if you do n't want to help me , at least match him up with someone who is going to teach him a lesson . '' thinking about how much i 'm beginning to enjoy writing , and how hard this must have been for him to bring up , i say , `` carter , if you want to become a chef , you should become a chef . '' i looked back down at my book . then offered his hand to help her into her seat and she took it . something that hurt someone without meaning to ? '' 