Handout 19a: Identifying Self-Validation, 160
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Handout 20: Strategies for Increasing the Probability of Behaviors You Want, 161
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Handout 21: Strategies for Decreasing or Stopping Unwanted Behaviors, 162
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Handout 22: Tips for Using Behavior Change Strategies Effectively, 163
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Handout 22a: Identifying Effective Behavior Change Strategies, 164
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Worksheet 1: Pros and Cons of Using Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills, 167
Interpersonal Effectiveness Worksheet 2: Challenging Myths in the Way of Obtaining Objectives, 168–169
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Worksheet 3: Clarifying Priorities in Interpersonal Situations, 173
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Worksheet 4: Writing Out Interpersonal Effectiveness Scripts, 174
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Worksheet 5: Tracking Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills Use, 175
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Worksheet 6: The Dime Game—Figuring Out How Strongly to Ask or Say No, 176–177
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Worksheet 7: Troubleshooting Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills, 178–179
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Worksheet 8: Finding and Getting People to Like You, 183
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Worksheet 9: Mindfulness of Others, 184
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Worksheet 10: Ending Relationships, 185–186
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Worksheet 11: Practicing Dialectics, 189
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Worksheet 11a: Dialectics Checklist, 190
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