text: Sure, I'd still love her/him.  But I'd not be *in love* with her/him, because she's now a dude, and I'm straight. To expect them to stay with you as though nothings changed and suddenly be okay with you doing them up the ass with a strap on or whatever is insane.  Actually, I hope more people start doing this "would you still love me if I changed sex" thing, because it would allow a lot of people to see if they're actually married to an idiot.