If your partner is rude or dismissive to his own parents or friends, how do you think you'll be treated? Remember that, right now, while your relationship is relatively young, your partner is on good behavior.  How will things be when there is no longer any need to impress you? Notice if your partner treats waiters or waitresses, taxi drivers, concierges or anyone else in the service industry disrespectfully. This is a sign that someone has a mean superiority complex. He divides the world into worthiness and unworthiness and this sense of unworthiness will soon be inflicted on you. Abusers often stereotype gender. Male abusers, for example, often use male privilege to dominate women. They can have negative attitudes about women and women's roles, thinking that women should be kept in the home and kept submissive. For relationships in which a woman is the abuser, there may be contempt for men that influences how she treats her partner.
راقبي الطريقة التي يتعامل بها شريككِ مع الأصدقاء وأفراد العائلة. راقبي الطريقة التي يتفاعل بها شريككِ مع الغرباء. ضعي في اعتبارك نظرة شريككِ لجنسك.