text: Pathetic. Go back and actually read what I wrote. Keeping with the racism thing, since you brought it up, it would go something like this. I lost at poker, the dealer was racist. My shoelace broke this morning, shoes are racist. That guy cut me off in the highway, he must be racist! I didn't get the job, the  interviewer must be racist. Um...not necessarily.  Automatically blaming (single trait) for every woe in your life, to the exclusion of all else, is both lazy and unrepresentative of reality. That's not anecdotal. That's reality.