While most girls (like most guys) will appreciate a classic dinner/movie night out, there's no need to pigeonhole yourselves as a couple by sticking to traditional date possibilities. Be creative - take your girlfriend to do things she'd never thought she'd do before. Going outside of your comfort zone can be a great opportunity to bond as a couple. As an added bonus, non-traditional date ideas can be a great way to save money if you're young. One great date idea is to surprise your girlfriend by taking her to do an activity that she's casually expressed an interest in during conversation. For instance, if she's previously talked about how cool she thinks aquatic animals are, you might consider taking her to a SCUBA diving class. Similarly, if she loves art, you might want take her on a hike into some scenic woods with an easel and paint to make your own together. Your big night out is no time to be distracted by other people or commitments. Put everything else aside for a few hours. Clear your mind of any upcoming projects that will require your attention and tune in your girlfriend and the relationship you share with her. Be sure to turn off your phone, pager, laptop, and/or any other distracting devices. Nothing ruins a great moment like having to take a business call in the middle of your candlelit dinner. That age-old question - whether a man should or shouldn't pay for his girlfriend on their night out - is more relevant today than ever before, as it's become accepted (and even expected) that a woman may pay instead. There's no right answer to this question - the specifics of who pays for what in your relationship are up to you and your girlfriend to discuss. Generally, if you're responsible for planning the night, it's recommended that you at least make a genuine effort to pay. Do so to demonstrate how important your girlfriend is to you, not out of an old-fashioned conception of gender norms. If your girlfriend insists that she should pay or that you should split the bill, you may want to put up a token resistance to show that you're genuine, but don't seriously fight her on the issue. Some women can feel patronized if their man constantly pays for them while they're out together, so show that you value her as an equal partner in your relationship by allowing her to pay. Your special night is a great opportunity for expressing the sorts of naked, passionate emotions that don't ordinarily get voiced. Feel free to be as sappy and passionate as you like, but keep your compliments focused on things like your girlfriend's personality, her sense of humor, the way she makes you feel, and her aesthetic beauty, rather than her sexiness or her figure. There will eventually be time for these things, too, but don't cheapen your special moment by bringing them up in a "serious" romantic context. Your girlfriend is undoubtedly important to you, so let her know that this the case. If you do nothing else on your night out, tell (and show) your girlfriend that she really, really means a lot to you. Everything else - the fun you have, the adventures you go on, the time you spend together - is just a way of expressing this truth. The best, sweetest way to tell your girlfriend that she's important to you is almost always to just be completely frank about it. Flowery, elegant language is no substitute for genuine emotion - almost all girlfriends will be able to tell when you're being yourself and when you're not.
كن مبدعًا في أفكار المواعيد الغرامية. اجعلها محور الليلة. ادفع لها (باحترام). امدحها دون تجسيدها. أشعرها بأنها مميزة.