BUG: set_levels set illegal levels.
- [x] closes #13754
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry

`MultiIndex.set_levels`, when given illegal level values, raises an error.
When `inplace=True`, though, the illegal level values are still accepted. This
commit fixes that behavior by checking that the proposed level values are legal
before setting them.

## [Current coverage](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/pull/14236?src=pr) is 85.26% (diff: 100%)

> Merging [#14236](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/pull/14236?src=pr) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pydata/pandas/branch/master?src=pr) will increase coverage by **<.01%**

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 @jreback the Travis OSX build keeps on failing on conda install. Could you maybe delete the cache and restart the build? Or any other ideas? I'm pretty sure the failure is not caused by these changes.
 minor comments, ping when green.
 lgtm. ping on green.
 you need to rebase as just merged #14303 
 @jreback I believe I have addressed all of the comments.
 @jreback I think all comments are addressed now.
 thanks @bkandel lgtm.

@jorisvandenbossche can be the first back-port test!
 @bkandel Thanks a lot!
