not only were these visits a chance for me to spend quality time with my grandparents but they were a wonderful opportunity to learn from an older generation . `` i would n't describe us as busy exactly . i knew she loved me , it was never a big secret since we discussed pretty much everything . i have to let them go , tonight . you sure you wan na be put in the back of a trailer ? then they got more problems then their boss , i promise you that . she found the right one and plucked it . 