text: NTA and boy do I feel you! I had the same growing up, I'm half Native American (mom was Apache) and my dad's mom was super racist against my brother and me growing up. My mom's side too since I came out looking white, was a bit of a clusterfuck back in the day before it became cool to be beige lol. I didn't go to my racist grandmother's funeral either and I'm not crying about it now.