The Life Coach - Coach - Articles 2018-08-10T11:07:00+01:00 The Life Coach - Coach 2018-08-10T11:07:00+01:00 2018-08-16T10:52:01+01:00 How to increase your ROI on life Skyler Shah Will You Start to Care 100% Again?

Take yourself back to a time when you were younger, possibly quite a lot younger. Think of one of the first crushes you had, or a band that you just LOVED. That was real. You might look back on it now and think, "Oh how silly", equally you might look back with rose tinted glasses and adore the innocent and happy person in that vision.

Nostalgia aside however, there is something very useful about that time for you, today. This was your first. You weren't afraid of feeling 100%, or caring 100%, or being a raving lunatic about the new album 100% because you didn't know what it felt like for that feeling to be broken.

Track this forward a little to the next set of love, caring and artists. Is that a little less intense? Move forward still. 


What you might find is that there is a decline in how much you actually invest, and how much you might believe you have to give. You don't fall so hard in love, or faint when you hear your favourite song anymore. 

This is great, no more heartbreak and looking ridiculous right? That's what life's afforded you, the insight to not BE IN IT 100% so you can't get screwed over, because god knows you've been screwed over. You've failed, been rejected and had to work so hard.

But just think for a moment, about what your life now could be like if you actually gave 100%, without having to work hard, you were just investing yourself fully into something. A feeling, an idea, a project, a person. 

Do you think you'd be living the way you are now? Earning what you earn now? Being as stressed and as tired as you are now? Reaching for that extra glass of wine at the end of the day? My evidence shows, probably not.

I don't want for you, or anybody, to beat about the bush with their life just walking through it, so I won't. Wake up, live and be alive, and make sure that if you don't start your day with, "FUCK YEAH I'M SO EXCITED", that you fix it. You only have yourself to look to on this. 

Change this.

Skyler Shah is a highly regarded life coach who specialises in emotional gardening. Cutting away all of the dead, ineffective and heavy behavioural patterns and psychology and encouraging you to grow and flourish in the direction you most desire. He works with top executives, celebrities, business owners and creatives.

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Oi, you! Be MORE selfish 














]]> 2018-05-11T12:30:00+01:00 2018-05-11T12:30:30+01:00 My TED Talk: How to Live Your Dream Skyler Shah

One of the most frightening things to do is be you, really you. We feel deep down an emptiness that we don’t quite understand, but we know with conviction and certainty, that what we are doing, where we work and how we live isn’t what we really want to do.

In fact what we really, really want is simply to be happy. In this exciting talk with Skyler, you will explore how to live a fulfilled and happy life, and create YOUR purpose.

The phrase, ‘The sky is the limit’ is a fine example of underestimating your potential to Skyler; who on a daily basis works with ‘incredible and inspiring individuals’ to achieve the things they have only dreamed they can do. Creating, ‘Unique, Mind-blowing, Life-changing Intensives’ Skyler takes his clients on adventures, doing and creating amazing things to positively shake their world, and destroy their limitations.

As a Success/Prosperity Coach, he believes the most powerful way to do anything is to come from where you're going, to begin by having fun, being fulfilled and truly happy; a place where all of those who work with him start their journey.

Whether it’s creating purpose, living at 100%, earning more, or working less. Nothing is impossible. To share this knowledge, Skyler has dedicated himself to serving others, so that they too can experience this reality in their own lives."


If you would like to speak with me about this topic or another, you can reach me here. 


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Fear: How To Do It And Not Ruin Your Life

Fear is one of the most dominant aspects of our lives. What might have, in the past, been predominantly an emotion is now a verb that is commonly enacted. And often, it is unnecessary.

We fear for so much. We fear that one day we will die. We fear that our jobs could go as, ‘the climate is unstable.’ Most of the time the things we fear about are fabrications; things that may or may not be true, or irrelevant concerns over the future. Of course there may be a chance that you could, at some point, lose your job. But why worry when you have no real indicator to stimulate this? And one day you will die, as we all will. You are not able to change that, so embrace it. Don’t let your fears hold you back and prevent you from venturing beyond the safe and known. Live. Live your life as you believe it should be lived. Take the things that you can be certain of and make good with the knowledge.

“How do I get rid of the fear?”

Alas, this is the wrong question.



Fear is not the enemy. Paralysis is the enemy.

Seth Godin


Fear is however, a natural part of our lives and our psyche. We fear that if we cross the road we may be killed, so to stay alive, we stay alert. Fear is not a bad thing, it keeps our hearts beating. Sometimes it even reminds us of why we are living. It’s how we use it that is potentially dangerous.

I fear you may not have fully grasped the magnitude of fear’s involvement in your life. Have a look at your relationship with fear, and decide if you want to stop worrying, and as the popular saying goes, ‘start living’.

If you do, that potential is a click away.