to be compatible with me? there’s such a difference!
it’s because we think it will make us more attractive to him if he can see that we’re on the same page – as him!
it’s because it’s part of our programming that has us believing we need to be what someone else wants us to be to be loved – instead of being who we actually are.
and most importantly, it’s because we want him to like us, we want that next date, we don’t want to have to keep going through this over and over again. we want it to be him!
but when we do this, we miss the chance to build 