BUG: iterparse of read_xml not parsing duplicate element and attribute names
- [X] closes #47343 (Replace xxxx with the Github issue number)
- [X] [Tests added and passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#writing-tests) if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
- [X] All [code checks passed](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#pre-commit).
- [ ] Added [type annotations](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/dev/development/contributing_codebase.html#type-hints) to new arguments/methods/functions.
- [X] Added an entry in the latest `doc/source/whatsnew/v1.5.0.rst` file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

Thanks @ParfaitG 