How Many Partners Have You Really Slept With?

How Many Partners Have You Really Slept With?

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revealing the number of sexual partners You've been dating your girlfriend for over three months and you're dying to ask how many other men she has bedded before you. In fact, that question is probably itching her brain just as much.

So what will you do? Will you tell her the real number or opt to keep the peace and lie your smiley butt off? What about her? Do you think she'll tell the truth? Well, the sad fact remains that hardly anyone ever tells the truth in regards to their sexual past.

Why? What's the big deal, right? Wrong. No matter what people say, hearing that your girlfriend has bedded 17 men before you and she's only 23 years old, yeah, that's kind of a stretch (no pun intended). At the same time, hearing that a boyfriend has bedded over 30 women when he's only 25 is equally disturbing. Whether we like it or not, we'll end up defining what was once our cutie pie as not so "pure".

the truth has 100 legs

Isn't it strange that if a woman has slept with three partners, but was having sex three times a day in 15-month periods, that's fine? But if she has bedded 20 guys and had sex a total of 50 times, she's ho -rrible. So is honesty really the best policy in this case?

Upon discussing this with some of my female friends, they insisted that men have no right to ask that kind of question. But really, sex is the most sacred move that two people can make. Shouldn't sexual history count for something?

It's obvious that men and women in today's society regard sex differently from the way their parents viewed it. Unfortunately, we've begun to use sex as a tool for selling products, as a weapon, and as a cockeyed definition of love.

one-night lady

Would you take a woman seriously if you got to sleep with her on the first night? Probably not, it was too easy. If she made you wait for four months and, after you slept with her, she revealed that she had been with 20 men before you, would you still take her seriously?

And what about yourself? Would you honestly tell a woman that you had bedded over 20 women, or would you be ashamed? Because, although you claim that they were easy, I think it's safe to say that you were quite easy yourself.

Is keeping the truth to yourself your best bet (or hers)? Well, if you've been unsafe and haven't been checked out, then honesty is a must — and don't have sex with her and then tell her. The last thing you want to do is be responsible for someone else's downfall.

Find out if you should take a peak at her past...


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