and he’ll have to come up with an excuse for rejecting my offer. I’m afraid 
he’ll think I’m stupid, or even worse, he’ll feel sorry for me.
Therapist:    As we’ve discussed previously, there are many different possible reactions 
that he could have. Thinking you’re stupid or feeling sorry for you are just 
two of many possibilities. Nevertheless, let’s assume for a moment that your 
fears actually are true. What if he does think you are foolish and pathetic?
Aimee:   I don’t know. I hadn’t really thought beyond that. I would feel terrible.