text: Dude you're making me cry. This is so horrible of your brother. This is 2020 almost and he's treating you like this. His friends started it, but he should be defending you and kicking them out of the wedding. He only gets one chance in life as a brother to make you his best man and to show everyone that you are indeed his BEST MAN. You must be an incredible man to tolerate this. I've had issues with people in my family not accepting me and we have worked through it although they don't like it, but DUDE YOU ROCK. Do something for you and your boyfriend that day. Celebrate you! Be happy!