i know that she wants nothing more than to work things out . and she could n't even think about this again . tears had stung her eyes when she first caught sight of the garden as she , on her father 's arm , made her way from the house to the ceremony . `` i love your hair because i get to be near you . and why do you keep doing that with my ring ? '' dont you know when youve had enough ? why was she trying to be helpful all of a sudden ? 