BUG: Fix rolling median and quantile with closed='left' and closed='neither' (#26005)
- [x] Fixes issues with rolling `median` (and also `quantile`) `closed='left'` and `closed='neither'` in #26005 
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry

Here is my understanding of how it should work:

*Same as test cases, there is one day between each element and window size is 3 days.

For `closed='both'` (**()** denotes Nth window and **-** is just to state window is out of ):
```
N=0 | (-, -, - [0), 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=1 | -, (-, - [0, 1), 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=2 | -, -, (- [0, 1, 2), 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=3 | -, -, - [(0, 1, 2, 3), 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
...
```

For `closed='right'`:
```
N=0 | -, (-, - [0), 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=1 | -, -, (- [0, 1), 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=2 | -, -, - [(0, 1, 2), 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=3 | -, -, - [0, (1, 2, 3), 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
...
```
For `closed='left'`:
```
N=0 | (-, -, -) [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=1 | -, (-, - [0), 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=2 | -, -, (- [0, 1), 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=3 | -, -, - [(0, 1, 2), 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
...
```

For `closed='neither'`:
```
N=0 | -, (-, -) [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=1 | -, -, (- [0), 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=2 | -, -, - [(0, 1), 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
N=3 | -, -, - [0, (1, 2), 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
...
```
Thank @ihsansecer. It looks like #26005 reported multiple issues. Do your changes fix the memory skiplist issues? If so, can you add tests / release note? Otherwise, edit the original post to remove the "closes", so that it remains open.

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 @TomAugspurger not yet checked issues with memory skiplist and `max` function but I am planning to have a look and open another PR. Thanks It seems `quantile` is also producing unexpected results same as stated in the issue. If there is no problem with this fix I will apply the same to `quantile` function. yep, can you merge master and push again here. @jreback Merged and changed `roll_quantile` as mentioned thanks @ihsansecer nice patch!