all he did was ask a girl in the group on a date , and her dad had a fit and complained about sam , which was exactly what he did n't need right then . `` i have time to think about it . the width of him stretched her until her flesh burned . movement caught my eye , and i felt my shoulders sag with relief as i saw the waiter coming toward us with our dinners . surprised baby blues landed on him . remember , most of your fear is in your mind . '' 