Clarify regex interpretation in str.contains
Fix GH44811

- [x] closes #44811
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit) for how to run them
- [ ] whatsnew entry  *Seems unnecesssary*

Hello @nealmcb! Thanks for updating this PR. We checked the lines you've touched for [PEP 8](https://www.python.org/dev/peps/pep-0008) issues, and found:





There are currently no PEP 8 issues detected in this Pull Request. Cheers! :beers: 

##### Comment last updated at 2021-12-08 01:49:44 UTC thanks @nealmcb better error message are +1