BUG: json_normalize not consistently ignoring errors (#41876)
- [x] closes #41876
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

cc @WillAyd  I'll be adding some unit tests as well @jbrockmendel @WillAyd mind kicking off the additional workflows/taking another look? thanks! also a conflict on the release notes @jreback should be good now! thanks @neelmraman 