Owner-builders. An owner-builder is someone who takes on most of the responsibility for domestic building work carried out on their land. As an owner-builder you would need to obtain building permits, supervise or undertake the building work, and ensure the work meets building regulations and standards.
Posted September 25, 2009 10:33pm. I assume you mean that you each filed a Summons and Petition for either dissolution of marriage or legal separation, and a request for custody of children. It doesn't really matter who filed first, the controlling issue is who was served first.
Child custody laws vary by state, but in general, when both parents are alive, the court prefers to place the child with one or both of the parents. Third parties may be able to obtain custody if both parents are unable or unwilling to care for the child. Both parents are deemed unfit.