the first one was last november when a woman wrote me saying that she liked my address stamps but just wanted their first names written out with a typed out last name. “ the river is dead “ she replied. vitamin e oil is added for its moisturizing effects. so how do things add up? in a small pot, melt the butter over medium-high heat. our experience of life is our experience. some people draw comfort from being able to see their loved one for the last time, while others do not want to participate in this ritual. 