i use the whip for communicating, not beating, for any non-horse people reading this. it is so true though, and the more i realize it every day, the better i can manage my life. just like your favorite pair of jeans, this shirt is stylish, functional, and ready to do work. here's a close up picture of the post-it note holder in my 'anything but a card' class – enjoy! "it was a cloudy night, too -- everything served me. it was a classic "church door opens and there stands the most beautiful bride straight out of a movie" kind of scene. 