ERR: Clarify exceptions for invalid datetimelike operations
closes #9631

Seemed too small a change for a what's new note # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#17772](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/81694dce171ecd93a65e32ed455612ee967d3951?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `0.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `75%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772/graphs/tree.svg?height=150&width=650&token=eZ4WkYLtcO&src=pr)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
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##           master   #17772      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   91.26%   91.24%   -0.02%     
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  Files         163      163              
  Lines       49872    49976     +104     
==========================================
+ Hits        45514    45601      +87     
- Misses       4358     4375      +17
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `89.05% <75%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `40.24% <25%> (-0.06%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/core/indexes/datetimelike.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9kYXRldGltZWxpa2UucHk=) | `97.09% <100%> (+0.2%)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/datetimes.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9kYXRldGltZXMucHk=) | `95.58% <50%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `25% <0%> (-58.34%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/indexing.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhpbmcucHk=) | `93% <0%> (-0.98%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/series.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvc2VyaWVzLnB5) | `94.89% <0%> (-0.16%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `97.74% <0%> (-0.09%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/generic.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZ2VuZXJpYy5weQ==) | `92.03% <0%> (-0.09%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/common.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvY29tbW9uLnB5) | `91.42% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/base.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9iYXNlLnB5) | `96.46% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/multi.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9tdWx0aS5weQ==) | `96.39% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| ... and [17 more](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17772?src=pr&el=tree-more) | |

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 some comments. ping when pushed and green. skipping whatsnew is fine. @jreback addressed all comments, tests pass thanks @mturzanska 