If your partner ever becomes physically violent, your relationship needs to be terminated immediately. Physical abuse is never "for your own good," and it's never your fault. Don't let manipulative partners coerce you into feeling guilty over being hit. It's not ok, and it's most definitely a sign of an abusive relationship, and it will happen again. Get out of this relationship immediately. Threats to hurt you are as bad as physical violence. Regard them seriously and see them as danger signs of abuse to come. If your partner hurts or injures other people, animals, or is generally very physically violent, this is a sign of a violent person who should be avoided. No matter how much you love your partner, if you're afraid in your own living space, you have a problem. You may miss your partner terribly when you're apart, but actually dread coming home. That's a clue that your relationship has already crossed the line and needs to be ended safely. If your partner ever forces you to do anything you don't want to do, or manipulates you into agreement, you need to end the relationship. If your partner wheedles, begs, sulks, or starts a fight over something, until you end up caving just to stop the argument, that's an unacceptable and dangerous sign of emotional manipulation and possible abuse.  An abusive person will often insist that you do things their preferred way and won't back down until you agree. This might pertain to the clothes you wear, how you do your makeup, what you eat, or the activities you do. If your partner has ever forced you to have any kind of sexual contact without your consent, this is sexual assault. It doesn't matter that you're in a relationship or if you've previously consented to sex. While these warning signs and deal breakers are fairly definitive signs of a manipulative and abusive partner, these things can still be ambiguous. They can be clouded by conflicted feelings and may be difficult to detect. The best way to determine whether or not you're in a potentially abusive relationship is to trust your gut. If someone gives you a sinking feeling or fills you with a sense of foreboding, take it as a sign. You don't have to put a name on it to know when something just isn't right.
تبني سياسة اللا رحمة في التعامل مع العنف. لا تسمحي لنفسك بالتعرض للترهيب. لا تسمحي لنفسك بالتعرض للإجبار بالقوة أو بالإكراه. ثقي بغرائزك.