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I Hate My Friends Because I Can't Identify Myself With Them.

You know the age old saying "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are." Well, what happens when your "friends" aren't exactly people that you wanna hang out or be affiliated with, but just people you hang out with by default. There's this one friend that I've known for 4 years and even after knowing her for less than a year I hated her. I was hoping the feeling would go away and it does, but for only a little while. The feeling is back with vengeance this year as well. I can't stand her and now she's planning on having our graduation party together. Again, I hate what she's planning for it! She wants to add a whole bunch of Japanese drummers and a huge ballroom for a whole bunch of guests, mostly people I don't know! I don't want to be her friend, but then if I'm not her friend, my other friends will turn on me, which doesn't make them great friends in the first place, but I just need them around until I can find other friends that suit my personality and don't give the "WTF?" face when I speak in different languages.
taecsarang1220 taecsarang1220 16-17 4 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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Cut her off, anyway. If your other "friends" hate you, then screw them! Trust me, it's better to have no friends than "friends" that you don't like.

I hate my classmates!!! They call my attention if they need a thing, money or whatever is that.. im sitting alone in the right corner of huge space in our room... sometimes i cry... am i sh*t?? there was a time that they invite me into a b-day party... when we are all finish eating.. they are all singing in karaoke... im sitting alone.. after a minute, they are all singing a gay song.. i dont know what was that.. they bullying me for a half an hour.. i dont know what im gonna do.. i cant stand where im sitting..<br />
when im home.. thank to God im alone.. i cry to much...

I know what you mean. I have a friend that i just can't stand. Its not that we fight, it's just that her personality is...i dunno...halfway between annoying and pointless i guess, and she has a way of making EVERYTHING akward. Like voicing her opinion about her favorite flavor of ice cream. She says it in a way that makes it seem like you'll judge her and hate her forever if she chooses wrong. It doesn't help that my other friend is one of those people who thinks the more gross words in a sentence the cooler it sounds. Sadly, i have my own problems so they are the only friends i have.

My friends are like that. I had this one friend, who has been my friend since primary school, and now that it's nearly the end of school, he thinks that because I'm going to uni, I'm a nerd or whatever