text: If you live in a city it's actually not that hard if you are willing to get out of your comfort zone. Attend a local lgbt activity group. It can soccer, rugby, board games, video games, bar crawls, whatever is your hobby. You meet new friends and sometimes meet someone you really click with. I made friends with a gay couple who also liked boards games and going to movies. We hung out regularly (we still do) and I met my current boyfriend through them.