at school. He had untreated ADD/ADHD during his whole schooling. Of course he stopped formal education as soon as he could having always found learning in a formal school environment a frustrating experience that made him feel inadequate. Now he’s been on a self-education journey but is struggling to finally get his writing skills, spelling, grammar and vocabulary up to par. I always have to edit and revise his writing. He’s only now beginning to use commas and capitalisation correctly on a more consistent basis. Please help. I know he could do so much better. His reading/writing skills is limiting him and he avoids work that involves this to insecurity/low self-esteem. Assistant: I'm surprised to see no mention of suggesting to him that he get tested for dyslexia, even though OP has said their parents didn't respect the ADHD diagnosis, so it's likely they wouldn't have pursued that either.
Human: My adult brother still struggles with basic grammar and writing. How can he finally improve My brother is in his early 20s and always struggled at school. He had untreated ADD/ADHD during his whole schooling. Of course he stopped formal education as soon as he could having always found learning in a formal school environment a frustrating experience that made him feel inadequate. Now he’s been on a self-education journey but is struggling to finally get his writing skills, spelling, grammar and vocabulary up to par. I always have to edit and revise his writing. He’s only now beginning to use commas and capitalisation correctly on a more consistent basis. Please help. I know he could do so much better. His reading/writing skills is limiting him and he avoids work that involves this to insecurity/low self-esteem. Assistant: There's another (probably more difficult to solve) side to this as well - it's just as much on other folks to understand his meaning and get past their hangups and expectations. The Roman Empire lasted a thousand years without spacing, punctuation, *or* lower case.
Human: How to start writing a book and not quit? I have had an idea for a novel for over a year now and have started writing it multiple times. I practically planned out every single chapter and yet I always get to a point where I stop. I have tried writing the story in chronological order, one chapter at a time. I have also tried writing out of order, picking a chapter depending on the mood of the scene and what I am feeling more inspired to write. I even re-wrote the chapters I have written to be in a different POV to see if it would help. I love these characters and the story is something I am passionate about but I can never get past the 4-5 chapter block. The inspiration is definitely there (I have Pinterest boards, soundtracks, etc) but there is something that always keeps me from finishing. What do you think? What am I doing wrong? Is there a way you keep writing or fix a block? Assistant: I’ve finished one book and a quarter thru the second... here’s what worked: find a coffee shop you absolutely LOVE. love the Vibe, the people, the light, the seats, the coffee. Go there as much as possible to write. Go in the mornings. Go on weekends. Find your spot. Etch your ass into that chair. Make it fun. Make it a TREAT. Make it a reward. Your brain will WANT to finish.
Human: How to start writing a book and not quit? I have had an idea for a novel for over a year now and have started writing it multiple times. I practically planned out every single chapter and yet I always get to a point where I stop. I have tried writing the story in chronological order, one chapter at a time. I have also tried writing out of order, picking a chapter depending on the mood of the scene and what I am feeling more inspired to write. I even re-wrote the chapters I have written to be in a different POV to see if it would help. I love these characters and the story is something I am passionate about but I can never get past the 4-5 chapter block. The inspiration is definitely there (I have Pinterest boards, soundtracks, etc) but there is something that always keeps me from finishing. What do you think? What am I doing wrong? Is there a way you keep writing or fix a block? Assistant: May I ask, what exactly stops you at the 4-5 chapter mark?
Human: Any advice for someone who specifically struggles on writing the “setting” or “scene” of a moment in a chapter/book? I know most will say just keep writing. And I do, every day. But one thing I notice I always get writers block on is this. Dialogue between characters comes to me very easily, but when it’s something like describing my main character sprinting through a moonlit forest as he crushes beneath his feet the leaves and branches strewn across the ground, I have a hard time writing it in a way that makes the reader feel like they are there themselves. Or at least compelled at what the character is going through. Assistant: Try and weave it into the narrative. Rather than up front describing a scene in a couple of paragraphs, just mention the pertinent bits as they come up. Rather than saying "it was a moonlit forest, the leaves were on the ground", maybe have the character be thinking how hard it would be to navigate if not for the moonlight lighting their way, that sort of thing?
Human: Any advice for someone who specifically struggles on writing the “setting” or “scene” of a moment in a chapter/book? I know most will say just keep writing. And I do, every day. But one thing I notice I always get writers block on is this. Dialogue between characters comes to me very easily, but when it’s something like describing my main character sprinting through a moonlit forest as he crushes beneath his feet the leaves and branches strewn across the ground, I have a hard time writing it in a way that makes the reader feel like they are there themselves. Or at least compelled at what the character is going through. Assistant: I think where and what and aim to use the power of three, when describing anything.
Human: I want to become better at writing. So I think I'm a pretty bad writer and I need advice on how I can improve. I have the ideas, it's just I can't get them on paper. Any feedback would be appreciated. Assistant: Write all the shxtty stuff, try to edit it and see where the mistakes are Burn it and repeat Or keep it if you like to see your progress
Human: I want to become better at writing. So I think I'm a pretty bad writer and I need advice on how I can improve. I have the ideas, it's just I can't get them on paper. Any feedback would be appreciated. Assistant: Find a writing group (or even just a writing partner) and start submitting things for workshopping and critiques. It can be nerve-wracking, but if you find good people, it’s the best way to improve.
Human: When you have an idea for a novel, how do you start out? Like I’ve had an idea for something that I know is good. I know that sounds pretentious, but I know that if I write it well, it’ll work! Do you start with out an outline of the chapters for your novel? Or do you just write as you go along? I’m extremely curious about how y’all have your own process. I hope this is in line with the rules! Assistant: Character is the most important thing for me to get started on. You can have a great world, but if your character(s) are bad then it doesn't matter. Figure out what kind of character you we need to follow to take full advantage of your idea, and then what kind of villain/antagonist you need, then what kind of supporting characters you need, etc.
