DOC: Remove deprecated Y and M from to_timedelta
- [ ] closes #xxxx
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- [x] passes `black pandas`
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[`to_timedelta()`](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/blob/master/pandas/core/tools/timedeltas.py#L84-L88) blocks those arguments anyway, so no reason to include them in the docstring.
thanks @taljaards 