when we go out for dinner, we usually take 2 to 3 hours and the evening begins with a glass of wine on the deck for about 30 minutes while watching the birds dip in and out of the water and then it’s up to one of our 2 favorite seats inside right against the window. he had blood on his face, arms, hands and clothing. you don’t let something take up your space, time or energy unless it’s really worth it. 