text: Hey, i honestly don't see how you extrapolated that here. I don't think anyone is saying that, but rather arguing about the historical integration of sexual minorities (I'm a sexual minority as well) into broader societal traditions such as marriage and family-building. I'm sorry you've lost so many friends :( and being trans for SURE isn't easy. It's worth it to hear and understand all sides of the debate. A different perspective isn't "toxic" necessarily. Love and hugs 💕