Once your date arrives, steer them gently towards your chosen snuggle location and ask them to sit down.  Ask them if they'd like a drink or something to eat -- you want to make sure all of their needs are taken care of in advance so that something as silly as "needing a glass of water" won't disrupt your snuggling later on. Tell them that they're welcome to take their shoes off and snuggle up under the blanket -- you want them to be as comfortable as possible. Start the movie or TV show or game or whatever other activity you had planned for the evening. Sit down next to your date -- as close as you feel comfortable with -- so you can set the snuggle plan in motion.  Try resting your arm on the back of the couch behind your date's head (this works well for guys, it may feel somewhat unnatural for girls). The when you've built up the courage, you can transfer your arm to your date's shoulder. Try grabbing your date's hand. You can just hold it or you can play with it, stroking the individual fingers and massaging the palm. You could start playing with your date's hair (guy or girl), twisting it around or stroking it (without pulling). Alternatively, you could try massaging their neck or tugging gently on their earlobe. Really, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you are touching your date -- the point is to initiate physical contact so you can easily segue into a full-on snuggle. Once you've broken the touch barrier and start to feel confident, you can smoothly transition into a complete snuggle.  Guys can do this by wrapping their arm around their date's shoulders and pulling her closer. This will allow her to rest her head on their chest or shoulders. Girls can grab the guy's arm and sort of hug it, while resting their head on his shoulder or chest. If you want to get really comfy, you can also rest your legs across the guy's lap (just make sure this isn't uncomfortable for him). Congratulations -- you are snuggling! Now that the snuggling has begun, there'll be no stopping you! Try some of these snuggletastic ideas:  Try a sitting spoon, where you both sit facing the same direction, with the small spoon sitting in between the big spoon's legs and lying back against their chest. The big spoon can then put their arms around the small spoon's shoulders. Try resting your head in your date's lap, or allowing them to rest their head in yours. Then the sitting partner can stroke the lying partners hair or exposed arm.  If you've finally lost interest in whatever it is you were watching/doing before, you can try some more intimate snuggle poses which require both of you to be lying down. Try lying down facing each other, allowing your foreheads to touch and your legs to become intertwined. This position is perfect for intimate conversations. Another great horizontal pose is for one person to lie on their back while the other lies on their side facing the first person and resting their head on the chest. This is a good position for napping in.
ادعُ شريكتك للجلوس. خذ خطوتك الأولى. التزم بالتكبب. جرب بعض الوضعيات المختلفة.