CI: add PyPI Trusted-Publishing “publish” job to wheels workflow (#61669)
- [x] closes #61669
- [x] all code checks passed (`pre-commit` & CI)
- [x] added an entry in `doc/source/whatsnew/v3.0.0.rst`

### Summary
This PR enables **Trusted Publishing (OIDC)** uploads to PyPI when a GitHub release is published.

#### What’s changed
* **.github/workflows/wheels.yml**
  * adds a new `publish` job that  
    1. downloads all wheel / sdist artifacts from upstream jobs;  
    2. excludes Pyodide wheels (`*pyodide*.whl`);  
    3. runs `pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish@v1` in the `pypi` environment.

* **doc/source/whatsnew/v3.0.0.rst**
  * adds a single *Build / CI* line announcing the switch to Trusted Publishing
 
* **doc/source/development/maintaining.rst**
  * drop manual twine step and note Trusted Publishing 

No other files or CI matrix settings were changed.

## Release prerequisites
* GitHub repo must have an environment named **`pypi`** (OIDC token permission enabled).
* The pandas project on PyPI must list **`pandas-dev/pandas` → “pypi”** as a Trusted Publisher (see <https://docs.pypi.org/trusted-publishers/>).
CI failed in the docstring-validation step with  
 ```
AttributeError: 'getset_descriptor' object has no attribute '__module__'. Did you mean: '__reduce__'?
 ```  
This occurs before my code runs, so it isn’t caused by the changes in this PR.  
It looks related to the latest numpydoc release.  
I’ll re-run CI once the upstream fix lands.
 This workflow runs every day, on all pushes, and on all pull requests, but you said "uploads to PyPI when a release tag is pushed" in the description. Perhaps you want to put this in a new `publish.yml` workflow file, with [`on: { release: { types: [published] } }`](https://docs.github.com/en/actions/reference/events-that-trigger-workflows#release).

Because this makes the `download-artifacts` step run in a different workflow, you'll need to figure out the `run-id` argument.

You could alternatively add `on: { release: { types: [published] } }` to the `wheels.yml` workflow.

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You need to update [the release process documentation](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/blob/main/doc/source/development/maintaining.rst#release-process) to change the new method for publishing (remove step 5: "Upload wheels to PyPI").

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You likely want to document (in this pull request's description, and in [the release process documentation](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/blob/main/doc/source/development/maintaining.rst#release-process)) the new `pypi` GitHub environment needs to exist, and the corresponding publisher needs to be added to the project in PyPI. @EpicWink All requested changes are in. Let me know if anything else’s needed - thanks! All comments addressed and conversations resolved - ready for another look. Thanks! > I suppose we can only test this really once doing a next pre-release?

Yes, fortunately PyPI (production) supports uploading pre-releases.

> Could we already test the first part of the added job by temporarily commenting out the last `pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish` step, but so at least we can check the downloading and filtering of the artifacts is working?

That could work, as long as it's in a protected tag, but you would be creating a tag just to test this, unless you change the workflow definition further to support a non-version-tag ref.