forgive me , but you do n't look as if you spend a lot of time in the country . '' a great project requires great discipline , and nervous energy alone will not make it come true . you need to go to school . '' im so scared of getting hurt again . i felt it the first time i walked through the door . `` why give a horse to a man who can not ride ? `` first i need a word with your wife . '' it 's the smile of a guy who is happy to see me . 