First, ask her if she wants to choose the setting, in case she already has an idea about what she’d like to do. Plan ahead for where you’ll go. Keep in mind that your preparation shows your interest level. When selecting a location, look for places you’ll have the chance to talk and find out more about each other. You can also arrange multiple places to go on a single date, if desired.  Try asking, “Do you have anyplace specific in mind, or would you rather be surprised?” For instance, you might choose to go to an aquarium followed by a restaurant that isn’t too casual. Other ideas are ice skating, bringing a picnic lunch to a park, or a city walking tour. Avoid places like the cinema, concerts and clubs, where you’ll have to compete with the noise level and energy.  If you’re going out to eat, ask her what type of food she likes first, and don’t wait until the date to pick a restaurant. Choose a place, make reservations, and let your date know whether she should dress formally or casually. Avoid choosing a noisy place like a sports bar, where you won’t be able to hear each other well. If you’re going to drive on the date, take some time beforehand to throw away any trash in your car. You may want to vacuum your car out as well, especially if you have pets or it’s been a while since you vacuumed your car’s interior. Wipe down any dusty interior surfaces. Bonus points if you get a car wash, place a well-concealed air freshener in your car, and keep gum and/or mints in your console! You may not need to use them, but it’s good to have some ideas prepared ahead of time in case you find yourself at a loss for words. Think of questions that are open-ended, so they can start conversation rather than inviting simple “yes” or “no” answers.  Try asking, “Do you like to travel? Where would you most like to go?” Discussing dream travel destinations makes people feel good and even look more attractive to each other. You could also ask her what here favorite trip is that she’s been on.  Some light-hearted topics you can discuss: Does she likes pets? What does she enjoy doing in her free time? Does she consider herself a morning or night person? Heavier topics you might bring up: What is she passionate about? Does she enjoy her job? What would be her dream career? Does she have a favorite memory from early childhood? Avoid asking about past relationships, family problems, politics, religion and finances. You may want to bring flowers, candy, or something geared more towards what she likes. If you don’t know much about her, you could ask someone who knows her about some of her interests and hobbies. Put thought into it, and you’re certain to impress! The gesture is more important than how much you spend on the gift.
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