sometimes hed see it that many times in a night . you have the right person , but you are in the wrong place and this is the wrong time . he grabbed the bag out of my hands and opened up the peanut butter and bread . `` you know what i am , '' i said , not able to look at him . i found my husband searching under a pier . now that was a new tune , someone suggesting that the council was bent and i was in the right . 