and the seventh rule is if this is your first night at fight club, you have to fight. i now go into it looking at meeting a potential new friend and nothing more. ideal fit for purpose good results from use. it is not that difficult to approach and to talk especially in a crowded public place or in a club. it can interact with other sites at the same level, or with other levels either top-down or bottom-up. so there's not going to be a win and that word needs to disappear. however, many mothers are wondering how to properly design it. 