needed (in other words, allow the parent to meet the child / youth’s needs), seek and accept comfort when scared, sick, injured. maintain close enough proximity to parent when in dangerous or new situations.
predictable and consistent: this helps the child make sense of their new world. things for best. i have worn a cocktail dress to work (11th august) and no one noticed. i think people should dress to please themselves and no worry about what other people think. you’re only here once so have fun and make the most of it. 