<s>[INST] Solve the system of equations ... Solve the system of equations : 
(EDIT : The problem does not say anything about the nature of $x$ and $y$ (integer, natural number ,..etc.) )
$4xy + 4(x^2 + y^2) + {\frac {3} { (x+y) ^ 2 } } = \frac {85} {3} $
$2x + {\frac {1} {x+y}} = \frac {13} {3}$
I do not know how to approach these types of problems. I tried finding value of $\frac {1} {x+y}$ in terms of $x$ and $y$, but it complicates the problem even more.
Can anyone provide a pointer to what should be done ?
 [/INST] Less elegant than Anurag A's answer and using brute force.
Considering the equations $$4xy + 4(x^2 + y^2) + {\frac {3} { (x+y) ^ 2 } } = \frac {85} {3}\tag 1$$
$$2x + {\frac {1} {x+y}} = \frac {13} {3}\tag 2$$ extract $y$ from $(2)$; this gives $$y=\frac{-6 x^2+13 x-3}{6 x-13}\tag 3$$ Replace $(3)$ in $(1)$ an simplify to get $$\frac{8 (x-2) (3 x-2) \left(24 x^2-118 x+149\right)}{(13-6 x)^2}=0\tag 4$$ and the quadratic term does not show real solution (so,two real roots and two complex conjugate roots for $x$). 
The solutions of $(4)$ are simple; when you have them, go back to $(3)$ for the corresponding $y$'s.
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