ordering the men to stick with her every minute-while annoying-was also really quite sweet and showed a caring and concern she thought she 'd seen on his face when he 'd told her that she pleased him as wife . no one could argue with that logic . the girls looked at each other and giggled again . i slip off the stool , take two steps , and grab his elbow . her words had a song to them that other ladies and farmers didnt have . there were signs , but somehow i missed them . 