she probably just said the wrong thing to some guy trying to get into her pants . `` how are you finding marriage so far ? '' when she hit the big drinking parties , she always ran into a friend of a friend who knew her family . it was something totally different , something totally alien . oh , no , wait , let me correct myself . i want to hear you beg for it . '' i dont know , mary replied , her spirit up despite her lack of knowledge . 