in his room or put them on a table out of reach. if they are left in general space, it means anyone can play with them.
5) he wants to be left alone, he can always say — “mommy/daddy/grownup, please get twin”. we would respond quickly.
6) i would spend more time with him, putting him first at times and allowing others to take the lead on the twins even if i’m home. we’d also continue reading at least one book a day.
7) also, planned to take babies away if he was rough. however, so far, we have not needed this.
the first two days felt like i was trying to fill an 