she shook her head , and setting down her empty glass , rang the bell for her maid . i could trust myself to make an objective decision . you 're so lucky , and you do n't even appreciate it . '' `` if you could avoid doing that again , that would be great . '' `` i know that sounds stupid , but i always thought that the ghosts liked me . he knew she hated when he told her what to do , but someone had to make sure she was taking care of herself . 