text: Same here. I feel honestly guilty that because I didn't fully accept my sexuality until years after I'd been with my boyfriend and we've been together so long my rural, religious family just assumes I'm straight so I've never had to come out to them. It's easy to say it's because they're in another state but I haven't even told my coworkers/friends because some are guys and I feel like they'll see me as a novelty like "oh it would be hot to see you make out with a woman" like that's all it is for us.