you and them and give them that quality time that they need. a lot of night waking in older toddlers is about attention seeking. we need to meet this need for our attention but at time that suits both parent and child. your 3 year may think they need your attention at 3am but they need their sleep much more.
2. rule out the possible need to ask for blankies, water, milk, cuddles and the like by planning ahead. if they get thirsty have a beaker of water by their bed within arm’s reach for them, make sure they have any comfort items with them and load up on the kisses 