exactly how we do it. “you believe you can harbor thoughts you would not share, and that salvation lies in keeping thoughts to yourself alone. for in private thoughts, known only to yourself, you think you find a way to keep what you would have alone, and share what you would share.” (7:3-4) we need to ask ourselves, “who do i think i am and where do i think i am? am i keeping thoughts based on a belief in being a separate person, unique and different from everything i see around me?” the way out of this is to learn to recognize thoughts of being separate and hand them 