text: Sure. I'm an "ace" but cis- Identifying male. My qualifier is my father. I was the only 20 something male in a group of 40 to 60buear old women. Some of the ladies were even threatened by me being in the room as they'd suffered violence at the hands of their husbands and another male, any male, in proximity was a trigger. Luckily I had a kickarse sponsor who built that bridge. She had the inspired thought that being as the meeting room was colocated with a Catholic Church she'd invite the priest in to visit every couple of weeks.