i just had no idea , he waved his hand in the air , that all this existed . `` if i 'm wasting it on a man who loves me , then i 'd obviously be wasting my time with someone who does n't . '' i stared at him , deeply afraid now . what was it about her that attracted him ? `` taking strangers in off the beach is n't a safe thing to do , '' he commented . he was responsible for his people . 