doesnt she have a family of her own ? she has to make every arrow count . the silence was worse somehow , but i pushed on , until i 'd finished . then she added , i dont even know my real date of birth . im not thinking that is the case . `` i 'm sure that someone here would know . '' we do live in the fourth century . he recalled his father better , a large , funny man . but surely it was impossible to start trusting someone she barely knew . 