gotten no call from the cousin, or a phone call from my parent about my letter of the 19th, or a reply letter.
no one in my entire life has called me to say they were coming to visit, and i have never called anyone else ahead of time. i just stopped by. if it was a bad time, i leave. this also happened on the 18th. i stopped by a friend's house and they had company and were cooking and getting ready to eat. i just said, i'd come back another time.
no one seemed to be upset at all, because i just showed up.
so, this was news to me, the 