text: congrats on coming out clover/bryan! your experience was very enlightening to me. I'd known of nonbinary people who use different names to suit the gender at present, but I didn't realise how deep the change goes. for me, I am just genderqueer Lem, and sometimes Lem wants a beard and to wear neckties and other times a pair of heels and some boobs, but at the core I am still Lem. the concept of a second persona, especially outside of the context of DID, is fascinating to me and I'm so happy you're able to more fully express all of yourself!