This fix allows a DataFrame to retain key order from a dictionary 
This fix allows a DataFrame to retain key order from a dictionary with only one column instead of sorting them alphabetically.

Note: I had to change the order for the rename tests in `test_rename.py` but the order there seemed trivial.  If I'm wrong in my assumption please let me know. I also had to change the index order of the control df in `indexing/multiindex/test_setitem.py` but again this seemed trivial/innocuous change in this circumstance.

- [x] closes #55683
- [x] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [ ] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [x] Added [type annotations](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#type-hints) to new arguments/methods/functions.
- [x] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

Not sure why this Closed. Thanks @paulreece 