`` hold out your wrists so i can show you a fast and easy binding . '' i mean , for example , you may have felt impressed by lucas that day , therefore you remembered him . `` it 's not a fit thing for a man to fight . '' `` we are a patient folk , for we have all the time in the world . so calm all the damn time growing up . `` i do n't think this is a conversation we should be having , '' i told her . 