the hardest one. i struggle with this every single day. but seriously, the opinions of others do not matter. you are the one who has to live with the choices you make. it’s your life. it’s your happiness. when you realize that your opinion is the only one that matters, you will be a happier human. say what you want to say. be who you want to be. work where you want to work. post what you want to post. eat what you want to eat. do what you want to do. as long as your choices are making you happy, that’s all that matters. stop worrying about the opinions 