{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I recently split up with my boyfriend and I am regretting it.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "What is going on today", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm feeling really down about my breakup", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "\\So you have had a breakup recently and you are feeling down about it", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes. I thought that it wouldn't be terrible because I initiated it but now I regret it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So are you doubting that you made the right decision or are you just feeling sadness at the loss you are feeling right now", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm mainly doubting my decision and I know there's nothing I can do about it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You must have had good reason's to have made the decision to breakup and to have initiated it. Its normal to doubt yourself afterwards. You may want to remind yourself of the reasons that you came to your decision you did. Im sure the reasons are still valid", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I did it because I'm trying to focus on self-improvement but looking back now, there's no reason I couldn't have improved myself with my partner", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So you felt the need to have some time to fucus on your own goals and growth and now you feel like you could have stayed in the relationship and you are doubting that you needed to take the step of breaking up. In my experience at times we need to be single for self growth and I have found that personal growth usual thrives when I am single.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "That's what I hope for. I just can't get over missing my partner because they were great to me, I just needed to be alone.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you are feeling a loss even though you feel that at this time you need to be alone to focus on your own growth. When you had the conversation about this breakup were you honest about why you need the space and that your problem was not with the relationship but with maybe the timing. I think with communication and after growth perhaps by keeping the door open with this person maybe you can have some sort of relationship in the future even if its friendship or maybe more. You are doing what is right for yourself at the given time", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I did get the chance to explain my reasons a few days after the breakup. We were friendly and talked casually for a few more days and then they said they needed to space to get themselves together. We haven't really talked since then. The problem is I'm open to something in the future but I don't know that they are and I can't find the courage to ask", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have been in both situations before the one who needed space and also as the one who was broken up with. I think right now the best thing you can do for you and the person is to stick with your decision and give them time they also may need space to process and deal with the breakup and growth for themselves without really letting go you won't be able to grow in time you can have a conversation and ask but it might be six months down the road wait for them to come to you they have asked for time as you did too soon", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think I can do that. They needed space because it was hard going from being in a relationship to being friends in a matter of days. I guess I'll just have to continue working on myself and see how things go", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Focusing on yourself sounds like the best thing you can do. Start on that list of self improvements you want to make. Connect with friends you may have lost touch with. Your going to be great", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I like that idea. Thank you for your help!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Your welcome and I love that you are so dedicated to your development", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "Very good conversation!", "seeker_question2": "Have a better graphic to display when the other user is typing", "supporter_question1": "I liked that it seemed like a real conversation and you felt like you could encourage someone", "supporter_question2": "maybe to give hints on ways to get more information"}