my favorite is that usually by the time someone got to talk to me something happened and things started working again especially as soon as they would show me "the problem." for one, the church is not full, you can choose a seat. and what do you mean by “peaceful/non-violent human association”? through the creation of a vision board, we are putting thought and energy into things we would like to experience in the new year—perhaps it is more self-care, travel, career success, relationship connection, inner peace, love or friendship. it's interesting to think about who might have used these things. 