this way, you will save yourself from embarrassing situations and show that you respect your chosen one and act according to her character. on a slightly sadder note, i was told a few weeks ago that my father, who has been fighting bowel cancer for 4.5 years, is no longer responding to treatment and now has months to live. the best thing about living here in the east coast is having the chance to experience the four different types of seasons. here he gives us another reason to respect this actor. 