honestly, do you ever really feel like someone has your back? do you ever feel like somebody completely understands you? is there really a time where you feel safe telling people things? i don't ever feel like i can tell people anything. i feel like people use you just for what you have to offer and not for you, in a personality sense. that's not okay. it's not okay for people to use you, let alone okay for you to think like that. in a complete sense, how do you get past that? how can so many people feel open about what they have to offer, or who they even 