`` shut up and carry this for me . '' so youre saying that this figure was wearing your sons jacket ? `` especially when phoebe went back , saw some big guy walking out of your apartment , she says he looked like he was living there and when she tried her key , it did n't work . he stated it as a fact and fixed her with his gaze . they used to stay together all the time and they started drawing this symbol everywhere that was supposed to hold the ghost together and keep it from disintegrating . 