Update 9/14/2015: You know its getting bad when freelancers are launching full-time Twitter accounts to expose all the problems with the Upwork website, from connection timeouts, to CloudFlare 522 errors, to a laundry list of feature bugs.
The definition of lamented is  someone who is dead and who has been mourned for. When your father died and you were mourning for him, this is an example of a time when he was lamented.
lamest. 1  1a : having a body part and especially a limb so disabled as to impair freedom of movement The accident left him lame for life.b : marked by stiffness and soreness a lame shoulder. 2  2 : lacking needful or desirable substance : weak, ineffectual a lame excuse. 3  3 slang : not being in the know : square She's cool, but her boyfriend is so lame.