SSI and Medicaid are income & resource based. Depending on what your bf's income is, you could lose medicaid & you could lose a portion of your SSI. You get Medicaid because SSA found you disabled and eligible for SSI. Any money he gives you and/or any of your bills that he pays could go against you.
You will stay in the hospital 1 to 3 days after the operation. In most cases you should be able to go back to your normal daily activities in 1 to 3 weeks. If your appendix ruptured or an abscess formed, you will need to stay at the hospital longer and it will take more time to recover. If you have a drainage tube, it will be removed when the infection has cleared up.
After the procedure. After a C-section, most mothers and babies stay in the hospital for two to three days. To control pain as the anesthesia wears off, you might use a pump that allows you to adjust the dose of intravenous (IV) pain medication. Soon after your C-section, you'll be encouraged to get up and walk. Moving around can speed your recovery and help prevent constipation and potentially dangerous blood clots. While you're in the hospital, your health care team will monitor your incision for signs of infection.