`` by my count , it takes about two weeks to real y wear 'em down . '' `` but , i-i- '' `` you were the adventurous type in the truck . i hear sophia on her cell phone behind me , but i do n't take the time to listen . `` i was in iceland because ... '' she stopped herself . but then why did n't she keep in touch with them ? some are copies from our own albums , but most are not . youve been a wonderful friend these past thirty years . 