BLD: fix failing vbench cases
There were about 30 vbench tests that failed due to multiple recent deprecations and copy-pasting.

This PR fixes all but 8 of those that correspond to constructing frame with "exotic" time offsets (`WeekOfYear`, `LastWeekOfYear`, `FY5253` and `FY5253Quarter`) that apparently require some kwargs for construction.

This also fixes the "different name/same test" situation with `eval_frame_and` benchmarks where for some reason single-thread and multi-thread cases share setup code.

ok lmk when you are ready to merge
 Cool, sorry if kept you waiting.
