i remember when i was a young child he would visit papa and i would see them in the study standing together papa looked like a giant standing next to him he was such a small thin man as i got a little older i remember thinking that papa seemed to always want to please him it was not what papa said , but the way papa treated him not like others . i knew that there had to be a reason . it would be a month or longer before he could return to his home world . 