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ESFP + ENTJ relationships, compatibility

ENTJ - ESFP relationships are often not very easy. The reasons why this match is not an ideal one are many and I will try to list them in this article along with some positive things in this relationship. Some of the drawbacks and incompatibilities in this relationship are: The intuitive leap ESFPs dislike theory and complexities. They often resist forming relationships which require them to function on a high intuitive or thinking level. ENTJs are obviously intuitive thinkers and that is the core and pride of their personality, so this is a fundamental incompatibility that will make it very hard to go beyond a platonic relationship into a deeper connection. Resolving conflict ENTJs like to resolve conflict by confronting the issue as soon as possible, having the future of the relationship in mind, but ESFPs are likely to ignore or escape conflict situations rather than face them. This is because ESFPs find it hard to stay calm when in conflict so they’d rather avoid

ESTP + ENTJ relationships, compatibility, dating

These two types usually get along great. Lets see why... Similarities ESTPs and ENTJs have quite a lot of things in common. At first sight one might even confuse the two types. They both usually have a “larger than life” attitude, both are prone to thrill seeking, have good people skills, are not personally threatened by conflict or criticism and both are cool headed in emergency situations. These two types are usually not at conflict with each other and there is ground for a fun relationship between them. A “buddy” relationship is almost bound to form between an ESTP and ENTJ of the same sex if they’re exposed to each other for a sufficient amount of time. Love relationships However, an ESTP male and an ENTJ female could face some trouble in a love relationship because ESTP males don’t usually seek out dominant women for a relationship and an ENTJ woman might be just “too much” for them. In a reversed situation (ENTJ male, ESTP female) the relationship is usually easier. T

ENTJ + ENTJ relationships, compatibility

These kinds of relationships are usually harmonious, for obvious reasons of similarity. In the end, it’s only logical that you will find common ground with a person who is almost the same as you. Of course that doesn’t mean every ENTJ will get along with every ENTJ, because there are many other factors in relationships besides personality traits. Sometimes this kind of combination can even produce a rivalry, but if identical partners feel a mutual attraction to each other their relationship can turn into a soulmate experience. The good: - lots of interesting debates - solving problems rationally - no need to adjust your behavior for the other person; you can be yourself and the other person can understand - a life of structure and order, no ambiguity - sympathy towards each other because you can identify with a similar person more easily - self-evaluation through basically watching a different version of yourself The bad: - with two extroverts in a relationship, espe