"there were so many challenging parts to this costume, which is part of the fun, but by far getting the curve of the body was the hardest part," says miller. i can’t tell you how many times i missed out on an event, show, or party because i was “too tired” or “i can’t find parking”. i get upset over silly things or lose my patience too easily. heat about 1/2 inch oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. it seldom leaves the first page. this has been the greatest experience of our lives. 