Human: When you have an idea for a novel, how do you start out? Like I’ve had an idea for something that I know is good. I know that sounds pretentious, but I know that if I write it well, it’ll work! Do you start with out an outline of the chapters for your novel? Or do you just write as you go along? I’m extremely curious about how y’all have your own process. I hope this is in line with the rules! Assistant: Outline!
Human: How do I get the "fun" back in writing? So, long story about personal mental health, burnout, hustle culture, and treating my creative writing like a job short, I really really really want to get back into writing because I love it more than any hobby I've had before, but idk how to get the "fun" aspect of it back. Don't get me wrong, the stories I'm currently working are the books I Want to read and enjoy them very much but still... That's why I'm turning to this subreddit because no one else in my life would understand. Assistant: I "force" myself to have fun while writing with crazy twists and turns, embracing the melodrama, make your characters fall in love, or murder someone dead! Might have to turn it down a little in the second draft, but that's not today's (or tomorrow's) problem. Also, try writing every day, even a little bit: this makes it easier to get the words out when you're more in the zone already, and when you're in the zone, fun comes alot more easily. Happy writing!
Human: How do I get the "fun" back in writing? So, long story about personal mental health, burnout, hustle culture, and treating my creative writing like a job short, I really really really want to get back into writing because I love it more than any hobby I've had before, but idk how to get the "fun" aspect of it back. Don't get me wrong, the stories I'm currently working are the books I Want to read and enjoy them very much but still... That's why I'm turning to this subreddit because no one else in my life would understand. Assistant: It sounds to me like you need to unlearn some bad mental habits. Like you need to decouple the hustle mentality from what you want to write for fun. Do you have a therapist? Because most of reddit is not qualified or able for this kind of help.
Human: If you have gotten short stories published can I ask some questions? 1. Did you get paid and how much? 2. What are the best sites to use? 3. Can you submit it to multiple places at once and how does that work? What if they both decide they want it? I don’t want to wait for each review to be done before submitting it elsewhere. The first place I tried rejected me. 4. Do you try and sort of do a back cover description of the book in the comments since they usually allow comments with the submission? Thanks in advance for your answers Assistant: 1. Minimum 1c/word 2. Submission Grinder and Ralan.com 3. You can submit the same story simultaneously to multiple markets if they allow simultaneous submissions; if one of them says they want it, it is courtesy to tell the others it has been taken. "Multiple submissions" means something else--it means you can submit multiple different stories to the same place 4. No, you don't write anything about the submission unless they specifically ask Here is a guide to submissions.
Human: If you have gotten short stories published can I ask some questions? 1. Did you get paid and how much? 2. What are the best sites to use? 3. Can you submit it to multiple places at once and how does that work? What if they both decide they want it? I don’t want to wait for each review to be done before submitting it elsewhere. The first place I tried rejected me. 4. Do you try and sort of do a back cover description of the book in the comments since they usually allow comments with the submission? Thanks in advance for your answers Assistant: 1. Yes 2. Duotrope or submission grinder are the go-tos 3. Depends on the place itself. Will specifically state "no simultaneous submissions" or the opposite. 4. You mean a cover letter? Some have the option. Usually it's just previous history. I don't think many would want a summary of the short story since, you know, it's a short story.
Human: I've finished the book. I've edited the book ten times over the course of a year. I've eaten the book, digested the book, rearranged the excrement into a new form. I've accepted the book for what it has become-- what the h*ck do I do now? I need to start sending out to literary agents but dear god, am I exhausted. this is more daunting than the writing of the book itself any general advice / ass-kicking from literary vets are welcome. not sure who or what this is to, but I felt the need to momentarily scream into the void Assistant: I mean in my opinion you've already done it. But I'm also anti-capitalist and I am vehemently against distribution companies and copyright, so I didn't even plan on selling my product. So I basically just didn't help you at all. Sorry I'm a redditor what did you expect?
Human: I've finished the book. I've edited the book ten times over the course of a year. I've eaten the book, digested the book, rearranged the excrement into a new form. I've accepted the book for what it has become-- what the h*ck do I do now? I need to start sending out to literary agents but dear god, am I exhausted. this is more daunting than the writing of the book itself any general advice / ass-kicking from literary vets are welcome. not sure who or what this is to, but I felt the need to momentarily scream into the void Assistant: I know that this comment is not about giving advice but.. First of all, I love the title and I love your humor. Second, congrats on finishing the book! That is a huge feat on itself. Hear is to your journey for publication! Hoorah!
Human: I have some slightly fleshed out characters and some world building done, but no story. I just need advice from anyone that might've been in this spot before, do I continue working with these characters or do I move onto other projects? Assistant: Just write.
Human: I have some slightly fleshed out characters and some world building done, but no story. I just need advice from anyone that might've been in this spot before, do I continue working with these characters or do I move onto other projects? Assistant: Doesn't the other projects also need storys and worlds? Feels like moving to another project isn't really solving anything here.
Human: Feeling defeated, excellent series just came out, the plot, characters, world-building, ideas are extremely similar to a novel I have been writing for the last 4 years. How to get creative again ? I really don't have much to add to this title already, I feel awful because the execution is amazing and writing excellent, I feel like my piece will never top that and I feel defeated, I just want to give up. Should I ? Should I rethink my novel, characters and plot ? Should I just not care and follow through ? How do you come up with new ideas ? Assistant: It hasn’t been written by you before. Read the series, see what the characters do and do it differently. Twist and turn it until it becomes your own voice. If writer borked at every similar we wouldn’t have tropes or any of the amazing books we read today.
Human: Feeling defeated, excellent series just came out, the plot, characters, world-building, ideas are extremely similar to a novel I have been writing for the last 4 years. How to get creative again ? I really don't have much to add to this title already, I feel awful because the execution is amazing and writing excellent, I feel like my piece will never top that and I feel defeated, I just want to give up. Should I ? Should I rethink my novel, characters and plot ? Should I just not care and follow through ? How do you come up with new ideas ? Assistant: Which series? Arcane?
