The worst text flirting crime you can commit is to be boring and predictable. Your text messages should be fun and interesting. If you can't think of anything fun or interesting to say, then you probably shouldn't text her at all.  For example, you shouldn't start a text conversation with messages as boring as "Hey :)" or "How is your day going?" Total snore fest. She probably gets those kinds of messages from every guy she meets, so do something to make yourself stand out. Try something a little more unique, something which gives her an incentive to reply, like "you totally cheated at football last night. I call for a rematch." Text messages can feel a little impersonal at times, so do your best to make them as personal as possible, when you can. This will create more of a rapport between the two of you.  Use her name in a message -- girls get a real thrill from seeing their name in a message, there's something much more intimate about it. Alternatively, you could use the special nickname you've christened her with, this makes it feel like the two of you are sharing an inside joke. Use the terms "us" and "we" in your messages -- this creates a "me and you against the world" vibe that girls love. Try for example "Wow, love your hair today, you look so gorgeous." It's pretty simple -- girls like to be complimented, it makes them feel special and appreciated. So if you can work a few good compliments into your messages, go for it.  Try a classic (yet effective) compliment like "I can't stop thinking about you in that black and blue dress" or go for something a little more unconventional like "you have the weirdest sense of humor -- but I like it." Make sure the compliment is genuine -- don't say something you don't mean just to get on her good side. Girls can smell a fake from a mile away. There's no harm in being somewhat mysterious in your text messages -- you want her to feel like she's chasing you, not the other way around, so try being a little vague or aloof at times, just not as much so she gets suspicious of your behavior.  If she asks you how your day was, for instance, you shouldn't write back a lengthy message chronicling every boring detail (see Step 1). Try something like "It was pretty bizarre actually. People never cease to amaze me." Hopefully, she'll be intrigued and press you for more details in her next message. Or if she asks what your plans are for the weekend, don't be too forthcoming (unless you have genuinely exciting plans). Telling her you're probably just going to spend the weekend working on a paper you have due isn't going to interest her. Tell her you're off to slay a dragon or something equally outlandish -- it doesn't have to be true as long as it's interesting. Teasing is a great flirting method -- it creates a kind of intimacy between you without getting too serious.  As mentioned before, calling your girl by a cute nickname (one which is only used by you) is a good way to make fun of her without being offensive. Something like "freckles" or "little miss perfect" are good examples. Tease her about something she said or did the last time you hung out together. For example, if she tells you she's grabbing a Coke you could say something like "just don't squirt it out your nose like you did last time ;) ". This is an example of call-back humor, which draws attention to a time when the two of you had fun together, making her think positively about your relationship. Just make sure you don't cross the line into being mean or offensive, or your texting relationship will die a quick death. Of course, no text flirting relationship would be complete without a little naughty suggestiveness to keep things interesting.  You could go down the classic route of asking her what she's wearing, or telling her something like "I loved you in that dress, but I think I'd love what's beneath it even more". Another good technique is to take an innocent comment of hers and deliberately misinterpret it as something sexual. For instance, if she says something like "I can't believe how long it is!" (referring to a movie or something equally innocuous) you could reply with a simple "that's what she said". If you're a little nervous about going down the sexting route, you could try casually mentioning that you just got out of the shower. This puts the ball in her court, if she responds in a sexually flirtatious way (like "dang, I'd like to see that") you'll know that she's open to it.
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