text: Good grief your gf and my stories are the exact same. Minus the enby for me. Been on hrt for 13 months and small changes but I NEVER get gendered female. And I'm all tomboy/punk so tons of basketball shorts and band T-shirts in my wardrobe. And never getting gendered correctly really bothers me but I also don't always want to glam it up just so people can stare and misgender me anyway.