when i talked to others -- on the phone or in person -- i was able (with effort) to maintain myself. i would wait a year for his hats any second. i think this is the "safest" way to start..... with goggles and no gloves!
. we are indeed lucky to have such wonderful health workers to help us through the tough times. he is so much more mature that any of the boys she is surrounded by. i'd like to thank her for leaving this culture as a foundation for the team. 