who talk? if your family or friends love pets (pets), they will understand what you are going through. do not hide your feelings in an effort to seem strong and quiet. share your feelings with another person is one of the best ways to put them in perspective, and to find ways to handle them. find someone with whom you can talk about how much your pet (pets) meant for you, and how much it strange, someone with who you feel comfortable crying or sharing your grief. if you don’t have family or friends who understand, or if you need more help, ask your veterinarian or a protective society that 