DEPS: Bump optional dependencies
These should have been out for at least ~1 year once pandas 3.0 comes out
Looks good - maybe worth holding off until after 2.3 gets released?  This pull request is stale because it has been open for thirty days with no activity. Please [update](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/stable/development/contributing.html#updating-your-pull-request) and respond to this comment if you're still interested in working on this. Doesn't seem like the WIndows ADBC issue is going to be fixed anytime soon (at least based on the issue activity). Should we move forward and merge this with the working versions?