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interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 13: e nding r elationships 
(interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheet 10)145
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 13a: i dentifying How 
to end relationships146
Handouts for Walking the Middle Path
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 14: o verview—Walking the Middle 
Path ( interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheets 11–15c)149
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 15: Dialectics 
(interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheets 11–11b)150
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 16: How to Think and a ct 
Dialectically ( interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheets 11–11b)151
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 16a: e xamples of o pposite Sides 
That c an Both Be True152
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 16b: i mportant o pposites 
to Balance153
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 16c: i dentifying Dialectics 154
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 17: Validation 
(interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheet 12)155
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 18: a “How To” g uide to Validation 
(interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheet 12)156
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 18a: i dentifying Validation 157
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 19: r ecovering from i nvalidation 
(interpersonal e ffectiveness Worksheet 13)158
interpersonal e ffectiveness Handout 19a: i dentifying Self-  Validation 160