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58 / M / Straight / Single

Lawrence, KS

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:40pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
It isn't my way to say how great I am, but I'm happy with who I am, what I've accomplished and, for the most part, where I'm headed.

Where is the line between being confident and being a jerk? I think I've been pretty successful, but that is not the most important thing about me.
What I’m doing with my life
Finding the things you enjoy and are good at makes life a lot more fulfilling. Computers are that thing, but it is only a small part of who I am.

It takes a while to get to town, and I have things out here to keep me busy--trimming trees and bushes, taking care of the yard, this may be the year I'll put in a garden.

I take photos, write, have a blog, am always learning new things. I'm interested in lost of things. But I'm not always rushing here and there.

I'm in the process of getting my passport, don't know why I haven't before now--well, actually I do.

For the most part I prefer interesting, out of the way places to crowded, touristy places.
I’m really good at
Listening. Understanding the perspective of others.
Keeping calm in a crisis. Taking charge when necessary.
Keeping an open mind.
Finding unconventional solutions to conventional problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I move like a Ninja, they aren't supposed to notice.

The second thing might be that I don't take silly questions too seriously.

The third thing might be my sense of humor.

The fourth thing might be that I only read instructions when working with dangerous stuff, and I usually avoid dangerous stuff.

(Was I supposed to stop at one?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read much fiction anymore, but I enjoy a well written book, pretty much regardless of the subject, unless the subject is something like American Idol or Survivor.

Most food, especially seafood and pasta.

Old movies, thrillers.

Classic rock, some classical, sometimes pop, whatever that is these days.
The six things I could never do without
  • My family. My sons.

  • My relationship with them has changed over the years in ways that are different and better than I ever would have imagined.

  • Wikipedia

  • Evidently I can do without someone soft and warm to wake up next to in the morning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is the world crazy, or am I?

Why is there air?
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to think that I don't have "typical" Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am way better looking in person....

Well, maybe not, but I am way funnier in person....

Well, maybe not that either, but I am definitely more talkative in person!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–61
  • Near me
You should message me if
You're not any crazier than me. Well, at least not much.

You really want something different in your life. I'm not "just another guy".

You're interest in "stuff": Nature, stars, tadpoles, why people do the things they do...

You're not already perfect. I'm not, so we would never get along. However if you're trying to improve a little each day...

You tend to use "..." in your sentences a lot.