As your relationship gets more and more stable again, you can make sure that your girlfriend knows how much you care about her. If you’re already saying “I love you,” then you shouldn’t forget to say it at least once a day; if you’re not, make sure you compliment her and make her feel good about herself when you’re together. Let her know and see how happy you are to be with her and how much you love dating her.  You don’t have to smother her with affection, but you should never take her for granted. Don’t assume that she knows how much you care for her just because you’re hanging out together; let her see how much you care through your words and your affection. Write her sweet love notes or even hand her a full letter saying how much you care for her. Be thoughtful. If she’s mentioned a new book she wants to read, let her know that you listen to her by giving it to her. Though returning to your old routine can make your relationship feel more stable, you can also work to discover new things together to keep your relationship fresh and to do things that don’t remind her of the time you hurt her. You can discover a new sport, take a class together, or even take a mini vacation to a campsite or beach over the weekend. Don’t just do whatever she wants to do to please her; try to find something new and exciting that you both will love.  It doesn’t have to be too elaborate. You can just learn to make pasta together, join a bowling league together, or discover a new director together. The most important thing is that you both keep your relationship feeling fresh. You don’t have to do too many new things at once. Making an effort to do at least one new thing every week or two while continuing to do some of the old things you love together will keep your relationship going strong. In order to maintain a healthy relationship, you have to be committed to communicating openly and listening to her as often as possible. Don’t keep your feelings bottled up inside or become passive aggressive when you’re mad; instead, make time to talk to her about any problems in your relationship so that you both feel that you’re on the same page. Make sure to really listen to her and to address her concerns while making her aware of how you’re feeling. Strong communication is key for any strong relationship.  An important part of communication is learning to compromise. Make sure you can both find a way to make each other happy when making a decision and that one person doesn’t always get his or her way all of the time. Work on reading your girlfriend’s expressions and body language. She may be upset without telling you, and there will be times when you have to ask her what’s wrong. She’ll appreciate the fact that you’re paying such close attention to her. Once you’ve apologized and have worked on rebuilding a healthy relationship, you have to be able to move past what happened. While your girlfriend may not be able to completely forget what happened even if she has forgiven you, you both have to be able to accept what happened and to focus on the present and the future instead of the past. If you both keep bringing up what happened all the time, then you won’t ever be able to fully move forward.  You should work on enjoying the relationship on its own terms instead of being fully focused on making it up to your girlfriend. Of course, if your girlfriend wants to talk about what happened, you shouldn’t avoid it, but you should also make an effort to have other things to talk about as well. Unfortunately, there may be times when your girlfriend won’t be able to forgive you, no matter how hard you’ve tried to change for her. If you’ve done too much damage to repair the relationship, then it’s important to be aware of this so you both know when to cut your losses. If you’ve been trying to make things feel “normal” for months and just keep going back to what happened, keep fighting about the past, and still can’t open up to each other, then you both may have to accept that you can’t fix the relationship anymore.  If you’re getting the sense that your girlfriend won’t ever be able to fully forgive you, then you should have an honest conversation with her about it. If this is the case, then the sooner you know, the better. If you have to end the relationship because of what you did, then the best thing you can do is view it as a learning experience and make sure not to make the same mistake again.
أشعرها بالحب. ابحث عن شيء جديد تفعلانه معًا. تواصلا بانفتاح. امضِ قدمًا لنسيان الحادثة. اعرف متى يكون الأوان قد فات.