tell her what 's going on between you and her future husband , if you think you know him so well . '' and because of that , i do n't want to hurt you . i stared at them , and one of them stared back . he had expected to find it there , but he was not pleased to do so . lip writing , rob said , `` i said , do you know what ? '' his defeated sigh bothered me , but when she was done he nodded and looked back at me . 