most of them also helped drive the wagons . , hoping he understood that i wanted to corner whoever this person was . and i felt the same way you do , jake . the man she saw in these letters was far more human . `` you can wave all the flags you want , ma'am , but it wo n't help . shed barely have to move to press her lips against his . still , it 's nice listening to her ramble about the plus sides of getting a college education . 