this one! in our twenties we would rock crop tops, a lot of empire waist tops (to help emphasize the ladies and de-emphasize our beer bellies) and a lot of loose ‘going out tops’. ladies, we have moved on to the world of high rise jeans and waist belts. when styling separates, pick a blouse or tee that can be tucked in to your jeans or skirt, or belt a loose dress to give it some shape. i promise that even if you think you are ‘hiding something’ with that loose top, you are not. even a partially tucked in top, to remind us that you have a waist, is 