when you’re ready to use them, just pull them out, use them, and toss ‘em in the washing machine when you’re done. we accept cash only and personal checks for payment. what is it to return, in imagination, to the house in which her father died? once it becomes apparent to you as a potential buyer that the seller is not really ready to sell, then it's time to politely walk away. on a case-by-case basis we will work with youth under age 14, please contact us directly to discuss. that goes for face id, too. 