Cleanup cimports, implement bits of numpy_helper in util.pxd
Removes a few unnecessary uses of `cnp.import_array()`

Uses cython's conditional compilation to avoid runtime PY2/PY3 checks

Arranges cython imports in stdlib-->3rd party--> internal order.

Separates out the one part of `libresolution._FrequencyInferer` that we actually _do_ want to keep in cython

Couple of small lintings in groupby.pyx
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| #multiple | `90.3% <ø> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `42.16% <ø> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |


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 thanks @jbrockmendel a couple of things ought to do in the future PRs