One of the most important layers to the Allegory of the Cave is that of the personal layer of the cave within - the caves people make around themselves. The shadows are false evidence appearing real - fear. The outside world of fires and shadows often uses fear to steer, but inside fear is used the same.
Donate $100â$500 to the church or synagogue, and for the officiant, an optional tip of $50-$100. When to Tip: Most ceremony fees are required prior to the wedding. Otherwise, have a responsible attendant pass the cash envelope at the rehearsal dinner if the officiant is in attendance.
This is how much guests actually give at weddings. 1  Nationwide, the average is about $160. 2  Those in the Northeast spend more. 3  Just say no if you can't afford it.