you don’t feel relax staying, so the same way a girl will not be comfortable stay with you if she don’t feel relax with you. i remember those days when i use to beg my girl to visit me at my place, she will actually agree that she will come but on the long run she will give me an excuse that she is sorry that something came up, so she won’t meet up, i try to always know why but i find it hard to understand, till after some few months when i decided to change some things about me, only then she started coming to my house always 