the one thing to remember is to not sell yourself short when looking for a man to date. he showed me what it means to sacrifice nearly everything for those we don’t even know. over the years, the idea of quick and easy fame has become more and more realistic. at times, it was love and tenderness. i’m going for a walk on the beach by myself a couple of mornings a week, after dropping my youngest off at play school, and before i start work. she will have to be careful tonight. 