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    Sorry, the internet is big and I'm not comfortable putting personal info out there :) I've been around for awhile and I'm waiting for marriage!

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  1. Taking a break

    Hey everyone! It's possible no one would have noticed this anyway, but I've decided to take a break from this site. I don't know when or if I'll be back. (Though I'm assuming I will be or I would have put "leaving" instead of "taking a break.") There are a lot of reasons for this but I don't really feel like getting into it. Good luck with everything!
  2. Responding to messages

    Hey Guys! If someone you were interested in Facebook Messaged you would you make a point to message them back or does it not really mean anything? Context: I was messaging this guy and we went back and forth for awhile but now I haven't heard from him in about a week. I'm wondering if this means anything. Obviously ever one is different, but what do you think. I messaged him again just to make sure he didn't look at it then forget to reply later. (I've totally done this.) But he never responded to anything. Thanks Edti: It's not someone on this site. Lol I'm not tying to guilt trip anyone into answering
  3. I saw this article and while I don't do all of these things most of them definitely hit home lol http://thoughtcatalog.com/christopher-hudspeth/2013/03/10-ways-shy-people-flirt/
  4. Heck if I know! I do not know how to flirt. I'm to the point now where I just want to be like "yo, I'm an okay person and I don't think I'm ugly you should go out with me." Except I'm not near brave enough Stupid anxiety! Ps. Sorry, I know that was far from helpful!
  5. Fun Thread!

    "Recent investigations at an elite prep school in Massachusetts reveal that sex is a routine part of life among the students: "Group sex acts were just like showering together after practice," write the authors of Restless Virgins. Well then!
  6. I'd be willing to marry someone who had a different religion or who didn't have a religion at all. There are some religions/subgroups that if he was one of them I probably wouldn't marry him. Not because of religion but because some of their other beliefs go against mine. The same is true of some other Christians though. I wouldn't be able to marry a Christian who was against gay marriage/thought it was a sin. (There are others that's just the main one I thought of.)
  7. Asking the parent

    And now I've got this song stuck in my head
  8. Asking the parent

    I would be furious if the man I planned on spending my life with asked my family for permission. In all honesty I would probably reconsider my relationship with him if he did that. Part of that is because I would tell him beforehand that I would not be happy if he asked them before me. If he chose to do it anyway there are some serious issues. I am not a possession for them to give away. It is my decision and they do not get a say in what would make me happy. I have so many more feelings on this but I can't seem to put them into words. With all that being said I'm not against for everyone else. If that is what a girl needs to be comfortable and happy then by all means go for it! Edit: I found more words. For me asking permission means that as a woman I am not "qualified" to make this decision for myself. You wouldn't see a woman asking a man's family permission to marry him so do not tell me I am less than him by requiring it for me but not him.
  9. For the Strong, Independent Women:

    I don't know if I intimidate guys. (I almost hope so because that would at least explain why I've never been asked out.) I do know that when I'm with my good friends I come off as super confident and (as I've been told multiple times) cynical and sarcastic. On the flip side I have high social anxiety so I can barely look at someone let alone talk to them if I'm in a social situation. I pretty much expect to be alone forever
  10. How likely are you to call a guy if he gives you his number...

    Talking on the phone gives me severe anxiety, so I don't think I would be able to call him. The nerves of talking to him combined with the nerves of just talking on the phone would send me completely over the edge. I would prefer him text me to start. (I realize this is probably the opposite of what most "date" sites say, but this is what would make me most comfortable.) If he did call and I knew it was him (because I don't answer for numbers I don't know) I would answer, but it still wouldn't be my preference.
  11. There is a big difference between initial attraction and working with someone for two years. I can't speak for all girls, but if I spent two years working with someone and they weren't attracted to me I would be very hurt and angry if we started dating and I found that out. If we started doing things as friends and he became attracted then we could start dating, but I do not want to date someone who isn't attracted to me.
  12. Kids...deal breaker?

    I can honestly say that I would not have an issue with it at all. If it were an issue where he wasn't involved with them I would have more of an issue. I would also prefer it (from a purely selfish standpoint) if the mother were not involved just because it seems like it would be a harder, more confusing transition for them. If the mother were involved though or had primary custody I still think we could figure something out.
  13. What Impresses You?

    Compassion is probably the most important thing to me.
  14. Must've done something wrong, I get 105 the next time...that seems slightly more realistic lol
  15. I got over 2 thousand...am I doing something wrong?!