go out to eat without taking a picture of the food or the drink or the cool ceiling or the pretty flower planter in front of the restaurant. (also, little details like the basil leaves on the cheese and adding a little olive oil and cracked pepper to your hummus make a big difference in overall appearance). this makes things sound louder and more painful than they really are. maybe it’s something in the air! it was a blink and you missed it moment; but i assure you. 