can say that i fit into both categories. i love multiple people and to me that is fine, it’s the “in love” that can get sticky. the love that i feel is a friendship love (mainly because i am single and will probably die alone) and i usually say it to those whom i am close with. however, i have some friends that i no longer have a close connection with and i no longer love. in order for that to happen there must have been a loss of connection, so i stopped going from i love you to just nothing then later to a regular friendship. my mother always 