i want to tell her it’s okay to let them help, and that it’s not her fault. well, neither am i. in fact, religion is often the greatest barrier to the joy of relationship, which is what our loving heavenly father is after! however fresh helpers will require more supervision so it will be feasible if it is a second helper or if there are other family members at home to supervise them. yes i am now well aware who the king of cub-scouts is but was not who i meant. 