it was just a dream , said she and heaved a sigh of relief . `` i went home to shower and change clothes . '' the first time , he said his uncle had shown him how to feel good in a way i would n't believe . the lyrics , what do these lyrics mean ? had one of the candles been to blame ? `` where 's the last place you left them ? '' you know , being a man and all . `` babe , '' he leaned toward me , `` it is n't . '' 