Häkki has an etiquette to ensure relaxed but safe atmosphere within our community and events. If you notice anyone breaking the rules, we ask you to kindly inform about this to the board members or the person organizing the event.

  1. We want to make sure that there’s a confidential mood within our association. You aren’t allowed to spread information about the identities or private matters of our members or the participants in our events to outsiders. Everyone has the right to choose what information they want to share about themselves with other members.
  2. We do not condone judgmental discourse. Everyone has the right to themselves and their opinions.
  3. Respect other’s private space. In other words, don’t grope or get too close if not invited to do so.
  4. We do not condone behavior that is based on assumptions about other people’s preferences. For example hurting someone on the assumption that they would be into it.
  5. If you run into a member of our association outside of our events, you should not approach them in a way that would reveal any information against their will about their sexual identity to others.
  6. Rules will vary depending on the event and we will inform about those separately if needed. The participant is responsible to act according to the rules.
  7. Primarily we will always follow the separate rules for the locale in question. For example breathplay, breaking skin (with any tool) and using fire in a session is strictly prohibited without a permission from the event organizer. If you aren’t sure which activities are allowed, ask first.
  8. You are not allowed to take pictures in our events. Always ask for a permission to take any pictures within our events and make sure no one who doesn’t want to be in the picture, doesn’t end up in one.
  9. Every member of our association and participant of our events is responsible for themselves and their actions. Anyone breaking the rules mentioned here could be fire from the association with out a separate warning. The event organizer also have the right to remove any persons whose behavior is found disruptive.