text: Not gay but bi so close enough. I don't dress overly girly or overly "masculine." I don't go out of my way to really dress any certain style, I just go with what I like. I do think it's good to have a degree of anonymity so everyone doesn't judge (subconsciously or consciously) you right away. However, they won't tend to take you seriously when you mention you're LGBT. Like I could say I'm interested in girls (as a girl myself) and if I don't "look the part" or like a stereotype, then it might be hard for many people to believe you.