`` the reason i 'm here is that my wife 's responsible . he was doing that more and more often . he 'd had to buy new jeans that week , smaller jeans , and the jacket had been an impulse buy . he himself certainly could not have , and he thought that he would truly be able to wish her happy , if he saw her again . sometimes i had to remember that he was human like me , because to me , he was always more . `` and now you 're talking about moving in together ? 