the most important thing to you. you need to do this activity based on exactly what you want for your life. you matter, after all.
when i was married i got caught up in the idea of doing whatever my wife wanted. she was just so determined to get what she wanted and i just followed along. i thought that if i can just work hard to please her and get things the way she wanted them, then i would have a chance to get the things i want and do the things i want to do.
so the days went by and the months went by and the years went by. 