i saw too many boys and girls who got to high school, got in with the wrong crowd, had no direction and ended up making big mistakes and potentially screwing up their lives or getting hurt. they just seem to really enjoy life and are very smart too." since there’s no reason to beat around the bush, it’s always useful to have this discussion early in the process. these differences are illustrated in the chart below. someone from your past may re-enter your life this week, whether you bump into them in the street or they pop up on your social media feed. 