{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "job crisis", "situation": "trying to find a job with good hours", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, how can I help you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am having problems because I need money and the only jobs I can find are outside of the hours I need to work and I'm having anxiety", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh, that is anxiety-provoking...", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "How long have you b een searching?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, I called a staffing agency and they matched me with a job but I will still be coming home late", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So I am trying to put in applications elsewhere as wlel", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well*", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's great that you are putting out applications elsewhere as well!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "What makes you anxious about coming home late?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am walking", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I understand", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Have you thought about other ways to get back home besides walking?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, trying to find a ride but the bus also stops going", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe I could call an Uber home", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If that would help you ease your anxiety, I think it would be a good solution to consider!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think the stress outside of the job is also contributing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What makes you anxious about walking home late?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Like I am having relationship issues, in a long distance relationship and I jsut came home and have been missing him and I am torn between the two states", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Also just safety issues", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I understand about the safety issues, I too cannot stand walking alone at night", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "What do you do for safety?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How long have you been in this long-distance relationship?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Two months but we've known each other way longer than that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I try to avoid walking and either ask someone to come and get me, or take an Uber or the bus or my own car!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I think the Uber is a good idea. I don't have many friends who would be up at midnight for the ride or be open to it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's good to consider! I think that if money is an issue right now, it will become easier as you get your paychecks and will feel less guilty about Ubering home", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "For your relationship, you've known this person for a long time before you got together?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I don't feel too guilty about the Uber, mostly worried about affording it to be honest", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah we went to middle school together", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry, that's what I meant, affording it (language issues my bad)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Oh it's okay my bad!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok so you've known him for a long time, you two feel comfortable with communicating your feelings and worries together?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok that's great! Do you want to tell me more about the issues you are experiencing with him so we can understand a bit more the root of the stress?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Well mostly he'shaving problems affording rent too and I can't help him much and it sucks that I can't help him ata ll", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ah, i get it. So what I'm understanding from this is that you feel helpless in this situation and that's what's making you anxious?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you tell me a little more about how this feeling of helplessness is affecting you personally?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It makes me feel sad and lost. I'm afraid he's going to lose his apartment", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Does it bring back memories of another time where you felt helpless or is this the first time you're feelling this way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "No it doesn't", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok, so from what I understand is that this is the first time you've felt this and you are lost because you don't know how to act and react to this", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I helped him financially a lot but I'm at my end too now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Were you the one that offered to help in the first place?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, I think it is very considerate of you to help him financially, but do you feel that this has put an enormous amount of strain and pressure on yourself as well?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "No, not really I mean if I had more I would give him everything I could that wouldn't leave me financially behind", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh okay, so you wouldn't say that you're looking for a job to continue helping him financially?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "No I wouldn't. I want it to help support me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok that's good to hear!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, I just want to be able to have my own stuff again. I've been relying on doing surveys online.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "From what I'm understanding, you're not only feeling anxious and pressure in your own personal life but you're heart is also wherever he is right now and living whatever stress and pressure he is living as well, and that is putting yourself in a very anxiety-provoking position", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand that, especially given the current pandemic situation, it isn't easy at all", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Also being far away from him sucks", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Are you guys FaceTiming or communicating at all other than by texts?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "You are being very helpful by the way thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We aren't FaceTiming. I just left his apartment this weekend though and have been upset about it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm trying my best, thank you for the input!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Upset about leaving the apartment?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Or was there something else that happened that weekend?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Just leaving him", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you guys thought about scheduling date nights through FaceTime?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think he would but he hasn't been feeling really good about his appearance lately", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I asked and that's what he told me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand that completely, I can relate a lot", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Same", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If it makes any difference, my partner and I have been doing date nights where we would dress up, put make up on and do our hair and everything as if we were going to the restaurant, and even if it is through Facetime or whenever we see each other in real life, it helps not only with our own self-esteem but also our relationship", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "That is very cute", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe you could open the discussion with your boyfriend, tell him that you have a date planned over Facetime and you want him to order his favorite dinner, take a shower, do his hair and dress up real nice", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I don't know if he would be open to that but I could try", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He isn't really the romantic type", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You have been friends for a long time before getting together, you guys are comfortable with each other, right?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Okay well you do know him more than I do haha, so what would be his ideal date night?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Probably just being at home", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hm okay, well I'm sure that if you do propose and organize something for him, even if it is not his favorite thing to do, if he sees that it would make you happy, he will at least consider it don't you think?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yeah probably", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Things are hard right now though", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "In other ways than financially ?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "The financial things make things emotionally hard", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am one of the only people he has in his corner right now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I'm sorry to hear that... it must be difficult for you to be in this position, I understand the stress and pressure", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Is the pandemic the reason he is having also financial difficulties at the moment?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes sort of", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He was let go cause of covid", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Has he also been in the search for another job?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes he's trying unemployment", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm confused he isn't trying to find a job?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Unemployment helps you find jobs and pays you while you do it here", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh okay I didn't know that thanks!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "You're welcome", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}