* hints that neither parent has psychologically separated from his or her own parents. Disengaged boundaries do the opposite of enmeshed patterns in that they sacrifice belonging for autonomy. These are overly rigid or impermeable boundaries that inhibit communication and rob the family of much-needed mutual support.
Or, you may move from one side of the head to another, separating the brushed hair from the un-brushed one. Clip it together with a clip. Once you see you have combed out a lice or a nit, you should remove it from the nit comb. You may immerse it in the hot water or clean the comb, using the towel. Comb the hair, until no nits or lice can be found on it. The combing and hair inspection should be done in clear light or sunlight.
Then, using a fine long toothed metal lice comb, comb through the hair in sections. The conditioner does not kill lice but stuns them for about 20 minutes enabling easier removal. The long toothed metal comb will remove nits and the stunned head lice. Wipe the comb on a white tissue and check for any lice or nits. Keep combing until no more appear on the tissue. This method should be done every second or third day until no nits and lice remain, usually about 7 to 10 days.