he raised his hand in a brief greeting , then walked over to where she sat on the hard wooden bench and claimed the empty space beside her . `` you just have to look harder . '' i wanted to say , i feel like i love you more than you love me and it feels so awful . she said and who are you , good sir ? on and on -- like they know what 's best for everyone in the universe . '' you should be able to find something you like . 