text: I'm not worried about it.  Since she's been able to speak, she's insisted that she's a girl to us. With all due respect, it isn't as simple as you describe it, and that's OK. She currently sees a paediatrician who specializes in trans youth to make sure that we're taking all the right steps and doing all the right things for her.  And you're right, in a few years if it all changes, then that's fine; no harm done. My wife and I just want our kid to be a happy and healthy kid.