text: Recently broke up and out of my first relationship, who happens to also be a girl. Mom brought this up and said, "Have you ever thought maybe it didn't work out because she was... Well, you know... A girl?" My mom has clarified to me she doesn't want me to be bi because of the hardships couples face, but is completely fine with me being bi because she is an accepting person. I completely understand her reasoning and her heart is in the right place, but my ex just wasn't the right person-- and no, what was between her legs wasn't the problem.