text: She says she'd rather me be a happy woman, rather than a miserable man, or dead, it'll just be hard for her. We're also both Christians, and come from conservative backgrounds, so it's like a double culture shock. On top of that, her brother just came out as gay (thanks to me coming out as trans I guess) and she's having a rough time of it. She kind of saw him coming out, and wasn't surprised, but I'm a shock.