text: I'm a 12|Pan|M, and for real, this is how I figured out I was pan and came to terms with it, I realized I was pan when I developed a massive crush on Tom Holland and I said, hey I might be bi, so I looked into it, decided I was pan not bi, took a while and looked back at my life and said "yeah I've never really considered gender as a factor in any kind of attraction, well...I guess I'm pan now." and that's how I came to terms with it, thank you for coming to my TED Talk