necessarily think it was the right way to go. it was just what happened. if you happen to stray away from music for a while to heal, i think that’s completely acceptable. when you’re hurt there are a lot of things you need to do for yourself and if that means shutting off certain things for a while, then that’s what you have to do. but each individual person is different. i would strongly encourage them to keep music alive, but take the time that they need. you can’t think about what other people want for you. you need to think about what you want for yourself, especially in a 