text: This thread...I can't. I got about half way down and couldn't read any more.  I just turned 39 last week. Been married to my wife for 18 years, no signs of being bi. And yet, when I came out to my wife, she still said "I love you". When I came out to my family, they still said "I love you". Let your daughter (or son) be who she (he) wants to be. The only discussion that needs to be had is "I love and accept you".