give the nine year old girl to distant relatives to care for when one of the boys, 10 years old, said to her "please don't give my sister away. don't worry grandma, in four years i will get a job."
the situation was urgent, so we asked the board of directors for additional money so we could build a house immediately, rather than waiting for next year. because of the size of the family we built this house bigger than usual. we usually build a two room house, four by eight meters. this time we built four by eleven meters with three rooms - a living room, a bedroom for the 