text: Yes! Incredibly difficult. Most of the time, I have no idea if they are queer so I'm just super nice/polite/protective and I think they just assume I'm friendly cuz I present femme. I would try to come out to them myself, but I'm from a small community and that's risky. ><  Also, I'm way more awkward around girls...like I know the script for guys, I know what the media says is "sexy" and I know what has worked in the past. For girls I just have no idea. 😭