the meetings take place? and where were these meetings arranged? after that, you can graduate to more emotional questions like how much information about your private life was shared? or what kind of emotional bond operated in the relationship? answers to these questions will be difficult for you to digest, and its important to know just how much information you want. once a fact is known – it can not become unknown. you should know enough – but sometimes getting the explicit details can just do more harm. go slow.
it is highly difficult to balance your emotions after such damaging news and you have every right to scream and cry 