always make joke when things are bad and never let it worry me. to me it very simple, if you don’t love your wife then your house and foundation will break, once is broken it can at time be fixed but it depend how much damage was done. i have seen it in my life with my own family what love can do, love is beautiful when things are working, love is unbearable when things go wrong. you can see the pain it cause, but when you are deeply in love then your marriage and house hold is strong, as the saying was your love for your wife is your 