in the end it all depends on where your comfort zone is and of course, on personal taste. then a few days later, it flooded in forest hill! for example, i depend on others to drive me to the store, as i’m not allowed to drive yet. she is on a good diet and is putting on weight. i realized i was doing things based on what people said i should do or was good at for the exception of one thing. there are frequently those around who will answer basic questions. but i think, i hope there will be a good follow-up. 