and, even if she drops me like a hot potato, which she will, eventually, and even if she thinks i am the most ridiculous person on earth who knows absolutely nothing, which at some point in time, she will, i will be there. i will be taking much of this week off to help with a family crisis. as you can borrow from family or friends, that is not always a choice and honestly, it may be a bit uncomfortable. this does make me home sick. one drink and help of our local, friendly guides provided. 