i am not sure if this is a coincidence or if the medication is a miracle drug. in traditional societies, a good drum may last for the life of one drummer, but the drum head may have been changed many times. anyway he turned to me and said ” keep an eye on the wife for me.and they took him away with them on a n old lorry. yet people resist it to the best of their abilities. i can't begin to know what you're feeling, but my heart goes out to you and your family. 