{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "fear", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friend is a good friend of mine but he is not a suitor as in I would not want to marry or date him but my fiance still gets bothered by me talking to him. I don't talk to him anymore but can't see why he still considers it microcheating even if I don't talk about our relationship.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi there, how are we doing today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Okay how are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Im doing great thanks. Anything on your mind today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Just pondering microcheating and wondering why someone who I do not like that way would be considered microcheating", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And what do you mean by microcheating?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It is a new thing like having a man you like that you check up on on social media even though you are in a relationship, or eating lunch with the same woman or man that you like but you don't act on because you are married.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh i see, well i think overthinking things like that can lead to unwanted emotions. Or putting yourself in a situation with another person when you are in a relationship might mean there are other issues going on.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Yes i see that. No nothing else going on just thinking that the definition maybe shouldn't be as exact for the type of person that I do not talk to because of his reservations about it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, if you are not talking to them then i see no harm. If you are talking to them with some sort of intention to for a relationship beyond friendship then i see issues arising.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "That is what I feel. I am not talking to him. I had to the other day to get in contact with someone(medical emergency) but do not call just to chat and catch up. I even unfriended him. I just want to comfort him over it but I think it is best just to never speak of him again.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Comfort my fiance", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "To never speak to your fiance?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "If you want to continue your relationship and you do not feel you can continue a platonic relationship with this other person then that might be best.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "No I am ending my friendship with him. That is what is best.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think it might be as well if you cannot control it. I do have to ask though, are you happy with your Fiance?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes very.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Then i 100% back you on your decision. Id take this time to focus on you too. Strengthen the bond a bit.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes, I think that would be best. I thank you for your time.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I thank you for opening up!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "It is okay see talking about this is actually microcheating. So now I am worried about that.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I really wouldnt even consider it cheating to have feelings. Acting on them or trying to strengthen them may be though.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes that is true. My fiance is over seas for work for the next 13 mos so I am here in the states alone. We get to talk but he isnt here with me so having no one to talk to is lonely.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is why I brought it up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I see that, have you tried to talk to your friends about this issue? Or even try a therapist? Maybe you and your Fiance can figure out more times to talk with facetime or zoom. Do a virtual date night.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes I don't have any friend that arent men so I think therapy is going to help. I don't talk to anyone anymore. But I thank you for your time. I just wanted to clarify why I brought it up. I hope you have a good day.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I hope you do as well!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "thank you", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "No", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "no it went great", "supporter_question2": "not that i can think"}