make her make the choice she had to call her sister a baby. she made the choice after her sister irritated her. she could have made 1,000 different choices but she chose to call her sister a baby. she chose to be mean.
as we talked, tears came to her eyes several times usually when i asked the right question and i could see she came to the right conclusion. but the whole time her eyes and attention remained focused on me.
then she told me some things that have been bothering her about what her older siblings have done to her, and more tears came. we talked about those things and 