Tender Years Doctrine. A doctrine rarely employed in Child Custody disputes that provides that, when all other factors are equal, custody of a child of tender yearsâgenerally under the age of thirteen yearsâshould be awarded to the mother.
An octagon would be the shape of a stop sign.Stop has 8 sides and so does the octagon.
Here is a screenshot, containing the icon (the one in the middle, presumably describing a text note, with what looks as a stop sign at lower right corner of it):