A woman has asked whether she should tell a family friend's fiancée that he is paying her for X-rated videos online.

The lady took to Reddit to ask other social media users their opinion on the tricky situation, and whether her friend was cheating on his partner.

The poster, known as throwRA_OFUSC on Reddit, said she creates adult content online under a pseudonym.

Despite this, a family friend has found her online and has since been paying her for custom, private videos.

The woman, aged 24, wanted advice on whether people thought she should tell his partner what he is up to.

She wrote: "So I have been making NSFW videos of myself for a few years for extra cash for school.

Man holding smartphone showing a sexy photo of a female body in lingerie
The lady creates adult content online under a pseudonym

"A few of my very, very close female friends know about it, but otherwise it's not something I share with people in my real life.

"I started doing it when I was 20, and I've gained a small following. It's something I do on and off on various platforms, but more frequently I make custom or private videos for people who have been following me for a long time.

"I am very careful to stick to my fake name and persona, as well as only connect throwaway email addresses to the platforms I use."

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Her engaged family friend found her online and has since been paying her for custom, private videos

She continued: "A couple years ago, my older brother's best friend stumbled upon one of my platforms. He recognised me, and started paying me via my platforms for premium content.

"I had a conversation with him on my real Instagram to tell him that it was fine if he stuck around, but he could not share with my family or anyone associated what I do for money.

"Additionally, not to use my real name or any of my real identifiers (age, university, location, major, etc) in groups on my platforms. He agreed. Fine. At the time, I knew he had a girlfriend, but I considered it like any of my other viewers/clients - I am not responsible for it."

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The woman asked whether she should tell his partner about the videos

The woman said her brother's friend soon started requesting private videos - and paying a hefty chunk of money for them too.

She added: "While he initially used the links on my platforms to pay me, he started paying me through my personal venmo account.

"Additionally, he started talking to me on my personal social media about school, politics, my life, whatever.

"He sends me videos of him jacking off to my videos to my personal snapchat, saying my real name. Obviously, I should have set a clearer boundary - and I know that now."

Young sexy woman wearing lingerie
Some warned her the man could seek revenge if she revealed what he's been up to

The woman said she 'let things go' as the money was good at the time, although he has now started requesting videos over her personal - which she has fulfilled.

She concluded: "This has been going on for about a year and a half, and he is now engaged. I feel icky.

"He's interacting with me as a person, not my created persona. Is this cheating? Should I tell her?"

Many people warned the woman that the guy could retaliate if she told his fiancée what was going on.

One wrote in the comments section: "I’d be less worried about his fiancée, and more worried about yourself. Everything this dude has done is practically setting you up for blackmail. I wouldn’t be surprised if he has a folder of your content with a list of people to send it to if anything inconvenient happened between you two."

Another added: "While I do think his fiance deserves to know, you're very open to retaliation from him at this point, and I don't trust someone who showed himself so willing to bulldoze past your boundaries not to seek out revenge. Be careful."

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A third chimed in: "The way this guy has repeatedly violated the boundaries you originally set up says a lot about his character. His cheating or not is honestly less important than your boundaries and safety, OP. I can easily see him blowing things up on you, especially if you tell the fiancée."

Despite this, some still urged her to tell the man's partner, with one writing: "She deserves to know. If they both agreed its okay then it’s not really cheating. But most couples agree not to do stuff like that so it’s very possible he’s cheating."