text: One of my friends is in a relationship like this and it drives me nuts when she posts pictures of "her and her wife" who is a "trans butch lesbian"....Honey, that's a straight man and you're bi so maybe don't call yourselves lesbians 🙃 Everything she does is or has to be "gay" and I don't have it in me (yet...I may yet snap, we'll see lol) to call her out on it. Being gay isn't a personality trait (especially when you're not exclusively same-sex attracted) and being the "most woke" isn't necessarily the best thing.  Sorry, I have no one to vent this shit to lol