Human: How do you get a circle of writers who can read and honestly critique your work? I’ve just finished my novel. I did it over the course of my Creative Writing MA, and the brutality of the sessions was, in the fullness of time, the best thing I could have had as a writer. It taught me to be ruthless and disciplined with my words. Thing is, now that I’m doing the letter to agents/publishers bit and my rejections are increasing by the day, I want to give the book to someone with a fresh pair of eyes. I don’t want to pay for editing just yet (don’t worry, I’m not deluded, I will later down the line), but rather I want to find writers who are willing to dissect a chapter here or there. Any suggestions as to how to go about this? I’m not a very sociable person and I can’t seem to find a writer’s hangout in my city, or even online? Assistant: You have a friend in me. I seem to be good with reviewing, I tear my own works apart, I can do it with others' as well. If I'm not getting paid for this though, which I am 100% okay with being your volunteer editor, you have to be patient with me and my schedule. Feel free to message me for details! I'll work with ya.
Human: How do you get a circle of writers who can read and honestly critique your work? I’ve just finished my novel. I did it over the course of my Creative Writing MA, and the brutality of the sessions was, in the fullness of time, the best thing I could have had as a writer. It taught me to be ruthless and disciplined with my words. Thing is, now that I’m doing the letter to agents/publishers bit and my rejections are increasing by the day, I want to give the book to someone with a fresh pair of eyes. I don’t want to pay for editing just yet (don’t worry, I’m not deluded, I will later down the line), but rather I want to find writers who are willing to dissect a chapter here or there. Any suggestions as to how to go about this? I’m not a very sociable person and I can’t seem to find a writer’s hangout in my city, or even online? Assistant: I'd recommend not trying to find a group but finding someone who is in a similar position with whom you can do an exchange (one-on-one). Repeat as necessary for additional feedback.
Human: Do you guys ever have a problem of being TOO efficient with your writing? Most commonly, I hear of writers packing a lot of fluff into their stories and then going back and editing out the excess to make it more entertaining for the readers, but I kind of have the opposite problem where I go through the beats of my story too quickly and end up with a breakneck, rushed version of the longer story I intend to tell in the first draft, and for me, it's harder to fill in the gaps than it is to trim. Anyone else struggle with this and have advice on how to curb this habit? Assistant: yes, i had this problem. usually its a missing element. perhaps you’re sparce on the interiority of your characters (their thoughts), or perhaps youre not doing scenes of reflection after something major happens (character moments), perhaps you do very little description (white room, talking heads), perhaps your plot doesn’t have enough things happening along the way. could be a lot of things.
Human: Do you guys ever have a problem of being TOO efficient with your writing? Most commonly, I hear of writers packing a lot of fluff into their stories and then going back and editing out the excess to make it more entertaining for the readers, but I kind of have the opposite problem where I go through the beats of my story too quickly and end up with a breakneck, rushed version of the longer story I intend to tell in the first draft, and for me, it's harder to fill in the gaps than it is to trim. Anyone else struggle with this and have advice on how to curb this habit? Assistant: Yes! I struggle to come up with filler scenes that let the characters and the reader take a moment to rest and absorb what happened in the last chapter. My writing also tends to be dialogue heavy so I'm trying screenwriting for a different project to see if that might suit me better.
Human: How many of you have jobs where you have to write? I love to write for fun, and now that I’m taking the next big step in life and looking for employment, I’m trying to find a job that involves some writing. So I’ve been looking at PR/Marketing jobs, etc. where I’d have to write press releases, blog posts, etc. However, it only just now occurred to me that *maybe* having to write for work would burn me out in terms of writing for pleasure. So for you writers who have jobs involving writing: does it take away from the fun of writing for pleasure? How does it affect your motivation (if at all)? Assistant: Music journalist here! Love my job! Don’t get paid for it (yet) but it combines my two great loves, writing and music. Get to go to plenty of free gigs too!
Human: How many of you have jobs where you have to write? I love to write for fun, and now that I’m taking the next big step in life and looking for employment, I’m trying to find a job that involves some writing. So I’ve been looking at PR/Marketing jobs, etc. where I’d have to write press releases, blog posts, etc. However, it only just now occurred to me that *maybe* having to write for work would burn me out in terms of writing for pleasure. So for you writers who have jobs involving writing: does it take away from the fun of writing for pleasure? How does it affect your motivation (if at all)? Assistant: I was an advertising copywriter for many years. Stopwatch, 15, 30,45 second and one minute ads timed to the second. It taught me tight writing, nice 'hooks' and made my story and book writing much more fun. I loved the work and the discipline.
Human: College writing student exasperated with professor I am not sure if this is the right forum to speak on this but wanted to rant and ask for advice. I am an amateur writer that is currently enrolled in an undergraduate writing course. I have worked really hard on all my assignments over the semester like movie reviews, editorials, and papers. I went out of my way to get professional feedback from professors at the writing department on each assignment and did a lot of research on each topic. My professor has not returned one assignment all semester, and when students ask him he is avoidant about ever getting us a grade. A former student said she didn't do half the assignments and still somehow got an A. It seems like he randomly assigns grades by the end of the semester without reading anything. I feel really artistically defeated by this semester and honestly don't want to continue writing ANYTHING after this experience even if I somehow "luck" into getting an A. It's not about the grade, it's the fact that I'm in a writing class and not one person will ever see assignments I worked so hard on. Maybe of note: I go to a technical college so humanities are not a focus Assistant: A bit of perspective... It sounds like this person is awful at their job, but that shouldn't mean your work should suffer. Accept the disappointment that this course didn't turn out the way it should have, but don't let an incompetent ass influence the direction your life is going. Don't give up.
