but there is hope , and i dont know what to do with it . sometimes , as you get older , you forget . but bone deep she knew what she wanted . i took him to the garage , he made an ass of himself with the mechanic , then he said he wanted to go for a stroll by himself . '' `` the cancer is in her brain now . '' even after eight months of exclusivity , neither of them had ever talked about exclusivity . `` a husband could get accustomed to this sort of reception . '' 