you can take a break from your shopping or sight seeing, relax and enjoy the show. in this message we look at several practical ways we can do just that. the squeeze will be felt in the next four years – not in 2009/10. you may experience sadness, anger or frustration, not only that the person who passed is gone, but that you are unable to enjoy the holidays as you have in the past. lately it’s been getting the fall garden up and running. my friend’s husband is white, and his parents would not accept her for many years. 