Set some ground rules to manage your expectations. Both of you need to be clear with what you expect of with each other during this long distance relationship. Set some ground rules so that none of you will do things that will take the other party by surprise.
As air is pulled from the attic space by the turbine vent, ridge vent or even an electric powered fan, the same amount of air must be allowed to flow into the attic space where the roof passes over the exterior walls of the home.
The best form of attic ventilation for your home is a balanced system where the intake vents are separate from the exhaust vents. For this kind of system you need soffit vents and ridge vents. Soffit vents are intake vents located under the outside eaves of your home.