{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "disgust", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "I found out an ex friend was talking behind my back to my current friends about me", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi there. How are you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm good. how r u?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm doing good today. What brings you on here?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm not happy with an ex friend who talks behind my back to my current friends .", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "ugh. There's nothing worse than that. Have you confronted the ex friend?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "nope. we are not on speaking terms. We have sued each other in court before. we are past talking.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "oh wow. that's not much of a friendship! So have you attempted at all to discuss it? What does the other friend think about it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "they're still friends with me. if it gets bad enough i can sue her for slander", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "that's an option but I hope it doesn't go that far again. Have you tried maybe a mediation with the ex friend and your current friend?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "no. i don't want anything to do with her. if i find out my friends take her side they will be my ex friend too", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can understand that. You don't want two people disrespecting you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "absolutely not. i have a strong constitution about myself and don't allow to be disrespected by anyone", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I hear that! What happened in court when you went?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "If you don't mind me asking", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "i tried to get an order for her to stay away from me. the first judge passed it but the second judge said it wasn't strong enough.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sounds like maybe you should pursue it again if you can. Has she been in contact with you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "no. she hasn't done anything lately for me to get a court order. if she starts anything again i will get a lawyer and sue her", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Seems like a good idea. Steer clear of her and don't associate with her! Sounds like you're doing the right thing. Keep your side of the street clean", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "absolutely will avoid her. if she ever convinces my friends should i tell them i don't want to associate with them anymore?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I would if I were in your shoes. You don't need two of the same person. Know what I mean?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "yeah exactly. people need to realize who's side to stay on", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "LOL if only everyone had that thought process. Some people don't get it!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "it's easier said than done. a lot of people are afraid of being alone and will put up with garbage", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Definitely sounds like you have the right tools and mindset to do the right thing!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I know about the alone thing especially in these times.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "yeah it sucks lol", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Take those tools you have, steer clear of her and do your own thing!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i will. thank you for your advice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Most definitely. I wish you the best. If you every wanna chat again just stop on by!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "thank ya! Likewise", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Take care!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "you too! bye", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "it was fun!", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "Quite enjoyed it.", "supporter_question2": "Seems good so far"}