Human: College writing student exasperated with professor I am not sure if this is the right forum to speak on this but wanted to rant and ask for advice. I am an amateur writer that is currently enrolled in an undergraduate writing course. I have worked really hard on all my assignments over the semester like movie reviews, editorials, and papers. I went out of my way to get professional feedback from professors at the writing department on each assignment and did a lot of research on each topic. My professor has not returned one assignment all semester, and when students ask him he is avoidant about ever getting us a grade. A former student said she didn't do half the assignments and still somehow got an A. It seems like he randomly assigns grades by the end of the semester without reading anything. I feel really artistically defeated by this semester and honestly don't want to continue writing ANYTHING after this experience even if I somehow "luck" into getting an A. It's not about the grade, it's the fact that I'm in a writing class and not one person will ever see assignments I worked so hard on. Maybe of note: I go to a technical college so humanities are not a focus Assistant: tenure be like
Human: What's the best way to make character speech distinct so you can tell who is speaking? I'm not the best writer, but I like doing it, it's my comfort thing. The problem i'm having is my dialogue isn't different enough per character, I avoid using "He said, she said" and the like because it drives me mental reading and writing it but I need a way to make it noticeable who's talking. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you. Assistant: Get clearer about the difference between your character's personalities. Let your knowledge of them lead the way.
Human: What's the best way to make character speech distinct so you can tell who is speaking? I'm not the best writer, but I like doing it, it's my comfort thing. The problem i'm having is my dialogue isn't different enough per character, I avoid using "He said, she said" and the like because it drives me mental reading and writing it but I need a way to make it noticeable who's talking. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you. Assistant: Add certain ticks, habits, and choice words they have while speaking.
Human: I've always struggled with writing, along with punctuation and grammar. I want to enjoy writing, but feel self conscious. How do I improve my English skills? I am 33 and always struggled in school and further education. English was always a stronger subject for me, along with art, but I have never been particularly good at it. I feel like I have a learning difficulty that I have never had diagnosed. I actually enjoy writing and would like to create a blog etc, but wish I was so much stronger at writing than I am. I am self conscious about my grammar and punctuation. I see so many people who are great at expressing themselves through writing, which makes me wish I was as competent as they are. I often wonder how people can write so well and achieve amazing things through writing. Are some people just naturally great at writing? I have no issues with ideas. I have a creative mind and love coming up with ideas, but it's putting those ideas down on paper that's my issue. My writing and storytelling is a bit mediocre. Do you have any advice? Assistant: You used solid punctuation and grammar in your paragraph, so you can build on that. Just wanted to give you a positive response based on what you wrote.
Human: I've always struggled with writing, along with punctuation and grammar. I want to enjoy writing, but feel self conscious. How do I improve my English skills? I am 33 and always struggled in school and further education. English was always a stronger subject for me, along with art, but I have never been particularly good at it. I feel like I have a learning difficulty that I have never had diagnosed. I actually enjoy writing and would like to create a blog etc, but wish I was so much stronger at writing than I am. I am self conscious about my grammar and punctuation. I see so many people who are great at expressing themselves through writing, which makes me wish I was as competent as they are. I often wonder how people can write so well and achieve amazing things through writing. Are some people just naturally great at writing? I have no issues with ideas. I have a creative mind and love coming up with ideas, but it's putting those ideas down on paper that's my issue. My writing and storytelling is a bit mediocre. Do you have any advice? Assistant: Read a lot, write a lot. Take notes while reading relating to patterns and styles you enjoy. Rinse, repeat.
Human: I just finished my first novel rough draft and I printed it at Staples. Did I get ripped off? What's the best way to print a manuscript? I spent nearly 100 bucks printing out a 460 page b&w document that just has a three ring bind. Are there cheaper options? Should I eventually just invest in a good printer? I literally just finished today so I'm a bit excited after over a year and half of trying to get this story nailed down. Assistant: Go to work and print it 20 pages at a time.
Human: I just finished my first novel rough draft and I printed it at Staples. Did I get ripped off? What's the best way to print a manuscript? I spent nearly 100 bucks printing out a 460 page b&w document that just has a three ring bind. Are there cheaper options? Should I eventually just invest in a good printer? I literally just finished today so I'm a bit excited after over a year and half of trying to get this story nailed down. Assistant: I get mine spiral bound with cardstock covers at my local print shop for $50
Human: Other people’s successful first novels are putting me off from publishing Like, takes The Lies of Locke Lamora. It was Scott Lynch’s FIRST novel and he was only 26 when he published it. Mine obviously isn’t as good, so I feel I should start over or write more novels until my quality of writing improves. That would get me caught in an endless loop, though, and I’d get nothing published. Anyone else have issues with this feeling of inadequacy? Assistant: The author of red rising talks about how the early drafts of the series were so garbage he would stop writing completely for months at a time. The first draft will never ever look good. I'm willing to bet if you have a story you really love and you get all the time and editing assistance you'd be surprised at how stellar your work is.
Human: Other people’s successful first novels are putting me off from publishing Like, takes The Lies of Locke Lamora. It was Scott Lynch’s FIRST novel and he was only 26 when he published it. Mine obviously isn’t as good, so I feel I should start over or write more novels until my quality of writing improves. That would get me caught in an endless loop, though, and I’d get nothing published. Anyone else have issues with this feeling of inadequacy? Assistant: Go the other way. Find the worst reviewed paid book you can find, and force yourself through it. Every time you cringe, remember that this asshole made at least a few cents for making you read this utter garbage, and how you can for sure do better than this.
Human: Those of you who "stalled out" in the later drafts of your novel due to major plot/structure changes, what was your method of finishing? By "stalling out" I mean like an engine mid-flight. You've written at least 2 drafts of your novel something happened or clicked and you decided to rework the bones of your story, when at that point, most writers are just tweaking the muscles. By "something happened" I mean you decided a major plot change was in order, or perhaps you received feedback that inspired major additions or subtractions to the story. For me, it was a combination. I crunched through my first draft. Wrote a second draft that was a huge improvement. Wrote a third draft and decided to share it with two people I really trust and respect. Received feedback that was extremely helpful, while spending some time apart from the story and reorganizing my thoughts and spotting some glaring issues. Now I'm in the process of reworking my outline and prepping for what I hope will be my final draft before I hire an editor. For those of you who can relate to my situation, what was your plan of attack for conquering the hurdle of self-doubt and a perfectionist mentality? What clicked for you and allowed you to finish what you started? How did it turn out? Assistant: Slash and burn. Delete everything and start over. I've found this to be far more efficient than big revision...even when it means throwing 100k words in the garbage.
