If he or she dresses in front of you without any romantic undertones, he or she is probably not attracted to you and may assume you are not at all attracted to them. If you're heading to the pool together, at the beach together, or just hanging out, and your crush does this without thinking twice, then you may be in the Friend Zone. If your crush changes around you or even wears less clothes around you, like if you're at the beach, pay attention to how he or she acts when this happens. Does the guy you like look down at his chest when he takes his shirt off? Does the girl you like nervously adjust her bikini when you're at the beach together? If so, then he or she may be feeling a bit self-conscious in your presence. This is friend, or even sibling, behavior. If you find yourself in the same bed with your crush and you're on opposite ends, or perfectly comfortable splaying out on the bed, then you are in the Friend Zone. Though this may not happen too often, it's an opportunity to see where your relationship really stands. If your crush wears dorky pajamas or his or her retainer, then it's even more likely that you're in the Friend Zone. If your crush seems to have no incentive to look sexy around you, then it's because he or she only sees you as a friend. If the family asks why you two haven't started a relationship, you are probably in the Friend Zone, because you are a couple in every way except romantically and sexually. If your crush's family always putting the pressure on for you to date, and you already know everyone there pretty well, then there's a pretty good chance you're in the Friend Zone. If your crush had special feelings for you, then having you meet his or her family would be considered a big deal. Of course, you should keep in mind that feelings do change. Maybe you met your crush's family a long time ago, and only now he or she is starting to have feelings. This is another sign that you are in the Friend Zone. If your relationship is romantic, then your crush will be nervous around you, at least to an extent. He or she will fidget occasionally, laugh when nothing is funny, or go out of his or her way to impress you. If your crush only sees you as a friend, then he or she won't care about his or her appearance or about how he or she comes off.  If you never detect any nervousness, preening, or worry whatsoever when you're together, then you are probably just a friend. If your crush says anything without censoring him or herself, backtracking, or wondering how he or she comes off, then you are most likely just friends. Check out how your crush dresses when you hang out. If you get the sense that he or she hasn't tried to look nice, wear makeup, or put on cute clothes around you, then it's probably because he or she thinks of you as just being friends. This is another dead giveaway that you're in the Friend Zone. If the girl you like is always telling you about the cute girl in her math class or her cute second cousin that you'd be perfect for, then this is a big red flag. It's even worse if you show up to hang out with her and she brings along a random girlfriend, clearly with the intention of setting the two of you up together.  Think about it: if the girl liked you, why would she be trying to set you up with someone else? This may even be the person's way of hinting that you should direct your romantic feelings elsewhere. If the girl you like really likes you, then she'll go out of her way to do the things you want to do, whether it's going hiking or watching a baseball game. But if you always get roped in to going shopping, getting ice cream, or doing other things that she wants to do, then it may be because because she doesn't care about impressing you. Ask yourself when the last time was that you got your crush to do something that you actually wanted to do. This is especially true if you always end up shopping with the girl you like. If she's asking your what she should wear or how she looks in a certain outfit, then it's probably because she doesn't think of you as dating material. If the guy or girl you like returns your romantic feelings, then you'll probably be touching each other a fair amount, whether you're playfully hitting each other or finding other excuses to graze arms or fingers. If you never end up touching each other, even when it's easy to do so, such as when you're sharing the same menu, then it may be because your crush just doesn't think of you that way.  However, if you like a guy who treats you like one of the bros, then there may be a fair amount of touching. Try to see if it's just friendly or something more. You can even test this out by finding an excuse to lightly graze your crush's arm or to playfully shove her just to see if she responds. If you find yourself walking your crush's dog, picking up lunch for her when she's having a busy day, or giving her a ride to school, then your relationship is probably not romantic. If you're already an errand boy (or girl) for this person, then you are definitely not on your way to dating. If your crush really had romantic feelings for you, then she wouldn't ask you to help her out in non-romantic ways all the time. If you're always trying to get your crush alone so you can turn your relationship into something more, while she always ends up inviting the whole gang, her three siblings, her random neighbors, and anyone else in the same city, then it's a sign that your crush does not see you taking your relationship to a romantic level. This doesn't mean that it will never happen, but it does mean that, for now, your relationship is not in a romantic place. If your crush sees you as a romantic prospect, then he or she would be looking for excuses to be alone with you, not trying to make it so you're never alone together.
لاحظ ما إن كانت الفتاة التي تعجبك تقوم بحركات عفوية وشخصية أمامك. تذكر هل جلستما بالقرب من بعضكما البعض من قبل وتبادلتما العناق أو أمسكتما بيدي بعضكما البعض. هل تحدثت الفتاة التي تعجبك مع عائلتها عنك. تفقد ما إذا كانت الفتاة التي تعجبك تشعر بالارتياح نحوك. تابع ما إذا كانت الفتاة التي تعجبك تحاول أن تُدبر لك موعدًا مع فتاة أخرى. هل دائمًا ما تفعل للفتاة التي تحبها ما يحلو لها. فكر هل تتواصل مع الفتاة التي تعجبك جسديًا بكثرة. تفقد ما إذا كنت تسدي الفتاة التي تحبها معروفًا. تفقد ما إذا كانت الفتاة التي تحبها تدعو أشخاصًا آخرين للخروج برفقتكما.