they did not share her soiled money in a joint account . she wants to wait until she turns sixteen ... six weeks . '' `` you 're just saying that because you 're my husband . '' hours later , we settled on a rock at the water 's edge . he would never carry around physical scars on his body . in the past six hours , he 'd stared at it a hundred times . `` can we do it again next weekend ? rising , i look into his eyes and say , `` i accept . '' 