 want to hire, I think he’s got an opportunity and a possibility to be really, really good at it.” That’s only the best coach in the league giving a full-throated endorsement; here’s us, shrugging and giving a tentative thumbs up. Mark Jackson’s done just fine in Golden State, and no one’s laughed at Kidd that much.
Why can’t every game be like this?
Here’s Andray Blatche and Reggie Evans, hanging out with the Lucas Brothers and playing a pickup game in which they’re burdened with all kinds of goofy afflictions. You try to split a double-team when someone’s trying to tickle you and see how easy it is.
Vampire Weekend are very good and very New York, having done more to capture the Gotham mystique than any pop culture actor since Woody Allen. They’ve released a video for “Diane Young,” one of the better songs off the recently released Modern Vampires of the City, in which drummer Chris Tomson is seen sporting a Brooklyn Nets shirt beneath his jacket—a nice sign that in lieu of a championship, at least the Nets have captured local hearts. That, or the black and white goes with just about anything.
Nominations for the Faculty of Education’s Faculty and Staff Awards for 2020 are now open!
We invite you to recognize the exceptional work and significant achievements by our staff and faculty. Nominations can be made by faculty members, staff members, and students.
Award descriptions and nomination instructions are outlined below. For each nomination, we ask the nominator to list the names of two (2) other faculty, staff, or students who have agreed to support the nomination.
Nominations will be reviewed by the Ad Hoc Nominations and Awards Committee. Winners will be announced in December. Details will be provided via email at a later date.
This award recognizes the successful completion of a complex project that makes a significant contribution to the operation of the Faculty of Education. It also recognizes originality in developing and implementing methods and procedures for the betterment of the Faculty.
This award is offered to recognize and showcase excellence in significant contributions made by faculty in the Faculty of Education.
Building on the fine tradition of the Jack Paterson Award, the Community Engagement Award is open to both staff and faculty.
This award offered to recognize and honour a faculty or staff member who has "made a difference" in the faculty.
Established in 2019, this award is offered to recognize a staff or faculty member who demonstrates great effort to boost camaraderie amongst their colleagues by working to creat a sense of community, collegiality, unity, and fun.
A pregnant mother, never imagines that maybe, just maybe, shortly after saying hello to their precious baby, they will also have to face saying goodbye.
Sometimes this is sudden and unexpected, and sometimes this is determined early on in the pregnancy through testing and ultrasounds. Regardless of how and when it happens, having to meet that amazing little gift only to soon say goodbye rips your heart apart in a way that no one will ever understand.
Half of you dies at that moment too-literally. A deep wound full of grief, pain, confusion, hurt, and anger all mixed with a deep feeling of love is formed and never goes away. I know, because I lived it and I would do anything for no other mother or father to experience such immense pain.
However, what keeps me going are the amazingly beautiful memories that we were able to create with our baby boy and from personal experience, I recommend that if you or anyone you know is ever faced with a similar situation, that they too try to create and hold on to these memories. Regardless of how short or long you get to spend with your baby, that baby is your son or daughter and will remain forever in your hearts and lives.
Create a specific birth plan.
Talk openly and honestly with your care team and ask as many questions as you may have. Many hospitals offer a ‘comfort care/palliative care’ program designed specifically for families who have received a fatal diagnosis early on in their pregnancy and this can be the best option for you.
This is the care plan that we chose as we learned that no amount of intrusive care would keep our baby alive, so after much consideration, we chose to opt to cherish our time with him and not have him removed from our side at any point- and it was the best decision for us.
A ‘comfort care’ plan is designed to keep mother, fathers and babies together from the moment of delivery to be able to spend each minute available together. The medical team can accommodate you all in one room and depending on the circumstances will try to do as many of the ‘normal’ activities with you and your baby as they would with any other.
For example, in my situation I breastfed, I bathed my son, took unlimited photos and videos, sang, prayed, cuddled him, slept together and just enjoyed and loved each other’s company during our 3 days together.
This is not easy as you will undoubtedly feel emotional pain and will want to take drastic measures to save your baby, but again, in some cases this may be the best option and as painful as it is, it also brings many beautiful memories and inner peace that you get to keep forever.
So discuss your birth plans carefully and inquire on all the possible options offered in your local hospital and go with the one best for you.
Once you have agreed on the specific plans with your partner, and medical team, write them down and print them so you can keep a copy with you at all times to use in case you go in to a premature delivery.
This is so important not only for any legal paperwork after but as part of the entire process. Regardless of the circumstances, this is your son or daughter and giving them a name ahead of time will help as you speak to them in the womb and for when you finally get to meet him/her.
Begin recording every detail in a journal.
If it is a complicated pregnancy, you may not want to do this — I honestly didn’t and I regret it now, so if you can, do so and just list all appointments, dates, track your weight and all baby details. You will be glad you did after.
Do a sound recording of your baby’s heartbeat.
This is a great idea my husband suggested to me and I loved it. At a regular OBGYN appointment, ask the doctor if you can record with your phone or any audio device your baby’s heart beat from the Doppler that they use. You will love hearing the sound of life and your baby’s heart beating after the have passed.
Consider having a FREE professional photographer at the birth.
Now I Lay me Down to Sleep (NILMDTS) is an amazing organization that dedicates its volunteer professional photographers to be present at these deliveries to take beautiful pictures and help create those memories. Contact them ahead of time and then keep the contact information with you at all times. (You can include it in your birth plan). If you are faced with a stillbirth or unexpectedly your baby passes, many hospitals will contact NILMDTS for you if you ask them to.
Buy a special outfit(s) for your baby.
You will want to dress your baby in different outfits if possible and be able to take different pictures and take the outfit’s home with you. Consider buying a few different sizes, including preemie- just in case.
Make or buy a special blanket to wrap your baby in.
You will cherish it forever and, because you held your baby in it, it may smell like him or her and will possibly provide a small comfort to hold later as you grieve.
Bring any special items from home.
Examples can include: books, toys, and other items you’ll want for photos and special moments with your baby.
Get a memory basket.
MissingGrace is an organization that willsend you a gift basket with lots of beautiful items just for you. Included is also a folder of very helpful information that will help you during the time before and after.
Prepare a camera and video camera.
Take as many pictures as possible so bring those extra cameras and if possible assign a friend or family member to be responsible for the picture taking. A personal tip is to try to smile for at least a few of the photos. Though you may be crying or so sad, try your hardest to capture some ‘happy’ pictures as you will seek those out after to display them proudly in your house/office.
Begin making funeral arrangements.
No expectant parent should ever have to consider this, but the sad truth is that some of us have to ensure such pain, and where possible try to be as prepared as possible now so you can enjoy your time with your baby. Decide which funeral home you’d like to use as well as burial or cremation plans. Your hospital’s social worker can be of great assistance for this. If you can’t face doing this, your partner or family member of friend can be very helpful for this. Make the necessary arrangements.
This is the most special time and the time to create all the memories as possible. Take time and do not feel rushed!
 Sing, pray, bathe, dress, feed him/her, and try to do as many of the ‘normal’ things you would typically do.
Bring a special lotion or essential oil for your baby.
If you have other children, consider allowing them to hold, kiss, and see their new baby.
Let them see your emotions and talk openly with them about what is happening. Take pictures of them alone and as a group.
Focus on every part of your