somehow you need to let her go in such a way that she will not go to the police . parker was put through to the deans office within a minute of waiting . i can want , i can need , just like any man . i did n't know where we stood after last night . the difference my son , is that they , unlike you , have given themselves totally to nature . like the squishy kind of love you and i talked about . '' `` you should give it a try sometime . '' 