his slate gray hair was silver where the light hit it , and when he turned , he smiled as if pleased that i 'd hurt him . i did n't even question what had to be done . by then of course it was too late . i had to agree to marry him , to say yes , to wear this ring . i 'm here to convince you to let that happen . i swear the groom tried to set me up with her once . she obviously sees me coming and meets me at the door . 