even if she loves wine, what about cocktail napkins or a pretty corkscrew? maybe an apron? flowers are always a nice way to go. but arrange them and place them in a vase so that your hostess can simply set them somewhere and not have to arrange them while she is still trying to prepare her meal. no matter what you decide, remember, it’s simply a token of appreciation. you don’t have to go big. it really is the thought that counts. and yes, if someone has invited you into their home, you should send a note of thanks. every time. even if you brought a gift. happy dining!
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