remove unused time conversion funcs
Takes the place of #17708, removing funcs instead of moving them.

Had to cpdef `pydt_to_i8` because the func it is replacing in `_libs.index` was cdef'd.

- [ ] closes #xxxx
- [ ] tests added / passed
- [ ] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [ ] whatsnew entry

Haven't gotten a handle on why, but using `pydt_to_i8` in place of `_to_i8` in `_libs.index` causes a handful of test failures.  The main difference AFAICT is that `_to_i8` is less reliable, returns some types of arguments unchanged.

So for the time being, this moves `_to_i8` to `tslib` which is at least a more reasonable place for it to hang out.  The other removals discussed are still removals. # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#17711](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/cc58b84f423db58de9edca762f0abbe10c638efb?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `0.04%`.
> The diff coverage is `0%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&height=150&src=pr&token=eZ4WkYLtcO)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #17711      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   91.27%   91.23%   -0.05%     
==========================================
  Files         163      163              
  Lines       49766    49783      +17     
==========================================
- Hits        45423    45418       -5     
- Misses       4343     4365      +22
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `89.02% <0%> (-0.03%)` | :arrow_down: |
| #single | `40.34% <0%> (-0.07%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/io/pytables.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL3B5dGFibGVzLnB5) | `92.79% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `25% <0%> (-58.34%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/plotting/\_converter.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL3Bsb3R0aW5nL19jb252ZXJ0ZXIucHk=) | `63.38% <0%> (-1.82%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `97.73% <0%> (-0.1%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/sparse/array.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvc3BhcnNlL2FycmF5LnB5) | `91.58% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/compat/numpy/function.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvbXBhdC9udW1weS9mdW5jdGlvbi5weQ==) | `93.33% <0%> (+0.2%)` | :arrow_up: |

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 # [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#17711](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/commit/cc58b84f423db58de9edca762f0abbe10c638efb?src=pr&el=desc) will **decrease** coverage by `0.03%`.
> The diff coverage is `0%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&token=eZ4WkYLtcO&height=150&src=pr)](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master   #17711      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   91.27%   91.24%   -0.04%     
==========================================
  Files         163      163              
  Lines       49766    49779      +13     
==========================================
- Hits        45423    45419       -4     
- Misses       4343     4360      +17
```

| Flag | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| #multiple | `89.03% <0%> (-0.02%)` | :arrow_down: |
| #single | `40.32% <0%> (-0.08%)` | :arrow_down: |

| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [pandas/io/pytables.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL3B5dGFibGVzLnB5) | `92.79% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/io/gbq.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2lvL2dicS5weQ==) | `25% <0%> (-58.34%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvdG9vbHMvZGF0ZXRpbWVzLnB5) | `82.97% <0%> (-0.83%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/multi.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9tdWx0aS5weQ==) | `96.39% <0%> (-0.51%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/category.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9jYXRlZ29yeS5weQ==) | `97.46% <0%> (-0.29%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/resample.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvcmVzYW1wbGUucHk=) | `96.05% <0%> (-0.12%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/frame.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZnJhbWUucHk=) | `97.73% <0%> (-0.11%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [pandas/core/indexes/interval.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvaW5kZXhlcy9pbnRlcnZhbC5weQ==) | `92.85% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/core/sparse/array.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvc3BhcnNlL2FycmF5LnB5) | `91.58% <0%> (ø)` | :arrow_up: |
| [pandas/core/groupby.py](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree#diff-cGFuZGFzL2NvcmUvZ3JvdXBieS5weQ==) | `92.25% <0%> (+0.01%)` | :arrow_up: |
| ... and [3 more](https://codecov.io/gh/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/17711?src=pr&el=tree-more) | |

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