for most of us it takes more than one try. balance between work and family, regular exercise, and proper nutrition are important to me. however, there are stretches of the neighborhood that can be a bit unsafe at night; if you choose to stay here, hotels closer to canal street are generally safer. i am trying to make the people i am crocheting stand up on their own. it was difficult and emotional for everyone. although i can't say i have done extensive searching...but enough that something should have popped up. that is a release of a lot of pressure. 