this is very happy news and thank you for sharing about getting moments on your spells with us. words can lead us to do almost anything. and i’m with you on the bathroom window. i was a girl like jo, “quite regardless of everything but her own happiness”. how do you set aside your pride and privacy in order to get help? snap it on your phone to take photos at a 90° angle to wherever you are pointing it. they will require extra care and more trips to the vet though, so this is worth taking into consideration. 