if you wish me to stop , all you have to do is say the word , but please , say it now if it is your intent . oh , there were so many ways she could answer that question . `` if he 's too big a lug-head to admit to her how important she 's been in his life , that 's not my fault . '' jerry loved to hear himself talk . we 're going to his house to give his wife a bit of table-turning , remember ? 