it is that what you think should happen will be what a judge decides.
judges usually will not order 16 year olds to do things or to live where they do not want to.
quite often judges will not order 14 year olds either, but sometimes they will order them to do things even if the young person wants something different to happen.
sometimes if you are more than about 12 years old, your opinion will be more important to the judge than if you were younger but you still will not be allowed to decide what happens.
usually your individual circumstances and what the judge thinks is good for you will be as 