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this is the exact reason why we should pray daily for our leaders. which is what i have been doing, praying they have the wisdom and that god will guide them in their jobs. as well as pray that they use the wisdom, and act on what god lays on their hearts. people, they are and will be the right people. and all the effort it took to build the friendship and continue to maintain the connection wont seem an effort at all. it may be casual, but it is stress free and always sincere. 