BUG: support count function for custom BaseIndexer rolling windows
- [X] xref #32865 
- [X] 1 tests added / 1 passed
- [X] passes `black pandas`
- [X] passes `git diff upstream/master -u -- "*.py" | flake8 --diff`
- [X] whatsnew entry

## Scope of PR
This PR makes sure that when we call `count` with a `BaseIndexer` subclass, custom `start` and `end` arrays get calculated, and the algorithm in the `aggregations.pyx` gets called instead of the `_Window.create_blocks`.

Turns out that we were sending the calculation into `aggregations.pyx` only for frequency-based windows, and custom `BaseIndexer` subclasses got ignored. Fixed it and cleaned the code up a bit.

## Background on the wider issue
We currently don't support several rolling window functions when building a rolling window object using a custom class descended from `pandas.api.indexers.Baseindexer`. The implementations were written with backward-looking windows in mind, and this led to these functions breaking.
Currently, using these functions returns a `NotImplemented` error thanks to #33057, but ideally we want to update the implementations, so that they will work without a performance hit. This is what I aim to do over a series of PRs.

## Perf notes
No changes to the algorithms necessary.

@mroeschke @jreback 
This PR implements `count` support for custom rolling windows.

All green, details above. @jreback 
All green, please take a look if it's what you had in mind. thanks @AlexKirko 