text: My best friend got with a man 8 years her senior when she was 16. Friend was white, dude was black, her dad was a major bigoted racist. Dude went to jail several times over the course of the next couple years. They've been together ever since and now have a kid and her dad isn't anywhere near the picture. But afaik, he still has to register as a sex offender and it has made a huge impact on his/their life.