You may want to tell people that you wear a diaper, or you may not. It’s up to you to discuss wearing a diaper with those around you. If you are in a romantic relationship, you may want to disclose this information before the relationship progresses to a point that the discussion becomes overwhelming. You may want to tell close friends and family or choose to keep the diaper wearing to yourself. Don’t fear relationships or telling a partner about your diaper wearing. While some people may not understand, you may be surprised that many are willing to engage the behaviors and lifestyle. If wearing a diaper is an integral part of your identity or regular activities, it’s important to share this with your partner. This is especially true if you enjoy diaper wearing during sexual activity. It can be nerve-wracking to tell your partner, but go for it and don’t leave it hanging if it’s something important to you.  Let your partner know you want to talk to them about something intimate that’s important to your heart. Say, “It’s important to be honest with you and show you all of who I am. Part of who I am is a diaper lover.” Be open to answer any questions your partner may have. Appeal to your partner.  If your partner believes in being sexually adventurous, say “I know you enjoy being sexually adventurous, and this is a new adventure to practice together.”  Create boundaries that both you and your partner feel comfortable within. For instance, you may want to start small and work your way up, such as wearing diapers around the house at first, then bringing them into more intimate settings. Use clear communication to make sure you both feel comfortable and are happy with the boundaries. Diaper lovers and adult babies are a huge group that is still on the sidelines and not "in the open" yet.  Many people misunderstand the feelings and motivations of diaper lovers. It’s up to you whether you want to wear diapers in public or at home or both. This largely depends on your motivation for diaper wearing, whether you use a diaper for comfort or for sexual reasons.  If you’d like to discreetly wear a diaper in public, wear loose clothing to hide the diaper bulge and keep diaper-wrinkling noise to a minimum. Wearing diapers to bed is a popular option. If you prefer to keep your diaper wearing private, plan ahead when visitors enter your home. Keep the diapers in a safe spot where they will not be found. This could include the washer/dryer, your bedroom, or a secret spot only you know of in your home. If it makes you feel more comfortable, have a good story for why you might own them for those "just in case" scenarios.
قرر ما إذا كنت تريد مناقشة أمر ارتدائك للحفاضات. تحدث مع شريك حياتك. كن حذرًا في اختيار مظهرك. هل لديك مكان لإخفاء الحفاضات عندما يكون لديك زوار.