Cmv: am i the only one who thinks it's a dick move for a military member to lie about when they're coming home just so they can surprise their family?:
You see the videos of people getting surprised at their graduation or at school/work by a military member coming home. You think wow that's nice how happy they are. But think about it. Especially in the case of a graduation, the child has to then go days or *weeks* with the disappointing thought that mom or dad isn't going to be there. That's sucks. If it were me, I'd rather be saved that heartache in the first place rather than get surprised. I'd want to know immediately that my mom or dad or son was coming home early. Making me feel sad about it longer than necessary, and **lying** to me is a dick move. Would anyone who has been surprised by a military family member please chime in? 