the vote was still a powerful influence . if i were you , i 'd be more concerned with the when . '' oh , now he was going to make her feel guilty . before she could comment , he continued . he had taken my hand in his , rubbing warmth into them in the chilly room . always involved in what we were doing , always being our biggest fans but at the end of the day they always made time for themselves even if it was only ten minutes . 