text: I didn't come out until I was 28 and by that time I had been married to a woman for over 4 years, she wasn't impressed but for me it was and the single greatest thing I had done for myself. I got my own place and have really enjoyed the journey my life has taken since then and I am at the very start of a new relationship with a guy that is completely different from my other past relationships and I am really looking forward to where that might take us.