SSI and Medicaid are income & resource based. Depending on what your bf's income is, you could lose medicaid & you could lose a portion of your SSI. You get Medicaid because SSA found you disabled and eligible for SSI. Any money he gives you and/or any of your bills that he pays could go against you.
You will stay in the hospital 1 to 3 days after the operation. In most cases you should be able to go back to your normal daily activities in 1 to 3 weeks. If your appendix ruptured or an abscess formed, you will need to stay at the hospital longer and it will take more time to recover. If you have a drainage tube, it will be removed when the infection has cleared up.
Bowel resection requires general anesthesia. You may stay in the hospital for 4 to 7 days or as long as 2 weeks after surgery. Sometimes the two parts of the colon or rectum cannot be reattached, so the surgeon performs a colostomy.This creates an opening, called a stoma, on the outside of the body for the stool, or feces, to pass through into a colostomy bag.f the lower part of the rectum has been removed, the colostomy is permanent. When the two-stage operation is done, the time between operations is usually 6 to 12 weeks. The recovery time after a one-stage operation or after the final operation of a two-stage surgery is usually 6 to 8 weeks.