If you have mutual friends or if his friends would be willing to talk to you without telling your ex about it, consider asking them what they think the chances are that your ex would want to get back together with you. They are more likely than you to know if he has a new girlfriend or if he's dying to get back together with you. This is not fool-proof by any means. He might still want to get back together with you even if he hasn't expressed that to his friends. When you're ready to start spending time with your ex-boyfriend again, casually ask if he'd like to do something as friends, like having a drink, attending a sporting event, playing a game you both like, seeing a movie, or hanging out at the mall. Act like a friend, not a girlfriend.  Don't use this as an opportunity to start begging him to take you back. Instead, try to have a good time with him and make sure he has a great time with you. Don't talk about your relationship the first time you see him unless he brings it up first. Otherwise, wait until you've spent time together a few times and have had the chance to make a good impression on him as a friend. While spending time with your ex as friends, give him reasons to remember all of the things he loves about you. Accentuate the traits you know he loves, like your sense of humor or your empathy.  Always be positive and happy when you're around him. You can drop subtle hints along the way that you're still interested in him. For example, you could say, "It's great to hang out with you. I really missed spending time with you." Even if you don't bring up your past relationship directly, you can remind him of the good times you shared together in subtle ways. If he complimented a particular outfit, wear it again. You could also share a light-hearted memory with him. If you have a chance to meet him, do it in a familiar place where you used to enjoy good times together. Take advantage of your time together as friends to show him how you've been working on improving yourself. For example, if it used to drive him crazy that you were always late, make a point of showing up for your outing a few minutes early. Unfortunately, there's no surefire way to know if your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together with you without asking him. When you feel you've had enough time to show him the new and improved you, have an honest conversation with him, letting him know that you still have feelings for him.  Be sure to ask your ex if he still has feelings for you too before you start gushing about wanting to get back together. If he doesn't, there's not much you can do about it. Don't cry or beg. Don't let this conversation become an argument about why you broke up. It's important to show him that you've moved past that. Have the conversation in a quiet place where you won't be interrupted. If your ex-boyfriend takes you back, you both need to take steps to make sure that the same problems that caused your last breakup will not interfere with your relationship again. Talk to each other about what kinds of conflicts you have had in the past and how you could deal with them more appropriately going forward. Depending on how serious you and your boyfriend are, you might want to go to couples counseling to improve your relationship skills.
उसके फ्रेंड्स से बात करें: उससे कांटैक्ट की शुरुआत करें: वही इंसान बन जाएँ, जिससे उसने प्यार किया था: उसे दिखाएँ, कि आप बदल चुकी हैं: एक ओपन डिस्कसन करें: एक बेहतर रिश्ता बनाने का वादा करें: