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•Saying:
6a. “It is hopeless. I cannot do it.”
6B. “This is a breeze. I’ve got no 
problems.”
6c. “This is really hard for me, and I am going to keep trying.”
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•Saying:
3a. “Everyone always treats me unfairly.”
3B. “I believe the coach should reconsider 
his decision to cut me from the team.”
3c. “Coaches know best who to keep on teams and who to cut.”••••••••7a. When you disagree with someone, 
be sure and be very clear about your point of view.
7B. When you disagree with someone, try and see their point of view.
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4a. Judge friends as disloyal and uncaring 
if they start changing in ways you don’t like.
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