i must have shown the hurt from her words as she dropped her voice to a whisper , moving her lips next to my ear , `` oh , he did n't tell you about us then ? you still did the one thing you knew would tear us apart . `` you do n't believe me , but when this guy used to play regularly with the band , the chicks would go wild ! `` well , we all know how well i follow orders , do n't we ? '' he was n't sure what he expected . 