College Rejection

By Elizabeth…

My letter below will explain the circumstances of my sons case and the incident at hand. Please feel free to share taking out any names and personal information. In this letter I am updating the local newspaper I reached out to hoping to buy ad space in the local paper after hearing they changes their prior request for him to fulfill to attend the local community college. However, the contact at the newspaper declined to allow me to purchase an ad. This is my response and was also sent to the College.

I am writing to update you on the outcome of the hearing at Chipola college conducted for my son upon his re-application for admission. To refresh your memory, my son applied, and was fully accepted to Chipola Community College for the Summer semester of 2018. He was completely honest on the screening questions of his application, allowed to register and pay for classes and then on the eve of his attendance was asked to come in to admissions to discuss his class attendance. It was then explained to him that he would be allowed to attend classes on the campus despite his legal issues. However, the college classes were highly dependent on the Canvas Learning System that required internet access that his circumstances at the time did not allow. His classes were therefore cancelled, although he was in the process of requesting internet access. It was explained to him that once he regained permission for internet use, he could simply re-register for his classes. That was not the case. In addition to dropping him from his classes, they completely expunged his admission record without notifying him.
Within a few weeks he was granted full access to use the internet and with excitement, signed on to the college website to re-register, as instructed, but was surprised to find there was no record of his admission! Deciding this was inadvertent and with anticipation to start classes, he submitted his application once again. A few weeks went by with no response, so he began to call the college to inquire about his admissions application. His inquiries to the college went unanswered.
Feeling a sense of urgency, he decided to go in person to the college to inquire about the upcoming registration deadline. He was surprised, met with resistance, and was presented with completely new requirements for attendance. He was informed he would have to first attend a hearing of college administrators and law enforcement personnel. Although disappointed and nervous, he decided this was something he would have to face. After all, those in attendance were educated and would review his unique circumstances. Being advocates of “Higher Education,” certainly they would be inclined to help any motivated and qualified individual advance their learning and gain those skills necessary to help them be productive, independent and successful members of society. Surely this is the purpose of higher education, to benefit society by lifting people from poverty and dependency to independence and success. Or so he thought.
I was unable to attend the hearing as I am also a student of FSU in Tallahassee, but he assured me he was confident and positive that things would work out. His confidence grew from the positive interactions he had previously had with admissions, innocently naive to the fact they had been deceitful and were giving him the “run-around” for weeks; time he could have used to apply to other educational institutions. I too did not fully appreciate the rejection he had received, but rationally thought a hearing with a group of educated individuals in social, educational, and criminal justice issues would easily understand and advocate the proven path to lower recidivism rates for ANY and ALL crimes, which is to offer the offender a way back, develop meaningful social and community ties, encourage education, support employment, housing and other necessities, and facilitate independence and self sufficiency. Weeks later I was stunned to see this would not be the case!
There are no words to express the deep hurt and disappointment I feel toward those so entrusted to be stewards for the betterment of our children, community and yes, to some extent the world, by educating, supporting and encouraging the minds of our youth, and who, I feel, have failed miserably in their responsibilities.
My son took with him many positive and glowing character references. Among those were letters on his behalf from a Senator, a Lt Col (U.S. Air Force), a prominent civilian attorney, and former attorney within the Office of General Counsel of the Central Intelligence Agency, and a Legal Fellow of the Sex Offense Litigation and Policy Resource Center at Mitchell Hamline School of Law. In addition to many other letters of positive report, he openly shared his charges and exclusive details pertaining to his particular

