text: I understood your point and thank you for making it. Part of why as a younger man I felt i couldn't be a dad is becsue it didn't happen nuch at all 15-20 years ago so growing up a family was one man one women. Adoption was done by straight couples who couldn't or didnt want to conceive natuaky. Gay people were never ralked avout as wanting to build families even fron within the comunity. Hopefully my children's generation will be able to see same sex adoption in exactly the same way as straight adoption but for my generation that's not possible.