Relax meson pins in CI and Fix Missed Warnings
Back in https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/60089 we relaxed the meson pin in our pyproject, but all of our CI still hard codes the minimum version. This updates it to treat the meson dependencies the same way as Cython, i.e. newer versions are used in CI
Ah so I guess the pinned versions here were suppressing compiler errors in some fashion. Looks like https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/60674 will need to happen before this I believe the remaining issues appeared with meson-python 0.16.0. Reported upstream in https://github.com/mesonbuild/meson-python/issues/716

May need to put an upper limit on the 0.15.0 release for now The pyarrow failure here is unrelated This pull request is stale because it has been open for thirty days with no activity. Please [update](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/stable/development/contributing.html#updating-your-pull-request) and respond to this comment if you're still interested in working on this. Not actively working on this - let's clear the queue