BUG: Fix np.inf + np.nan sum issue on groupby mean
- [X] closes #50367
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@jbrockmendel @rhshadrach please review. Please let me know if it 's correct. Then I'll write test cases. Thanks @rhshadrach for the review.

We have to make `compensation` 0 not only when `val` is +/- np.inf also when `sumx[lab, j] `is +/- np.inf. Then only the results are consistent 

something like

```
if val == np.inf or sumx[lab, j] == np.inf:
    compensation[lab, j] = 0.0
else:
    compensation[lab, j] = t - sumx[lab, j] - y
```
And yeah we are introducing additional check which will impact the performance.  Also you are right about fact that sacrificing performance for numerical accuracy is worth or not. 

What should we do?  Is it okay that we live with this bug ? or fix it ? Can you benchmark the proposed fix? sure @rhshadrach..  Can you help me with that..? direct me to any resource or docs on standardized way to do benchmark ?

`%timeit ` will be sufficient right ?

 Yes - `%timeit` is a good way to approach. Generate some test data (e.g. `np.random.randint` and `np.random.rand`) of sufficient size so that the groupby operation takes at least a decent amount of time - maybe 80ms or more. Then post the timings when you run it on main vs this PR. instead of checking val for inf or -inf we can check for compensation is nan or not:

```
 1078  if not isna_entry:
                nobs[lab, j] += 1
                y = val - compensation[lab, j]
                t = sumx[lab, j] + y
                compensation[lab, j] = t - sumx[lab, j] - y
                if compensation[lab, j] != compensation[lab, j] :
                    compensation[lab, j] = 0.
                sumx[lab, j] = t
```
Benchmark against Main Branch

```
In [5]: n = 5000000
   ...: ...: df = pd.DataFrame(
   ...: ...:     {
   ...: ...:         "z": [rand.randint(0,1) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:         "x1": [rand.randint(0,n) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:         "x2": [rand.randint(0,n) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:      }
   ...: ...: )

In [6]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.8 ms ± 306 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [7]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.9 ms ± 789 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [8]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.8 ms ± 614 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [9]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
80.5 ms ± 254 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [10]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
80.1 ms ± 650 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [11]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.2 ms ± 686 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [12]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.4 ms ± 674 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [13]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
79.4 ms ± 743 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [14]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
83.2 ms ± 3.34 ms per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)
```

Benchmark against branch which contains proposed fix

```
In [9]: n = 5000000
   ...: ...: df = pd.DataFrame(
   ...: ...:     {
   ...: ...:         "z": [rand.randint(0,1) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:         "x1": [rand.randint(0,n) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:         "x2": [rand.randint(0,n) for i in range(n)],
   ...: ...:      }
   ...: ...: )

In [10]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.5 ms ± 378 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [11]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.8 ms ± 891 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [12]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.5 ms ± 538 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [13]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
82 ms ± 754 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [14]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
83.8 ms ± 1.49 ms per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [15]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.3 ms ± 544 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [16]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.7 ms ± 768 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [17]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.6 ms ± 404 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)

In [18]: %timeit df.groupby("z").mean()
81.7 ms ± 500 µs per loop (mean ± std. dev. of 7 runs, 10 loops each)
```

The overhead is less than 2 ms @rhshadrach  @parthi-siva - looks like the 32-bit is failing here.

https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/actions/runs/4911671351/jobs/8769921340?pr=52964#step:4:1956 @rhshadrach Linux 32-Bit test failing issue fixed. Thanks @parthi-siva 