try to make the categories funny and entertaining for everyone. do this until you feel like you are in a groove. sprinkle over a few drops of soy sauce and stir. sometimes it would just be easier to cook for yourself and not worry about anyone else! send a brief description and photo and you will get a reply. but i see it as a kind of sacrifice in order to create a solution for an issue. the comfort to your body is measured in how you can rest so that you can face the world. 