with your wife. with the window down and the radio off, she puts her hand on the top of the steering wheel and slowly turns the wheel in the direction you tell her. if you want the back of the trailer to go to your right you tell her to slowly turn the steering wheel to her right. if you want the back of the trailer to go to your left tell her to slowly turn the steering wheel to her left. you can stop whenever necessary to check the opposite side of the trailer and behind the trailer.
the key to driving is slowly turning and backing in the direction 