text: I'm a guy who likes women. In general I prefer women who present feminine, so alternative style may turn me off. As fair as hair color goes: it depends! I've seen a lot of women color their hair in a way that just isn't flattering given the color & style. I've also seen women color their hair in a way that's wonderful and attractive. I think the main difference is the degree of care going into the hair in question; the colored hair I find attractive seems healthy and full even if it's been colored.