At some point, you will have to tell your ex how you feel and what you want to do about it. Having this conversation may be awkward, but if your ex has not brought up the possibility of getting back together, then you may have to do it yourself. Make sure that you indicate a willingness to work on things and a clear interest in getting back together. It is inevitable that you and your ex will discuss the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Your ex may be skeptical of your growth or willingness to change, so you may have to reassure them. Make sure that you are prepared to talk about what you have done or will do to make sure that the relationship does not hit the same snags the second time around. If you say that you are going to work on certain things or commit to change yourself in some way, be prepared to actually do the things that you promised you would do. If you do not follow through, then the relationship may soon end again. Make sure that you and your partner are clear on what you both need to work on and that you follow through. In some cases, reconciliation is just not possible. If your ex is unwilling to give it another try, respect them for being honest with you and don’t pressure or harass them to get back with you. Chances are that you both need more time or that the relationship just is not worth reviving.
आपके मन में जो भी चल रहा है, वो कह दें: जब आप लोग एक-साथ थे, तब आपके बीच में जो भी गलत हुआ, उसके बारे में बात करने को भी तैयार रहें: बदलाव के लिए प्रतिबद्ध रहें: रिजेक्शन मिलने की भी उम्मीद रखें: