if you hate him enough you can make him stop . so how did this intruder find it ? i do n't know what it is , but we 're not going to get rid of it just by pushing a handle . the line rang five times before someone finally answered . there was a time when we knew everyone by their first name . as it is now ... and as it was . `` i 'm only going to say this one more time : we were never anything , so stop f**king calling me . '' 