Reader Lee writes in:

I am very happy and proud of becoming a GTD'er, and it makes life better (as you know).

The problem is, my wife is not a GTD'er. When I mow the lawn every week, she's watching TV. I'm cleaning and maintaining the pond daily, she's surfing the web. I find things to put away, organize or clean around the house almost daily and she's stressing over the things she feels like she needs to get done - but not really doing anything about it. It's beginning to bother me; I feel like I am contributing to the 'household' more than she. Don't get me wrong, I've been there, I used to always worry and stress about the things I felt I needed to do, instead of just doing them. We all know actually starting the project is the hardest part.

This is kind of a touchy subject, but it's not the first time a reader has written in with a similar question, so I'm thinking that this might be something that readers have encountered before. Lee and I are curious: How does a GTD'er inspire/encourage their partner to create the same feeling of accomplishment and pride as we GTD'ers do? Give us your thoughts in the comments or at tips at