text: This also reminds me of how much importance Mormonism puts on a woman finding a "righteous priesthood holder". I suppose that I can understand why my wife struggles so much with my faith transition because I was her righteous priesthood holder, and I am no longer that. It's like having a whole aspect of her identity stolen away from her, which is quite sad and I wish I could help her see how strong and valuable she is, with our without a "righteous priesthood holder".