If you want to get your girlfriend's attention, then you have to make her see that you really do care about her. While superficial compliments about her appearance or compliments that are only calculated to make her like you won't get you very far, giving her a meaningful compliment at the right time can show her that you really care. If you're worried about getting her to love you more, then chances are it's because she's not feeling the love back, so let her know you care by telling her what makes her so special.  You can compliment an impressive aspect of her personality. You can say something like, "It's really awesome that you can strike up a conversation with almost anyone. How do you do that?" Or, "You're such a hard worker. I wish I could study for as long as you could." You should pay attention to her and notice when she's wearing something new or when she got a new haircut. Say, "I love that new sweater on you. It really brings out your eyes," and she'll be impressed that you're paying attention. Another way to make your girlfriend feel special and to win her over is to do some favors for her to show her you care. This could mean bringing her lunch when she's had a busy day, giving her a ride when she needs it, or helping her clean up her place after a party. Just taking the time to make her life a little easier will make her appreciate you more. Of course, you don't want to be her puppy dog and make her think she can take advantage of you, but you should help her out when you can, provided she does the same for you. She may protest when you ask her if she needs help, but if you see that she really does need some help from you, you should help her out as much as you can. If you want to make your girlfriend feel special, then you can't just treat her like arm candy. You have to care about the things she cares about and want her to succeed. If she's really into soccer, you should go to her games when you can. If she's trying to find a new job, you can help her by setting up a mock interview. Let her see that you want her to do well and care about the things that matter to her, and she'll be touched by how thoughtful you are.  If she's upset, you should be there to comfort her and to talk about it when she's ready to talk. Don't get frustrated with her when she's not in a good mood because she's had a personal disappointment. Cheer her on if she has a big day coming up. Wish her luck and tell her you'll be thinking of her. You don't want your girlfriend to get bored or to think you don't really care about her. As you open up to each other, you should ask her questions about her life, from asking about her childhood to her relationships with her friends and parents. You should also ask her about her goals for the future or about what she has coming up in the week. Show her that you care about who she is as a person and about how she's growing.  Let her see that you're genuinely interested in who she is, and that you're not just asking to sound polite. Make eye contact and really give your full attention when she tells you about herself. Ask her to talk more about her hobbies and interests, even if you don't really know a lot about them. If you want her to see that you care, then you should check in with her at least once a day, whether you call or text her, to see how her day is going. Make her see that when you're not together, she's still on your mind, and she'll be touched. You can check in after you know she's had something important happen, whether it's a major exam or a soccer game. Let her see that you care about her even when you're miles apart. Of course, you shouldn't get obsessive and check in with her every five minutes, or that will be a major turn-off. And if she's out with her girlfriends, give her a break instead of checking in every chance you get, or she'll think that you're jealous and possessive. It's true that most guys don't love holding hands or major PDA. But that doesn't mean you can't show her some love and affection when you're together, whether you're putting your arm around her, stroking her hair, or putting a hand on her arm or knee when you're talking. Just a bit of physical affection can go a long way, showing her that you really like being around her. You may see that she's being distant because she feels like you don't care enough, and giving her some affection is a great way to change that.  You don't have to hold hands all the time, but holding her hand every once in a while is a great way to let her know you care. If you're at the movies, give her hand a squeeze once or twice. You don't have to kiss in public, but giving her a kiss when you see her and when you say goodbye will make her see that you care. Most people could stand to brush up on their listening skills, and many boys aren't exactly known for being amazing listeners. The next time she talks to you, you should really absorb every word, put away all distractions, and look into her eyes. Don't interrupt her or try to solve her problems, and work on simply being there for her and taking the time to understand what she's telling you. This will make her see that you really do care about her.  Once she's done talking, ask her more questions to see how she's feeling. If she's asking for advice, make sure you have all the facts before you give it to her. Put away your phone when she's trying to tell you something. You'll drive her crazy if you keep checking your phone when she's trying to have an important conversation.
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