rationalize our behavior and none of them may be the true reason. we may not even know it ourselves.
the name of a thing is not the thing.
this is so very true. naming is really, really important! but we should always be aware that a name is just a label and there is always more to it than that. if we think the name is the thing, we may miss important points.
when you point a finger at someone, notice where the other three fingers are pointing.
it is always easier to blame someone else.
it is as important to see what's missing as it is to see what is there. use laundry lists 