to be ruined. suppose, the same happening occurs in your family, with your parents, then could you take the decision to marry others. so, this does not show the true love.
misunderstanding, you are cursing yourself and on the other hand, if you don’t marry, you will break the heart of your parents and relatives.
if the person tried to make the relatives and your parents agree and if he failed then this is no excuse that he should marry other lady. he with all his powers could satisfy his parents instead doing marriage. his parents did not like you and love does not base on parents but is based individually (being 