him, as miserable as he felt he chose to still be a blessing and a delight. fortunately he is not looking at me to be a leading light, just to be present.
focus is not a once only lesson for most of us; as we continue to observe we give away our thoughts and energy to anything that happens to be in front of us, some of it may be to our liking, some of it may not be.
our job is to get clear on what we want and then to bridge the distance of the state we are in to the state we want to be in by seeking a 