ENH: Support timespec argument in Timestamp.isoformat()
- [x] closes #26131 
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

This is an update of PR #38550.  I added support for "nanoseconds" as an argument, expanded the test cases, and addressed most of the comments in the original PR.
thanks @swt2c lgtm.

cc @mroeschke if any comments Great, thanks @swt2c 