when she was able to manage it , she could barely understand the related questions , making the whole exercise kind of futile . `` earlier , '' i went on , `` when you said that about my ex . letting his blanket fall to the ground he asks , how did you know ? he backed away more and more , and the more he took her away from her mother , the more she struggled . i did n't know why i 'd expected anything different . just be mine for one night . 