of time to be successful.
i can’t watch: i try very hard not to watch him clean. it drives me crazy to see how slow he can be and to watch him play with every single toy that he touches. i just want to scream “just put it away!!”. so, i stay out of it most of the time.
lend a hand: there are some days when his younger brother makes a huge mess, or we are running late for whatever reason, and he needs a helping hand, we will gladly jump in and help. we do not help if he’s just playing around and running out of time.
let them fail: we 