BUG: reindex_like after shape comparison
in assert_frame_equal, if check_like, the former code reindex_like before shape comparison.
for example:
if left.shape=(2,2), right.shpae=(2.0), after reindex_like, left.shape=(2,0),right.shape=(2,0),then the shape comparison will not find out that the two dataframes are different. For that, the assert_frame_equal will not raise assertion errors. But in fact it should raise.
@jreback 

@jojomdt Thanks for the contribution. We also have tests for our testing infrastructure, so can you add a test for this? (in pandas/tests/test_testing.py)

I suppose your change was the original intended behaviour (@jreback? that is what it is used for in our tests), i.e. to support comparing frames with different row order. But if so, we should clarify that in the docstring of `check_like`, as you can also interpret it that they don't need to have the same shape. this is probably more correct in that it gives a nicer error if you have s shape mismatch (it works now but will give a value comparison error)

what case did this come up in? (ideally add this to the tests of the testers as joris indicates) # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/15496?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#15496](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/15496?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/b94186d4c58ee055656a84f55618be537db0095a?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `-0.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `100%`.


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@jorisvandenbossche @jreback  thanks @jojomdt 