figured out how to work around birthday and valentines day. flowers are always a hit for me, and i send him links to things i have been wanting for him to have and choose from when valentines day comes around. it has worked for us!
it’s nice that there are now ways to make v day preparation much easier. as it is, it’s already a toxic day with so many people preparing for dates, gifts and others.
oh how i remember those toxic days…no fun at all!
thinking outside the box is always what i preferred from a guy. flowers and chocolate were fine but if he took me to a picnic that 