Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Handout 21: Strategies for Decreasing or Stopping Unwanted Behaviors, 162
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Handout 22: Tips for Using Behavior Change Strategies Effectively, 163
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Handout 22a: Identifying Effective Behavior Change Strategies, 164
Interpersonal effectiveness 
skills. See also  Asking 
for something; Building Relationships and Ending Destructive Ones; Interpersonal effectiveness skills module; Obtaining Objectives Skillfully; Saying “no”; Validation; Walking the Middle Path
factors and myths in the way of, 
118–119
goals of, 9, 117interpersonal effectiveness 
scripts and, 174
mindfulness of others and, 
143–144, 184
overview, 2, 109overview of handouts and 
worksheets for, 109–114
priorities in, 173problem solving and, 10pros and cons of using, 167tracking, 175troubleshooting, 134–135, 
178–179
Interpersonal effectiveness skills 
module. See also  Interpersonal 
effectiveness skills, overview, 109–114
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Worksheet 1: Pros and Cons of Using Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills, 167
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Worksheet 2: Challenging Myths in the Way of Obtaining Objectives, 168–169
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Worksheet 3: Clarifying Priorities in Interpersonal Situations, 173
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Worksheet 4: Writing Out Interpersonal Effectiveness Scripts, 174
Interpersonal Effectiveness 
Worksheet 5: Tracking Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills Use, 175
Interpersonal Effectiveness