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                </div>Wipe the slate clean, ditch the lot of then and get some more reasonable people in your life. It isn't worth stressing over, it isn't worth keeping stress-causers around.

Shit sucks, but you recognize what all went wrong now. You're young enough that you can think but not quite old enough for your frontal lobes to give you the kick in the nuts they will in the future.

It's time to move on. What's happened is in the past now, it's behind you. Don't forget it, learn from it, but don't feel over it, learn to be at peace with yourself, past present and future.

Hopefully one of the regulars here can repost the whole "go to a place without people, focus on your breathing" meditation post. It's so often recommended for a reason.

Finally, never forget what you are. You're human (assuming). We're unique for our higher thought and ***ability to learn from each other***.  Intelligence is shared knowledge, wisdom shared experience.

And son, whatever you do, don't go back.Brandel Chamblee ripped into Patrick Reed following the ongoing cheating allegations at the Hero World Challenge.
If there's one thing you can praise Brandel Chamblee for, it's his honesty. He might upset a few people along the way but the Golf Channel analyst certainly says it how it is and this time he really didn't hold back.
Patrick Reed's 'cheating' incident has made all the headlines as of late and he's now in Melbourne representing the USA in the Presidents Cup against Ernie Els' Rest of the World side.
Pretty much everyone in golf has had their say on Reed's incident at the Hero World Challenge and now Chamblee has had his turn.
Chamblee was asked whether Reed's actions will effect the team in Melbourne, to which he stated that the team is 'well coached' enough to handle it, but deep down the core of the team will be suffering.
Watch the segment below where Chamblee absolutely rips into Reed, even labelling him the 'devil'.
“The specter of having in their midst somebody who so flagrantly broke the rules; look, they made a deal with the devil when they put Patrick Reed on this team,” he said. “They thought that whatever darkness he would bring to the team would be offset by his competitive fire. When was the last time a teammate stabbed everybody in the back as soon as the event was over? It was the last time there was a team event, and it was Patrick Reed.
“He’s putt his teammates in a very difficult situation,” he continued. “If they do defend him, they’re tacitly defending breaking a rule. Flagrantly defending breaking a rule … It’s an untenable situation.
“This was flagrant. No way, no camera angle you could look at. Anybody in the world of golf who watched this, it was repugnant video to anybody in the world of golf. … As far back as this game goes, at its inception, is that you do not improve your lie. It’s not a new rule. 
“The fact that he thinks there is no intent. I think his ego is as big as Jupiter. Ego monsters are irritated by facts, but they’re not moved aside from them. They think their ignorance of the facts, or their version, of what happened is greater than the truth.
Johnnie Greeson Brown, the loving mother of Steve, Mike and Roger (aka Charlie) went to her eternal home, after complications following a stroke, where our Lord and Savior welcomed her with His loving arms. Johnnie was the eldest daughter of James and Mabel Greeson of Mt Hope, NC. She was born on March 3, 1932. Johnnie fell in love with her late husband, Kinston Buck Brown, Jr (aka Billy) and they were married on March 7, 1952. Johnnie loved cooking, spending time watering her flowers and just being a home maker, wife and mom…most of all she loved her family and