REF: Enhance consistency on Styler methods
- [x] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [x] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/v1.4.1.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature. NOT NEEDED

pandas 1.4.0 introduces deprecation of `hide_columns()` and `hide_index()` in favor to `hide()`. Problem is the messages docstrings, parameters and warning messages pass parameters in different ways making it confusing and non-readable. This PR was created to address that and make all those consistent.

This effectively just changes the quotation symbol from single to double quotes in a warning. No need for a whatsnew entry.

Not really convinced that the error is unreadable with single quotes instead of double:

![Screen Shot 2022-02-02 at 19 08 20](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/24256554/152212304-d171f664-c502-4fb3-9c69-0c334b95b08b.png)

 > This effectively just changes the quotation symbol from single to double quotes in a warning. No need for a whatsnew entry.
> 
> Not really convinced that the error is unreadable with single quotes instead of double:
> 
> ![Screen Shot 2022-02-02 at 19 08 20](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/24256554/152212304-d171f664-c502-4fb3-9c69-0c334b95b08b.png)

can you check this for consistency with other deprecations that include quotes. a) we are probably not consistent b) we could check forth this (maybe) @attack68 @jreback I checked on whole code, warning is consistent with the quotes inside the columns, also the command is also consistent with black if people want to copy-paste the code. @staticdev status of this? @jreback from my side it is ready to be merged. @attack68 fine, I commited your suggestion. Thanks @staticdev and @attack68 for merging in main one more time. 