Backport PR #45364 on branch 1.4.x (CI/TST: update pyarrow pin in windows-3.8 env / fix failing parquet test on windows)
Manual backport of https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/45364
https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/runs/4855571330?check_suite_focus=true seemed to fail but not sure why here The failures happens on other PRs that are targetting master, so a general failure it sems