she was flesh and bone , yet she did n't show up in the mirror . the woman pressed the hand with the tips of her fingers , drew the soldier against her chest and whispered in his ear , take care of him . he would come to boston and stay for two , three days at a time , then leave . i 'd been so damn exhausted that after throwing up twice , i had barely made it to the truck . on the other hand , if you do try to help , what have you gained ? 