BUG: raise on wrong keyword arguments in Timedelta
- [x] closes #45108
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

couple of linting failures in the Code Checks job thanks @deponovo  Owee, I'm MrMeeseeks, Look at me.

There seem to be a conflict, please backport manually. Here are approximate instructions:

1. Checkout backport branch and update it.

```
git checkout 1.4.x
git pull
```

2. Cherry pick the first parent branch of the this PR on top of the older branch:
```
git cherry-pick -m1 e681fcdfa6261e99d902b019a6ffabc175d664aa
```

3. You will likely have some merge/cherry-pick conflict here, fix them and commit:

```
git commit -am 'Backport PR #45227: BUG: raise on wrong keyword arguments in Timedelta'
```

4. Push to a named branch:

```
git push YOURFORK 1.4.x:auto-backport-of-pr-45227-on-1.4.x
```

5. Create a PR against branch 1.4.x, I would have named this PR:

> "Backport PR #45227 on branch 1.4.x (BUG: raise on wrong keyword arguments in Timedelta)"

And apply the correct labels and milestones.

Congratulations — you did some good work! Hopefully your backport PR will be tested by the continuous integration and merged soon!

Remember to remove the `Still Needs Manual Backport` label once the PR gets merged.

If these instructions are inaccurate, feel free to [suggest an improvement](https://github.com/MeeseeksBox/MeeseeksDev).
                 @meeseeksdev backport 1.4.x Owee, I'm MrMeeseeks, Look at me.

There seem to be a conflict, please backport manually. Here are approximate instructions:

1. Checkout backport branch and update it.

```
git checkout 1.4.x
git pull
```

2. Cherry pick the first parent branch of the this PR on top of the older branch:
```
git cherry-pick -m1 e681fcdfa6261e99d902b019a6ffabc175d664aa
```

3. You will likely have some merge/cherry-pick conflict here, fix them and commit:

```
git commit -am 'Backport PR #45227: BUG: raise on wrong keyword arguments in Timedelta'
```

4. Push to a named branch:

```
git push YOURFORK 1.4.x:auto-backport-of-pr-45227-on-1.4.x
```

5. Create a PR against branch 1.4.x, I would have named this PR:

> "Backport PR #45227 on branch 1.4.x (BUG: raise on wrong keyword arguments in Timedelta)"

And apply the correct labels and milestones.

Congratulations — you did some good work! Hopefully your backport PR will be tested by the continuous integration and merged soon!

Remember to remove the `Still Needs Manual Backport` label once the PR gets merged.

If these instructions are inaccurate, feel free to [suggest an improvement](https://github.com/MeeseeksBox/MeeseeksDev).
                