waitresses rarely complained if one jumped ship when a beeper went off . did you get arrested last night or something ? '' `` what 's got your panties in a twist ? '' but then i follow up with a deep bow . what if she meets someone else ? guess they were going to make it look like an accident , i would assume . she did not know whether to be happy that her father had been making this effort or frustrated that he had not shared this with her . 