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3. He wants you to be proud of him.
This is one of those things that a lot of women often overlook, but when a guy is still in love with a woman, he usually wants her to be proud of him. So, if he seems to want you to feel this way, then that can be a good indication. Does it seem like he wants to tell you about his little accomplishments and he is looking for positive feedback from you? If so, then he probably does still care about you and your opinion of him probably means a lot to him.
Ways To Make Him Want You and Only You!
Capturing the attention of a man, is both simple and easy if you prepare yourself with the proper methods beforehand. You do not need flawless features or even the best financial status to pique his interest. Although these would certainly not harm your cause, they are not mandatory to catch his attention and garner his interest in you. All you need are the following 5 strategies, a good attitude and a little luck; and you will be well on your way to developing a relationship with any man you so desire!
 Instead, act as though approaching him or getting approached is completely normal. As though you are not surprised but greatly humbled and willing to converse. Exclusivity should stay out of your vocabulary as well. Make him recognize that you are interested in him yet keeping your options open. So be sure not to bring up any marriage talk or future plans in the early stages of the relationship. If you do, you risk turning him away - if you don't, you open yourself up to his interest in you as he won't feel quite as 'tied down'.
This might be difficult for some women to grasp as it is easy to become so obsessed with the thought of a decent relationship. However, you won't quite accomplish this kind of commitment if your life is currently out of balance. Men appreciate a woman who is interested in more than just him, (excluding other males). Most want to be with a woman who feel good about themselves, someone worthy of his love, and vice versa.
This is probably the easiest yet most effective strategy within this list. By dropping his name into the conversation, in a subtle yet sexy way - gives your man a quick erotic boost that he didn't see coming. When you say his name, it will reassure him for just a moment that you are thinking of nobody but him. Use it casually in conversation, such as; "Then when I was finished with it Michael....there was no better feeling!" Drop his name on the sly during conversation, skip a beat, then finish your sentence. Use it sparingly and only when it counts. Up the sex ante by using this technique in a public setting, or by including slight physical contact in the process, such as placing your hand on top of his as you laugh, etc.
This one should be a no-brainer. If you do not feel at all comfortable around a male, any male and/or at any time, you need to work on yourself some. Men are men and will always be men. They can be brash, inconsiderate, silly, and so much more - but they still have a heart, and most will be willing to let you into it under the right circumstances. Learn to love yourself as well and be comfortable and confident with everything you do, everything you say, even everything you wear!
Scent is considered the most primitive of all the senses, meaning the one we have evolved to associate with and remember the most. Using a fragrance correctly can be a significant aphrodisiac for your man, as it travels through his nose and up his limbic node until it reaches his brain and stimulates an emotional response. This way when you go in for a hello hug, you will awaken his senses and pique his interest. Make him really want to know who you are by giving him the opportunity to approach and pursue you. There are multiple ways to go about this, but only a select few will ultimately trigger his desire to maintain a solid relationship.
Why Did he Cheat On Me!
You may be one of the many wives that is wondering why your husband decided to cheat on you. You probably had what you considered to be a good marriage --perhaps with children -- and everything now seems ruined. If you are straining your mind trying to come to terms with the reason why your husband has cheated on you, you should understand that you are not alone. Anyone that has gone through the effects of an affair always has the same question.
You see, whenever a couple get married they are entering into an agreement that they will remain faithful to one another for a lifetime. This means that even when things get bad, when sex is not available for weeks or even months at a time, when horrible arguments take place and everything seems to fall apart emotionally -- there will be no cheating.
Cheating on a spouse is not an option. If there are problems in the marriage they can be dealt with in another way. A marriage counselor can be sought. Once again, cheating is not an option that is left open.
You may not be able to fully comprehend what makes a person have an affair and instead of spending too much time trying to rationalize it, concentrate on your own healing instead. It is time better spent.
As a rational person that does not have a character flaw you can learn to deal with your own emotions to help the healing begin. This will be a process and you will learn and grow from it. You can start by developing your own communication skills so that you can better listen to your husband and deal effectively with what is being said. You'll also need to learn how to rebuild the trust that has been lost in the relationship and start building a new relationship that is built on honesty and communication.
The focus will need to be on establishing a marriage that is even better than it was before and growing it every day. It is important to realize that you may not really fully understand what could lead a husband to cheat on his wife, especially when there is still love within the marriage.
We all have many ideas about what makes a great relationship. Fidelity is usually at the top of the must have list. No one I know wants to have a relationship with a cheating partner. Couples want to feel confident that their intimacy is personal. Steve cannot profess his undying love to Chichi, if he's romancing six others around town. On the flip side, Chichi can't give herself totally to Steve if she wants to give her attention to other guys. There are three fundamental characteristics of a great relationship. Honesty, expectation, and friendship are absolute necessities in unions that will thrive for a life time.
Every relationship needs and should promote honesty between one another. Honest people are not unfaithful, because they look squarely at what's missing or lacking in the relationship. Honest people are honest regardless of how uncomfortable the situation and it's just that simple. They tell the other party that certain needs are not being met or if they just want out of the commitment.  For example, Chichi only cheats because her husband doesn't pay enough attention to her. She won't tell him about the affair because it would devastate him and the children. Yet, her marriage and children existed before the affair began. Preexisting circumstances cannot be used later as convenient excuses.
Couples must also be sure they share the same expectations to solidify a loving committed relationship. Barbara has been exclusively dating John, and fully hopes to marry him someday. John only wants to date Barbara for the foreseeable future. He thinks marriage only ruins a great relationship in the longterm. Barbara is aware of John's feelings and hopes he will simply change his mind as time passes. Their expectations for the relationship are clearly mismatched. Even platonic friendships can't survive without some identical expectations. Neither party wants to end the relationship because they are so much attached to each other. Nonetheless their relationship will end badly, because of conflicting expectations.
Friendship is the cornerstone of every lasting relationship. Sex can diminish over time or as a result of emotional circumstances. A strong bond is required to sustain closeness during these moments. Peter adored everything about Laura during the first few months. As time passes, he notices they don't seem to have very much in common. Peter no longer feels the same intense attraction to her that once burned inside of him. Lust alone is unsustainable because it unfortunately doesn't last forever. Once initial attraction has faded couples must see the other's flaws without the benefit of cloudy glasses.
Relationships must increase their capacity for honesty, have uniform expectations, and build a timeless friendship. Otherwise a once perfect union will ultimately collapse beneath the pressures of life.
A man who really loves you will tell you that he loves you and he will also show it. A man who says that he loves you but whose actions do not love you is probably stringing you along. But how can you know that a man loves you with his actions. What are the ways that men show their love through actions?
I. He loves you with his time. Men show love by the way they use their time. A man who loves you will make the effort to spend time with you and it will be premium time and not left-over time.
a. Left-over time is time when he has nothing else to do after he has done all the things that are important to him. Left-over time is thus time when he is looking to get a need met after he has spent himself with everything and everyone that he has prioritized above you. He will meet with you only when it is convenient for him and thus he will only call when he is bored or when he has nothing better to do. He will be unavailable to you when you need him since you are low on his priorities. Does your man only spend time with you when he has nothing better