PERF/REGR: revert #41785
- [x] closes #42248
- [ ] tests added / passed
- [x] Ensure all linting tests pass, see [here](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing.html#code-standards) for how to run them
- [x] whatsnew entry

Thanks @jbrockmendel as this now goes in 1.3.1, will need a release note. > Thanks @jbrockmendel as this now goes in 1.3.1, will need a release note.

#42312 now merged @jbrockmendel lgtm can you add a release note for 1.3.1 @meeseeksdev backport 1.3.x Something went wrong ... Please have  a look at my logs.