yeah i mean for somebody who is you know for most of their life has has uh not just merely had a farm but had ten children had a farm ran everything because her husband was away in the coal mines and you know facing that situation it it's quite a dilemma i think
for someone who had so much responsibility in her life--raising ten children alone and tending a farm--it's quite a dilemma
she didn't have a lot of responsibility, and i think that made the decision easier