Whether she says she loves you or rejects you, express yourself tactfully, especially if you’re in public. Don't be a jerk and try to lash out if your feelings hurt. If she doesn't love you back, remember that she is still the same person who you have created a deep bond with so continue to respect her. You cannot force someone to like or love you. Don’t become unresponsive or stonewall her. Women are sensitive to interpersonal cues so blank expressions or being stonewalled can escalate an already negative situation. If you have gotten to know one another and developed a strong relationship based on respect and open communication, chances are that she will express the same feelings of love. Take pride in being able to put your emotions out into the open and celebrate with her. Even if the love she shares stops at friendship, revel in your personal growth. Share your experience with others and know that you are not alone. Use your friends, family, and other parts of your support system to deal with rejection. If you really love someone, you will respect them, care for them, and be there for the good and the bad. Love can be a roller coaster but the scariest part is taking the first plunge and telling her that you love her. Get closure. If she doesn’t have the same feelings for you, do not keep persisting. Learn to accept that it wasn’t meant to be and keep optimistic that there is something meant for you just around the corner. This may be difficult but take as much time as you need. That’s why there are so many sad love songs and movies that can help cheer you up. There is no sense in trying to manipulate her or trying to wait her out. If you tell her you love her and says she doesn’t feel the same but wants to stay friends, respectfully decline. Your emotions may be too raw after you have been rejected to maintain a friendship. A friendship is based on mutual support and respect. Ask yourself if you can truly give that to her after you have clearly expressed that you see her as more than a friend. Can you still be friends with her if she is dating someone else?
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