text: I'm a white female and my boyfriend is Vietnamese. We've been dating for nearly 6 years now and it has literally taken 5 of those 6 years before my boyfriends mom would even acknowledge my existence. If she had something she wanted me to hear she'd address it to her son so he could address it to me. Now she has somewhat accepted me but she has made it very clear she only accepts me and doesn't accept my family, including my son from a previous relationship. What can I do to get her to accept my son and my family so we can all have a good relationship?