i think the wine might have got the better of us. what was i trying to build here? if they have shrunk a bit but not quite the amount you need, you can try putting them through the washer and dryer. answer: a half-day or full-day procedure indeed does not suffice to cover a person in his or her entire and complex personality. a good rule of thumb that’s simple to follow: treat others the same way you would like to be treated. a second mistake is to ignore the category you compete in. 