cu
rrent 
in
teraction127
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 6: 
gu
idelines for 
re
lationship 
ef
fectiveness— ke
eping the 
re
lationship ( g
iVe)
 
(in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheets 4, 5)128
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 6a: 
ex
panding the V in 
giVe—
le
vels of Validation129
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 7: 
gu
idelines for Self-  
re
spect 
ef
fectiveness— ke
eping 
re
spect for Yourself (F aS
T) 
(in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheets 4, 5)130
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 8: 
ev
aluating 
op
tions 
for Whether or How 
in
tensely to 
as
k for Something or Say 
no
 
(in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Worksheet 6)131
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 9: Troubleshooting—When What 
You 
ar
e Doing 
is
n’t Working ( in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness 
Worksheet 7)134
Handouts for Building Relationships and Ending Destructive Ones
in terpersonal ef fectiveness Handout 10: ov erview—
Building 
re
lationships and 
en
ding Destructive 
on
es139
in
terpersonal 
ef
fectiveness Handout 11: Finding and