hands? you can give it away to somebody, and then later on, i get it back and keep it forever. or you could have the twenty dollar bill for a short while and you could flash it around all your friends. and then at the end, you could give it away and lose it forever. which would you rather have? i hope you choose the option. the first option, he says. i look nine if anyone would come after me and come after me he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me for whoever wants to save his life will lose it. but whoever loses 