stick 's news was troublesome , but i 'd learned that worrying about things you could n't change was useless and just kept you from getting sleep . `` there 's no point in both of us driving that far . '' there 's a difference between confusion and hate . all of it is so generic that it could apply to anyone . she opened her eyes and looked down at the vampire . except no ones life is ever really like that . you have a long ride ahead of you . '' 