don’t make assumptions and always do my best, “judging myself” how well i do with those in any situation. (i recommend reading this book) and others i have read, i am always on the hunt for more! in my opinion this judging article is an excellent read and scratched me where i itched! by the way this is my “first” comment i have ever wrote. thank you! “grab a cup, a great read, and have a great day!!! 