 Other people may not do what you want unless you sacrifice your self-  r
espect, at 
least a little.
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orries about negative consequences if you ask for what you want or say no to 
someone’s request get in the way of acting effectively.
 Beliefs that you don’t deserve what you want stop you in your tracks.
 Beliefs that others don’t deserve what they want make you ineffective.