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“Most people would rather have their remarks be misunderstood than be disagreed with.”
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“Saving money, when buying an unnecessary thing, leads to wasting time, when using the thing.”
stoicism
7,363
“Sleep is often a form of escapism.”
stoicism
7,652
“Just as the earth that bears the man who tills and digs it, to bear those who speak ill of them, is a quality of the highest respect.”
stoicism
7,025
“Nature is content with few things, and with a very little of these.”
stoicism
7,478
“Every second is a step away from our mothers’ wombs towards our own tombs.”
stoicism
7,584
“Being a stoic does not mean being a robot. Being a stoic means remaining calm both at the height of pleasure and the depths of misery.”
stoicism
7,219
“Anxiety is the shadow of what we do not want to lose.”
stoicism
6,779
“Remember, it is not enough to be hit or insulted to be harmed, you must believe that you are being harmed. If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation. Which is why it is essential that we not respond impulsively to impressions; take a moment before reacting, and you will find it easier to maintain control.”
stoicism
7,593
“[I]ndulge the body just so far as suffices for good health. It needs to be treated somewhat strictly to prevent it from being disobedient to the spirit. Your food should appease your hunger, your drink quench your thirst, your clothing keep out the cold, your house be a protection against inclement weather.”
stoicism
7,567
“Most people have given back to life the power to make themselves happy.”
stoicism
7,011
“Show me one who is sick and yet happy, in peril and yet happy, dying and yet happy, in exile and happy, in disgrace and happy. Show him me. By the gods I would fain see a Stoic. Nay you cannot show me a finished Stoic; then show me one in the moulding, one who has set his feet on the path”
stoicism
7,020
“To act wise isn’t to act wisely.”
stoicism
7,646
“Sometimes in life we must fight not only without fear, but also without hope.”
stoicism
6,774
“Warriors should suffer their pain silently.”
stoicism
6,888
“Above all, avoid falsehood, every kind of falsehood, especially falseness to yourself. Watch over your own deceitfulness and look into it every hour, every minute. Avoid being scornful, both to others and to yourself. What seems to you bad within you will grow purer from the very fact of your observing it in yourself. Avoid fear, too, though fear is only the consequence of every sort of falsehood. Never be frightened at your own faint-heartedness in attaining love.”
stoicism
7,570
“It is our natural and moral duty as consumers of other living things to someday die.”
stoicism
7,143
“It takes a great degree of tolerance, and that of humility, to strongly disagree with someone, and not express your disagreement.”
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“Philosophy does not promise to secure anything external for man, otherwise it would be admitting something that lies beyond its proper subject-matter. For as the material of the carpenter is wood, and that of statuary bronze, so the subject-matter of the art of living is each person's own life.”
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“Life is short but life is long”
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“As for us, we face things that are not nearly as intimidating, and then we promptly decide we're screwed. This is how obstacles become obstacles. In other words, through our perception of events, we are complicit in the creation-as well as the destruction-of every one of our obstacles. There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.”
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“As for us, we face things that are not nearly as intimidating, and then we promptly decide we're screwed. This is how obstacles become obstacles. In other words, through our perception of events, we are complicit in the creation-as well as the destruction-of every one of our obstacles. There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means. - Book: "The Obstacle is the Way”
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“As the still dawn breaks and first light graces the horizon, we humans are presented with tremendous opportunity. We are gifted with a fresh start, a blank canvas upon which we can paint however we choose.”
stoicism
7,548
“They who always expect the worst are almost always pleasantly surprised.”
stoicism
7,622
“Most of us are “living the dream” living, that is, the dream we once had for ourselves.”
stoicism
7,051
“Most people frequently waste their life, mostly in front of a screen.”
stoicism
6,832
“Maximum remedium est irae mora.”
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6,986
“The best way to have people laugh with you and not at you, is to get ahead of them and laugh at yourself first.”
stoicism
7,623
“Progress daily in your own uncertainty. Live in awareness of the questions.”
stoicism
7,596
“When you are disturbed by events and lose your serenity, quickly return to yourself and don't stay upset longer than the experience lasts; for you'll have more mastery over your inner harmony by continually returning to it.”
stoicism
7,564
“Being in a hurry does not slow down time.”
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“We must become friends of despair if we are to be drawn above it to genuine and heartfelt hope. Far from being an exercise in morbidity or arrogance, a deepening acquaintance with our death and with the vanity of human wishes is our worldly hearts a needed path to perfect health (61).”
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“To chase pleasure is to be chased by pain.”
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“Equanimity is often mistaken for depression.”
stoicism
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“Before concluding the discussion on Partridge’s connection to the Stoic tradition, I present what is probably the greatest proof Partridge was a Stoic: he suffered the public doom of one. Ironically, Partridge may have missed a powerful warning about his own fate within one of the key texts he used in his academies. A footnote within William Duncan’s translation of Cicero’s orations recalls the ill fortune of Quintus Aelius Tubero in the eyes of the people of Rome caused by his Stoic behavior at the funeral of Scipio Africanus: "[It was the same from the study of Tubero] Cicero here ridicules the doctrine of the Stoics, shows the absurdities into which it may betray a man and paints the ill consequences that often arise from it. [Quintus Aelius] Tubero, of whom he speaks here had professed himself a Stoic and resolved to regulate his conduct by the tenets of that sect. Accordingly, in an entertainment he gave the Roman people on occasion of the death of the great Scipio Africanus he made use of plain wooden beds, goat skin covers, and earthen dishes. But this ill-timed parsimony was so displeasing to the Roman people that when he afterwards stood for the prætorship they refused him their suffrages though a man of illustrious birth and the most distinguished virtue." Is there a passage more fitting for the legacy of Partridge and his Stoic behavior? Even when Partridge had built an ideal model for educating a complete virtue-driven citizen worthy of the Republic, few would find the lifestyle required appealing. Being a virtuous man with a sufficient plan for American education was not enough to guarantee his acceptance among the masses.”
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“Virtue alone affords everlasting and peace-giving joy; even if some obstacle arise, it is but like an intervening cloud, which floats beneath the sun but never prevails against it.”
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“The problem with pleasure is that it needs to be intermittent in order to retain its pleasantness.”
stoicism
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“Hating our opponent benefits us. Underestimating them benefits them.”
stoicism
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“No one is too old to live another day, or too young to die today.”
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“Life is neither a glorious highlight reel nor a monstrous tragedy. Every day is a good day to live and a good day to die. Every day is also an apt time to learn and express joy and love for the entire natural world. Each day is an apt time to make contact with other people and express empathy for the entire world. Each day is perfect to accept with indifference all aspects of being.”
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“Unless you learn your lesson, it will keep hurting. Not only it will never stop, it will also keep increasing the amount, so you won’t get used to it.”
stoicism
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“Living is the outside of dying.”
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“Every second is a step away from our mothers’ wombs towards our own tombs.”
stoicism
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“Saiba que um teto de palha abriga o homem tão bem quanto o de ouro.”
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“[W]hatever happens is never as serious as rumour makes it out to be.”
stoicism
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“Stoical' is the best word to describe her reaction to these compliments, Emma putting up with them as of they were one of my unfortunate foibles.”
stoicism
7,540
“A blind man’s thoughts almost never have anything to do with the things he is facing.”
stoicism
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“We often mistake assuming or hoping for knowing.”
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“Think of your many years of procrastination; how the gods have repeatedly granted you further periods of grace, of which you have taken no advantage. It is time now to realise the nature of the universe to which you belong, and of that controlling Power whose offspring you are; and to understand that your time has a limit set to it. Use it, then, to advance your enlightenment; or it will be gone, and never in your power again.”
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“All too often, a wise or free person is ridiculed, because of ignorance, by fools or slaves.”
