i also base them on what i have, what i feel like cooking and eating, and what i need to use up. these products were in this list, because they contain a lot of preservatives and sugar. we don’t have to do anything to earn it- it is a gift. are we going to be a responsible world leader? at the party, each child gets a turn to pick a card. putting him up means putting him in the laundry room where he is fed and watered and where he sleeps at night or when he is having a "mood". 