i felt this kind of big hit on my left leg — like it was a big fish coming near you — and i felt it one more time and it just kind of hit my arm. "every time we watched it, he would learn from it," says brooks. this means that if you lost your job 3 months ago but are just now filing papers in court to change your support order because you have no income, the judge is not allowed to make an order going back to the day you lost your job. 