Pamela Mitford she married the millionaire physicist Derek Jackson. Jackson was a "rampant bisexual", who married six times. They lived at Tullamaine Castle in Fethard, Co. Tipperary. After her divorce in 1951, she spent the remainder of her life as the companion of Giuditta Tommasi (died 1993), an Italian horsewoman. They lived at Caudle Green, Gloucestershire. According to her sister Jessica, Pamela Mitford had become "a you-know-what-bian"; i.e. she had grown attracted to women later in life. Pamela Mitford died on 12 April 1994, in London. Pamela Mitford Pamela "Pam" Freeman-Mitford (25 November 1907 – 12 April 1994) was one of the
Nancy Mitford house was built on land nearby. The family stayed in Asthall Manor for seven years, and it became the basis of many of the family scenes which Nancy was later to portray in her semi-autobiographical novels. Growing up proved a difficult process for Nancy. Unable to form a relationship with Pamela, the sister nearest to her in age, she was bored and irritated by her younger siblings, and vented her feelings by teasing and tormenting them. Although there was undoubtedly cruelty in her taunting—the other children, led by Tom, formed a "Leag (sic) against Nancy"—her teasing was also, according to