{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "shame", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My two friends  are shaming me for not donating more per year to charities. One of them is the President of a local non-profit.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "My friends are trying to shame me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How ridiculous....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "hi i am sorry to hear that", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "what are they trying to shame you with?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "what are they trying to shame you with?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Two different (so-called) friends of mine need to get a life.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "shame on them to do that to you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Yeah, people don't know that just because my two friends go \"Way back,\" does not mean they should be able to to hurt me, emotionally.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What should I do about these two (so-called) friends?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Things were great, this time last year.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "well i know thats something most people do not want to disclose can you help the organization with donating your time?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I might be able to do that.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "unfortunatly it is right now very comen this situation, so no shame for that,", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Well, I used to donate a LOT in year's past.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "a lot of times donating time to help organisatiosn is more valuable then money.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Great point.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "times and situations change so thats ok.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "My friends may like to know that I am trading time....instead of donating money.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i worked for a non profit and the biggest struggle was to find volunteers to help out", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes, you make a good point.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I feel that is a great donation and if they do not like that tell them money is easy to give time not", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "The proble is that some people just want to shame people without knowing their plight.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah, true, we need to stay above them then in all actuality we don't know what goes on behind closed doors in their life. sometimes people like that reflect", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I need to think of others ways to contribute that won't have my friends hating on me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have pride, too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "BUt it should be what you want not what your 'freinds want.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "you should be proud of yourself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yeah......", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hopefully next year will bring better things and maybe even a better friend that does not judge into your life.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "The problem is that I am not sure it my friends are going to believe me; I am a well-to-do individual", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We can only hope for a better 2021", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Not sure how quickly the markets rebound....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "well if they do not believe you as well you might really need to rethink your friendships and the meaning in those so called freind ships.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "hopefully soon for all of us, but hold on to the thought of being healthy", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Well, I usually go to their get-togethers. Both of my friends are well-to-do.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am hoping you will find the right solution.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Well, you have been helpful.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you. Good bye.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "thanks I wish you all the luck and health", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "good bye", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Happy Holidays.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "same", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "you need to end the chat", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}], "seeker_question1": "I thought that the Partner offered good ideas.", "seeker_question2": "None", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}