here and now where it belongs. we cannot have a healthy relationship with someone while still thinking, feeling or even loving someone else. if you are still in love with someone else, the new relationship will never work as you would like to, and you will never know why even if this is what you want most. trying to forget someone else by loving someone new is too high a demand on someone else.there are of course many cases in which a person meets someone else after a break-up, begin a relationship and last until the end of their lives. they could be happy and in love or not, and 