Death: a time for mourning or celebration   stance: death is a natural part of life, a time to celebrate what the individual was and their life. mournin:
Death should be celebrated as a part of life. The empty vassal you see is a reminder of what the person was, not what they are or even what the deceased was to everyone around them. Funerals just remind everyone that the dead will no longer be what they were to their survivors. its selfish, celebrate the dead, everything about them, remember and be happy. Dont mourn over your loss, celebrate their life.