because this is safer and less painful.
so what do you value and why?
what is your relationship with your own past, your now and your future?
how do you see yourself and what are your beliefs about you and what you are really capable of?
couples in crisis are not usually that interested in their future as the crisis will have dissolved any future potential.
however the future is really important for all couples. after all if a couple is going to agree to share their lives together then it’s critical for them both to be on the same page.
a couple needs to be excited about what they are going to have and experience 