PERF: Improve Styler `to_excel` Performance
- [x] closes #47352
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##### Comment last updated at 2022-06-29 14:18:30 UTC ASV Results:

```
..       before           after         ratio
     [6f0be79b]       [db365209]
                      <styler-performance>
-       915±200ms         594±30ms     0.65  io.excel.WriteExcel.time_write_excel('openpyxl')
-       658±200ms         323±20ms     0.49  io.excel.WriteExcel.time_write_excel('xlsxwriter')
-       3.08±0.1s         934±40ms     0.30  io.excel.WriteExcelStyled.time_write_excel_style('xlsxwriter')

SOME BENCHMARKS HAVE CHANGED SIGNIFICANTLY.
PERFORMANCE INCREASED.
``` @github-actions pre-commit Overview of changes:

- Moved `CSSResolver.expand_*` methods (which are accessed in `.atomize`) to a dictionary called `CSS_EXPANSIONS` which is keyed directly by the CSS property, instead of having to do a string replace and concatenation.
- `CSSResolver.__call__` now accepts an iterable of declaration tuples `(property, value)` in addition to the previous string type.
    - When an iterable is passed, `.parse` does not need to be called
- `CSSExcelCell.__init__` no longer converts the css_styles (i.e. `Styler.ctx`) from a list of tuples to a CSS string. Instead, the list is converted to a frozenset via a dictionary (to keep only the final instance of each property declaration)
    - The list of tuples was already obtained from the initial CSS string(s) in `Styler._update_ctx`, so we were previously parsing, reforming into string, and parsing again. 
- `CSSToExcelConverter.__call__` is now cached using `lru_cache`. The frozenset was necessary to make all the arguments hashable for the caching mechanism. Benchmarks as of [8e56402](https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/pull/47371/commits/8e56402ed0639c231c98d06c25c62ee3da6f4524)
```
.       before           after         ratio
     [2b1184dd]       [8e56402e]
                      <styler-performance>
-        260±10ms          233±5ms     0.90  io.excel.WriteExcel.time_write_excel('xlsxwriter')
-        620±70ms         450±20ms     0.73  io.excel.WriteExcel.time_write_excel('openpyxl')
-      2.51±0.02s        1.42±0.3s     0.57  io.excel.WriteExcelStyled.time_write_excel_style('openpyxl')
-      1.69±0.07s         608±10ms     0.36  io.excel.WriteExcelStyled.time_write_excel_style('xlsxwriter')
- ``` Awesome improvement! Thanks @tehunter 