but , if it was being friends or not having her in my life , i 'd take the agony of trying to be her friend . it sounded so dirty that we all cracked up . `` come on , i know where we need to start . '' it wasnt used as an insult in gulf war i . i hope they gave you the message and you did n't wait around for me . '' i told myself i must never forget how perceptive the boy is . 