they usually don’t want to hurt the present parent but they are still angry. set a good example—they take their lead from you. the weather is starting to cool off, pumpkin spices are everywhere, and all of my favorite holidays and activities are lined up through new years. i can keep going again and again and finding things that i missed the last time around. it just takes a few minutes to boil it, then drain and mix in some sauce. no mixed junior and adult races. i spend most of my time writing in my special place called my sanctuary. 