BUG: DataFrame constructor reordering elements with ndarray from datetime dtype not datetime64[ns]
- [x] closes #39422
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

The ravel("K") was a problem when passing in a view on the underlying object, which was done here.
thanks @phofl  This was a regression, so I think worth backporting to 1.2.2. If we do that, we only need a small PR moving the whatsnew note to v1.2.2.rst (apart from the actual backport) sure we could backport

@phofl if u wouldn't mind putting up a backport PR (need to edit the note)

and then separate PR to move the note in master Done #39475 and #39476 Thanks @phofl !