patience to me is payment after waiting for a microwaved chocolate pudding . a piece of it came off in her hands , then crumbled into nothing . i get to meet interesting people , like you . '' and he had no idea what to do with any of them . and a man shouldnt be bothered when he just wants to have a drink with the guys . in one stupid , spiteful moment i ruined everything between my father and me , and he died before i could fix it . '' 