on shirts, bags, and backpacks; clothing for girls that expose too much skin; clothes that fit too loose and big or too small, short and tight. you may also want to pay attention to the messages of certain accessories. for instance, a few years ago girls were wearing rubber wrist bracelets of multiple colors. later, parents learned that each color represented an inappropriate and unsafe activity. sadly, girls continued to collect these colorful rubber bracelets, traded them at school with peers, and parents had no clue what the fascination of the bracelets was all about. secondly, tops with lace are in style right now, but the question is: should girls 