True self and false self if responded to by the mother, become the basis for the continuing development of the true self. However, when what Winnicott was careful to describe as good enough parenting – i.e., not necessarily perfect! – was "not" in place, the infant's spontaneity was in danger of being encroached on by the need for compliance with the parents' wishes/expectations. The result for Winnicott could be the creation of what he called the false self, where "Other people's expectations can become of overriding importance, overlaying or contradicting the original sense of self, the one connected to the very roots of one's being".
True Love Always including Latin Hustle, The Solitary Cyclist, and The Instruments, as well as recording experimental instrumental improvisations under his own name. Singles: "Mediterranean" 1996 "Take Me Over" 1997 "Secret Scenes" 1998(Motorway label, Japan) "Buried Treasure" 1999 "Windows Fade" 2000(promotional Japan tour 7", co-released with Rover Records) Albums: "When Will You Be Mine?" 1997 "Hopefully" 1998 "Torch" 2000 "Spring Collection" 2001 "Clouds" 2003 "Very Important Love Songs" 2006 (Thai label Smallroom career retrospective) "Return of the Wild Style Fashionists" 2016 Compilations: TeenBeat compilations from 1997 to the present "All's Fair in Love and Chickfactor" TeenBeat Records True Love Always Myspace page True