attempt those questions first for which you are 100% sure. he needs the care that a residential home can provide for his body, but what about his mind. orders may be delivered by various carriers but it's not possible to choose which carrier will deliver your order. looking to add a little something different to your evening? he looked like me out there...only somehow smaller. thank you for your continuing assistance. yes, thinking and talking about it can open that wound up again. probably enough things for a third world starter kit! 