{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "Me and my girlfriend got into a fight over holiday break that I thought could be fixed but instead ended up in us breaking up", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "I face the situation of me being sad because I thought we could let this fight go over time but instead it has lead to us breaking up", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you tell me more about the fight?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, so we had a fight previously over Thanksgiving Break about how I woke her up from her sleep and she kicked me out of her place at like 4 in the morning. Then I pick her up to go try and get breakfast...then she starts punching me while I drive so I pull over. Then she keeps hitting me until I tell her to stop.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakups are usually sad for at least one of the couple. Is your sadness because of missing her or being alone or something else ?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It is because I do really miss her. I really hate that our fight got to that level to where we broke up", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakups are hard, but it sounds like she was violent", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah she was a little violent. I was honestly a little scared for my life for a second but people make mistakes.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you talked since then?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "We have talked a little bit before hand this month. It was okay but I am still sad about what happened", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She was very open to talking and such but I just wasn't ready because my family found out about what happened and are worried about my safety", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If safety is an issue, then I think that maybe moving on is a good decision", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I know but I am so sad because the break up was so quick and we did not really have closure after the whole fight happened between us. I still keep on thinking about her.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suggest that you do things that will help you get over her., like going out with friends or a new hobby. Don't be in a hurry to get into a new relationship , but if one happens that would be great too.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Is this your first breakup?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I will definitely try to get over her using those techniques you just said.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's way harder to do than say though. No, this is not my first breakup with a woman but I felt like she was the one for me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakups are not always the end, but they usually happen for a reason, and whenever violence is involved it is usually better to move on", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Maybe you're right! Just need to get productive and get my mind off of her for good since she was violent", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suggest you start trying to have fun with others and getting yourself out there where there will be new opportunities", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I will definitely try. I know it will be hard because I am upset still but sometimes I guess moving on is the only thing that you can do in this situation", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "The sadness will eventually pass and I am sure there is someone out there that will be a good match for you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Awww I hope so. Just like some people say...there are plenty of fish in the sea. Thank you for the advice. It was really helpful.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I wish you the very best .", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}], "seeker_question1": "I loved how open this was to talk to someone", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "Nothing comes to mind"}