did he have second thoughts about assigning her to a sniper team ? we must hear from the other man before we make any decisions . i felt suddenly exhausted , as i had when recovering from my illness , as though it was too much effort even to breathe . and i would like to know where that decision will take you . `` would you please be my date to my brother 's wedding ? '' `` you do n't get to have fun often , do you ? '' we dont have to make love if you dont want to . 