Don’t tell her your life story on your first date. Instead, slowly reveal details about yourself and your past experiences to her. For instance, wait until she asks about your education to reveal that you graduated at the top of your class from MIT. She’ll be impressed by the accomplishment as well as your modesty. Don’t tell your girl you’re an amazing cook. Instead, surprise her with a home-cooked meal that will have her praising your skills in the kitchen. You can even bring the meal to her for lunch if you aren’t able to have the house to yourself. If you are a genuinely interesting person, it’ll be easier for her to stay interested in you. Work on becoming more mature and pursuing new goals, and let your interests change naturally. For example, try taking one of your interests and making it into a serious hobby. If you love comic books, try creating your own. Respecting her is crucial to keeping her interest. Show her that you value her opinion and make sure that she puts in her two cents when it comes to decisions that you make together. Let her talk without interrupting her, listen to her, and never insult her or belittle her. Basically, follow the golden rule: treat her how you would want to be treated. Being kind is an underrated value, and your girl will appreciate that quality in you. It’s not enough to just be nice to her, though, you need to show that you are truly a kind-hearted person. When you're mean to other people, and especially to people that are "weaker" than you, you send the message that she might someday expect the same.  For example, if you talk behind your best friend's back, she may assume you’ll do the same to her when she’s not around. Be polite to strangers. Hold the door open for the people behind you, for instance. When you're in a relationship together, focus on meeting her needs in balanced proportion. She has physical and emotional needs, and meeting just one of them isn’t going to cut it. If you don’t know what her needs are, then ask her. She will appreciate you taking the time to find out how to make her happy.  Fill her physical needs by showing affection and ensuring she receives pleasure when you are intimate. Fill her emotional needs by listening to her, being supportive, and talking to her about stimulating and interesting things. It can be easy to stop putting in effort after you’ve been together for a while. Yet, when you stop making the effort, she'll start to feel taken for granted, and you don't want that. Be sure to keep up with your appearance, make efforts to surprise and woo her, and keep trying to impress her. For example, come up with a really special way to ask her to prom. Consider her likes and interests and incorporate them into your plan. If she loves jelly beans, spell out “Prom?” in jelly beans in her room (after getting her parent's permission). While spending time with each other is essential, you also need time apart. Couples that spend too much time together can get bored of each other’s company. It’s important to make sure you each have your own interests and friends. So, set up a Tuesday poker night with the boys or join a sports league that gets you out of the house on Saturday mornings. You could decide that you’ll hang out four nights a week and spend the other three with your own friends or family.
تحلَ بالغموض. طور شخصيتك كل الوقت. أظهر لها الكثير من التقدير والاحترام. تعامل بسلوك طيب ومحترم مع الجميع (وليس هي فقط). لبي لها كل احتياجاتها وأكثر. ابذل الجهد في سبيل الحفاظ على العلاقة. اقضِ الوقت بعيدًا عنها.