why wouldnt he warn us what was going to happen ? he goes alone without company or a guide. ' she was studying to be a world history professor . `` you really need to get over this fear of men , em . i 'm not sure whether to jump up and down or stomp my foot in anger at that guy , so i just sit there and smile . there was no crew to see . i made to step towards him until i remembered i was holding her in my arms . 