you 're a twenty-six-year-old female . way , way , way wrong thing to say . `` did she ever at least try to leave him ? it 's not just about the nightmares . '' do you think there might be someone else out there who will see that in you ? but when i swung the door open , my face a mask of aggravation , i was met with a scene that i would never have guessed at . no , i do n't have proof , '' she screamed . she was all ready to go when uncle harry died . 