CI: disable ARM build
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xref #36719
could use some help with the config.  tried to match the older version, but looks like it isnt running the allow-fail build > could use some help with the config. tried to match the older version, but looks like it isnt running the allow-fail build

just leave the original AND the new and it will work; e.g. it is a copy that's *also* in allow_failures.