`` do you even know how to use that thing ? '' what i 'm questioning , thanks to a girl with a tooth-rattling kick , is who i am . '' i have n't even come out to my parents . i kept the fifth to eat as we walked back to the shop . `` at least , they gave you the benefit of the doubt . '' or maybe grand was completely insane . i gave daddy a box of things for you . maybe so much that all the other reasons she had in mind were really just excuses . 