wanted me to have v minimal contact but i was glad to see i came away with a (relatively) reasonable order in comparison to the terms she wanted!
lots of promises and indications that we would both work at building upon the order and use it as a bare minimum but within a few months the ex wanted to only allow the least contact she could and several times broke the order or was extremely inflexible (turning contact phone off 1 minute either side of the 1 hour set for call times) and also used my son as the one to negotiate and communicate when needed despite that being against all 