You're probably nervous about screwing up, so take some of the pressure off yourself by making sure you don't have an audience. Opt out of movie theaters or group dates, and instead shoot for secluded situations like a quiet movie night at home, an outdoor picnic, or an otherwise deserted space.   Resist the urge to cut the lights completely.  You might think that total darkness will ease your nerves and hide any slip-ups.  For a first-timer, though, it'll actually make things a lot more difficult — you can't see where you're going, and you'll want to be able to gauge your partner's reaction.  Save the full darkness for later sessions when you know each other better. If you're alone in a bedroom or a basement, you can dim the lights a bit without being too obvious about it. Set the mood, if you like. If you know that someone you like will be coming over solo later and that there's a good chance you'll be making out later, then you can make sure your room is neat and tidy, that there's no chance a parent or roommate will interrupt, and that everything smells nice and is conducive to making out. If you sense a make-out coming on, put some effort into looking and smelling your best.  It'll boost your confidence, and make you irresistible.   You don't have to be too thorough about this or it'll make you more nervous, but if you feel and look your best, you'll have a better chance of having a great make-out session. Here's a quick checklist to go over:  Do a quick clean-up.  Even if you don't have time for a full-on shower, you can still do small things like wiping your nose, brushing your teeth, and splashing water on any areas that are starting to smell a little ripe.  Reapply deodorant while you're at it. Add a subtle scent.  For guys, apply one or two sprays of cologne around your throat and chest.  (Don't go overboard, since strong scents are almost unbearable at close quarters.)  For girls, use a few sprays of perfume or apply a scented body lotion to your neck, chest, arms, and legs. Freshen up your mouth.  Cover your bases by chewing gum or breath mints right before making out -- if you can be subtle about it.  If you don't have anything on-hand, swish some water around your mouth and spit it out.  While you're at it, fight off chapped lips with lip balm or chapstick. If you're on a date before you think you'll make out, try to avoid eating any overly-pungent foods. Touch up your makeup (girls).  Take a quick second to make sure you don't have smudgy mascara or uneven foundation. Avoid too much lipstick or gloss, or your kissing partner will taste it. If you're already comfortable kissing someone regularly, move it into making out simply by continuing the kisses and trying some of the techniques in Part Two.  If you haven't kissed this person much before, though, initiating a make-out session might take some extra maneuvering.  Here are some ways to let the other person know you're interested:  Find excuses to get close.  Putting your body as near as possible to the other person's is a pretty strong hint.  Sit close if you're on a couch or in a car, or hold hands and stand with your body completely against theirs.  Make it extra obvious by staring deep into his or her eyes. Reveal slightly more skin.  If you're wearing a cardigan or jacket, take it off casually.  You could also undo the top button of your shirt, roll up your sleeves, or pull up your hair, so that your neck and chest are more exposed.  Voluntarily showing more skin signals that you're comfortable around the other person, and you're willing to be more exposed around him or her. Get handsy.  Before you start kissing, make your intentions clear by using your hands to start closer contact.  Hold hands, offer a shoulder or foot rub, play with the other person's hair, or lightly trace your fingers over the face or throat. Is he or she incredibly eager to start kissing and pretty experienced when it comes to locking lips? Or is this his or her first time too, and he or she is acting even more nervous than you feel? If your partner is really ready to take it to the next level, relax and let him or her take the lead. But if you see that you're the one who is doing more of the hinting, touching, and talking, take a deep breath and muster up all of the confidence you have. Fake it until you make it. If you act like you know what you're doing, your partner will be convinced that you're at the top of your game. Slowly bring your face toward the other person's, maintaining eye contact until you're a few inches away.  Then close your eyes, and start a kiss.  If he or she seems interested, you're probably clear to move onto making out; if you run into hesitation, though, it might be best to try another time. If it's your very first kiss, then you may be a little nervous, but take a deep breath and let your lips touch your partner's at a slight angle. This will make it easier for you to use your tongues when you're both ready. Take a deep breath, smile a little, and slowly lean in toward your partner. You don't have to get it right the first time and remember, he or she may be just as nervous as you are!
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