Human: Those of you who "stalled out" in the later drafts of your novel due to major plot/structure changes, what was your method of finishing? By "stalling out" I mean like an engine mid-flight. You've written at least 2 drafts of your novel something happened or clicked and you decided to rework the bones of your story, when at that point, most writers are just tweaking the muscles. By "something happened" I mean you decided a major plot change was in order, or perhaps you received feedback that inspired major additions or subtractions to the story. For me, it was a combination. I crunched through my first draft. Wrote a second draft that was a huge improvement. Wrote a third draft and decided to share it with two people I really trust and respect. Received feedback that was extremely helpful, while spending some time apart from the story and reorganizing my thoughts and spotting some glaring issues. Now I'm in the process of reworking my outline and prepping for what I hope will be my final draft before I hire an editor. For those of you who can relate to my situation, what was your plan of attack for conquering the hurdle of self-doubt and a perfectionist mentality? What clicked for you and allowed you to finish what you started? How did it turn out? Assistant: Relax, already. You're only on the fourth draft and the rule-of-thumb is "eight drafts to publication." After you rewrite it a couple more times, and know the story inside and out, maybe then it's time to pay for a pro, but not until this story is to you what the Matrix was to Neo (is what I'd say).
Human: Would publishers take you less seriously upon learning that you wrote in English as a non-native speaker? I fear that they would think that my writing is riddled with grammatical errors and other such oddities, and maybe they wouldn't even give it a chance. I imagine many people turned to writing during the lockdown, so publishers probably have even less time to spare evaluating individual works than before. I'm young without any experience in publishing (I'm still working on my first novel, and it still has a looong way to go), so sorry if this is a weird question. Assistant: There've been best sellers written by non-anglophones. The Millennium series for example. Both the original trilogy and the trilogy written after the authors death were written by Swedes. Getting your writing up to the required standard is probably going to be more of a challenge when it isn't your native language. But once it is up to snuff there is no reason it shouldn't be accepted.
Human: Would publishers take you less seriously upon learning that you wrote in English as a non-native speaker? I fear that they would think that my writing is riddled with grammatical errors and other such oddities, and maybe they wouldn't even give it a chance. I imagine many people turned to writing during the lockdown, so publishers probably have even less time to spare evaluating individual works than before. I'm young without any experience in publishing (I'm still working on my first novel, and it still has a looong way to go), so sorry if this is a weird question. Assistant: They mightn't directly care if you are a non-native speaker writing in English. But they will care about the quality of your writing. And that includes whether or not it is riddled with grammar errors.
Human: How to write consistently without giving up halfway through the book that you are writing Here’s a few suggestions to keep up your momentum: 1. Don’t go back and reread or rewrite the earlier chapters until you have a first draft. Not only does that pull away time you need for writing new material, it puts your mind in editing mode, not writing mode, which then kills your progress. 2. Try not to stop writing at the end of a scene or the end of a chapter. Even if you are almost done for the day when you get to such a natural ending point, try to pen at least a few paragraphs for the next scene or chapter. That gives you a leg up when you come back to start writing, but, more importantly, focuses your subconscious mind on the new beginning, rather than the ending, between writing sessions. 3. Whenever you are in a writing groove and the words are flowing well, don’t stop for anything until you are too tired to continue. If you write a lot when you are inspired and enthusiastic, there will be less to write when you are uninspired, but committed to grinding out some text. 4. Know where you are going and at least a couple of things you want to do along the way. Mid-book doldrums can be a sign of not knowing what you really want or need to come next. 5. If you feel stuck, skip ahead to a scene that excites you more, then come back and see what you need to do to set up that bit you’ve already written. Assistant: I have written 12 books, 2 novels. My approach is to write the story from start to finish. That is typically 10 - 20,000 words over the course of a week or two. Then I fill-in the content which can take a year longer. Then you move into the firs edit ...............
Human: How to write consistently without giving up halfway through the book that you are writing Here’s a few suggestions to keep up your momentum: 1. Don’t go back and reread or rewrite the earlier chapters until you have a first draft. Not only does that pull away time you need for writing new material, it puts your mind in editing mode, not writing mode, which then kills your progress. 2. Try not to stop writing at the end of a scene or the end of a chapter. Even if you are almost done for the day when you get to such a natural ending point, try to pen at least a few paragraphs for the next scene or chapter. That gives you a leg up when you come back to start writing, but, more importantly, focuses your subconscious mind on the new beginning, rather than the ending, between writing sessions. 3. Whenever you are in a writing groove and the words are flowing well, don’t stop for anything until you are too tired to continue. If you write a lot when you are inspired and enthusiastic, there will be less to write when you are uninspired, but committed to grinding out some text. 4. Know where you are going and at least a couple of things you want to do along the way. Mid-book doldrums can be a sign of not knowing what you really want or need to come next. 5. If you feel stuck, skip ahead to a scene that excites you more, then come back and see what you need to do to set up that bit you’ve already written. Assistant: Sometimes I have to remind myself of the “bigger picture.” Sometimes I get so focused on one scene or one chapter that I lose the feel of the entire story. When I was writing my first chapter and struggling, I had to remind myself of where the first chapter is meant to lead. Not just in a plot scene, but in regards to the theme and feel of the story. So for me what also helps is to reread my basic synopsis for the story and remember the big picture.
