is wrapped with a wrapper is a gift, some are bombs. you need to know the holder of this gift before you go ahead to accept them.
not every "i love you" means love; not every "i will marry you" leads to marriage; not every good looking person is a good person. you need to know who they live their lives for and how they treat people around. be a friend, get to know them, fall in love with their fruit and not their leaves.
fall in love with their character and not appearance. lies are always sweet, too good to be true are always fake. ask questions instead of just telling 