`` but you 're saying it now . '' she was relieved to hear that this was apparently normal and that she had n't turned the corner from eager lover to tramp . good thing , too , as her second shield had n't gotten into place . if you do not wish to come , leave now . '' what if that other person has a totally different idea of what would make them happy ? which one of you wants to start ? you do too much on your own and you dont listen ! they 're open all year around . '' 