text: Being an asshole doesn't make it easier to get casual sex. Being extroverted, charming, and attractive does. Sure some of these guys may be secret assholes (the whole Dark Triad thing) but plenty are normal, nice dudes. I feel like TRP interprets masculine confidence and assertiveness as dickishness even though that's not how it comes off to women. There have also been multiple discussions here where women point out stereotypical Chads are often very nice.