text: Yeah, that too!  Plus, I don't know about you, but as I grow older I kinda get tired of these people talking about their gayness all the time in all circumstances. I got hobbies defining me way more than my sexuality. I know a guy who talks constantly about it, about his sex life, about his weird hook-ups on Grindr in a desperate effort to shock the audience or make himself interesting, and it's just obnoxious to me. What I'm looking for in a good gay character is a character who's interesting in other fields, not just a giant billboard constantly referencing who he bangs all the time.