Pretty straightforward topic. I'm a 24 year old guy living in the United States. For various reasons, I've never had anything close to a girlfriend nor do I see it happening. Reasons include I have universally undesirable physical traits shortness being the main one , I'm naturally a shy and quiet person, and my inexperience makes my attempts to flirt with girls almost comical. It's seriously affecting my life. My heart is heavy every day I have to walk outside and see couples holding hands, nuzzling each other, spending the holidays with each other. Yesterday I grudgingly went to my friend's house for dinner and had to sit there while he and his girlfriend were practically glowing with their care and love for each other. It made me extremely depressed. I've asked out dozens of girls and gotten rejected. This desire for someone to love me has taken over my life and it's started to encroach on my productivity. And worse, I don't think it's ever going to happen. I read from a CDC study that once males in the United States hit 25 without losing their virginity, very few of them ever get out of that category. I wish it would all go away. I fully believe that if a pill or procedure is developed to exterminate my sex drive cleanly, I would enthusiastically take it. Imagine how much better my life would be. Imagine being able to focus those thoughts, resources and energy towards productive pursuits instead of always having this relationship woe at the back of my mind, tugging me down like an anchor. I know that there are ways to curb one's sex drive, like SSRIs and surgery. But they always involve nasty side effects, that's why I'm talking about a hypothetical pill that would destroy my sex drive forever but without side effects. Can someone convince me this is a bad idea? TL DR My sexuality is useless and there's no benefit from it. I've had no luck with women and don't forsee anything. Therefore if I could take a pill to instantly remove my sex drive forever, I'd do it happily. .
If I could take a pill to get rid of my sex drive, I would do it.