yes, we suffer because of the sin of the other—maybe they say nasty things about us, maybe they did something to us, perhaps even years ago and even over an extended time. we bet that your guests will be surprised. so don't lead them to believe anything that you are not ready to follow through on, because you will find that they are quite ready, given the right guy. but the result was to the contrary. please note, however, that not all rights are absolute. i can work when i need to and when i want to. in addition to ideas about umbrella. 