True self and false self he does not believe in the ability to resuscitate it through therapy. Alice Miller cautiously warns that a child/patient may not have "any" formed true self, waiting behind the false self facade; and that as a result freeing the true self is not as simple as the Winnicottian image of the butterfly emerging from its cocoon. If a true self can be developed, however, she considered that the empty grandiosity of the false self could give way to a new sense of autonomous vitality. Susie Orbach saw the false self as an overdevelopment (under parental pressure) of certain aspects of
John Bain (soccer) League. He is currently married to Shannon Bain. They have three boys; Cameron, McEwan, and Stirling. John Bain (soccer) John Bain (born 3 June 1957 in Falkirk, Scotland) is a retired Scottish-US soccer midfielder who currently coaches youth soccer in the United States. Bain began his professional career in England before moving to the United States in 1978. Over his twenty-year playing career, Bain played for numerous leagues and teams, both indoors and out. After retiring from playing professionally, he has coached at the professional, youth club and high school levels in the US. Although born in Scotland, Bain's father