text: See I had this mindset too. I liked this boy since fourth or fifth grade but I just thought nah, too depressed and wishy washy for a relationship. Besides I'd die in the process of trying to ask him out. I didn't even know if the guy was gay. But then suddenly whoa, he confesses to ME and we both have heart attacks. So now we're getting married and everyone is invited. Sometimes things will just come along for you. He was certainly the last thing I ever expected to really truly be in my life. And I'm happy.