`` it 's sad , actually , when i think about how you used to be . '' she was about five-five , and a little on the thin side . we flew up from la together and he drove me to my hotel . 'i was n't really trying to , ' grandpa said , scratching his head . it was one of the things he both hated and liked about the place . i rubbed my nose and said i would be out in a second . all structure is by definition memory . youd have to attend our meetings to see . 