text: NTA trans here, you did your best to be accommodating and in terms of transitioning late it can cause issues (as you said with the sizing) also as blunt as I can be about being trans, personally I think it's best to wait before for your body to change before starting to go out in public for well 1 safety and 2 so you don't get a bunch of weird stares comments etc. Just my opinion though, I hope their transitions going alright because ik it can be bad for some when they transition that late.