Set some ground rules to manage your expectations. Both of you need to be clear with what you expect of with each other during this long distance relationship. Set some ground rules so that none of you will do things that will take the other party by surprise.
As air is pulled from the attic space by the turbine vent, ridge vent or even an electric powered fan, the same amount of air must be allowed to flow into the attic space where the roof passes over the exterior walls of the home.
2.) On a windy day, the same logic applies. The wind passing over an open, unobstructed hole in the roof would result in lower pressure outside the roof hole. Air inside the attic would move to lower pressure through the hole. With a turbine, the wind spins the turbine fan but that does not result in lower pressure.