not that it matters , for i intend to live single all of my life , but still ... `` so what will you do now , grandfather ? '' `` there you both are , '' he said by way of greeting . her skin had fallen off her bones . you just saw her this morning . oh , i knew he would n't be mad at me , given the circumstances , but a ruined book was still a ruined book . `` how do you take care of one without taking care of the other ? '' 