i think for a minute , if i get one that is made for me , then it should be less painful for me to have to wear ; i mean maybe i could at least turn down the ruffles on it . it was a warm evening but no humidity , the day had been sunny , no clouds , a fair breeze . anyway , what he said that day made me feel more confident about being helpful . what ... what was she doing here ? i know what you 're trying to do . he is just like his father . 