yourself and have him copy you. as you tap, have him repeat the phrases out loud.
ask him to go back to his happy memory, and then back to the thing that was bothering him. ask him to notice how it’s changed. have him notice what’s still there, and then tap again. keep repeating the process until he is no longer bothered by it. then, ask him to think of something he would rather have in place of that thing, and ask him to imagine it as if it’s real. have him repeat this three times, hold his wrist, ask him to take a deep breath, blow it out, and say 