technology gives us control over our environment. medicine gives us control over our bodies. money, technology and medicine are not bad things in themselves. but we often use them to convince ourselves that we are the ones in control. unfortunately for us, though, we will all run into our limits. we will all have a crisis of control, whether it is big or small. why do we get angry when someone cuts us off in traffic? i don’t know whether you do, but i sure do. why is that? because i control most of the things in my life, but one thing i can’t control is the behavior of other 