text: This! So much this! I wasn't sure about my sexuality until I was around 18. And even now I still have waverings here and there. Please don't feel pressured to work it out right away. But... Having said that, if you do figure it out young don't feel like that's not valid. Everyone works it out at there own pace, I have friends who new they were bi/gay since before their teens and equally I have a grandma who didn't come out as lesbian until after she had 5 kids and was a full grown adult.