SSI and Medicaid are income & resource based. Depending on what your bf's income is, you could lose medicaid & you could lose a portion of your SSI. You get Medicaid because SSA found you disabled and eligible for SSI. Any money he gives you and/or any of your bills that he pays could go against you.
You will stay in the hospital 1 to 3 days after the operation. In most cases you should be able to go back to your normal daily activities in 1 to 3 weeks. If your appendix ruptured or an abscess formed, you will need to stay at the hospital longer and it will take more time to recover. If you have a drainage tube, it will be removed when the infection has cleared up.
After the procedure. After a C-section, most mothers and babies stay in the hospital for two to three days. To control pain as the anesthesia wears off, you might use a pump that allows you to adjust the dose of intravenous (IV) pain medication. Soon after your C-section, you'll be encouraged to get up and walk.