text: Local LGBT groups will probably have the best info about what coming out in your area is like and where to get more support. For example, I live on the east edge of Iowa(kind of Iowa's east coast) which trends more supportive than the deeper red western Iowa. I don't know what Utah is like for trans people( I hear more from atheists trying to navigate Mormon dominated areas). General advise is strength in numbers, avoid situations where likely transphobes have it and find numbers to help you.