text: Ah passing as in "passing as". My brain went straight to "passing by" and I was wondering why to celebrate a relationship that's almost over. *facepalm*. Thanks a lot! And I kind of relate to how you feel. I'm not 100 percent sure what kind of queer I am. I know that I'm not straight and that's important to me, but I feel like I can't come out properly because I haven't quite figured out my label yet. I, too, am a bit afraid people will think I'm just drawing attention to myself, when I can't say if I'm Bi or a Lesbian. Thanks for explaining and sharing!