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terpersonal 
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fectiveness Handout 11: Finding and 
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tting People 
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terpersonal 
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fectiveness Handout 11a: 
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entifying Skills to Find People 
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terpersonal 
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fectiveness Handout 12: Mindfulness of 
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fectiveness Worksheet 9)143
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fectiveness Handout 12a: 
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entifying Mindfulness 
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