their emotions, to their words, to their silence, to their healing process.
go ahead; ask them about all the wrong things they feel about your action. you don’t always need the third or fifth party to do this for you. go back to your dear friend, ask and listen in!
then, if they agree, design an action plan together. what do they feel you can do that they will be happy to support you for the trust to be built back? that is thinking together about how the healing process should go.
then, action is the third tip. read on.
this is more crucial. the secret here is that you have to be consistent, 