back when you and i were kids, girls read seventeen magazine hoping to learn how to look and good get a date. we may be able to make alternative arrangements for you, and if we do so, this will be at our cost. she was literally the only part of my wedding that went as planned!!! make them do what you want them to do. just proceed to the sign up page and get started. if so how effective is it? make them go where you want them to go. 