Pin aiobotocore to get ci passing
- [x] xref #43168

Aiobotocore got an upgrade from 1.3.3 to 1.4.0, looks like this broke our ci

This comes with s3fs. The new release handles the dependency, but is not on conda-forge yet
Looks ok if green - is there an upstream issue we can link on what exactly is broken?  Only found https://github.com/dask/s3fs/blob/main/requirements.txt @meeseeksdev backport 1.3.x