feeling of a boxer in the ring, constantly taking punches in the corner! although who is not to say we deserve both when they arrive? how do we handle this? i can only answer for myself and i’d like to tell the total truth here- sometimes i go out with friends to celebrate and sometimes i go by myself to take it all in and think. this “ritual” is for the good times and the bad. when i say go out it could mean a bar, a lounge, a walk in the park, a movie or a long ride in the car (sometimes very fast). these are my ways, what 