As an individual, a partner, a parent, a facilitator, an emerging leader, work colleague and a friend do you want to enhance your ability to not just manage but maximize the opportunities your human experience offers you for the growth and expansion of you, your potential, your interactions and your relationships?
Where ever you are in your personal growth, no matter your age, you can always go deeper and broader in exploring who you are, releasing who you are not and discovering more of the magic of not just yourself, but also other people.
The more you dive into the human process and fully embrace and experience the adventure of lessons, learning, unraveling, healing, discovery, expression and expansion the more you reconnect to and become your true-self -your soul-self.
The resources and guidance that I facilitate keeps it realm simple and guides you to shine a light within you to explore the conditioned, hurt, natural and true aspects of you. And the more you are able to self-facilitate your process, and work through your own processing and make a difference to you, the more you can grow and develop your ability to facilitate others, to support them to make a difference to who they are, and to your relationships.
Within you and everyone you know, at the core of you, is your true-self, your soul-self. The essential part of you that is whole, natural, perfect, light filled, fluid, knowing and untouched by your human experience. The part of you where there is no ‘lack of’, there is no doubt, where trust is not a concept because there is no lack of trust or distrust, and there are no emotions, because they are a human process.
You and everyone you know is connected to their true-self and you have the ability, to grow your awareness of your connection and to strengthen your connection so that the true you is who you express again.
As a human, you have been conditioned to experience areas of your life and see yourself in complex and emotional ways. Conditioning that limits, hinders and suppresses who you are, and your potential. Conditioning that creates patterns of complexity and emotional reactions in your interactions and relationships.
When you know how to unravel, heal and dissolve the complexity, you reconnect to the natural simplicity that is you. You see, hear and experience the simplicity and beauty of who you are, who others are and life.
Facilitation is a key process that you can apply to assist your process and processing to be more simpler and easier. Growing your ability to self-facilitate, makes your progress with navigating through your emotional, mental, physiological, physical and energy processing simpler and fascinating.
And as you get to know and manage you with greater ease, comfort and confidence, your ability to facilitate other people through their process enhances. You then not only make a difference to who you are, u also make a difference in facilitating others to make a difference to who they are.
So imagine how your interactions can flourish and how the potential of your relationships can be expressed and experienced. And this is all because of you making a difference to you.
SELF FACILITATION IS A WAY OF LIFE
FACILITATION IS AN APPROACH TO LIFE
Discover more of you, your potential, your true self, and experience the expansion of the expression of who you truly are and the what your relationships truly can be.
Explore I Make a Difference, the process and road map for your growth and evolvement through the human adventure, so that you can strengthen your connection to your true-self, your soul-self
Explore U Make a Difference, a space to access resources and processes to grow your ability to powerfully facilitate the processing that other people experience, so that they grow in their ability and confidence to facilitate themselves.
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I Make a Difference introduces you to and details the process you experience in being your soul-self in human form to where you become your human conditioned and hurt self, and the adventure required, to journey back to reconnecting to and being your true-self (soul-self) in human form.
Packed with self-facilitation exercises, loads of tools and approaches to guide you to understand, work through, manage, change and develop areas within you, that you want to make a difference to, so you can strengthen your connection to the beauty and value of who you are – your true self.
I Make a Difference – is described as “a manual for life”
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Melinda Cates leaves no stone unturned as she maps the connection between soul and human experience. Her rare thoroughness and attention to intellect, emotion and sensing is as exemplary as it is necessary in the treatment of this important subject matter . One gets the palpable impression her insight and wisdom has been distilling over many decades through amazingly lived conscious experience . So grateful she has made this podcast so many others can have the benefit of her unique knowing . ❤️
susieC# from Australia
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For me personally you were/are my guide into the spiritual world, a mentor for my spiritual journey. In fact you are more like my mentor than anyone else in my life. Not only that, you have shared with me your own struggles in life, being an example of what it's like living as a human being but with a spiritual voice. So in terms of what you do, you are both an example (role model) and a guide for those of us who seek truth about life, who yearn to have a connection with our higher consciousness (or the divine) while living a human life, being grounded to the experience of being a human.
You walk alongside people in a supportive, facilitating, loving and accepting way that brings about deep self-reflection in a safe and secure process. You share your knowing honestly to reveal the truth about who we are as human beings. This offers people a choice to make their own journey and feel embraced by their own processing. Your strength, honesty, loving care and respect create a sanctuary for people to explore parts of themselves they have been fearful of facing. You are a pathway to the truth and operate completely in integrity, love and acceptance giving of this to others so that they too can live in truth and love.
The safe environment I felt in your presence was strong honest powerful and humble. At that time in my life, I felt if I am able to replicate half of that, Minz, I knew my life would shine. You are able to relate with individuals straight away as you have relatable memories and life experiences which most mentors don't have. You were able to break down all of my walls and barriers within minutes. I was comfortable to tell you all of my deep feelings without judgement knowing that you really cared. Honestly it felt like I was talking to another part of my soul when we had conversations like I had known you from another life. Your confidence and relatable experience had almost hypnotized me like a moth to a light. I knew then that we had both made an impression on each other that would last a lifetime. I have listened to my knowing daily figuring out what was best for me and my situation. I was able to see what was real and who was fake, knowing that asking for something wouldn't hurt me as the worst that could happen would be a “no”.
Melinda supports your ability to look at yourself, to answer and give reflective meaning to the truths that you already are aware of but haven't yet explored fully. Her insight into personalities is an extreme value in unearthing the hidden gems that lay within individuals.
You are a very talented, strong, kind, trustworthy, incredibly honest and beautiful person who has seen lots in her life. I know one thing; it is always difficult to be a talented person. You must come across a lot of jealousy, envy, betrayal, stupidity and people who will never understand you, who will be always trying to use you with fake smiles and fake compliments. Deep inside, I know that you see right through them but still believe in their best. You have confidence that they can become better people. Well that’s what strong and kind people do. Though quite honest sometimes I think that people suck. I think and read very often what I learned from you and every time I discover and learn something new from your writings, what I didn’t notice the previous time.
What YOU do is provide and stimulate insight in others. You help them reveal themselves to themselves. You support and nourish growth. You act not so much as a mirror but as a spotlight, that shines the light on areas for growth.	
After doing the IMAD program I progressed to the Facilitation program. This course is about how to facilitate interactions with others and builds on the learnings from IMAD. The course has two areas of focus. The first is how to understand and manage your own responses to circumstances, and the other is how to understand other people’s responses and deal with those effectively. Both the IMAD and Facilitation program have helped me to improve my performance as a Manager. I have become more effective at delegation, better able to hold people accountable, and more effective in team activities.