text: Sounds familiar. Although I am still not totally out at 38. My life is good now with my career and stuff. I have accepted it to myself, mostly, that I am bi. But, I am not ready to come out to my family. I dunno if they suspect anything or not. I am pretty career-driven, and not in any way feminine or whatever. I show no outward indication that I am bi.  Doesn't stop me from checking out guys though.