{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I caught my spouse cheating and broke up with her. The problem now is that I do not know where or how to start a new relationship.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi there!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "What would you like to talk about today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am trying to be fine and you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It may be helpful to know.. my name is Ann. I am 43 years old... and I know for myself, I enjoy talking to people when I have concerns.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "What is going on?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Thank you for your concern, I am just worried.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What has you worried? I know right now... its a hard time for so many people. I have struggled with my own anxiety the past few weeks.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Sorry about that. This is about my relationship.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ah....relationship worries can be so draining and emotionally exhausting. I can understand that.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "In your relationship, what has happened to create your worries?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I trusted my spouse but eventually disappointed.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She got a jot in another town and she utilize the opportunity to be sleeping around.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can imagine how a break in trust has made you feel. I know a break in trust is always very difficult to process.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I am planing to get married next year but things has changed now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I am sorry to hear that. Have you had a conversation with her about her actions and how they have made you feel?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "She knew pretty well how I felt.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I don't want to have anything to do with her again.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you feel that her actions and result can be remedied? Or is this such a fundamental break that you cannot reconcile?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I just want to move on with my life.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Understandable. I would feel similar, in truth.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I don't that I can love her again.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Only you know whether or not if you can look to forgiving and moving forward or if this is such a fundamental break that it is not something you can mend.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "And if you know that this is not something you wish to move forward with her that doesn\u2019t make you a bad person. It means you are taking care of yourself first.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes, I want someone that I could trust.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Absolutely. Trust is to me a cornerstone of healthy relationships. So I can fully appreciate those feelings and needs. I think fundamentally as humans we want to partner with individuals who we find that we can feel safe with and trust", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes, you understood my fear.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I do think, and I am not sure how old you are, but infidelity is unfortunately not super rare. I have experienced it myself. I used some resources on even places like Reddit (Surviving Infidelity) to help me process what I had experienced and to also learn from others.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I will check that out, thank you very much.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I also talked to a few friends who are married and had experienced infidelity. They chose to forgive each other. I learned a lot from them. It helped me to make up my own mind as to how I needed to move forward. I didn\u2019t want to use a therapist since I do better with discussing ideas with multiple people.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "But ultimately you may experience a lot of ups and downs. That is also normal. It is your mind and heart processing everything. Please do not get discouraged.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I appreciate that encouragement.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": "I found this one very interesting"}