text: You can't take an opinion and turn it into a fact. It isn't factual that it's a paradise for 'everyone' unless you have proof. It's hypocrisy to have an expectation for yourself to be tolerated and then you denounce tolerance for other people (and their preferences). People aren't going to be honest with you in fear of 'offending you'. You said it yourself "that's only remotely pleasant if you're a 30 year old cis het white man" and by saying that you're clearly intolerant/hypocritical of those that aren't like you.