text: >"I hold doors open for everyone because I appreciate it when people do so for me." \^ This should suffice I think, irrespective of gender. I guess some people just like finding faults in other people and act our in bad faith. We've become fear-based and hyperemotional. I think this is a catastrophic combination and makes us prone and primed for manipulation and populism. If we worry about who's holding up the door we're more likely to miss bigger and more important issues.