to stop eating birdseed and blow drying my hair in the morning if you likewise make your changes.
i hope you can see the humor in not putting yourself first. if this applies to you, it’s because you were taught to do so, or you assumed that this would be of help or for the “good” of others around you. if you really want to look good, take a step and honor yourself in love in this way. it’s deeply encouraged that we all make these changes now. 