Are you willing to do the work?

Social skills- you’ve either got them or you don’t. You can talk to anyone with that million dollar smile and charismatic charm, or you mumble your way through life with your head down.

Or at least thats what we thought… we thought it was something you were born with, something like body structure or eye color. But the truth is, those who work hard consistently win out over those who are just naturally talented.

Social skills are exactly that. Skills. They can be practiced and learned much like anything else. You can teach yourself how to think about people, how to  present yourself, how to speak well, ask good questions, be tactful and avoid awkwardness. With effort you can develop an irresistible personality, and it's really only a question of whether you're willing to work at it.