Why are girls so extremely attracted to guys that don't care about what other people think about them?

Guys that have a "don't give a f***" attitude, mindset, people that never seek approval from others, they live their life for themselves, not for others, examples are "stop letting women have so much power over you..and how you feel about yourself. Get your self worth and reassurance from your family and friends..not women. Figure out who you are...and establish your own self confidence..that nobody can challenge or take from you. Have confidence in who you are..what you have done...where you are going..and what you will do in the future."

"As for jumping in a relationship, try to get to the point where you don't validate yourself through a girlfriend, they kick ass, but you have all you need to be happy in yourself man."

“When you are happy and content with what and who you are, the women will come."

"Bad boys do not NEED attention from the woman they are with. They want it while at the same time they can live without it"

"Bad boys have an "I don't care" attitude, and they really don't care. They have experienced the triumph of tragedy in life on a level that far surpasses that of a good boy, and don't need a woman to validate their existence in any way."

"They love guys who are comfortable in their own skin and confident with who they are. "

Seriously, it makes me really angry, pisses me off, that girls, women have these standards, requirements, etc. I hate it, why are us guys always judged on our character, or almost all the time, our attitude, mindset, personality, confidence, since confidence is a mental thing, I hate how being a push-over, doormat, letting people walk over you is a thousand, million, billion, trillion times worse if you are a guy, most guys don't care if a girl is like that however it always matters to a girl if a guy is like that even if the guy looks like Brad Pitt, David Beckham, Channing Tatum, Taylor Lautner, Cristiano Ronaldo, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Tom Brady, or a GQ Model, if he exhibits any of the typical "nice-guy" behavior's, he will get rejected instantly.
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Basically, us guys have to stand out from other guys, girls don't have to stand out from other girls, Women don't love Bad Boys per se. They love men who love life and are unapologetic about it. Women love rock musicians because they have fun. They love men with motorcycles because they're fun. They love men who sense life's possibilities because they're fun. They love men who see every freaking day as a potential adventure because they're fun. In other words, see all the work we guys have to do
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"In other words, they love men who have some kind of guiding passion and aren't terrified of their shadows. The aforementioned men who paint dungeons and dragons figurines on their Saturday nights are not fun." It's like it always has to come down to a guy's character, attitude, mindset, his way of talking, conversations, social-skills, body-language, that determine his success with girls, that what girls use to judge him if he is boyfriend material or not, not fair at all.
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why do I have this few answers!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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