lord, then just turn the person over to the lord and tell him, "do whatever it takes." do not try to tell the lord how to do it. that might not work. your plan may not be perfect; the lord's, on the other hand, is - but it does not always look that way to us when it starts to happen until we see the results on the other side.
and so we need to trust in the lord. this is not just the ordinary thing to do but it is the thing when there is something that is really extraordinary; if somebody is really wayward that is the way to 