if you feel disappointed, allow yourself to feel disappointed. "thank you very much for your great job. the family is usually so thankful for whatever food is brought to them and the every-other-day schedule helps with variety. it was planned really really fast, however. the first look definitely helped calm any nerves and allowed us to have a special private moment with just the two of us. that is one reason for disappointment and frustration. it's been nearly a month and i have used this product every single day after a shower (sometimes twice a day), and my tub is still about half full. 