Is he or she, for instance, coming home from work later than usual on some nights? Sometimes these small changes to a person's routine mean nothing more than life has given them a reason to be unavailable, but they are still something that you want to be aware of. Sometimes, a cheating lover will displace his or her shame, anger, and guilt onto you by starting a fight, which can then be blamed on you. In short, they need a place to throw off their negative feelings. Did your significant other always have things to say, and has suddenly become distant? Your relationship may be losing intimacy because your lover has started a new one with someone else. Everyone knows this one is stereotypical but it can also be true. If he or she is coming around smelling like a perfume or aftershave that you don't wear, then he or she has been too close to someone who wears it. When someone spends enough time with someone else, they begin to adopt their views, or at least understand them. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is interested in things that they hated before, perhaps they are being influenced by someone else more than usual.
راقبي أيّة تغيرات في روتين حبيبك المعتاد. انتبهي إلى مزاجه إذا أصبح متقلبًا فجأة، أو كان متأهبًا للخوض في شجار معك. فكري في أسباب توقف حبيبك عن التحدث معكِ. يمكنك تفقد ما إن كانت رائحة حبيبك مختلفة عند اقترابه منكِ. انتبهي إلى تغيّر اهتماماته.