{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I had been dating my college boyfriend for almost a year and we had begun to fight increasingly over the last few months.  He ended up breaking up with me on our anniversary.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "3"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am here.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "How are you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I feel that I can really help you on this Christmas Night.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Not too well. I am feeling pretty down right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How long have you not been feeling not so well?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Today was my one-year anniversary with my boyfriend.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He broke up with me today.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We were at school (our college campus), and we had a huge fight.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, I can tell you that it is hard, but it could be a god send in the long run.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Maybe I can think that way in time, but right now I don't know what to do with myself.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, I have been in rough relationships, but there is no need to add additional trauma to the situation.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I probably should have seen it coming, we have been fighting a lot lately.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's true, but that doesn't make me feel any better about it right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's really hard during the Christmas Holidays, but there are ways to decompress.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes, everything can feel worse this time of year because of the stress of the holidays.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you considered doing meditation to release negative thoughts?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I have actually read about that, but I have a hard time focusing when I meditate.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suppose I just need to practice more.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "There are online resources to help you get in a better frame of mind.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Like the Calm app?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "There are incense burning kits that can help to relieve stress and trauma.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes, the Calm app is one.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I like incense, but it makes my allergies act up unfortunately.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What else can I do besides meditation?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You said that you are allergic to incenses of all kinds?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Most types of incense are too strongly scented and make me sneeze or feel sick.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Candles are much better for me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "There are websites like Decompress dot org that can help with relationships that are in turmoil.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I haven't heard of that website before. I'll have to check it out.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I used to visit sites that help people who need to find ways to decompress after issues and fights have occurred in relationships.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Well, I haven't been in a long-term relationship like this before.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My past relationships were all in high school, and they only lasted a few weeks or months at a time.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I really cared for this one, and we were together for so long.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I feel obligated to help during Christmas because I had a nasty fight with my partner one year over gifts.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "You had a fight with your partner? I'm sorry, it's the worst when people fight over what's supposed to be something nice.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What was the fight over? Food? Money? Sex?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I forget what started it, it was something stupid. He didn't like the way I said something and it kind of blew up from there.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We were fighting over the smallest things these last few months.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It just kind of built up to the point where he said he couldn't take fighting with me anymore and just wanted to end it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I would let things decompress for a long while.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "End the relationship, I mean.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You think maybe if we just take some time apart, he might want to talk about it?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suggest thinking through ending the relationship if he has a hot temper.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "He does get upset very easily.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes, just think it through for some time.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I do think it is important to take some time and breathe.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Was the relationship with him pleasant for many months?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, for most of our time together it was wonderful.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He made me laugh very easily.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's part of why I'm so sad that he ended the relationship.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You said it has only gotten rough in the last two months?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Two or three, yes.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And we would fight over the smallest things, it was really stupid.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You said that he has announced to you he has ended the relationship on Christmas?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Today, you mean?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, and it was our one year anniversary.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We were supposed to order takeout and watch a movie and exchange presents.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Instead we fought and broke up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "In my opinion, I would consider accepting that it is not going to be a healthy relationship whatsoever.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I think you are right.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Unless we went to some sort of counseling.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "But it probably is for the best.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have seen things only get worse in a situation like yours. I think h needs to accept that he needs to grow up.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "How old are the both of you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Any other counseling that I can give?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}], "seeker_question1": "I liked how the supporter was recommending websites that can help you to decompress after a bad relationship.  They also were suggesting techniques on how to deal with the stress in the moment, (meditation, nice scents, etc).", "seeker_question2": "I didn't like the minimum time limit at first, but after the first few minutes it got easier to chat with the supporter more naturally.", "supporter_question1": "I think that the task was good.  It dragged on a little bot, but t was ok.", "supporter_question2": "None"}