BUG: groupby.describe on a frame with duplicate column names
- [x] closes #50806 (Replace xxxx with the GitHub issue number)
- [x] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [x] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [x] Added [type annotations](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#type-hints) to new arguments/methods/functions.
- [x] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

ASVs are below.

```
       before           after         ratio
     [a063af0e]       [185e4f8e]
     <groupby_select_obj_dup_cols~2>       <groupby_select_obj_dup_cols>
-        769±10μs          694±6μs     0.90  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         758±3μs          683±9μs     0.90  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-     11.9±0.04ms       10.7±0.2ms     0.90  groupby.AggEngine.time_dataframe_cython(True)
-         846±4μs          759±6μs     0.90  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'min', 'transformation', 5)
-         857±5μs          769±3μs     0.90  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'max', 'transformation', 5)
-         758±3μs          678±2μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-         763±3μs          682±8μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         766±1μs          683±4μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'max', 'transformation', 5)
-         775±2μs          691±7μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'min', 'transformation', 5)
-         860±8μs          766±7μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'sum', 'transformation', 5)
-         775±3μs          689±8μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         847±4μs          752±9μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'prod', 'transformation', 5)
-         759±2μs          674±2μs     0.89  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'prod', 'transformation', 5)
-         709±3μs         627±10μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-         765±2μs          676±4μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'prod', 'transformation', 5)
-        854±10μs         754±10μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         766±4μs         675±20μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'max', 'transformation', 5)
-         775±3μs          683±6μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'min', 'transformation', 5)
-         670±1μs          590±9μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         767±4μs         674±20μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'sum', 'transformation', 5)
-         777±2μs         683±10μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         858±7μs          753±7μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-         772±5μs          678±1μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-         661±2μs          579±1μs     0.88  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         588±2μs          513±1μs     0.87  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         779±3μs          680±9μs     0.87  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'max', 'transformation', 5)
-         781±3μs         677±20μs     0.87  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'max', 'transformation', 5)
-        772±10μs          669±9μs     0.87  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'sum', 'transformation', 5)
-         663±3μs          574±9μs     0.87  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         769±7μs         665±20μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'sum', 'transformation', 5)
-         770±7μs         666±20μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'prod', 'transformation', 5)
-         645±2μs          557±1μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         729±4μs         629±10μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'cumcount', 'transformation', 5)
-         779±2μs         673±20μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'min', 'transformation', 5)
-         717±3μs         618±20μs     0.86  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'first', 'transformation', 5)
-         781±2μs         665±20μs     0.85  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'min', 'transformation', 5)
-        782±20μs         665±20μs     0.85  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'last', 'transformation', 5)
-         580±6μs          491±7μs     0.85  groupby.TransformNaN.time_first
-         448±2μs         353±10μs     0.79  groupby.SumBools.time_groupby_sum_booleans
-         374±1μs          292±1μs     0.78  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         372±3μs          284±2μs     0.76  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         358±3μs          272±1μs     0.76  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         376±7μs        283±0.7μs     0.75  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         374±2μs          279±3μs     0.75  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         382±7μs          283±7μs     0.74  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'cumcount', 'direct', 5)
-         181±2μs         85.9±1μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'sum', 'direct', 5)
-         175±3μs       82.9±0.3μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'sum', 'direct', 5)
-         175±2μs       82.9±0.2μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-       178±0.2μs       84.1±0.9μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-         180±3μs         83.8±2μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'max', 'direct', 5)
-       177±0.9μs       82.3±0.2μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'min', 'direct', 5)
-         175±1μs         81.4±1μs     0.47  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'sum', 'direct', 5)
-         179±1μs       83.2±0.9μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'max', 'direct', 5)
-         179±3μs         82.7±1μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'max', 'direct', 5)
-         181±2μs       83.6±0.6μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'min', 'direct', 5)
-         180±1μs       82.9±0.6μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-         178±1μs       81.9±0.3μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'min', 'direct', 5)
-         178±1μs       81.4±0.7μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'last', 'direct', 5)
-         177±1μs       81.3±0.5μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'sum', 'direct', 5)
-         180±2μs       82.4±0.1μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'max', 'direct', 5)
-         176±1μs         80.6±2μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'max', 'direct', 5)
-       170±0.4μs         77.5±1μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'last', 'direct', 5)
-         175±3μs       79.7±0.2μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'prod', 'direct', 5)
-         179±1μs       81.5±0.3μs     0.46  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'min', 'direct', 5)
-         179±4μs         81.5±2μs     0.45  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('float', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-       174±0.5μs         79.0±3μs     0.45  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-         175±1μs         79.4±2μs     0.45  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('datetime', 'min', 'direct', 5)
-         172±2μs         77.2±1μs     0.45  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'last', 'direct', 5)
-         170±2μs       75.6±0.3μs     0.44  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'prod', 'direct', 5)
-       170±0.9μs       75.5±0.3μs     0.44  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int', 'prod', 'direct', 5)
-         170±2μs       75.5±0.7μs     0.44  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'prod', 'direct', 5)
-         172±4μs       76.2±0.2μs     0.44  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('int16', 'last', 'direct', 5)
-       175±0.6μs         75.7±2μs     0.43  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('uint', 'last', 'direct', 5)
-         158±1μs         66.0±2μs     0.42  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'first', 'direct', 5)
-         160±2μs         65.5±1μs     0.41  groupby.GroupByMethods.time_dtype_as_group('object', 'last', 'direct', 5)

SOME BENCHMARKS HAVE CHANGED SIGNIFICANTLY.
PERFORMANCE INCREASED.
```
@mroeschke - what do you think about the conditional logic based on the number of columns here? @mroeschke @jbrockmendel - friendly ping. Thanks @rhshadrach 