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35 / M / Straight / Single

Cypress, TX

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:26pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm have simple needs, but complex thoughts and desires. I'm an easy to get along with person, but I'm full of contrasting thoughts and actions, such as being the person with a happy-go-lucky, carefree type of personality, but having no issue saying dark, cynical things that most people are uncomfortable talking about. Most people seem to view me as the witty guy with clever jokes in their circle of friends. I like authenticity, and there's a pretty good chance that no matter how hot you look in your pro shot modeling or bridesmaid photo, that the photo that made me say hello was you just being yourself.

I'm that guy that is completely comfortable on a business trip going around and meeting people and doing things without pause or judgement, just to have an experience at least once. Doing so has granted me friends of all types across the world. I like variety in my friends and things to do. If you aren't open-minded about travel, people, and life experiences, to be honest, there is a extremely slim chance we'll survive in a relationship very long.

I'm an autodidact who enjoys the ideals of ataraxia and equanimity. This means that I'm constantly curious about all types of things, and you shouldn't be surprised if I ask a fairly direct questions, just for the sake of wanting to know the answer. Yes, some of the things I'll ask are the things that many people may judge you about, or you might be embarrassed about. A majority of the time, I'm not trying to pass judgement, its just a random thought that popped in my mind. Many strangers and friends have confided their deepest, darkest secrets with me based on this.

I enjoy time around water, such as kayaking, boating and swimming. I'm quite interested in learning SCUBA and yes, I can't wait for the chance to do a dive in a shark cage.

I like to spend spare time with my friends socializing over a few drinks at a pub, or doing something like a group cookout at someone's house, be it tailgating, a fish fry, seafood boil, or a BBQ. I enjoy a good night of tabletop games, such as Cards Against Humanity, Fluxx, Spades, Monopoly, Risk (just to name a few).

I'm not a sports all-the-time person, but if my teams are in the playoffs, you'll find me fully enthralled in the television, specifically hockey and football, and to a lesser degree soccer and world rally.

At this point I'm looking to spend time with someone for an occasional night out, but I am open to progressing in to something more if there is chemistry.

I have a general attitude that going out for the first time doesn't have to be some elaborate dating song and dance loaded with expectations, and that it should be looked at more as just a night out to get to know someone else, because frankly, I think you get to know someone a lot better when you can act natural and not try to put on that extra shiny layer of bull that comes with dates. I'd rather know your flaws and faults up front and be able to make the call on if its something I can handle long term than to go through the shallow motions of an extravagant evening filled with small talk and white lies.
What I’m doing with my life
Sounds like this area has to do with goals and work-ish stuff. Life goals currently are to trim up and create a start up business. So far I've dropped about 20 lbs., and the framework on the business is looking promising. My pay the bills work is computer related, and I have side projects as an indie producer, food writer, and a boardmember for a non-profit that keep my creative juices flowing.
I’m really good at
* Taking things that people have overcomplicated and boiling it down to something that's easy to solve.

* Keeping a calm and collected head when everyone else is in complete, crap themselves, chaos mode.

* Double entendre.
The first things people usually notice about me
It depends on the person. Friends tend to tell me its that I seem to be able to talk about anything, girls tend to tell me they love my mischievous smirk.

Honestly I'm not too worried about it all. There is a good chance your family and your pets won't mind having me around, so I'm guessing I make a decent first impression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In all of these areas I'm so eclectic that I'd end up making an entire profile just on these subjects. I really enjoy music of most every type, and if I could, I would hire a personal DJ just to follow me around to give me a soundtrack for life.
The six things I could never do without
1. Flip Flops - Any chance I can get, this is what's on my feet.

2. Internet - I love the instant gratification of being able to look up anything I want at any time.

3. Good company - Watching paint dry can be fun as long as it's with the right people.

4. Supportive family and friends - These are the people that keep me using my brain for good instead of evil.

5. Nature - When my head is on tilt, somehow the ocean or the mountains and the animals around me seems to help me get my head back in the game.

6. Serendipity - I love it when a non-plan comes together.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pick something and I think about it a lot. I think about a lot of things, usually as extensions of what I'm reading at the moment.

What the world would be like if there were more sapiosexual women.

Why OKC seems to send me quiver matches that are nearly the opposite of my normal search criteria. It's like the little robot guy just wants to drive you in to submitting to his will.
On a typical Friday night I am
Who knows these days... it varies so much. One of these scenarios, in no particular order:

Stay home and veg out
Road trip
Have mild night with friends with families
Have wild night with friends that don't
Attend an artsy event
Attend a community event
Work on projects
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Generally, I'm a fairly private person and I don't offer up much unless I'm asked. Once asked, I'm a fairly open book, so if there's something you want to know, go ahead and ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
You should message me if
It seems like, for whatever random reason, I get a lot of attention from women with a Masters or a Doctorate degree, so I'll just throw it out there that if you have one of those, maybe I'm your guy.

If you've gotten this far down the profile and have a slightly warm and fuzzy feeling about getting to know more about who I am, then hit me up with a note. I don't need anything elaborate, just say hello and we'll go from there.

You get bonus points if:
- You knew what sapiosexual meant when you read it or at least took the time to Google it and evaluate its meaning before thinking I was a d-bag.
- You know how to KCCO
- You prefer me with the beard

If you read this far, I've got a bonus secret for you... I'm actually 5'8", contrary to what I put in my searchable stats.