i cant tell you if its happy or mad that were here , but i can tell you that we need to be careful . you will gather your belongings , and you will leave immediately . but a grandfather , you could say , in the bone . `` i do n't mean to hurt your feelings , travis . '' he hated to think of her as a thing , but that was what she was now . just remember how we loved each other . `` they were both declared dead , '' he replies . 