like 15 years but then when i asked him for details about when he wants me to come see him and for how long he said "oh like maybe in 2 or three months or the summer...? so, i am not sure why he can wait so long if he truly misses me...?. it's not that i expect him to just drop everything and fly over to see me, but i just don't think i am seeing real initiative...? this was about a month ago and the only communication i get from him is "wish you were here right now" or "i miss you so much". recently, he left me 