BUG: astype falsely converts inf to integer, patch for Numpy (GH14265)
- [x] closes #14265
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry

Bug in Numpy causes inf values to be falsely converted to integers. I added a ValueError exception similar to the exception for trying to convert NaN to an integer. 

## [Current coverage](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/14343?src=pr) is 85.26% (diff: 100%)
> Merging [#14343](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/14343?src=pr) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/branch/master?src=pr) will decrease coverage by **<.01%**

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> Powered by [Codecov](https://codecov.io?src=pr). Last update [e1f9b96...a9a702e](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/compare/e1f9b966eb642c073b610df87a248b3a6d0e5588...a9a702ec18d9dbba66f12c9366664a57fe1bfa85?src=pr) Looks good to me (for 0.20, but can be merged)
@jreback 
 Sorry @jorisvandenbossche and @jreback it took so long to make these simple fixes, but I just got them done. I ended up merging the tests in series and frame with the previous test for NaN conversion. Let me know if you have any more requests. Cheers. 
 can you rebase (so can check with current code) Just rebased and re-ran the tests, everything looks good. Let me know if there's anything else I need to do.  Thanks for catching that @jreback. Hopefully that should do it.  @shawnheide Thanks!