The down payment is the money from your savings that you give to the home's seller. The rest of the payment to the seller comes from your mortgage. Down payments are expressed as percentages. Let's say you buy a house for $100,000: 1  A 3 percent down payment means that you pay the seller $3,000 and you borrow $97,000.
I have through this same thing with my boyfriend's ex-wife. We actually got a restraining order against her and they exchanged the children through her mother durring his time with the kids. She was not allowed to call our home at all ...not even when the kids were there.nd now this. I know by law that she can stop the child from staying the night at our home because we are not married if the judge decides that-but I am wondering if she can have the court rule that I can not be around the child at all if that what ex-wife wants.
What this will do is to make it clear that this problem is between you and your husband. (Of course your stepson is in the middle. Any problem between you and your husband will affect your stepson. Don't confuse this problem by blaming the ex-wife.) Limit your communication with the ex-wife to as little as possible.This may be hard for you to do -- harder than you think. Do it with a benign intention.hat's my advice for any woman whose husband is allowing his ex wife to run the show. When you marry, you marry his family -- whether it's wacky in-laws or strong ex-wives with children who are in your custody for part of the time.