okay, well i may have been holding her up, but she is already just dying to use her legs. in order to share this information with you, we will be running a family learning session in term 3. we hope that as many of you as possible will be able to attend. let me help you reach your peace of mind! two thoughts: 1)this is all part of the process--and support will be available. you still have the "color", but not the mess. it requires just mild putting together.it also functions push soft cushions for optimum comfort and ease. 