. Everyone needs tenderness from others. Express your affection to your husband in the ways that come naturally to you. Find out what your loved one responds to, and show him love in this way.  If your husband likes physical affection, kiss and hug him when you greet him. If he likes to be told that you love him, tell him freely. If your spouse responds to compliments, look for something to compliment him about every day. Some husbands love gifts. Arrange treats that are special to him. Show your gratitude for everything he does for you. Express your pleasure in his company. When he accomplishes something he is proud of, congratulate them and tell him that he made you proud too. Affirm his feelings.  Leave him love notes and thank-you notes, but remember that all blessings come from Allah, so say "Alhamdulillah" when you see something that makes you feel grateful. Consider other ways of showing appreciation, such as helping him out with a task he is stuck on. The Qur'an strictly forbids all sexual activity outside marriage but encourages lawful spouses to invest in a mutually satisfying physical relationship. Explore your desires with your spouse, and encourage them to be open with you about what they enjoy.  Lovemaking should be undertaken with three intentions in mind—to avoid Zina (adultery), to protect from the gaze of strangers and to procreate pious young Muslims to serve Allah. With these three intentions in mind, making love is not only an act of enjoyment but an act of worship that pleases Allah and brings reward. Flirt and enjoy foreplay, as Allah encourages you to do. Establish consent with your partner. You may speak while you share intimate moments, although excessive talk should be avoided. Ask for permission before initiating something new. Say what you enjoy, and ask your husband to stop if they are doing something you don't like. At the time of commencing intercourse both husband and wife should recite "Bismillaah, Allahuma jannabnash shayTaana wa jannabish shayTaana maa razaqtanaa" - In the name of Allah, O Allah! Save us from the Shaytaan and prevent Shaytaan from that which you grant us (i.e. children). At the time of ejaculation, both husband and wife should say in their mind (but not out loud) "Allaahumma laa taj,’Al lish shayTaani feemaa razaqtanee naSeebaa" - O Allah! Do not grant Shaytaan any share of that which you have granted me". These duas are important as they will help protect any progeny from harm. Both husband and wife must perform Ghusl (major ritual bath) as soon as possible after intercourse. While sexual intimacy is encouraged between spouses, there are some activities and times when it is forbidden by the Qur'an.  During Ramadan, abstain from sexual intimacy except at night between iftar and suhoor. Make sure you are rested and well-fed enough to enjoy the exertion! Islam prohibits intercourse during menstruation. However, cuddling, kissing, and playing are still allowed. There's no reason to avoid your husband during your time of the month. He will always appreciate your affection. If your husband is away for an extended period, for example on business or on an outreach program, then maintain your chastity by busying your mind and protecting yourself from Shaytaan by reciting the Qur'an, praying and remembering Allah. Otherwise, when in good health the wife is normally required to fulfill the husband's right to conjugal relations (and similarly for the husband towards the wife).
عبري له عن حبك عبري له عن تقديرك. استمتعي بعلاقتكما الحميمية. أظهري حبك لزوجك حتى في فترات الامتناع عن العلاقة الزوجية.