12 Secrets of a Happy, Healthy Marriage

Find out what science says will lead to a successful bond.


By Charles Schmitz, M.D., and Elizabeth Schmitz, M.D., for YourTango

While there's no way to guarantee a marriage will last a lifetime, there are certain factors that can increase the odds. Check out these science-backed predictors that your relationship will stand the test of time:

1. You Tie the Knot After Age 25
Couples who are older than 25 when they marry are far more likely to stay married than those who get married at a younger age. That's because the experience and wisdom that comes with age contributes to the success of a marriage.

2. You Walk Down the Aisle With a Stable Job
Individuals who earn over $50,000 per year have a drastically lower risk of divorce than those who make under $25,000 per year. And it makes sense: People who have a steady job and income face fewer pressures than those who are financially dependent, which means less strain on their relationships.

3. You Have a College Degree
Not only are college-educated women more likely to get married than their less educated counterparts, but they're more likely to have marriages that last. That's because education tends to increase your tolerance of other people's views—and that's critically important in successful relationships.

4. You Productively Fight With Your Partner
All married couples argue. But as long as you fight fair (i.e., you show and feel respect during arguments, and you never say personal, hurtful things) it's completely healthy. However, if you hide your feelings or let the anger fester, you may be heading down a path that could ruin your relationship.  

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