try to keep the fighting above the belt , though , if possible . '' 'we were n't really trying to be mysterious . plus , she was 100 percent in charge , right ? no one cares here , drug man . `` i do n't know , '' i said , simply to be argumentative . maybe she worried too much ; maybe things werent so bad after all . please , after the things weve discussed today , i think we ought to at least be on a first-name basis . 