those snickers commercials where someone is behaving horrendously to those around them. luckily for me (and i suppose for the snickers folks) the answer is not far away. i ran.
in my case, things can be put back together almost as quickly as they fall apart. all it takes is a few good choices. had i made the right choice this morning, it would not have been a problem at all. the difference is that a quick fix does not necessarily mean an easy fix. it is not easy to leave the house before the sun comes up, but it does solve a whole lot of other problems in my day 