tell me how you knew ned . '' why ca n't daddy just tell me why he had to do it ? '' and even then , i might just carry you in and plunk you in front of your desk so just get used to it . '' if it meant living to fight another day , yes . and all we ask is that you be strong for us . `` the good news is that fear is a choice . they clearly dont matter to you . such a handsome , dashing man once , oh , i do remember ! 