stale or disconnected, it may be time to find a way to get some of them back and to make new ones. studies have shown that if you had great times in your relationship early on, you are more likely to be able to feel them later in your relationship. you need to make the time for them. go out on dates, spend one-on-one time together each day, find things you can do together, and make some new great times. remember how good it felt before? it can feel that way again. make time for it. make time for each other. make the time necessary to feel great again. 