thank you for giving me a life and a love that will forever be magical and loving me the way that you did . the girls and i waited a few more minutes , then dashed to our car . i do n't want it to end that way , however . `` not to be confused with others who live on this plantation and are slaves . '' this was very reminiscent of getting a lecture from my mother . after a long time she shook her head . `` and that 's why we need to stop , '' i gasped . 