they know it is true and a fact that each and every snowflake is different and special in its own unique way. tell them to think of themselves like they are a snowflake, too. unique and special in their own way. kids like this analogy a lot. i think we as adults like it, too! if they are having a hard time fitting in at school in some way or not doing something as well as the next person, tell them to remember the snowflakes. they will find their own special things they are good at as time goes on. talking about what they are good at helps so much, 