uncomfortable with how close he was now standing to me , uncomfortable with what he 'd just said , i took a few steps backward . just find a seat and strap down tight . another way of thinking about it is like this . we cant put this off any longer . 'oh , im sure thats not true . ' they both knew they had n't made a friend there . `` did you get all of that ? '' `` are they yours or your husband 's ? '' i do n't care that he 's not mine . 