is different. perfect to a child is having their parents be present to them in a way that shows them that they are loved and safe. a perfect holiday may be as easy as sitting with your child or loved one just listening or playing on the floor (adults included).
and finally, make it bigger. this is my favorite because this covers all possible situations. someone always gets sick over the holidays. your little one throws up just as you are getting ready to get in the car to go to your in-laws. making it bigger means using this as an opportunity for you to model kindness and patience to your 