it taken the wrong way, and people freak. well, anyway, i was trying to explain the concept of gender free dorm rooms as well as the whole pronoun thing, but grandparents have a little difficulty wrapping their minds around it. the college i go to has this thing with pronouns where everyone makes it clear how they identify themselves. and it’s constantly changing. you can be a he one day, and then be a she another day. it’s your preference and you just have to accept it. i honestly think it’s a cool idea. i mean, i identify as a she and i think i am going to stay that 