You can start a conversation by talking about what you're guaranteed to have in common: school or work (depending on how you know each other).  "Have you taken Math with Heiser? I'm trying to figure out if I want to take it next semester." "Did you hear that they're going to remodel the break room? I'm holding out for a new TV. What about you?" You can also comment on something that's happening nearby, while you're standing near each other. Just be sure it isn't critical of or insulting to other people (since this will give your crush the wrong impression of what you're like).  "Did you see that? I wish more people were considerate like that these days. It's so nice to see." "Such a shame how he's talking to her. She deserves more respect. She works really hard." Comment on something that they're wearing, asking a question about it's origin or story. Try to look for things that they're clearly proud of, such as badge pins, nice shoes, or tee shirts with band logos.  "That's a cool Burning Man tee. Have you ever gone? I've always wanted to go." "Sweet Adventure Time button. Who's your favorite character?" Ask them a question about something that you think they might know about. This is a good way to get yourself talking to them, but the subject will usually need to be changed pretty quickly if you want a conversation to keep going.  "Do you know where the Smith Building is?" "Do you know how to open this? I've been struggling with it but I can't tell if I'm dumb or just have really weak wrists." Ask them for a tiny favor, something that takes less than a minute of their time. People like to feel useful and it will give you a way to start a conversation with positive feelings.  "I don't suppose you could help me reach the stuff on the upper shelf? None of these chairs are safe to stand on." "Can you hold this coffee for a second while I put this away? I don't want it to spill." Ask them about how or why they're in a specific place. For example, if you're at a party, ask how they know the host. If you're at school and just hanging out in class or with other friends, ask them if they've always lived in the area. Talk about something that's happening in the news, either nationally or in your local area. This can be a good way to launch into more serious topics, if you're really wanting to get to know them as a person.  "Did you hear about that protest rally for this weekend? I was thinking about going." "Did you hear the city is planning on tearing down that highway? Traffic is going to be murder." Comment on or ask about a recent movie or TV show, either one that you like a lot or one that you haven't see yet. Get their opinion and use it to launch into a conversation. Even if they haven't seen it, you can turn the conversation into a usable topic.  "Have you gone to see the new Spider Man yet? I'm trying to figure out if it's worth seeing." "Oh man, please tell me you watch Game of Thrones because I need someone to be excited with! You don't? You should...it's awesome!", etc. A compliment about something not-creepy is a great way to start a conversation. Try to compliment them on something they control, like their clothing choice or something they've done or made, instead of something that they don't, like their hair or eyes. Complimenting things like hair or eyes might as well be a compliment for just about anyone and isn't unique to them. Just tell them that you want to talk to them because they look interesting or fun and you want to get to know them. Many people will appreciate the honesty, especially people who are on the attractive side and are used to people trying to be manipulative or coy in order to talk to them.
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