Human: Struggling with writing conflict I have been working on a few ideas recently. I write a setting I absolutely fall in love with. Write characters who I see living in that setting. Then the major conflict? The big bad? I can't come up with anything. I feel like I focus so much on the world's I am writing that when i try to weave in conflict it all falls flat. Guys what do I do? I could always make it an 'adventure' but I feel that's a cop out. Assistant: I feel like most writers you think conflict has to be this big thing, like villains or battles and quests, but really it doesn't/ The basic building block of conflict in my view is a question that is hard to answer. So you need to figure out what questions your character and story is trying to ask, and then you need to figure out ways why those questions would be hard to answer. You might not need big bads, villians, or battles if you think in this way
Human: Struggling with writing conflict I have been working on a few ideas recently. I write a setting I absolutely fall in love with. Write characters who I see living in that setting. Then the major conflict? The big bad? I can't come up with anything. I feel like I focus so much on the world's I am writing that when i try to weave in conflict it all falls flat. Guys what do I do? I could always make it an 'adventure' but I feel that's a cop out. Assistant: >Then the major conflict? Conflict comes from characters wanting opposing things or striving for different goals. It's all well and good to have a scenery, but without characters wanting something it won't be much of a story. > The big bad? I can't come up with anything. There doesn't need to be a defined big bad.
Human: I have dozens of novel concepts, plots, dialogue and characters fully hammered out - down to the color of my protagonists shirt. But I can’t write anything.... It’s very disheartening for me knowing I have so many ideas but I can’t find the motivation to write. My phone notes app is filled with so many that I’m running out of storage on my phone. Most of the original ideas come through my dreams and I build on them. I don’t know maybe it’s writers block, maybe it’s the lack of motivation due to my crap mental health, maybe it’s just that 2020 was insanely difficult on my family. I just want to write. I’ve been writing since I was a kid (mostly poetry and short stories) I won a few awards, got selected for a few writers conferences, had 1 poem published.. and then I quit writing. It’s always been a passion of mine to one day finish a novel and be published.. and so far I can barely get myself to write anymore. I feel like I’m wasting several good ideas that I worked on and spent time crafting, building plots, etc and I’m unable to use them. Is there a way to sell my plot and characters to someone else to write? Or has anyone else ever helped ghost write a novel in this way? I want to use my ideas or skills, but I’m finding it very difficult due to - I’m assuming my mental health. Any advice helps. Thank you. Assistant: worldbuilding is not the same as writing. focus on becoming a better writer. the color of your protagonist's shirt is not important. brainstorming is not the same as writing. sit down and write a scene instead of "dreaming" interactions.
Human: I have dozens of novel concepts, plots, dialogue and characters fully hammered out - down to the color of my protagonists shirt. But I can’t write anything.... It’s very disheartening for me knowing I have so many ideas but I can’t find the motivation to write. My phone notes app is filled with so many that I’m running out of storage on my phone. Most of the original ideas come through my dreams and I build on them. I don’t know maybe it’s writers block, maybe it’s the lack of motivation due to my crap mental health, maybe it’s just that 2020 was insanely difficult on my family. I just want to write. I’ve been writing since I was a kid (mostly poetry and short stories) I won a few awards, got selected for a few writers conferences, had 1 poem published.. and then I quit writing. It’s always been a passion of mine to one day finish a novel and be published.. and so far I can barely get myself to write anymore. I feel like I’m wasting several good ideas that I worked on and spent time crafting, building plots, etc and I’m unable to use them. Is there a way to sell my plot and characters to someone else to write? Or has anyone else ever helped ghost write a novel in this way? I want to use my ideas or skills, but I’m finding it very difficult due to - I’m assuming my mental health. Any advice helps. Thank you. Assistant: Could it be that the novel has become a Big Important Thing in your mind? That's a certain way to get blocked. If so, try Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way. Either that, or put everything on hold with the Big Novel, and just allow yourself to write a small, crappy novel that no one will see. Consider it practice, and see if that breaks through your block.
Human: does anyone have any advice for writing weird, eerie fiction? I've written short stories before where I've tried to apply the style and framework of weird/eerie and they've just not done that well. I'm very new to this area so does anyone have any advice or experience or tips? I'm referring to fiction written along the style of hp lovecraft, hg wells, sylvia plath, etc Assistant: Read widely in the genre. Look for patterns. But ultimately weird fiction is mainly about defying patterns and expectations and being original. Vampires have been done to death but a sapient meme is interesting. Werewolves are well known but a fungus that infects you and compels you to eat your own flesh is disturbing. Suggested authors; William hope Hodgeson, Arthur machen, clark ashton Smith, Robert e Howard, Robert Bloch, Ramsey Campbell
Human: does anyone have any advice for writing weird, eerie fiction? I've written short stories before where I've tried to apply the style and framework of weird/eerie and they've just not done that well. I'm very new to this area so does anyone have any advice or experience or tips? I'm referring to fiction written along the style of hp lovecraft, hg wells, sylvia plath, etc Assistant: First person present tense. Instant unreliable narrator without ever having to drop any hints that they're not reliable. How can you trust a character that might be insane?
Human: what does a second draft LOOK like? curious about this, I’ve seen a bunch of advice about drafting after your manuscript is finished (let it stew, give it a read, take notes, edit) but I’m not sure what the actual editing process looks like. for example, do you read in one go (as any other reader would) without taking notes at all, THEN go back and comb through/add your notes in a separate margin or document? as far as the actual editing goes, do you… - duplicate your manuscript and start adjusting (deleting, rewriting paragraphs, adding in descriptions etc) or - brave the blank page, write new scenes and rewrite the rest - as in, literally retype anything you want from the old draft or - copy/paste whatever you like from the previous version as you go I’m sure there’s more options but those come to mind as jumping off points. any advice at all is welcome! Assistant: Am I the only one that read the title in Samuel L. Jackson's voice? "What does a second draft LOOK like?" "W-w-what?" "Does it look like a bitch?"
