text: I was in the same boat for many, many years. At 28 I finally decided I couldn't keep it in any longer. I came out to my sister first, she was the person I trusted most to keep it to herself, and the person I knew would be most accepting. After I told her and realized the world wouldn't end if someone else knew, it became much easier to open up to others about my sexuality. It was a gradual process for me, and being on the other side of it now I am a much happier, healthier person. Just know that the people who really belong in your life will love you no matter who you love. Best of luck.