Bring up your first date, how you met, and the things you first loved about each other. Simple reminders will trigger your memories. Revisit some of the things attracted you to your boyfriend in the first place, and use these elements to spice up your relationship now. For example, maybe you used to always watch the sunset on summer evenings or used to go get ice cream after your soccer game was over. Try to make doing fun and familiar activities a habit again. Having an open and honest chat will let you learn more about each other and connect deeper. Let your questions lead into interesting and engaging conversations with your boyfriend.  You can find question ideas online, such as The 36 Questions That Lead to Love, or ask him anything that you’d like to know. Ask questions like, “What is your most treasured memory?” and “What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?” Start off a conversation by telling your boyfriend what’s on your mind or mention something interesting you’ve learned recently. Add interesting details to the conversation. Ask questions to keep the conversation going, and always listen closely to what he has to say.  Talk about interesting topics, like the news, politics, or recent discoveries. Or, sprinkle in things that interest you, like music, movies, or sports. Say something like, "Wow, I never knew you and your dad were so close. My dad used to always take me to baseball games, too." Select a book on a topic you both enjoy, and read it together. After you’ve finished the book, chat about your thoughts. Ask your boyfriend what his favorite part was, and talk about your favorite or least favorite characters. Using the book to start conversation is an easy way to connect with your boyfriend.  You can go with a book you’re reading for a class in school, one of your childhood favorites, or a new book that just hit the shelves. Try a magazine or short story if you don’t want to read a long book. These days there are countless interesting shows to stream, so find one you both like and watch a few episodes back-to-back. Then, discuss the show afterwards!  Try shows in genres you both like, or try a new genre together. If you don't have a membership to a streaming service, sign up for a free trial for Hulu or Netflix. You can also find a show running back-to-back on cable.
تحدثا عن بداية علاقتكما. اسألا بعضكما أسئلة ستقوي علاقتكما. اعقدا محادثة مثيرة عن المواضيع التي تثير اهتمامكما. اقرأي نفس الكتاب معه وناقشا آرائكما عن حبكته وشخصياته. اختارا مسلسلًا تلفزيونيًا لتشاهداه معًا وتتحدثا بشأنه.