to prepare fool, combine rhubarb and next 8 ingredients (through salt) in a large saucepan; bring to boil. now is that real or is that mirror trying to say something whatever it is, that could well be a ghost rather than a real child. i'm with you, all the way on this one. i too had a bird, northern cardinal, at our window all winter. conversation can be a little awkward at first, but you both work through it to lean as much as you can and see if you feel a spark. 