make sure he understands that he 's not to contact me . '' one night , after she threatened to kill me in my sleep , i left the house with a suitcase full of clothes and nowhere to go . those mistakes would be pointed out by my friends ( they will be very much happy in doing so ) . the second clue , and this is really important , is that someone had written a message on the wall of her bedroom . there were fresh rushes on the floor . 