i 'm not sure that he 's ever been part of a 'happy ' one . '' he said , `` mommy , sometimes it 's okay not to understand . '' asked her mother , finding it strange . i made a note to myself to play poker with them sometime . this poem had been in the magazine ! and i 'm sorry that you had to see what you did . `` a little fall , that was a huge spill ! '' she wore a white cotton skirt , above the knees , with a white cotton button-down . 