if you are, there is a good chance that you will start your own weight loss program. if you decide to make your own list of 101 in 1001 make sure to leave a comment on that post with a link to your list so i can cheer you on as you check things off! i had another friend in a restaurant repeatedly call me dude and with his loud commanding voice, kept reminding me how hard it was for him to start referring to me as she after all these years. good-nature on its own is not everything. 