in laws 1200 miles away about 3 1/2 years ago. my son was about 3 1/2, and i was 3 months pregnant. it was really hard on my in laws, but this was something we felt we had to do for our little family unit. i know it still hurts her, hell i miss them terribly. they are awesome grandparents. it made it more difficult because we lived with them the last year we were in that state. what you do need to remember is they have to do what is right for their family. not just everyone else.
i know it is hard. i know you will miss them. but 