BUG: fix suppressed TypeErrors in Groupby.mean, median, var
These are raising TypeError because we aren't passing enough args, but then we're catching those TypeErrors and falling back.  So this doesn't change behavior, just avoids an unnecessary fallback in some cases.

No tests.  Surfacing the exceptions would require ugly/invasive changes.
does this change perf? > does this change perf?

haven't measured, mostly object-dtype is affected > > does this change perf?
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> haven't measured, mostly object-dtype is affected

kk great. (also if you can make sure this is fully tested with object dtype as well)