that’s a great first step!
it sounds as though you might be a bit “stuck” on the ’feel-good spot.’ maybe you could go with him to his “feel better spot” instead of going off with the other brother – it may be that the son who is hitting needs your help to learn how he can feel better there. has he helped to create this spot? have you put some quiet music there, some good books, a stress ball, a bean bag chair, or some soft cushions? ask him what he needs to feel better – it might surprise you to discover that he needs more active ways (rather than calming 