text: I honestly think it the majority of people have to come to it on their own.  The belief that your soul is dependent on being part of the religion is a very powerful, along with the reinforcement of the belief that backsliders are basically evil due to walking away from the "truth". The art of mental gymnastics is strong with the true believers.  I've talked to people who are looking to get out or starting to question their beliefs and I've found that approaching it with respect and giving resources for them to watch or read for themselves has been the most effective.