Pamela Mitford she married the millionaire physicist Derek Jackson. Jackson was a "rampant bisexual", who married six times. They lived at Tullamaine Castle in Fethard, Co. Tipperary. After her divorce in 1951, she spent the remainder of her life as the companion of Giuditta Tommasi (died 1993), an Italian horsewoman. They lived at Caudle Green, Gloucestershire. According to her sister Jessica, Pamela Mitford had become "a you-know-what-bian"; i.e. she had grown attracted to women later in life. Pamela Mitford died on 12 April 1994, in London. Pamela Mitford Pamela "Pam" Freeman-Mitford (25 November 1907 – 12 April 1994) was one of the
Diana Mitford relationships with her sisters. Initially, Jessica and Deborah were not permitted to see Diana as she was "living in sin" with Mosley in London. Deborah eventually got to know Mosley and ended up liking him very much. Jessica despised Mosley's beliefs and became permanently estranged from Diana after the late 1930s. Pam and her husband Derek Jackson got along well with Mosley. Nancy never liked Mosley and, like Jessica, despised his political beliefs, but was able to learn to tolerate him for the sake of her relationship with Diana. Nancy wrote the novel "Wigs on the Green", which satirised Mosley