that, in the real world it’s not like in the movies.
you don’t sound negative to me, at all; you sound mature, or maybe i should say realistic.
i think “realistic” is the key. as long as we are both realistic in our expectations, then it should work out just fine.
i agree. it’s impossible to have every gift bowl someone over just like every kiss can’t make someone weak in the knees. if you buy the gift, for whatever the occasion, as long as your intention is to make her happy, that’s the main thing. the degree of happiness is up to her. but hopefully she can realize that the mere fact 