i had already put the onus on myself to enjoy my work and my life outside of work as much as possible. it’s like how everyone i know says they don’t make new year’s resolutions because if it’s something that they want to do, they’re starting today, not waiting until the new year (why are all my friends so self-improvement-y?).
the same thing goes with creating a life you love before you fire: if you want to spend more time with your family, figure out what you’re doing that’s keeping you from spending time with them. if you’re working 80+ hour weeks, then yeah, you’re probably not spending time with your 