* hints that neither parent has psychologically separated from his or her own parents. Disengaged boundaries do the opposite of enmeshed patterns in that they sacrifice belonging for autonomy. These are overly rigid or impermeable boundaries that inhibit communication and rob the family of much-needed mutual support.
Or, you may move from one side of the head to another, separating the brushed hair from the un-brushed one. Clip it together with a clip. Once you see you have combed out a lice or a nit, you should remove it from the nit comb. You may immerse it in the hot water or clean the comb, using the towel. Comb the hair, until no nits or lice can be found on it. The combing and hair inspection should be done in clear light or sunlight.
Rinse out the vinegar. You can use a conditioner at this time if you want to get rid of the vinegar smell. Use a nit comb to remove the nits. You must work your way from the scalp all the way out through the tips. Each time you get to the end, wipe off the comb on a paper towel. Separate your daughter's hair if it is long. Use hair clips--not scrunchies--to do this, as the nits can live on the scrunchy and then hatch.