case. Details such as he did NOT intentionally commit the alleged offense, and that the charged offense was NOT violent in nature. It should have been noticed that he was completely honest and forthright with everyone during the entire process. He did not, and does not, pose a threat to anyone, and had adjudication of guilt withheld (which is NOT a given or usual in cases of Nolo Contendere with these types of charges).
In closing, I want to share a few thoughts on the outcome and emphasize that my son NEVER intentionally committed these acts or lied to anyone throughout the entire legal process, nor to Chipola for that matter! Apparently these are rare and exceptional traits as the office of admissions administrator(s) of the college deceived my son about how easily obtainable approval to attend classes would be after simply regaining internet privileges. I whole heartedly believe the decision for his rejection to the college had been made the minute the college lied to him about his re-registration process, further evidenced by expunging his admission records without notification and then refusing to return his calls.
In addition, expanding on their egregious deceptions to a naive young man striving to better himself, they quickly convened a hearing knowing they would never allow his admission to move forward and used it instead to intimidate, embarrass and humiliate a young man looking for redemption and amelioration to better his life. Isn’t this the very essence of why our society hates those marked as SO?? Being programmed with a belief that “they all” intimidate, dehumanize, deceive and use their position of power and trust over their victims; over the helpless for their own sick pleasures? And yet this institution of higher learning apparently cultivates and displays these very characteristics!!
I find it ironic and sickening that those poised as educational leaders, are actually the ones guilty of these very transgressions due to their bloated sense of self righteousness. With complete apathy and arrogance, they’ve devastated a sincere young man who trusted their leadership and word, looked forward with hope and anticipation for the future, and presented an appeal with bended knee, requesting an opportunity to become something different than the horrible and devastating label he has been given! Even worse, how do we expect anyone to ever do better, if we impede every possibility of them doing so? Surely my son’s potential is greater than a youthful foley at age fifteen where he never knew or intended to harm anyone!
To say I am saddened and angered by the inquest is an understatement! I have thought to appeal their decision based on letters from his probation officer and his court mandated counselor, affirming in their minds that he is NOT a danger to fellow students or society! But I

no longer believe that the deep seated and dogmatic traditions displayed by Chipola College can be overcome by letters, extensive research, professional judgments or demonstrated facts. And what would it accomplish if I should fight and win? An organization so deeply flawed in its’ fundamentals would be full of excuses and constantly looking for ways to simply have him removed or otherwise obstruct his record as a matter of defensive pride and haughtiness. And therein itself lies the bigger problem, an institution engrained in the emotional fads and sensationalism of the dark ages, without light or vision for the future with respect to truly investigating, advancing or curing the ills and problems of modern society. But rest assured, our pride and arrogance can only last so long, then we have no recourse but to turn our roles and society over to the monsters we are creating. That will be our legacy to consider for eternity.
I apologize for taking so much of your time, but appreciate this opportunity to share my thoughts. I pray that the progressive change sweeping the country such as the “First Step Act” and electing DAs’ who strive to end mass incarceration and fruitless retribution, will someday make it’s sidle approach into the dark crevices of this college’s administration, considering that redemption and rehabilitation makes us all better and safer.

  1. What i dont understand is why is it not ok or against policy or law about colleges and sex offenders. There are zero children that go there. I mean are they afraid said people will gain more knowledge than them and that scares them.

  2. Your story sounds so familiar as I have a son in the same situation. He has not tried re-enrolling into a college yet, with only ONE class missing, to earn his degree. He was put on this awful, unfair, the list goes on, as you know, registry just last March 2018 and he hasn’t had the will power yet to even try. I fear for him for this very reason. I don’t think he could handle much more embarrassment , rejection, being made to feel like a freak then he is already experiencing trying to just live life. He too, never meant to hurt anyone. His situation does not involve a child, he was the child actually, and yet he has all the restrictions a child molester would have.

    Just wanted to let you know you’re not alone and we’ll keep praying that soon someone will hear our roar and do something about the Registry.

  3. Thank you for writing about this terrible experience. I know that your son is better off not attending that college, but have you talked to a civil rights lawyer? I think there is a valid case against what the college did. I may be wrong. I know all states have their own laws, but this sounds to me like this is an outright violation of civil rights.

    1. Unfortunately, universities (both public and private) are largely able to do as they please, since the only penalties which they can impose are administrative and civil (nit criminal).
      Of course is this is small comfort for someone who has been unjustly expelled.
      The only remedy is a private attorney, who usually ask fro $3500. just to review the case.

  4. Thanks for sharing. It gives me the motivation as a registered sex offender to keep pushing to change these laws. In no way are these laws put in place to protect families…in fact in many cases, they are put in place to tear them apart. My prayers are with you and your family. The judicial system will have to answer in due time. What’s done in the dark indeed comes to the light. I’m just thankful and I rest knowing that God is a just God. He is a fair God. He is a Good of second chances and he is the definition of love. Stay prayed up and don’t ever shut up.

  5. Such a wonderfully written story. Thank you for your passion and for standing so fervently by your son. I too wish to return to school but I fear I could not bear all the obstacles. I hope he never gives up.

  6. Thanks for sharing your story. Your son wants to do things the right way and is shunned for it. Its disgusting really

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