BUG: parsing nanoseconds incorrect resolution
- [ ] closes #xxxx (Replace xxxx with the Github issue number)
- [x] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [ ] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
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This is broken off from a branch that fixes a couple of higher-level bugs.

hmm lots of failures..... > hmm lots of failures.....

messed up fixing a merge conflict, now fixed+green