really worked on that and the answer has been as simple as being myself, letting myself be.
why being a parent is helping?
as a parent you are at your limit much of the time. there is no longer an option where you can fail and just take the day or evening off or pass on the responsibility. with babies and toddlers, particularly, they always need you and you always have to plan and think of them. you cannot just get time to yourself. the other side of the equation is that they also don’t expect much from you because they don’t know any different, so they love you no matter what. 