text: I know how you feel. And I hate how this stuff is tearing apart wlw friendships. I'm a lesbian. My first in real life gender critical friend was bi but I also know so many bi women (and even lesbians) who are into all the gender crazy stuff. It's a very difficult terrain to navigate...  No matter what the issue is, having to choose between keeping quiet and feeling angry/guilty all the time or speaking up and losing friends and potentially having other bad shit happen to you is so painful.