points can be tied in with it. when someone is cutting your hair, working on your head, you can not just fade in to the background, and not be noticed. people will keep touching you, they will keep talking to you, you will be asked what you want, and shown how it looks at the end, and asked to say something about it. however quiet you stay you will still have to deal with all those things. often when i become overloaded i will just stay quiet and kind of fade out, trying to stay in the background and not worry too much about what is going on. but when 