much as you talk. they may have firm ideas about their plans or they may have not thought of it at all.
give them time. if this is the first time you have ever discussed funeral plans, do not try to push everything on your parents all at once. they might need to take a few weeks to figure out what they want, or even to come to terms with the idea that funeral planning is something that needs to happen in the first place.
it’s no big secret that none of us are going to get out of here alive. you’d think this would be a natural conversation that all families 