and, if you're the bribing type (i totally am, especially on road trips), keep a small stash of candies or lollipops in your basket, too. i have seen venus the most because i wake up the earliest of all. when trying to read a book she will find herself re-reading the same paragraph many times. here is what i recommend—grab a piece of paper and down the very middle of it, start creating a list of needs and wants. but let me explain everything first. but what if you’re cutting something bigger? 