BUG: Index with object dtype and negative loc for insert adding none and replacing existing value
- [x] closes #44509
- [x] tests added / passed
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This behaves like np.insert, so changed the docstring. Making this compatible with list.insert would be a breaking change

Nevertheless the else block in the base implementation had a bug, so fixed that one too

thanks @phofl 