Are You Waiting on Validation?


The same crowd that will cheer you on is the same crowd that will boo you. You should never depend on people (even your loved ones) to give you a standing ovation. Now you might say, HUH? He has really lost his mind, but I speak truth to you. Do you have God in you? Well of course you do, then you have an untapped power, that can move mountains and tear down walls.

I want to put you back in touch with your divinity. You carry it around with you everywhere you go, and when you connect with it you do not “need” the validation of man. You are self validating. Repeat after me I-AM-SELF-VALIDATING. Now the reason why I put emphasis on need is because as humans to have validation from other would be nice. BUT if I don’t get it, it won’t stop me.

We often give people too much of our power, no one person’s words, money, support, love or the lack thereof should make or break your strive to your purpose. We are so empty, that we live for the validation of man, even if we know that means the risk of being hurt or mistreated. This is a vicious cycle that we continually fall into time after time.

What you should focus on doing is learning to give to yourself what you would need and desire from others. No one, and I mean no one, can lift you up like you can.

Are you void of support and validation? Look in the mirror and give it to yourself. Void of Love? Love yourself! This will create a healing and a wholeness that will transmigrate to every part of your life. You will then start attracting people to you, that don’t want your power, but instead want to assist you in empowering yourself!


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