Polygamy completely changes the way a man thinks about women and what it means to be faithful to them. Islam is polygamous and monogamous Some say that the polygamy was only for a certain situation of too many women but paradise has polygamy. Muslims men use the promise of polygamy to entice men to embrace Islam http://www.abc.net.au/pm/content/2008/s2422121.htm polygamy - find verse on do not deny what Allah has not lawful.