BLD: ignore multiple types of file in wheel
xref #40169 

lgtm

@simonjayhawkins give this a try and merge / backport if good thanks @fangchenli  Thanks @fangchenli 

will open PR on pandas-wheels to test > will open PR on pandas-wheels to test

https://github.com/MacPython/pandas-wheels/pull/135 we still need the pxi.in template files

```
    File "/tmp/pip-build-env-jawd5f8v/overlay/lib/python3.7/site-packages/setuptools/build_meta.py", line 135, in _get_build_requires
      self.run_setup()
    File "/tmp/pip-build-env-jawd5f8v/overlay/lib/python3.7/site-packages/setuptools/build_meta.py", line 259, in run_setup
      self).run_setup(setup_script=setup_script)
    File "/tmp/pip-build-env-jawd5f8v/overlay/lib/python3.7/site-packages/setuptools/build_meta.py", line 150, in run_setup
      exec(compile(code, __file__, 'exec'), locals())
    File "setup.py", line 650, in <module>
      ext_modules=maybe_cythonize(extensions, compiler_directives=directives),
    File "setup.py", line 422, in maybe_cythonize
      build_ext.render_templates(_pxifiles)
    File "setup.py", line 91, in render_templates
      with open(pxifile) as f:
  FileNotFoundError: [Errno 2] No such file or directory: 'pandas/_libs/algos_common_helper.pxi.in'
``` The wheels on pandas-wheels look to be building OK, these must be built from (github) source. the failure in previous comment is from https://github.com/simonjayhawkins/pandas-release/actions/runs/932775977 (built from sdist)