damn it , she was supposed to be gaining peace from this reunion , not wanting to spend more time with him . but it 's none of our business and we do n't judge it . '' finally , she shook her head and wiped her eyes with the back of her hand . we are thinking about this already he answered . when he 'd answered the door , he 'd taken one look at my face and sent ruth out for the evening . `` what do you want to do with him , pet ? 