with him in person. You and your boyfriend have been through a lot together! The best way to respect your relationship and him is to break up face-to-face. If distance is an issue, plan a video call with him instead. If that's not possible, a phone call is the next best option.  Avoid breaking up through text or instant messenger, which is hurtful and impersonal. Only resort to a letter or email if you have tried to break up before and he changed your mind. If you are in an abusive relationship, breaking up over the phone, through email, or with a letter is okay. Your safety is most important. Ask him to go for a walk with you, or meet up with him at a park or somewhere similar. That way, once it's done, you can go your separate ways. If you invite him over to your house, it may get awkward or he may be reluctant to leave.  If you are unsure of how he’ll react, schedule the meeting in a more public place, like a coffee shop. If you're afraid he might have a bad reaction, have a friend come along with you. They can be out of sight, but somewhere in the nearby vicinity, just in case you need them. Choose a time when both of you can talk in private without distractions. Wait until the end of the day rather than doing it first thing in the morning before he has to face a full day of school or work. If possible, do it on a Friday so that both of you can have the weekend to deal with your feelings privately. In the heat of an argument, it's easy to say things that you don't mean. Give yourself time to think things over before losing your boyfriend. You may realize you want to resolve things with him, or your perspective on the situation may change. Give yourself a couple days to think things over to be sure breaking up is what you want. While it's important to give yourself time to think things over, don't put off the conversation once you're sure it's what you want. Dragging it out will be harder on him in the long-run, or the information may leak out and he ends up hearing the news from someone else.
انفصلي عن حبيبك على انفراد. قابليه في مكانٍ خاصٍ إلى حدٍ ما. اختاري الوقت المناسب من اليوم. لا تتسرعي في قرارك أو تنفصلي عنه أثناء شجار. لا تنتظري طويلًا أو تتجنبي المواجهة.