i have both my parents and i can’t begin to imagine what you are going through. i want you to know i am thinking about you and want to help if i can. we don’t need to relate to someone’s loss to help, we need to be there for them.
do you have friends who will just listen when you need it? do you have friends who lift you up and make you feel better about yourself when you are down. will they also call you out (in a nice way) if you are not being true to yourself. do you have friends who will show up when you need them?
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