someone is trying to figure out if she needs to pull her entry card or not?? he thinks she is wonderful in every way and i think we all feel that about about our own kids to an extent. look also at ways the group did not function well and why, in order to carry learning rather than bad feelings into other groups and situations. they do not go back to the most primitive version of the stories. he knows the joy of side plates is that you can just keep filling them up...with christmas snacks, treats, sandwiches and leftovers. 