PERF: Improve performance of Series.isin() on sets
- [x] closes #25507
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry

Issue #25507 pointed out that using `DataFrame.isin` or `Series.isin` on a set took extremely long due to the set being first converted to a list then back to a hash table to lookup values. This fix eliminates that conversion and simply uses the set to directly test membership.

Sample code from issue:
```python
import pandas as pd

squares = set(a**2 for a in range(10000000))
series = pd.Series(range(100))

def test_isin():
    _ = series.isin(squares)

%timeit test_isin()
```
Output:
```
Before:
3.89 s ± 66.1 ms per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 1 loop each)

After:
134 µs ± 11.3 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10000 loops each)
```

There are already several unit tests covering this function on sets with different dtypes. Additionally, I added an additional asv benchmark for sets:
```
series_methods.IsIn.time_isin
======== =============
dtype
-------- -------------
int64    1.46±0.04ms
uint64    1.76±0.1ms
object    3.53±0.2ms
======== =============

series_methods.IsIn.time_isin_set
======== =============
dtype
-------- -------------
int64    1.58±0.03ms
uint64   1.61±0.06ms
object   3.24±0.04ms
======== =============
```
If the additional benchmark is overkill I can of course remove it.
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##           master   #25812      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage   91.27%   91.27%   +<.01%     
==========================================
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==========================================
+ Hits        48375    48381       +6     
+ Misses       4627     4626       -1
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| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `89.83% <100%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `41.76% <20%> (-0.01%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/25812?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
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> The diff coverage is `100%`.

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```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #25812      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage    91.3%   91.45%   +0.14%     
==========================================
  Files         173      172       -1     
  Lines       53004    52899     -105     
==========================================
- Hits        48397    48380      -17     
+ Misses       4607     4519      -88
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `90.02% <100%> (+0.14%)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `41.82% <42.85%> (+0.05%)` | :arrow_up: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/25812?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
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| [pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/25812/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvdG9vbHMvZGF0ZXRpbWVzLnB5) | `84.59% <0%> (-0.05%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/computation/align.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/25812/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvY29tcHV0YXRpb24vYWxpZ24ucHk=) | `97.82% <0%> (-0.03%)` | :arrow_down: |
| ... and [14 more](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/25812/diff?src=pr&el=tree-more) | |

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