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WWYD? Cop raped my friends date-Very Long

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Posted 02/17/2013

I call bullshit.  His story doesn't make sense.  The police are by law obligated to investigate if you do to their department and report that one of their own committed a crime.   I've worked in a law enforcement a long fucking time and this is just utter bullshit.  Not only would they be shitting their pants to handle this, but they have their image to protect and the DA would be all over this.  It doesn't matter of she didn't get a rape kit (best thing to do btw) or go immediately to the police.  Fact is, when you report a possible felony as this girl and K did, it has to be investigated by law.  Simple.

Posted 02/17/2013
I agree going to a lawyer looks shady until you remember that she was raped by a cop. Then it makes perfect sense. I mean, I wouldn't be super eager and trusting of cops after that either. If there was an alternative I might try that too.
Posted 02/17/2013
I would have never known to go to the hospital to get a rape kit. Learned something new. I also see it being difficult for them to go to police right away, for fear of trusting authority, though I sure would've. Actually, right away I would have argued with the cop who arrested them that he can't do anything because of the "entrapment" he used with no lights/headlights. I agree that i think all you can do is convince her to report it A.S.A.P.
Posted 02/17/2013
You didn't know about rape kits?


Posted 02/17/2013
No, I had no idea.
Posted 02/17/2013

My mom works in the criminal justice field and is surrounded by police officers daily. One officer was super nice, even came to my class and did a whole stranger danger presentation. He was the kind of person you looked forward to talking to, very kind and compassionate, good at his job, funny, etc. She worked with this man for 9 years. Then he took a different job with  the sheriff's department. One night he pulled a woman over for suspected drunk drinking. He told her if she would perform oral sex on him, he would let her off. She decided oral sex trumped a DWI arrest. As soon as she finished she drove to the police and filed a report. It went to trial and he lost. He is now a painter. It can and does happens.

To answer your question, I don't think there is much you can do other than offer your friendship and support.

Posted 02/17/2013

I don't actually have trouble believing the story, because there have been cases in the news just like this. The guy could have been a cop, or he could have been posing as a cop. The girl should have gone to the hospital for a rape kit. The fact that she didn't is going to make it a lot harder to pursue it now. In any case, if the police don't want to pursue it, she should go to a different police agency than the one the guy said he was from (state instead of local, etc.) and see if she gets better results.

Posted 02/17/2013
I dislike these kinds of threads because a few people will always take the opportunity to question and victim-blame. I mean, we are hearing this from a distant 3rd party so we obviously don't have the details to dissect it appropriately. Why not give her the benefit of the doubt? Is it really so far-fetched? Some people, like PP, really don't know the "right" thing to do in these situations. That doesn't make them liars.
Posted 02/17/2013
I'm just going to throw this out there is it possible that the girls slept with the cop in exchange for getting off with no charges
Posted 02/17/2013
Thank you Allouette. My thoughts exactly.

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