text: I loved this story and movie and in particular this quote. I have heard multiple women say they want their kids to look like them (so no interracial babymaking) and it just boggles my mind. I look just like my mom and she could care less I even existed. It takes more to be a mom than give birth, and I truly am humbled by people who choose to adopt. They want to be parents, and thats pretty much all it takes to be a mom or dad.