{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My ex-partner told me yesterday that after being engaged for almost a year, he no longer wants to marry me and he moved out.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "3", "relevance": "3", "final_emotion_intensity": "4"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, How are you today", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I'm really depressed. My fiance left me yesterday.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, I think that might make me feel better. I really have no one to talk to because my family and friends didn't like him so they think this is for the best.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok. I am happy to listen.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I just don't understand why someone would pretend to be happy for a year and then decide they were lying and leave", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Seems like you feel your partner betrayed you, does that sound right?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, I feel very betrayed.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is understandable. I know how you feel, may I suggest taking a few minutes to clear your head, and making a plan to talk with your friends and parents about how you feel?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "They think I should just get over it because they didn't like him so they think I shouldn't like him either.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "They're making things worse for me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I'm so sorry, sometimes family and friends don't think about your feelings. When did this happen?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "He left yesterday. I had no warning. He just packed up all his stuff and said he didn't want to marry me and the last year has been a lie.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Dang. he seems very selfish. But I understand how up setting it must have felt. My first husband left me without warning.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that. How long did it take you to feel better?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Awhile. it started to feel a little bit better after I kept telling myself it was about him and not about me, then I started feeling a bit better. But it will take time, the old say is correct, good days and bad days.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "What did you do to help feel better>", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Started back in to my routine. Work. Church. things like that.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think it's harder that it's during the holidays because I don't go back to work until after the new year.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I thought we would be spending the next week together at home.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My I suggestion you pick your closest friend, and talk to her/him about your feeling, but not about your boyfriend, about how you feel your friends have been treating you. Be nice but firm. I bet once they hear your pain, they will be very supportive.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Hopefully. I could really use to sit down with a friend right now and spend some quality time. I don't want to be alone all week.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand that! it is very reasonable to want to be around family and friends during the holidays.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Thanks for chatting with me. I feel a little more relaxed now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good! I'm glad helped, even if just a little.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "My partner could have offered some more coping suggestions", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "i'm not a great spelling", "supporter_question2": "maybe more suggestions about what to say"}