you can change the search criteria at any time by pressing the 'change search' button below. why would he do this after the last chapter we learned that it is not needed for salvation. she was desolate with the turn her marriage took as her husband took another wife. to help decide about what was right in this matter they went to the people with the most knowledge and experience in the church. "i can't stop thinking about this," she added. however, their debt may make it harder for you to get a loan or buy a home together. 