likely be the first reason. however, you must know that as your dad gave you that gift he also gained great joy from the act of giving as he watched you receive it with wide open eyes and perhaps even a joyful shout. but imagine you took the car and went about the business of driving it hard and beating it. let’s say you showed no respect for your dad’s gift. you even refuse to take care of the car because of your lack of caring and it breaks down due to no maintenance. can you imagine how dad would feel? first there might be hurt, soon to follow frustration, 