this is probably the end. the debate is telling you what you might not be fully ready to hear yet. if you were truly happy and committed to the relationship, this thought would probably never cross your mind. you’re already starting to mentally check out of the relationship.
you stop imagining a future with them & start thinking about your life without them.
you’re less interested in the future plans and trips the two of you made. you stop considering them as a factor of your future career, living situation, and family life. thinking about the relationship being over gives you instant relief. you want to be sure you’d be making the 