i am still in the dark about what my child is doing most of the time, except for the occasional chat to the teacher and an annual open day at the school. eat what you love and what makes your body feel good! as a rule, natural wood or metal is used for this purpose. you won't get your money back, nor should you. skip the guest room, buy a murphy bed! partners allowed for overnight visits if room available. sorry for grave digging as well, but since it's already been done, i'm having a problem with this. 