BLD: add tempita files to depends
This change makes it so that if a `.pxi.in` file is modified, the appropriate module will be rebuilt.

what's the repro on current master?

change an .in and everything recompiles?
 Opposite - e.g., change `algos_take_helper.pxi.in` and nothing recompiles, if it was already up to date.
 ## [Current coverage](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/pull/13960?src=pr) is 85.29% (diff: 100%)

> Merging [#13960](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/pull/13960?src=pr) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/branch/master?src=pr) will increase coverage by **<.01%**

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+ Hits          42788      42789     +1   
+ Misses         7376       7375     -1   
  Partials          0          0          
```

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 Looks good to me
 thanks!
