of trying to solve it on our own. we want to fix it ourselves because either we don’t have the patience to wait on god and trust his timing, or we just want to do it our way. it is a frustrating struggle for control.
eventually my child may recognize his true need for help, though it may not be until he is out of this house. sure, he is learning to do more and more on his own, which is good. this is a normal struggle for toddlers. however, we can learn from their struggle. we just can’t do everything on our own. it okay to ask for help and 