COMPAT: bump pyarrow min version for div on duration
- [x] closes #55020
- [x] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [ ] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

Looks like there are some code check and precommit failures otherwise looks good I fixed the code check.

Note that this does not address the fact that there is an extensive branch structure depending on the pyarrow version but there is no test matrix covering it. Hence the formerly unnoticed incompatibility with pyarrow 13.0.0 Thanks @bnavigator 