but theres no reason why you shouldnt come . i mean , you fall and get cold wet bottoms . he 'd ... put his hand on my chest and i felt this warmth inside me . so we had the traditional funeral . they tugged and tugged , and suddenly they all fell over on their backs . he may be my blood , but he 's not my family . i wo n't start to think of him as part of my life , i promised myself . 