Forms of address in the United Kingdom name is not used for a priest or deacon, the manner of address is Rev Mr etc., i.e. the Rev is used with the usual title. Without this title, the use of Rev with a surname should not be used in the United Kingdom for any ordained person, whether Anglican or not - it is a solecism. Catholic (and Anglo-Catholic) clergy favour Fr (Father) {or Mthr (Mother)}." "For further details see Crockford's Guide to addressing the Clergy." Clergy: 'introduce as Mr Pike or Father Pike according to "his" preference"" (Debrett's Etiquette and Modern Manners 1981 pg230) It should be noted
Dutch customs and etiquette Dutch customs and etiquette The Dutch have a code of etiquette which governs social behaviour and is considered important. Because of the international position of the Netherlands, many books have been written on the subject. Some customs may not be true in all regions and they are never absolute. In addition to those specific to the Dutch, many general points of European etiquette apply to the Dutch as well. The author Colleen Geske stated in her book "Stuff Dutch people like" that "Dutch people consider the English or American forms of politeness a sign of weakness, and reeking of insincerity