long time ago, i went to this bar called the king lamb, and saw a man across the room, and i have not stopped looking at him ever since. and every time i do i still see he is handsome, and good, and kind. when i walked into that bar i had no idea that i would walk out changed for ever. i did not even know it when i was walking out. but it changed me forever. and he , like his beautiful mother, has been telling me how to do things ever since, things like, ” turn down the heat on the pancakes”, that was this mornings order, 