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“For a life spent viewing all the variety, the majesty, the sublimity in things around us can never succumb to ennui: the feeling that one is tired of being, of existing, is usually the result of an idle and inactive leisure.”
stoicism
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“That you have just caught success after chasing it for many years does not mean that death will stop chasing you for at least a few seconds.”
stoicism
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“Not complaining is sometimes a show off of tolerance or patience.”
stoicism
6,852
“Man, consider first what the matter is (which you propose to do), then your own nature also, what it is able to bear. If you are a wrestler, look at your shoulders, your thighs, your loins: for different men are naturally formed for different things.”
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“Birds weren’t given wings just to walk everywhere . . . and you weren’t born with resilience and a beautiful mind just to have an easy life.”
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“There is the mind of a monarch within each of us, wanting to be granted complete freedom of action but not wanting it to be turned against us.”
stoicism
6,847
“Forever seeking, forever moving forward. To strive, to struggle.”
stoicism
7,226
“Death is freedom from life.”
stoicism
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“If you apply yourself to study you will avoid all boredom with life, you will not long for night because you are sick of daylight, you will be neither a burden to yourself nor useless to others, you will attract many to become your friends and the finest people will flock about you.”
stoicism
6,770
“Imagine smiling after a slap in the face. Then think of doing it twenty-four hours a day.”
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“When a dog is tied to a cart, if it wants to follow, it is pulled and follows, making its spontaneous act coincide with necessity. But if the dog does not follow, it will be compelled in any case. So it is with men too: even if they don't want to, they will be compelled to follow what is destined.”
stoicism
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“Love me for my affection, love me even for my weakness; I am satisfied myself. I prefer my feelings to all the fine sentiments of Seneca or Epictetus.”
stoicism
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“Tomorrow’s worries contaminate the present.”
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“As things are, there is about wisdom a nobility and magnificence in the fact that she didn't just fall to a person's lot, that each man owes her to his own efforts, that one doesn't go to anyone other than oneself to find her.”
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“There is a switch in the air tonight. It’s not suffocating, like breakups all those years ago, but clean and clear. He does not want me anymore so I tilt my head, take a breath and say, “Okay. I understand.” It’s calm now. My heart didn’t break, it kept on beating like a stoic marching forward without looking back, and I will be a writer now. I love so many people, still. I think I will write about them forever.”
stoicism
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“We all die having lived a full life, even those who die while they are being born.”
stoicism
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“And here lies the essential difference between Stoicism and the modern-day 'cult of optimism.' For the Stoics, the ideal state of mind was tranquility, not the excitable cheer that positive thinkers usually seem to mean when they use the word, 'happiness.' And tranquility was to be achieved not by strenuously chasing after enjoyable experiences, but by cultivating a kind of calm indifference towards one's circumstances.”
stoicism
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“Tell us your secrets.’ [23] ‘I refuse, as this is up to me.’ ‘I will put you in chains.’ ‘What’s that you say, friend? It’s only my leg you will chain, not even God can conquer my will.’ [24] ‘I will throw you into prison.’ ‘Correction – it is my body you will throw there.’ ‘I will behead you.’ ‘Well, when did I ever claim that mine was the only neck that couldn’t be severed?”
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7,569
“Life takes from us only lives we were given by it.”
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“Remember two things: i. that everything has always been the same, and keeps recurring, and it makes no difference whether you see the same things recur in a hundred years or two hundred, or in an infinite period; ii. that the longest-lived and those who will die soonest lose the same thing. The present is all that they can give up, since that is all you have, and what you do not have you cannot lose.”
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“When faced with people's bad behavior, turn around and ask when you have acted like that. When you saw money as a good, or pleasure, or social position. Your anger will subside as soon as you recognize that they acted under compulsion (what else could they do?)”
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6,864
“We can’t choose what the world throws at us, but we can control how we react to it, and that makes all the difference.”
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“[A] resistance that dispenses with consolations is always stronger than one which relies on them.”
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“Education almost always leaves stupidity intact.”
