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Why is it that my girlfriend when I get upset she gets more upset , talks about herself than listening ,finally I end comforting her ?
I need your opinion on something. Why is it that whenever I get upset, my girlfriend gets even more upset and starts talking about herself instead of listening to me? And then I end up having to comfort her instead of the other way around.
Well, sometimes people might have different communication styles or emotional reactions. Perhaps your girlfriend is trying to empathize with you by sharing her own experiences or feelings that she thinks are similar to what you're going through. And maybe she's not aware that you need her to just listen and be supportive.