If your boyfriend is in a band, for instance, show interest in it by asking him about how band practice went after it ends.  If he enjoys gardening, ask him what plants he is growing this season and check with him intermittently about the garden’s growth. Other subjects your boyfriend might be interested in include football, skateboarding, automobiles, surfing, exercise and fitness or electronics, among others. For example, you could ask, "What's new with Mike?" or “Did Carlos ever get that guitar amplifier he was talking about?”  Showing interest in the people your boyfriend cares about indirectly shows interest in him, too.  Don’t be afraid to ask about your boyfriend’s friends’ problems.  For instance, if one of his friends recently ended a relationship, you could ask, “So, how is Cynthia handling the breakup?” Next time you’re with his friends, refer to some of the amusing or interesting stories he shared about them. If you and your boyfriend are both passionate about a certain band, you could say, “I love this new record.  Have you heard it?” or “What is your favorite song from that new album?”  If you’re both passionate about literature, you could make conversation with your boyfriend about a book you’re reading, or talk to him about joining a book club. You might also be able to engage in conversation with your boyfriend by talking about a shared political ideology or religious belief, or a love of cooking, motorcycles, or something else entirely. Ask your boyfriend, “What is the one thing you could never live without?” or “What do you want to do with your life?”  Broad questions like these can kick-start a great conversation and help you understand what drives your boyfriend.  Follow up on these questions by asking why he is so passionate about the thing that drives him. Prompt him to think deeper about where his passions come from.  For instance, you might ask, "Do you think this has to do with your upbringing?"
अपने बॉयफ़्रेंड से उसकी हॉबीज़ के बारे में पूछिये: उससे पूछिये कि उसके दोस्त कैसे हैं: अपनी साझा रुचियों की बात करिए: पता करिए कि आपका बॉयफ़्रेंड किस बात को जुनून की हद तक चाहता है: