BUG: Fix agg ingore arg/kwargs when given list like func
- [x] closes #50624  (Replace xxxx with the GitHub issue number)
- [x] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [x] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [x] Added [type annotations](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#type-hints) to new arguments/methods/functions.
- [ ] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

Previous [Pull Request #50725](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/50725), for multiple elements-func list this time.

I would appreciate any feedback or suggestions on this draft pull request to help improve it. Thank you in advance for your help and cooperation.
cc @rhshadrach, I've reworked the implementation, any suggestions for improvement? Thanks @luke396! > Thanks @luke396!

This really couldn't have been done if it wasn't for your great help.