as hard as it was for you, it made rory just that much more. this strategy seems to be going back to tony robbins’ statement that humans do things for two reasons: to either get the pleasure that lies within or associated with them or to avoid something that is unpleasant. it's been that way for a while. i am the type to give up my happiness so others are happy. looking forward to seeing your trip photos. the death of his son, jesus, on the cross, showed the length that the father would go to see humans restored to himself. 