as long as the day went well and everyone had fun, this is all that matters.
take your time and think about your event. after you have done it all, the most important thing is that you have fun yourself. after all, you are the one that has put forth all of the hard work and thought for the successful event. you deserve to have fun and enjoy the party just as much as everyone else. you will feel better once the big day has arrived and things are finally falling into place. 