Improve(?) explanation of SettingWithCopy warning
After playing with R a bunch, I started feeling like the explanation of `SettingWithCopy` wasn't getting to the core of the matter, which is actually an essential consequence of python slice assignment semantics. Here's how python handles chained assignment:

``` python
df['foo']['bar'] = quux
# becomes
df.__getitem__('foo').__setitem__('bar', quux)
```

whereas in R, it's this:

``` R
df["foo"]["bar"] <- quux
# becomes
df["foo"] <- `[<-`(df["foo"], "bar", quux)
# becomes
df <- `[<-`(df, "foo", `[<-`(`[`(df, "foo"), "bar", quux))
```

That last is a lot of line noise, though the R method names ``[`` and ``[<-`` are more concise than `__getitem__` and `__setitem__`! But imagine that you could call `__setitem__` with a kwarg `inplace=False` that would cause it to return a modified copy instead of modifying the original object. Then the R version would translate to this in python:

``` python
df = df.__setitem__('foo',
                    df.__getitem__('foo')
                        .__setitem__('bar', quux, inplace=False),
                    inplace=False)
```

This is incredibly awkward, but it has the advantage of making `SettingWithCopy` unnecessary&mdash; _everything_ is a copy, and yet things get set nonetheless.

So this commit is an attempt to explain this without requiring the reader to know R.

thanks!

but you are making a wild assumption here, namely that users actually **read** documentation! (lmao)
 note https://github.com/pydata/pandas/pull/11500 (hopefully going to happen for 0.18.0)
 Well, it'll be nice if this is obsolete by the time it hits a release, but it was fun to write anyway. :) And users **do** read documentation. Sometimes. If you go on StackOverflow and direct them to it.
 Squashed. Just noticed I used "You might/may be wondering" to start two consecutive paragraphs. Oh well.
 ok, feel free to edit again :)
 There. Plus some emphasis. :)
 ok thanks! (and pls look at the built docs and see if anything needs tweaking)......usually at least 1 hr before travis builds..
