text: That's exactly how I feel about my genitalia!! It's for pleasure and that's that. I don't want to use it for anything else haha This was really insightful. I liked what you said about no one is born a woman, but we become women. I think that's exactly right. I feel like I'm that Britney Spears song, Not a Girl Not Yet a Woman. I just need to do some more investigating and eventually I'll find some clarity