and that includes marriage to me . '' `` today is walking through the door , getting through the stares and questions . she went out the front door . his eyes glowed white , and his hands were outstretched . the stairs seemed too tall , had grown too steep . and they want us to know that they 're not man-eaters . '' its just the same as it was before we died , except were only born once and when we die we start over from where we left off in our last life . 