PERF: DataFrame(ndarray) constructor ensure to copy to column-major layout
Closes https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/50756

xref https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/57431

With CoW enabled now, the default behaviour of `DataFrame(ndarray)` is to copy the numpy array (before 3.0, this would not copy the data). However, if we do a copy, we should also make sure we copy it to the optimal layout (typically column major). Before CoW, this copy would often happen later on anyway, and an explicit `copy()` actually does ensure column-major layout:

On main:
```
>>> arr = np.random.randn(10, 3)
>>> df = pd.DataFrame(arr)  # does actually make a copy of `arr` under the hood
>>> df._mgr.blocks[0].values.flags.c_contiguous
False
>>> df2 = df.copy()  # explicit copy method
>>> df2._mgr.blocks[0].values.flags.c_contiguous
True
```


With the change, the result of the [arithmetic.FrameWithFrameWide.time_op_different_blocks op=; shape=(1000000, 10)](https://asv-runner.github.io/asv-collection/pandas/#arithmetic.FrameWithFrameWide.time_op_different_blocks?p-op=%3Cbuilt-in%20function%20floordiv%3E&p-shape=%281000000%2C%2010%29)

```
n_rows, n_cols = 1_000_000, 10

# construct dataframe with 2 blocks
arr1 = np.random.randn(n_rows, n_cols // 2).astype("f8")
arr2 = np.random.randn(n_rows, n_cols // 2).astype("f4")
df = pd.concat([DataFrame(arr1), DataFrame(arr2)], axis=1, ignore_index=True)
df._consolidate_inplace()

arr1 = np.random.randn(n_rows, max(n_cols // 4, 3)).astype("f8")
arr2 = np.random.randn(n_rows, n_cols // 2).astype("i8")
arr3 = np.random.randn(n_rows, n_cols // 4).astype("f8")
df2 = pd.concat(
    [DataFrame(arr1), DataFrame(arr2), DataFrame(arr3)],
    axis=1,
    ignore_index=True,
)
df2._consolidate_inplace()

%timeit df > df2
```

gives

```
In [4]: %timeit df > df2
21.3 ms ± 3.97 ms per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 100 loops each)   # main
8.18 ms ± 1.52 ms per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 100 loops each)   # PR
``` We actually discussed before that we should do this for CoW -> https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/50756, and it was also at some point included in PR https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/51731 but then removed again before merging. Looks reasonable to me.  The perf improvement is real nice. Thanks @jorisvandenbossche  Conbench complaining on these benchmarks:

      `io.hdf.HDF.time_write_hdf` (Python) with format='fixed'
      `stat_ops.FrameOps.time_op` (Python) with axis=None, dtype='int', op='median'
      `arithmetic.MixedFrameWithSeriesAxis.time_frame_op_with_series_axis0` (Python) with me='pow'
      `io.hdf.HDFStoreDataFrame.time_write_store_table_wide` (Python)
      `frame_methods.Where.time_where` (Python) with dtype=True, param2='float64'
      `stat_ops.FrameOps.time_op` (Python) with axis=None, dtype='float', op='median'
      `reshape.Unstack.time_without_last_row` (Python) with param1='int'
      `stat_ops.FrameOps.time_op` (Python) with axis=None, dtype='float', op='kurt'
      `groupby.GroupManyLabels.time_sum` (Python) with ncols=1000
      `frame_methods.Rank.time_rank` (Python) with dtype='uint'
      `rolling.TableMethod.time_apply` (Python) with method='table'
      `reshape.Unstack.time_full_product` (Python) with param1='int'
      `stat_ops.FrameOps.time_op` (Python) with axis=None, dtype='float', op='skew'

Please ignore if this was expected.

<img width="1231" alt="Screenshot 2024-03-06 at 18 56 59" src="https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/assets/11835246/6245dfbe-1d92-4805-b781-aa8a4724c808">

@jorisvandenbossche 