text: I'm a white boy but my husband is Puerto Rican. I embrace all kinds of culture and really appreciate what his family's culture is all about. I try to embrace it. I went to PR with his family this past spring and I'm left realizing that I really ought to better learn Spanish. The funny thing is, I often forget that dating "outside your race" is supposed to be "taboo", every so often I realize we hit with a "double whammy" of sorts of two stupid rules that are meant to be followed.