If you want to be a better boyfriend to your girlfriend, then you have to work on being more of a gentleman. This doesn't mean you have to turn into Cary Grant or pick her up in a horse-drawn carriage, but it does mean that you should try to treat her with a bit more attention and respect. Open doors for her, whether she's getting into your car or walking into a restaurant. Pull out her chair before she sits down. Give her your coat if she's cold and avoid being overly vulgar in her presence. Don't worry: being a gentleman doesn't mean acting phony or over the top. Just treating your girlfriend with more care and attention will make her see that you're a true gentleman. Many boyfriends are notoriously bad at communicating their needs. If you want to be a better boyfriend, then you have to work on being able to honestly but kindly tell your girlfriend what you're feeling, how to have a conversation without getting angry, and how to learn to compromise instead of being upset when you don't get what you want. If you develop stronger communication skills, your relationship will flourish.  When your girlfriend is upset, you should work on understanding what she's really angry about and try to address her concerns; if she's mad at you for being late for a date, for example, it may mean that she's mad because she feels like you don't put enough effort into the relationship. Timing is also important if you want to have a serious conversation. If you want to have a big talk with your girlfriend, try to pick a time when she won't be too tired or distracted to have the conversation. If you want to be a better boyfriend, then you have to make yourself more available to your girlfriend. This doesn't mean you should be free 24/7 and have to bend to her will at any given moment, but it does mean that you should make enough time to keep your relationship going strong, from time to weekly date nights to time to talk on the phone or watch a movie with her. If you're never around or always prefer hanging out with your buddies instead of her, she's likely to feel neglected. That said, it could be possible that she's losing that loving feeling because you're starting to feel too dependable, like you're always around. Make sure that you continue to have your own life, your solo time with your friends, and time to pursue your own hobbies and interests. Though you want to make time for her, you also want her to see that you're an interesting and dynamic person. While making time for your girlfriend is important, so is respecting her own time and space. Let her hang out with her girlfriends without being jealous or calling her every five minutes; avoid trying to do every single thing she likes, from running to volunteering, right along with her. Let her do her own thing and applaud her for it while knowing when she wants you to come along. You don't want her to feel smothered or like you don't like it when she takes two steps away from you. If you smother her, she'll feel like you don't trust her or have faith in the relationship. If you're comfortable enough to let her do her own thing or hang out with her friends, then she'll feel like you're confident with who you are what you two have. Her friends and family are important, and may be the key to her heart. Don't just brush them off or make superficial small talk without taking the time to really get to know them. Ask them how they are, share something about yourself, and show that you really care about them. Even if you're only doing it because you care about your girlfriend, it'll make a big difference, and they'll be more likely to sing your high praises when she talks about you. If your girlfriend invites you to hang out with her friends, you should accept from time to time, even if you don't have the greatest time ever. This will show her that you really do care and are making an effort.
كن "جينتلمان" في تعاملك معها. حسن التواصل بينكما. خصص لها مساحة من وقتك. احترم استقلالها. كن لطيفًا مع أصدقائها وأقربائها.