within the other person that you can relate to. and there is something within everyone on this earth that you can relate to. we are all mirror images of each other. it is simply about finding the right angle to look at.
if you take an interest in people, a genuine interest, then not only will you be fascinated, but you will be fascinating.
so the next time you are talking to the stamp collecting toad guy, ask him why he likes stamps. ask him what is so fascinating about toads. i think the answer will surprise you! who knows, you could end up making a new friend.
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