yes , but let me assure you that i am not looking to make my big break here , with you . but she must have told it well enough . and you are nothing other than that . '' `` but since you do n't date those men , and that obviously means you do n't get dumped , what makes you gain or lose weight ? '' `` we got the idea from something we read in the newspaper . no one in the barroom ran for an exit . 