will achieve those goals. re-feeding at home did not go well, you tried prior to her first admission, and to this second one. as hard as it is to be separated from her things do need to change.
i am also a single parent, and d has no contact with her father. she is an only child as well. as time has gone on, one of the things that she has explained to me is that she found it incredibly hard being re-fed at home because of this situation. she ended up mostly being re-fed in hospital. when there was just the two of us she could not turn from me 