'do n't believe her when she tells you she should have more . ' i know they are everywhere and that they all dont have meaning beyond a pretty decoration . `` no , i 'm going to tell you , not because i want to , but i need you to hear it . '' you go from being a nun to a ... '' `` to a what , jack ? '' i lowered my head , trying to catch his eyes , which were still focused on his food . she deserved to have the kind of wedding she wanted . 