when did you realize you were going to marry her ? `` you 're not going to ever leave me again , are you ? '' im going to watch what i say . and i thought to myself , oh dear , how ever many skins have i got to take off ? i need to speak to the others , we need to learn more about you . he leaned into the table , folding his hands before him patiently waiting . yes , there were lots of guys i could pick up for one-night stands here at the bar . 