{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friend is not treating me the way that a friend is supposed to be treating me", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello I am having pro\\blems with a friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am so so sorry to hear that.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "What has been going on?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Sometimes she is very friendly, but sometimes she is super rude", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "In a way that is so rude that it has never happened before by someone who I consider a friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh wow, it sounds like shes not a very good frined.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "As nice as she is, every once in a while show will be equally nasty", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you tried talking to her about it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Super snarky comments", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes I have tried", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "But it still continues", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you tried seperating from her?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I can't she is a colleague", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So unless I want to get a new job", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but she is super helpful and nice 99 percent of the time", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And when I have spoken with her, the last time I was very clear with her that it was inappropriate, and it hasn't been happening as often, but the whole situation is still very hurtful", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's so hurtful. Do others feel the same as you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes, I have heard these complaints from one other person", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you have any ideas or other suggestions for me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe you can try talking to yoru manager next time it happens?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "It is hard but you can only really control yourself, so you need to try to emotionally distance yourself from when she is terrible. You seem like a good persn.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "That is a good idea to talk to a manager", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but there is no avoiding working with her because of the nature of my job", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but that is an option that I didn't considerr before so thatnk you for your insight", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you that is very nice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Let me know if you have any other ideas as well", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Of course!! managers are erally helpful. I had a similar sitation with a coworker two years ago and the head of my group really helped me clear it up.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Did you try other things as well", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I tried really hard not to let her get to me. Which was really hard but doable.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Oh that is good, sometimes when a person sees that they are not getting under your skin they give up on pushing your buttons, was that what happened in your case", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Exactly!!!!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "How long did it take from starting to ending", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "the issues", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "a few months", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}], "seeker_question1": "Long and slow for little pay", "seeker_question2": "More pay", "supporter_question1": "it was great to talk !", "supporter_question2": "no"}