Agreed. My schedule is exactly the same as yours (ceremony at 5:30, cocktail hour at 6, reception at 7) and I didn't indicate AM or PM on my invitation. I didn't feel it was necessary, and I had a professional stationer helping me with the wording of my invitations, so I trust her judgment.
Clear liquids, including water, clear tea, black coffee, carbonated beverages and fruit juice without pulp, up to two hours before surgery. Very light meals, like toast and tea with milk, up to six hours before surgery. Heavy meals, including fried or fatty foods and meat, up to eight hours before surgery.
1 High-protein, low-fat choices remain a good long-term diet option after your surgery, as well. Try adding lean cuts of beef, chicken, pork, fish or beans to your diet. Low-fat cheese, cottage cheese and yogurts also are good protein sources.  Avoid foods that are high in fat and sugar.