text: No pressure pushing me either way. The choice to stay home and be a mom is just one I want. Also, because I want to have the freedom to expand a small business I've been dreaming of.  I just know that I hear a lot of extreme feminists talk negatively about women staying home to be domesticated.  That's all. For the record, I agree with you Tony. And men can most definitely be feminist. I know plenty of women who know nothing at all about gender equality and equal pay for women. For some reason they look at it as a negative thing.