let me back up a bit ... sophia had met a new guy at a symphony benefit . were we so bad you had to run away and get some fake replacements ? she wondered why they kept it so dark . 'you 're trusting me with a big responsibility and you hardly know me . ' not one without any pain and suffering , anyway . `` oh , this is exactly what i needed . i quickly grabbed a blanket and managed to put out the fire before there was any serious damage . 