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Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills
Interpersonal Effectiveness Handouts
Handouts for Goals and Factors That Interfere
in terpersonal ef fectiveness Handout 1: go als of in terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness ( in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheet 1)117
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 2: Factors in the Way 
of 
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness118
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 2a: Myths in the Way 
of 
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness ( in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness 
Worksheet 2)119
Handouts for Obtaining Objectives Skillfully
in terpersonal ef fectiveness Handout 3: ov erview—
ob
taining  ob
jectives Skillfully123
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 4: 
cl
arifying 
go
als in 
in
terpersonal 
Situations ( in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheet 3)124
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 5: 
gu
idelines for 
ob
jectives 
ef
fectiveness— ge
tting What You Want (D e
ar
 Ma
n)
 
(in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheets 4, 5)125
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 5a: 
ap
plying D e
ar
 Ma
n
 Skills 
to a Difficult 
cu
rrent 
in
teraction127
in
terpersonal 
ef