186interpersonal effectiveness WorksHeet 10   (p. 2 of 2)
5. mindful and a ppearing  confident  comments to make about how and when to end (if 
needed).
6. negotiating  comments to make, plus turn-the-table  comments to avoid getting off track and 
responding to insults or diversions (if needed).
7. validating  comments about the other person’s wishes, feelings, or history of the relationship.
8. easy manner comments.
9. fair comments.
Check off opposite actions for love you have been doing:
1. Reminded myself why love is not justified.
2. Did the opposite of loving urges.
3. Avoided contact with reminders of loved one.
4. Other: