if we take a step back and ask ourselves - especially if we have a religious belief - why we all assume that our missed person is in heaven (perhaps despite the fact that heaven is supposed to be a difficult place to get into), it may offer some perspective upon those beliefs, which i suspect we hold simply in order to feel better about the truth - the truth about death which we find so hard to face. or if you see something you must have but need a different pick up time, let us know! 