religion gets far off track when the focus becomes a question of who is most important, most religious, and most deserving of the father's love. also, make sure that you discuss this with your therapist so that you know what to expect. so in those cool, jagged underground tunnels and spaces, she cried, she learned, she healed. all right, no more monkeying around—time to show this monkey who’s boss! provide opportunities in the service of the school-age daughter to take care of self-government, gain control, and increase self-esteem. meaning: may everything goes the way you wish for. 