to perform for you because you make them feel confident and appreciated.
a well timed pat: to reward your horse "on the go" try to stroke the neck with your inside hand during your ride at the right moment. this will help you, the rider, release the inside rein which is also an added benefit. it is also helpful in training to transition to the walk, give a long rein and a pat on the neck (along with voice) when the horse has done something really spectacular. the horse then associates a huge reward for a job well done...walk on a long rein, voice, and a pat. i do this a 