CLN: .values -> ._values
> Not fully convinced we should also use _values for DataFrame, but you might have your reasons, if can explain?

The process of going through the code looking for problematic usages of .values is grep-based, so doing this change in places where they are equivalent trims the problem for future passes. I am not the one making those changes, so it is easier for me to say, but: I am not convinced this is worth the easier grepping, as this change makes *reading* the code more confusing IMO. For me, `_values` signals that it is something like "the underlying values" that are directly accessed (at least that is how it is used for Series, so therefore that is how I start to interpret this). 
But for DataFrame that is never the case, and this `_values` is in many cases not a cheap access at all.

Personally, I would rather remove the `_values` attribute on DataFrame. I don't think it serves any purpose? 

If the use of `.values` for DataFrame is nonetheless problematic, I think we should rather look for a different attribute or method instead of `_values` (`to_numpy()` could be used, I think, if we don't want to invent a new one) this looks ok to me. @jbrockmendel what do you think about using `to_numpy()` for DataFrame ? > what do you think about using `to_numpy()` for DataFrame ?

In cases where `obj.to_numpy()` is equivalent to `np.asarray(obj)`, I prefer the latter. That's fine for me as well, I don't have a strong preference, it was just as a suggestion to have an alternative for `.values` (you don't want) and `._values` (I don't want). 
For DataFrame, `df.values`, `df._values`, `df.to_numpy()` or `np.asarray(df)` are AFAIK all basically equivalent. > it was just as a suggestion to have an alternative for .values (you don't want) and ._values (I don't want).

That's a reasonable thought.  One more pitch for ._values before punting on this:

I use the heuristic: "when doing this with Series, would i use _values?"  If so, using it in the DataFrame context is more internally consistent and potentially amenable to code-sharing.  If I see `np.asarray` i have to assume that there is a particular reason why EA is not allowed. > is more internally consistent

It's only consistent in "naming", but not in what it does. `DataFrame._values` is most of the time something quite different as `Series._values`, and hence using a "consistent" name is not necessarily helpful IMO

> potentially amenable to code-sharing

Do you know if for example in this PR there are actually cases of this? (where the object in question could be both Series or DataFrame). 

We certainly have (had) things like `obj = getattr(obj, "_values", obj)` that untransparantly handled different kinds of things (and dataframe and series at the same time), but I think we generally try to move away from that? @jorisvandenbossche how strong are your opinions on this?  if they're a blocker, ill revert the DataFrame pieces so we can push the rest through Or directly use `np.asarray(..)` instead of reverting those lines? (since you already need to identify those)

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I still think `_values` to access a dataframe's 2D array is not helping code clarity. You mentioned "potential code sharing" as one reason, but so to repeat my question, do you have an example of such a case? (in this PR, or elsewhere?) > Or directly use np.asarray(..) instead of reverting those lines?

we've already established this as a pattern i dislike.  the status quo seems to be the only point of agreement It was *you* who proposed `asarray`, BTW > It was you who proposed asarray, BTW

I proposed asarray specifically for those cases where we want an ndarray and only an ndarray > I proposed asarray specifically for those cases where we want an ndarray and only an ndarray

Which is what `DataFrame.values`/`DataFrame._values` does? > Which is what DataFrame.values/DataFrame._values does?

We're going in circles.  I'm going to revert the edits of DataFrame.values->DataFrame._values. I think it is useful to try to clear up our misunderstanding, as it will come up again.

> I proposed asarray specifically for those cases where we want an ndarray and only an ndarray

So do I read this correct that you are OK with using `np.asarray(obj)` instead of `obj.values`/`obj._values` if we know we want an ndarray and only an ndarray?

But then, for a DataFrame, the only return values *can* be an ndarray, so for dataframes we know we always want / will get an ndarray? So doesn't fall that under the above description of cases where we can use `np.asarray(..)` ?

 > I think it is useful to try to clear up our misunderstanding, as it will come up again.

I'd prefer to punt on this until then.

> But then, for a DataFrame, the only return values can be an ndarray, so for dataframes we know we always want / will get an ndarray

I'm thinking about a future where we may have 2D EAs. controversial parts reverted; green k thanks