{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "ongoing depression", "situation": "My husband quit his job to stay home with our teenage son who is very difficult and has been in legal trouble.  My husband feels like it is important for him to be home more but this is putting a financial strain on us and our son is causing a lot of emotion conflict.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Hello, I am looking for help in managing some depression.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You've come to a good place to start.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Is there something in particular that is leaving you feeling depressed?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am feeling resentful towards my husband for quitting his job, and my son for being the reason that he quit his job.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My son's behavior is causing a lot of conflict in our house and my husband not working is putting a lot of financial stress on us", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Feeling resentment for both your husband's loss of work and your son's loss of his job is entirely understandable.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I have a hard time not dwelling on the negative things going on. It's hard to see anything positive or feel hopeful for the future.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have an adult son who also lost his job recently, and I understand the added stress that can cause in your household.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "That is a really difficult position to be in.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "My son is very defiant and argues with us about everything we try and get him to do, but he expects us to give him money for fun things that he wants to do when he isn't willing to work or even help out around the house", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Regardless of what your husband's actions are and your son's, could you possibly make the time to do things to support yourself, that even momentarily would provide you with some positive feelings?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I try to go for a run every night, that does help.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is very hard emotionally, so I am sorry you have to deal with your son's behavior.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "It is hard to keep my emotions separate from what is going on with him", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is very understandable! Setting boundaries for yourself may help. Even when it's difficult, being clear with your son that you will not be giving him money could help.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Sometimes being clear with your own expectations can help him to see what won't be accepted from him as long as he is living in your home.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes, I could do better at that. I want him to have fun and do things with friends, but I want him to be willing to work for what he wants, too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I do struggle with expectations. I want him to be someone that he is not willing to be, I need to let go of that and just let him be himself and not base my emotions on his choices.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I completely understand that. Especially when it comes to people we are close to, it can be hard to separate our expectations from theirs.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I feel guilty sometimes taking time to do things that I like and that are away from my family. I can see that I need to do that more, though.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I've had to learn this lesson many times with my own children. It's difficult, but ultimately will give you some relief from your resentment.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Thank you, it is helpful to know that other people have felt the same way.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Absolutely! Being a parent is difficult. Remembering to support yourself helps. Making the time to do things to support your wellbeing doesn't make you selfish at all", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Thank you!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are certainly not alone.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Has any of this been helpful? Is there more I can do for you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "I liked connecting with someone I don't know because it made it easy to be vulnerable.", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "I actually thoroughly enjoyed this task.", "supporter_question2": "No, the task worked just fine."}