the closet light flicks on , and i go over . how on earth do you harvest it ? now , she listens and agrees , and then goes on , talking about the gift of mistakes and the miracle of family . i need this job , but i want it on my terms . perhaps , if you were ... softer ... acted more like a woman- '' `` act like you ? the room was n't only moving now , it was spinning . he would n't forget the sensation of the dream . 