have any item of food that is in some way special or limited in quantity, it goes without saying that we will keep enough aside so that everyone gets a chance to take some, and in general we try to think of the others, to help one another as best we can and to give and share freely of what we have.
this is so normal to me now that i forget that many people, perhaps most people, do not have this habit, and i am surprised when i see that most people who come to stay with us are not like us, and will usually go and get their own 