text: NTA, and.. Is this nurse out of her effing mind?! Report. Her. Immediately. This actually could harm the care, in the sense that it *will* stop some girls from seeking medical attention when they might need it the most.  Imagine a girl not as strong in her shoes as you, having this experience and not willing to seek medical attention next time, and an STD actually progresses to the point where it harms her ability to get children or make her seriously (I mean life-threatening) ill?! What the actual fuck.