`` do n't forget to wear your hair up , '' martin reminded me later as he gathered all his things to stow in his company car . `` what trying to get her to drown herself ? '' you are being so dramatic about the whole thing ! '' `` then presumably he has no problems getting laid . no one knows the location of his compound . it went from throat to thigh , was split up the sides almost to her waist , had tight wrist cuffs and a high stand up collar . 