text: I'm lucky my own grandmothers were never like this, but my ex-boyfriend's mother was. She was so sweet much of the time until one day I heard her say "colored people" and I had to remind her that she was also a "person of color", an observation to which she balked.. My ex told me she always wanted to identify as a Caucasian lmao. Yeah mama, you barely speak English and you look fully indigenous, you may as well embrace your brownness 💁🏻‍♀️