Engaging in a romantic conversation in person requires confidence in yourself and confidence in your relationship.  You want to let your partner know how you feel, and you want to give your partner a chance to do the same.  As you start the romantic conversation, it is important to be open and secure.  If you start the conversation but restrain yourself too much, your partner will pick up on your discomfort and may be put off.  Avoid aggressive body language like crossed arms or lots of hand gestures. Try to keep your body language loose and welcoming by keeping your arms at your sides and facing your partner. Smile at your partner to show that you are having a good time. While being romantic with your partner, you want to be sure that your body language and your words are conveying the message.  Even if you say the most romantic thing in the world, your partner will not feel romanced if you're saying it while looking at the menu.  Make sure you are giving your partner all of your attention during the conversation.  Don't look around the room or fidget, as this comes across as uncomfortable or uninterested. Making eye contact with your partner is one of the best ways to enhance your intimacy and connect with each other without saying a word. Make sure that you maintain eye contact whenever your partner is speaking to you as well as while you are speaking to him or her. Touch is an important factor in enhancing romance between two people as well. Make sure that you and your partner engage in some physical contact during your conversation. For example, you can hold your partner's hand or just lightly stroke the back of your partner's arm while he or she is talking.
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