Now that you've started a dialogue, it's time to keep the conversation going. Avoid yes or no questions. Open ended questions specific to her, will encourage her to become engaged in the conversation. Find shared interests through online profiles and expand your conversation around common ground.  Ask “What types of outdoor activities do you enjoy?” instead of “Do you like sports?” Build common ground with things like, “I got a dog in college, what animals are your favorites? Avoid seeming spammy by limiting your responses to one message for each one received. This is a way to encourage the conversation to move forward so that she wants to keep talking to you. Give her a compliment focused on part of the conversation or her personality. It is OK to have some fun with your conversation and show your sense of humor.  "Talking with you has been one of the best parts of my day." "Just when I thought everyone online was fake, I meet you." NOTE: Avoid complimenting physical appearances at this point. Phrases like “You’re hot” or “sexy” may seem like a good idea, but they give the impression that you are shallow and only care about looks. Use the information you have learned as the conversation develops to build the base of a fun relationship. Find common interests that you can relate to and share personal experiences. Do not dominate the conversation by making it about you, but keep her involved by showing you are interested in the same things she is. Express your happiness that you had the opportunity to talk with her. Let her know that you want to talk again by casually creating the opportunity to talk again. Try these lines and you can create an opening:  "This has been awesome. I hope we can talk again soon!" "You mentioned (pick something from your conversation), I wanted to email you an article I found. What's your email address?" "I gotta go, but I really want to hear more about _______, will you email me a link to your favorite site? My email is ______________."
سل أسئلة مفتوحةً. أرسل رسالة واحدة في كل مرة. غازلها وتدلل عليها قليلًا. اجعلها مركز الحديث. كن ودودًا واجعلها تود المزيد منك.