training for a bit and come back to it later.
you may also have to go back to the potty training books and videos that you have too. let her watch these again to see that there is nothing to be scared of and how easy it is to use the bathroom, that it is fun and she can do it too. also, you may want to let her watch you use the bathroom or anyone else in the home, so she can mimic what is being done.
furthermore, part of potty training a stubborn girl will be to use potty training rewards to keep her motivated and interested in potty training. 