Think about what you want to say beforehand, and remember to include specific examples of how you think she is using you. Don't be angry or antagonistic. Try to keep the conversation polite and calm. Ask her what she thinks about the situation. Be ready for some anger. If the person is using you, she'll likely deny it and be angry about it. If she feels like she's not using you, she'll likely be angry at the accusation. Ask her what she needs and expects from a relationship. Present what you need and expect from a relationship. Negotiate from there how the relationship can move forward. You can only have one of two outcomes with this situation. Either you will need to work out a way to create a new type of relationship, or you will need to end it altogether.
أخبرها بشعورك. تناقشا حول احتياجاتكما في العلاقة. استعد لكل النتائج.