i said take your hands off me . she never understood the term `` garden . '' `` i swear you 're the only woman in my life . '' we need to be sure it 's safe to do that in this dress . '' i said as i scooped her up and flung her over my shoulder . always judging men on the same level as your husband or step-father ? she tried not to shrink away , to stand up to the man . and yet , all at once she realized she had been reworking the wards into something similar . 