3. when engaged in my current situation, do i feel anxious, unsure or confused? what they need is help to get off drugs and back into a positive place in their lives. though lots of work is involved in the preparations..especially if you are having the traditional pot using charcoal , i prefer having steamboat at home. i pretty much live in these every day of the winter when i'm not in the city. listen to what a few of them had to say about us here. when you make something on your stove, turn off the heat about three minutes before you normally would. 