we went south , traveling very far , stopping only once each day to rest . its really nice to talk to your family after having missed them for so long ; it lets you connect with them more than you ever have . she parked behind the other cars , all huddled to one side of the narrow paved path that made a lazy loop through the graves . and there was no way to express it . she would n't have thought that a writer who did no manual labor could be so naturally well-built . 