`` and i know exactly what she 's done to me . maybe i could find it in the philippines . i lean down and let her grab the can . my foster parents took me to a doctor , but i do n't even remember that . he would n't budge whenever she expressed this wish of hers , and would pretend to act normal by brushing his teeth and changing his underwear . `` but most of the men do n't have much more training than you . 