she opened her eyes to see her husbands face leaning over her . are you sure you want me to do this ? he had been sleeping at least two hours . sometimes one has to do desperate things to survive desperate situations . eventually , she waved a bored hand when no one said anything else . and despite being at least twenty-five years his junior ( or so , she guessed ) , she found herself wishing hed put his left hand on the bar . 