as the students wrestle with that question, there's one young boy at the back of the room wrestling with his own thoughts. our advice is always to call in a professional rather that tackle it yourself. when people told me their lung cancer survival stories, i would just mentally tick off all the reasons their cases were not like mine. until 2014, this activity was limited to the afternoon of day one of our workshop. my wish list for christmas is getting longer (i know…too soon? 