we decided that we would only concern ourselves with being as faithful as we could be, and leave all of the numbers up to god. i’m in my 50s now and the question of life after death is on my mind a lot. when your kids are with you, take them outside too. the bakers are forever making do, saying "eh, good enough i'm out of time." believe me, brilliant ideas would be perfect if it can be applied in real and make the people around you amazed! 