for the low key shots, we added a hair light (indirect lighting from a strip box 14′ up and with the sides parallel to the floor). when you walk down stairs you walk into a large family living area with a stone faced wood burning fire place and a 2 piece bathroom. my periods are now regular and predictable. the thing i realized lately is that when i ask the "when are you going to" questions i'm, in a way, saying i think whatever that person is doing now is obviously not best for them. 