This is an indirect but potentially effective way to get back in touch. This is something that you can do to build up your courage to talk to them, or this can be a primer for starting a conversation. Liking their posts or retweeting their tweets will remind them of you, and let them know that you are following their posts.  Do not like everything they post. Choose one or two things that you genuinely like and space out the time between your likes to every few days. If you send too much attention to them all at once, it may come off like you are trying too hard. Do not like only the cute pictures of them. You can like one photo where you feel like they look particularly good, but if you like too many pictures of them looking pretty, you may come off creepy. Consider liking a variety of things that they post rather than just their pictures. If you have been liking or commenting on their posts, provide them with material to comment back on. Post clever or interesting thoughts you have about the world and people, share beautiful or interesting pictures that you have taken, or find funny gifs, pictures or quotes from the internet that you can post along with a comment about why you like it.  Consider what they would find funny or interesting. You don’t want to post things for them; however, you want to take into consideration that their internet style might be different from yours. Take a look at their posts and the things they like to get an idea of their online interests and style. For example, if they write a lot of posts about bands they like and you share a band you like in common, you can post one of their music videos or the lyrics from one of their songs with a comment about why you like it. Stay true to yourself. Only post things that you genuinely like and are a part of who you are. It can come off fake if you are posting about things you haven’t shown an interest in before. You should make a comment on a post that they write early after it has been posted. If you write the comment early, they will be more likely to respond. Look for things that they are into that is a common interest you share, like your music taste, love of food, love of movies, etc.. Consider praising the post, asking a question about it, or commenting about something you find interesting about it.  For example, if they write a post about going to a show, you can respond “I am so jealous you got to see them! Did you think they were good live?” Hopefully your comments will spark a chain of comments back and forth. If this happens, you should send them a message asking them how they are doing or extending the conversation. Say “Hey, I am enjoying our conversation. How have you been? Are there any other bands you have been listening to lately that I should check out?” Follow the inline citations to learn how to create an event on either platform.  You can either create an event, or you can invite them to an event you are attending. For example, if you are going to a music festival that you think they would like, invite them to the event. There are several events that are open invite. You can send them an invitation by going to the page of the event and sending the invite from that page. Or if you and your friends are throwing a Halloween party, for example, make an event for it and invite them.  After you invite them, you should send them a follow up message saying hello and telling them about the event. Say something like, “Hey, my friends and I are having a Halloween party and I was thinking it would be great to see you again. Are you free for Halloween?” If they cannot come to the event, use the event as an opportunity to continue messaging them. Ask her about how things have been going, and start a conversation with them. Whichever way that you decide to reach out to them, you can follow the same tactic as writing a comment. Send her a message with a praise, talk about some common ground that you have, or ask her a question.   Send a message that praises them for something they have recently done or accomplished. For example, if they recently finished a program or got a new pet, for example, send them a message saying congratulations, and then ask her how they have been lately. Talk about something that you share in common. For example, if they did a hike recently and you also like to go hiking, send them a message that says something like “I saw that you went on a hike to Palm Canyon. I was just there a couple of months ago and really enjoyed the waterfalls- did you like the trail?”. Ask them a question about something they have posted. Say something like “I saw the pictures you posted of you surfing- what kind of board do you have? I love surfing and go every chance I get.”
قم بالإعجاب أو بإعادة تغريد ما نشرته. انشر على مواقع التواصل الاجتماعي. اكتب تعليقًا على إحدى منشوراتها. ادعها لإيفنت عبر فيسبوك أو جوجل بلس. ابعث إليها برسالة فورية أو رسالة عبر وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي أو رسالة بريد إلكتروني.