i was all of these except cheerful. i wish you had an option for a larger size. removable leaf sections for your table will give you the additional space whenever the meal calls for it. usually, you fill a tub first with hot water and then get in. there are two types of secrets.......those we hide from others.....and those we hide from ourselves. have you got plenty of company for meals or do a lot of grilling out? such couples are of many different kinds. 