i want to get better for you , but i have to take it easy with complex situations until i learn how to deal with them . you 're just doing what 's right for the band now . theyre worried that she may never come out of it . i said , even though id been hiding one of my own . i never even saw the clock , never mind that it was still moving ! but over the years , he had changed it a little at a time . `` you wrote chase 's wedding toast ahead of time ? 