he would be the one proving his devotion by waiting for her , but he would also be the one expected to live off carrots and peas and not getting any sex . `` go , '' she said , shooing him with her hands . no sense crashing in and making a scene if we dont have to . `` the guy i 'm living with knows a senator . adding just enough cream and sugar to make it taste like dessert instead of a drink , i grabbed my donuts and sat down at the kitchen table . 