text: This is why no man is a misogynist if he demands that condoms be used, that he retain sole control of those condoms prior to and after sex, and that he takes the used condoms with him or disposes of them in the manner HE sees fit.  Women have many options for temporary birth control. Men have **one** and they need to be careful with it lest they get trapped by someone they're supposed to be able to trust. No man should ever be strong-armed with exhortations to just trust their partner. Too much is on the line.