its gray and has a bushy tail . he walked to the patio door , flipping on lights as he went . for a second i had to blink , but there was n't a doubt in my mind where he 'd gone . a woman generally wants to give me her undies , not take mine . when she had finally gotten out of eyesight i jumped out of bed and headed for the shower . `` my daughter just saved your butt . `` you could start by talking to the girl. 