CI: npdev new exception message
- [ ] closes #xxxx
- [ ] tests added / passed
- [ ] passes `black pandas`
- [ ] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [ ] whatsnew entry

@pandas-dev/pandas-core this fixes the npdev CI failure; im planning to merge in a couple hours if there are no objections great thanks  @meeseeksdev backport 1.1.x