popular -- your sitting space will need variable light that can work for reading or sitting and relaxing in the evening after the kids are in bed.
bonus tip: many parents will read this article and think -- 'ha, sounds great, when would i ever get time to use it?' -- which is a valid point! but sometimes giving yourself a spot like this is a helpful encouragement to work to find that little bit of 'you time' each day or even each week. and with a parent escape in the house, you don't need to sneak out, you just need to close the door and open a book!
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