not because you do n't love me , but because you 're scared . still , he thought , keeping an eye on the action , today was about as perfect as a day could be . `` you mean kim was the chef ? '' in the third , no one was killed . the effect is , and jones stressed the word effect . this was going to be an adjustment . shame i 'm not supposed to be thinking about men in the first place . he asked as he returned to reality . 