choices we or others make. sometimes he does clearly open or close doors, as i experienced recently, but mostly i believe he provides us with opportunities and lets us choose which to take, how to serve him.
the changing husband in my dream was telling me that whichever path i choose, god will be faithful to the promises that he has made to me, to give me a place and a purpose, and the home and family that i so desire, but that that will look different depending on which way i go. the conversation between myself and my husband in the dream reminded me that while i and the man 