Human: what does a second draft LOOK like? curious about this, I’ve seen a bunch of advice about drafting after your manuscript is finished (let it stew, give it a read, take notes, edit) but I’m not sure what the actual editing process looks like. for example, do you read in one go (as any other reader would) without taking notes at all, THEN go back and comb through/add your notes in a separate margin or document? as far as the actual editing goes, do you… - duplicate your manuscript and start adjusting (deleting, rewriting paragraphs, adding in descriptions etc) or - brave the blank page, write new scenes and rewrite the rest - as in, literally retype anything you want from the old draft or - copy/paste whatever you like from the previous version as you go I’m sure there’s more options but those come to mind as jumping off points. any advice at all is welcome! Assistant: Simple — a new-and-improved version of Draft One! BUT you still have a lot of work ahead of you in as many drafts and rewrites as you need to make! And each draft will be better than the previous ones!
Human: Using the em dash (—) in dialogue to denote a speaker interrupting himself to perform an action — What's the proper method? EXAMPLE: 1. "And if they catch up to us thanks to a well-intentioned idiot —" he narrowed his eyes at Slappy the Idiot "— we'll be thrown in prison or killed." 2. "And if they catch up to us thanks to a well-intentioned idiot," — he narrowed his eyes at Slappy the Idiot — "we'll be thrown in prison or killed." Which one is more commonly used or considered the "most correct"? Or are neither of these proper form? Thanks for your time. Assistant: I would ask this in /r/grammar.
Human: Using the em dash (—) in dialogue to denote a speaker interrupting himself to perform an action — What's the proper method? EXAMPLE: 1. "And if they catch up to us thanks to a well-intentioned idiot —" he narrowed his eyes at Slappy the Idiot "— we'll be thrown in prison or killed." 2. "And if they catch up to us thanks to a well-intentioned idiot," — he narrowed his eyes at Slappy the Idiot — "we'll be thrown in prison or killed." Which one is more commonly used or considered the "most correct"? Or are neither of these proper form? Thanks for your time. Assistant: \#2 is correct (and how my editor has always corrected when I've misused em dashes.) Without using the em dashes in this case, you're using action as a dialog tag. If you don't want to use em dashes in a sentence such as this, you can place the action ahead of the dialog. *He narrowed his eyes at Slappy the Idiot. "And if they catch up to us thanks to a well-intentioned idiot, we'll be thrown in prison, or killed."*
Human: I really want to write a story but I'm afraid. I've had this idea for a short story that I've wanted to write for months now, but everytime I try to I get anxiety about it. I'm afraid e erything I will write will be ridiculous or plain bad. I keep trying but everytime I read it I feel like it's ridiculous. What can I do to overcome this fear? It's really frustrating because I really like this idea and I want to see it finished. Thank you in advance. Assistant: Like someone else on this sub said, "You can edit a written story, you can't edit a blank page. Write it."
Human: I really want to write a story but I'm afraid. I've had this idea for a short story that I've wanted to write for months now, but everytime I try to I get anxiety about it. I'm afraid e erything I will write will be ridiculous or plain bad. I keep trying but everytime I read it I feel like it's ridiculous. What can I do to overcome this fear? It's really frustrating because I really like this idea and I want to see it finished. Thank you in advance. Assistant: I can suggest to start writing just a few lines everyday and increasing this goal every week.
Human: Is 11,743 words too long for a single chapter? Hi all! So I just finished the fourteenth chapter of my book and it clocked in at 11,743 words. Now I’m a new writer who originally aimed for chapters that would clock in at 3,000 words as the goal but I’ve became more ambitious as I’ve been writing this book more. My question is if this word count is harmful to my book. So is it? Assistant: Perspective as a reader - I have a tendency to want to finish a chapter before bed/before I need to do something, it's often my reward or cut off (do the dishes and get to read a chapter or after I read this chapter, I'll get up and do something). I prefer books that have a lot of smaller chapters. As a reader, it makes it easer. So while if we are talking about structure and rules, that can vary but for your audience, breaking it up a bit might be a better option.
Human: Is 11,743 words too long for a single chapter? Hi all! So I just finished the fourteenth chapter of my book and it clocked in at 11,743 words. Now I’m a new writer who originally aimed for chapters that would clock in at 3,000 words as the goal but I’ve became more ambitious as I’ve been writing this book more. My question is if this word count is harmful to my book. So is it? Assistant: I typically don't care how long my chapters are unless they are under, let's say, 4,000 words. In my opinion, 5,000 words is a nice length, but I'm never afraid to go longer as long as, just like u/mowa0199 said, the chapter is engaging. This is a bit more extreme, but I wouldn't go more than 15,000 words for a chapter. If it gets to that point, I would consider splitting it up as long as splitting the chapter up works in your favour to tell the story.
Human: Just realized my novel sounds like a rip off. Midway through writing, it just came to me that my story shares a lot of elements with another story and it kinda seems like I'm trying to copy it. I swear it was never intentional, and now I'm actually scared that i might have to change a lot of things just so that I don't seem like I'm stealing someone else's story. Any thoughts on this? Assistant: If Eragon can make it, you’re ok. Eragon=Star Wars.
Human: Just realized my novel sounds like a rip off. Midway through writing, it just came to me that my story shares a lot of elements with another story and it kinda seems like I'm trying to copy it. I swear it was never intentional, and now I'm actually scared that i might have to change a lot of things just so that I don't seem like I'm stealing someone else's story. Any thoughts on this? Assistant: I think from your description of how they are similar, it should be fine. Most books and tv shows are just an amalgamation of things the creators were inspired by I feel like. My book series premise takes inspiration from the OG *Charmed* show but the overall plot and characters are quite different.
Human: Is it fine to start every new chapter of a novel with a quote? I started writing a short novel for which I'm planning the maximum length to be at 10 chapters. Is it fine to start every new chapter to start with a quote that foreshadows the events that transpire in the chapter? Assistant: Dune did that, it worked really well, one of the things I enjoyed a lot in fact!
Human: Is it fine to start every new chapter of a novel with a quote? I started writing a short novel for which I'm planning the maximum length to be at 10 chapters. Is it fine to start every new chapter to start with a quote that foreshadows the events that transpire in the chapter? Assistant: Jk Rowling does it in the cormoran strike series. It works well for me but for others it's redundant.
