DEPR: Deprecate try_sort
xref #33336 

While working on another PR, and @WillAyd brought up `try_sort`, and after a quick look, I don't think `try_sort` is needed in that check method in `indexes/api.py`. (I also dont think it is right to have try_sort there), so deprecate it.


yep this is fine, ping on green. this one needs to wait until #33336 gets merged, since `try_sort` is still being used on master. @jreback 

I will leave it as WIP for now and then rebase once okay.
 Can you merge master on this? ping @WillAyd @jreback  thanks @charlesdong1991 