times have changed so much that one forgets what it was like back then . `` i do n't want to have sex with anyone else . '' would it be all right if i slept over ? the boat will make us even . '' stronger than fear , stronger than hate , stronger than whatever else is out there . you have to know how aware you are of me . `` not every time , but yes , often , '' he answered . everyone in this community is waiting for an attack . 