be sure to reward behavior that you want to encourage. 3. as always, the best way to make sure everyone’s engaged in the process is to include them in the decision making. if yes, how many clubs do you represent? with a messy toddler, we ended up going through a lot of paper napkins. we would be pleased if you contact us at the event – please make an appointment with us in advance! it’s just a tub of gritty paste — the consistency is a bit like the frosting on a cupcake…but one that’s been sitting out for a while. 