they shared how positive it is to work together in a group and make a difference. <3 i'm feeling you 1000 times over about the messy house. control what you can, and have the grace and wisdom to let go of what is out of your control. just any gloss or semi-gloss will do the job fine - no big deal. you want to be able to take care of everything yourself, but also get plenty of r&r. what if your bamboo is about to sprout and go crazy? most people spend their whole life "making a living" and completely forget to make any money! 