`` let me guess-my thoughts about sex have changed your mind about that second date . '' he forgot to count his blessings . `` so how long do you think ? '' only when they met for breakfast in the dorm cafeteria . i was doing that and therefore not processing the fact that he was prowling to my mirror . i give you my word that you are always safe with me . even a guy i take home from a bar has more going for him than that . but he came out about the same . 