The conversation between human and AI assistant.
My girlfriend has lent me a couple of books inscribed with sexy personal messages written from previous partners. Was this insensitive of her?
But do you think it was a careless move on her part to lend me these books without considering my feelings?
It's possible that she didn't consider how it might make you feel, but it's also possible that she felt comfortable enough in your relationship and trust to share these items with you.