person’s views when you are expressing your own opinions. Differing views 
should be expressed in a friendly and supportive way, and you should make 
an effort to communicate understanding of the other person’s perspective.
UÊJoin an ongoing conversation . In some circumstances, it is perfectly appro -
priate to join an ongoing conversation. For example, at parties people often 
walk about, moving in and out of different conversations. See if you can join 
in with a group of people who are discussing some issue that interests you.
UÊTalk to parents of other children . Just as pet owners enjoy talking to other 
pet owners, parents usually enjoy talking about their children with other 
parents. If you have children, get involved in situations where you might 
have the opportunity to talk to other parents. For example, attend parents’ 
night at your children’s school or enroll your children in a class (such as 
swimming, hockey, crafts, music) with other children. Take advantage of any 
opportunities to talk to the other parents.
UÊMeet two or three friends at a café . Invite several coworkers or friends to 
meet you after work or school for a coffee, drink, or snack. Alternatively, 
invite others to join you for lunch.