everybody else, so i can get my stuff done so that way i can come home in my mind, i’m like well i’m home so now that spending time with my wife, the problem is this: something that i have to work on every single day and i’m sure, i’m alone here, but after working for you know 15-20 hours of the day and you come home. you’re, like mentally exhausted from dealing with people, then you’re physically, tired and so you’re sitting next to your wife, but you’re you’re checked out right, so it’s like you’re, not actually sleeping but you’re, not engaging either. i want so that’s that’s 