text: Grew up with a white dad and an Asian mom. Honestly, my mom was the one who really didn't care what I did. She said just do what makes you happy. Obviously she was more strict when I was younger but she got more lenient the older I got. My dad made me do everything he wanted without reason. I hated it. Never praised me for anything I did. Always my brother who was better than me. I can't even talk to him normally. So yeah.