but just know that if it brings you some comfort in that moment, do it.
2. you absolutely cannot do it all on your own. surprise. i have had to ask for help. my super human abilities only go so far apparently. i am about as stubborn as they come, i like to do things on my own, i like the sense of accomplishment, and you could probably say i like to learn things the hard way, this is one of those things. in order for me to function, i have had to ask for help. i had to ask people to cut down trees, and figure out my child locks, 