Human: Always write notes for your story ideas. Especially if you’re not writing them yet. Holy crap So I’ve been working on this book series for about a year and a half. And it’s really transformed in my headspace over all that time. Whatever vision I had from the onset is completely new and different now. Throughout that year+ I wrote notes on ideas for all the novels, as they came to me. That’s been great in itself, I have a whole notepad full When I go to write I reference these ideas when stuck. But something about reading old notes, old thinking, combined with your fresh ideas, when you’ve almost forgotten the old. It’s magic, the amount of material, boosts my creativity. Like if me and past me were a team The best breakthroughs I’ve had for this series came from looking at old notes in a new light. Character connections, plot twists. Track your thought process on paper, and you can draw on it later to come up with really cool stuff Assistant: This is awesome advice! I have, over the past couple of years, learned to trust my unconscious more and more when it comes to writing. Treating your unconscious like the wellspring of ideas that it is, is essential for combatting writer's block. I think it's better to pen a few notes of seemingly nonsensical gibberish than it is to keep it locked up inside -- especially if one is a writer. You never know when that nonsensical gibberish will come in handy one day.
Human: Always write notes for your story ideas. Especially if you’re not writing them yet. Holy crap So I’ve been working on this book series for about a year and a half. And it’s really transformed in my headspace over all that time. Whatever vision I had from the onset is completely new and different now. Throughout that year+ I wrote notes on ideas for all the novels, as they came to me. That’s been great in itself, I have a whole notepad full When I go to write I reference these ideas when stuck. But something about reading old notes, old thinking, combined with your fresh ideas, when you’ve almost forgotten the old. It’s magic, the amount of material, boosts my creativity. Like if me and past me were a team The best breakthroughs I’ve had for this series came from looking at old notes in a new light. Character connections, plot twists. Track your thought process on paper, and you can draw on it later to come up with really cool stuff Assistant: That’s why in my notes organization I have a file in all my projects titled Just Write, where I can just jot down any and all ideas that I’ve had for that project in a moment where I can’t sit and dive deeper into those thoughts. Always so helpful.
Human: I missed a deadline to submit a short story. Should I keep working on it anyway? As the title says, I don't really have anywhere to put it after it's finished now, but it feels like a waste to just leave it half finished like this. Assistant: Yes. Even if it's never published, finishing stories is an excellent habit to develop.
Human: I missed a deadline to submit a short story. Should I keep working on it anyway? As the title says, I don't really have anywhere to put it after it's finished now, but it feels like a waste to just leave it half finished like this. Assistant: “On paper” is a perfectly good place to put it! You don’t need a reason to write. Just write. 😊
Human: Struggling to make it clear who is speaking. I'm struggling with conversational dialogue and indicating which people are speaking. Every single conversation between more than two people ends up with constant, repetitive language eg. Joe asked, said Harry, she replied, he answered, Sally sounded angry as she spoke. It's interrupting the flow of conversation and driving me insane. I need help. I'm going crazy. Assistant: I recommend that you not jump through any hoops. Making your characters twitchy so you can attach every line to a tic or fidget is no improvement. Getting fancy with the dialog tags just draws attention to them more. On the whole, halfway competent dialog tagging is invisible. When in doubt, make the dialog more interesting, not the tags. That's the sure-fire way of making the tags invisible.
Human: Struggling to make it clear who is speaking. I'm struggling with conversational dialogue and indicating which people are speaking. Every single conversation between more than two people ends up with constant, repetitive language eg. Joe asked, said Harry, she replied, he answered, Sally sounded angry as she spoke. It's interrupting the flow of conversation and driving me insane. I need help. I'm going crazy. Assistant: I have no advice, just empathy as I find exactly the same when I write a group conversation. So I'll be watching this thread in the hope there's a magic answer to this problem.
Human: How do you avoid overwhelming readers by introducing too many characters in the beginning of your story? My story has a group of people going on a quest together so they all have to meet up very early and I'm worried about annoying/overwhelming readers. Any advice is appreciated. Assistant: My editor recommended I avoid using names for the insignificant characters in my early chapters and to refer to them by physical characteristics or family work instead. Now, rather than a name that would only be seen once or twice, i say ‘the butchers son’ etc. The chapters flow much more smoothly now and I don’t distract my readers by giving them name fatigue.
Human: How do you avoid overwhelming readers by introducing too many characters in the beginning of your story? My story has a group of people going on a quest together so they all have to meet up very early and I'm worried about annoying/overwhelming readers. Any advice is appreciated. Assistant: It's not an RPG, it's a story. If a character is not necessary, relevant or (most of all) memorable and entertaining, cut them out. Rule of thumb to see if they are memorable? If you mention them and then, a few pages later, you have to remind people of them, they're not memorable. Also, read Hyperion by Dan Simmons. 7 characters, all human, no superpowers and no crazy design. You remember and are curious about them after two chapters.
Human: Should I write a book when I have dyslexia and ADHD? I have an idea about a book(even ideas of turning it into a series) but I believe because my grammar is bad and since I have ADHD and dyslexia. Biggest problem is I am kinda poor and I don't have the money for an editor and the only place I was thinking of publishing the book was amazon because it's free and where I live it's very hard to publish a book. Assistant: There are quite a few established and quite successful writers who have dyslexia. That's what editors are for. Don't worry about it. If you have a story to tell, that's all that matters. So yes. Yes, you should.
Human: Should I write a book when I have dyslexia and ADHD? I have an idea about a book(even ideas of turning it into a series) but I believe because my grammar is bad and since I have ADHD and dyslexia. Biggest problem is I am kinda poor and I don't have the money for an editor and the only place I was thinking of publishing the book was amazon because it's free and where I live it's very hard to publish a book. Assistant: Same issues here, took me well over 8 years for one novel but it can be done. Don't give up.