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“To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it. It's unfortunate that this has happened. No. It's fortunate that this has happened and I've remained unharmed by it - not shattered by the present or frightened of the future. It could have happened to anyone. But not everyone could have remained unharmed by it. Why treat the one as a misfortune rather than the other as fortunate? Can you really call something a misfortune that doesn't violate human nature? Or do you think something that's not against nature's will can violate it? But you know what its will is. Does what's happened keep you from acting with justice, generosity, self-control, sanity, prudence, honesty, humility, straightforwardness, and all the other qualities that allow a person's nature to fulfil itself? So remember this principle when something threatens to cause you pain: the thing itself was no misfortune at all; to endure it and prevail is great good fortune.”
stoicism
7,019
“An apology is usually a disguised request for a key to the cage of guilt or regret.”
stoicism
7,443
“It is childish to be surprised by something that you knew exists or is possible.”
stoicism
7,207
“It usually takes maturity in a child, and immaturity in an adult, not to be on speaking terms with someone.”
stoicism
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“If you come across any special trait of meanness or stupidity … you must be careful not to let it annoy or distress you, but to look upon it merely as an addition to your knowledge—a new fact to be considered in studying the character of humanity. Your attitude towards it will be that of the mineralogist who stumbles upon a very characteristic specimen of a mineral.”
stoicism
7,540
“A blind man’s thoughts almost never have anything to do with the things he is facing.”
stoicism
7,660
“Even the least of our activities ought to have some end in view.”
stoicism
7,075
“We are often blind to the fact that our situation is not as bad as we think, until it gets worse.”
stoicism
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“I encouraged them to bear up against all evils, and if we must perish, to die in our own cause, and not weakly distrust the providence of the Almighty, by giving ourselves up to despair. I reasoned with them, and told them that we would not die sooner by keeping up our hopes; that the dreadful sacrifices and privations we endured were to preserve us from death, and were not to be put in competition with the price which we set upon our lives, and their value to our families: it was, besides, unmanly to repine at what neither admitted of alleviation nor cure; and withal, that it was our solemn duty to recognise in our calamities an overruling divinity, by whose mercy we might be suddenly snatched from peril, and to rely upon him alone, ‘Who tempers the wind to the shorn lamb?”
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“Here is your great soul—the man who has given himself over to Fate; on the other hand, that man is a weakling and a degenerate who struggles and maligns the order of the universe and would rather reform the gods than reform himself.”
stoicism
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“Consider above all else whether you've advanced in philosophy or just in actual years.”
stoicism
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“Not everything that could have been done should have been done.”
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“There is no need to raise our hands to heaven; there is no need to implore the temple warden to allow us close to the ear of some graven image, as though this increased the chances of our being heard. God is near you, is with you, is inside you.”
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“One man’s bad day is another man’s good night.”
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“Yes, as my swift days near their goal, 'Tis all that I implore - In life and death, a chainless soul, With courage to endure.”
stoicism
7,170
“You can wear an expensive watch and still be late.”
stoicism
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“We cannot have, but can lose, everything.”
stoicism
7,536
“We have never tried to do most of the things we are dead sure we cannot do.”
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“Don’t seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will — then your life will flow well.”
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“Take pride in your courage for it leads to difficult situations which, once overcome, leave you more than what you were before. Only in the most extreme of pressures does carbon become diamond”
stoicism
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“Even as the Sun doth not wait for prayers and incantations to rise, but shines forth and is welcomed by all: so thou also wait not for clapping of hands and shouts and praise to do thy duty; nay, do good of thine own accord, and thou wilt be loved like the Sun.”
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“Most of us are “living the dream” living, that is, the dream we once had for ourselves.”
stoicism
7,347
“A man is as much a fool for shedding tears because he isn't going to be alive a thousand years from now.”
stoicism
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“To the wise, peace of mind is the result of being fine with how things are; to the foolish, the result of things being fine.”
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“The mind, unconquered by violent passions, is a citadel, for a man has no fortress more impregnable in which to find refuge and remain safe forever.”
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“Therefore we ought to exercise ourselves in small things, and beginning with them to proceed to the greater.”
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