our world is always changing, and the pace of change often leaves us in shock. she would be leaving a warm home and hearth with a fascinating man, even if he was completely impossible, and enough food that she’d never have to go hungry. nice choices, i have to agree with you on these ones. sad to hear the news of two passing away. melt the green candy melts in the microwave. how much time do you need? muddle blackberries in base of shaker. we hope this answers your question, alison. 