ENH: Improve error mesage verbosity in string accessor
- [x] closes #59659  (Replace xxxx with the GitHub issue number)
- [ ] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [x] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [ ] Added [type annotations](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#type-hints) to new arguments/methods/functions.
- [ ] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

Continued stale PR: #59649
@rhshadrach - could you take a look at this? thanks I think this looks good, but the CI has many unrelated failures. I'd like to get those resolved before merging PRs. CI is fixed, can you merge main. @rhshadrach - CI looks good. Thanks Thanks @KevsterAmp 