SSI and Medicaid are income & resource based. Depending on what your bf's income is, you could lose medicaid & you could lose a portion of your SSI. You get Medicaid because SSA found you disabled and eligible for SSI. Any money he gives you and/or any of your bills that he pays could go against you.
You will stay in the hospital 1 to 3 days after the operation. In most cases you should be able to go back to your normal daily activities in 1 to 3 weeks. If your appendix ruptured or an abscess formed, you will need to stay at the hospital longer and it will take more time to recover. If you have a drainage tube, it will be removed when the infection has cleared up.
If this happens to you, let your caregiver know so you can get medication to relieve the itchiness. C-section patients typically stay in the hospital for two to four days before going home. But your recovery will be measured in weeks, not days, so you'll need help taking care of yourself and your new baby.