import from np_datetime instead of src/datetime
There are a handful of things where there is an option to cimport from either tslibs.np_datetime or src/datetime.pxd.  This PR updates imports use tslibs.np_datetime where possible.

Exposes NPY_NAT in nattype.pxd so other modules can cimport it from there instead of using util.get_nat().  Thematically `nattype` is the appropriate place for this to come from.

I don't think this has any overlaps with #18298.

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- [ ] tests added / passed
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 thanks! > sure these are like dateutils

Really?  I was expecting a "no" because it would be duplicating stuff already in src/datetime/np_datetime, but if that's the go-ahead, then I'll put that together this week.  Name-wise I was thinking `ccalendar` by analogy with `cchardet` (hence the branch name).
 well i wouldn’t duplicate stuff rather should be orthogonal - maybe not sure what u r proposing here No worries, I've got plenty of other stuff to work on, will get distracted by something shiny and forget about this idea.