we are happy to patch it or use as it is. the ones who protest too much against their peers are usually the saddest. i will grease up peter’s throat because he’s choking on some beans. this will help you impress your partner when you give her that next massage. but having said that, there are so many other issues where we are still not on the same platform. before going down this road, you must carefully articulate the core of what you stand for, what makes you different, and what you can consistently do better than anyone else. 