me ten minutes to show you.” then i have to go, okay, she wants me to show her, then okay. “here’s what you do. tap on this, type this, and” … and my dad, when he was alive it was the same way. he would call me on the phone, “hi, my computer’s not working.” “okay, let me help you. okay, click on this and type this.” “now what did you want me to type?” “type this, type x.” “did you say a?” “no, x.” and eventually i would start getting frustrated and i would have to go, i would have to remind myself this is my dad. my dad 