text: I'm sorry you had to endure hurtful comments as a kid. I recently settled into the label of genderqueer. It took me years and years to figure out what felt right to me because of some similar stuff with my parents growing up. I hope that things get easier for you. Wherever you settle, or don't settle, label or not; I hope you love who you are.  Sorry if that's corny, I mean it sincerely. I am in full mama bear mode and I just want to love and protect people at the moment.