text: I'm bi and currently dating a woman, but was married to a man for a while, and everything you said is true. Another major draw is children. Adoption is great and I knew I was bi from about age 15 on, but I always wanted to start a family. Now, I did conceive my children on accident very early in to my relationship with their father and my eventual husband in my early 20s, but at that time I was definitely looking to start a family and I think that was the biggest reason I was mostly pursuing long term relationships with men.