but , frankly , im disappointed in this group . vexed , lee then went in search of more personal information , and here he was left frustrated as there was little to be found . but sometimes , as i was learning , love just was n't enough . i did not pretend to do pull-ups ! her muscles were weak , her bones frail . we moved at a steady pace and in almost complete silence for maybe five minutes before i said , `` we need to know how they found out about you . '' 