Sometimes, it is the little things that count the most. Think about what sorts of things your boyfriend likes, or how his day is going, and try to incorporate that into your actions. For example:  Bring him a cup of coffee or his favorite beverage in the mornings, or buy his favorite snack for lunch. Do something nice for him when he’s having a bad day, such as cooking his favorite meal. Wear his favorite outfit of yours, or surprise him with a Saturday trip to his favorite place. Kissing and hugging are two ways couples nonverbally show their feelings for each other. You can also hold hands, cuddle, or touch each other as you talk.  It's perfectly normal for things to cool down after you've been together for a few years, but don't stop the affection, or he might think you're losing interest in him. Even if you've been together for a while, don’t stop hugging or kissing him before you go home after a date. Continue to cuddle on the couch as you watch TV. You should be affectionate and buy your boyfriend cute things on special occasions. However, you should avoid acting extremely lovey-dovey or buying him things for no reason. Showing him that he's the only one doesn't mean smothering him.  Going overboard with affection may make him think that you are making up for something you feel guilty about. There is a time and place for everything. Some people are comfortable with public displays of affection while others aren't. Be mindful and respectful of others. . If your guy is like most modern guys, he appreciates a smart and confident partner. When you let your confidence shine, you remind him of why he fell in love with you in the first place. You also show that you have the self-esteem that many unfaithful partners lack. Express your confidence by speaking up for yourself (calmly) when he’s hurt you. Being a doormat is not part of true love and loyalty. Unforeseen circumstances are one thing. If you had to break tonight's date because you developed a migraine after lunch, that’s understandable. On the other hand, if you repeatedly break dates because “something came up,” you'll only show him that he can't count on you.  If making plans just doesn't work with you, try being spontaneous and going with the flow instead. This means more last-minute dates and fewer planned-in-advance dates. If you decide to go with the flow, let him know that your schedule changes often, so making plans ahead of time doesn't always work. Communication is key. . It’s okay to feel a tinge of jealousy if he looks at a potential rival. However, if he’s not flirting with others, ignoring you, or receiving suspicious texts, you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. If you don't trust him, then he might feel hurt and stop trusting you as well. Cheaters often accuse their partners of being unfaithful when they have no evidence. Don’t give him a reason to think you might be messing around. Never forget his importance in your life. Let him know you’re happy to be with him. Compliment him, do nice things for him, and tell him you love him. These small gestures can make him feel loved.  Avoid talking too much about cute celebrities or your ex. Even if he knows you’ll never meet or run into them again, this could make him feel neglected. You can also stand up for your boyfriend in front of other people if the opportunity arises. Make sure to pay him compliments in front of people who are important to you, such as your parents and friends. Send him an occasional text or email professing your love. Leave sweet love notes for him from time to time. This will reassure him that you’re thinking of him and no one else while you’re apart. Looking extra special when you go out can remind your boyfriend just how much you love him. It doesn’t matter how long you have been together. Putting effort into how you look occasionally helps remind him about one of the reasons why he fell for you and that you love him enough to put work into your appearance for him.  For example, put on clothes you know he thinks are sexy, groom yourself, put on his favorite scent, and do something with your hair. It’s easy to get comfortable when you’ve been together, but dressing up can spice things up for both of you. If your boyfriend has a hobby that he is passionate about, taking an interest in it and allowing him to teach you about it will show him how much he means to you.   For example, if your boyfriend plays soccer and you don’t know much about it, ask him about the sport or if he could take you out sometime to learn the basics. Or, if your boyfriend is really into video games, ask him to teach you how to play one of his favorite games. Ask for tips and tricks that he has learned about the game.
قومي بأشياء صغيرة ومدروسة من أجل شريككِ العاطفي. كوني رقيقة جسديًا مع شريكك. احرصي على جعل تعلقكِ به في مستوى عقلاني متوسط. كوني واثقة من نفسكِ احتفظي بوعودكِ. ثقي في شريككِ. أخبريه بأنه مهم بالنسبة لكِ. أظهري له أنكِ تفكرين فيه. تأنقي من أجله. اهتمي بإحدى هواياته.