that's why even though i also don't recommend this product, i did find good use for it. she is now set and feeling confident going into the meet with the goal of making the podium on her mind. once the doors opened we all found our seats and then the little ballerinas gracefully entered the room. i refuse to rail against myself for not having finished the novel years ago. she came along and really enjoyed herself, seems more confident and is now taking other residents along. any good resources you would recommend in that space? 