weve tried to make it as comfortable as possible . would she have the courage to refuse to marry dean before all his family and friends ? it was in all the papers i could hardly believe it . i set a palm on his inner thigh , a whisper away , but i did n't move it upward . i was thinking of wearing them to dad 's party . '' `` yeah , but that does n't make it right . maybe it will be of help . we might as well follow it . '' 