when i knew she was mine and my feelings would n't send her packing , i would tell her . `` listen , can you spare some cash ? what was important was that for a little while our own imaginations were stimulated . `` he 's going to turn her into a holy terror . '' `` if there 's something bothering you , something you do n't wish to discuss , you know you can stay with us . `` we can not leave this minute . 