she woke up in the morning and told that she does not want to go to school. two steps forward, one step back. put the butter and brown sugar in the bowl of a mixer fitted with the paddle attachment and beat on medium high speed until the mixture is smooth and creamy (take your time with this, 4 – 5 minutes is about right). rather than having a “can’t or won’t do it” attitude, we ask how we can make it better for the students, faculty and staff. 