Once you have your partner on the phone, take things at a speed you're both comfortable with. There's no "correct" way to have phone sex.  If it helps you relax, spend a few minutes chatting before you get started... just don't let yourselves get distracted from your sexy goal. A low, soft tone of voice or heavy breathing can help set the mood, but don't force it if doing so is unnatural for you: speaking and breathing comfortably in your normal tone of voice will be sexier than an awkwardly forced attempt at sounding sexy. Getting started is possibly the hardest part, especially if it's your first time! Pick a topic that's easy for you to bring up, but which has the potential to spiral into steamier territory. Examples:   How much you miss them, or wish they were with you What you would like to do if they were with you What you're wearing and how you look in it What you're doing How you're feeling Ask your partner to describe any of the above to you Once you have the ball rolling and you're feeling comfortable, try getting bolder with your descriptions, or bring up new, sexier topics. A good approach is to describe, or ask your partner to describe, the following three things:   What you're doing: Describe how you look and the way you're touching yourself. Be as coy or as raunchy as you like!  Ask for "advice" -- for example, "should I start playing with my underwear?" Tell them what you'd like them to do, if they're willing. Don't feel bad if you're not comfortable with touching yourself -- you can still let them know that you're enjoying simply listening to them.    What you're imagining: This could be, for example, what you'd like to be doing with your partner, a moment from great sex the two of you have had in the past, or a mental image of what they're describing to you.  You might want to start out slow: begin with tame descriptions like "first, I'd stroke your hair" or "I really like the way your chest looks in a T-shirt", before moving on to steamier things like "then I'd kiss your neck" or "remember when you did that thing to me in the shower?" As always, how explicit you get, and how quickly, is entirely up to you.    How you're feeling: Describe the physical and emotional feelings you're experiencing as a result of what you're doing and/or what they're saying.  Moaning is a great way to communicate how good you're feeling. However, there's no need to to do this if you're not comfortable with it. You can start with just letting your breath go at first, to help bring out little moans into louder moans. Let them know when they've described or done something you really enjoyed. Likewise, don't be afraid to tell them when you don't enjoy something -- it'll allow the two of you to move on to something else that you'll both find enjoyable. Mutual masturbation and orgasm are excellent additions to phone sex, but they're not a requirement by any means.  Don't feel bad if your partner doesn't join you in masturbating. If you don't want to masturbate alone, ask them before you start if they'd be interested in joining you. Likewise, don't get anxious if they start masturbating and you don't want to -- you're not obligated to join them. Just enjoy listening to them pleasure themselves. Don't worry if one or both of you fail to reach orgasm. Think of it as the icing on the cake, rather than the goal of the exercise. If you reach orgasm before your partner is ready to stop, don't go quiet! Continue talking to them, describing what you're feeling and imagining. The point at which you decide to stop is up to you. There's no need to wait for orgasm -- or, indeed, to stop just because you've both come.   There's no rule as to how quickly you should end the call after finishing. Some people prefer ending the call as soon as their breathing has gone back to normal, whereas others prefer to stay on the line and chat. Let your partner know how much you enjoyed yourself before you end the call.
कॉल शुरू करें: किसी सामयिक विषय पर बात करें: इससे आगे उत्तेजित करनेवाली बातों की तरफ बढ़ें: हस्तमैथुन करें (Masturbate and orgasm) और चरम-आनंद पायें: समाप्त: