but we also didnt want to lie to the guy , since he was trying to truly grasp our feelings for each other . `` how long since you saw or spoke to your mother last ? '' we do n't want anyone to panic , do we ? ' he should have been home by now , especially since it was his father who had forced this little dinner on her . she does n't know what else to do , so she goes to the bars of his cell and he reaches through them toward her . 