if you do this, you will have to save the stencil somewhere. every few minutes i would go back to the phone and tell her to just be patient that i was still looking for it, i even pretended to be talking to my wife asking her where the card might be. i will get that to you soon-thank you so much for sharing your stories. it may not be a place that they want to play in. obviously, i need visas, but music is my passport to go to other places. 