he was actually relieved when she moved away , deciding to make it an early night . she 'd hurt the man she 'd promised to love for the rest of her life . she 'd been so shaken by the wealth of emotions he made her feel , and now this admission . you swear to me that he has never before approached you about this ? '' he sounded almost tender just then . `` no , but i think he thought so . im not sure i get you , was all i could manage . 