by first learning to love yourself. really love yourself. love who you are. look in that mirror and see how amazing you are, how lovable you are. second love life, your life. love what you do and if you don't, find a way of changing what you do. if you have people in your life who put you down, ditch them. don't carry unnecessary baggage.feel light and free. when you are really free you will see that there is love all around waiting for you.
sounds simple, easier said than done? it is simple, but sometimes simple things can be hard. a bit like drawing a straight line without a ruler. 