text: Ughhhhh gross!!! I'm so sorry she said that. I'm a bi lady, have been out for like 10 years, and I do a lot of activist/charity work for the LGBTQ community. Any time I make the mistake of mentioning it to my mom, she implies that I'm secretly a trans man, and hiding it from her. They just have to pretend that they can "see right through you" and know you better than you know yourself, even though they barely know you at all