BUG: astype to pyarrow does not copy np array
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cc @mroeschke 

This should copy. You can't update the pyarrow array, but the parent array can get updated which propagates to the pyarrow array.
worth adding this to tm.shares_memory? Raises a NotImplementedError (no arrow support)

Will have a look at this in a follow up Thanks @phofl 