but if you are one the lucky girls to have the perfect body (hourglass) you can use ruffles as you wish! they would host their thanksgiving dinner in their restaurant even though they were closed as well as hold their easter egg hunts. it smells unusual, but not unpleasant, and goes nicely with the lemon. while they are young, and their lives are less complicated, it is easier to find the time and opportunities to help others. i understand completely if you would prefer to stick with one or the other, but i want you to respond to both with open minds. 