Wise Mind, and evaluate whether to stay or leave the relationship.
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2a. Relationships should be 
easy. If it’s hard to have a 
relationship with someone, it’s 
probably not worth it, and you 
should end it.
2B. Most relationships need 
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6a. If ending a destructive relationship will be 
difficult, it’s most effective to stay together.
6B. If ending a destructive relationship will be 
difficult, it’s most effective to cope ahead of 
time.
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3a. If you are in love with someone 
who does not love you back, 
practice DEAR MAN skills to 
get the person to love you.
3B. If you are in love with someone 
who does not love you back, 
practice opposite action to love.•
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