`` you do n't want to invite that woman into your home ! he raised his hand and laughed hard . `` so what does all this suggest ? '' in many ways , she was still that age . mother carried a basket filled with fruit and berries . ben grabs for me , and i shove him again . inviting her to join us for tea never crossed my thoughts . `` i 'm fine with however you all want to handle it . '' im doing this because i have to . 