Fix Memory Leak in to_json with Numeric Values
- [X] closes #24889
- [ ] tests added / passed
- [X] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [X] whatsnew entry

It looks like the extension module is unnecessarily incrementing the reference count for numeric objects and never releasing it, which causes a leak in to_json.

Still trying to grok exactly what the purpose of npyCtxtPassthru (comment in same file mentions it is required when encoding multi-dimensional arrays).

Removing the check for PyArray_ISDATETIME caused segfaults but that doesn't appear to leak memory anyway so most likely intentional to increment that ref count.

ASV results:

```sh
       before           after         ratio
     [9feb3ad9]       [9bfd45d3]
     <master>         <json-mem-fix~1>
-           69.1M            57.7M     0.84  io.json.ToJSONMem.peakmem_float
-           69.1M            57.7M     0.83  io.json.ToJSONMem.peakmem_int

SOME BENCHMARKS HAVE CHANGED SIGNIFICANTLY.
```
# [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#26239](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/9feb3ad92cc0397a04b665803a49299ee7aa1037?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `<.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `n/a`.

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- Coverage   91.97%   91.96%   -0.01%     
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  Files         175      175              
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- Hits        48164    48160       -4     
- Misses       4204     4208       +4
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| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `90.52% <ø> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `40.69% <ø> (-0.15%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `78.94% <0%> (-10.53%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `96.9% <0%> (-0.12%)` | :arrow_down: |

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 # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#26239](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/9feb3ad92cc0397a04b665803a49299ee7aa1037?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `<.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `n/a`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&token=eZ4WkYLtcO&height=150&src=pr)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #26239      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   91.97%   91.96%   -0.01%     
==========================================
  Files         175      175              
  Lines       52368    52368              
==========================================
- Hits        48164    48160       -4     
- Misses       4204     4208       +4
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `90.52% <ø> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `40.69% <ø> (-0.15%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `78.94% <0%> (-10.53%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26239/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `96.9% <0%> (-0.12%)` | :arrow_down: |

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 thanks @WillAyd 