Help her change her opinion about you by learning more about her. Respectfully approach her friends and family and tell them that you’d like to learn more about her. Be open and honest with your intentions and they will better understand how to help you. Do not present yourself as someone who you are not. This will certainly make things worse if she finds out that you have manipulated those close to her to get your way. Be direct when stating your case. Don’t assume that she thinks one way about you. Always respectfully ask and thank her for letting you know her opinion. Open communication is the easiest way to get her to change her opinion about you. Are you listening to respond or are you truly hearing what she is saying? Actively listen to her and ask questions to make sure that you understand what you’ve heard. Don’t be distracted by outside factors. Look for a quiet place or ask to schedule a meeting to ensure that both of you are mentally and emotionally present. Be present when you are communicating with her. Do not get distracted by your surroundings. More importantly, take in her facial expressions and how her body responds throughout your communication. Take in the entirety of her message to ensure you are clearly it. She may have formed an opinion about you based on her values. Religion and culture may play into her decision making so be respectful of this process. If you do not understand her value system, communicate openly and honestly so you don’t offend her with any ignorant retorts.
تحدث مع عائلتها وأصدقائها. لا تحاول قراءة أفكارها. استمع إلى ما تقوله. انتبه إلى العلامات غير المنطوقة. احترم الاختلاف في الثقافات والأديان.