spare them if you can , and spare my own sons as well . `` i was n't talking about that , you stupid boy . just take your time and begin with the birth of your son james . it was totally understandable that you froze at first , but you did get started . she glanced at him as they walked toward the door . then pull over into that parking lot . '' this is something i have in mind for me alone . they felt that he was one of them , and they wanted to help him . 