When you like someone, it's easy to overthink what you are going to say to him. If you type out a long message and ask him out in the middle of it, he may miss your question. Keep the message short and to the point. Send a text that only includes you asking him out.  Don't ramble by saying, “I've been thinking about what I could do this weekend because I'm getting bored being home all the time. Would you want to go out? I know there isn't that much to do but I thought that we could have fun together. Anyway, I'm not even sure….” You might want to ask out a guy from school. A teenage guy is more likely to respond to a simple text than to one where you ramble a lot. Text him something like, “Would you want to go out this weekend?” If you want to ask out a coworker, say, “We never get much time to talk one-on-one at work. Would you want to grab a drink when we clock out tomorrow?” You may be tempted to beat around the bush, or mention going out in a vague way that he could miss. When you text him, say that you want to go out with him and ask him if he would be interested in doing that. It's important that he knows you are asking him out.  For example, don't say, “I haven't dated much recently and you seem like you haven't either. Maybe we would be able to do something together. That might be pretty cool.” Say, “Are you interested in going out with me?” This is especially important when you are asking a guy out who you are already friends with. It's important to make sure they know you want to go out romantically. Say, “I know we hang out a lot, but would you want to go to Orion's party with me as my date?” When you ask someone out, it's not all that effective to say, “Do you want to go out sometime?” There is no specific timeline or activity involved. Think of something cool you could do together and ask him to do that. Also offer a couple of times that would work well for you.  For example, tell him about a party you are going to over the weekend and ask if he wants to go with you. Ask him if he wants to try the new Italian restaurant near your house on Wednesday. The possibilities are endless, and he may say no to the thing you suggest. Asking him to do something specific is still better than asking him “out” in general. This is important when you are asking a guy you just met. Asking to make specific plans will help you find out what they like to do on a date. Say, “I'm a pretty big hockey fan, and I have tickets to the game this weekend. Do you want to be my date?” Even with smartphones, it's common for people to abbreviate words and use hard to understand slang. When you ask a guy out, make sure to write complete sentences that make sense. It's a turnoff to see something that looks like confusing gibberish.  For example, don't text, “Ay, thot we could hang tmrw. Watcha gonna b doin?” Write, “I was thinking we could go out tomorrow. Would you be available?” Double check your text before you hit send to make sure you didn't accidentally misspell something. Auto-correct can make a message confusing if you don't check over it before you send it.
اجعلي رسالتك بسيطة. اعرضي عليه الخروج معكِ بشكل مُباشر. اطلبي منه مشاركتك فعل أمرٍ بعينه. اكتبي رسالتك كاملة بدون اختصارات وبدون أخطاء إملائية أو نحوية.