'and what else does this spirit say as to his own nature ? ' his arms go slowly around her waist but he 's looking at her like something is n't right . `` i 'bother ' with you , as you say , because i 'm a dominant . are you sure you dont want me to check things for you ? my grandfather let me borrow it . she wanted him to live and breathe to be with her-as she felt for him . only drink a small amount , we have to make it last as long as possible . 