text: Its not a "womens issue", its just that there is a stigma about men having it.  Personally i'm in and out of it. Not severely, but enough to have my good days and bad days.  Basically when I speak to my friends and family regardless of gender, I ask how they are doing. I'm happy to open up about my troubles, and while some have opened up, i recognise that others just dont want that yet. (And thats ok)