i didnt realize you and ray were that close . she dragged herself out of the chair and went back to her room to shower . `` i have n't had the chance to mention it yet . '' they led quiet lives-they worked , they came home , they spent time with their kids . it was nothing that required him to knock on my door . then they start to move in our direction . obviously , she doesnt know the rules of the game . `` shut up and kiss me , '' she whispered against his mouth . 