sally did n't even notice this when they finally saw a preview of the nearly completed film . `` i 'm not sure i know how to trust happy . '' out of pride she kept up a good pace , which did n't leave her much energy for conversation . were going to have to sand it again then . a relationship should add to your life , not take away from it . either way , it had always bothered me . `` my object , lady bertram , is to be of use to those that come after me . 