Deprecate is copy in take
- [ X ] closes #27357
- [X  ] tests added / passed
- [ X ] passes `black pandas`
- [ X ] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [ ] whatsnew entry

this cannot be against 0.25x @chrisstpierre thanks for the PR. As mentioned though this will need to target master and not the `0.25.x` branch. I *think* you'll need to open a new PR to do that, so closing this one as is.

Certainly appreciate the contribution though and can look in more detail when targeting master