believe me, the image that people put out there on social media and in public is very different in many ways to what their lives are really like, so why do we continue to compare? maybe she had come from a place where the two of us took up pilates and finally started cutting out the bread and whiskey like we always said we would. and then something that even surprised me happened. your arms are fully extended and your hands are gripping the handles. some think it was just luck. 