`` well , do n't be too hard on yourself . the city was n't a haven for her . i pulled the t-shirt i was wearing up and over my head as i made my way to our bedroom . i do n't know what feeling i 'm supposed to be getting . '' 'yeah , that 's just what i was thinking myself , ' he said with a little start . `` yeah , '' he said , his voice steady . my soul lights up in response . this was what we kept dancing around . 