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What You Need. The Amulet of Mara can be obtained from Maramal for 200 gold. It is also a random world drop, but it can reliably be acquired from Maramal. To purchase it, find Maramal in the Temple of Mara, in Riften, and ask to be enlightened about Mara, the Goddess of Love and about marriage in Skyrim. Push the query further to receive the option to purchase the Amulet of Mara from him for 200 gold. You can't get married without talking to Maramal!
I don't know the specifics of getting her to take your side, but in the playthrough where she did, she had agreed to marry Alistair prior to the landsmeet. In the playthrough where I chose to support her, and not Alistair, she betrayed me and took Loghain's side, causing the landsmeet to take Loghain's side. sent him back to mage circle. When you talk Arl Eamon's poisoning, someone from templar side will tell that Loghan hired a blood mage for dirty deeds, that will turn Chantry against Loghan. Of course you should always mention elf slavery in Alienage. I managed to get 5-1 votes with the last bald guy against me.