Is it better to have a lousy father or to be fatherless:
I think that it is better to have a father who is lousy because I consider my father on a low level of lousy, and I think that I'm doing just fine.
I just think thats it better to know that you have a father. I think that not knowing him, or what he looks like would ( to me ) be a insecure topic in my life. So, in my opinion. Just to know he exist would be better to me.