if you need to talk , or spend the night at home , it 's okay with me . '' james was looking towards the rear of the cottage . but outside of the bedroom , something was eating away at him . `` i want to make sure i got the third word problem right . '' ask yourself if he loved her . that was worth a bit of risk , was n't it ? but they were close and we went out a few times . it was hard work , my father 's blood , sweat , and tears . 