{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friend borrowed money from me and she did not return it in the time that we agreed.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "My friend borrowed money from me but she won't return it now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sorry about that. It is always hard when we trust someone and they let us down. is that waht you are feeling? Disappointment in your friend?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes,i am very dissapointed because i trusted her completely.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand. I have been through a similar situation.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Was it a large amount of money?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "What did you do to come out of the tricky situation?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes,it was for me,a total of $10000", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh, That is a very large amount of money. I can understand your being upset with them", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Have you talked to them about the money and returning it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes,i am very very upset.What would you do in my position?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes,she just sounded non-comittal,saying that she will return it when she can", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I see. It is a financially difficult time for us all. I am wondering if your friend might be upset and embarrassed that they can not pay you back immediately? Have you asked her if she could even afford some sort of small payments?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes,i asked her how we could restructure the payment in her favor because i understand how difficult it is for everyone right now but she did not answer", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Were you speaking on the phone or in person? Is this a financial burden for you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Would you consider this person a good friend? Would you be sad if they were not in your life anymore?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "We were speaking on phone because i wanted to set up a physical meeting where we could discuss the logistics", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes,it is a financial burden because this is money i was saving for a venture", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is very difficult. It is hard to judge things on the phone.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes,this is a really close friend from way back and i would be devastated to lose the friendship", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is difficult to judge on the phone yes,which is why i wanted a physical meeting but she snapped at me and said that she will just pay me when she can", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I see. I am very sorry about that! it is very difficult when a friend betrays your trust like that.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes,very difficult", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are doing what you can. It is very nice of you to have been this patient.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "How do you suggest i shoulp proceed?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is the friendship more important than the money? That is what it came down to for me.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "And you chose what?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If you can not get her to meet with you, perhaps it might be time to seek advice from a lawyer? That is providing that you are willing to possibly lose a friend.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Thank you very much for the advice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you are welcome. Good luck! I hope you find resolution and find a way to save your friendship!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "No", "seeker_question2": "Yes,make the wit times shorter", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "maybe make it so it opens in a new page"}