to jump into something with him because it’s easier than facing the unknown of being alone and waiting for something new. neither of you have given this much time or thought, so i like that you’re asking for help. i’d encourage you to be certain that this relationship is real before you make plans of any kind. see if he follows through on his promises – if he calls regularly, if he makes an effort to be there for you, if he’s consistent, and if he’s really given up his “player” ways. the fact that he wants you to move in with him sounds like it would require you make 