Forms of address in the United Kingdom name is not used for a priest or deacon, the manner of address is Rev Mr etc., i.e. the Rev is used with the usual title. Without this title, the use of Rev with a surname should not be used in the United Kingdom for any ordained person, whether Anglican or not - it is a solecism. Catholic (and Anglo-Catholic) clergy favour Fr (Father) {or Mthr (Mother)}." "For further details see Crockford's Guide to addressing the Clergy." Clergy: 'introduce as Mr Pike or Father Pike according to "his" preference"" (Debrett's Etiquette and Modern Manners 1981 pg230) It should be noted
Etiquette in North America the same letter to the host). Invitations for mixed social events, such as parties, weddings, "etc.", must be extended to the established significant others of any invitees, such as spouses, fiancés, or long time or live-in boy/girlfriends. The significant other must be invited by name, and the host should inquire if it is not known. If the couple does not live together, the host should inquire as to the partner's full name and address and send a separate invitation for formal occasions. If a person's socially established partner has not been invited, etiquette allows him or her to politely request