video he got a tent and eagerly crawled into it. as i opened the flap so that mark could film him he politely asked, “please close the flap, i need my privacy.” that was my 3-year-old boy asserting his independence and guarding his privacy as he did until the day he died.
a dear friend just observed the 7th anniversary of his son’s death. one of the things he did to mark the day was to watch the memorial service video. i wish i’d had the presence of mind to film jordan’s memorial service. my regret at not having the memorial recorded started during the service. as i sat in the 