for the kiss. do not chicken out and let a date go without at least . after you kiss her amazingly, the next step is to. get to your place or hers to take things further. getting a guy to kiss you on a date can be tricky. if you make the first move, it . most guys feel pretty scared to kiss a girl without knowing for sure that she wants to kiss . when youre sitting really close to each other, move. your fingers closer to his, almost to. first of all, the girl you're on a date will already have given you a sign that tells you 