are you going to visit your grandfather ? '' just like that , one night combined with one bad decision , and my life did a one-eighty . `` oh , but when she managed to say the most , it was about the fair , and how we never go . they watched a man juggle bowling pins and cheered for a dog that could walk across a tightrope . i was used to air like this . still , everyone had to face reality in life . 