he talked about garret teaching him to fight with his left hand , which had greatly increased his confidence after losing much of the use of his right hand in the war . there was so much mary wanted to say to her mother , and she was sure there was at least as much that her mother wanted to say to her , but for now , just being with each other again was enough . that makes it hard to go to clubs sometimes , but it 's always important to see what new music people are inventing . 