i don’t have an issue with approaching men and i will not advise against it. the dog bone cake was a huge hit at the party! plus, the foam cushions are topped with super soft, blended lower down. you could get a cake inspired by one of the activities they love like crossword puzzles, gardening, quilting, painting, or card games. and here are just a few pieces that i have made so far. i love prawns and you dish makes me want to reach out through the screen and try some now too! even skinny people have room for improvement in health and fitness. 