'he 's trying to get complete control of her for her own sake , ' said one secretary to a friend , 'but that old woman wo n't have it . do n't tell me you did n't feel anything for him . we wo n't have time for you for a while . '' `` like a punching bag , '' she said , grabbing another suitcase and following me . but you 're buying the first round . '' `` i knew my decision would bother you , but i had no idea how much . '' 