on new year 's day , i came home to find the rest of my family gathered in the kitchen with henry , willow , and the baby . the kitchen is to the left of the entry . i moved in and stayed there for a few weeks . `` i told her we were hanging out . my first assignment was to clean out the stalls for the horses and believe it or not i was glad . it 's not something we discussed , but i always wondered if they fought because of me . '' 