Whether you are having a conflict with a mother-in-law, a cousin suffering from a drug addiction, or an uncle who is inappropriate with your child, you need to communicate your intentions and expectations as best you can. Your decision to avoid this person is likely supported by ongoing problematic interactions.  If you live with the person you could say, “I need you to know that I’m going to distance myself as best I can from this conflict we are having. I think keeping a healthy distance between us is the right thing to do. Can we agree to stay out of each other’s way?” If they live at a different address it will be easier to manage. You can sever contact by not calling, texting, or emailing. Avoid all interactions. Many families experience heightened levels of stress and conflict during family gatherings. If you want to avoid a person who will undoubtedly cause a problem for you, then make your apologies and do not attend. Plan and hold separate gatherings. However, avoid overlapping events to prevent your loved ones from having to choose between the two. This will only inflame any current friction between you and the other person. You may have a relative who you don’t trust for some reason. You may not want to be alone with this person. Whatever the reason, always bring along a witness if you are forced to interact with the person. Safety is always a paramount concern. If you are struggling with the turmoil of dealing with this person, you may benefit from talking to a counselor. Psychologists, licensed professional counselors, and psychiatrists are good options, and you probably have a few of these professionals in your area.  Find a psychologist using the American Psychological Association's locator.  Find a psychiatrist using the  American Psychiatric Association's website. As situations escalate, you might need the help of an attorney. Conflicts vary in severity and there might be times when it is in your best interest to avoid any and all interactions with someone. Law suits, by design, pose one side against the other. Anything you do or say can be detrimental to your case. Your attorney will guide you through the process. The person you are trying to avoid may have serious problems. If you feel you are in potential danger, seek a restraining order against the person to restrict contact. If they violate the order, you can call the police to intervene.
ضع حدودًا بينك وبينه. لا تحضر التجمعات العائلية. لا تتواصل معه إلا في وجود شاهد أو مشرف. اطلب المساعدة المتخصصة لكي تتمكن من التعامل مع مشاعرك وأفكارك. ابحث عن الدعم القانوني إذا كان ضروريًا. استخرج أمرًا قضائيًا بعدم التعرض.