`` your appointment 's in less than an hour , you still have to eat , and we 're going to stop off and buy you some boots . '' `` are you going to just pretend that what happened between us did n't happen ? '' they have great fish and chips , and we can take a drive up the coast . '' he sat with my parents during the ceremony , and afterward , he met every single member of my extended family . `` i know how much your time with lake means to you , i do . 