BUG: GH3468 Fix assigning a new index to a duplicate index in a DataFrame would fail
partially fixes #3468

This would previously raise (same dtype assignment to a non-multi dtype frame with dup indicies)

```
In [6]: df = DataFrame([[1,2]], columns=['a','a'])

In [7]: df.columns = ['a','a.1']

In [8]: df
Out[8]: 
   a  a.1
0  1    2

```

construction of a multi-dtype frame with a dup index (#2194) is fixed

```
In [1]: DataFrame([[1,2,1.,2.,3.,'foo','bar']], columns=list('aaaaaaa'))
Out[1]: 
   a  a  a  a  a    a    a
0  1  2  3  1  2  foo  bar
```

This was also previously would raise

```
In [2]: %cpaste
Pasting code; enter '--' alone on the line to stop or use Ctrl-D.
:        df_float  = DataFrame(np.random.randn(10, 3),dtype='float64')
:        df_int    = DataFrame(np.random.randn(10, 3),dtype='int64')
:        df_bool   = DataFrame(True,index=df_float.index,columns=df_float.columns)
:        df_object = DataFrame('foo',index=df_float.index,columns=df_float.columns)
:        df_dt     = DataFrame(Timestamp('20010101'),index=df_float.index,columns=df_float.columns)
:        df        = pan.concat([ df_float, df_int, df_bool, df_object, df_dt ], axis=1)
:--

In [3]: df
Out[3]: 
      0     1     2                   0                   1  \
0  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
1  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
2  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
3  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
4  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
5  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
6  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
7  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
8  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   
9  True  True  True 2001-01-01 00:00:00 2001-01-01 00:00:00   

                    2    0    1    2  0  1  2         0         1         2  
0 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  0  0  0  0.431857 -0.131747 -1.039563  
1 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  0  0 -1  0.516910 -0.683163  0.736468  
2 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  0  0  0 -0.147417 -0.305452  0.006213  
3 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  0 -1  0  1.443031  0.082710 -0.335054  
4 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  1  0  0 -1.349293  0.645316  0.305524  
5 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo -1  0  0  0.571095  0.756571 -0.773880  
6 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  0  0  0 -0.285091  1.196018  0.882786  
7 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo  2  0  0  0.003610  0.549072 -0.823217  
8 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo -1  1  0 -0.348279 -0.728958 -0.397435  
9 2001-01-01 00:00:00  foo  foo  foo -1  0  0  0.363489  2.154132  0.494673  

```

For those of you interested.....here is the new ref_loc indexer for duplicate columns
its by necessity a block oriented indexer, returns the column map (by column number) to a tuple of the block and the index in the block, only created when needed (e.g. when trying to get a column via iget and the index is non-unique, and the results are cached), this is #3092

```
In [1]: df = pd.DataFrame(np.random.randn(8,4),columns=['a']*4)

In [2]: df._data.blocks
Out[2]: [FloatBlock: [a, a, a, a], 4 x 8, dtype float64]

In [3]: df._data.blocks[0]._ref_locs

In [4]: df._data.set_ref_locs()
Out[4]: 
array([(FloatBlock: [a, a, a, a], 4 x 8, dtype float64, 0),
       (FloatBlock: [a, a, a, a], 4 x 8, dtype float64, 1),
       (FloatBlock: [a, a, a, a], 4 x 8, dtype float64, 2),
       (FloatBlock: [a, a, a, a], 4 x 8, dtype float64, 3)], dtype=object)
```

Fixed the #2786, #3230 bug that caused applymap to not work (we temp worked around by raising a ValueError; removed that check)

```
n [3]: In [3]: df = pd.DataFrame(np.random.random((3,4)))

In [4]: In [4]: cols = pd.Index(['a','a','a','a'])

In [5]: In [5]: df.columns = cols

In [6]: In [6]: df.applymap(str)
Out[6]: 
                a                a               a               a
0  0.494204195164   0.534601503195  0.471870025143  0.880092879641
1  0.860369768954  0.0472931994392  0.775532754792  0.822046777859
2  0.478775855962   0.623584943227  0.932012693593  0.739502590395

```

@y-p when you have a chance....I think i figured out the duplicate columns across dtypes issue. I non-trivially create the indexer. seems to fix this problem (I added a few tests). Pretty sure it also fixes the whole to_csv mess that we had. It think some of your #3458 can revert. Also I seem to have lost the issue that was created at the very end of the to_csv stuff last month when we punted on fixing dup columns (well it failed fast in certain cases). Also now should review the other dup columns stuff.
 @y-p thanks...that looks right....still some issue remaining...but making progress....
 Finger slipped. related #2194, #3230, and I think you meant #3092.
 @y-p what class of issues/prs are we doing for 0.11.1....? mostly just bug fixes, or minor features? sort of like a mini-release...just shorter in time?
 bug fixes and small-medium enhancements that are back-compatible. _no sudden moves_.
good transition period to close some of the niggling viz bugs that have been piling up,
which get no love during the major release cycles.
 k...great....hopefully will have most of the dup columns issues resolved very shortly
 I'll add the config option to control dupe col name mangling tomorrow, will decide on a default before the release.
 @y-p I think I got all the dup issues, only one to fix remaining is the to_csv; this will work (I pseudo tested), but need to remove the exception that is raised when the columns are duped. You can do the same type of indexing on a dup column as on a non-index column (I think that was the issue), still can't figure out which issue it was?
 hmmm. #3095?
 that looks right....
 that is closed, don't we have an open one? (or did we just shove the exception in that one and punt?)
 Yeah, I think we did, the block positional indexer issue was all I remember.
 @wesm any thoughts before we merge this?
 I added #3495 to cover the to_csv stuff
 closed in favor of #3509, which is cleaner and has to_csv support
