text: I live in a very white state. My daughter and I go to a group every Thursday about talking to kids about race and racism. I'm also part of a reparations group and regularly donate what I can afford to women and men of color who are struggling financially, especially trans people and women of color. I have participated in several matches and volunteered at our local Black Lives Matter cafe.  I could do more, though. And I still have to unpack a lot of stuff. But I want to be an ally who actually does something and shows up.