he looked startled by his daughter 's words , but he backed away , taking position on the very edge of the seat . if he wanted to go cold on her after everything that had happened , fine . every now and then a man or a woman would raise hands above head and say , `` amen ! turning away from the mirror , she pretended to ignore him but it was almost impossible . yank the jeans down to the knees , and bend her over the bed . 