`` word association is one way to find out about you . '' you do n't know what it 's like to lose a son > to have a child killed . ' you arent trying to help me , or my brother . also , remember they are far more scared of you than you are of them . and a loving husband by her side . he had to make sure he knew every word . i knew how to control this walk down memory lane . but a miss might damage the cargo . 