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Anger when I see happy couples. ?

I get so angry , sad and depressed and then angry again. I try so hard to not get it to me but I lose often. 3 freaking women cheated on me and I'm still expected to trust because not all women cheate.Most of my life been to therapy or was getting cheated on when I thought life was going great. The loneliness gets to me. I stay busy but I want to share my life with a decent cute woman who wouldn't cheat. I went on a date on monday and she wanted to have sex after the date. I fucked her because hadn't been laid for a very long time.The way she was on top of me, the skills ! How does she have such refined perfect skill when she divorced from a sexless marriage a month ago? It wasn't pent up energy.What she did requires practice.I hate seeing couples next door when they spend their day doing mundane things together and still laughing. I hate it.It makes me angry.It's not that I didn't try.

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  • Pick your women wisely.

    It's not hard to see a fake. If it walks and talks like a duck then its probably a duck.

    Make yourself happy instead of hoping someone else can fix you , then you will be in a better state of mind to deal with a relationship.
  • How boring life would be if it arrived the way we thought. We expect to be a kid, go to school, date, go to college, date some more, graduate, get a job, get married, buy a house, have kids, be happy and then die.

    Instead we've given heartaches and troubles and turmoil and chaos and life becomes a big ball of misery. Unless we forget the bad things and remember the good things.

    Okay, so they cheated. It hurts. We all die a little inside every time but we don't die all the way. Instead, we pick ourselves up and try again.

    This time we're a little smarter, being a little more careful to choose character over tit size. We learn that the things we thought mattered in a partner don't really and the things we never dreamed of, those abstract things like honesty, loyalty, fidelity matter more as we grow older and wiser.

    Yes, other couple s are out enjoying life together BUT maybe he's cheating on her too or maybe this is a rare moment of happiness the two of them are sharing before their bickering begins again. You don't know, you can only imagine.

    I understand your hurt, the pain you're feeling BUT allow the bitterness, the loneliness, the anger to live inside you and it will manifest itself in every relationship you have from now on. You must say "freak it", it happened, it hurt but I'm not defeated.

    I say to myself, she cheated and then reply, so what? So what? The act itself was hurtful enough but me allowing it to bring me down is worse. I won't allow her to do that. I'll return stronger and better. My revenge will be her regret.

    You have two choices.... your bitterness or her regret.

    Choose one.
  • One cheater in a lifetime is more than someone can handle and you've been struck 3 times.It's not easy for you to get over even with therapy. I guess you are thinking that this recent woman you dated was sexually cheating on her ex. Very likely. Problem is what you can do ? Date slow, very slow. Early on people put their best foot forward and you need to see them what they do when temptation arrives.

    Character is something you ( not you here ) do when no one is watching. But it's a hard feat to find that out. Take it slow is all I can say.Sorry dude !

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