'i think i know what you mean , ' she said . still , whatever the enemy was doing , this was the time to press them , before they could react . quit worrying so much about the rings and happily-ever-after family portraits . you pretty much stayed in bed the whole time . she looks at them , the dead embraced . it 's stupid , i know , since he ca n't hear me . she could n't resist what that stirred in her . `` why do you think your life is over just because you got pregnant ? 