DOC/ERR: better error message on no common merge keys
- [o] closes #19391 
- [o] tests passed
- [o] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- Let MergeError emit values keyword arguments
- Add `DataFrame.join` on `See also` section of  `pandas.merge`

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 Can you add a test for this, and a release note?

What's the output look like for large DataFrames? Does the repr truncation work correctly? Release note added, `see also` modified.
I believe my contribution is about the error message. Should the error message be included in the test?
It seems that there already exists a test for [a merge with no common keys](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/blob/fb3b23782534c925ab7158c59dcb32c8f8390d71/pandas/tests/reshape/merge/test_merge.py#L266).
I don't get what you said about the large DataFrames. Could you explain a bit more? 
 > I believe my contribution is about the error message. Should the error message be included in the test?

Yes, see `pandas.util.testing.assert_raises_regex` for how to do it. You'll want to do a few different tests and assert that the correct information is always in the exception message.

Ignore my comment about large dataframes I think. can you rebase and update The line break and the order of options are modified.
Added a check for error message by `assert_raises_regex`. thanks @swyoon  thanks for kind reviews! @jreback @TomAugspurger 