that would be .38 s&w- shorter than .38 special. we live in l.a., new york, we live in places where it's chaotic and you never know what's gonna happen. you don’t want the speaker to think you’re in a hurry to get or be somewhere else. i get it, you want more and it feels like more will never come. to our adult minds, the end might be a little predictable. other than those few lessons, she has been self-taught. i think those are great pieces of advice. the write-ups just explain about one’s own view and feelings. 