within just 30 hours i reach half of my goal. there are those moments in life when you have to pinch yourself a little bit. 1. paint smaller rooms in softer, lighter colors to help make the room feel bigger. my point was that when i\'m thinking he should be doing more (i could ask him to help me sometimes) i need to remember my role and not start thinking about how i can do mine and his, too. he was sleeping about 9 hours per night while on it, about double what he would get off of it. 