`` and she was right , '' grace said . i 'd never suffered that kind of loss and i was n't sure i could go on . then he laughed , rocking into her so she could feel how hard that disappointment was . but you wo n't want to miss out on blueberry pancakes with whipped cream . '' there are a thousand choices , but they must decide on one alone , or they can not even begin to move . so is this what you do ? the things you people feel ... and it all comes back to me . 