Eye contact shows interest and connection. If the person meets your gaze, you're off to a good start. Smile warmly, and make your way towards them. If they look away or appear disinterested, try making eye contact with someone else. Catch the person’s eye, but don’t glance away too quickly or stare them down. Hold eye contact for less than 2 seconds. Approach someone who has their arms and legs uncrossed and isn’t busy or distracted by something (or someone) else. Once you start talking, notice whether the person is leaning toward you and actively engaged in conversation with you. Keep monitoring their body language as you speak. You might find that you focus so much on how you feel and come across that you miss cues about how the other person feels. Shift gears and start paying attention to how they look and if they appear comfortable. if you want to build the conversation. It might be awkward if you open your conversation with a very personal question or deep inquiry. Start gradually by making some small talk. Comment about the weather, ask them about their weekend (or plans for the upcoming weekend), and be genuinely curious about their response. You can comment about the simplest thing and build a conversation off of that. For example, say, “I can’t believe it’s raining so much! I think I’ll have to buy an industrial strength umbrella at this rate!” Whether you’re talking to a stranger in the doctor’s office, the checkout person at the grocery store, or a cute guy or girl you see on the airplane, one of the best ways to start a conversation is by using open-ended questions. You want to get to know them, but don’t lead with a personal question. Keep it light and casual. For example, if you’re talking to a grocery clerk, ask them, “Have you tried this food before? What did you think?” Most people enjoy receiving compliments, so this is a great way to start talking to someone. Notice something you like about the person and say something nice. Compliments make people feel good and more open to talking.  Say, “I love your purse. It goes so well with your outfit.” If you want to be a little flirty, comment on the person’s eyes, smile, or hair. Say, “You have a really pretty smile” or, “I love the color of your hair.” Don’t go into a long story about your ex or your boring workday. Instead, reveal a little about yourself to get the conversation started. Talking about yourself will show that you’re open and will encourage the other person to be open, too. For example, say, “I’m getting a dog today and I’m so excited. Do you have any pets?” Avoid touching someone you’ve just met, unless the situation calls for it. For example, if you’ve just been introduced to someone, a friendly handshake is fine. However, going in for a hug is usually not appropriate. People may also feel uncomfortable if you stand too close to them or crowd them.Even if you’re trying to offer someone physical assistance, ask their permission before touching them. For example, if you see someone trip and fall, ask, “Do you need help getting up? Can I take your hand?” Some strangers will be happy to talk to you while others may want their space. If someone appears clearly disinterested, moves away from you, or gives you short, one-word answers, it’s probably time to move on. Try talking to someone else, instead. You can thank the person for their time and move away from them.
आगे बढ़ने से पहले आई कॉन्टेक्ट (eye contact) करिए: दूसरे व्यक्ति की बॉडी लैंगवेज एक्ज़ामिन (examine) करिए: अगर आप कोई कनवरसेशन (conversation) बिल्ड-अप करना चाहते हैं, तब थोड़ी स्माल टॉक (small talk) करिए: व्यक्ति के बारे में और अधिक जानने के लिए ओपेन-एंडेड (open-ended) सवाल पूछिये: अगर आपको व्यक्ति के बारे में कुछ अच्छा लगे, तब उसे कॉम्प्लिमेंट (compliment) दीजिये: अगर आप उनको कम्फ़र्टेबल बनाना चाहते हैं, तब थोड़ा अपने बारे में बताइये: फ़िज़िकल (physical) सीमाओं का सम्मान करिए: असफल प्रयास के बाद वहाँ से चले जाइए: