her memory will return if and when she 's ready . '' pretty much , replied k. then all we 're gon na need to get back is an actual black hole . she could n't believe they 'd planned the wedding in less than a week . and then he tells her , `` the more you know who you are , and what you want , the less you let things upset you . '' my voice sounds hollow and scared . i watch jet 's eyes melt into puddles of pain and regret . 