Better TQDM output
@lhoestq I've created a notebook for you to see the difference: https://colab.research.google.com/drive/1by3EqnoKvC2p-yKW4lPDGOFOZHyGVyeQ?usp=sharing.

Feel free to suggest better descriptions for the progress bars. 

If everything looks good, think we can merge.
This PR does the following:
* if `dataset_infos.json` exists for a dataset, uses `num_examples` to print the total number of examples that needs to be generated (in `builder.py`)
* fixes `tqdm` + multiprocessing in Jupyter Notebook/Colab (the issue stems from this commit in the `tqdm` repo: https://github.com/tqdm/tqdm/commit/f7722edecc3010cb35cc1c923ac4850a76336f82) 
* adds the missing `drop_last_batch` and `with_ranks` params to `DatasetDict.map` 
* correctly computes the number of iterations in `map` and the CSV/JSON loader when `batched=True` to fix `tqdm` progress bars
* removes the `bool(logging.get_verbosity() == logging.NOTSET)` (or simplifies `bool(logging.get_verbosity() == logging.NOTSET) or not utils.is_progress_bar_enabled()` to `not utils.is_progress_bar_enabled()`)  condition and uses `utils.is_progress_bar_enabled` to check if `tqdm` output is enabled (this comment from @stas00 explains why  the  `bool(logging.get_verbosity() == logging.NOTSET)` check is problematic: https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/issues/14889#issue-1087318463)

Fix #2630