BUG: Fixed issue with bar plots not stacking correctly when 'stacked' and 'subplots' are used together
- [x] closes #61018
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Added check for when stacked and subplots are used in conjunction for bar plots. And logic dictating offsets for individual subplots to account for plots with non-concurrent columns being graphed. 

Currently, does not take into account column order in subplot entry (eg: (A, B) vs (B, A)) when stacking
Thanks @eicchen02 