she rolled her eyes and made a wind-it-up motion with her hand , as though eager to get her ex off the line . like the lights are on but no one is home . no , he didnt feel shed been neglecting him . i could do this all f**king night . '' she said to tell you that after enough time has passed , you can return . `` but you 're interested in some way . '' do n't allow them time to respond or assess . i forced a smile and waved , a tad bit relieved . 