in the fire that you will get hurt, yes, you take that on board. but if you actually stick your hand in the fire, everything changes, and takes on a whole new meaning. lessons are there for our balance. many the lesson that is wonderful that we always keep in our hearts because of the beauty that we are shown by them. the birth of a child, the celebration of an achievement, the love of another. they are all there to show balance and bring understanding to such a degree that we may all give from that place. and those around us feel us giving from that place, so in 