one or two the most important i cannot give up on. all the others are put in a new order but i am not getting stressed if i do not achieve them. of course, i try not to give up on them. grading helps me with negative emotions that appear when i realize i might fail.
when i grade all my resolutions i write down the ones i haven’t started yet. i like to see the balance here. i feel good when it is positive (most of my goals are started somehow). but i try not to get too upset when i discover the balance is negative (my goals are still 