that afternoon they caught up with the enemy . `` you 're not mad , are you ? '' the quest to get his dad . and because it sounded like home , chaos and all . they vent their exhaust through disposable filters during smoke breaks . he 'd been the one to retrieve her suitcase from her parents ' porch . `` but that 's not the worst of what i learned . she was coping by not really coping . how could he have lived with such misery ? 