BLD/RLS: build wheels with released numpy/cython for Python 3.13
Now that there is a released numpy that supports Python 3.13, we can clean up parts of our TODOs related to that (from https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/59136) in our wheel building workflow.

It was noted in https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/59817 that our wheel builds were failing because of testing with numpy dev instead of released numpy, a problem which itself is being fixed by https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/59818
(note: we should milestone this as 2.2.3, but the previous PRs adding python 3.13 support have not yet been backported) > (note: we should milestone this as 2.2.3, but the previous PRs adding python 3.13 support have not yet been backported)

Previous PRs are being backported in https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/59835 Owee, I'm MrMeeseeks, Look at me.

There seem to be a conflict, please backport manually. Here are approximate instructions:

1. Checkout backport branch and update it.

```
git checkout 2.2.x
git pull
```

2. Cherry pick the first parent branch of the this PR on top of the older branch:
```
git cherry-pick -x -m1 22372175e04f05f73521cab1b26f0818d6766717
```

3. You will likely have some merge/cherry-pick conflict here, fix them and commit:

```
git commit -am 'Backport PR #59819: BLD/RLS: build wheels with released numpy/cython for Python 3.13'
```

4. Push to a named branch:

```
git push YOURFORK 2.2.x:auto-backport-of-pr-59819-on-2.2.x
```

5. Create a PR against branch 2.2.x, I would have named this PR:

> "Backport PR #59819 on branch 2.2.x (BLD/RLS: build wheels with released numpy/cython for Python 3.13)"

And apply the correct labels and milestones.

Congratulations — you did some good work! Hopefully your backport PR will be tested by the continuous integration and merged soon!

Remember to remove the `Still Needs Manual Backport` label once the PR gets merged.

If these instructions are inaccurate, feel free to [suggest an improvement](https://github.com/MeeseeksBox/MeeseeksDev).
                 Backported in https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/59835