so, tell me a book or movie about my favorite fairy tales is coming out, then you better sing me up, because you know i'm into that! it's not super thick so don't expect sweater material. and after all that work, you still may not get exactly the effect you wanted. it was, but more on that later. so it stands to reason that while hating ourselves would certainly be destructive, maybe we don’t actually need to love ourselves to live love-filled lives. her husband was one of my father’s best friends. 