with yourself. keep in mind that the best option is to get rid of all stuff that is too big or too heavy, and you are not even sure will it be able to fit into your new home. you can either sell, donate or store items.
you will have to make all of this decisions fast since you are moving in the last minute and your moving company will need to know how many items you plan on moving. they need to give you an estimated price based on all the things you plan to take with you. so, keep your emotions aside and make all the decision based solemnly 