it 's hard to get everyone to agree on one . they can only be that when they know who they are and are confident about themselves . i tried hard to keep my face still , but then i realized i had a great reason to look upset . you know , when we first met , you reminded me of her . '' 'my wife 's in the bathroom having hysterics because of you , and if you do n't get out of here right now , i 'm going to beat you silly . ' 