text: I'm also Asian. I've been told by a lot of people, mostly non-Asians, that I'm not "Asian-sized" or the "type of Asian that is usually curvy". It's stupid. I'm sorry you went through that, and now you're going through the prospect of a double mastectomy. Surgical procedures can be scary, even when they're low-risk, and that is such a drastic change to undergo for your health. I hope everything goes well. You keep doing what's best for yourself and loving yourself. Everyone else can shove it.