i had to learn it myself over a good few years what it was. for me, a well seasoned cast iron skillet works best here. once you are, and you begin to believe in yourself, others will notice and believe in you as well. also bring plastic bags to put your sandy flip flops or slippers in while walking barefoot. what are they doing, pushing it? but, if moving out is the only option, you need to make sure it is carried out in an organized and organized manner. let me know if you are interested. 