keep an open mind and an open heart, and you will start to notice more signs from your loved ones in spirit. other signs include birds, coins, feathers, and repeated names and numbers. this does not mean just seeing birds, feathers or coins. spirit will give us signs in such a way that we will have no doubt about the message. a bird may sit a foot in front of your face and not move. a feather may appear on your doorstep on inside your house. a coin may appear on your couch or on your bed. check the date of the coin. this can also have meaning for you 