be aware that they will sometimes pinch you. being a baron is much to do about respect. when they come home now, i sometimes apologize for having the sewing machine going but they all say that it reminds them of falling to sleep to the sound of the sewing machine whirring away on something new for them. and now for a gift that's not only useful on the actual wedding day but also for months and years to come. not so polite dinner conversation – screw your courage to the sticking place! the icing on the birthday cake. 