that's why i loved the idea of making my own from an old picture frame that i found at a flea market years ago. write your name and address on the back of the envelope and sign the front. once you get to the city of lights, just keep your eyes open. (1) the people who think of themselves as being ‘of a community’ have a strong sense that “we are all in this all together.” (2) they have a strong sense of what ‘this’ is: there is a strong sense of an important common project in the service of others. 