you only take whats a part of you . she loved him , but was not a great fan of pain . lets start looking around and see if anything has been disturbed . they have to feel as if they 're helping . '' when it was made , he had to make it . you calmed down when she sat next to you . '' `` sometimes she stays overnight with a friend . '' her husband had been such a good man for so many years . `` so who is going to stop me from saying what i think ? 