i figured if i left , he 'd calm down and everything would be all right ... . at ten , i tried to call and got no answer . as long as he was being reasonable and compromising , she reminded herself . after a few weeks of doing nothing but partying , i realized i needed a life . i could figure things out , right from the first move . and how are we to know his old circle members will not go back to him the moment he calls them to his side ? '' 