a lot like losing someone to sudden death. especially if the other person turns into a ghost. meaning they just cut off all communication altogether like a ghost, they disappear and become invisible.
so this is why it hurts so badly, and this is also the reason it can still hurt so bad even days, months, or years later. because the energy (energy cords) from that person is still stuck in you!
and the only way to stop this pain is to have those cords removed! it’s like having a big splinter on the bottom of your foot. you are going to feel it for years if you don’t have it removed. 