How do sexist movies affect boys?

I got this comment from Clare:






4 thoughts on “How do sexist movies affect boys?

  1. This article is not addressing the key aspect of this culture’s problem, which is: boys are ALLOWED to bully their way to the top and encroach on others’ ideas/beliefs in order to let theirs become most prevelent. Male rudeness is acceptable, as indicated by “cat” in the above comment.

    Why does this article (and so many Barbie-criticizing analyses over the years) conclude by criticizing the “pinkness” and “cutely” nature of girl toys and films while simultaneously ignoring the macho males muscling their way into the center of attention?

    The problem is not so much that girls are stuck on the sideline as they are PUSHED there by the other gender. I want to hear more articles analyzing the sexism in Avengers, Lord of the Rings, Dark Knight, UP, and Paranorman, (to name a few. And yes, as much as culture refuses to acknowledge it, these films are sexist and greatly misrepresent both males and females.)

    • Oh, no. Didn’t you hear, Jake? Joss Whedon writes strong female characters. (sarcasm)

      I know Scarlett Johansson was off doing Cat on a Hot Tin Roof but I’m surprised more people didn’t comment on her absence during the Oscars (as I’m sure the entire world didn’t know she was doing a play at the time and her absence was really felt with all those men on stage together).

      The trailers for Epic have started appearing. At the moment the only female characters I can see are the ones played by Amanda Seyfried and Beyonce. As far as I can tell there are a lot of faceless characters involved in a conflict but they all appear to be male. I hope this is not the case because it doesn’t just send the message that male is the default but that male is the default in that setting (war, wilderness, etc.). A female protagonist playing the fish out of water in a violent male environment? *face palm*

  2. I also have 2 boys, and like Clare I also struggle with finding programs for my older son (age 4) to watch that aren’t sexist (the younger is only 1 and doesn’t sit still long enough to watch anything, so I’m safe with him for a little while longer 😉 My 4-year old does like shows with female leads, like Doc McStuffins, but there are so few out there. You have long said that boys watch “boy” stuff” because it’s the only thing out there. Based on what I’ve seen of my own son’s viewing/playing habits, I completely agree with you. If there were more movies and tv programs with female characters doing cool stuff, my son would absolutely watch it.

    One of the reasons I come to this site is to find ideas for books and other media that feature strong female characters. I want my sons to grow up with plentiful examples of empowered, cool, strong females to help counteract some of the crap to which they will inevitably be exposed. So, thanks for what you do.

  3. THANK YOU. That was a very nice way of articulating some of my issues with Brave.

    “A couple first grade boys yelled out, “Stupid! Boring!” The boys had to be clear that they wouldn’t be interested in something as uncool as Fairy. Unfortunately, this isn’t a rare reaction when girls show and tell. How is that for an early lesson in public speaking?”

    I don’t believe that boys will be boys or that boys are naturally loud and exuberant while girls are kind and introverted. I think part of the issue isn’t just that boys feel the need to repudiate things that are “feminine” but how we allow children to behave. How often do girls shout out things while a boy is talking? I hope your daughter proudly went on with her speech. 🙂

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