It might take a short period of time to get him back, or it may be a long process. Either way, you will need to give him some space. You may want to cut off contact for a week, month, or even a few months. The amount of time without any contact depends on the circumstances of the relationship and your breakup.  Try cutting off contact for a week if you think a short period of time without contact is best for you. If the breakup was especially hard, avoid contact for at least a month. During this period, do your best not to return his messages or calls if he contacts you. You may decide to make contact after a while, but cutting off contact completely will help renew his interest. You need to stop making contact if you have been calling or texting your ex-boyfriend over and over again. By stopping contact, you are giving your boyfriend breathing space to cool down. This will also give him a chance to consider if he made a mistake. You might want to consider unfriending him on social media, but that is not necessary. It is, however, important to avoid commenting on or liking anything he posts. Do not message him either.  Unfriend him only if you find it too difficult to avoid contacting him or looking at what he posts. Otherwise, it is best to leave that form of communication open for the future. Don’t look at what he posts on social media. It will only hurt more to see him having a good time without you. Avoid going to his favorite hangouts, or going to outings with mutual friends for a while. Don’t alter your own life too much, but try to avoid interacting with him in person. Stay friendly and professional if you work or go to school with your ex-boyfriend, but don’t talk to him unless it’s necessary. Don’t put too much effort into avoiding your ex-boyfriend. Try your best to focus on other things you enjoy. He may realize your value if you do not react to the breakup in a desperate or needy manner.
قد تستغرق عملية استعادته وقتًا أطول مما تظنين. حددي فترة زمنية بدون اتصال بينكم. توقفي عن الاتصال به أو مراسلته. تجنبي التواصل معه من خلال مواقع التواصل الاجتماعية. تجنبي رؤيته شخصيًا على قدر المستطاع. استرخي.