the kind of person that spends all her free time and money helping others. i spend a lot of money on crap. some of this crap does end up being for other people; but if we’re being totally honest, most of it is for me. i also spend a lot of time doing things that really only benefit me and making excuses as to why i don’t have time to do things for others. sure, i have rounded up my change at cvs, and i give to purple heart twice a year when i do my spring/fall cleaning, but for the most part i am pretty self-absorbed. i don’t mean 