disconnected for a long time, you may no longer even feel any desire to attach and bond to other people, but you likely feel disconnected and alone. you may feel that you don’t even care, but if you were to be really honest, you feel trapped. part of you wants to no longer be so alone and disconnected, the other part afraid of being hurt again.
i would bet that most of you who are reading this article from a search engine are searching for answers because you are in a different state than the completely walled off person mentioned above. you are likely feeling like you hate how disconnected you 