but it was n't amusement , not at her expense anyway . the guy was in our house . `` yes , but it will take some preparation . '' still , i was going into the vote with no clue who to vote for . we cant understand the words in her songs , but when we have a really cool person nearby , her songs get more expressive . would that ruin me in your eyes ? '' there was a strength in her grasp - that of an independent and determined woman . 