Pay attention to if your partner makes changes to their normal routine. They could be doing this to accommodate the schedule of their new interest or spending time with someone else. These changes can be large shifts in their schedule or small changes that suddenly appear.  Listen for more frequent excuses your partner may make about their schedule, such as staying late at work, traffic jams, or other mishaps that can explain why they are away from home more often. If your partner seems to all of sudden want to go out with their friends without you, this could offer a convenient alibi for their time away. Notice if your partner stops inviting you to work events and trips. Be on the lookout for unplanned business trips or other excuses they could make for being absent for lengthy periods of time. Alternatively, if your absence from your partner is suddenly not a problem, and your partner doesn’t seem to mind you working late or going away, they could be spending that time with someone else. Are you suddenly finding it hard to get in touch with your significant other? If you repeatedly attempt to call your partner and they don't answer their cell phone, this could be a sign that your relationship is changing.  Your partner may make excuses about the phone's behavior. He or she could argue that a new phone has a dead battery, or is having technical problems, or that they were in an area with no signal. Be alert if your partner advises you that he or she is too busy to answer phone calls, or if they suggest that they should be the one to initiate contact. Is his or her phone turned off during times you can normally get through? Your partner could have silenced their phone to give them a chance to be with another person undisturbed. Sometimes your partner will leave telling objects in plain view that indicate they are being unfaithful, such as house keys for another person's home.  Review the details of shopping or restaurant receipts. Look through paperwork for contact phone numbers. Look for hotel room keys, movie ticket stubs, and similar types of items.  You may want to look around in your partner's car. Some unfaithful partners will hide or leave revealing items in glove compartments, ashtrays, or under car seats. Your partner may spend more time on the computer chatting online or visiting social media websites more often.  Peruse your partner’s social media accounts. See if they have been chatting more often with one person in particular. Frequent exchanges with ex-partners can be a red flag. Check to see if your partner closes open windows or Internet sessions on the computer when you enter the room or if they regularly delete their browser history. Your partner may begin spending excessive amounts of money on activities with or gifts for their new interest.  Look for large cash withdrawals or purchases made from stores and other places you rarely or never frequent. Watch out for credit or debit card transactions from restaurants or bars you have not visited.
ابحثي عن أي تغيير في جدول مواعيد زوجك. حاولي الاتصال بزوجك. انتبهي إلى الأشياء الجديدة أو غير التقليدية التي قد يتركها زوجك أمامك في مكان أو آخر. قومي برصد سلوكيات زوجك الإلكترونية. قومي بمراجعة الإفادات الواردة من الحسابات البنكية أو الجهات المالية.