all want to feel very much the same thing.
so practice if you like feeling the physical feeling of welcome and then the next time you are either in front of a mirror or with a friend that you can practice this with simply say, if you're in front of a mirror, "welcome." look at the eyes looking back at you from that mirror. do you feel welcome?
this is important to practice not only for the sake of being polite but much more importantly as a foundation to move past self-destructive competition which i feel is at the heart of many of our problems today.
if you can do this with a 