feel that someone is hiding something from us.
but with cats, avoiding eye contact is necessary. even with humans, keep looking into someone’s eyes for a long period of time are rude, of course. we need to know the timing and the length to make it work.
in other words, let them do what they want to do. trying to draw their attention to you in a wrong way may cause a damage to the relationship between you and a cat such as raising your voice, making loud noise. by leaving them alone, which shows your respect for them.
think about this way, when you want to do something and someone wants your 