the issue is that the parent thinks that they will have a better shot at getting more time-sharing if they have the right house, job, or a better car when they go court even if this means that they spend little or no time with the kids. also, it is hard to stay passive alongside such an engaged group of people committed to doing your project. i have no idea of what i want to do later. mary's programs are great for "girl's night out." the worst had happened – has it not? 