than an illusion, and all the time they avoid what is taking place at a deeper level, they will continue to be drawn to people who act as though they are below others.
one is then going to be out of touch with how they feel, and the people they spend their time with can be in touch with how they feel. the feelings that they express can then be a reflection of the feelings that one has disconnected from.
the false-self that one has created in order to avoid how they feel will allow them to feel good about themselves. if they were to let go of their false-self and to 