Don't swear or use crude expressions. Profanity is one of the least lady-like traits. If you feel that your conversation becomes very dull without the use of profanity, remember that this is just temporary. As you substitute in non-profane expressions (of which there is a virtually limitless supply), you will find your language becoming more specific, more expressive, and more interesting. If you want to sound classy, then you have to speak clearly, avoid mumbling or talking too loudly, and be grammatically correct. A classy lady speaks with confidence and talks clearly enough for others to understand her. Avoid saying "um," or "like" every two seconds, because that will make you look unrefined.  For example, say "Hi Jade, did you finish your homework for Science?" instead of saying "Sup Bro, did yo' finish the homework cuz I didn't!", the latter being grammatically incorrect. Read regularly to improve your vocabulary and range of expression. This is the key to being classy, and without this, you will easily be mistaken for a snob. Be particularly attentive to the needs of the elderly and remember that nobody is beneath your notice. Always be polite. Classy ladies do not say anything hurtful or offensive to other people.  If you have to confront someone or put them in their place, speak the truth as you see it, but in moderate language and without recourse to shouting. It is important to find the right time and place for such confrontations. If you want to be a classy lady, then you should treat waiters, strangers, friends of friends, or neighbors with the same level of respect you would give to your close friends. Classy ladies are social and at ease with others. The key to doing this lies in making the people you meet feel at ease and accepted. If this is not easy for you, work on improving your social skills, and on being charismatic. Improving your conversational skills is a great way of putting people at ease, and making an impression as a well-bred and well-informed lady. A good start is to always be polite and to say thank you once too often rather than too little. A firm grasp on etiquette is also helpful if you get nervous in social situations, because you'll always know how you're supposed to act.  Learn dinner etiquette, party etiquette, workplace etiquette, and dating etiquette to become more ladylike. Remember that it is really poor etiquette to comment on or make a fuss about other people's lack of etiquette or manners.  Unless the situation really warrants it (their behavior may cause harm to themselves or others, or is on the way far side of moral and acceptable behaviour), graciously overlook their gaffes and shortcomings. Malicious gossip or speaking badly of people behind their back is not very lady-like. Though you may be angry at someone or feel wronged, gossiping about it to a third party will not solve your problems. If you want to be a classy lady, then you have to restrain yourself and avoid saying anything negative about other people unless you want to cause trouble for yourself. Keep your Facebook posts classy, too. Stick to the positive instead of ranting about "some people" who have done you wrong. Being classy and polite does not in any way mean being a pushover or voicing opinions that are not your own. If you deem that your opinions may be too forceful or may be hurtful to those present, do not lie, but change the topic to something else.  If someone asks an impertinent question, do not feel obliged to answer - make a joke, or endeavor to turn the question around. When you do stand up for yourself, state your case without resorting to name-calling or getting overly emotional.
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