easy. the other side says “just cut that person out of your life and don’t even care about it.” once again, it’s a lot harder when this person is in your life not by choice. i always want to do what is right… what is just. and i finally realized that this is going to be a life-long process for me. this may be something i struggle with for the rest of my life… and i have to accept that.
couple years before my grandmother passed away, she told me that it took her over 30 years to forgive a relative of hers. at the time, i thought “that’s ridiculous… how 