she also has a son with special needs and understands what we’re going through in a very personal way. she offered to ship him a pair to try out free of charge. they showed up and without hesitation seamus and i ripped open the package and i let him handle them. he played with them for a couple minutes. i rubbed them on his legs and belly. we talked about how soft they were. here comes the moment of truth. i was going in for the kill. i said “let’s try these pants on!” sure enough in went the first foot. there was no struggle. second foot. pulled them up 