you ca n't waltz back into the imperial system and expect them to put a roof over your head and food in your mouth . '' to a certain point we begin to own you . '' at home , i tell my mother i need some money so i can take tiffany out to dinner . bending down proved to be a huge mistake , though . he had disappeared into the bedroom while she had poured coffee . `` i live with both of my parents and i was the only one in the litter . 