BUG: DataFrame.join on tz aware index and column
- [x] closes #26335
- [x] tests added / passed
- [x] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [x] whatsnew entry

# [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#26362](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/b48d1ff87237cb68792590f4377e3be5c73d5ea7?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `<.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `100%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&token=eZ4WkYLtcO&height=150&src=pr)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #26362      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   91.68%   91.67%   -0.01%     
==========================================
  Files         174      174              
  Lines       50700    50705       +5     
==========================================
  Hits        46486    46486              
- Misses       4214     4219       +5
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `90.18% <100%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `41.17% <14.28%> (-0.18%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/core/reshape/merge.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvcmVzaGFwZS9tZXJnZS5weQ==) | `94.5% <100%> (+0.03%)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `78.94% <0%> (-10.53%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `97.01% <0%> (-0.12%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/util/testing.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL3V0aWwvdGVzdGluZy5weQ==) | `90.6% <0%> (-0.11%)` | :arrow_down: |

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> **Legend** - [Click here to learn more](https://docs.codecov.io/docs/codecov-delta)
> `Δ = absolute <relative> (impact)`, `ø = not affected`, `? = missing data`
> Powered by [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=footer). Last update [b48d1ff...66e16aa](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=lastupdated). Read the [comment docs](https://docs.codecov.io/docs/pull-request-comments).
 # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#26362](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/a6e43a43f2cb1b4b7d46b262be2efb825d033eb8?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `<.01%`.
> The diff coverage is `100%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&token=eZ4WkYLtcO&height=150&src=pr)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #26362      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   91.68%   91.67%   -0.01%     
==========================================
  Files         174      174              
  Lines       50703    50703              
==========================================
- Hits        46488    46484       -4     
- Misses       4215     4219       +4
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `90.18% <100%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| #single | `41.17% <0%> (-0.18%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/core/reshape/merge.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvcmVzaGFwZS9tZXJnZS5weQ==) | `94.46% <100%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `78.94% <0%> (-10.53%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `97.01% <0%> (-0.12%)` | :arrow_down: |

------

[Continue to review full report at Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=continue).
> **Legend** - [Click here to learn more](https://docs.codecov.io/docs/codecov-delta)
> `Δ = absolute <relative> (impact)`, `ø = not affected`, `? = missing data`
> Powered by [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=footer). Last update [a6e43a4...11597b2](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/26362?src=pr&el=lastupdated). Read the [comment docs](https://docs.codecov.io/docs/pull-request-comments).
 thanks @mroeschke 