{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "Issues with Parents", "situation": "My mom does not understand me. I will say something and she thinks I am saying something else.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am just a little angry. My mother and I had another blow-up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is your bit of anger sparked from the interaction with your mother?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "It is why I am angry. This occurs at least every other day. I say something harmless and she thinks I am saying it in a way that is rude or something.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I bet you can figure out a way to communicate better.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I do not know for sure where to start. If I try to tell her that is not what I mean it is like she doesn't understand?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is hard to feel misunderstood.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "For example today I was just saying I like the food she had cooked us for supper. She took that to mean I never liked the food she made before. She says I do not appreciate her and I should be grateful to have her.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are doing your best to be nice but it isn't getting through.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Maybe it was the way she was brought up that she is so sensitive.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Everybody has stuff from their past that affects them.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "But they should not take how they feel on others right? But I know I have to be understanding.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You should be understanding, especially since you already know this.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Can you relate to this situation?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have had personal disputes with my parents in the past. Most of the time there's other things going on that makes a person act different.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Maybe I could just take deep breath and kind of step back a minute before I respond.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It would be good to do that. Maybe try to have a conversation and tell her you support her no matter what she's going through.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I guess the best time to do that was when she is in a very good mood.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do some chores or something that helps her out and just let her know you want to have a serious talk some time.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "But what if she thinks me helping her out is criticizing the way she does things? That seems like the way she would be.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Try giving reassurance that you want to show you care.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I will try this. It is worth a shot. We can't go through life being upset at each other.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I feel the same way. I hope you can get things on better terms.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I appreciated the help. I was just so upset. I didn't want to talk to anyone in our family and have them take sides or make them uncomfortable.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe you can set a better example about being open.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I will try to say things that don't sound confrontational from now on.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I believe in you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thank you for the believing in me. Thank you for your help.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are welcome, best wishes.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "I found everything pleasing about this task.", "seeker_question2": "I wish there was a easier way to tell when someone is chatting.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}