when i get back. this is not a race against time or anyone else for that matter. this is my life, because someone else was able to do something in 6 months or less .. (or whatever), their life and situation has nothing to do with me. therefore whatever stage we are right now is where we need to be and we need to be okay with that. whatever has been left undone will still be there when we return. so to move forward we have to truly put everything aside and get better.
if i’m running on empty how can i function as a person, a wife, a mother, a 