text: The fact you said to them they were BSing their support, you might want to apologise for, some of them may be closeted or genuinely passionate about these things. I've said edgy memes about gay people as a bi person, but I still care a lot about their rights.  I also think that we should be more open and accepting about people's preferences in BDSM and such as long as it's consensual. That however does not mean you're an asshole, but I wouldn't say they are so NAH