This technique keeps you chasing that bit of hope she offers you. She might say she's not available, but is free on another day. She might say "no" but tell you about an interesting place she wants to see. Or she might not commit to a date, telling you to wait and see.  A rejection or flat out, definitive, "no" means she's not interested. She won't be offering you a rain check or be in contact with you again. Learn to give her space and when to stop. If you ask her out too many times or too often, you will become less attractive and look desperate. If it always takes her awhile to respond to your calls or texts, even just to say "hi", then she's probably playing hard to get. And when she does respond, she might make up an excuse about how incredibly busy she was. She'll say she was at a party or hanging out with someone. She's showing you that she's a busy girl and is not entirely dependent on spending time with you.  Her delayed responses should happen consistently and almost strategically. If she doesn't respond to you for days or makes up a weird excuse, it probably means she's not interested enough to respond back in time. Some girls just don't respond to texts or calls right away. Don't overanalyze this or get upset with her. If she's showing signs of being interested in you, take a breath and understand that people are often busy or forgetful. A girl playing hard to get, will want to look hard to get. It's her way of showing you she has many options to choose from and could be taken by someone else at any moment.  She might bring along some good-looking friends to a party to make you jealous. She'll tease you about people who have tried to hit on her, but failed. It may seem like she's ridiculing them, but she's really pointing out to you how attractive she is. If she talks about the people she's dating with you, then she's probably not interested and might just see you as a friend. Don't treat this as a failure but rather as the start of a blossoming friendship. However, not everyone can stay friends with someone they're interested in, so know when it's time to count your losses and find someone else.
اطلب منها الخروج سويًا في موعد وانتظر إذا أجابت بالرفض المفتوح. تواصل معها وقيّم الوقت الذي تستغرقه للرد عليك. انتبه إذا ما كشفت لك عن المنافسين.