finished article, and i never will be, i haven’t stumbled into perfection, what has happened is more subtle and beautiful than that and it is something that can only be explained by experience. i now have the privilege to share with others the lessons that have helped me and learn from them as i continue on my journey. and emotions. you will really miss an excellent opportunity for growth if you’re not using these challenging people and situations to your benefit. let us learn from the difficult people in your life and make difficult be the best for you. 