not a woman who did her shopping at discount stores , but one who 'd taken pride in herself , up until recently . but for every one of us captured or missing , there were three yankees captured or missing . `` well , there 's a part of me that wants to do that , too . she was perfectly designed for the life she led and had taken to it like a bird to the sky . `` but i was there- '' `` you got there after it happened . 