This can be a bit hard but once you get the hang of it then it will be as smooth as silk. Though you may be determined to play hard to get and to keep things a bit mysterious, you have to end up telling the guy how you feel if you want to keep him. You don't have to declare your love to him right away or tell him your fifty favorite qualities of his, but hey, if you do like the guy, it won't hurt to be honest with him. Tell him you had fun on your date, that you love hanging out with him, that you love his quirky sense of humor, whatever. If you don't give him anything to work with, he'll lose interest--fast. And don't send him mixed signals, either. Telling him he's hot one night and being distant the next will just confuse him, not turn him on. Even if you're saying "I love you" and getting ready to say "I do," you can always play hard to get to an extent. That means that, in any successful, long-lasting relationship, the courtship is never really over. Both you and your guy will continue making each other happy and will keep things exciting, interesting, and flexible. Don't stop flirting, being coy, or making your man continue to win you over, as long as he does the same. Though the chase is never over, you don't have to play hard to get all the time once you're in a committed relationship. Try to minimize the mind games while keeping your man interested. If you got the guy's attention by playing hard to get to begin with, then you can't just quit the act and let him think that you will give up anything that matters to you to be with him. You will definitely need to adjust your schedule to make room for any serious love interest, but you should keep pursuing your interests, hanging out with you girlfriends, working out, or doing whatever it is you loved to do before you met the guy. If both of you continue to spend time apart to do your own thing, then you'll be keeping each other interested. You'll be much more excited to see each other after some time apart. If you really want to go all in on a relationship, then you'll have to stop being so mysterious and just let love take you over. You should still make your guy see that you're desired by lots of guys and that you're an interesting person with a busy schedule, but you shouldn't make him continue to feel like you might have another guy on your mind, or like your heart isn't really in the relationship. In the end, you'll have to open up and be more available if you're ready for long-lasting love. But if you're not ready and want to keep having fun, then play on.
لا تنسي إخباره بما تشعرين. يجب أن تعلمي أن المطاردة لا تنتهي أبدًا. حافظي على استقلاليتك. وازني بين لعب دور صعبة المنال وبين الانفتاح للحب.