BUG: fix for datetime parse error for more than 50 rows
- [x] closes #55345 
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This issue seems to be caused due to the fix provided in #45319 . I have added kind of a check but the implementation doesn't seem very clean to me. Would be open to any suggestions. TiA!

@MarcoGorelli can I please get a little help here? I am kind of stuck. hey - looks like tests are failing - I'd suggest stepping through a debugger to figure out where things might be going wrong Thanks for the pull request, but it appears to have gone stale. If interested in continuing, please merge in the main branch, address any review comments and/or failing tests, and we can reopen.