and make eye contact with him a lot. Smiling makes you seem fun and flirty. Similarly, briefly holding eye contact with him shows him you're interested and draws his eyes to you. When you pass by him, meet his eyes, smile, then look away. When you're talking to him, look him in the eye and smile or giggle to show him you like him.  Look into his eyes for 2-3 seconds at a time. Don't stare at him because he might get uncomfortable. If you have trouble making eye contact, practice by staring at yourself in a mirror. Then, make eye contact with someone you really care about, like a friend or relative. that help you look your best. Try on all of your clothes to figure out what makes you feel good about yourself. When you're around him, wear outfits that show off your best features so you look as attractive as possible. This will also make you feel confident, which can make him want you more.  Don't worry about what's trendy. If you pick clothes that make you feel great, you'll look your best. For example, you might wear short shorts or a skirt to show off great legs, sleeveless tops to show off your arms, or a low cut top to enhance your chest. when you're around him so he has fun with you. Make him enjoy being around your by always putting a positive spin on things. When you're talking to him, only discuss the awesome things going on your life. Similarly, try to find the silver lining when something bad happens so you seem optimistic.  For instance, tell him about your recent accomplishes, your goals, and what you do for fun. As another example, let's say an outdoor concert you both planned to attend was cancelled due to rain. You might say, “It sucks that the concert was cancelled, but that doesn't mean we can't have fun. I know a local coffee shop that has a live music on Saturdays, so I'm going to check that out." Having hobbies and doing the things you love makes you a more well-rounded person, which draws people to you. Make a list of the things you enjoy, then schedule time every day to pursue your interests. Tell your guy about your hobbies and post about them on social media.  For example, take up painting, learn to play the guitar, or make your own clothes. If you're still in school, look for clubs you can join that are related to your interests. For instance, you might join the drama club if you like theater or acting. Guys want to be with girls who know how to enjoy life, so have some fun. Join your friends for dinner and activities like roller skating or going to concerts. Additionally, flirt with other guys and don't be shy about hanging out with them.  If he sees you out and about with others, he'll be more interested in getting to know you. It'll make him wonder what he's missing. Post pictures of your fun activities on social media so he sees what a great time you're having. Make it clear that you don't spend your time waiting around for him. Tell him that you're always busy, whether it's true or not. Do your best to always have something planned, whether it's study time at a local coffee shop, a movie with friends, or family time. Say things like, “I wish I had more free time but I'm so busy!” or "I never seem to run out of things to do, but I love my life!” Casually touching him is a great way to flirt without being too obvious. Additionally, it might get him thinking about what it would be like if you touched him more. Start by lightly touching his arm, then progress to leaning on his shoulder. Then, casually brush your hand against his thigh while you're sitting next to him. Try to find reasons to get close to him. For instance, you might show him something, such as a book or paper. This will make him think that you have something in common and will show him that you care about him. Ask him about his interests and listen to what he has to say. Later, bring up his interests so he knows you were listening and remember. For instance, let's say his favorite band is Pearl Jam. The next time you see him, say, “I heard 'Yellow Ledbetter' on the radio earlier and thought of you.” Similarly, if he tells you he likes science fiction, you might look up recent bestsellers in science fiction so you can recommend a book to him. Invite him to talk to you about his problems and struggles. When he opens up, be his sounding board and his shoulder to cry on. This will help him realize that you're always there for him, which might make him want to be with you. Say to him, “You seem really stressed out. Do you want to talk about it?” or “Is everything okay? I'm here for you if you need to talk.” Making him feel needed can get him to fall for you. Create reasons for him to help you, such as assistance with an assignment or help carrying a heavy object. You might also ask him to help you fix something or give his opinion. This will make him feel necessary and valued. Say, “Can you help me with this presentation?” or “Will you help me assemble this bookcase?” Everyone enjoys compliments, so telling him good things about himself will make him feel good. Additionally, it shows him you may be interested in him. Whenever you're around him, tell him something you like about him. Try to compliment him at least once every time you're together. Say something like, “This shirt looks great on you,” “Your presentation was amazing,” “This new hairstyle is sexy,” or “Great job in last night's game!” After the breakup, he may not be ready to make the first move right away. You can speed things along by asking him out. Invite him to do something casual and fun, like mini golf or getting coffee. This way he won't have to worry about rejection. Say, “Let's go play a game of mini golf today,” or “Do you want to check out open mic night with me tonight?”
ابتسمي اختاري الملابس التي تساعدك على الظهور بأفضل ما لديك. كوني إيجابية اسعي نحو اهتماماتك حتى يبدو أنك فريدة من نوعك. اخرجي مع أصدقائك أو أشخاص آخرين حتى يرى أنكِ مرحة. حافظي على انشغالك حتى يعتقد أن الطلب عليك مرتفع. المسيه بمغازلة على ذراعه أو كتفه أو ظهره أو ساقه. اهتمي بما يحبه حتى يشعر بالاحترام. ساعديه بمشاكله حتى يشعر وكأنك موجودة من أجله. اطلبي منه المساعدة حتى يشعر أنك بحاجة إليه. جامليه لتظهري له أنك مهتمة. اطلبي منه الخروج بعد الانفصال.