BLD/CI: Try to fix the Windows Python 3.13t wheel build
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FYI for anyone interested:
The Windows wheel builder CI (just the free-threaded builds) have been failing for the past 2 weeks. It seems like there's omething wonrg with the datetime code. I already took a look at numpy/tzdata versions, but those don't seem to be the problem (and I'm not sure what to look at next).

I don't have time to debug this any further (nor do I have a Windows machine to do so), but if anyone else is interested feel free to push to my branch. Something you may want to try (in particular to rule out a numpy dev change) is to try to use a released numpy instead of numpy dev.

As I mentioned in https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/61242 using numpy dev was needed historically for free-threaded, but there has been a few numpy releases with free-threaded wheels (including Windows).
 I opened a draft PR with the changes to use numpy release https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/61248.

Not familiar with pandas setup, but probably someone needs to add the label "Build" to my PR or try to push similar changes in this PR branch, whatever seems easier :wink:.