text: I tried this at Wendy's after Pride a few weeks ago. The cashier asked my name and I said Rachel because I was dressed fairly femme.  She wrote down Richard. Fucking Richard.  I'm pre-HRT, but like, I had a purse on my shoulder, makeup on my face, a skirt and trans Pride shirt on, and painted nails. Yes, I am totally a Richard. Sucks too cause it's my deadname's middle name.