a chance. even if it does not turn out as you hoped it would, feel good that you were brave enough to try.
set goals for yourself. to make them as official as can be, write them down. start with small short-term goals and as you have success with these, you can set bigger and more long-term goals. always start with peanuts. define for yourself what you want and your self-esteem will start to grow once you have a plan.
pay attention to what you say, how you say it, and how you behave. if you tend to be negative about your approach to life, become aware that you do this and 