you must avoid doing this work on your own, particularly if you don’t have any experience in this field. future me hates me / the beths. you're telling me they will happen every week? so that intimate friends and relatives do not fall in love and leave off being little servants of a little state. create an outline for staff training. that's funny - i knew somebody would complain. they flew away with my dog." :)- so have patience and treat them like a fragile art project. 