Oedipus complex: Oedipus complex, in psychoanalytic theory, a desire for sexual involvement with the parent of the opposite sex and a sense of rivalry with the parent of the same sex. encyclopÃdia britannica
Press the small button on or near the disc drive to eject the tray or disc. Apple computers tend to have a Media Eject key on the keyboard that will also eject the disc. Remove the disc from the disc drive carefully, holding it only by the outer edges. Click the Start button on the desktop.
If you have windows explorer open to the device, or if another program is using it, you cannot safely eject it. Close windows explorer, and any other program that is using it, then choose safely eject. It might be Windows Drive indexing that's using the external drive.