If you are still unsure that a person doesn’t want to talk to you, remember that every person has off days. This can help you make the first step of following up with the person to determine if she was having an off day or really doesn’t want to talk to you. Give the person a few days between your conversation and when you next contact her. This can help her deal with possible problems she had or help her get over being upset with you. Get in contact with the person again via text, email, social media, or phone call. You could also stop by the person’s office or class. This can open the door to a new conversation and help you determine her position on talking with you.  Keep the message brief and friendly. Emphasize how much you enjoyed your last interaction. For example, write something like “I really had a nice time with you during our last chat. I hope things are well with you. Maybe you’d be interested in continuing our chat over coffee?” Avoid sending anything lengthy or multiple messages. The response you receive to this simple message will tell you a lot about the person’s position. Watch for the person’s response and how long it takes for them to read and respond to the message. This can help indicate if she doesn’t want to talk to you.  Notice when and how she responds. If it’s a quick “hello, sorry I can’t get together,” chances are she doesn’t want to talk to you. If the response is friendlier and more enthusiastic, she may have just been having a bad day the last time you met. Take a lack of response as a sign the person doesn’t want to speak to you. Avoid sending further follow up messages so that you don’t upset the person—which may in turn upset you. If someone’s unenthusiastic responses or lack of contact with you has led you to realize that they don’t want to talk to you, stay away from her. Not only can this upset her and you, but may have other repercussions such as gaining a bad reputation.  Avoid sending further messages, unfriend or unfollow them on social media. This can show that you understand the person doesn’t want to speak with you. Allow the person to contact you if you like and decide how you want to respond. You may want to consider giving her another chance. It never hurts to be kind to others, even if they haven’t always been nice to you.
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