text: YTA. That's not "accepting" nor being proud. That's called being ashamed of who your partner is. She's Bi and you can't change that. If your mother doesn't like her and you are as "proud" as you say, you would have held her hand and let her say it and supported her for it. >I told her I'm proud of her and who she is but that this could weaken my realtionship with my mother and that she should expect my boundaries and discomfort in sharing that information.