my friend who works at his school also said that everyone there knows they 're married . `` the movie ghost , '' he explained and i then knew what he was talking about so i grinned back . peter needs to be wanted for himself , you know . thats the only possible explanation , the first one insisted . we had a practice in our little town . '' he said he did n't want me to have to experience the pain of the transition since it was n't a transition i 'd asked for . 