then make the point clear and add that you don’t want to argue. then change the topic.
4. accept that you cannot change your parents: if you want to maintain or make a positive relationship with your parent then understand this that you have to deal with them as they are. this will require a lot of patience on your part.
5. explain them the reason why you want to make a good relationship with them: if you want to create a strong bond between your parents and you, then told them that you want a better relationship so that when you are about to give up they will make an effort. 