Answer: No, you can use Direct Deposit at any federally insured bank, savings and loan or credit union. If you move your account, call Social Security's toll-free number, 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778), and a Social Security representative will change your Direct Deposit information.
A great crystal for spiritual issues is Amethyst. Amethyst carries a high vibration that offers spiritual protection and purification. These two qualities alone would be helpful in the situation you've described. Acting as a barrier against lower vibrational frequencies, Amethyst is known to clear one's environment of all types of negative energies, and is a great aid for all those on a spiritual journey.
Though emerald is also a stone for memory of all kinds, it can take the abuse or trauma memories and help put them in perspective as past events that need not affect today's life. It is also used in crystal healing to ease guilt and soothe emotions, and to bring hope, forgiveness, and compassion.