him, but the understanding is not written on their hearts, only on their minds. telling people about jesus does not help people to develop a relationship with him. there is a process of learning about him, to discover who he was, what he said, how he treated people. i think that you have to know all of that and then to learn to pray. most people do not know how to pray to god. praying is conversation with god. there are many different prayer styles that go well beyond the simple prayers learned as a child. just as you have to talk to someone to learn about them, you also 