when you're having a romantic crisis of conscience, it's good to have a roommate to help you work through your feelings, but it's tiresome to have a roommate who insists on working through her feelings all the time. she taught me to do better each day by challenging myself and working hard. despite a brisk wind at times, we had a blast! continues when the invitation list would have included amy. i am no longer just dee, i am now a mother who has lost a child which complicates my ability to accept any invitation easily. learn to communicate and make decisions as a family. 