the person you trust and who knows what to do may not be living or may not have the capacity to carry out your wishes at the time of your death. costs of health insurance plans - those long gone within 4 years. 🙂 i’m glad things worked out and you had a good time! while preparing for it, ask them to help out with dyeing. sadly, i had camera issues, so i don’t have pictures of the day. other players are added as needed. by being transparent with them and sharing everything that has happened (the good and the bad). 