regardless of what others reveal.
 8B. Disclose roughly the same amount of 
personal information to others as they 
disclose to you.
•••••• 3a. Mix with people who share 
your attitudes and interests.
 3B. Mix with people with whom 
you have little in common.•
• 9a. Keep good opinions of others to yourself.
 9B. If you like others, let them know.
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• 4a. Mix with people who respond 
positively to you and to life generally.
 4B. Mix with cynics and pessimists.••••••10a. Protect yourself, and comment only on 
good points that are obvious to anyone and everyone.
10B. Don’t express liking indiscriminately.
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• 5a. Express your opinions and 
attitudes, so that others can recognize similarities with you.
 5B. Keep your opinions and attitudes to yourself.•
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